The Wilcox Family Blog http://blog.wilcoxusa.net Welcome to the Wilcox Family weB LOG, your source for the latest Wilcox news, anecdotes, and rants; and, as Jack Benny quipped on his first radio show (March 29, 1932), “There will be a slight pause while you say, ‘Who cares?’”” Tue, 08 Mar 2011 15:28:54 +0000 en 1.1 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net http://blog.wilcoxusa.net 1admindoug@wilcoxfamily.net 2Dougdoug@wilcoxfamily.net 3Nichellenichelle@wilcoxfamily.net 4Markmark@sohmer.net 9BethsMomToosummitsp@hotmail.com 11Daviddoug@wilcoxfamily.net 13Johnpuertorican4lyfe18@hotmail.com 78administrator]]> 22books 18cool-sites-blogs 2family-members 17flamesfeudin 32friends 28gaming 13geekdom 20hoaxes-phishing 25home-life 24humor 5isaacfamily-members 7johnfamily-members 15legogeekdom 23movies 30music 6naomifamily-members 12nasaspace 4nichellefamily-members 35illness 10other-relativesfamily-members 33photos 16politics 29rants 21religionchurch 34significant 27star-trekgeekdom 14star-warsgeekdom 11technology 31television 8the-kidsfamily-members 1uncategorized 19virii-medicine 26work-life 9davidfamily-members 3dougfamily-members http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 img_8250 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=601 Sat, 14 Mar 2009 03:29:50 +0000 Doug http://www.wilcoxusa.net/wfblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/img_8250.jpg 601 2009-03-13 22:29:50 2009-03-14 03:29:50 open closed img_8250 inherit 0 1 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/img_8250.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata r2luke110x110.jpg http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=604 Tue, 17 Mar 2009 01:31:56 +0000 Doug http://www.wilcoxusa.net/wfblog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/r2luke110x110.jpg 604 2009-03-16 20:31:56 2009-03-17 01:31:56 open closed r2luke110x110jpg inherit 0 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/r2luke110x110.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata cropped-r2luke.jpg http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=619 Thu, 19 Mar 2009 20:14:30 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/cropped-r2luke.jpg 619 2009-03-19 15:14:30 2009-03-19 20:14:30 closed closed cropped-r2lukejpg inherit 0 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/cropped-r2luke.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata rzf http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=624 Fri, 20 Mar 2009 23:59:04 +0000 administrator http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/rzf.php 624 2009-03-20 18:59:04 2009-03-20 23:59:04 open closed rzf inherit 584 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/rzf.php _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata rzf1 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=625 Fri, 20 Mar 2009 23:59:05 +0000 administrator http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/rzf1.php 625 2009-03-20 18:59:05 2009-03-20 23:59:05 open closed rzf1 inherit 584 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/rzf1.php _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata HAL (Hybrid Assistive Limb) Cybernetic Suit, Cyberdyne Corporation, Japan http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=651 Fri, 10 Apr 2009 13:40:00 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/hal_suit.jpg 651 2009-04-10 08:40:00 2009-04-10 13:40:00 open closed hal_suit inherit 652 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/hal_suit.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata garden_tomb http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=653 Sun, 12 Apr 2009 18:06:40 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/garden_tomb.jpg 653 2009-04-12 13:06:40 2009-04-12 18:06:40 open closed garden_tomb inherit 654 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/garden_tomb.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata wf_collage_med http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=663 Mon, 20 Apr 2009 20:15:20 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/wf_collage_med.jpg 663 2009-04-20 15:15:20 2009-04-20 20:15:20 open closed wf_collage_med inherit 0 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/wf_collage_med.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata doh_af_med http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=666 Mon, 20 Apr 2009 22:19:43 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/doh_af_med.jpg 666 2009-04-20 17:19:43 2009-04-20 22:19:43 open closed doh_af_med inherit 0 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/doh_af_med.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata img_8610c http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=671 Wed, 22 Apr 2009 17:35:35 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/img_8610c.jpg 671 2009-04-22 12:35:35 2009-04-22 17:35:35 open closed img_8610c inherit 670 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/img_8610c.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata img_8611c_med http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=672 Wed, 22 Apr 2009 17:38:07 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/img_8611c_med.jpg 672 2009-04-22 12:38:07 2009-04-22 17:38:07 open closed img_8611c_med inherit 670 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/img_8611c_med.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata img_8612c_med http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=673 Wed, 22 Apr 2009 17:38:47 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/img_8612c_med.jpg 673 2009-04-22 12:38:47 2009-04-22 17:38:47 open closed img_8612c_med inherit 670 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/img_8612c_med.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata burning_airplane http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=683 Thu, 07 May 2009 00:17:35 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/burning_airplane.jpg 683 2009-05-06 19:17:35 2009-05-07 00:17:35 open closed burning_airplane inherit 684 0 attachment 0 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2009 21:32:09 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/enterprise_viewscreen_n_and_i.jpg 700 2009-05-08 16:32:09 2009-05-08 21:32:09 open closed enterprise_viewscreen_n_and_i inherit 690 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/enterprise_viewscreen_n_and_i.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata IMG_7896_b-1 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=713 Thu, 18 Jun 2009 15:36:47 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/IMG_7896_b-1.jpg 713 2009-06-18 10:36:47 2009-06-18 15:36:47 open closed img_7896_b-1 inherit 712 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/IMG_7896_b-1.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata very_late_meetings http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=718 Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:15:48 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/very_late_meetings.jpg 718 2009-06-30 09:15:48 2009-06-30 14:15:48 open closed very_late_meetings inherit 717 0 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http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/Teenagers-Tired-Of-Being-Harassed-By-Your-Parents-Poster.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata 123456789 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=727 Wed, 08 Jul 2009 16:37:07 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/123456789.jpg 727 2009-07-08 11:37:07 2009-07-08 16:37:07 open closed 123456789 inherit 726 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/123456789.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata Darth Vader: World's Greatest Dad http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=730 Wed, 22 Jul 2009 01:54:13 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/vader_dad.jpg 730 2009-07-21 20:54:13 2009-07-22 01:54:13 open closed vader_dad inherit 729 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/vader_dad.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata The Heavenly Man http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=735 Wed, 22 Jul 2009 14:33:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/41UJR778Q2L._SL160_.jpg 735 2009-07-22 09:33:44 2009-07-22 14:33:44 open closed 41ujr778q2l-_sl160_ inherit 0 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/41UJR778Q2L._SL160_.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata Amin Issah, Ghana http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=758 Sat, 29 Aug 2009 23:20:59 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/PICT0103.jpg 758 2009-08-29 18:20:59 2009-08-29 23:20:59 open closed pict0103 inherit 757 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/PICT0103.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata Payment Receipt for Amin's Tuition http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=775 Thu, 03 Sep 2009 14:30:15 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/scan0007_receipt.jpg 775 2009-09-03 09:30:15 2009-09-03 14:30:15 open closed scan0007_receipt inherit 757 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/scan0007_receipt.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata 090909090909 (9:09 am, September 9, 2009) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=779 Wed, 09 Sep 2009 13:11:32 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/090909090909.png 779 2009-09-09 08:11:32 2009-09-09 13:11:32 open closed 090909090909 inherit 0 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/090909090909.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata Wall-E and Eve from Pixar's _Wall-E_ film. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=785 Fri, 11 Sep 2009 17:43:43 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/wall-e-and-eve.jpg 785 2009-09-11 12:43:43 2009-09-11 17:43:43 open closed wall-e-and-eve inherit 783 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/wall-e-and-eve.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata The Playskool Take Apart Car http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=794 Wed, 30 Sep 2009 15:03:03 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/playskool_take_apart_car.jpg 794 2009-09-30 10:03:03 2009-09-30 15:03:03 open closed playskool_take_apart_car inherit 793 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/playskool_take_apart_car.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata For those of you who have wondered what my electronic workspace (and day) look like. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=809 Fri, 09 Oct 2009 15:44:01 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/my_workspace.jpg 809 2009-10-09 10:44:01 2009-10-09 15:44:01 open closed my_workspace inherit 0 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/my_workspace.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata IMG_0299 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=828 Tue, 03 Nov 2009 03:02:34 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/IMG_0299.JPG 828 2009-11-02 22:02:34 2009-11-03 03:02:34 open 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http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=846 Fri, 27 Nov 2009 00:53:49 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/blocks1.jpg 846 2009-11-26 19:53:49 2009-11-27 00:53:49 open closed blocks-2 inherit 793 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/blocks1.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata blocks http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=847 Fri, 27 Nov 2009 00:54:35 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/blocks2.jpg 847 2009-11-26 19:54:35 2009-11-27 00:54:35 open closed blocks-3 inherit 793 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/blocks2.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata voltmeter http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=849 Fri, 27 Nov 2009 00:59:06 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/voltmeter.jpg 849 2009-11-26 19:59:06 2009-11-27 00:59:06 open closed voltmeter inherit 793 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/voltmeter.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata toolbox http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=850 Fri, 27 Nov 2009 01:02:36 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/toolbox.jpg 850 2009-11-26 20:02:36 2009-11-27 01:02:36 open closed toolbox inherit 793 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/toolbox.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata giant_erector http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=854 Sat, 28 Nov 2009 19:12:45 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/giant_erector.jpg 854 2009-11-28 14:12:45 2009-11-28 19:12:45 open closed giant_erector inherit 793 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/giant_erector.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata tinkertoy_smaller http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=855 Sat, 28 Nov 2009 19:13:42 +0000 Doug 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http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/hot_wheels_supercharger.JPG _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata Halo "Warthog" Cake, made by Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=888 Sun, 17 Jan 2010 04:43:36 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/IMG_1055.jpg 888 2010-01-16 23:43:36 2010-01-17 04:43:36 open closed img_1055 inherit 889 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/IMG_1055.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt Halo "Warthog" Cake, made by Nichelle, with model for comparison http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=890 Sun, 17 Jan 2010 04:45:33 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/IMG_1068.jpg 890 2010-01-16 23:45:33 2010-01-17 04:45:33 open closed img_1068 inherit 889 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/IMG_1068.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata Here's a ballerina cake Nichelle made for Naomi. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=891 Sun, 17 Jan 2010 04:52:58 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/IMG_0237-1.jpg 891 2010-01-16 23:52:58 2010-01-17 04:52:58 open closed img_0237-1 inherit 889 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/IMG_0237-1.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt "Racial" Questionnaire http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=916 Mon, 01 Feb 2010 19:02:33 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/race.png 916 2010-02-01 14:02:33 2010-02-01 19:02:33 open closed race inherit 915 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/race.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt Our Family http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=922 Mon, 01 Feb 2010 19:36:52 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/family.png 922 2010-02-01 14:36:52 2010-02-01 19:36:52 open closed family inherit 915 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/family.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata volaris_sector_2 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=937 Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:46:08 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/volaris_sector_2.png 937 2010-02-08 13:46:08 2010-02-08 18:46:08 open closed volaris_sector_2 inherit 935 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/volaris_sector_2.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt volaris_sector_1 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=938 Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:46:15 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/volaris_sector_1.png 938 2010-02-08 13:46:15 2010-02-08 18:46:15 open closed volaris_sector_1 inherit 935 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/volaris_sector_1.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt Lego Left 4 Dead http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=948 Fri, 12 Feb 2010 22:04:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Lego_Left_4_Dead_by_XenoPrime.jpg 948 2010-02-12 17:04:44 2010-02-12 22:04:44 open closed lego_left_4_dead_by_xenoprime inherit 912 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/Lego_Left_4_Dead_by_XenoPrime.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt Beaming out after an away mission. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=959 Fri, 19 Feb 2010 02:34:17 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/beamout.png 959 2010-02-18 21:34:17 2010-02-19 02:34:17 open closed beamout inherit 935 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/beamout.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt Rescuing diplomats taken hostage; the end of a truly well-crafted mission series. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=960 Fri, 19 Feb 2010 02:35:28 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/diplomat_rescue.png 960 2010-02-18 21:35:28 2010-02-19 02:35:28 open closed diplomat_rescue inherit 935 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/diplomat_rescue.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt Beautiful environments abound: This is Regulus. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=961 Fri, 19 Feb 2010 02:36:43 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/regulas.png 961 2010-02-18 21:36:43 2010-02-19 02:36:43 open closed regulas inherit 935 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/regulas.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt Scanning with my tricorder. What could be better? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=962 Fri, 19 Feb 2010 02:38:24 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/scanning.png 962 2010-02-18 21:38:24 2010-02-19 02:38:24 open closed scanning inherit 935 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/scanning.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt Approaching Starbase 114. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=963 Fri, 19 Feb 2010 02:39:20 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/starbase_114.png 963 2010-02-18 21:39:20 2010-02-19 02:39:20 open closed starbase_114 inherit 935 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/starbase_114.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt jack_benny http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=969 Sun, 07 Mar 2010 15:54:38 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/jack_benny.jpg 969 2010-03-07 10:54:38 2010-03-07 15:54:38 open closed jack_benny inherit 968 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/jack_benny.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt 1corinthians15_19 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=975 Sun, 07 Mar 2010 16:12:54 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/1corinthians15_19.jpg 975 2010-03-07 11:12:54 2010-03-07 16:12:54 open closed 1corinthians15_19 inherit 0 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/1corinthians15_19.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt patcher_gui http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=981 Mon, 08 Mar 2010 03:10:17 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/patcher_gui.exe 981 2010-03-07 22:10:17 2010-03-08 03:10:17 open closed patcher_gui inherit 0 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/patcher_gui.exe _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata splash http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=982 Mon, 08 Mar 2010 03:11:25 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/splash.png 982 2010-03-07 22:11:25 2010-03-08 03:11:25 open closed splash inherit 0 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/splash.png _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt adam122063 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=986 Tue, 09 Mar 2010 18:46:24 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/adam122063.jpg 986 2010-03-09 13:46:24 2010-03-09 18:46:24 open closed adam122063 inherit 985 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/adam122063.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt IMG_1211-2 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1004 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 01:13:11 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/IMG_1211-2.jpg 1004 2010-03-23 20:13:11 2010-03-24 01:13:11 open closed img_1211-2 inherit 1003 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/IMG_1211-2.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt birdhouse_still_life_2_age_6 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1005 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 01:20:29 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/birdhouse_still_life_2_age_6.jpg 1005 2010-03-23 20:20:29 2010-03-24 01:20:29 open closed birdhouse_still_life_2_age_6 inherit 1003 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/birdhouse_still_life_2_age_6.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt b_butterfly http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1006 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 01:22:47 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/b_butterfly.jpg 1006 2010-03-23 20:22:47 2010-03-24 01:22:47 open closed b_butterfly inherit 1003 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/b_butterfly.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt IMG_1294 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1007 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 01:24:27 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/IMG_1294.jpg 1007 2010-03-23 20:24:27 2010-03-24 01:24:27 open closed img_1294 inherit 1003 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/IMG_1294.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt junpei_ninja_color_age_6 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1008 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 01:30:03 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/junpei_ninja_color_age_6.jpg 1008 2010-03-23 20:30:03 2010-03-24 01:30:03 open closed junpei_ninja_color_age_6 inherit 1003 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/junpei_ninja_color_age_6.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt Naomi drew this freehand this week, with only her imagination as her guide. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1012 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 01:59:30 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/freehand_table_age_6.jpg 1012 2010-03-23 20:59:30 2010-03-24 01:59:30 open closed freehand_table_age_6 inherit 1003 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/freehand_table_age_6.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt IMG_1300 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1016 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 02:24:12 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/IMG_1300.jpg 1016 2010-03-23 21:24:12 2010-03-24 02:24:12 open closed img_1300 inherit 1003 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/IMG_1300.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt parrot_age_6 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1018 Thu, 25 Mar 2010 01:01:57 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/parrot_age_6.jpg 1018 2010-03-24 20:01:57 2010-03-25 01:01:57 open closed parrot_age_6 inherit 1003 0 attachment 0 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http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1024 Sun, 28 Mar 2010 14:53:57 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/zsg_cover.jpg 1024 2010-03-28 09:53:57 2010-03-28 14:53:57 open closed zsg_cover inherit 912 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/zsg_cover.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata zsg_cover http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1025 Sun, 28 Mar 2010 14:55:07 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/zsg_cover1.jpg 1025 2010-03-28 09:55:07 2010-03-28 14:55:07 open closed zsg_cover-2 inherit 912 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/zsg_cover1.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata He Is Risen http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1037 Sun, 04 Apr 2010 13:21:33 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/risen.jpg 1037 2010-04-04 08:21:33 2010-04-04 13:21:33 open closed risen inherit 1036 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/risen.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt IRPStackSize_symantec_fix http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1042 Tue, 20 Apr 2010 13:50:07 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/IRPStackSize_symantec_fix.jpg 1042 2010-04-20 08:50:07 2010-04-20 13:50:07 open closed irpstacksize_symantec_fix inherit 1041 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/IRPStackSize_symantec_fix.jpg _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_image_alt gimme_your_legos http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1051 Thu, 29 Apr 2010 20:41:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/gimme_your_legos.jpg 1051 2010-04-29 15:41:14 2010-04-29 20:41:14 open closed gimme_your_legos inherit 1050 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/gimme_your_legos.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata gimme_your_legos http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1052 Thu, 29 Apr 2010 20:57:45 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/gimme_your_legos1.jpg 1052 2010-04-29 15:57:45 2010-04-29 20:57:45 open closed gimme_your_legos-2 inherit 1050 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/gimme_your_legos1.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata gimme_your_legos http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1053 Thu, 29 Apr 2010 21:10:43 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/gimme_your_legos2.jpg 1053 2010-04-29 16:10:43 2010-04-29 21:10:43 open closed gimme_your_legos-3 inherit 1050 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/04/gimme_your_legos2.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata poster2 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1064 Tue, 25 May 2010 00:59:00 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/poster2.gif 1064 2010-05-24 19:59:00 2010-05-25 00:59:00 open closed poster2 inherit 1063 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/poster2.gif _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata best_overall http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1065 Tue, 25 May 2010 01:02:32 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/best_overall.jpg 1065 2010-05-24 20:02:32 2010-05-25 01:02:32 open closed best_overall inherit 1063 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/best_overall.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata Books Read, 2005 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=306 Tue, 14 Jun 2005 03:47:10 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=306
  • Expanded Universe (Robert A. Heinlein)
  • The Murder Room (P.D. James)
  • The Bourne Identity (Robert Ludlum)
  • The Bourne Supremacy (Robert Ludlum)
  • The Bourne Ultimatum (Robert Ludlum)
  • Diary of a Civil War Hero (Michael Doughterty)
  • Contagion (Robin Cook)
  • Victory: Call to Arms (Stephen Coonts, David Hagberg, Barrett Tillman)
  • A Whiff of Death (Isaac Asimov)
  • Mindhunter: Inside the FBI's Elite Serial Crime Unit (John Douglas and Mark Olshaker)
  • Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders--Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect Ourselves and Our Children (Anna C. Salter, Ph.D.)
  • Journey into Darkness (John Douglas and Mark Olshaker)
  • The Anatomy of Motive (John Douglas and Mark Olshaker)
  • Obsession (John Douglas and Mark Olshaker)
  • Anyone You Want Me to Be: A True Story of Sex and Death on the Internet (John Douglas)
  • Transforming Trauma: A Guide to Understanding and Treating Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse (Anna C. Salter, Ph.D.)
  • The Cobra Event (Richard Preston)
  • Identifying Child Molesters: Preventing Child Sexual Abuse by Recognizing the Patterns of the Offenders (Carla Van Dam, Ph.D.)
  • Lightning Out of Lebanon: Hezbollah Terrorists on American Soil (Tom Diaz, Barbara Newman)
  • The Cases That Haunt Us: From Jack the Ripper to JonBenet Ramsey, the FBI's Legendary Mindhunter Sheds Light on the Mysteries That Won't Go Away (John Douglas & Mark Olshaker)
  • Shiny Water (Anna Salter)
  • Nights of the Long Knives (Hans Hellmut Kirst)
  • The Soul of a New Machine (Tracy Kidder)
  • Boomer (Charles D. Taylor)
  • (Second reading.) Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders--Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect Ourselves and Our Children (Anna C. Salter, Ph.D.)
  • Whoever Fights Monsters: My Twenty Years Hunting Serial Killers for the FBI (Robert K. Ressler and Tom Shachtman)
  • The Diamond Age: Or, a Young Lady's Illustrated Primer (Neal Stephenson)
  • State of Fear (Michael Crichton)
  • White Lies (Anna Salter)
  • Fault Lines (Anna Salter)
  • Inside the Criminal Mind (Stanton E. Samenow, Ph.D.)
  • Is There No Place on Earth for Me? (Susan Sheehan)
  • The Tower Treasure (Hardy Boys No. 1) (Franklin W. Dixon), read aloud to David
  • Snow Crash (Neal Stephenson)
  • Prison Blues (Anna Salter)
  • Isaac's Storm: A Man, a Time, and the Deadliest Hurricane in History (Erik Larson)
  • Prisoner and Yet (Corrie Ten Boom)
  • (re-read) Transforming Trauma: A Guide to Understanding and Treating Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse (Anna C. Salter, Ph.D.)
  • The Man Who Mistook His Wife For A Hat: And Other Clinical Tales (Oliver Sacks)
  • Lovelock (Mayflower Trilogy) (Orson Scott Card and Kathryn H. Kidd)
  • Desiring God: Meditations of a Christian Hedonist (John Piper)
  • Broken Wings (Mindhunters) (John Douglas and Mark Olshaker)
  • Child Sexual Abuse A Hope For Healing (Maxine Hancock and Karen Burton Mains)
  • Dereliction of Duty: The Eyewitness Account of How Bill Clinton Compromised America's National Security (Lt. Col. Robert "Buzz" Patterson, USAF (Ret.))
  • Man Down: A Broken Wings Thriller (Broken Wing Thriller) (David Terrenoire, Mark Olshaker, John Douglas)
  • The Courage to Heal - Third Edition - Revised and Expanded: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse (Ellen Bass and Laura Davis)
  • Currently reading (at the end of 2005): Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a Child (Laura Davis)
  • Also currently reading (at the end of 2005): Polaris (Jack McDevitt)
  • ]]>
    306 2005-06-13 22:47:10 2005-06-14 03:47:10 open closed books-read-2005 publish 548 0 page 0 _wp_page_template 1125 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.50 2005-11-08 12:58:38 2005-11-08 17:58:38 The Cross and Salvation: The Doctrine of Salvation (Foundations of Evangelical Theology) by Bruce Demarest. It does a good job of explaining various POV's and then takes a close look at what Scripture says. It's a book to go through slowly but is extremely informative (and a good reference)! [for when you finish Piper ... only Beth could read two Piper books in a row ... though I do strongly recommend his "The Swans are Not Silent" biography series (very interesting bios, quotes and quick reads): The Legacy of Sovereign Joy: God's Triumphant Grace in the Lives of Augustine, Luther, and Calvin (The Swans Are Not Silent) (Grace), The Hidden Smile of God: The Fruit of Affliction in the Lives of John Bunyan, William Cowper, and David Brainerd (The Swans Are Not Silent, 2) (Affliction), The Roots of Endurance: Invincible Perseverance in the Lives of John Newton, Charles Simeon, and William Wilberforce (Swans Are Not Silent) (Perseverance) and Contending for Our All: Defending Truth and Treasuring Christ in the Lives of Athanasius, John Owen, and J. Gresham Machen (Piper, John, Swans Are Not Silent)] ]]> 1 0 0 1133 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-11-10 06:43:39 2005-11-10 11:43:39 very impressive list!]]> 1 0 0
    Books Read, 2004 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=312 Wed, 22 Jun 2005 03:51:21 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=312
  • The Lost Boy (David Pelzer)
  • "With His Pistol In His Hand": A Border Ballad and Its Hero (Amerigo Paredes)
  • George Washington Gomez (Amerigo Paredes)
  • The Mote in God's Eye (Larry Niven, Jerry Pournelle)
  • I Kissed Dating Goodbye (Joshua Harris)
  • Revolt in 2100 (Robert A. Heinlein)
  • Handbook to Happiness (Charles R. Solomon)
  • The Case for Christ: A Journalist's Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus (Lee Strobel)
  • Glorious Appearing: The End of Days (Tim LaHaye and Jerry B. Jenkins)
  • The Last Juror (John Grisham)
  • A Planet Called Treason (Orson Scot Card)
  • Through a Scanner Darkly (Philip K. Dick)
  • The Philip K. Dick Reader (Philip K. Dick)
  • Galaxies Like Grains of Sand (Brian Aldiss)
  • Prelude to Mars (Arthur C. Clarke)
  • Have Space Suit - Will Travel (Robert A. Heinlein)
  • Eternity Road (Jack McDevitt)
  • Hackers (Steven Levy)
  • The Tenth Justice (Brad Meltzer)
  • Timescape (Ben Bova)
  • The Tolkien Relation: A Personal Inquiry (William Bernard Ready)
  • The Gripping Hand (Larry Niven, Jerry Pournelle)
  • Shadow of the Hegemon (Orson Scott Card)
  • The Vortex Blaster (E.E. "Doc" Smith)
  • Prey (Michael Crichton)
  • Ender's Shadow (Orson Scott Card)
  • A Different Drummer: My Thirty Years with Ronald Reagan (Michael K. Deaver)
  • SSN (Tom Clancy)
  • Saturday Nights at Seven: The Jack Benny Story (Jack Benny, Joan Benny)
  • Vanished (Danielle Steele)
  • ]]>
    312 2005-06-21 22:51:21 2005-06-22 03:51:21 open closed books-read-2004 publish 548 0 page 0 _wp_page_template 1124 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.50 2005-11-08 12:51:15 2005-11-08 17:51:15 1 0 0 1126 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-08 13:19:43 2005-11-08 18:19:43 Glorious Appearing? (I have found the Left Behind series to be fun-but-shallow; they might be categorized as an adult Christian's Hardy Boys- or Nancy Drew- level books.) What scares me is that so many people take them as factual. I'd love to bring some of the Bereans forward in time ... Ender's Shadow, The Philip K. Dick Reader, A Case for Christ, and A Different Drummer were my favorites of the books I read in 2004. Jack McDevitt's Eternity Road was a re-read. I highly recommend his science fiction, although he tends to do poorly in the denoument, everything else is superior.]]> 1 0 2
    BLOG Updates (2007-05-29) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=316 Fri, 24 Jun 2005 20:58:15 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=316 Tuesday, May 29, 2007
    • Finally fixed the text color and bullet style for bullets within blockquotes.
    Tuesday, March 6, 2007
    • I am trying an idea I saw Slashdotted, whereby my comment form has a field in it that's hidden by CSS. A "real person" won't ever see this or attempt to enter anything into it, but a Spambot will. If the field has any value in it, the comment form rejects it. So far, it seems to be working, but I need another 24 hours to be sure.
    • I've also added a winter seasonal background, which is easily switched by the style sheet. I should probably add some date-based code to switch it, but ... nah ... not yet.
    Friday, May 5, 2006
    • I got tired of my search not doing comments and not supporting Boolean operations, so I've added the Google Free site search to the sidebar. I had to tweak it just a tiny bit to get it to do what I wanted. Here's what it looked like when I was done:

      <!-- Search Google --> <form method=GET action=http://www.google.com/custom> <A href=http://www.google.com/search><IMG SRC= http://www.google.com/logos/Logo_40wht.gif border=0 ALT=Google align=middle></A><br /> <input type=text name=q size=25 maxlength=255 value=""> <input type=submit name=sa value="google search"> <input type=hidden name=ie value=UTF-8> <input type=hidden name=oe value=UTF-8> <input type=hidden name=cof value="S:http://blog.wilcoxfamily.net/;VLC:#800000; AH:left;BGC:#f5f5f5;LH:76;LC:#800000;GFNT:#777;L:http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content /themes/wilcox-family-blog/images/wilcox_masthead.jpg;ALC:#FF4500;LW:452;T:#000000; GIMP:#800000;AWFID:35bb6041557faead;"> <input type=hidden name=domains value="blog.wilcoxusa.net"><br> <input type=radio name=sitesearch value=""> Search the WWW<br /> <input type=radio name=sitesearch value="blog.wilcoxusa.net" checked> Search blog.wilcoxusa.net</FORM> <!-- Search Google End -->
    Monday, April 10, 2006
    • Added animated and standard "favicons" by creating them using the Favicon from Pics tool.
    Wednesday, March 1, 2006
    • Modified the sidebar.php to query the visitor count for StatTraq only once by replacing <?= getVisitorCount('day')?> with <? $visitorCount = getVisitorCount('day')?><?= $visitorCount ?> at the top, and using <?= $visitorCount ?> at the bottom.
    Monday, January 23, 2006
    • Modified the comments.php (comments template) in my theme folder to include the rewriting of the form action via JavaScript (see the update notes for Friday, January 20, 2006) as an experiment in preventing comment Spam. A Web form has an action associate with it; the action is generally the URL of a page to which the form data is submitted. Without that action, the form (if submitted) defaults to sending the data to its own containing page. What I've done is remove the action from the HTML of the forms that are commonly Spammed (comments and subscriptions), and reassign that action only when the submit button (which is no longer a "real" submit button) is clicked by the user. In the case of subscriptions, there's a confirmation dialog the user must acknowledge; this is primarily because I kept typing search terms in the subscription field!
    Friday, January 20, 2006
    • We expect to go to WordPress 2.0 within a month. I don't have time yet to update my customizations, although almost all of them are contained in the content folders (under themes), which won't be affected.
    • Added a sidebar heading and link for "Substantial" posts.
    • Modified the subscription form to require human clicking of the confirmation dialog. (The form cannot be submitted by a script clever enough to parse the form, fill in its fields, and execute its action.) This should prevent "Spam" subscriptions.
      <script type="text/javascript">
      function doSubscribe(){
      	var bool = confirm('Do you wish to subscribe to the 
      		WilcoxnFamily BLOG using the e-mail address 
      		of n' + document.getElementById('subscribeEMail')
      		.value + '?');
      	if(true == bool){
      		document.getElementById('subscribeForm')
      			.action='maillist/index.php'
      		document.getElementById('subscribeForm')
      			.submit();
      	}
      }
      </script>
      <a id="notif"></a>
      <h3>< ?php _e('Subscribe'); ?></h3>
      <p class="cmeta">
      	<form id="subscribeForm" method="post">
      		Enter your e-mail address to receive 
      		notifications when there are new posts.
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      		<input type="text" name="email" 
      			id="subscribeEMail" size="15" />
      		<input type="button" value="sign up" 
      		onclick="doSubscribe()" />
      	</form>
      	</p>
      
    Tuesday, October 11, 2005
    • Installed Randy Peterman's StatTraq. Added sidebar links in two places to show unique visits per day and link to more detailed statistics. Also modified wp-admin/menu.php to include StatTraq as an Admin Link:

      $menu[40] = array(__('Options'), 6, 'options-general.php');
      // DMW: Added the following line for StatTraq:
      $menu[50] = array(__('StatTraq'), 0, '../wp-stattraq/index.php');
    • Removed bold attribute from the style.css file that made certain levels of list items bold. (Thanks to Mark Sohmer for pointing out the problem.) To fix it, I commented out the style below:

      .commentlist li {
      font-weight: bold; }
    Thursday, October 6, 2005
    • Remembered that the ABSPATH in wp-config.php needs to be changed for a Windows box: define('ABSPATH', dirname(__FILE__).'/'); becomes define('ABSPATH', dirname(__FILE__).'\');
    Tuesday, September 27, 2005
    • Added a confirmation dialog to the subscription link, because I kept entering search terms in the subscription box! It was a nuisance to keep deleting the mistakenly entered search terms from the e-mail address MySQL table for subscribers. Here's what I changed:

      <input type="text" name="email" id="subscribeEMail" size="15" />
      <input type="submit" name="submit" value="sign up" onclick="return confirm('Do you wish to subscribe to the WilcoxnFamily BLOG using the e-mail address of n' + document.getElementById('subscribeEMail').value + '?')" />
    Tuesday, August 30, 2005
    • Added Amazon link to raise funds for the Casa del Menor Vida Nueva children's home in Ejido Constitución, Chihuahua, Mexico. (All my Amazon comissions are sent to them.)
    Sunday, August 28, 2005
    • Remembered that I had modified (in wp-admin) the upload.php to make photo-uploading behave the way I wanted. Restored and tested my version of upload.php. I don't think I have made any other changes to admin files, but have resolved to keep better track of this. (Normally we avoid using the computer on Sunday, but I was working on a project for Springer-Verlag (formerly Kluwer Academic Publishers).
    Saturday, August 27, 2005
    • Upgraded WordPress (quasi-manually) to 1.5.2 (from 1.5.1.3).
    • Modified the Get Firefox link to include two links, the latter of which points to Blake Ross's BLOG entry about his grandfather's Firefox evangelism to the head Rabbi of Israel: Get Firefox: The one that blocks all the schmutz.
    Friday, July22, 2005, and Saturday, July 23, 2005:
    • Added Jennifer's (of ScriptyGoddess.com) plugin to do show/hide comments.
    • Unsuccessfully attempted to integrate a couple of different AJAX (XmlHttpRequest object) -driven spelling checkers.
    • Revised formatting on post footer information and show/hide comments (mostly style tweaks and removal of hard HREF in show/hide comments link).
    Thursday, July 21, 2005 Friday, July1, 2005:
    • Determined to stop Mark Sohmer's whining about my photo popup script being disliked by popup blockers, and wrote a workaround that seems to be cool with Firefox's popup blocker. The Google toolbar makes the darned script throw a JavaScript exception, but that is to be expected. I may tackle that later, as that problem can be fixed with some error-trapping code.
    • Followed the WordPress Changelog to patch WordPress to version 1.5.1.3.
    Friday, June 24, 2005:
    • Fixed bug in photo_popup.js, the script that launches the photos. It was appending 'hi-res' multiple times upon multiple uses. This was a side effect from when I branched it to use the "old" photos with a hi-res folder and the "new" photos where the thumbnails have a different name but are in the same folder.
    Friday, June 18, 2005: Performance Improvements, mid-June, 2005:
    • Moved the BLOG, and all my sites, to a new Windows 2003 server.
    • Copied the MySQL database to that server. Re-pointed to the new database.
    Previous Updates, no specific dates available, in approximate reverse chronological order:
    • Added "Posted by" heading to each post. (Mark Sohmer's suggestion.)
    • Added Powered by WheatoniX link.
    • Added login link to top set of links. (I got tired of scrolling down to find it.)
    • Manually upgraded to WordPress 1.5.1.2 (even though the information still reports it as 1.5.1.1).
    • Added books read and BLOG updates pages. (I posted this page, mistakenly, as an article twice, and have had to explain to all the subscribers why the article links they were e-mailed don't go anywhere.)
    • Fixed photo popup JavaScript for Safari.
    • Lots of content tweaks, especially to the sidebar. Added e-mail links, activated search form, activated recent posts and recent comments (played with that one quite a bit), added miscellany pages, added show/hide for categories, activated calendar-based archive links, activated archive links by month dropdown, ported Web links from my old BLOG.
    • Integrated photo-upload module. Lots of PHP tweaks to get it to do what I wanted. Added a Boolean parameter to my photo-popup JavaScript to preserve legacy behavior. (The original script called for identical file names in different folders. Thumbnails are now uploaded to the same folder as the full-size image, with the thumbnail name prepended with thumb-.)
    • Added e-mail subscription feature, by Brian Groce (http://briangroce.com). Click here to subscribe.
    • Found a theme I liked enough to modify, Plain Vanilla 1.0 Theme for WordPress 1.5 and above, by Chetan Kunte.
    • Integrated my preferred photo popup JavaScript—the one I wrote. (My friend Mark Sohmer hates the script, but he's wrong.)
    • Cleaned up the database with a bunch of search-and-replaces, using the MySQL Query Browser.
    • Upgraded to WordPress 1.5.1.1.
    • Imported all my old BLOG entries. I used Excel for the column transformations I needed. I had to write a few messy formulae to reformat and combine columns, and my SQL skills weren't up to the task. (I know, you don't believe it.) One side effect of that was that each post got truncated to 256 characters. That was fine, as I needed to separate out the titles, anyway, so I cut-and-pasted from the old BLOG over a couple of days.
    • Converted the ancient, much-kludged ASP-based BLOG to WordPress 1.5.1.0.
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    1938 Hurricane http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=327 Sat, 16 Jul 2005 21:34:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=327 Other Hurricane Information: ]]> 327 2005-07-16 16:34:44 2005-07-16 21:34:44 open open remembering-the-1938-hurricane publish 0 0 page 0 _wp_page_template _edit_last 612 MJCase4@aol.com 152.163.100.68 2005-09-09 21:42:41 2005-09-10 02:42:41 1 0 0 "Fathers" in History http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=341 Mon, 29 Aug 2005 00:48:44 +0000 admin http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=341 Dagnabbit, I should have checked the Wikipedia first. Check out their list!
    1. George Bancroft: Father of American history
    2. William Carey: Father of modern missions
    3. Dr. Michael DeBakey, Father of modern heart surgery
    4. Peter F. Drucker, Father of modern management
    5. James Fenimore Cooper: Father of American literature (Everyone seems to be credited with this: See Philip Freneau, Washington Irving)
    6. Walter Cronkite: Father of American television journalism
    7. Peter F. Drucker: Father of modern management
    8. Joe Engleberger: Father of modern robotics
    9. Philip Freneau: Father of American literature (Everyone seems to be credited with this: See James Fenimore Cooper, Washington Irving)
    10. Robert H. Goddard: Father of rocketry (see also Konstantin Tsiolkovsky)
    11. William Dean Howells: Father of American realism
    12. Washington Irving: Father of American literature (Everyone seems to be credited with this: See James Fenimore Cooper, Philip Freneau)
    13. Ken Kutaragi: Father of the Sony PlayStation
    14. Alan Leo: Father of modern astrology
    15. Edward Lorenz: Father of chaos theory
    16. Paul MacCready: Father of human powered flight
    17. Claude E. Shannon: Father of digital communication
    18. Tandy Trower: The Father of Microsoft MRS (Tandy Trower is Microsoft’s General Manager for Microsoft’s Robotics Initiative)
    19. Konstantin Tsiolkovsky: Father of rocketry (see also Robert H. Goddard)
    20. Alan Mathison Turing: Father of modern computer science
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    Interesting Search Terms http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=358 Tue, 18 Oct 2005 20:46:59 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=358 Randy Peterman's StatTraq plugin, I've been fascinated with the referrers and search terms sections, which show how people are getting to my BLOG. (I'm also surprised by the number of visitors I've been getting.) The search terms lists show what people ran a search for before they followed a link from the search to get to the Wilcox Family BLOG. Here are some of the more interesting combinations of search terms:
    • how to build squirrel feeders (I know the answer to this one: Just follow any instructions for building bird feeders!)
    • Limited atonement scares me
    • "toast gun"
    • scnt minister letter blood bible
    • is god a mormon?
    • boa eats crocodile
    I have a lot of searches which are hitting my article on sexual predators, which pleases me, as lack of information and misinformation are critical problems in this area. Sometimes the searches show the misinformation, such as one that came in a few days ago for "60% of molest or abuses charges are false" (which may have been queried by someone who thought that statistic was true, or by someone attempting to refute it). Some of the other searches for this subject have been:
    • pedophiles and Jesus
    • sexual predators manipulate trick
    • Reasons why sexual predators should be stopped
    • Grooming Techniques Sex Offenders
    • Interactional Assessment
    • dr. anna salter child abuse
    • I am a situational sex offender
    • sexual predators grooming behaviors
    • sexual predators what causes them
    • if parent molests one child should other children be allowed visitation
    If you have a question about sexual predators that I haven't answered in my article, please let me know. Use the e-mail link at the top right of the page. (I'll be updating the article with some more information gleaned from Anna Salter's Transforming Trauma book soon.) I also get a disturbing number of searches related to Internet pornography, which means people aren't reading their summaries. One really isn't going to find anything on my BLOG that would match "exclusive vulva photo" or "preteen sex younger." Sad.]]>
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    Nashua Commuter Rail http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=360 Mon, 24 Oct 2005 14:12:04 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=360 Support commuter rail in New Hampshire by signing the petition for the New Hampshire Capitol Corridor at http://www.petitiononline.com/nhcc.

    Nashua Commuter Rail Advisory Committee is pleased to announce the implementation of our web site.

    www.nhcommuterrail.com

    The Nashua Commuter Rail Advisory Committee has developed its Web site to benefit the citizens of the state of New Hampshire. We have gained a tremendous amount of support from state and local legislators in the past, but we still need more. Feel free to use the Web site to keep up with where the project has come from and where it is going. While using the Web site, please take notice of the links that will directly connect you to our state and local legislators e-mail addresses. This is the area where we need your help; please take the time to e-mail the legislators about your feelings on the commuter rail project.
    Nashua Commuter Rail Advisory Committee The Nashua Commuter Rail Advisory Committee would like to extend an invitation to attend its meetings to citizens who are interested in bringing the commuter rail to Nashua. All meetings are held at Nashua City Hall, Room 208 (click here for a map/directions) at 6:30 p.m. Radio Coverage

    On Thursday, February 8, 2007, New Hampshire Public Radio aired Keeping Track of Rail in New Hampshire, on its morning "The Exchange" program, hosted by Laura Knoy. You can listen to the program via the link provided.

    I've Been There: My Perspective Nashua, N.H., seems too far away from Boston to be a "bedroom community," but in the quest for affordable housing, crime-free neighborhoods, and other prized essentia of suburbia, Nashua is an excellent choice, especially considering its sales-tax-free shopping and vibrant downtown. After seeing the huge benefits the commuter rail brought to our former hometown of Brockton, Massachusetts, I am eagerly awaiting the day Nashua becomes a stop on the Purple Line. News Articles I thought I'd start tracking some of the articles that come through Google Alerts about the rail project. (The following stories are in reverse chronological order.) ]]>
    360 2005-10-24 09:12:04 2005-10-24 14:12:04 open open nashua-commuter-rail publish 0 0 page 0 _wp_page_template _edit_last s2mail 6358 ravi_murty@hotmail.com 216.41.64.202 2007-02-07 12:16:40 2007-02-07 17:16:40 1 0 0
    Books Read, 2006 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=374 Sat, 07 Jan 2006 06:19:27 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=374 Isaac's books read further down on the page.
    1. Polaris (Jack McDevitt)

      Jack McDevitt writes excellent science fiction, although he must have been absent the day they discussed the denoument in literature class. My favorite book of his is still Eternity Road (I've been a sucker for ruined civilizations since reading "Magic City" in the two-volume A Treasury of Great Science Fiction edited by Anthony Boucher), but this mystery is quite worthy of Mr. McDevitt's talents.
    2. Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a Child (Laura Davis)

      As part of my ongoing reading into the problem, effects, and healing of child sexual abuse, this book is written to benefit the spouse (primarily) or family of someone who is dealing with sexual abuse. I would definitely include this book on my resources list if I were in the position of working with those who have been sexually abused. (Slight caution: Laura Davis is an open lesbian, but that isn't what this book is about, although one of the questions answered is, "Is my wife a lesbian?") Most of the book is presented in a series of questions grouped by topic; it ends with a set of biographical stories from interviews with partners of sexual abuse survivors. Healing from sexual abuse is a perilous, painful process; it can be especially painful for those who are closely or intimately involved with a survivor; Davis's book provides balance, reassurance, and extremely practical advice on dealing with abuse.
    3. Magic Street (Orson Scott Card)

      Orson Scott Card is still one of my favorite authors, but my opinion of him is fading somewhat. Magic Street is one of Card's urban fantasy stories, the first of which was Lost Boys. (to be continued)
    4. Have Space Suit, Will Travel (Robert A. Heinlein)

      Although this is "juvenile fiction," it's my all-time favorite book. Heinlein weaves a fascinating and unpredictable story here that anyone who grew up (or remains) "crazy to get to space" will appreciate. The hero is Kip Russell, and the story begins with him explaining how he ended up the owner of a space suit.
    5. Sketches of Jewish Social Life: Updated Edition (Alfred Edersheim)

      This was a gift from Debi Costine. It's a fascinating glimpse into the everyday social life, in numerous aspects, of Palestine at the time of Christ. I've already started teaching things gleaned from this to my Sunday school class, who should benefit from a better understanding of what life was like for the New Testament believers. Edersheim is a bit difficult to read, so I went very slowly, but this is fascinating. I've learned about just how much the Galileans of the time were looked down upon by other Jews, "the road of the roofs" (see Mt. 24:17), at what age daughters could no longer be compelled by their parents to marry a particular person (12 years and one day), that nose rings were popular adornments for women at the time (ugh), and that there were only 6,000 Pharisees, but they held significant power.
    6. Night Train to Rigel (Timothy Zahn)

      Timothy Zahn achieved renown by being one of only two authors I've ever read who can write in the Star Wars universe and actually produce books that are worth reading (R.A. Salvatore is the other). Even were it not for that, Zahn would still have a well-deserved, excellent reputation as a crafter of science fiction (and yes, fantasy). Zahn has a background in theoretical physics, so he understands the science in science fiction quite well. This book is a mystery/adventure, with a compelling enough plot to keep one moving. Zahn's creation and descriptions of entirely alien cultures is convincing. Overall I found this book quite enjoyable, although not as much a page-turner as some of this other works, such as the Conquerors trilogy, or the Cobra novels.
    7. Zorro: A Novel (Isabel Allende)

      Fun and interesting. Not quite as amazing as I'd expected. I loved the background; this covers mostly Zorro's childhood to very early adulthood.
    8. The Lion, The Witch And The Wardrobe: Movie Tie-in (C.S. Lewis; read at family mealtimes)
    9. The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse (Revised Edition) (Wendy Maltz)

      After reading this book, I found I favor it slightly---especially as an initial read---over The Courage to Heal - Third Edition - Revised and Expanded: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse (Ellen Bass and Laura Davis). To a sexual abuse survivor, I would still recommend both, but Maltz's work is very well-balanced, quite a bit less graphic (which may be easier for some survivors), and provides thorough and practical advice and exercises for healing. Maltz was the only author I have read so far that dares to acknowledge that sexual abuse will sometimes have an effect on "sexual orientation," an unusually bold statement. Based on its contents, I believe this would be of value for couples whose sexuality suffers from the aftereffects of sexual abuse, as it offers a large amount of instruction in carefully relearning touch and disconnecting sexuality from the abuse. Maltz is also very outspoken against the harms of pornography, which is another very refreshing viewpoint. This is a vital book for those seeking to understand or recover from the long-term effects of sexual abuse.
    10. Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone (Book 1) (J.K. Rowling).
    11. Secret Survivors: Uncovering Incest and Its Aftereffects in Women (E. Sue Blume).

      The title of this book might lead it to be overlooked by much of its intended audience, as the author redefines incest to essentially mean nonsttranger sexual abuse.

      E. Sue Bloom has some stereotypical feminist leanings, including one obvious rant against the Biblical account of Lot's incest, in which E. Sue Blume places the blame on Lot. (I'm not sure this blame is unfounded; although in that particular event it seems to be the daugthers who came up with the plan, she fails to take into account the cultural background, recorded in Scripture, of the extreme and violent sexuality present in Sodom, which would have virtually guaranteed Lot's daughters growing up in an environment of sexual abuse, and their actions certainly could have resulted from that. Also, according to some behavioral analysts, such as FBI profiler John Douglas, alcohol or drug impairment will not cause someone to do something they didn't already want to do, just lower inhibitions against doing it.)

      That slight warning aside, this is, overall, an excellent book on identifying and understanding the effects of sexual abuse.

      Incest combines all the forms of abuse that can happen to a child. It contains the violence and violation of physical abuse, the self-esteem consequences of emotional abuse, and often the actual or perceived abandonment of the nonperpetuating parent or parents as well as the confusion and chaos of family alcoholism. Incest is the most devastating form of abuse that a child can endure. It robs her of her childhood, her innocence, her ownership of her body, and her sexuality. It damages trust and disrupts bonding. It isolates her in an unpredictable, emotionally confusing bond with her abuser, secured with secrecy and threats. In short, incest kills. Not all at once, not totally, but one way or another, sooner or later, piece by piece. (Blume, p. 19)


      Much of what was in this book I'd already aborbed through my othe reading. One item that was new to me was that, in the presence of addictive behaviors, such as alcoholism or drug abuse (even if they stem from the incest), those behaviors must be corrected---and under control for a long time (a year or more)---before dealing with the other issues generated by the incest itself.
    12. In the Heart of the Sea: The Tragedy of the Whaleship Essex (Nathaniel Philbrick)

      This is the story that inspired Herman Melville's Moby-Dick (Bantam Classics).

      From the cover: "In 1819, the 238-ton Essex set sail from Nantucket on a routine voyage for whales. Fifteen months later, the unthinkable happened: in the farthest reaches of the South Pacific, the Essex was rammed and sunk by an enraged sperm whale."

      It's 20-man crew, ignorantly fearing cannibals on the islands to the west, decided instead to, against the trade winds, sail east to the west coast of South America.

      This is a fascinating, easy-to-read story of survival after a maritime disaster. The book was chosen for Nashua's 2006 "Nashua Reads: One City, One Book" program, and I highly recommend it.
    13. Mindhunter: Inside the Fbi's Elite Serial Crime Unit (John Douglas and Mark Olshaker).

      An amazing book.
    14. The Teeth of the Tiger (Tom Clancy)

      This is the best Clancy I've read in a while. He peaked with The Sum of All Fears, and bottomed out with The Bear and the Dragon (Jack Ryan Novels). Here we transition to the lives of Jack Ryan, Jr., and twin cousins, who end up being employed at a non-government-controlled intelligence operation called "The Campus." There are some interesting points for thought and discussion, such as extrajudicial assasination and Machiavellianism. The book ends a bit abruptly, seemingly geared to be in two parts, but provides and entertaining, if not gripping, adventure. I like it better than Red Rabbit (which I simply could not escape into), but not as much as my most recent (chronologically by publication date) favorite, Rainbow Six. Clearly, Clancy has lost his magic in the past decade, but this gives a hint of hope that he just may regain it: He's still far from there, but seems to be at least heading in the right direction.
    15. Shadow Puppets (Orson Scott Card)

      I've actually come to like Bean better than Ender. This excellent book by Card continues to follow the story of "Ender's Shadow (Ender, Book 5)," Bean, an unlikely survivor of a genetic experiment that gives him extreme intelligence while shortening his life. I think the only weakness in this is that Peter Wiggin features prominently, and just isn't a convincingly powerful character alongside Bean or the villain Achilles. (He also does not seem to be as ruthless as his childhood would have indicated.) Bean's development is excellent and welcome. This was very enjoyable overall; while not particularly groundbreaking, it was best Card I've read in recent years. Now if only he would finish the Lovelock (Mayflower Trilogy) trilogy.
    16. Dark Dreams: Sexual Violence, Homicide and the Criminal Mind (Roy Hazelwood and Stephen G. Michaud)

      An excellent book on criminology and profiling. This has a slightly less informal style than John Douglas' Mindhunter: Inside the Fbi's Elite Serial Crime Unit, and is very well written. I highly recommend it.
    17. Spiritual Depression: Its Causes and Cure (D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones)

      This is currently on loan from Debi Costine. I asked for C.S. Lewis's The Problem of Pain, and Debi gave me this instead. (I think she doesn't want Lewis' Arminianism to influence me, as a fairly recent convert to God's sovereignty and the doctrine of grace!)
    18. Perfect Victim: The True Story of "The Girl in the Box" by the D.A. That Prosecuted Her Captor (Christine Mcguire and Carla Norton)

    19. The stone that never came down (Doubleday science fiction) (John Brunner)

      I'd first come in contact my brunner via the recommendation of my "not-father" (the man who was alleged to be my biological father, but who in point of fact, was not); Brunner's Stand on Zanzibar was his favorite book. I snagged this at our local library for 50¢. This novel by Brunner struck me as a cross between the novelettes "Brain Wave" (Poul Anderson) and "The Food Of The Gods" (H.G. Wells). There is some atheistic bias which many (to be continued)
    20. Among Schoolchildren (Tracey Kidder)

    21. One Blood: The Biblical Answer to Racism (Ken Ham, Carl Wieland, and Don Batten).
    22. Outbound Flight (Star Wars) (Timothy Zahn)
    23. The Breathtaker (Today Show Book Club #19) (Alice Blanchard).
    24. Omega (Jack McDevitt)
    25. Dragon and Thief (Dragonback) (Timothy Zahn): One of the 3 books bound together in Dragonback Bargain (Dragon and Thief; Dragon and Soldier; Dragon and Slave) as one volume.
    26. Dragon and Soldier: The Second Dragonback Adventure (Dragonback) (Timothy Zahn): One of the 3 books bound together in Dragonback Bargain (Dragon and Thief; Dragon and Soldier; Dragon and Slave) as one volume.
    27. Dragon and Slave: The Third Dragonback Adventure (Dragonback) (Timothy Zahn): One of the 3 books bound together in Dragonback Bargain (Dragon and Thief; Dragon and Soldier; Dragon and Slave) as one volume.
    28. The Evil That Men Do (Stephen G. Michaud with Roy Hazelwood)
    29. The Lord of the Rings (Collector's Edition) (J. R. R. Tolkien)

      I've just finished reading this (my third read-through), and I am overwhelmed by what an amazing story it is, as well as by how well Peter Jackson adapted it for his films. (I'm going to rewatch the extended editions of Jackson's films, and then post some comments about the very few mistakes I think he made.)

      I will venture a couple of comments about the book: The Fellowship of the Ring: Being the First Part of The Lord of the Rings (The Lord of the RIngs)/i> actually is a bit slow. There is a huge amount of background information and backstory to be communicated, and I don't think LotR becomes a "page-turner" until The Two Towers (The Lord of the Rings, Book 2). Secondly, if you don't read the appendices, especially the first one, you're missing a huge amount of the story. You haven't learned where Gimli and Legolas eventually traveled, how long Aragorn and Arwen lived, or what prohibition Aragorn made (and honored himself) for who was allowed to visit the Shire. You'd also miss Tolkien's notes on languages and his translation strategies, which give a glimpse into his special areas of knowledge.
    30. Preparing for Adolescence: How to Survive the Coming Years of Change (Dr. James Dobson)
    31. Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets (Book 2) (J.K. Rowling)
    32. The Bridge Over the River Kwai (Cinema Classics) (Pierre Boulle)
    33. Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban (Book 3) (J.K. Rowling)

      This has been my favoirte Harry Potter book to date. My only gripe is that the characters seem too willing to be dishonest with each other and even occasionally with authority figures, which would be a good discussion point for parents whose children are reading these books. I like my heroes to be near-perfect, or at least morally so. (Of course, then there's Superman Returns (Two-Disc Special Edition) ...
    34. 102 Minutes: The Untold Story of the Fight to Survive Inside the Twin Towers (Jim Dwyer and Kevin Flynn)

      I borrowed this book from our friend Mahli DeLaCruz, and read it in about two days. I don't think I've gone through a book so quickly since Isaac's Storm. I love disaster stories, and this one is well-written and gripping, detailing the tragedies and triumphs of the evacuations of the World Trade Center after they were hit by terrorist-piloted aircraft. Tragically, misinformation and lack of information led to the death of some, like a group of employees of the WTC who were told to stay on the 64th floor, while others were evacuating. In fact, a public service announcement in Tower 2 told many they could go back to their offices, because that building was secure, just as they were nearly out of building, and minutes before the second plane struck. The same lack of information and lack of good communication led directly to the death of dozens of firefighters in Tower 1 who did not hear the order to evacuate, and who would not heed the second-hand information given to them by others. Another interesting thing I learned was that the real heroes of the WTC evacuation were not the police and fire officials (although they did help)---but the building residents, some of whom died in the tower collaspe, while still in the process of moving rubble and prying open doors while getting others out. Were it not for the actions of numerous building residents, far more lives would have been lost. This also contains information that helps dispell the silly conspiracy theory that the towers were brought down by demoliton charges within them. I highly recommend this book.
    35. The Terrible Hours : The Man Behind the Greatest Submarine Rescue in History (Peter Maas)

      Charles "Swede" Momson is a classic Americna hero, and an inventor as well. (The following is from the Amazon.com review): Swede Momsen was, according to master storyteller Peter Maas, the "greatest submariner the Navy ever had," and he was determined to beat those odds. Momsen spent his career trying to save the lives of trapped submariners, despite an indifferent Navy bureaucracy that thwarted and belittled his efforts at every turn. Every way of saving a sailor entombed in a sub---"smoke bombs, telephone marker buoys, new deep-sea diving techniques, escape hatches, artificial lungs, a great pear-shaped rescue chamber--was either a direct result of Momsen's inventive derring-do, or of value only because of it." Yet on the day the Squalus sank, none of Momsen's inventions had been used in an actual submarine disaster.

      I grabbed this from my nephew Andrew's bookshelf on Thanksgiving afternoon, and finished it before we left on Friday.
    36. World War Z: An Oral History of the Zombie War (Max Brooks)

      Nichelle purchased this for me for Christmas, and I absolutely devoured it! This was definitely one of the most fun books I've read this year, and---although one would think the subject matter could produce nothing more than trite clichés, I was mesmerized by the varied human elements, including political, Max Brooks has included. The book takes the form of interviews transcribed from around the world, from people such as the doctor who first encountered the zombie outbreak in China, or a soldier who was part of the Battle of Yonkers, where the military attempted to stop milliions of zombies on the move out of New York City. There is some clever and subtle linking of references among some of the stories. Great imagination, and surprisingly gripping.
    37. Currently reading: Mao's China and After: A History of the People's Republic, Third Edition (Maurice Meisner)
    38. Also currently reading: Treating Child Sex Offenders and Victims: A Practical Guide (Anna Salter)
    39.  


       

      Children's Books:
    40. Niagara Falls, Or Does It? #1 (Hank Zipzer) (Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver)
    41. (Read aloud to David) Me and the Terrible Two (Ellen Conford)
    42. (Read aloud at mealtime.) Roald Dahl/Charlie Boxed Set (Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator) (Roald Dahl and Quentin Blake (illustrator))
    43. Currently Reading aloud at Mealtime: Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator (Puffin Modern Classics) (Roald Dahl)

     


     

    Isaac has done a great deal of reading this year as well. Here's his list:
    1. Starship Troopers (Robert A. Heinlein)
    2. Dragon and Thief (Dragonback) (Timothy Zahn): One of the 3 books bound together in Dragonback Bargain (Dragon and Thief; Dragon and Soldier; Dragon and Slave) as one volume.
    3. Dragon and Soldier: The Second Dragonback Adventure (Dragonback) (Timothy Zahn): One of the 3 books bound together in Dragonback Bargain (Dragon and Thief; Dragon and Soldier; Dragon and Slave) as one volume.
    4. Dragon and Slave: The Third Dragonback Adventure (Dragonback) (Timothy Zahn): One of the 3 books bound together in Dragonback Bargain (Dragon and Thief; Dragon and Soldier; Dragon and Slave) as one volume.
    5. The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe (Full-Color Collector's Edition) (C.S. Lewis): One of the 7 books in The Chronicles of Narnia series.
    6. The Chronicles of Narnia: Prince Caspian (Narnia) (C.S. Lewis): One of the 7 books in The Chronicles of Narnia series.
    7. The Voyage of the Dawn Treader (rpkg) (Narnia) (C.S. Lewis): One of the 7 books in The Chronicles of Narnia series.
    8. The Silver Chair (rpkg) (Narnia) (C.S. Lewis): One of the 7 books in The Chronicles of Narnia series.
    9. The Horse and His Boy (rpkg) (Narnia) (C.S. Lewis): One of the 7 books in The Chronicles of Narnia series.
    10. The Magician's Nephew (paper-over-board) (Narnia) (C.S. Lewis): One of the 7 books in The Chronicles of Narnia series.
    11. The Last Battle (rpkg) (Narnia) (C.S. Lewis): One of the 7 books in The Chronicles of Narnia series.
    12. The Iron Giant (Ted Hughes)
    13. A Wrinkle in Time (Madeleine L'Engle)
    14. A Wind in the Door (Madeleine L'Engle)
    15. The Guide to Owning a Bearded Dragon (David Zoffer, Tom Mazorlig)
    16. Many Waters (Madeleine L'Engle)
    17. Heir to the Empire (Star Wars: The Thrawn Trilogy, Vol. 1) (Timothy Zahn)
    18. Dark Force Rising (Star Wars: The Thrawn Trilogy, Vol. 2) (Timothy Zahn)
    19. The Last Command (Star Wars: The Thrawn Trilogy, Vol. 3) (Timothy Zahn)
    20. The Hobbit (J.R.R. Tolkien)
    21. Niagara Falls, Or Does It? (Hank Zipzer, the World's Greatest Underachiever #1) (Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver)
    22. I Got a D in Salami #2 (Hank Zipzer, the World's Greatest Underachiever #2) (Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver)
    23. The Day of the Iguana #3 (Hank Zipzer, the World's Greatest Underachiever #3) (Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver)
    24. Zippety Zinger (Hank Zipzer, the World's Greatest Underachiever #4) (Henry Winkler and Lin Oliver)
    25. Preparing for Adolescence: How to Survive the Coming Years of Change (Dr. James Dobson)
    26. Currently reading: The Fellowship of the Ring (The Lord of the Rings, Book 1) (J.R.R. Tolkien)
    27. Plus approximately 16 Hardy Boys books read in school, and numerous readings of Calvin and Hobbes, Peanuts, and Fox Trot comic collections.
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    374 2006-01-07 01:19:27 2006-01-07 06:19:27 open closed books-read-2006 publish 548 0 page 0 _wp_page_template 4566 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2006-12-12 14:39:32 2006-12-12 19:39:32 http://blog.wilcoxfamily.net/?p=348.) I have found books to supplment it, but never found a better "first book" on sexual abuse and its consequences. It has been immensely helpful. I've read it three times, and given at least ten copies away, and I expect I'll reread it in the next month or so. My only regret is that it didn't exist 20 years ago. --Doug Wilcox]]> 1 0 2 4565 brokenwingsongbird@sbcglobal.net http://groups.msn.com/TalkAboutGodsLove 69.109.249.79 2006-12-12 14:06:16 2006-12-12 19:06:16 1 0 0
    Books Read, 2007 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=456 Thu, 04 Jan 2007 19:03:19 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=456
  • Treating Child Sex Offenders and Victims: A Practical Guide (Anna Salter)
  • Variable Star (Robert A. Heinlein and Spider Robinson)
  • Empire (Orson Scott Card)

    Initially interesting, this introduction-to-a-video-game-world (that apparently was never finished) was hardly Card's best. Card hasn't lived up to his best since wrapping up Bean's story, sadly.
  • Mayflower (Nathaniel Philbrick)


  • For you fellow grammar Geeks: If a word is supposed to be italicized, but is part of a block of italicized text, it should be set in Roman type---much like a double-negative equals a positive mathematically. So, I'll conclude that the name of the ship Mayflower should be in Roman type, because it's the title of the book (italic) and the name of the ship (italic).
  • I Am Legend (Richard Matheson)
  • One Bible Only? Examining the Claims for the King James Bible (Roy E. Beacham and Kevin T. Bauder, general editors)

    If you read one book on the one-Bible-only standpoint, this is the one to read. It's also an excellent introduction to the history of how we got our Bible and the study of the manuscripts from which our modern versions are derived.

    One of the most fascinating revelations to me was that this "one translation, no other" argument has been in existence for almost all of the history of Christianity---although the version has changed considerably: The Septuagint (LXX), the Syriac translation, Martin Luther's first English translation, and, of course, the "1611 King James," among others, have all been cited as the "one Bible version" that should be used before all others.

    This book answers with respect and scholarship the arguments of those who hold such viewpoints.
  • Next (Michael Crichton)


  • I don't think this was quite as riveting as Prey or State of Fear, but I still could barely put this down. This time Crichton tackles transgenics---the implantation of genes from one organism to another. There are many characters to follow, some of which I found slightly confusing to differentiate at first, although toward the end the disparate plots and characters converge in a plausible way. (There's more sex in this book than others by Crichton, although lightly handled and nothing I'd describe as erotic; it seems nearly none of his characters, male or female, is capable of being faithfully married.) As usual, though, the issues Crichton explores are good ones: Gene therapy, ownership of biological material, gene patenting, and transgenics. These are very complex topics, and one gets the idea that Next is not much more than an introduction to them. Overall, this isn't Crichton's most amazing book, but it's well worth reading.

    After reading the bibliography, I was left with nine books on genetics I want to add to my reading list this year, including two by G. K. Chesterton on the dangers of eugenics!
  • The Namesake: A Novel (Jhumpa Lahiri)

    This novel by Indian writer Jhumpa Lahiri was recently made into a film. It is accessible and emotionally fascinating. One quotation I found particularly beautiful coments on the nature of being a foreigner:

    "For being a foreigner, Ashima is beginning to realize, is a sort of lifelong pregnancy---a perpetual wait, a constant burden, a continuous feeling out of sorts. It is an ongoing reponsibility, a parenthesis in what had once been ordinary life, only to discover that that previous life has vanished, replaced by something more complicated and demanding. Like pregnancy, being a foreigner, Ashima believes, is something that elicits the same curiosity from strangers, the same combination of pity and respect." (pp. 49--50)

    On the other hand, I really ended up not liking the protagonist at all. (This may very well be part of the point the author.) He seems to have no drive or ambition, or even sentimentality. He seems to just amorally wander through life.
  • What's Wrong With the World (G.K. Chesterton)

    This was actually the first book on my list of 9 books on genetics and eugenics I've added to my "to read" list. Although there was not as much eugencis opinion as I'd hoped in this book (I would expect that Eugenics and Other Evils : An Argument Against the Scientifically Organized State will better address the topic), it was a worthy read. Rather than review, I will include a few worthy quotations:

    "Men have not got tired of Christianity; they have never found enough Christianity to get tired of. Men have never wearied of political justice; they have wearied of waiting for it." ("The Enemies of Property," What's Wrong with the World, p. 41)

    "Of course, I mean that Catholicism was not tried; plenty of Catholics were tried, and found guilty. My point is that the world did not tire of the church's ideal, but of its reality. Monasteries were impunged not for the chastity of monks, but for the unchastity of monks. Christianity was unpopular not because of the humility, but of the arrogance of Christians." ("The Unfinished Temple," p. 36)

    "The Christian ideal has not been tried and found wanting. It has been found difficult; and left untried." ("The Unfinished Temple," p. 37)

    "It is not merely true that a creed unites men. Nay, a difference of creed unites men—so long as it is a clear difference. A boundary unites. Many a magnanimous Moslem and chivalrous Crusader must have been nearer to each other, because they were both dogmatists, than any two homeless agnostics in the pew of Mr. Campbell's chapel. "I say God is One," and "I say God is One but also Three," that is the beginning of a good quarrelsome, many friendship. But our age would turn these creeds into tendencies." ("The New Hypocrite," p. 25) (Rev. Colin Campbell (1848-1933) was a Presbyterian minister, preacher, and author.)
  • Blackcollar (Timothy Zahn)

    Zahn, one of only two writers (the other being R.A. Salvatore) who can effectively work in the Star Wars universe) once again shows his mastery of the science fiction adventure/intrigue story. This is actually two-volumes in one, a Baen hardcover that includes The Blackcollar and Blackcollar: The Backlash Mission. I read Blackcollar, and then managed to misplace the book.
  • From God To Us:How We Got Our Bible (Norman Geisler and William Nix)

    Although Geisler and Nix and hardly the most thrilling writers on earth, this is a well-written, not-overly-long book about the history of the Scriptures. It covers doctrine such as inspiration and practical matters, such as the very necessary art of textual criticism or the history of the Biblical manuscripts we now have. I would add this to a theoretical, "Every Christian should read ..." list.
  • Fabricating Jesus: How Modern Scholars Distort the Gospels (Craig A. Evans)

    "Modern historical study of the Gospels seems to give us a new portrait of Jesus every spring---just in time for Easter." This book is a scholarly look into what we actually know or can infer about the historical Jesus, and what modern scholars (skeptics by any other name) do in creating the often bizarre suggestions that appear on what Jesus was really like. I found it to be very knowledgeable, and, while readable, at a significantly higher level of scholarship than much modern Christian publishing. Additionally, this book provides more detailed insight into the art of textual criticism.
  • Snakes in Suits: When Psychopaths Go to Work (Paul Babiak, Ph.D., and Robert D. Hare, Ph.D.)

    Not a bad introduction to the machinations of psychopaths (sometimes known as sociopaths) in the workplace. I think I should have chosen Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us (Robert D. Hare, Ph.D.) instead. (I'll read that later and let you know.)
  • End of the Spear (Steve Saint)

    Steve Saint, whose lost his father at a young age in the jungles of Ecuador, was virtually raised by the person who murdered his father. This book is an excellent read on missions, cross-culturalism, and what becoming a God-follower really means.
  • Germs: Biological Weapons and America's Secret War (Judith Miller, Stephen Engelberg, and William Broad)
  • Manta's Gift (Timothy Zahn)
  • The Assassins (Oliver North and Joe Musser)
  • Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (Book 4) (J.K. Rowling)

    My favorite Harry Potter book to date.
  • Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix (Book 5) (J.K. Rowling)
  • (Read aloud to the kids.) Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator (Roald Dahl)
  • Churches That Abuse (Ronald M. Enroth)
  • Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince (Book 6) (J.K. Rowling)
  • Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows (Book 7) (J.K. Rowling)

    Well, the Harry Potter series of books is certainly no The Lord of the Rings, but it is wonderful series of fantasy stories. The latter books, starting perhaps with Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire (Book 4) begin to increase in detail, and start to intertwine story details in a compelling way. Overall, I enjoyed the series immensely, and found the seventh book to be a worthy conclusion to it.
  • 1776 (David McCullough)
  • Misquoting Jesus: The Story Behind Who Changed the Bible and Why (Bart D. Ehrman)

    Ehrman isn't particularly radical in this book, and it turned out to be an excellent, example-laden, and accessible read on the art of textual criticism. Although (as I was cautioned) his conclusions in the last few pages seem not necessarily supported by the evidence, the evidence itself was well worth studying, especially as a continuation of the other books dealing with textual criticism I've read this year.
  • Truth Catcher (Anna Salter)

    Salter is back with a new protagonist and another great story set to the backdrop of forensic psychology. Based on the reviews I read, some readers found this heroine, who is a synesthete---someone who sees colors and designs when she hears sounds---a bit too improbable, I found her to be quite credible. Salter's fiction is not amazing (unlike her nonfiction), but it is quite good.
  • Rollback (Sci Fi Essential Books) (Robert J. Sawyer)

    Without a doubt, this is the best science fiction I've read in quite some time. Like the best science fiction writing, this isn't necessarily (or perhaps merely) about cool gadgets, but presents a truly credible and fascinating human story. I will definitely be looking to more books by Robert J. Sawyer in the next few months.
  • The Children of Húrin (J.R.R. Tolkien)

    Readers (like many I know) who never could make it through The Silmarillion, will be pleased with this tale, primarily about Túrin, the son of Húrin. Although far less detailed than readers of The Lord of the Rings might expect, this tale is not at all a bad read. This is also, ultimately, a more tragic tale than readers of Tolkien might be accustomed to. It was wonderful to sink back into the "epic" language that Tolkien used so well, and Christopher Tolkien has done an excellent job of recreating this book from the poems and parts of the tale Tolkien wrote over a period of decades. Also, one feature I loved in my copy was the map, which folds out so it can be viewed while one is reading.
  • Working Among Programmers: A Field Guide to the Software World (Bruce Taylor)

    Bruce Taylor has written an intentionally-compact, easily readable "field guide" into the world of programmers. Drawing inspiration from the classic The Psychology of Computer Programming: Silver Anniversary Edition, and his many years employed as a programmer, the author has managed to capture quite accurately the very important points that make working with and managing programmers so different from other types of professionals. Of particular utility are the "For People in a Hurry" summaries of each chapter. (On a personal note, I used to work with Bruce, and have stayed in contact with him since he took up his dream of professional coaching.)
  • Creating Equal: My Fight Against Race Preferences (Ward Connerly)
  • Sudden Sea: The Great Hurricane of 1938 (R.A. Scotti)
  • The Inmates Are Running the Asylum: Why High Tech Products Drive Us Crazy and How to Restore the Sanity (Alan Cooper)
  • Abandoned: One (Richard Bach)


  • Absolute crap. Worthess meandering of new-age platitudes in giant print unable to call itself a novel, despite the publisher's insistence. The fact that this achieved "#1 National Best Seller" status is testimony to the shallowness and ignorance of the American reader (unless the publisher is repeatedly selling the same copies, as was done for L. Ron Hubbard's scientology books). The scienceless science-fiction plot would be an embarrassment to even Gene Roddenberry.
  • Far Horizons: All New Tales from the Greatest Worlds of Science Fiction (Robert Silverberg, editor)

    Robert Silverberg has put together a collection this anthology in which some of the best science fiction writers of our time have written short stories that take place within the "worlds" they have already created. (Orson Scott Card, for example, writes about the first time Ender Wiggin encounters Jane.) These were all excellent stories, and this is a book that nearly all science fiction writers would love. I certainly did!
  • Velvet Elvis: Repainting the Christian Faith (Rob Bell)

    I will have a full review of this soon as a BLOG post. I loved this book for the most part, but am going to title the review "Beauty and Abomination" or something of that sort, because, while Bell has some beautiful insight and ideas about Christianity, he also (like many "Mergies") tends to develop an unscriptural approach to theology and spirituality.
  • Blackcollar (Timothy Zahn)

    Zahn, one of only two writers (the other being R.A. Salvatore) who can effectively work in the Star Wars universe) once again shows his mastery of the science fiction adventure/intrigue story. This is actually two-volumes in one, a Baen hardcover that includes The Blackcollar and Blackcollar: The Backlash Mission. I finally found the book, and read Blackcollar: The Backlash Mission over the Thanksgiving holiday.
  • Becoming Conversant with the Emerging Church: Understanding a Movement and Its Implications (D.A. Carson)

    (Debi Costine knew that I was investigating the theology and practices of the Emergent Church movement, and ordered this book for me. I am grateful for her generosity.)
  • The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond (Patricia Evans)

    I was hoping for something dealing with verbal or emotional abuse that was on the same level of excellence as Salter's Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders : Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect Ourselves and Our Children. This book did not quite live up to that, although it did clearly define the topic of verbal abuse, giving good detail on how to recognize it in its different forms and how to stop it. One chapters descends into psychobabble, and Evans is influenced by a moderate feminist agenda, but this does not spoil the overall product.

    Most of the time, verbal abuse such as this is well hidden---only done in private. The one case of verbal abuse with which I am most personally familiar is a slight aberration from the norm. In that case, the abuser used "humor" to disguise slightly the abuse. I still have two books to get through on verbal and emotional abuse, and I expect to learn more on this important subject.
  • And the Shofar Blew (Francine Rivers)

    Christian fiction often seems to have a much lower bar for entry into the market than secular books (examine the success of the Left Behind series, for example). This book, however, mixes exceptionally good storytelling with complex, credible characters and a great deal of valid spiritual insight. The storyline involves rebuilding a dying church and one man's obsession with building a great work for the Lord, which distracts him from the things of real import. Most writers would merely produce something cliché, preachy, or sappy, given similar situations about which to write, but Rivers is more skilled than most, and her work is inspiring and though-provoking.
  • The Unsayable: The Hidden Language of Trauma (Annie G. Rogers, Ph.D.)

    Wow. This is a fascinating exploration of Lacanian psychotherapy as a method of treating extensive trauma. It is both highly readable and highly fascinating, detailing the progress of a number of case studies, as well as the author's own traumatic background.
  • Currently reading: The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing (Beverly Engel)
  • Also currently reading: JavaServer Faces (Hans Bergsten)

    It is not often that I read a "work" book as anything more than a reference, but JavaServer Faces is a complex and new enough topic that I'm going through this one cover-to-cover.
  • Also currently reading: The Zombie Survival Guide: Complete Protection from the Living Dead (Max Brooks)
  • Also currently reading: Batman: The Dark Knight Returns (Frank Miller)
  • Also currently reading: Mao's China and After: A History of the People's Republic, Third Edition (Maurice Meisner)
  • Currently reading aloud: Henry Reed's Baby-Sitting Service (Keith Robertson)
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    Books Read, 2008 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=516 Wed, 02 Jan 2008 14:13:00 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=516
  • The Zombie Survival Guide: Complete Protection from the Living Dead (Max Brooks)

    Although not as intense as, and in a very different style than, the author's World War Z: An Oral History of the Zombie War, this very droll book is still a fun read. As the title implies, the book is meant to educate one in the intricacies of combating zombies, dispelling many of the common myths and misconceptions along the way. When the undead arise, the Wilcox family will be ready!
  • (Read aloud at mealtimes.) Henry Reed's Baby-Sitting Service (Keith Robertson)

    Having read all of them, this is still my favorite book in the Henry Reed series, and the kids really liked it as well, requesting it often.
  • Death Star (Star Wars) (Michael Reaves and Steve Perry)
    This was a bit better than I expected for Star Wars fare, and was particularly interesting from the standpoint of the engineering and backstory surrounding the construction of the first Death Star.
  • Till We Have Faces: A Myth Retold (C.S. Lewis)

    This retelling (with a masterful alteration of the character motivation) of the myth of Cupid and Psyche is extremely compelling reading. I was truly captivated by this---despite having read it before---and finished it in only 3 days.
  • The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing (Beverly Engel)

    As a reformed former emotional abuser, Beverly Engel clearly contradicts the myth that women do not emotionally abuse. This well-written book, the second of three I am reading on verbal and emotional abuse, was a worthy exploration of the topic. Interesting, unlike sexual or physical abuse, the consensus seems to be that emotional abuse can often be overcome without having to destroy the relationship, as long as the abuser is willing to admit he or she has a problem and is willing to work at understanding the problem's cause and is willing to work toward changing the behavior. However, this should not diminish our perspective of how serious and damaging emotional abuse can be.
  • Our Created Moon: Earth's Fascinating Neighbor (John Whitcomb and Donald B. Deyoung)

    Interesting, if light, astronomy. To me one of the most interesting things was the discussion of the Roche Limit; Saturn has tiny moons within its Roche Limit---I wonder if they are simply too small in diameter to be affected by the Limit. (Editor's note: It turns out moons can exist within the Roche Limit if they are held together by forces other than gravity. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Roche_limit.)
  • Cauldron (Jack McDevitt)

    Quite simply, I couldn't put this one down. McDevitt is truly worthy of his attribution as "the logical successor to Asimov and Clarke," as Stephen King put it. This novel got me thinking about how contentedness and relative opulence might lead to a disregard for space travel and exploration.
  • Deepsix (Jack McDevitt)
    It had been so long since I read this one that I had forgotten most of the details. This is a truly great science fiction-exploration-archeology-adventure story with a thorough immersion in hard science. I have two more McDevitt books lined up for a little later.
  • The King Must Die: A Novel (Mary Renault)
    After returning Till We Have Faces: A Myth Retold, co-worker Dave Goldhirsch strongly recommended this book, which retells the legend of Theseus with amazing skill. Although I was familiar with some aspects of this legend, which seems to be at least partly based in historical reality, I really did not know the details (just as I was not particularly familiar with Psyche and Cupid). Mary Renault's skilled retelling truly transports one to Greece of about 500 B.C. In particular, the protagonist's religious life and deities worshiped are made real in a way I have never seen equaled.
  • Chindi (Jack McDevitt)

    Typical of Jack McDevitt, this novel that I had not read until now is an excellent hard-science-fiction adventure. I had trouble putting this one down.
  • (Read aloud at mealtime.) Matilda (Roald Dahl)

    We have all adored the DVD version of Matilda, and thought reading the book might be fun. Although we're only one chapter in, it has not been disappointing. In fact, Dahl's writing in this work is far more amusing than the two Charlie books (Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator), and the pacing seems to be much more suited to reading aloud, and the story more identifiable to the intended audience. (Particularly in Charlie and the Great Glass Elevator, the characters like the President did not resonate well with the children, and the story seemed a bit random.)

    The kids nearly begged for reading this book at every meal. I don't think there's another children's book we've read together that has kept them so interested and entertained. One of the things that surprised me is the accurate description of the Trunchbull as a purveyor of psychological abuse (as well as Matilda's parents). Typically such subjects are glossed over completely. I also remain very pleased with the aforementioned movie adaptation of this.
  • No Visible Wounds: Identifying Non-Physical Abuse of Women by Their Men (Mary Susan Miller, Ph.D.)

    This seems to be the prototypical book on nonphysical abuse for which I was looking.
  • A Talent For War (Jack McDevitt)
  • Distress (Greg Egan)
  • The Unofficial LEGO MINDSTORMS NXT Inventor's Guide (David J. Perdue)
  • Mao's China and After: A History of the People's Republic, Third Edition (Maurice Meisner)
  • Alter Ego: Avatars and their Creators (Robbie Cooper)
  • Shattered: Reclaiming a Life Torn Apart by Violence (Debra Puglisi Sharp)
  • Megatokyo, Vol. 1 (Fred Gallagher; Rodney Caston)
  • Megatokyo, Vol. 2 (Fred Gallagher; Rodney Caston)
  • Megatokyo, Vol. 3 (Fred Gallagher)
  • Megatokyo: Volume 4 (Fred Gallagher)
  • Megatokyo: Volume 5 (Megatokyo (Graphic Novels)) (Fred Gallagher)
  • Idioms in the Bible Explained and A Key to the Original Gospels (George M. Lamsa)

    If I understand this correctly, Lamsa has some truly mistaken ideas all founded on the idea that the New Testament was originally written in Aramaic, and the elevation of the Syriac Peshitta version of the Bible. However, he does seem to be a useful reference on Aramaic-descended (not the best term, but I trust it is discernible) culture in the Middle East, and many of his notes on idiomatic expressions and the cultural background of certain passages are very valuable.

    The book is divided into two parts, one containing and outline of idioms used in the Old and New Testaments, and offering their meanings; and the second part offering larger (and fascinating) cultural explanations of events from the Gospels.

    I found this to be interesting and valuable, even though I had to reject quite a bit of it as being unreliable. I was particularly impressed by the analysis of the interaction between Jesus and Mary at the marriage where Christ turned the water into wine.
  • (Read aloud at mealtimes.) This Can't Be Happening at Macdonald Hall (Gordon Korman)

    This amusing story about two troublemakers at a boarding school was written as a seventh grade English project by the author. The kids really enjoyed it. I had read this when I was in fifth or sixth grade (or perhaps Mrs. Pat Metrano-Ellery read it aloud to us), but had forgotten many of the details.
  • Little Brother (Corey Doctorow)
  • One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich (Everyman's Library (Cloth)) (Alexander Solzhenitsyn)
  • The Mythical Man-Month: Essays on Software Engineering, Anniversary Edition (2nd Edition) (Frederick P. Brooks, Jr.)
  • Medici Money: Banking, Metaphysics, and Art in Fifteenth-Century Florence (Enterprise) (Enterprise) (Tim Parks)
  • K-19 THE WIDOWMAKER: The Secret Story of The Soviet Nuclear Submarine (Peter Huchthausen, Capt. USN (Ret.))
  • Do Hard Things: A Teenage Rebellion Against Low Expectations (Alex and Brett Harris)


  • This book is inspiring (even to me) and highly recommended. I am forcing Isaac to read this next.
  • Star Trek: SCE: Creative Couplings (Star Trek: Corps of Engineers) (John S. Drew, Glenn Greenberg, Glenn Hauman & Aaron Rosenberg, David Mack, Dayton Ward & Kevin Dilmore, and J. Steven York & Christina F. York)


  • Not bad, for Star Trek reading, although for a book about the Starfleet Corps of Engineers, only the last 3 of the 6 "episodes" were truly good engineering stories.
  • Confessions of a Reformission Rev.: Hard Lessons from an Emerging Missional Church (The Leadership Network Innovation) (Mark Driscoll)
    Driscoll is the enigmatic pastor of the Mars Hill megachurch, who combines a refreshing mixture of understanding how to live and minister in a Postmodern culture with a foundational determination to unswervingly follow Jesus Christ and His Word (setting him well apart from many in the loosely defined Emergent Church movement). This book details the lessons learned, errors made, and philosophies and approaches to ministry learned from the first decade of Mars Hill. Driscoll's writing style is straightforward but not at all superficial. For instance, regarding the realization that he needed to serve and attract believers beyond the college age, he writes: "What they did not need was to hang out with the same immature yahoos they spent all of their time playing 'pull my finger' with anyway and going to a free event that was like day care for twenty-one-year-old hormonally enraged porn addicts and video-game aficionados trying to stretch junior high into the retirement years." The anecdote about a middle-of-the-night porn confession phone call is alone worth the cost of the book! (Note: This book disappeared somewhere months ago, when I was over halfway through; I finally purchased another copy.)
  • Watchmen (Alan Moore, Author; Dave Gibbons, Illustrator)
  • Cryptonomicon (Neal Stephenson)

    Debi Costine is the one who introduced me to Neal Stephenson, if I remember correctly. Stephenson's books are huge, and Geeky, and sometimes have more sexual references than I would prefer. However, given that he has written an almost impossible-to-put-down work of fiction stretching 918 pages that actually makes the subject of cryptography understandable, one might be willing to forgive a little.

    I do not believe I know of another writer who writes in Stephenson's style, and here include a couple of examples:
    "[The software] was so legally encumbered that that point that [selling] it would have been like trying to sell someone a rusty Volkswagen that had been dismantled and its rusty parts hidden in attack dog kennels all over the world" (p. 62).
    And, one of my favorites:
    "Later, he was to decide that Andrew's life had been fractally weird. That is, you could take any small piece of it and examine it in detail and it, in and of itself, would turn out to be just as complicated and weird as the whole thing in its entirety" (p. 61).
  • Batman: The Dark Knight Returns (Frank Miller)
  • FIRST Lego® League Coaches' Handbook, Fourth Edition (Manual published by FIRST and The LEGO® Group)
  • FIRST LEGO League: The Unofficial Guide (James Kelly and Jonathan Daudelin)
  • Building Robots with LEGO Mindstorms NXT (Mario Ferrari; Guilio Ferrari; David Astolfo)
  • Nostradamus Ate My Hamster (Robert Rankin)
  • The LEGO MINDSTORMS NXT Idea Book: Design, Invent, and Build (Martin Boogaarts, Janathan A. Daudelin, Brian L. Davis, Jim Kelly, David Levy, Lou Morris, Fay Rhodes, Rick Rhodes, Matthias Paul Scholz, Christopher R. Smith, and Rob Torok)
  • Artemis Fowl (Artemis Fowl, Book 1) (Eoin Colfer)
  • The Merchant of Death (Pendragon) (D. J. MacHale)
  • Jurassic Park (Michael Crichton)
  • Are Your Lights On?: How to Figure Out What the Problem Really Is (Donald C. Gause and Gerald M. Weinberg)
  • What Your Doctor Doesn't Know About Nutritional Medicine May Be Killing You (Ray D. Strand, M.D.)

    When I was first recommended this book by a co-worker, my immediate thought was, "Hokey! Not another spend-money-on-some-weird-thing book!" However, this turns out not to be the case. Rather than rely on anecdotal evidence (although such evidence is also presented in the book), Dr. Strand cites only double-blind, peer reviewed, published medical research. This is a far cry from the Eat Grass Diet and other such nonsense fads that the English speaking world (and sadly the Christian Community) tends to follow.

    Interestingly, Dr. Strand's wife endured an increasing debilitation diagnosed as Fibromyalgia, just like what Nichelle experienced, which wasn't treated successfully with medication, that was cured with nutritional supplements. As I have seen such a transformation firsthand, and now increasingly frequently deal with doctors who acknowledge the importance of proper nutrition and vitamins, I have been more than willing to find out what else Dr. Strand has to say. Much of the part I've read deals with the numerous problems that antioxidants can prevent or reverse, including the cellular mechanisms involved. Fascinating.
  • Currently Reading: Moonwalker (Charlie and Dotty Duke)
  • Also Currently Reading: Civil War Medicine: Care & Comfort of the Wounded (Robert Denney)
  • Currently Reading aloud at mealtimes: Prince Caspian: The Return to Narnia (C. S. Lewis)
  • ]]>
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    Book Lists http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=548 Tue, 22 Jul 2008 20:00:33 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=548 I do quite a bit of reading. You'll find lists of books, links to purchase them at Amazon, and [often] some comments. Enjoy. (Commissions go to the Casa de la Minor Vida Nueva Children's Home in Chihuahua, Mexico.) ]]> 548 2008-07-22 15:00:33 2008-07-22 20:00:33 open closed wilcox-family-book-lists publish 0 0 page 0 _wp_page_template _edit_last plate http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1066 Tue, 25 May 2010 01:03:50 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/plate.jpg 1066 2010-05-24 20:03:50 2010-05-25 01:03:50 open closed plate inherit 1063 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/plate.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata yeah_baby http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1067 Tue, 25 May 2010 01:06:05 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/yeah_baby.jpg 1067 2010-05-24 20:06:05 2010-05-25 01:06:05 open closed yeah_baby inherit 1063 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/yeah_baby.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata 53029603.120105EvilSanta http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1116 Sat, 25 Dec 2010 04:35:45 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/53029603.120105EvilSanta.jpg 1116 2010-12-24 23:35:45 2010-12-25 04:35:45 open closed 53029603-120105evilsanta inherit 1110 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/53029603.120105EvilSanta.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata 5095426538_ed964b2a38_b http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1121 Fri, 28 Jan 2011 18:08:59 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/5095426538_ed964b2a38_b.jpg 1121 2011-01-28 13:08:59 2011-01-28 18:08:59 open closed 5095426538_ed964b2a38_b inherit 1120 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/5095426538_ed964b2a38_b.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata IMG_3794 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1125 Tue, 01 Mar 2011 05:28:51 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_3794.jpg 1125 2011-03-01 00:28:51 2011-03-01 05:28:51 open closed img_3794 inherit 1124 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_3794.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata IMG_3797 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1126 Tue, 01 Mar 2011 05:29:15 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_3797.jpg 1126 2011-03-01 00:29:15 2011-03-01 05:29:15 open closed img_3797 inherit 1124 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_3797-e1298957747121.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt _wp_attachment_backup_sizes IMG_3797 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1129 Tue, 01 Mar 2011 05:39:48 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_37971.jpg 1129 2011-03-01 00:39:48 2011-03-01 05:39:48 open closed img_3797-2 inherit 1124 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_37971.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt IMG_3794 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1130 Tue, 01 Mar 2011 05:40:15 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_37941.jpg 1130 2011-03-01 00:40:15 2011-03-01 05:40:15 open closed img_3794-2 inherit 1124 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/IMG_37941.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt n1373554476_221327_6486 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?attachment_id=1133 Tue, 01 Mar 2011 05:49:56 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/n1373554476_221327_6486.jpg 1133 2011-03-01 00:49:56 2011-03-01 05:49:56 open closed n1373554476_221327_6486 inherit 1124 0 attachment 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/n1373554476_221327_6486.jpg _wp_attached_file _wp_attachment_metadata _wp_attachment_image_alt http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=338 Wed, 17 Aug 2005 06:11:02 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=338 338 2005-08-17 01:11:02 2005-08-17 06:11:02 open closed draft 0 0 post 0 So Long, and Thanks for All the Fish http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=350 Mon, 03 Oct 2005 14:59:32 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=350 350 2005-10-03 09:59:32 2005-10-03 14:59:32 open open draft 0 0 post 0 Films I Hate That Everyone I Know Likes http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=352 Thu, 06 Oct 2005 14:57:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=352 352 2005-10-06 09:57:14 2005-10-06 14:57:14 open open draft 0 0 post 0 Tyranny Today: Hugo Chávez Evicts Missionaries from Venezuela http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=356 Fri, 14 Oct 2005 13:47:08 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=356 Romulo Betancourt, president of Venezuela was such a proponent of democracy in Latin America, that the dictator of the Dominican Republic, Rafael Leónidas Trujillo considered him a threat and attempted to assasinate him. Things have changed in Venezuela. Hugo Chávez, the president of Venezuela, has ordered all missionaries from New Tribes Mission to leave the country. I linked to the article above because it contains an unusual amout of detail. However, it includes statements which are unmistakably false, like the following by Alexander Luzardo:
    "New Tribes has westernized indigenous people by force, while spreading a sense of shame and guilt, disguised as teaching the gospel: they taught the Panares that Satan had turned into a Panare Indian and that they were guilty of the crucifixion of Jesus Christ."
    The above shows a blatant disregard for the Some missionaries from other organizations, such as the Southern Baptist Convention, are also reported to be leaving the country. Some further references: ]]>
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    Children and Racism http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=357 Wed, 14 Dec 2005 16:26:52 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=357 Remember the Titans a few weeks ago. Much of the background plot and drama involve the racial tensions and racism-fueled violence in Virginia in 1971. "Somone's been to crazytown," was Isaac's reaction.]]> 357 2005-12-14 11:26:52 2005-12-14 16:26:52 open open draft 0 0 post 0 What Makes Work Fun? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=363 Thu, 10 Nov 2005 16:43:32 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=363 A designer knows he has achieved perfection, not when there is nothing left to add, but when there is nothing left to take away. ---Antoine de Saint-Exupry I just finished up a short-term but urgent project in my duties as a software engineer. The project was not a huge one, but was going directly to the customer, and was on a tight deadline, as the customer needed this solution to make a link from their existing "hard-wired" (figuratively) systems tie in correctly with our software as part of an upgrade that was already scheduled. When ]]> 363 2005-11-10 11:43:32 2005-11-10 16:43:32 open open draft 0 0 post 0 God Abandoned Hezekiah http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=388 Thu, 02 Mar 2006 23:44:40 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=388 388 2006-03-02 18:44:40 2006-03-02 23:44:40 open open draft 0 0 post 0 Other Stuff About John http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=392 Fri, 10 Mar 2006 19:26:39 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=392 his own children arrive. (Insert appropriate maniacal or evil laughter here.) This past quarter, for the first time in his life, John earned a report card that was quite acceptable. In fact, I believe he came within one point of making honors, thus avoiding the administration of emergency medical treatment Missions trip/prejudice overcoming obstacles Work in progress Pretense.]]> 392 2006-03-10 14:26:39 2006-03-10 19:26:39 open open draft 0 0 post 0 Feelings http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=396 Thu, 23 Mar 2006 19:39:05 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=396 396 2006-03-23 14:39:05 2006-03-23 19:39:05 open open draft 0 0 post 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=403 Thu, 06 Apr 2006 15:38:20 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=403 403 2006-04-06 10:38:20 2006-04-06 15:38:20 open open draft 0 0 post 0 With a thankful heart... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=410 Tue, 09 May 2006 14:10:39 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=410 "Thou hast not that, My child, but Thou has Me, And am not I alone enough for thee? I know it all, know how thy heart was set Upon this joy which is not give yet. And well I know how through the wistful days Thou walkest all the dear familiar ways, As unregarded as a breath of air, But there in love and longing, always there. I know it all; but from thy brier shall blow a rose for others. If it were not so I would have told thee. Come, then, say to Me: My Lord, my Love, I am content with Thee." Also, Eric and Juana for giving me a CD by Twila Paris, entitled, "He is Exalted". My favorite song, although I love listening to them all, but the one that has stood out the most is, "God is in Control": This is no time for fear This is a time for faith and determination Don't lose the vision here Carried away by motion Hold on to all that you hide in your heart There is one thing that has always been true It holds the world together God is in control We believe that His children will not be forsaken God is in control We will choose to remember and never be shaken There is no power above or beside Him, we know God is in control History marches on There is a bottom line drawn across the ages Culture can make its plan Oh, but the line never changes No matter how the deception may fly There is one thing that has always been true It will be true forever He has never let yo down Why start to worry now? He is still the Lord of all we see And He is still the loving Father Watching over you and me Another thank you to Beth C. for sending us the sermon by John MacArthur, entitled, "The Role of Suffering" from II Corinthians chapter 12. It was such a powerful message. One of the points he made was that trials serve many purposes and they are as follows: To test our faith, to wean us off of worldly things, help us focu on eternal hope, reveal what we really love, teach us to value God's blessing, enables us to help others who suffer, they produce endurance, trials humble us, breaks our confidence. They produce the broken and contrite heart God wants us to have. Another point is that God uses suffering to draw us to Himself. Suffering has a way of increasing our prayer life and intensifies our prayer life. In II Co. 12:9, ..."my grace is sufficient for you.." God doesn't remove the issue of pain or trouble, but by the increasing the grace He gives. He gives comforting grace in the midst of a trial. Encouraging grace in the midst of pain. A confident grace. In Duet. 33:26 it says,"...He rides the heaven to your help..." There will always be sufficient grace to every issue. God doesn't promise to remove your trouble, pain, etc., but promises to overwhelm it with grace. How wonderful is that? How wonderful, awesome and powerful our God and Saviour is!!!!! My God has given me a wonderful husband, who is stronger than he realizes. I thank Him for such a man that is faithful through it all. My kids are indeed a joy and a blessing, most of the time. From the silly things they say to the serious questions they ask. One of my favorite times with them is just sitting and listening to them sing along with the music that plays. What a joy to hear them sing praises to our God. He's so very good. His provision for us, His loving care, His guidance and His continued mercy. One of my favorite verses is: Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father. But the very hairs of your head are numbered. Fear ye not therefore, ye are more valuable than many sparrows. --Matthew 10:29-31 I praise God for His love that is shown through family and friends, with their continued prayers and words of encouragement and the many helpful things they do. Thank you to each of you. Thank you for showing me God's love and your love, too. ]]> 410 2006-05-09 09:10:39 2006-05-09 14:10:39 open open draft 0 0 post 0 With a thankful heart... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=411 Tue, 09 May 2006 14:11:30 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=411 "Thou hast not that, My child, but Thou has Me, And am not I alone enough for thee? I know it all, know how thy heart was set Upon this joy which is not give yet. And well I know how through the wistful days Thou walkest all the dear familiar ways, As unregarded as a breath of air, But there in love and longing, always there. I know it all; but from thy brier shall blow a rose for others. If it were not so I would have told thee. Come, then, say to Me: My Lord, my Love, I am content with Thee." Also, Eric and Juana for giving me a CD by Twila Paris, entitled, "He is Exalted". My favorite song, although I love listening to them all, but the one that has stood out the most is, "God is in Control": This is no time for fear This is a time for faith and determination Don't lose the vision here Carried away by motion Hold on to all that you hide in your heart There is one thing that has always been true It holds the world together God is in control We believe that His children will not be forsaken God is in control We will choose to remember and never be shaken There is no power above or beside Him, we know God is in control History marches on There is a bottom line drawn across the ages Culture can make its plan Oh, but the line never changes No matter how the deception may fly There is one thing that has always been true It will be true forever He has never let yo down Why start to worry now? He is still the Lord of all we see And He is still the loving Father Watching over you and me Another thank you to Beth C. for sending us the sermon by John MacArthur, entitled, "The Role of Suffering" from II Corinthians chapter 12. It was such a powerful message. One of the points he made was that trials serve many purposes and they are as follows: To test our faith, to wean us off of worldly things, help us focu on eternal hope, reveal what we really love, teach us to value God's blessing, enables us to help others who suffer, they produce endurance, trials humble us, breaks our confidence. They produce the broken and contrite heart God wants us to have. Another point is that God uses suffering to draw us to Himself. Suffering has a way of increasing our prayer life and intensifies our prayer life. In II Co. 12:9, ..."my grace is sufficient for you.." God doesn't remove the issue of pain or trouble, but by the increasing the grace He gives. He gives comforting grace in the midst of a trial. Encouraging grace in the midst of pain. A confident grace. In Duet. 33:26 it says,"...He rides the heaven to your help..." There will always be sufficient grace to every issue. God doesn't promise to remove your trouble, pain, etc., but promises to overwhelm it with grace. How wonderful is that? How wonderful, awesome and powerful our God and Saviour is!!!!! My God has given me a wonderful husband, who is stronger than he realizes. I thank Him for such a man that is faithful through it all. My kids are indeed a joy and a blessing, most of the time. From the silly things they say to the serious questions they ask. One of my favorite times with them is just sitting and listening to them sing along with the music that plays. What a joy to hear them sing praises to our God. He's so very good. His provision for us, His loving care, His guidance and His continued mercy. One of my favorite verses is: Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father. But the very hairs of your head are numbered. Fear ye not therefore, ye are more valuable than many sparrows. --Matthew 10:29-31 I praise God for His love that is shown through family and friends, with their continued prayers and words of encouragement and the many helpful things they do. Thank you to each of you. Thank you for showing me God's love and your love, too. ]]> 411 2006-05-09 09:11:30 2006-05-09 14:11:30 open open draft 0 0 post 0 The Prodigal http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=419 Wed, 21 Jun 2006 11:56:47 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=419 something, we just weren't sure what. As "the big day" approached, he got more and more disrespectful and sullen. Wednesday, I began adding up things, and came to the conclusion that he was planning to pack up and move out. (He has no job, and two years of high school to go.) We've talked about this for years, because every time he lost his temper he considered it our fault and would often be in the process of packing and leaving, but for the past year it seemed that he'd finally become committed to the idea that high school needed to be finished and at least minimal adult responsibility experience gained before moving on with his "own" life. On Wednesday evening, he returned a CD of ours that he has had in his room for months, and gave Isaac and David at least one of the large Lord of the Rings action figures we'd given him. He'd also specifically "threatened" this at least twice recently, while spewing off his typical anger-laden invectives. Thursday morning, I noticed that all his stuff was still packed, and his television disconnected, after (as he has done at various times for the past decade) he had packed up all his things earlier in the week after an argument with Nichelle. On the way in to school, I said, "You know, you're going to break Naomi's heart, when you run away. And with her, you can't even pretend that she's wronged you in some way." Silence. That's what I got the rest of the trip to school, too. I parted with, "You know that shame you're feeling? It ought to be telling you something." Our assistant pastor, Mike Small, spent an hour and half with him that day; the closest John came to the truth is an admission, when promoted, that he had indeed been intentionally fomenting annoyance and argument, just so he could use our anger at him as justification that he needed to leave. I keep wanting to say, "He has no idea what a bad home is like," but he actually does; how he find ours to be the same is impossible to fathom. The sad thing is, with Nichelle so ill, this could have been his time to shine. He easily could have proven himself to be a helpful, contributing member of the family, shouldering responsibility while earning vast privilege; instead, he chose to become an incessant burden, intentionally engendering pointless strife.]]> 419 2006-06-21 06:56:47 2006-06-21 11:56:47 open open draft 0 0 post 0 The Refiner's Fire http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=421 Mon, 19 Jun 2006 13:10:07 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=421 Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him. (James 1:12, ESV) John turned 18 years old on Thursday. You are who you choose to be. Iron Giant
    There burns a fire with sacred heat White hot with holy flame And all who dare pass through its blaze Will not emerge the same Some as bronze, and some as silver Some as gold, then with great skill All are hammered by their sufferings On the anvil of His will Chorus: The Refiner's fire Has now become my souls desire Purged and cleansed and purified That the Lord be glorified He is consuming my soul Refining me, making me whole No matter what I may lose I choose the Refiner's fire I'm learning now to trust His touch To crave the fire's embrace For though my past with sin was etched His mercies did erase Each time His purging cleanses deeper I'm not sure that I'll survive Yet the strength in growing weaker Keeps my hungry soul alive
    In the last several of weeks, it had become apparent that something was seriously bothering him. He's reacted negatively to just about everything, shown unreasonable amounts of anger to tiny things, like David suggesting that his room was messy. He's been constantly criticising everything David and Isaac do, tormenting them constantly in tiny ways, and driving us crazy every time they were ordered to work together around the house. The Jerk-O-Meter was off the scale. These are all things that normally telegraph his guilt about something, we just weren't sure what. As "the big day" approached, he got more and more disrespectful and sullen. Wednesday, I began adding up things, and came to the conclusion that he was planning to pack up and move out. (He has no job, and two years of high school to go.) We've talked about this for years, because every time he lost his temper he considered it our fault and would often be in the process of packing and leaving, but for the past year it seemed that he'd finally become committed to the idea that high school needed to be finished and at least minimal adult responsibility experience gained before moving on with his "own" life. On Wednesday evening, he returned a CD of ours that he has had in his room for months, and gave Isaac and David at least one of the large Lord of the Rings action figures we'd given him. He'd also specifically "threatened" this at least twice recently, while spewing off his typical anger-laden invectives. Thursday morning, I noticed that all his stuff was still packed, and his television disconnected, after (as he has done at various times for the past decade) he had packed up all his things earlier in the week after an argument with Nichelle. On the way in to school, I said, "You know, you're going to break Naomi's heart, when you run away. And with her, you can't even pretend that she's wronged you in some way." Silence. That's what I got the rest of the trip to school, too. I parted with, "You know that shame you're feeling? It ought to be telling you something." Our assistant pastor, Mike Small, spent an hour and half with him that day; the closest John came to the truth is an admission, when promoted, that he had indeed been intentionally fomenting annoyance and argument, just so he could use our anger at him as justification that he needed to leave. I keep wanting to say, "He has no idea what a bad home is like," but he actually does; how he find ours to be the same is impossible to fathom. The sad thing is, with Nichelle so ill, this could have been his time to shine. He easily could have proven himself to be a helpful, contributing member of the family, shouldering responsibility while earning vast privilege; instead, he chose to become an incessant burden, intentionally engendering pointless strife, ]]>
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    Back to School http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=432 Thu, 24 Aug 2006 14:24:25 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=432 432 2006-08-24 09:24:25 2006-08-24 14:24:25 open open draft 0 0 post 0 Isaac Becomes a Father http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=439 Mon, 09 Oct 2006 04:05:10 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=439


    David at the Quechee Gorge, White River Junction, Vermont

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    Preparing for and Celebrating Naomi's 3rd birthday... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=441 Wed, 18 Oct 2006 12:56:49 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=441 441 2006-10-18 07:56:49 2006-10-18 12:56:49 open open draft 0 0 post 0 Fifteen years and counting ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=461 Tue, 09 Jan 2007 21:58:32 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=461 Sunset Hill House in Sugar Hill, N.H. What a spectacular place! (Phil, thanks so much for the recommendation.) I had reserved our room back in early December. Our anniversary is Dec. 28, and interestingly enough, the weather for our wedding was just as it's been: warm and sunny and (sadly) without snow. Although, Doug and I on Saturday took a nice long drive with the possibility of a hike on the Kangamangus Hwy, but it turned out to be a short walk with some cool photos and a slushball fight. Now that was super cool! I wasn't able to have a snowball fight last year (or even go out in the cold) due to the illness, so that was a bonus. Our room, actually rooms, were lovely with a fireplace in the living room and a balcony. I should also add the Jacuzzi was particulary nice. Our kids were well taken care of by friends, and they had a blast themselves. Many, many thanks to Phil, MJ, and Scotty for taking care of our kids to allow us an opportunity to get away and celebrate our 15 years together. God has truly blessed us, and we're looking forward to many more years together, unless one of us gets to cash in sooner. (All part of our humor, folks.) We've been kidding about this for years. It does keep things interesting ::evil laughter:: ]]> 461 2007-01-09 16:58:32 2007-01-09 21:58:32 open open draft 0 0 post 0 Books Read, 2009 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=589 Fri, 02 Jan 2009 22:42:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=589 Note: This list is in need of updating. In 2009, I was experimenting with tracking my reading via a Facebook plugin from LivingSocial, but have not transferred my list from there to here yet. The following books were read (or are being read) by Doug in 2009. Only Doug is weird enough to keep a list of the books he has read in a given year online.
    1. Fullmetal Alchemist, Volume 1 (Hiromu Arakawa)
    2. Wastelands: Stories of the Apocalypse (John Joseph Adams, editor)
    3. Time 1968: War Abroad, Riots at Home, Fallen Leaders and Lunar Dreams - The Year that Changed the World (with CD)
    4. Anathem (Neal Stephenson)

      Absolutely masterful. The best description I can find comes from the NYT Book Review: "[Stephenson] cares as much about telling good stories as he does about farming out cool idea.... [He] wants to blow your mind while keeping you fed and happy."

      Anathem is a work of hard science fiction, taking place on an planet somewhat similar to Earth. In describing this planet (called Arbre), Stephenson has completely envisioned the culture, history, and even language, the use of which throughout the book makes reading it a wonderfully immersive experience. Alternate histories abound in science fiction---enough to be considered cliché---but this should not be confused at all with that particular subgenre.

      Just like in Cryptonomicon, Stephenson applies his brilliance in explaining scientific concepts within the narrative. (His was the best explanation of public-key/private-key encryption that I've ever read.) The subject matter in this case deals with polycosms and quantum mechanics, wrapped up with intrigue, adventure, danger, and an absolutely fascinating world.

      I highly recommend this one.
    5. Moonwalker (Charlie and Dotty Duke)
    6. Journey from Texts to Translations, The: The Origin and Development of the Bible (Paul D. Wegner)
    7. Abandoned: Civil War Medicine: Care & Comfort of the Wounded (Robert Denney)

      Aside from a few amusing anecdotes, the presentation style of this book was so boring I realized I'd never get to the end of it. I returned it to its owner.
    8. Read aloud to the kids: Prince Caspian: The Return to Narnia (C. S. Lewis)
    9. The Heavenly Man: The Remarkable True Story of Chinese Christian Brother Yun (Brother Yun, with Paul Hattaway)
    10. Twilight (Twilight, Book 1) (Stephenie Meyer)
    11. The Hope (Herman Wouk)
    12. Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God (Francis Chan)
    13. Heirs of Empire (Dahak series) (David Weber). (Read as part of the single-bound volume, Empire From the Ashes.)
    14. The Armageddon Inheritance (David Weber). (Read as part of the single-bound volume, Empire From the Ashes.)
    15. Mutineer's Moon (Dahak Series) (David Weber). (Read as part of the single-bound volume, Empire From the Ashes.)
    16. Byzantium (Stephen R. Lawhead)
    17. Currently reading: The Physics of Christianity (Frank J. Tipler)
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    Books Read, 2010 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=902 Sun, 24 Jan 2010 19:41:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?page_id=902
  • The Zombie Survival Guide: Complete Protection from the Living Dead (Max Brooks)
  • Star Trek: Countdown TPB (J.J. Abrams, Robert Orci, Alex Kurtzman, Time Jones, Mike Johnson, and David Messina)
  • Time Travelers Never Die (Jack McDevitt)
  • Toys (How Things Have Changed) (Jon Richards)
  • The Road (Movie Tie-in Edition 2009) (Vintage International) (Cormac McCarthy)
  • Gil's All Fright Diner (A. Lee Martinez)
  • Outliers: The Story of Success (Malcolm Gladwell)

    The best book I've read in ages. This is a fascinating look on the factors that influence success, applied to diverse areas such as software development and hockey players. A would consider this a "must read."
  • Jam-Packed FoxTrot (Bill Amend)
  • Wrapped-Up FoxTrot: A Treasury with the Final Daily Strips (Foxtrot Collection) (Bill Amend)
  • The Physics of Christianity (Frank J. Tipler)
  • Flashforward (Robert J. Sawyer)
  • New Moon (The Twilight Saga, Book 2) (Stephenie Meyer)

    Well, once again, if one can put of with I-can't-figure-out-why-the-heroine-is-behaving-this-way and pining-for-Edward for half the book, this turns out to be an excellent adventure story, just like part 1. Obviously, I am well outside the expected demographic for this book's readers, but it's at least as entertaining as Harry Potter.
  • Ender in Exile (Orson Scott Card)

    A cerebral, classically "Ender" book, which fills in some important history that had been only hinted at. Well worthy of being read. Scott Card is up to par on this one.
  • The Hope (Herman Wouk)

    This book might have been more enjoyable if I were more familiar with the history of Israel; with my limited knowledge, I may be handicapped like someone from another planet reading 1776, although I think the real problem is, indeed, the writing. This work of historical fiction covers the period from Israel's founding in 1948 and its early battles for survival, though the Six Day War. Wouk appears to be credited with far more than he is worth, based on the presentation of the book and the reviewer comments. It isn't until the final 100 pages (the Six Day War itself) that the book actually becomes gripping. It remained just interesting enough to hold my attention as long as I periodically put it down and read a book or two in between chapters. Overall, Wouk chooses to tell his story through the lives of his characters, who seem to be universally incapable of marital fidelity, but none of whom I could remotely empathize with. Yawn.
  • House (Tracy Kidder)

    If I could, I'd have Kidder write my biography. The author of The Soul of a New Machine here presents the history of a house being designed and built. Few writers could make such a subject as fascinating as Kidder.
  • The Terrorist Watch: Inside the Desperate Race to Stop the Next Attack (Ronald Kessler)
  • The Time Ships (Stephen Baxter)

    Baxter does a marvelous job of writing in an appropriate style to continue the time-traveler's story from H.G. Wells' The Time Machine. This is a grand, enjoyable adventure with a hard science backing postulating on the impact of causality in a multiverse.
  • Flood (Stephen Baxter)
  • The Hunger Games (Suzanne Collins)

    High-school-level fiction isn't normally supposed to be this good. I started reading a copy I swiped from my son Isaac, and promptly ordered this book and its sequel from Amazon. Part Running Man (but better), part classic post-apocalyptia storytelling, part coming-of-age novel, Isaac and I both sacrificed hours of sleep (him reading six hours or more at a stretch) to get through these books as rapidly as possible, and have lamented that we have to wait another few months for the conclusion of the trilogy.
  • Catching Fire (The Second Book of the Hunger Games) (Suzanne Collins)
  • Odd Girl Out (Timothy Zahn)
  • The Blind Side: Evolution of a Game (Michael Lewis)
  • Between Two Worlds: Escape from Tyranny: Growing Up in the Shadow of Saddam (Zainab Salbi with Laurie Becklund)
  • Death from the Skies!: These Are the Ways the World Will End . . . (Philip Plait, Ph.D.)
  • Blood Covenant (Michael Franzese)
  • Boy: Tales of Childhood (Roald Dahl)
  • The LEGO Book (Daniel Lipkowitz)
  • Ghosts in the Bedroom: A Guide for the Partners of Incest Survivors (Ken Graber, M.A.)
  • I Never Told Anyone: Writings by Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse (Ellen Bass and Louise Thornton (eds.))
  • Gregor The Overlander (Underland Chronicles, Book 1) (Suzanne Collins)
  • LEGO Mindstorms NXT Power Programming: Robotics in C (John C. Hansen)
  • Ark (Stephen Baxter)
  • Mongrels, Bastards, Orphans, and Vagabonds: Mexican Immigration and the Future of Race in America (Gregory Rodriguez)
  • Gregor and the Prophecy of Bane (The Underland Chronicles, Book 2) (Suzanne Collins)
  • The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress (Robert A. Heinlein)
  • Bad Astronomy: Misconceptions and Misuses Revealed, from Astrology to the Moon Landing (Philip C. Plait)
  • Megatokyo: Vol. 06 (Fred Gallagher)
  • Darwin's Radio (Greg Bear)
  • Mockingjay (The Final Book of The Hunger Games) (Suzanne Collins)
  • Rework (Jason Fried and David Heinemeier Hansson)
  • Currently reading: Secret Survivors: Uncovering Incest and Its Aftereffects in Women (E. Sue Blume)
  • Currently Reading: Stranger In A Strange Land (Robert A. Heinlein)
  • Currently reading: The Church on the Other Side: Exploring the Radical Future of the Local Congregation (Brian D. McLaren)
  • Currently reading: Heaven (Randy Alcorn)
  • Currently reading: Eclipse (The Twilight Saga, Book 3) (Stephanie Meyer)
  • Currently reading: I'm with Stupid: One Man. One Woman. 10,000 Years of Misunderstanding Between the Sexes Cleared Right Up (Gene Weingarten and Gina Barreca)
  • Currently reading: Strong Winds And Crashing Waves (Terry Wardle)
  • Currently reading: Inside the Outbreaks: The Elite Medical Detectives of the Epidemic Intelligence Service (Mark Pendergrast)
  • Currently reading: The Appeal (John Grisham)
  • ]]>
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    The Wilcox Family BLOG is Up and Running http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=9 Thu, 20 Mar 2003 18:02:11 +0000 Doug /?p=9 For those of you who were wondering, a BLOG is a weB LOG.

    Lots of news to report:

    • Best news we've had in a while: Nichelle is feeling better, and consistently so. She still needs quite a bit of rest, but is starting to return to her workaholic tendencies.
       
    • The first ultrasound of the upcoming addition to the Wilcox family is done. The creature appears to be human, and doing well. Due date is sometime in October.

      Isaac believes this is much too long to wait, and says a month should be enough. I explained to him that babies take a long time to cook. He replied, "You mean develop, Dad.” I tried to weasel my way around that by explaining that he had to cook in an incubator for a month after he was born, but he didn't buy it.
       
    • We are probably going to take our house off the market when our contract expires in 10 days, and do some cosmetic work to bring it as close to perfect as we can, including the long-postponed finishing of the upstairs bathroom and probably replacing the kitchen cabinets and countertop. We still hope to move to Nashua before the baby is born.
       
    • Today the US began its campaign to free Iraq from their oppressive dicatatorship. Interested in what kind of regime we are trying to topple? Consider this article from the New Zealand Herald.
       
    • The Iraq war is a complex subject, and I'll post some more of my views on this big issue later. I am not really a fan of war, but there are times when it is necessary. Remember that Israel was severely criticized for taking out Iraq's nuclear research facility years ago, which proved to have been vital when we were forced to get the Iraqui's out of Kuwait. We pray that our leaders would have wisdom in this matter.
       
    • We have a new pet in the house. Isaac's leopard gecko died, apparently from old age, a few weeks ago. We now have an absolutely adorable crested gecko. This guy can climb smooth or rough vertical surfaces, change colors (light-green, sandy, or dark brown we've seen, and we expect to see red as he gets bigger). There are some fairly decent photos of these critters here.
       
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    Trivia Question: http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=10 Thu, 20 Mar 2003 15:25:00 +0000 Doug /?p=10 Which American President said the following:

    “If Saddam Hussein fails to comply and we fail to act or we take some ambiguous third route, which gives him yet more opportunities to develop his program of weapons of mass destruction and continue to press for the release of sanctions and ignore the commitments he's made? Well, he will conclude that the international community's lost its will. He will then conclude that he can go right on doing more to build an arsenal of devastating destruction. If we fail to respond today, Saddam and all those who would follow in his footsteps will be emboldened tomorrow. The stakes could not be higher. Some way, someday, I guarantee you he’ll use the arsenal.”

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    The dossier is in. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=11 Fri, 21 Mar 2003 02:06:34 +0000 Doug /?p=11 Sally Atkinson, a reporter and ICQ aquaintance in the UK, was kind enough to locate the dossier the British Government produced on Saddam (the report mentioned in the New Zealand Herald.). It’s entitled:

    A report on the human cost of Saddam’s policies
    by the Foreign & Commonwealth Office

    The file is in Adobe Acrobat format.

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    “Shock and Awe” Has Begun http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=12 Fri, 21 Mar 2003 18:54:14 +0000 Doug /?p=12 Brian Cortez directed me to the raw video feeds (some are live; some are looped) at http://reuters.feedroom.com/.

    The views of the explosions are terrific—in the older sense of the word (causing extreme terror).

    We continue to hope that the campaign will end quickly, and that Iraq will know freedom and democracy.

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    I am reminded of Robert A. Heinlein’s essay, “Pravda Means Truth”: http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=13 Sat, 22 Mar 2003 18:02:41 +0000 Doug /?p=13 “Iraq's Information Minister Mohammed Saeed al-Sahaf scoffed at the American statements declaring that the coalition forces have continued advancing into Iraq.” (From http://reuters.feedroom.com)

    Here’s a rough transcript of remarks by Iraq’s Information Minister:

    “Therefore, what had been mentioned in some stooge’s media is completely unbased, in regard to Kufasa [sp?], in regard to Kafou [sp?], and in regard to their stupid columns moving and now stopped fully, and they will be surrounded near Nassaria and near Ur, historical antiquities there.”

    That being said, I am reminded of the human cost of this war, both with the servicemen and woman who have died, and in the inevitable collateral damage.

    “The causalites on civilians up to now we have in hostpitals 207 injured children, women, and other civiliians. We are going to take you, if you like, to visit them.” (Mohammed Saeed al-Sahaf)

    This, of course, pales in comparison to the millions of his own people Saddam has been responsible for killing, including the 500,000 exterminated after the Gulf War.

    Regarding how accurate the specific targeting of regime facilities for propaganda, the KGB-like secret police, communication, and military sites, has been (at the exclusion of civilian infrastructure), U.K. Defense Secretary Geoff Hoon said, “The lights stayed on in Baghdad, but the instruments of tyrrany are collasping.”

    War, indeed, is a depressing subject. I continue to hope and pray for a rapid end to this conflict.

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    Isaac - Early Childhood Anecdote http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=302 Thu, 13 May 1993 20:42:08 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=302 thirteen finger?"]]> 302 1993-05-13 15:42:08 1993-05-13 20:42:08 open open issac-early-childhood-anecdote publish 0 0 post 0 418 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-06-04 20:38:18 2005-06-05 01:38:18 1 0 4 We're Gonna Be on TV---not---It's Another Identity Theft Scam---Or Perhaps Not! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=303 Wed, 08 Jun 2005 15:14:06 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=303 Important: Please read this related post as well. I've just received another e-mail from Andrew Harrison at FBC Media. The whole offer appears to be legitimate. It does seem that the e-mail originates from FBCMedia. However, my inquiries to TLC and DiverseTV UK had never yielded any responses. I did verify that the phone number provided for Roy Ackerman is legitimate, and expect to hear from him today. In addition, as Andrew indicates, the application form has been changed to no longer require the Social Security number and driver's license number. I also Googled diverseusa.tv, and found serveral links, one of which helps legitimize them. I think I was correct to be cautious, but in this case seem to have assigned blame to the innocent. Here's the text, while I look into the matter:
    Hello Doug (and to the rest of your family), I’ve been alerted by a couple of people about the entry on your blog concerning the email we sent you. It seems that your concerns about our request for families to participate in TLC’s new series have spread on the web. Many apologies to have caused you any alarm but I can assure you that the request to participate in the program is legitimate and not in any form an identity scam Let me explain: Diverse USA is the US-based production subsidiary of Diverse TV in the UK. I work for Diverse’s parent company FBC Media (www.fbcmedia.com). The casting notice in question pertains to a bona fide production for TLC. Additional information regarding the company and its various programs may be obtained at www.diverse.tv I’m enclosing (below) in the body of this email a scanned copy of a news story from Broadcast magazine, the UK television industry magazine, which confirms this and here’s a URL link to the story as well: http://www.broadcastnow.co.uk/frames/master.asp?sid=20&aid=150246 I’m in the slightly invidious position of trying to prove a negative to you: that I’m not an identity scammer. Please feel free to contact Diverse TV UK’s Creative Director, Roy Ackerman on 011 44 207 603 4567 to confirm my identity if you wish. (The number is also listed on Diverse TV’s website here: http://www.diverse.tv/home/contactprogrammes.asp). More urgently, I need you to correct the misinformation on your blog. Please can you call me at your earliest convenience on either my office number: 011 44 207038 0950 or on my cellphone [removed by Doug Wilcox] (I’m based in London and so 5 hours ahead of EST). Don’t worry about the cost – I’ll call you straight back. Alternatively if you shoot me an email with your contact telephone number I’ll call you. I’ve also changed our application form online so that at this stage we don’t request social security & driver’s license numbers. I can see how that might get people’s suspicion glands going. As you identify this could be used for identity theft. However your statement that nobody legitimate would ask for this information is incorrect, as you can see in the applications forms for other programs seeking applications from the general public. As one example here’s the application form for Fox’s Nanny 911 program http://www.fox.com/nanny911/info.htm. Our program is very different from Nanny 911 in terms of editorial content but we eventually we need the information for the same reason: to prove that people are who they say are (ironically). I was given advice to approach you via our attorneys. However I’m sure we can sort this out much more quickly and amicably without lawyers. After you’re satisfied that the original request is a legitimate one I’d be really grateful if you could pass that information on to your blog readers. I’d hate to see anyone missing out on the opportunity of a little advice from one of America’s leading parenting experts because of a mistaken belief. Andy Andrew Harrison FBC Media + 44 (0) 207 038 0950 www.fbcmedia.com
    Here is my original post:
    Subtitle: Thanks to one little boy, who never lost his mistrust. A couple of days ago, I received the following e-mail:
    From: Andy Harrison (address was aharrison@fbcmedia.com) To: Doug Wilcox (address removed) Sent: Tuesday, June 07, 2005 10:00 AM Subject: new TLC series Hello Doug, I was really interested in your family’s blog. You seem like you may be the kind of family we’re looking for for a new TLC series. After all, nobody’s got a monopoly of wisdom on bringing up our kids and we can all use a little help sometimes. Here’s the blurb on the series. I’d be really grateful if you could pass the information ion to anyone you think might be interested…
    • TLC show is looking for parents to share their secrets and learn a few new ones from the country's leading parenting experts. Are you clever parents who have come up against a new problem you don't know how to clever your way out of? The kids have been great, but recently they've changed and you're not sure how to deal with them? All good fodder for TLC's new show ‘Parent Coach’ based on a popular UK series, where experts will come to your home and work with you and your family with a variety of exercises and trainings to improve the family relationship. Want to know more? Email Brenda Della Casa at bdcasa@diverseusa.tv as soon as possible or checkout www.diverseusa.tv. Include names and ages of family members and a brief description of your current situation.
    Andrew Harrison FBC Media + 44 (0) 207 038 0950 www.fbcmedia.com
    Basically, this uses a fairly clever trick—capitalizing on people’s pride and desire for fame—to fool the reader into thinking his family is being considered for participation in an upcoming reality TV show. The link to www.diverseusa.tv certainly looks legitimate, although the real site for Diverse TV is http://www.diverse.tv/, without the usa in the name. Following the link provided takes one to an age verification page, which throws out the Diverse TV and TLC (The Learning Channel) logos, and even includes legitimate links to the TLC privacy policy. On the left is a screen shot from the fake Diverse TV site, on the right is a screen shot from the real site:

    Getting through the age verification, which is impossible to do in Firefox, brings one to a sign-up page which requests more information. Why is this nefarious? Check out http://www.diverseusa.tv/form.asp to see. The page requests lots of personally identifying information, including birthdates, names, Social Security numbers, driver's license numbers, contact information, and job descriptions for all the family members. No legitimate site would ask for all this information. The Social Security numbers, driver's license numbers, and birthdates are particularly to be avoided online. Further investigation, using a multiservice (including WHOIS) lookup tool, such as the one at www.domainwhitepages.com, will show that www.diverse.tv is indeed owned by Diverse Group Ltd., in London, whereas www.diverseusa.tv has no clear idenitfying information, but is being handled by a hosting company out of New York. I have already e-mailed the abuse e-mail box for the hosting company, and received an acknowledgment, but will never hear anything else back from them, as these go into a "legal black hole." I have also sent off another e-mail to a real Diverse TV e-mail address, to attempt to inform them. I also submitted the information via a Web form to The Learning Channel. Let the surfer beware! How would one write that in Latin?]]>
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    Identity Theft Scam---Apparently Not http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=311 Fri, 17 Jun 2005 12:23:12 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=311 post about FBC's new reality TV program. Take a look. It does appear to be legitimate. None of my questions have been answered by TLC, but my concerns about the Social Security and driver's license numbers have been addressed. This article comes from a content-protected site; use this link after you've registered.:
    Diverse sets up shop in New York Maria Esposito 16 June 2005 07:50 Diverse has won its first original commission in the US and opened a New York office to produce it. The London-based indie is in pre-production on parenting format Parent Coach (working title) for TLC. The 10 x 60-minute series will see an expert try to help couples with differing parenting styles. Executive producer Andy Harrison said the unnamed expert will be "less Mary Poppins and more Vin Diesel". Parent Coach was commissioned by TLC's new executive vice-president and general manager, David Abraham, and is being series produced by Ronnie Krensel, with Roy Ackerman as an executive producer. The series will air in a primetime slot early next year. Diverse will produce the show out of its New York office, which is currently housed by BBC America. The office is also in development with a number of undisclosed projects. Diverse, which also has an office in Bristol, is in talks with American broadcasters to bring its Channel 4 talent format Musicality to the US. Source:broadcastnow.co.uk
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    Isaac, a bike ride, and the police.... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=427 Fri, 30 Jun 2006 18:29:27 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=427 427 2006-06-30 13:29:27 2006-06-30 18:29:27 open open isaac-a-bike-ride-and-the-police private 0 0 post 0 3108 summitsp@hotmail.com http:// 4.233.164.214 2006-07-03 12:38:13 2006-07-03 17:38:13 1 0 9 3088 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-07-01 00:33:39 2006-07-01 05:33:39 That's when they attacked him. Although he's not obviously injuried, last night his nose and one side of his face were still uncomfortable enough to make it difficult for him to sleep on the side he prefers. It's disconcerting as a parent to find our children learning "the hard way" about how bad a place our sin-burdened world can be. My heart aches.]]> 1 0 2 3089 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 24.34.6.162 2006-07-01 18:21:52 2006-07-01 23:21:52 1 0 0 3090 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.120.25 2006-07-02 05:06:37 2006-07-02 10:06:37 1 0 0 3091 trish@inr.net 68.170.130.198 2006-07-02 23:27:04 2006-07-03 04:27:04 1 0 0 3086 MJCases4@aol.com 141.154.53.104 2006-06-30 14:27:44 2006-06-30 19:27:44 1 0 0 Getting Away with Evil: A Call for Action http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=464 Tue, 23 Jan 2007 20:08:46 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=464 Attorney General William H. Sorrell
    109 State Street
    Montpelier, VT 05609-1001

    Governor Jim Douglas
    109 State Street, Pavilion
    Montpelier, VT 05609-0101

    http://www.jonathancoulton.com/lyrics/someone-is-crazy http://www.benningtonbanner.com/headlines/ci_5028873 http://www.rutlandherald.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20070110/NEWS/70109002/1002 http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,243904,00.html]]>
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    Anatomy of a Train Wreck http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=471 Wed, 14 Feb 2007 20:23:57 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=471
    Photo of a train wreck in LaGrange, Illinois, from The Monkey Is Always Watching photoblog by Daniel Heath.

    A week ago I'm going to state this clearly: It was never my intent to question I have not once responded in anger. I would like to say that I have responded rationally to all accusations. However, strange as it may seem, I don't seem to have been accused of anything concrete doctrinally. What I wish I had done differently:
    • Not used hyperbole with an Independent Baptist Church audience. Despite the fact that this is an oft-used literary device (ask my Sunday school students), even by our own pastor, the people were not familiar enough with my teaching style to stop to listen beyond the radical statement.
    • Asked questions instead of making statements about semantics---I still have no idea (for several reasons) what specifically those most offended disagreed with. Had I introduced the topics with questions about specifically what people meant by certain phrases, they probably would have been lest hostile. (Several people disagree with me on this, believing I was doomed no matter how gentle my presentation.)
    • Not tried to put quite so much into the presentation.
    What I've learned: Never use hyperbole . Don't cram too much in God is sovereign, and will work all things to His glory. (Okay, I already knew that one.)]]>
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    Great Customer Service http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=475 Wed, 14 Mar 2007 14:02:52 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=475 475 2007-03-14 09:02:52 2007-03-14 14:02:52 open closed draft 0 0 post 0 The Necessity of Certainty http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=481 Tue, 01 May 2007 16:19:57 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=481 unibiblism---the idea that only one particular version of the Bible is an accurate translation in a particular language. Suprisingly, this is not a new belief. Throughout history, Most people seem to need certainty. This creates some interesting social areas. Star Trek episode.]]> 481 2007-05-01 11:19:57 2007-05-01 16:19:57 open closed draft 0 0 post 0 An amazing time in Alabama.... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=484 Tue, 08 May 2007 12:20:28 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=484 484 2007-05-08 07:20:28 2007-05-08 12:20:28 open closed draft 0 0 post 0 The Necessity of Certainty http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=508 Thu, 25 Oct 2007 19:55:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=508 508 2007-10-25 14:55:14 2007-10-25 19:55:14 open closed draft 0 0 post 0 The Weaker Vessel http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=531 Sat, 26 Apr 2008 23:39:37 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=531 531 2008-04-26 18:39:37 2008-04-26 23:39:37 open closed draft 0 0 post 0 Burning My Bridges http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=546 Wed, 16 Jul 2008 16:33:22 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=546 546 2008-07-16 11:33:22 2008-07-16 16:33:22 open closed draft 0 0 post 0 A Look Back to 2008 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=590 Wed, 14 Jan 2009 21:50:28 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=590 Go Fish DVD: Because of What's on the Line They Like Jesus but Not the Church They Like Jesus but Not the Church: Responding to Culture's Objections to Christianity Teaching Robotics Studying Mandarin Thanksgiving with John The Nutcracker ]]> 590 2009-01-14 16:50:28 2009-01-14 21:50:28 open closed draft 0 0 post 0 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=652 Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=652 The HAL (Hybrid Assistive Limb) Cybernetic Suit, Cyberdyne Corporation, Japan[/caption] ]]> 652 2009-04-10 08:41:18 0000-00-00 00:00:00 open closed draft 0 0 post 0 _edit_last Dharma Inititive Alarm Clock http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1033 Thu, 01 Jan 1970 00:00:00 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1033 ]]> 1033 2010-04-01 09:21:03 0000-00-00 00:00:00 open closed draft 0 0 post 0 _edit_last Thanks to the wonder of ultrasound imaging ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=14 Mon, 24 Mar 2003 02:46:12 +0000 Doug /?p=14 ultrasound image, 8-9 weeks #1 ultrasound image, 8-9 weeks #2 As usual, the technician felt the need to “correct” Nichelle’s name. Grrr.

    I told the kids if it’s not a girl, we’re not keeping it ...

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    Why does the weekend end so quickly? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=15 Mon, 24 Mar 2003 16:38:01 +0000 Doug /?p=15 Quite a bit going on this weekend. The primary task was to get a project for CenterWatch finished, including using a combination of MS Word's Table of Contents feature and some Excel formulae to generate an index of Companies by Therapeutic Specialty. I discovered a goof on my part; I needed to have one specific named style for the therapeutic specialities on each page, but not use that style for anything else on the page. Every time I would do a search-and-replace to fix this, Word would crash. Finally I gave up, created a second copy of the file, and deleted everything but the therapeutic specialties that was in the style I was trying to index. The section was, of course, 350 pages long! I'm making a list of notes for next year.

    We had some good family time for a change (with Nichelle sick/me overworked for the past couple of months). We watched the newly remastered Chitty-Chitty, Bang-Bang, which should have been in Widescreen, but has not been issued that way (except for the opening race scene and credits and closing credits). The sound and picture quality are superb, and the DVD features a cool “sing along” feature for the musical numbers. I need to start a Web petition going about the widescreen/pan-and-scan issue ... I’ve e-mailed MGM’s customer support several times, but not once received an answer.

    Sunday afternoon we watched the new Veggie Tales Jonah film. I should add that Nichelle and I both fell asleep partway through. The kids liked it. Big Idea did a good job of explaining what the job of an Old Testament prophet was. David, after his class on Sunday night, presented me with his coloring sheet of the 10 Commandments, and said, “This is a message from the Lord.”

    Sunday night I jumped over to www.shineband.com to make a quick edit (remarking out a live performance that had past). When I went to check my work, I discovered that the site had been defaced by some juvenile crackers with an obscene anti-war message. Apparenlty Interland had a little security problem sometime early Saturday morning. Other evidence indicates their mail server was commandeered as well. Just what John Harris needs—his site defaced on a day when people were likely to be visiting the site to get directions to the performance Saturday evening.

    The war news was negative for the first time so far. We have six people from our church on active military duty, plus another moved-away friend (he started riding our bus to church when he was in fourth grade—right now his neice is in Nichelle’s and my 4th grade Sunday school class.

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    The Tigers Pounce http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=16 Tue, 25 Mar 2003 18:48:59 +0000 Doug /?p=16 Today our MLS listing expired—We know this because the phone calls from other realtors have started coming in, asking if we want to list with them. One realtor even came to the house fairly early this morning!

    We have decided to let our current contract with our realtor expire (it ends at the end of this month), and re-list the house in a couple of months after we finish some cosmetics/minor repairs.

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    War ... (Swiped partly from www.psacake.com) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=17 Wed, 26 Mar 2003 02:33:55 +0000 Doug /?p=17 War ... (Swiped partly from psacake.com)

    Here are a few things to consider when talking about Iraq:

    • President Bush and Saddam Hussein ... Saddam is the bad guy. Read the Dossier.
    • If you have faith in the United Nations to do the right thing, keep this in mind: they have Libya heading the committee on human rights and Iraq heading the global disarmament commitee.
    • Even if you are Anti-War, you are still an “infidel,” and Bin Laden wants you dead, too.
    • If you believe in a “Vast right-wing conspiracy” but not in the danger that Hussein poses, well then, that explains a lot.
    • If you want to believe in a conspiracy, make it a big one.* Of some interest may be a RealVideo movie (downloadable from various sites) entitled 911: The Road To Tyranny. I will leave you to find it on your own.
    • It’s all about a regime change. Hussein poses a danger to everyone.
    • Whether you are for military action or not, our men and women are overseas fighting for us to defend our right to speak out. We all need to support them without reservation.
    • It’s no wonder the Iraqis don’t trust us. We encouraged uprisings against Saddam in the Gulf War, and failed to back them up immediately afterward, essentially condemning them to torture and death.
    • “And when ye shall hear of wars and rumours of wars, be ye not troubled: for such things must needs be; but the end shall not be yet.” (Mark 13:7)

    *For the record, I’m not looking for conspiracies around every corner, but the Bible does predict a global, tyrannical government under “The Beast.” What isn’t prophesied is when this will occur. Historically, religious leaders have repeatedly been proven wrong by setting a specific date on these events.

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    ki makes some very valid points. I had taken a very brief glance at the site mentioned, looking specifically for the NWO film. I did not examine it closely enough, and had no idea that it proported, for example, that the Holocaust did not occur.
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    People Will Believe Anything, 2 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=19 Thu, 27 Mar 2003 14:22:46 +0000 Doug /?p=19 I’m going to try to stay out of trouble today, after yesterday’s fiasco of pointing to an extremely inaccurate and anti-semitic conspiracy page.

    I have always found the Urban Legends section of about.com (formerly The Mining Company) immensely entertaining. It’s also extremely useful in debunking the ever-present hoax virus warnings and too-good-to-be-true “Forward This to Everyone on Your List” e-mails.

    Why are anti-NWO conspiracy theorists typically anti-semitic?

    This may fall under the unanswerable questions category, like “Why did The Man in the High Castle win a Hugo award?” but ki pointed out that many global conspiracy theorists and their organizations are strongly anti-semitic. This makes little sense to me, as this future New World Order is, according to Scripture, going to be anti-semitic itself—attempting (and failing) to destroy Israel. Ki suggested that I am looking for logic and reason where none exist.

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    The Geneva What? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=20 Thu, 27 Mar 2003 18:27:42 +0000 Doug /?p=20 A sad day … U.S. fears soldiers executed … Blair also suspects Iraq killed two British POWs.

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    MyDomain Forwarding Problems—Another Casualty of War http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=21 Thu, 27 Mar 2003 23:32:20 +0000 Doug /?p=21 See http://forum.mydomain.com/viewtopic.php?t=1537

    The mydomain forwarding service is currently experiencing problems and will be taken down temporarily because of a DOS attack. Specifically, the domain, ALJAZEERA.NET, is currently pointed to the mydomain service and causing service problems.

    The forwarding pool which usually has an average of 600 connection setups/second this time of the day shot to over 8,000 connection setups per second. As more and more people discovered the new Ip the connections continued to climb. Our A records have 30 minute TTL's and we have propagated a new zone with null values for the problem domain. We will lift our ACL's as soon as we can.

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    Do we tend to act too soon or too late? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=22 Fri, 28 Mar 2003 14:44:00 +0000 Doug /?p=22

    [I]t was the United States—under Bill Clinton, for those of you keeping score at home—that worked hardest to prevent UN intervention or even from saying the word “genocide” in any official documents.

    Read Samantha Powers’ prize-winning account of this, A Problem from Hell, if you doubt this. It is just this kind of combination of ignorance and arrogance that gives rise to anti-Americanism, and no wonder. (And by the way, the Rwanda episode is by far the most shameful act undertaken by Clinton and company.

    —Eric Alterman, MSNBC

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    Wake up, Neo . . . http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=23 Fri, 28 Mar 2003 18:34:01 +0000 Doug /?p=23 It’s going to be a great (and long-awaited) summer for fans of The Matrix. Two parts of a series of animated short sequences have been released (and are available for download or via streaming), with more coming soon. The animation was done by Square, the folks who brought us the luscious Final Fantasy: The Spirits Within film.

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    Daaaaaaaaaaaagnabbit! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=24 Tue, 01 Apr 2003 02:47:04 +0000 Doug /?p=24 My workday ended with a whimper—demonstrating that I was missing a piece in my understanding of the data translator portion of the stuff we’re working on.

    Then, I got an e-mail at home saying the CenterWatch project was not quite finished. Just a few revisions in the entire book, including two chapers that seem to have mismatched fonts.

    At supper time, David’s question of the day was, “Where does the sun go at night?” His answer was quite interesting, more or less along the lines of the sun goes into space at night and comes out into the sky at daytime. There was something thrown in about gravity pulling it down. I demonstrated what really happens using a flashlight and a coffee cup, then remembered I had a globe in the basement, which would be even better for demonstration.

    I got down in the basement to find 3 or more inches of water throughout, meaning that when John told me on Saturday the “thing was flooded” he meant it. (I thought we’d just had a puddle on the non-sump-pump end.)

    After wrestling with the sump pump for a few minutes (thankfully it wasn’t bolted to the floor), I discovered the float on the float switch had become detached from the shaft. Now it’s back working, but life was full of surprises today.

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    The keys for the what? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=25 Wed, 02 Apr 2003 16:19:16 +0000 Doug /?p=25 This morning Nichelle was extremely kind, and took Isaac to school so I could sleep about another hour—trust me, I needed to.

    Anyway, around 8:00 am, David knocked on the door, and I told him to come in. He had a set of keys from some toy handcuffs that had come with a police role-playing kit he’d been given. Now, understand that David is quite advanced in his speech for his age, so I was ROTFL when he said, he had the keys, but couldn’t find the cheese puffs they went to.

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    Of all the stupid things ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=26 Fri, 04 Apr 2003 16:33:17 +0000 Doug /?p=26 Yesterday I went a little out of my way on my way to pick up a package from www.thinkgeek.com at Airborne in Newton, just so I would have the item I ordered to bring into the office today, instead of waiting for it to be shipped to my house today.

    This item would have assured my dominance in the hierarchy of Geekdom—although Kevin Miller would probably argue that I need not worry about my position in that respect.

    Anyway, the item was indeed as cool as I expected, but guess what I left at home this morning!?

    Any takers on guessing what I actually ordered?

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    Back Home and Charged Up About .NET http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=27 Tue, 08 Apr 2003 23:52:37 +0000 Doug /?p=27 I just got back from Kronos’ first-ever Technology Summit. It was a great event, filled with very useful mini-seminars, and mostly free of the “fluff” that seems to plague most corporations’ attempts at such an event.

    At any rate, the last seminar I attended was run by a Microsoft consultant, and opened my eyes to just how cool .NET is, and how radically different it is from other Microsoft our-way-or-the-highway approaches to technology.

    I’m going to give the ASP .NET Web Matrix Tool (a free product, although the full Visual InterDev .NET is available as trialware) a whirl, if I have time.

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    Not likely to get the Lego seal of approval ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=28 Wed, 09 Apr 2003 17:53:02 +0000 Doug /?p=28 Kevin Ilsen directed me to www.blockdeath.com. Yes, there are many people with waaaaay too much time on their hands.

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    Today’s gem from the DNRC Newsletter http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=31 Thu, 10 Apr 2003 19:50:56 +0000 Doug /?p=31

    From the Dogbert’s New Ruling Class newsletter:

    A co-worker was lamenting the fact that she got a speeding ticket on her way to and from traffic court. She concluded with, “I’ve had such a run of bad luck.”

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    Goodbye to Los Quinlan http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=33 Tue, 15 Apr 2003 15:51:47 +0000 Doug /?p=33 It’s a sad day for us, albeit for a good reason. Eric and Juana Quinlan, along with their sons James and John, are moving today to Georgia, to enroll in college for deaf ministries. Their goal is to work with ministries for the deaf in and around Santo Domingo, in the Dominican Republic.

    Eric has been my closest friend since early high school, and our families are very close.

    I was actually somewhat responsible for Eric meeting Juana, way back when she was Juana Evangelista del Corazón de Jesus Gonzalez Guerrero, but I will save that story for later.

    We will miss them greatly.

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    ThinkGeek.com April Fools Links http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=34 Thu, 17 Apr 2003 17:50:01 +0000 Doug /?p=34 For those of you who missed them, here are links to the amusing, and geeky, not-really-for-sale pages from ThinkGeek.com:

    Enjoy, and let me know what your favorite item(s) are.

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    Prey http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=35 Tue, 22 Apr 2003 00:01:41 +0000 Doug /?p=35 [book]I started and finished reading Michael Crichton’s Prey this weekend, which will give you some idea of how good it was. It was not as scary as Richard Preston’s The Demon in the Freezer: A True Story, but it was not really meant to be. Overall, the story was well-paced and engrossing, but not quite as good as my favorite recent Crichton, Timeline.

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    35 2003-04-21 19:01:41 2003-04-22 00:01:41 open open prey publish 0 0 post 0 541 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-08-11 10:24:40 2005-08-11 15:24:40 Prey was a swarm of nanomachines that could work together to form essentially an electronic eye, to be used in medical imaging or surveillance. Although not expressed in nanotech:
    British researchers are turning to Linux and embedded processors to build a fleet of tiny, robotic helicopters capable of swarming like angry bees and evaluating their surroundings with a single hive mind.
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    Out of the Mouth of Babes http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=36 Tue, 22 Apr 2003 00:11:05 +0000 Doug /?p=36 As we reflected on the day we set aside to celebrate the Resurrection, Nichelle asked David (age 4) what he had learned in Sunday school. He talked about Jesus being buried described the tomb, and said, “Then Jesus used His ‘rise up power.’”

    I don’t think I’ve ever heard an adult explain it better.

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    You think Boston traffic officers are tough?—Try Britain http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=37 Wed, 23 Apr 2003 17:17:19 +0000 Doug /?p=37 Read this from Reuters. :)

    I once got a parking ticket when the fuel pump died on a car I was using; I managed to coast off I-93 at the Government Center exit, and park behind the first legal parking space on the right. This was way before everyone’s dog had his own cell phone, and I had to leave the car to make phone calls, so I left a note on the dash. I thought about leaving the keys in the car so the traffic officer could verify that it really was a breakdown, but then someone would probably have taken the keys or locked them in the car. Obviously, when I got back to the car, it had been ticketed. Next time I’ll just cause a massive traffic jam.

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    The Fastest Computer http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=38 Fri, 25 Apr 2003 14:27:03 +0000 Nichelle /?p=38

    To quote a famous Bloom County comic strip: “Just what your four-year-old needs to compete in today’s cutthroat world of high-tech and high expectations…”

    Nichelle here: We have a few people that come over to use our computers from time to time. One person, named Kherna, has used it on several different occasions. This morning David asked me, “which computer does Kherna use?” I pointed to the one on the right (we have two side-by-side), and his response was, “Why? That’s not the fastest!” I thought that was quite cute, seeing that he’s only 4 and knows the difference.

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    Isaac is 8 Years Old Today http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=39 Mon, 28 Apr 2003 03:19:06 +0000 Doug /?p=39 Isaac turned 8 today. It seems like so little time ago he was born at Brigham and Women’s Hospital in Boston, delivered 2 months early and at just under three pounds (due to Nichelle developing preeclampsia), after I made the still-talked-about mistake of having her read Ray Bradbury’s short story, “The Small Assasin.” I thought she would find it ironic, given the situation. Wrong!

    BLOG Updates

    The BLOG has gotten a bit older, too. I’ve added a navigation structure (10 entries per page, now), and the masthead.

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    24 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=40 Mon, 28 Apr 2003 15:21:20 +0000 Nichelle /?p=40 Nichelle here: I noticed my husband has failed to mention the rather noisy incident that happened the other night. Well, I'll be nice and fill you all in. Well, Doug and I were recently introduced to a fairly new show, which is now in the second season, called 24 w/ Keiffer Sutherland. Well, the show is very addicting and extremely intense. We love it. Well, back to the noise, which made me heave myself off the couch and bolt upstairs to find Isaac on the floor crying. He fell out of his top bunk. Well, Doug eventually made it upstairs to see what happened. I was later informed that he was trying to figure out what to do. He could only see himself needing to take a child to the hospital and missing the last half of the episode. The funny thing is we have the whole first season on DVD!!!! He only needed to pause for a moment, but I did mention that the show is really intense...LOL Well, Isaac did hurt himself, but nothing to take him to the hospital. He's fine now. Oh, we haven't yet finished the episode, but we did get another friend hooked on the show, by showing him the first two episodes.]]> 40 2003-04-28 10:21:20 2003-04-28 15:21:20 open open 24 publish 0 0 post 0 43 158.228.58.123 2003-05-16 00:08:00 2003-05-16 00:00:00 The Matrix: Reloaded tonight.]]> 1 0 0 44 192.168.2.34 2003-05-18 00:09:00 2003-05-18 00:00:00 1 0 0 69 158.228.58.123 2003-06-20 00:10:00 2003-06-20 00:00:00 http://www.reuters.com/newsArticle.jhtml?type=oddlyEnoughNews&storyID=2961566. “At one point we were in the president's waiting room, and even senators came up to me and said, ‘Mr. President, may I have your autograph?’ And the strangest part was, I felt comfortable.” —DENNIS HAYSBERT, who plays the U.S. president on the TV thriller "24," after a visit to Washington D.C., in Back Stage.]]> 1 0 0 70 158.228.58.123 2003-06-20 00:11:00 2003-06-20 00:00:00 ]]> 1 0 0 84 192.168.2.34 2003-07-05 00:12:00 2003-07-05 00:00:00 1 0 0 109 158.228.58.123 2003-09-30 00:13:00 2003-09-30 00:00:00 1 0 0 34 139.177.224.128 2003-05-01 00:07:00 2003-05-01 00:00:00 1 0 0 33 158.228.56.221 2003-05-01 00:06:00 2003-05-01 00:00:00 Matrix films at the theatre for the twenty-second time, and early enough to keep us busy waiting for the special edition release of The Two Towers (Is there a date on that yet?) and the film release of The Return of the King.]]> 1 0 0 32 139.177.224.128 2003-05-01 00:05:00 2003-05-01 00:00:00 1 0 0 30 158.228.56.221 2003-04-29 00:04:00 2003-04-29 00:00:00 own the first season of “24” on DVD.]]> 1 0 0 29 66.56.96.162 2003-04-29 00:03:00 2003-04-29 00:00:00 1 0 0 25 158.228.56.221 2003-04-28 00:01:00 2003-04-28 00:00:00 1 0 0 28 192.168.2.34 2003-04-28 00:02:00 2003-04-28 00:00:00 1 0 0 1732 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-23 14:28:03 2006-01-23 19:28:03 The Worst Day Ever: A 24 writer talks about torture, terrorism, and fudging "real time. Thanks to Phil Luchon for the link.]]> 1 0 2 The HTML <BLINK> Tag http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=41 Tue, 29 Apr 2003 19:56:39 +0000 Doug /?p=41 Enough said! (Or, as many of the teens on our Sunday school bus would say, “True that!”

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    Nightmares About Dinosaurs—An Unusual Solution http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=42 Thu, 01 May 2003 22:30:12 +0000 Doug /?p=42 Most children are fascinated with dinosaurs, and our boys are no exception. However, when David was three years old, he kept having recurring nightmares, from which he would awake screaming and generally require staying in bed with us, about dinosaurs.

    To complicate matters, he kept begging to watch Jurassic Park, having seen the dinosaur pictured on the DVD case. Of course, given his nightmares (and having some negative leanings toward showing somewhat-violent programming to small children), we did not grant his request.

    But the nightmares continued for weeks. Finally, I reasoned, he was already having nightmares about the dinosaurs, what harm could there be in letting him watch Jurassic Park? As I recall, we did skip over the scene where the T-Rex attacks the jeep with the kids in it.

    After watching the film (actually, after watching all three JP films), his nightmares went away. Go figure.

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    The Two Towers DVD Release Dates! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=44 Fri, 02 May 2003 02:24:30 +0000 Doug /?p=44 See the official Lord of the Rings Web site for more details, but we have the regular DVD (and—ugh—VHS) release on August 26, an extended edition on November 18, and, of course, we’re counting down to The Return of the King in theatres on December 17.

    Woo-hoo!

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    In Memory of Elizabeth Camplese http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=45 Sun, 04 May 2003 21:17:43 +0000 Doug /?p=45 Note: I’ve created a second site now as a living memorial for Beth. It’s at http://camplese.wilcoxfamily.net/.

    We received a phone call today from Christy-Sue Olson, a classmate I haven’t seen since junior high school, with some sad news. Beth Camplese, who lived just about across the street from where I grew up in Easton, passed away at Mass. General Hospital on May 1, succumbing to a battle with lymphoma, complicated by pneumonia and infections. (I think we all expected her to outlive us, if by nothing else than sheer stubborness.)

    A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, May 7, 2003, from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m., at the Copeland Funeral Home, 38 Center Street, North Easton, Ma.

    In respect for Beth’s wishes (and in lieu of flowers), a scholarship fund in honor of Beth’s lifelong devotion to teaching has been set up. Donations may be made to the Elizabeth Camplese Scholarship Fund, c/o Washington Irving School, 105 Cummings Hwy., Roslindale, MA 02131 (617-635-8072).

    Beth was a teacher at the Washington Irving Middle School in Boston. She was a fascinating person, with a fiercely independent spirit, a wide range of talents, a love for books, a willingness to share what she had, and a complete lack of prejudice of any kind.

    She enjoyed taking care of animals, including, among the years, sheep, goats, a retried race horse, dogs, and geese. (The meter readers used to hate going to her house.)

    Following are a few (of many) memories I have of her.

    • Her house was full of books. In fact, she started a book store at the Washington Irving School, and I would sometimes buy some titles of interest from her to aid the bookstore, called “The WISE Place.” One book she refused to sell to me was a copy of Cervantes’ Don Quixote, in Spanish, published in Barcelona—I kept haggling, but she never relented.
    • When I was in elementary school, I remember repeated run-ins with her sheep, especially one particularly ornery one named Saffy—Sheep can kick, and this one seemed to enjoy kicking me repeatedly.
    • My brother, Aaron, when he was only 2 or 3, had one of her geese grab his coat through the fence, and it just wouldn’t let go. (Maybe the coat was goose down?) Better his coat than his fingers, I suppose.
    • When I left for college, my parents moved to Florida. Beth let me store my things in a room at her place. I made 17 trips over, but her kindness let me hang on to many things that otherwise would have been lost.
    • One time someone snatched her purse on the subway, and she chased him down. I don’t think she caught him, and remember her friends were mortified. “What if he’d had a gun?” I doubt that would have impeded her retribution. It might have been better to ask, “What if she’d caught up with him?”
    • My favorite story regards her long-standing problem with dozens of pigeons taking up roost in her eaves and gutters. They made a terrible mess of her house for years. My wife, Nichelle, and I, when our son, Isaac, was an infant, were visiting her, when I asked, “What happened to the pigeons?” She replied with a wicked gleam and a laugh, “I shot them all.” She had done exactly that, over a period of weeks.

    The world is a poorer place without her.

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    David Gets me In Trouble (Again) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=46 Thu, 08 May 2003 14:37:50 +0000 Doug /?p=46 Our 4-year-old son [david]David has always been a “people person,” even when only 2 or 3 years old. He is typically the one to notice when Nichelle has a new dress or hair style. I get in trouble for failing to notice such things like the house being cleaned (to me it always appears clean).

    So, Nichelle has been doing some finish work on our upstairs bathroom, as part of getting the house ready to go on the market again. When I got home from work, I was ordered to go take a look at the bathroom. It looked good, and I said so. I pointed out that a lighter color, perhaps a floral pattern, would improve the darker sponge-painted border Nichelle had created. David, of course, trumped me. “Oh, Mom, it’s beautiful!” That little weasel.

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    Clean Up America, Anyone? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=47 Wed, 14 May 2003 01:46:23 +0000 Doug /?p=47 Tonight I pulled into Wal*Mart to grab a few essentials, and watched the woman in the opposite space power down her window, and dump trash into the parking lot.

    It really made me angry, although I didn’t say anything to her. (I can envision being less restrained as I age.) What I should have done (but didn’t think of at the time) is grab a spare bag from my car, and go over and pick up the trash. Of course, someone who isn’t ashamed to dump trash out of her car might not be shamed by having to watch a volunteer pick it up, but it would have been worth a try. Next time …

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    So, you wanted to go to Mordor? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=48 Wed, 14 May 2003 20:14:57 +0000 Doug /?p=48 QuestMap can make your journey a lot easier. My thanks to Kevin Miller for this link.

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    Stinkin’ Clouds! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=49 Fri, 16 May 2003 14:11:35 +0000 Doug /?p=49 Last night we were all psyched up to watch the full lunar eclipse. An hour before it would have begun, the sky was relatively clear. An hour later, completely obscured. I was disappointed, but not as much as my friend Phil, who’s never seen one.

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    The Matrix Reloaded http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=50 Sat, 17 May 2003 04:32:56 +0000 Doug /?p=50 [doug]Note: I have tried to keep this as spoiler-free as possible. In the first 15 minutes of the film, I wasn’t actually sure I was going to like it. Although the opening featured quite a good look at the long-mysterious city of Zion, it was mixed with a somewhat drawn-out combination of scenes of a mass dance ritual in the “Temple,” (a bit reminiscent of some parts of Kim Stanley Robinson’s Red/Green/Blue Mars trilogy) intermixed with an uncomfortably erotic scene with Neo and Trinity. After that, though, things really took off.

    Reloaded is significantly more complex than The Matrix. Obviously, the war against The System is not over, the machines have improved themselves somewhat, and much is revealed about how various programs operate within the system, and about the world of the Matrix in general. We are also given a much better understanding of how Morpheus and his crew fit in (or fail to fit in) against the backdrop of Zion’s culture and its military and political leaders. The origins or reasons for existence of some key charactes and “programs” are explained, but without the horribly unfitting and disappointing treatment Lucas gave to the Force with his Midichlorian explanation in Star Wars Episode I: The Phantom Menace.

    There were a few disappointments, but not many: One of my favorite characters is not there—although his absence is explained. The background music is not as fitting (or as good) in several places, and sound effects were not quite as good as before, although I have been spoiled by viewing The Matrix in Dolby 5.1 surround at home where every bullet shell casing hitting the ground can be heard, and my son John [john inline] complains that the bass rattles stuff off his desk upstairs. To a certain extent, mostly due to the film’s larger scope and greater number of both protagonists and antagonists, the film, at times, feels to have been run by a different director.

    The combat scenes (and we’ve all been jaded by knock-offs in everything from Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon to Shrek) were astonishingly well done, intense, and wonderfully choreographed—truly beyond anything I’ve seen on film. It was not the “same old, same old.” The depth of plot and concept far exceed the first film, and overall it requires far more thought cycles to process. Ultimately, this is an amazing film.

    Coming in November, The Matrix Revolutions (and if you are patient enough to sit through the credits and music that reminds me of Erci’s cube at MediVation, you’ll be treated to a preview of what is to come).

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    50 2003-05-16 23:32:56 2003-05-17 04:32:56 open open the-matrix-reloaded publish 0 0 post 0 45 158.228.58.123 2003-05-19 00:01:00 2003-05-19 00:00:00 Reloaded in six auditoriums. They were (according to my friend Phil) sold out through Monday (tdoay), as of 8:00 p.m. on Friday, when we attended.]]> 1 0 0 46 158.228.58.123 2003-05-19 00:02:00 2003-05-19 00:00:00 The Register.]]> 1 0 0 47 158.228.58.123 2003-05-19 00:03:00 2003-05-19 00:00:00 Note: I haven’t been able to verify this yet via the Arizona Republic site.)]]> 1 0 0 49 158.228.58.123 2003-05-21 00:04:00 2003-05-21 00:00:00 Matrix films and Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, so it probably was unfair to refer to Crouching Tiger as a Matrix knock-off. Yuen Wo Ping has a very large list of names you might find him credited as. For more information, see his bio on the official Matrix Reloaded site, as well as in the Internet Movie Database.]]> 1 0 0
    Sailing to Byzantium http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=51 Wed, 21 May 2003 14:37:35 +0000 Doug /?p=51 [book][doug]Kevin Miller loaned me a copy of Sailing To Byzantium (published by ibooks, a truly excellent collection of science fiction novellas by Robert Silverberg. I would highly recommend this book, even to those who are not diehard science fiction fans. I think the only Silverberg I own is Sunrise on Mercury, but reading Byzantium makes me want to go back and re-read it. (Sadly, its buried deep in our packed-for-the-move book boxes.)

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    We Were Soldiers Once … and Young http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=52 Thu, 22 May 2003 16:04:15 +0000 Doug /?p=52 [book][film][doug]Seems to be a good week for finishing books. We Were Soldiers Once … and Young—Ia Drang: The Battle That Changed the War in Vietnam, by Lt. Gen. Harold G. Moore (Ret.) and Joseph L. Galloway, is the book on which the film We Were Soldiers is based.

    The film, although gritty and graphic, is probably one of the finest war films ever made, and actually does a better job of integrating the stateside events and human drama with the events on the battlefield than does the book. The book, of course, is more detailed than the film, although I was surprised at the high level of accuracy the film obtained—many historically-based films tend to sacrifice accuracy for drama.

    The book covers the events portrayed on screen, including a second (or perhaps continuing) battle that happened nearby shortly after the primary battle ended.

    Both book and film are excellent, illustrating the importance of training, leadership, and coordination of forces that are vital to a successful campaign. The book included a criticism that was not in the film—Due to President Johnson’s failure to declare a state of emergency and extend the active-duty tours of draftees and reserve officers, any soldier who had less than 60 days to serve on his enlistment would not be deployed with the First Air Cavalry. This left them both understaffed and cost many of their best-trained men.

    There were other Presidential errors as well—the North Vietnamese were allowed to retreat as needed into nearby Cambodia; US forces were forbidden to follow. Overall, though, these are mentioned more for historical background than anything else.

    Due to the improved emotional story of the film, I would actually recommend seeing the film before reading the book—something I would rarely prescribe.

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    War of the Robots http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=53 Fri, 23 May 2003 14:30:25 +0000 Doug /?p=53 The science fiction dealing with robotsis is slowly becoming a reality. This article from Reuters deals with the war of technology, and technology’s contribution to battlefield and civilian rescue technology.

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    The Top 10 Things I Hate About Star Trek http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=54 Fri, 23 May 2003 15:25:39 +0000 Doug /?p=54 [doug]Okay, I’m really a fairly big Star Trek fan, despite being very disappointed by the latest film, but this list on the Happy Fun Pundit site is too delicious to pass up. Somewhere down the page you’ll find my own comments.

    Here’s item one from the list, to give you a sample:

    Noisy doors.

    You can't walk three feet in a starship without some door whooshing or screeching at you. My office building has automatic sliding doors. They're dead silent. If those doors went “wheet!” every time a person walked through them, about once a month some guy in accounting would snap and go on a shooting rampage. Sorry Scotty, the IEEE has revoked your membership until you learn to master WD-40.

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    A View Too Good to Pass Up http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=55 Fri, 23 May 2003 18:39:45 +0000 Doug /?p=55 Well, last week’s lunar eclipse was clouded out, but this view of Earth and Jupiter from the Mars Orbital Camera on the Mars Global Surveyor is pretty darn cool, and helps compensate [somewhat] for the missed eclipse.

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    Now This Is Just Plain Wrong http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=56 Tue, 27 May 2003 18:02:14 +0000 Doug /?p=56 In Denver, a judge overturned a convicted murderer’s death sentence because jurors consulted Biblical passages such as “an eye for an eye” while they were sequestered during death-penalty deliberations.

    For the record, Robert Harlan was convicted in 1995 for murdering Rhonda Maloney, a waitress who was driving home from work, and shooting and paralyzing good Samaritan Jaquie Creazzo who tried to come to the woman’s aid.

    The full article is available at Reuters.

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    One Thing I Overlooked! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=57 Fri, 30 May 2003 02:57:08 +0000 Doug /?p=57 One can now add responses to the items that are “perm-a-linked” and/or in the Hot Topics list.

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    Thank you, Mr. Greene! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=59 Sat, 31 May 2003 16:15:48 +0000 Doug /?p=59 Mark Greene (a master of all things related to databases) was kind enough to diagnose our ailing SQL string that was preventing certain numbers from being found. Thanks, Mark!

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    The Amazing Geckoman http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=60 Mon, 02 Jun 2003 18:38:21 +0000 Doug /?p=60 Scientists in the UK have created a sticky tape which works in the same way as gecko feet.

    Co-worker Brian Cortez sent me this link from the BBC, about a tape that has been developed that works using microscopic hairs, just like a gecko’s feet. (Isaac owns a New Caledonian crested gecko, and they are amazing climbers.)

    There are still significant technical challenges to overcome before this can be mass-produced, but Brian suggested this likely scenario at the WIlcox house:

    I can see the toy manufacturers drooling over this one. Imagine being able to sell a set of real “Spiderman” gloves! I can also imagine you as a parent telling your son Isaac to get off the ceiling … it’s dinner time. :)
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    So, you really want to know how the Google search engine works, do you? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=61 Mon, 02 Jun 2003 22:25:33 +0000 Doug /?p=61 Check this out.

    You may also be interested in some of the other Google settings, most people ignore, especially some very amusing language settings.

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    Cuba: The Forgotten Oppressed http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=62 Tue, 03 Jun 2003 18:17:48 +0000 Doug /?p=62 Mallard Filmore, from April 29, 2003

    [nuke][doug]It angered me when I heard (a few years ago) that former President Bill Clinton shook hands with Fidel Castro at the United Nations. Were I President, I would have relished the opportunity to speak with Castro, but I would not have shaken his hand, and my conversation would have opened with, “¿Por que odias tu propio gente?” (Why do you hate your own people?)

    One of the first Cuban exiles I ever met, Pastor Elmer Fernandez, has a lovely final memory of Cuba—he was able to flee to America to be with relatives when he was 8 years old—his last significant memory is his mother saying to him, “Do you hear that noise? Those are gunshots. They [Castro’s revolutionaries] are executing our pastor.”

    Modern-day Cuba should be a paradise. It has amazing agricultural and tourist potential, yet in all but a few areas it clearly demonstrates the absolute failure of Totalitarian Communism. We know a number of people who have visited Cuba, some on covert missions trips, who are able to provide a better picture than our media. Would you like to live in a large city that has running water only two hours a week? How about visiting a hospital emergency room with your infant, to find nothing but squalor and crying? Would you enjoy being part of a population that cannot buy aspirin? Or books? The people there don’t even mention Castro’s name—they merely make a sign with their fist like a beard.

    It is a pity Castro has lived so long.

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    Measure Your Geekness http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=63 Thu, 05 Jun 2003 18:20:32 +0000 Doug /?p=63 Take the Geek Test!

    I scored 44.77318% — Major Geek. (SWEET! I'm actually far more geeky than a couple years ago: 61.14398% - Extreme Geek.) Co-worker Kevin Miller may be disappointed in that rating, he always acknowledges me as an Uber-Geek. :: sighs ::

    Or Perhaps You Are Evil Genius Material?

    Try the Evil Genius Test.

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    Family News Update http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=64 Sat, 07 Jun 2003 01:57:52 +0000 Doug /?p=64 Well, it’s about time I updated a few family items; Nichelle can add her 2¢ later.

    • Isaac’s last day of school (second grade) was yesterday. He cried because it was over. He does much better in elementary school than I did.
    • Work at Kronos has been great, and a wonderful opportunity to daily improve my Java skills. One colleague pointed out that our team seems to have “the right amount of fun.”
    • My father’s health has actually improved (this was not expected)! He was able to walk into and out of church a couple of weeks ago, and the congregation appauded when he came in. This is a big difference from how he was doing at Christmas.
    • Nichelle’s pregnancy is halfway through, and she finally has another ultrasound scheduled for June 16, which should be the gender-determining one. (If this child is a boy, I’ll post a link to the e-bay auction soon.) If it’s a girl, we still need to pick a middle name. I’ll probably create an online submission form for suggestions. (Kherna Yoyo continues to insist the middle name should be Kherna.)
    • We are still working on our move to Nashua. The cosmetics on our current house are nearly done. I have a minor plumbing problem to correct, but the greenboard for the new bathroom ceiling is up. Nichelle is (as usual) doing her masterful job of spackling, patching, and painting. We do not yet have a house picked out in Nashua or Hudson, but we find reasonable listings every day. We continue to pray for God’s guidance in this.
    • The Mexico missions trip is back on after a one-year absence. I am going alone (sniff), but am looking forward to continuing to help with the church and children’s home in Constitución, as well as reimmersing myself in the culture. (I will be keeping The Missions Trip Site updated starting in a week or two, and will be porting the BLOG software to it, so I can do live updates from the trip. I read an excellent biography on Benito Juarez, the orphan-who-became-president. His story rivals that of Lincoln in some ways. I’d like to re-read the book before we leave, and take some notes.
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    Lego [in the] News http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=65 Tue, 10 Jun 2003 17:35:49 +0000 Doug /?p=65   

    I’ve seen a number of interesting Lego-related items in the past two days. Here are three good ones:

    Wow! I still haven’t gotten around to completing my Lego Thunderbird 2 model (my first ever attempt at a Lego reproduction.

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    Yeah, right! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=66 Wed, 11 Jun 2003 01:32:14 +0000 Doug /?p=66 According to the Hobbes’ Internet Timeline, CERN didn’t release the WWW until 1991. So, you can imagine my surprise when I saw this AdWords link on Google, of a Web developer boasting of 20 years’ experience.

    Judging by the view through his Webcam (overlooking a private harbor of some sort), he hasn’t exactly done too badly for himself, even if his site is a bit overdesigned and hyperactive.

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    3 hours and 43 Minutes http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=67 Thu, 12 Jun 2003 18:47:36 +0000 Doug /?p=67 Details have been released at the USA Today site about the extra content that will be in The Two Towers extended edition, to be released November 18.

    See also our release dates notice post.

    (Thanks to Ilene Tatroe for sharing the news.)

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    Ultrasound (and Names) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=68 Tue, 17 Jun 2003 03:48:54 +0000 Nichelle /?p=68 [nichelle]Well, the technician checked twice and the result is in: We're having a girl!!!!!!!! We (Isaac, David, and I) saw her yawn several times. The boys were asking many different questions and commenting on what some of the body parts looked like, e.g. a t-rex, a skyscraper, etc. The technician thought it was pretty funny.

    Doug and I have had the first name picked out for some time now (before Isaac was born), but we're not sure what the middle name is going to be. Your suggestions are welcome. [Note from Doug: I’ll get a Web form up for submissions soon.] For those that don't know yet, the first name is going to be Naomi.

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    Dumb, Dumb, Dumb http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=69 Fri, 20 Jun 2003 18:32:54 +0000 Doug /?p=69 [doug][nuke]It seems that today I have come across a number of headlines that reflect individual, societal, or corporate stupidity. Let me share a few:

    Individual: Not getting enough attention with your body piercings? Have your tongue split!

    Reuters Oddly Enough news simply titled this article, “Aaaaaaaaagggggghhhhhhhhhhh!!!! ” Enough said, da?

    Societal: Let’s boost tourism by catering to marijuana-smokers!

    A little history:

    Last month, the Canadian government introduced legislation to end criminal penalties for the possession of small amounts of marijuana.

    Under the bill, people caught with 15 grams (half an ounce, or enough for about 15 to 30 joints) or less of cannabis would only be fined, and criminal penalties would be reduced on those growing up to 25 marijuana plants.

    I won’t even begin to list the stupidity of moving toward the legalization of marijuana (but, hey, it’s Canada—the people who brought you the best argument against Socialized Medicine in North America), but check out these statements, made by “Prince of Pot” Mark Emery:

    ”Marijuana—that means fun times, parties, a cool city and an enlightened state of mind,” Emery told a crowd gathered in front of Toronto's police headquarters.

    Cradling a marijuana plant in the crook of his arm, and a pipe in one hand, Emery said: “Believe me, marijuana people don’t create problems like alcohol people. You want those kinds of tourists who are laughing, having a good time, and eating a whole lot in Toronto restaurants.”

    See the full article here at Reuters.

    ¡Qué bárbaro! (What an idiot!) Apparently, slowed thinking and reaction time, confusion, impaired balance and coordination, cough, frequent respiratory infections, permanently impaired memory and learning, increased heart rate, anxiety, panic attacks, drug tolerance, and addiction are not problems. You might want to wander over to the Partnership for a Drug-Free America® site.

    Corporate: USB Whah?

    Confused about USB standards? You will be.

    In December [the USB Forum] announced that henceforth USB 1.1 would be called USB 2 and USB 2 would continue to be called USB 2. To help the public grasp this subtle distinction USB 2, which was the old USB 1.1, would have “Full Speed” added to its title and USB 2, which was USB 2, would have “Hi-Speed” added.

    See the full article here at the Bangkok Post.

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    Dungeon Seiges the Wilcox Family http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=70 Sat, 05 Jul 2003 02:13:48 +0000 Doug /?p=70 After hearing Phil Luchon tell as about half a million times, “You have to buy Dungeon Seige,” I finally picked up a copy of this $30 gem. It’s a role-playing game with an emphasis on action done by Microsoft and Gas Powered Games. David and Isaac beg to play it every day (and lament the fact that, unless they supplement their computer time with educational activities, they only get an hour of game time per day). A few screen shots are below.


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    Future Tech: 20 Hot Technologies to Watch (from PC Magazine) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=71 Wed, 09 Jul 2003 22:03:11 +0000 Doug /?p=71 [doug]Technology enthusiasts (or probably anyone else) will be interested in reading this article from PC Magazine about technologies that will definitely have an impact on our lives in the next 2 to 25 years. There’s some amazing stuff: Everything from E-Bombs (think EMP*) to Wireless Mesh Networks to Quantum Cryptography.

    *Electromagnetic pulse, for those of you who weren’t interested in the Cold War, or have never seen “Dark Angel.”

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    Tish Hinojosa http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=72 Thu, 10 Jul 2003 04:45:55 +0000 Doug /?p=72 I’ll post more narrative later, but last weekend Nichelle and I went down to hear the hauntingly beautiful, often plaintive, voice of Tish Hinojosa (more on that later) at the New Bedford Summerfest 2003 folk festival.

    Here are a few images (yes, KI, I finally bought my own digital camera):

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    Old Enough to Drive, Old Enough to Drink, Old Enough to Vote, but Apparently Not Old Enough to Think! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=73 Thu, 10 Jul 2003 17:51:21 +0000 Doug /?p=73 Harry Potter Fan's Magic Attempt Sets House Ablaze
    Thu July 10, 2003 10:59 AM ET

    MADRID (Reuters) - A woman set her Madrid home on fire as she cooked up a potion in an attempt to imitate the fictional wizard Harry Potter, emergency services said.

    The 21-year-old was rescued Wednesday by firemen and treated for minor injuries, but half her home was destroyed.

    The ambulance service said she had told them she was trying to emulate the boy magician, hero of the books by J K Rowling that have been a sensation among adults and children alike.

    For want of more magical ingredients, the woman cooked up a potion of water, oil, alcohol and toothpaste, local media reported. It was unclear what spell she was trying to weave.

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    Greetings from Mexico! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=74 Sun, 20 Jul 2003 20:50:19 +0000 Doug /?p=74 [doug]I’ve been much too busy to keep the BLOG (or even the Mexico site) updated while in Mexico, although there is dial-up access - other things seem much more important.

    Of course, the hard part is being so far away from Nichelle, but I had been homesick for Mexico for a couple of months.

    I will post details of our missions trip soon, but one funny thing that has happened is that two girls have started fighting over our son John [john inline], just from seeing his picture. ¡Valgame Dios!

    For Nichelle: LYMZ, TDS.

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    Jeffries Tubes http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=75 Mon, 28 Jul 2003 13:16:36 +0000 Doug /?p=75 Film/TV art director Matt Jeffries died from a heart attack July 21 at age 81. He was best known for designing the original Starship Enterprise for the “Star Trek” TV series—and remembered for the “Jeffries Tubes” in the ship, where the guts of the mechanics are.

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    ::: Sigh ::: http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=76 Wed, 30 Jul 2003 22:32:05 +0000 Doug /?p=76 [doug]Well, today was not a day without some importance. Our new realtor came by to look at the improvements on the house and give us a market estimate. The reality of moving left me a bit panicky for a while, and then rather sad. I’ve never done well with big changes, and this move will separate me from where I’ve lived most of my life.

    Ultimately, I need to grasp firmly the idea that we are in God’s hands, that it is He who (unquestionably) provided the job in Chelmsford, and that my wife and children need me at home earlier and need me closer to home when I’m at the office.

    Nashua provides a quick commute, a good church and school[s], and affordable living. In a day or so, I’ll get through this emotional transition, but it’s a pain, and there·s still a great deal to pray about.

    Onward ...

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    76 2003-07-30 17:32:05 2003-07-30 22:32:05 open open sigh publish 0 0 post 0 91 66.30.161.240 2003-07-31 00:01:00 2003-07-31 00:00:00 knew when it came time to sign the papers putting our house back on the market I would feel this way. I’m still a bit edgy today, but that should pass. Prayer goals are a quick sale here, a decent house in Nashua without a big increase in cost, and grace to deal with the stress of selling/buying/moving.]]> 1 0 0 92 66.30.161.240 2003-07-31 00:02:00 2003-07-31 00:00:00 1 0 0
    Seinfeld was a “Show about Nothing,” but this Is Just Plain Dumb http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=77 Tue, 05 Aug 2003 15:50:10 +0000 Doug /?p=77 Much Ado About Nothing at Edinburgh Fringe
    Tue August 5, 2003 10:19 AM ET
    By Paul Majendie

    EDINBURGH (Reuters) - Sit back, relax and watch the play that offers absolutely nothing—no actors, no props, no sound and no plot.

    See the full article at Reuters.

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    Happy Birthday to Me http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=78 Mon, 11 Aug 2003 22:30:45 +0000 Doug /?p=78 I know it’s a bit odd to announce one’s own birthday, but, hey, I turned 35 years old. This makes me exactly halfway through a normal lifespan, according to Moses:

    The days of our years are threescore years and ten; and if by reason of strength they be fourscore years, yet is their strength labour and sorrow; for it is soon cut off, and we fly away. (Psalm 90:10)

    Yesterday seems to have gone unnoticed by virtually everyone. Even my mother had to be reminded by my brother Aaron!

    Nichelle had a tough day, and wasn’t able to do much, although I believe she is scheming up something.

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    A Cool Word http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=79 Tue, 19 Aug 2003 13:06:03 +0000 Doug /?p=79 The German language has some fascinating words, some of which have made their way into accepted use in other languages.

    Schadenfreude: The pleasure one gets from talking about catastrophies; delight in another person’s misfortune.

    I came across this in the short story “Thomas the Proclaimer,” by Robert Silverberg, published in his novelette collection entitled Sailing to Byzantium. (Thanks to Kevin Miller for the loan of the book.)

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    Lies, Darned Lies, and Marketing http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=80 Tue, 19 Aug 2003 19:07:23 +0000 Doug /?p=80 I’ve come across this new breed of popup ad a few times in the past couple of weeks:

    Brought to you by the evil folks at ZendMedia and the vendors of ComputerShield (http://ad1.zendmedia.com/ad-rpc.php?id=ad46) ...

    Yet again we have an attempt to prey on the gullible and less-than-well-informed computer users. What infuriates me most about this—even beyond the desire to trick the user into thinking his or her computer has a problem (much like the “Your Internet connection is not operating at full speed” garbage ads)—is that the ad site claims the user’s computer is infected, regardless of the fact that the user’s computer (like mine) might be patched or firewalled and completely invulnerable to the RPC worm.

    I wonder how many people have been duped by this scheme? This makes me very angry indeed.

    Folks need to learn to differentiate between a scam advertisement and a real security threat, and this sort of schrecklichkeit is abominable.

    And a Final Rant Is Due: Look, if you’re going to have a computer connected to the Internet, or even just receiving e-mail of any kind, you must install some good antivirus software and keep your machine updated with the latest security patches (which means running the Windows Update service for most people). Do not use McAffee because it stinks—you’re much better off with Norton Antivirus. Do update your virus definitions at least every week, and run a full scan that often as well. If you can’t afford Norton AntiVirus, try one of several free alternatives, such as BitDefender, Avast, AntiVir, or AVG Anti-Virus.

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    80 2003-08-19 14:07:23 2003-08-19 19:07:23 open open lies-darned-lies-and-marketing publish 0 0 post 0 95 204.69.158.61 2003-08-20 00:01:00 2003-08-20 00:00:00 1 0 0 96 158.228.58.123 2003-08-20 00:02:00 2003-08-20 00:00:00 K9 eliminates the Spam (and usually viruses as well), and Norton deletes the virus-laden e-mails from OE (in the rare event they reach an Inbox), or from the [harmless] K9 compressed e-mail archive files. I see today that John C. Dvorak is suggesting that computer users should be licensed to operate their machines, which is an idea I’ve often pondered—especially when helping clients/friends with technical support issues.]]> 1 0 0
    Old House / New House (We Pray) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=85 Fri, 22 Aug 2003 00:26:37 +0000 Doug /?p=85 From this ...    ... to this!

    Today we placed an offer on a house in Hudson, New Hampshire, that we really fell in love with. This would place me only 18 miles from work, instead of 50—a big difference, especially considering the need for more family time.

    We will know tomorrow (probably) if our offer is accepted, and it is, of course, contingent on our selling the house in Brockton. Today we had five showings, and have had one or two a day for the past three weeks. We reduced our price a little bit, as our realtor recommended, and are really praying that this “whole package” works out.

    In other family events, the kids are getting ready to go back to school (here for a month or two), and Naomi is due in 8 1/2 weeks! Wow.

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    Yikes! I need to post something. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=86 Tue, 09 Sep 2003 14:47:26 +0000 Doug /?p=86 [david]We have a policy of 1 hour of computer or video game time per day on weekdays for the kids (they get 2 hours on weekends), but they can earn extra time, which they sometimes do, by working on educational software or activities, such as typing for Isaac, writing for David, and Web design for John). One of David’s time-earning activities is to run the Virtual Fish Tank, an online version of the full-size exhibit (once part of the Computer Museum) at the Museum of Science in Boston. Last night he was watching me work (well, play Star Trek Voyager Elite Force II) on one machine, and asked me to call up the Virtual Fish Tank for him. He then said, “I can earn game time just by leaving this running—I don’t actually have to play it, right?” For a 4-year-old, he’s getting much too good at trying to “work the angles.”

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    Oh, That Lord! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=87 Wed, 10 Sep 2003 11:45:48 +0000 Doug /?p=87 This Is a bit dated, but yesterday’s post about David brought this to mind:

    [david]From July 2002: All our children are big fans of J.R.R. Tolkien's works, but we hadn't realized what a large impact the recent DVD release of The Fellowship of the Ring had on our youngest son David, who is 3½ years old.

    While supervising a group of children, one of our fellow church members asked him, “Are you thankful for the Lord?” He stopped what he was doing, looked up in careful contemplation, and then asked her, “The Lord of the Rings?”

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    9/11: An Eyewitness Account http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=88 Fri, 12 Sep 2003 00:14:01 +0000 Doug /?p=88 Personal background: Michael Frenchman is my “not-father” (an interesting title that I coined with a history of accusation, assumption, adoption, and eventual DNA test), a dear-but-distant friend to our family, and a videographer/producer/diver/etc. He and his wife, Karen, reside on West 27th Street, in New York City. Coincidence brought him very close to the tragedy, and his well-written perspective goes well beyond the sound bites we (especially today) are accustomed to hearing from NYC residents.

    From: Michael Frenchman
    Sent: Thursday, September 13, 2001 13:23
    Subject: Where were you...

    Sorry to have been out of touch in the last few days. We still can’t get long distance service and even email is sporadic.

    Karen and I arose early on Tuesday morning, preparing to drive to the Staten Island car-ferry and another day working on our rental apartments there. We were running late and began to think we would miss the 8:45 boat. Our best route was straight down 7th Ave. to Vesey St. and then right a block to take the West Side Highway a few blocks further downtown to the ferry entrance at South Ferry. I suppose we turned onto Vesey Street at about 8:44 and onto the West Side Hwy at about 8:45. That corner is the northern base of the World Trade Center. We had the radio on. As we pulled into the ferry area, I heard one brief report that there had been an explosion at the WTC. Looking nearly straight up, we saw smoke and clouds of paper flying towards the east, to Brooklyn.

    As soon as our car was loaded on board the ferry, we scrambled to the rear upper deck and watched in amazement as nasty gray-white smoke poured from the northwestern tower looming above us. Someone said they’d just heard that a twin-engine plane had hit the tower. Karen thought it might have been an accident—a small-plane pilot having a heart attack or some such and losing control. But I was convinced it was a deliberate act, by whom, I could only begin to guess.

    A few other passengers joined us on that rear deck as the ferry pulled away from the terminal. The skies were crystal clear and blue. A foreign couple gazed in shocked amazement and tried to get a better look through the 25-cent binoculars. They offered us a peek. But the unaided view was clear enough from our close south side vantagepoint. We could see numerous plumes of smoke and tongues of flame pouring from broken out windows. We could not, of course, see the huge and gaping diagonal slash on the opposite north side of the building where the first plane had hit.

    The ferry was perhaps a half-mile from the towers when we saw a silver and blue two-engine jetliner flying unusually low and slow up the harbor in-between us and the Statue of Liberty, passing less than a thousand feet to the west of our boat. People who often land at LaGuardia Airport know that the pilots frequently treat the passengers to a run up the Hudson River for a spectacular view of the city. The sentence was only half formed in my mind that the pilot of this jet must have been trying to see and show what was going on at the Trade Center when the actual trajectory of his course became frighteningly clear. As the plane banked slightly to its right, I said aloud “He’s going to hit it!” We stood fixed in horror for the 5 to 10 seconds it took for my prediction to be realized. Set against a perfectly clear and blue sky, our reality transformed into a wide screen movie as each frame presented a new millisecond of action: the jet angling for its final alignment, the glide of the now-irrevocable projectile, the counterclockwise-tilted plane disappearing into the building, a fractional moment of black gashed wall instantanously billowing out one-two-three conjoined black and orange balls of fire and debris, the slap of thunder three or four seconds after the impact.

    “We’re under attack,” I said twice.

    We watched as long as we could from the open deck until two police officers on board ushered everyone inside, I don’t know why except for some irrational and false sense of control in the midst of the surreal. We watched through the windows as all the other passengers gathered, some crying, some staring in disbelief, some talking excitedly on cell phones, many still all but oblivious to the event and unwitting as to it’s meaning. Karen and I touched the arm of a nearly frantic woman crying on her cell phone as if she were in communication with someone in the doomed buildings. There was nothing for us to say or comprehend.

    Once off the ferry, we drove half wild to our apartments and sat with one of our tenants to watch the terrible drama unfold on TV just like the rest of the world. We are now somewhat like those hundreds of people who were in Daley Plaza in Dallas and had a glimpse of the Kennedy motorcade and those awful moments and who then watched that eternal frame replayed and replayed for the past forty years. Our actual memory: the sights, the unwarned, unformed reactions, the smells of the harbor, the brush of the breeze, the heat of the early morning sun, the murmur of the other passengers, the rumble of the ferry engines, the hand of Karen in mine, the raw surprise as the world tipped on a new and unexpected pathway. All this will now blend and merge into the TV images of others’ amateur video, of traffic-helicopter cameras and sky cams on network TV buildings uptown.

    I remember that in the plaza in front of where the towers stood was/is a sculpture depicting two pyramids—an allusion to the notion that these structures would last as long as their antecedents at Giza. Like you, we watched them melt to the ground and blow like so much desert dust.

    So that is where I was and what I saw on one of those days which we will all always remember. “Where were you when ....?”

    Karen and I spent the rest of Tuesday alternating between the TV and our chores at the apartment. What else could we do? We spent the night with friends on Staten Island, obviously unable to return to a besieged and cut-off Manhattan.

    By late afternoon yesterday (Weds.), enough access had opened into the City that we were able to wend our way across the Verrazano Bridge, up the Brooklyn-Queens Expressway, past the prohibited Brooklyn, Manhattan and Williamsburg bridge entrances, onto the Long Island Expressway, past the “show your driver’s license” check point at the Midtown Tunnel and back into a quiet and subdued city. We have traveled a lot this summer. No time away has seemed as long as these 36 hours.

    Thanks to everyone who called to see how we were. We were never in any real danger except during the moments we were driving below the base of the now-disappeared twin towers. We’ll never know what flaming debris may have fallen to the street yards behind our passing car. But our personal story is so many orders of magnitude less significant than that of the thousands dead and injured and directly traumatized and so picayune compared to the onrushing and unpredictable consequences of this ugly act that I even hesitate to retell it.

    We hope you are all well and that some good ultimately comes out of this tragedy.

    Love and peace,
    Michael and Karen

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    Traffic http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=89 Tue, 16 Sep 2003 12:23:54 +0000 Doug /?p=89 [doug]It took me 2 hours and 15 minutes to get to work today. I didn't get past second gear until I had already passed Needham. Yesterday it was an hour and 45 minutes. Last week as another 1:45 trip. I guess I should be glad the ride home is only taking 1:15 to 1:30, typically, but even there the traffic has been unusually heavy. :: sigh :: It will be nice to live closer to work.

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    A Reasonable Offer on Our House http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=90 Thu, 25 Sep 2003 11:45:10 +0000 Doug /?p=90 Subject to change without notice: After a week of haggling, some interested buyers have made what is a reasonable offer on our house. This was unexpected, as the original offer was very low.

    Now, of course, we face the home inspection, and, even more important, we need to find suitable housing in Nashua or Hudson. Keep praying.

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    The Return of the King Trailer http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=91 Mon, 29 Sep 2003 14:58:21 +0000 Doug /?p=91 This is due to be posted on the Official Lord of the Rings site sometime today, but I managed to snag this one of many mirrors that is up. The Return of the King trailer (to download it, right-click on the link and choose Save Target As ...).

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    The Dumbing Down of America—It’s Microsoft’s Fault http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=92 Tue, 30 Sep 2003 12:22:42 +0000 Doug /?p=92 When did supercede become a nonstandard word?When did supercede become a nonstandard word? I use Microsoft Word’s grammar checking, set to very strict use (I’m something of a purist), and it flagged supercede as being nonstandard. Have people really become that uneducated? The answer—obvious as it is—frightens me.

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    Coming Soon to Country [Not] Near You—Your Job http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=93 Tue, 30 Sep 2003 13:18:44 +0000 Doug /?p=93 My yaar Pankaj Verma sent me a link to this article this morning, which predicts that by 2015, 348,028 U.S. computer jobs will move “offshore.” This is a rather frightening prospect for those of us who have been burned by the dot-bomb crises of the past few years, although this report includes the comforting statistic that approximately 1,761,000 new jobs will open up in these areas by 2010.

    While I’m on it, I still have two former co-workers who are looking for work after the big corporate “treatment” a year ago by [fomer employer’s name deleted]. These are both hard-working, highly-skilled, dedicated people, who, frankly, don’t deserve to have been unemployed as long as they have. Grrrrrrrrr.

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    Housing Update http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=94 Wed, 01 Oct 2003 14:58:59 +0000 Doug /?p=94 Tonight we have our potential buyers doing a home inspection on our house in Brockton. Assuming it works out well (and it should), we will probably place an offer on a spacious house in Northern Nashua, across from the Nashua municipal airport. For more details, try our Handy-Dandy MLS Gizmo, and use MLS number 119010. The MLS number on our house in Brockton is 30752457.

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    Whoa! (Swiped from Bryan at psacake.com) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=95 Tue, 07 Oct 2003 22:38:24 +0000 Doug /?p=95 While sitting at your desk, lift your right foot off the floor and make clockwise circles with it. Now, while doing this, draw the number “6” in the air with your right hand.

    Your foot will change direction. (From psacake.com.)

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    Our Trip to Boston’s Museum of Science http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=96 Sat, 11 Oct 2003 22:21:27 +0000 Doug /?p=96

    On Friday, October 3, I Took Isaac and David, and Isaac's best friend Nda (En-dah) (John opted out) to the Museum of Science on Friday (I took a half day off, and picked Isaac up from school, and we went by subway). We had a great time. The digital camera I bought lets me get low-light and other kinds of photos I could never capture before.

    It’s funny, because you never know what will really interest the kids. David now wants to go back (he asks approximately every day now). For some reason a 2300-year-old mummy in the life sciences section fascinated him. Later, he was a little mad that they put a sign up asking people not to sit in or stand in the tyrannosaur footprint.

    One very cool new exhibit was sponsored by Microsoft - it's a mock-up of the “cockpit” of the Wright Flyer, linked to a huge projection screen and M$ Flight Simulator 2004. The Wright Flyer was very difficult to fly - not so bad climbing and leveling off (although it would stall very easily), but banking (by weight-shifting) was usually disastrous for us. Friday afternoons and evenings the museum is mostly empty, so we all had plenty of chances to try it.

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    It May Be Time - 1:28 p.m. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=97 Mon, 13 Oct 2003 15:34:10 +0000 Doug /?p=97 We’re off to the hospital. Contractions are coming quite frequently.

    It Was Indeed Time!

    Nichelle’s contractions started around 11:00 a.m. She phoned me at noon, and said, “I think you’d better head home.” The contractions were already causing her to be in a lot of pain, so I headed out almost immediately. I ran in to the house (discovered our friends Phil Luchon and Shelby Sohmer were already there to help, Phil by watching the kids and Shelby by assisting Nichelle), checked the Naomi mailing list (a good thing—I had never switched it over from test mode to mail to the entire list), updated the BLOG, grabbed some food to take with me and all of Nichelle’s stuff, and headed off to the hospital, expecting the usual long process of labor and delivery.

    We arrived at the hospital at about 1:50 p.m. Nichelle’s contractions had increased in severity and frequency, and she was already dilated about 5 cm. She spent 10 minutes in a pre-labor room, before they moved her to the labor room.

    Things were moving very fast. So fast, in fact, that we weren’t sure a doctor would arrive in time—he almost didn’t—a paramedic was there as a backup. Nichelle’s contractions were so strong and frequent, that there was no way for her to get the epidural she’d planned on—this was going to go “natural,” an issue we managed to deflect. After I think only about 15 minutes of excruciating labor pain (I’ll let Nichelle describe with another time), Naomi joined the outside world. The doctor said, “Congratulations, you have a beautiful boy,” and then quickly corrected his statement.

    So, Naomi Nichelle (“NaNi”) Wilcox was with us on the outside, officially born at 3:02 p.m., but I later discovered the room clock was wrong, so it was really 2:55 p.m.

    Naomi Nichelle (“NaNi”) Wilcox, future Geek goddess, weighed in at 7 pounds, 4.8 ounces, and measured 20 inches. We are thrilled to have our little girl. Friends and family visited. We ate birthday cake and relished the joy of being new parents. Nichelle and Naomi are both fine—no complictions or other problems. We’re all tired. Whew!

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    The Spoiling Begins http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=98 Sun, 19 Oct 2003 22:56:26 +0000 Doug /?p=98  

    Okay, Nichelle is making me post this, to illustrate just how big a change having a daugher can make. Before Naomi, you wouldn’t catch me near “girl toys,” or clothing of any kind. Then, with Naomi on the way, something happened to my mental processes. First was the dress I bought in México. Then came the Barbie. I … I don’t know what has come over me, although co-worker Judy Hirsch told me this would happen.

    The remaining issue is which of the geekwear t-shirts/creepers to purchase. I can’t decide amongst “Newbie,” “TCP/IP,” and “Geek in Training.” Which would you pick?

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    The War of the Worlds—65 Years Ago http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=99 Fri, 31 Oct 2003 13:37:52 +0000 Doug /?p=99

    The War of the Worlds—65 Years Ago

    On October 30, 1938, The Mercury Theatre on the Air, starring Orson Welles, presented a radio version of H.G. Wells' novel The War of the Worlds. It became famous because many people (although not as many as the media later reported) heard only part of the broadcast, presented in the form of a breaking news story, and thought earth really was being invaded by Mars.

    If you’d like to hear this historic broadcast (it’s also one of the best radio plays ever done, actually), you can stream via the link below.

    Listen to The War of the Worlds broadcast (presented via streaming RealAudio).

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    Not Enough Vitamin N* http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=100 Thu, 06 Nov 2003 16:22:18 +0000 Doug /?p=100 This from Reuters (I’m duplicating the article below, because they don’t maintain links past a month or two.)

    Today’s Toddlers Act Like Teens?
    Thu November 6, 2003 07:47 AM ET
    By Matthew Jones

    LONDON (Reuters) - Kids today. They waste hours in front of the TV and get their parents to spend money on designer clothes and haircuts. And they're not even three years old!

    A new survey in Britain says toddlers are increasingly leading a lifestyle once associated only with moody adolescents.

    “Today’s toddlers act like little teenagers—they've been there, done it and got the T-shirt—but they miss out on good old-fashioned, imaginative fun,” said Karen Pasquali Jones, editor of Mother and Baby magazine, which commissioned the survey.

    The survey showed that by age three, 42 percent of youngsters have a television in their own room and 50 percent have a CD player. The average toddler spends more than two hours a day watching TV.

    Two thirds of mothers said they bought designer clothes for their toddlers, while 86 percent spent more on their child's clothes than they did on their own. More than a quarter of the little consumers “choose their own haircut.”

    Tots have sophisticated taste—61 percent will eat Italian food and 51 percent will eat Indian or Chinese food, though only three percent like sushi.

    But parents of previous generations will not be surprised to learn that mothers still describe mealtimes as “nightmares,” with three-quarters of toddlers refusing to eat and over half opting to throw their food rather than swallow.

    Three-quarters of mothers say their children’s behavior has affected their relationship with their partners and just under half declared it has “wrecked” their sex lives.

    © Reuters 2003. All Rights Reserved.

    *The term vitamin N, was, as far as I know, coined by Dr. James Dobson, the well-known conservative child psychologist. Children need to be told “no” on occasion.

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    Another Offer, Another Home Inspection http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=101 Fri, 07 Nov 2003 14:41:21 +0000 Doug /?p=101 Housing Update section. Note that at this time, we do not have a house picked out in New Hampshire, although there are sever]]> 101 2003-11-07 09:41:21 2003-11-07 14:41:21 open open another-offer-another-home-inspection publish 0 0 post 0 141 158.228.57.6 2003-11-12 00:04:00 2003-11-12 00:00:00 1 0 0 137 24.62.83.123 2003-11-12 00:03:00 2003-11-12 00:00:00 addition.]]> 1 0 0 135 158.228.57.6 2003-11-11 00:02:00 2003-11-11 00:00:00 1 0 0 134 158.228.57.6 2003-11-10 00:01:00 2003-11-10 00:00:00 1 0 0 Believe It or Not, We Have Another Offer http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=102 Wed, 12 Nov 2003 14:49:30 +0000 Doug /?p=102 Unfortunately, I do not have any details on the offer yet, as we missed the phone call from the realtor.

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    Wild News from The Casa Del Menor Vida Nueva http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=103 Wed, 12 Nov 2003 15:48:17 +0000 Doug /?p=103 10 New Children Have Just Arrived in the Tudors’ CareWe just received this message from Eldon and Connie Tudor, the missionaries who operate the Children’s home which our church has helped build, and to which most of our summer missions trips have taken us:

    Dear Praying Friends,

    PRAY! PRAY! PRAY!

    Last night the police here in Constitución brought us 6 Oaxaca (pronounced wah-ha-cuh) children because the mother has been murdered and the police think the father did it. We bedded them down on mats in the living room floor. This morning the police brought us 4 more children as they think the father of these children helped in the murder of the woman.

    The body of the murdered woman had been (as it looks now) hanged, then taken over across the road and thrown in the garbage dump. She has been there for 3 to 4 days, and the coyotes and other animals have been eating on her. When the body was found, they thought it was a boy at first.

    The children think their mother has gone back to a town to visit relatives.

    This morning the first thing to do was to feed them, and next we are going to have to delouse them.

    All that they are used to eating is chiles and tortillas; they range in age from 13 down to 3 years.

    We are sending a picture of them. Since the police brought them here, we do not know if the Mexican child welfare will help us or not. We do not know what is going to happen when they find out that their mother is dead. One 12-year-old boy and one of the older girls say they are married, but they have not been together yet, the parents arranged the marriage, as it is a custom of their Indian tribe.

    Right now, what we need the most is prayers!! We do not have enough beds, the children are all very dirty and need bathing, plus we are all concerned about getting the bugs too!

    We will keep you posted, just PLEASE PRAY!!!!!!!!

    Eldon and Connie

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    Naomi at 3 Weeks of Age http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=104 Thu, 13 Nov 2003 13:23:06 +0000 Doug /?p=104  

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    We have a buyer! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=105 Fri, 21 Nov 2003 12:42:21 +0000 Doug /?p=105 See the end of the Housing Update post for more details.

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    Breaking the Gigapixel Barrier http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=106 Wed, 03 Dec 2003 12:07:02 +0000 Doug /?p=106 Thought not for the faint-of-heart, getting astonishing resolution from a digital camera is indeed possible. Check out what Max Lyons has done with some good photography and customized photo stitching software.

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    Jakarta Struts Training http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=107 Mon, 15 Dec 2003 10:20:32 +0000 Doug /?p=107 Today through Wednesday (and possibly Thurdsday) Kronos is locking me (along with several others) up in training. This is my first official training since starting with Kronos, and I'm a little nervous, given I'm not very well trained in Java. We shall see.

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    This is Really Amusing: Our Lights Have Gone Crazy http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=108 Thu, 18 Dec 2003 12:34:40 +0000 Doug /?p=108 Today I am over at 297 Billerica Road, Kronos’ main building in Chelmsford (I normally work 2 buildings away at 2 Omni Way). We’re in a meeting with Rick Hightower, our Struts trainer who we’re keeping an extra day for consultation, and the lights have gone crazy. Imagine strobing Christmas lights on a building-wide scale. Very, very amusing. Apparenlty, this smart buiding is having a case of dimentia.

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    “Ordinary Greatness”—Remembering My Father http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=109 Tue, 23 Dec 2003 18:48:51 +0000 Doug /?p=109 This morning my mother called to tell us that my father, Paul John Wilcox, Jr., passed on to be with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, around midnight last night.

    Dad was 80 years old, and suffered from both emphysema and congestive heart failure. Although his health had been slowly declining for the past few years, with some ups and downs, a couple of weeks ago he took a sudden and significant turn for the worse.

    My father was a good man—not the kind of man to garner fame or wealth—but a good man along the way everyone thinks of George Bailey in It’s a Wonderful Life.

    Thanks to their local hospice organization, Dad was able to spend his last days at home, with Mom nearby, and with many friends able to visit. In his last lucid moments (maybe a week ago), he remarked that he was glad to be at home, rather than in a hospital.

    Dad has shown remarkable grace through all this, and it was always encouraging to talk with him. His decline in health was probably harder on Mom than on him.

    Dad knew his destination was Heaven—not because he was a good man, because no one is good enough to meet God’s standard (this is repeated throughout the Old and New Testaments)—but through faith in Jesus Christ as Savior and Redeemer. (If you’re interested in learning more about why we believe this, this Web site has a very well-documented, Scriptural presentation of the Gospel which is fundamental to our beliefs.)

    For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.
    —John 3:16

    In the end, Dad was at peace, and completely ready to go to his eternal home.

    Even though we will join him someday, we miss him greatly, and today has been a very sad parting. Other than knowing Dad is in Heaven, I take consolation that Dad was able to die at home, lived a full and mostly healthy life, knew how much he was loved, that all of us (I have four sisters and two brothers) were able to see him within the past year, and that my last (and recent) words spoken to him were, “I love you, Dad.”

    I realize I haven’t elaborated on my topic much at all; I will share more of my memories and details of Dad’s life later. Right now I’m very tired.

    Please feel free to post your own comments.

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    Happy New Year and Moving Madness http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=110 Fri, 02 Jan 2004 22:08:28 +0000 Doug /?p=110 Here, Naomi shows off one of her Christmas presents, and her destiny (Nichelle is too busy getting ready for our move to read this), with a “Geek in Training” t-shirt from ThinkGeek.com. She also received the TCP/IP creeper, but won’t fit into it for several months.

    Back at the Wilcox family, we are moving in one week, and packing in earnest. Thanks to Nichelle’s extremely hard work and planning, it looks like everything is going to go smoothly.

    Our new address as of January 9 will be:

    329 Nowell Street
    Nashua, NH 03060-4453

    Phone: 603-886-5225

    I should also mention that my friend Mark Sohmer has finally taken my advice and started a BLOG of his own at http://blog.sohmer.net/. Of course, since he is using Bryan Harrington’s code, later modified by me, guess who gets pestered with questions?

    I’d like to BLOG some reflections on the past year, but am too busy at the moment.

    In more recent events, Christmas was excellent, and despite being sad, Dad’s funeral was really wonderful. I will defiitely write more about that later.

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    One of Those Days http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=111 Tue, 06 Jan 2004 15:53:36 +0000 Doug /?p=111 I was on my way to Nashua to drop off the check for our insurance binder (only $368), when Nichelle called.

    She explained that there was a problem, and that I should call our agent

    So, I spoke with our agent, and it seems that, despite being given a commitment letter, Fleet is demanding $7,000 more from our buyers, due to, among other things, their insurance costing more than they expected.

    They want us to come up with $3,000 of that. And I’m fresh out of $1,000s.

    Further details as I have them.

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    In MegaTokyo, This Would Be a “Dead Piro Day” http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=112 Tue, 13 Jan 2004 12:18:42 +0000 Doug /?p=112 Okay, that’s a bit of an “in” joke. MegaTokyo is an online comic I read. Every now and then the artist gets behind schedule or is overwhelmed with other things, and posts a sketch instead of a comic strip. We’re wiped out from moving (but things are great!), but I need to get something up on the BLOG.


    How Big Is a Billion?
    The next time you hear a politician use the words “billion” casually, think about whether you want that politician spending your tax money.

    A billion is a difficult number to comprehend, but one advertising agency did a good job of putting that figure into perspective in one of its releases:

    • A billion seconds ago, it was 1959.
    • A billion minutes ago, Jesus was alive.
    • A billion hours ago, our ancestors were living in the Stone Age.
    • A billion dollars ago was only 8 hours and 20 minutes, at the rate Washington spends it.

    How Long Is Too Long?
    People are complaining on how long the war is taking but consider this:

    • It took less time to take Iraq than it took Janet Reno to take the Branch Davidian compound. That was a 51-day operation.
    • It took less time to find Saddam's sons in Iraq than it took Hillary Clinton to find the Rose Law Firm billing records.
    • It took less time for the 3rd Infantry Division and the Marines to destroy the Medina Republican Guard than it took Teddy Kennedy to call the police after his Oldsmobile sunk at Chappaquiddick.
    • It took less time to take Iraq than it took to count the votes in Florida!!!!!!
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    In Yesterday’s Episode, Doug Learned to Make Sure the Ashes in the Pellet Stove Have Truly Cooled Off Before Vacuuming Them http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=113 Wed, 14 Jan 2004 18:50:48 +0000 Doug /?p=113 [doug]We have a pellet stove, which is a nifty, attractive, low-mess way to heat/supplement the heat in our new house. In fact, Nichelle is getting spoiled by it, as it is easy to bring the house up to about 75 degrees, so when it gets down to our usual 68 degress, she complains about it being too cold.

    Last night, it was time to clean out the ashes, before restarting the stove, as they were starting to interfere with combustion. So, I put my hand over the ashes, found out they were cool, even stuck my hand in to make sure.

    Unfortunately, I wasn’t careful enough. Nichelle yelled and I turned around to see smoke pouring from the back of the vacuum cleaner, quickly filling up the house.

    I’d sucked up one ember that just hot enough to, under the increased air flow, set fire to the vacuum cleaner bag and its contents.

    The vacuum and house are unharmed (except for a slight smell of smoke), but I’m very embarrassed.

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    Moving Day Details http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=114 Fri, 16 Jan 2004 12:35:04 +0000 Doug /?p=114 Many of you have asked how our move went, and we’ve been too busy to post any details.

    Stress. In many respects, this was the most stressful day I can remember in a very, very long time. We were just beginning to recover from the “this deal isn’t going to go through” incident on Wednesday. In addition to juggling two closings, one in Brockton and one in Nashua, Nichelle became very sick on Thursday with a virus, and we got seriously behind schedule on our packing. (One more day would have helped, but it was too late at the time to reschedule for Saturday.)

    Great Movers. The movers, Kilroy Brothers, arrived around 8:00 a.m., as promised. I think they were shocked by the level of disarray, but they were absolutely wonderful. They joked with us, gave us boxes (some free), and handled a huge job without complaint. In addition, the price was under $2,000, and that included two trucks. They worked tirelessly and professionally, despite our stress and the size of the task, and their attitudes and good humor made us feel much better.

    Closings. We had to take off for the first closing while the movers were still working. The buyers were late, and some documents were missing. The 1/2-hour we were promised turned into 2 hours. The kids were hungry, Nichelle was still sick, and we were wiped. out.

    We got back to the house to keep working. My sister Joyce went out to get food for the kids, and get our treasurer’s check for the movers. When it came time to leave for the second closing, just about everything important was on the trucks, and we authorized the movers to work packing anything that looked valuable, and we took off for the second closing. The bank wouldn’t give Joyce was a bank check for us, so I had to stop by Rockland Trust on the way to get the check. When we left, the house was a disaster, but we promised to come back the next day and clean everything out, and we knew the buyers were having deleading done and not moving in right away.

    The closing in Nashua went much more smoothly, and took only 38 minutes.

    Freezing. It was bitterly cold on Friday, at or below zero, and the upstairs in our new house got down to 38 degrees, while the downstairs dropped low enough for ice to form in the toilet. That added to the fun of moving.

    Help from Our Family in Christ. The secretary of our new church (Tabernacle Baptist Church in nearby Litchfield, N.H.) brought us dinner and snacks, and shuttled our family to her house a few minutes away. Because Nichelle was sick and the house was so cold, we accepted their offer to stay overnight at their house. Nichelle and the rest of the family left, while I stayed to finish directing the unloading.

    Kim dies. I had been concerned about our reptiles because of the cold, but Isaac’s crested gecko seemed fine, and his cage has a light in it for warmth. When the movers left, and I was waiting for a ride to Lee Ann’s house, I found Nichelle’s iguana Jesse barely reactive, despite being next to the heater. He returned to normal after a few minutes near the pellet stove, and I stuck him inside my jacket.

    Then I went to check on Kim. I was horrified to see him stuck to the side of his cage, head hanging over. he was completely unresponsive—no breathing, no reaction to touch. Nothing. I was heartbroken. I called Isaac to break the bad news to him (his response, although he was sad, was, “So, can I get a tarantula?” and afterward sat down in front of the pellet stove with Kim in my outstretched hand, hoping that he was just in deep hibernation, but being certain that was not the case. After about 10 minutes of hopelessness, I thought I saw his leg move. Sure enough, although it took a while, Kim revived, and is doing well. There are a few advantages of being cold-blooded.

    Cold and anxious. When we all returned to the house the next morning, it was only 50 degrees, despite leaving the heat on all night (although I did not leave the pellet stove on). It turns out that when a house gets that cold, the walls absorb much of the heat, and it takes a long time to bring it up to temperature. With the stress of moving, my anxiety disorder surfaced, and there are still days when I wake up feeling uneasy. I know this will pass in time.

    We love the new house. The new house is wonderful, and has a great open layout. Every day, as we put more things away, it gets a little better.

    I still need to tell about Saturday’s adventures, but will have to add that later.

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    A Little Humor (II)—If Operating Systems were Airlines http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=115 Mon, 19 Jan 2004 17:01:45 +0000 Doug /?p=115 DOS Air: All the passengers go out onto the runway, grab hold of the plane, push it until it gets in the air, hop on, and jump off when it hits the ground again. Then they grab the plane again, push it back into the air, hop on, etcetera.

    Windows Airlines: The terminal is very neat and clean, the attendants are all very attractive and the pilots very capable. The fleet is immense. Your jet takes off without a hitch, pushing above the clouds, and at 20,000 feet it explodes without warning.

    Mac Airways: Tickets are expensive. The cashiers, flight attendants, and pilots all look the same, feel the same and act the same. When asked questions about the flight they reply that you don't want to know, don't need to know, and would you please return to your seat and watch the movie.

    Linux Express: Each passenger brings a piece of the airplane and a box of tools to the airport. They gather on the tarmac, arguing constantly about what kind of plane they want to build and how to put it together. Eventually, they build several different aircraft, but give them all the same name. Some passengers actually reach their destinations. All passengers believe they got there.

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    A Little Humor (I)—Temperature Conversion Chart http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=116 Mon, 19 Jan 2004 17:33:20 +0000 Doug /?p=116
    • 60°F - Southern Californians shiver uncontrollably. People in New England sunbathe.
    • 50°F - New Yorkers try to turn on the heat. People in New England plant gardens.
    • 40°F - Italian & English cars won’t start. People in New England drive with the windows down.
    • 32°F - Distilled water freezes. Maine's Moose Head Lake’s water gets thicker.
    • 20°F - Floridians don coats, thermal underwear, gloves, wool hats. People in New England throw on a flannel shirt.
    • 15°F - New York landlords finally turn up the heat. People in New England have the last cookout before it gets cold.
    • 0°F - All the people in Miami die. New Englanders close the windows.
    • –10°F - Californians fly away to Mexico. The Girl Scouts in New England are selling cookies door to door.
    • –25°F - Hollywood disintegrates. People in New England get out their winter coats.
    • –40°F - Washington DC runs out of hot air. People in New England let the dogs sleep indoors.

    Fun Fact: –40°F and –40°C are the same temperature

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    Where’s my Snow? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=117 Wed, 28 Jan 2004 11:34:23 +0000 Doug /?p=117 I woke up before my alarm this morning, looked out the window and saw no new snow. Overnight, the weather forecast, which had disappointingly dropped from “snow, heavy at times,” to “3 to 8 inches of total accumulation,” had changed to, “snow showers, possible accumulation of 1 inch.”

    Last year Nashua got mountains of snow. This year it’s just unusually cold. But the winter is not over yet.

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    A True Dream Job—Becoming a Master Builder at LegoLand, California http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=118 Wed, 28 Jan 2004 11:37:53 +0000 Doug /?p=118 droolworthy, Lego-related link from Wired news. [Editor's note: December 15, 2005---It appears the link earlier in this paragraph is not working, try this related story this link instead.] Of course, I don’t get to build with Lego as a profession, but building software is almost as much fun, so my job is just about as close to being a LegoLand, Californi as the winners of Lego’s nationwide search.]]> 118 2004-01-28 06:37:53 2004-01-28 11:37:53 open open a-true-dream-jobbecoming-a-master-builder-at-legoland-california publish 0 0 post 0 2747 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.173.163 2006-05-23 16:58:46 2006-05-23 21:58:46 1 0 0 2720 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-05-23 09:19:35 2006-05-23 14:19:35 this year's competition.]]> 1 0 2 2784 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-05-24 10:22:33 2006-05-24 15:22:33 Many people mention the Lego store display to me after they visit Disney. No one has ever been kind enough to share pictures.]]> 1 0 2 Lessons in Rocketeering http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=119 Tue, 03 Feb 2004 00:25:06 +0000 Doug /?p=119 [doug]This should also satisfy those of you who want pictures of our new house.(Well, not really, but there’s a picture of part of one room.)

    Phil Luchon gave “The Boys” (which includes me) an Estes complete model rocket kit for Christmas. We got permission from Pastor Miller to use the church ball field for launching (try that in Brockton!), and got two flights up on Saturday. The first photo above shows David when it was his turn to launch. John missed out until the next day due to what I thought was bad batteries, but turned out to be a dud engine. So, I bought fresh batteries, and some extra rocket engines, and we planned to have another try at it on Sunday.

    Sunday included the regular church service, a pot luck feast (dinner is too small a term for it), and an early afternoon service. We had a guest speaker, a pastor from Arkansas who is being interviewed to become principal for the Christian School. There was a lot of teasing about the weather and his accent—Pastor Miller has a great sense of humor, and both services were a lot of fun, while being spiritually fulfilling as well. Bryan Harrington may be interested to learn that his Temperature Conversion Chart got read from the pulpit.

    After the afternoon service, we went back out to launch the rocket again. After discovering that the engine, not the ignitor or batteries were to blame, John got as near flawless a launch off as we’d seen so far. Then I decided to put in a size B engine....

    The flight was spectacular. The B engine took off with enough power to send the rocket at least a couple of hundred feet into the air (we haven’t done the triganometry on any of our flights yet), leaving us cheering, “Wow!” and gazing awestruck at the power demonstrated by the rocket’s flight. (The blast was hot enough to mis-shape the steel splash plate where the engine fired.)

    Unfortunately, the chute deployed at an altitude high enough to carry the rocket about 100 feet downwind, just enough to get tangled in the top of a tree at the edge of the church property. Despite John’s bravery (see the second image above), he couldn’t get a decent grip on the branch it was on, so the nose cone and parachute are still up in the tree, until we return with some rope or a saw. Thankfully, we shook the body of the rocket (which is not weather-resistant) loose, and that is safely at home.

    That evening the church hosted a SuperBowl get-together, at which I dropped John off, while David, Isaac, and I built with Lego. (See the third photo above.) You can see that our new family room has more than enough space to spread the Lego boxes out while we build. The pinball machine and pellet stove are in the background, as are sundry other items that have yet to be unpacked. Nichelle is going to kill me when she sees which photo I’ve posted, but the fun is worth it.

    While I was at it, I put up a newer photo of Naomi, for her many fans.

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    Computer Problems http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=120 Fri, 13 Feb 2004 11:12:34 +0000 Doug /?p=120 Last night Jedi Academy started acting funny. When playing a sound, the sound would start repeating, and the screen would freeze. Usually, after a few seconds, this would correct itself, but a couple of times, the graphics would get distorted (even after exiting the game), and only a reboot would fix them.

    As time went by, this got worse and worse. Eventually I ran through several of our games, and all of them that used advanced 3D graphics had the same problem. Some would freeze and stutter often (Dungeon Seige), a few would show the graphics problem right away (Jedi Knight II: Jedi Outcast; Star Trek Voyager Elite Force), and a few would work for a while (Jedi Knight: Jedi Academy).

    In addition to testing, I reinstalled the video drivers, sound drivers, and DirectX. The operating system is behaving just fine, and we're up-to-date on virus definitions and doing nightly scans. The problem seems to occur only with stuff that uses high-end 3D rendering, but isn’t confined merely to openGL, as far as I can tell. The DirectX diagnostics all ran perfectly.

    Other than losing the ability to play our favorite games on that machine, this has triggered abnormally high levels of anxiety for me.

    I suspect our video card has developed a problem, but am welcome to alternative suggestions.

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    New Arrivals at the Wilcox Home http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=121 Wed, 18 Feb 2004 11:39:42 +0000 Doug /?p=121

    No, we’re not having another baby.

    For a long time, Isaac has been begging for a second pet. He has had his crested gecko, Kim, for quite a while now, and has done a good job of taking care of it, and has wanted a snake. (Nichelle just bought a juvenile corn snake, named Jaden, but I do not yet have any good pictures of it, although there are a few on my friend Mark Sohmer’s BLOG.)

    I told Isaac if he saved up half the money for his new pet, I would chip in the other half, figuring it would take a while for him to save the $60 or so he would need for his half payment on a decent pet snake. Well, we stopped at the reptile store, R.J.’s Exotics, on the way home from church, and Isaac fell in love with a Pink Zebra tarantula, which was only $30, of which Isaac already had saved $15. He named it Chandan, which was on our list of gender-neutral names.

    David has been begging for a pet, too, and the store gave him a couple of goldfish (they raise them as feeders) for free. He is thrilled to finally have pets of his own, and named them Luke and Kyle. (Luke Skywalker and Kyle Katarn are characters in the Star Wars Jedi Knight series of games.)

    I have to admit, this tarantula is pretty cool.

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    This ’n That http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=122 Tue, 24 Feb 2004 11:08:26 +0000 Doug /?p=122 Just a few quick bullet items:

    • President Bush had some great lines in his speech last night. Here are my two favorites:
    • “The other party’s nomination battle is still playing out. The candidates are an interesting group with diverse opinions. They’re for tax cuts and against them. They’re for NAFTA and against NAFTA. They’re for the Patriot Act and against the Patriot Act. They’re in favor of liberating Iraq, and opposed to it. And that’s just one senator from Massachusetts.”
    • “They now agree that the world is better off with Saddam out of power. They just didn't support removing Saddam from power. Maybe they were hoping he would lose the next Iraqi election.”
  • Last night I took Isaac and David sledding at Roby Park in Nashua. David has become quite the daredevil, which was surprising, because the last time we went sledding, he pretty much didn’t like the big slopes at all. (In fact, he used to beg to go to a nearby school for sledding that was about as thrilling as watching golf.) The slope at the park was mostly ice, so we got some great speed, and proved without a doubt that the best way to sled is to use David or Isaac’s smaller sled in front of mine, allowing me to hold onto the back of theirs and providing excellent steering.
  • Earth to the Palestinians: Want to get anything you want? Stop blowing up innocent people. One isn’t exactly going to garner sympathy by creating busload after busload of noncombatants killed by suicide bombers.
  • My team leader, Brian Cortez, gave us a milk crate full of model rockets and accessories. We will be repairing some of his old models (an X-16 looks particularly cool), and hope to have him present for its re-launch after so many years.
  • At work, I’ve been learning and working with the Jakarta Struts framework, which has been both challenging and fun. The only gripe is the number of “silent failures” that occur (a code-500 server-side error with absolutely nothing in a log file is not exactly easy to diagnose and debug).
  • The new commute is awesome. It takes me only about 45 minutes to take the kids to school and then get to the office in the morning, and I can get home in as little as 20 minutes. Even with slightly longer work hours due to the new project, family time has improved dramatically.
  • The new house, with the entire first-floor in an open layout, is also very good for family interaction and activities. I also have to thank Nichelle for her graciousness in allowing the Lego collection to stay out for days at a time.
  • Speaking of Lego, the new family room has enough room to spread out and build, and we are developing the habit of spending Saturday mornings building with Lego. It’s been great, although I’m still missing one box of miscellaneous Lego that got shuffled in the move.
  • Speaking of Lego, I have to commend them on their customer service. I e-mailed them a suggestion on improving the Lunar Lander set, by using gold visors for the astronauts (instead of the clear ones provided), and they sent me six of the gold visors for free.
  • Moving out of state costs money! (God has provided all that we need, but we have spent quite a bit on car registrations, new licenses, new insurance, new cell phone services, etc.) It seems one has to spend money to save money. (Our car insurance will drop about $125 to $150 per month. Our new cell phone plan will save us up to $100 per month. Gasoline savings will amount to about $100 per month. School tuition is cheaper. Now, if I could just get out of donating 5% of my income to the State of Massachusetts ... but the law on that isn’t likely to change!
     
  • The Route 3 widening is a few months behind the schedule that had been listed on their FAQ until a few weeks ago. They are now promising a “substantial completion” by May of 2004, instead of February. Still, that is not very far off.
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    What Is the Deal with Our Foreign Policy? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=123 Fri, 05 Mar 2004 12:09:24 +0000 Doug /?p=123 [nuke][doug]I am not normally very critical of the US government, especially having traveled a little and seeing what life in other countries is like. However, the official reactions to the pardon of Dr. AQ Khan have me completely flabbergasted.

    For the record, these faults existed long before the Bush administration—in fact, there have been few times in US history when a clear foreign policy was applied consistently. Let me make a few points to illustrate why we desperately need a consistent foreign policy:

    • We know that Saddam Hussein was completely evil. If he did not succeed in building weapons of mass destruction, he certainly wanted to. He is by many estimates responsible for the death of 3 million people in the past two decades. Getting rid of him was a good thing, even if some of our intelligence was bad, and the road ahead for Iraq is not going to be an easy one. But, if we apply the “threat to us, threat to others” rules to other countries, we have to overthrow the governments of North Korea (threatens Japan and South Korea; may have the capability to hit us with Nukes), Pakistan (threatens India; created a global black market for nuclear technology), and China (threatens Taiwan; helped distribute nuclear weapons technology; directly aided Communist Korea and Viet Naam in the past).
    • What about the “evil dictator” rule?If we follow this, we need to eliminate Fidel Castro in our own back yard, the Saudi royal family, several African leaders, the current rulers in Haiti after the coup, etc.

    So, why are we making a deal with the devil (despite claims to the contrary) in Pakistan? I will have to get back to this later.

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    Nada http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=124 Mon, 15 Mar 2004 11:27:02 +0000 Doug /?p=124 Nada is now what happens when we turn the key on our 1994 Buick Century Wagon. It’s got about 160,000 miles on it, and has served us extremely reliably, and we aren’t quite ready to say goodbye to it. AAA is coming by later to deliver the car to our new mechanic.

    At work on Friday just before leaving a great thing happened! I was modifying our demo application, and we needed to pass a parameter for a specific localization file to the right module. I coded it, cycled the server, and it worked, all in less than 5 minutes. Struts has not always been so easy, but it’s getting easier.

    Naomi turned 5 months old this weekend. She is babbling more, and able to roll over now, and wants to get her hands into everything from what we’re eating for dinner to the computer keyboard. With 3 brothers, I predict her first words will be, “Mom, he’s bothering me.”

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    124 2004-03-15 06:27:02 2004-03-15 11:27:02 open open nada publish 0 0 post 0 197 158.228.57.6 2004-03-15 00:00:00 2004-03-15 00:00:00 real anxiety about the car, as opposed to the fake anxiety about the computer problem that happened a few weeks ago. I really need to build a “Life with an Anxiety Disorder” page.]]> 1 0 0 198 158.228.57.6 2004-03-16 00:01:00 2004-03-16 00:00:00 have $1,000 to pay for this, although just barely.]]> 1 0 0
    And Now for a Word from ... Nichelle—Not! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=125 Tue, 23 Mar 2004 16:44:18 +0000 Doug /?p=125 Last night when I got home from work Nichelle could barely open her mouth, because her TMJ was acting up.

    Her description of the problem was perfect, though: “It’s awful—I can’t yell at the kids.”

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    Geeks Rule! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=126 Thu, 25 Mar 2004 11:32:44 +0000 Doug /?p=126 [isaac]Isaac, now almost 9 years old, has taken up the motto, “Geeks rule!” How it happened was like this: One night at supper John called Isaac a geek, which gave me the opportunity to explain that, in our family, geek is a compliment.

    [john]I went on to point out to John that most of what he enjoys in life he owes to geekdom:

    • The computer you like to use: Invented by geeks.
    • The games you like to play? Written by geeks.
    • The chat software you can’t live without? Also written by geeks.
    • The switching system that lets you talk to your friends on the telephone? Developed by geeks.
    • The standard of living we enjoy? Paid for by my own geekdom.

    Isaac quickly caught on to the fact that geeks are doing the cool things in the world, and is now proud to be called one. He told me that he now prefers to say negative, instead of no, because it’s more precise.

    Geeks rule!

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    Construction of a [Lego] Star Destroyer http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=127 Wed, 31 Mar 2004 12:37:25 +0000 Doug /?p=127 Construction of a Lego Star Destroyer

    I have finally started construction on the Lego Star Destroyer (the “Holy Grail” of Lego) set that Nichelle gave me as an anniversary gift this year.

    Click on the image for some photo documentation (and fun) of the project. Woo-hoo!

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    Naomi’s First BLOG Entry http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=128 Mon, 12 Apr 2004 17:31:28 +0000 Doug /?p=128 I have no idea what it means, but here it is:

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    GHGYTGRV ZWCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCXFXDFZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZSSSSSSSS
    XCCZDXEX5RFYYRY5TGFQQG MHN8UTYNT N1 BBBHJE3AQAZ Q1AASX X ZZZ

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    88 Miles Per Hour! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=129 Fri, 23 Apr 2004 22:14:03 +0000 Doug /?p=129

    My yaar Mark Sohmer sent me this link. The link went down for a while, but is now back up. I’ve been trying to convince Kevin “Doc Brown” Ilsen to buy this, since he is one of the few people I know who can afford it, and knowing someone who owns one of these is probably the closest I’m ever going to get to owning one, but I don’t think he’s very willing enough to waste money on such an effort.

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    Why God Gives Children Mothers http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=130 Tue, 11 May 2004 12:37:34 +0000 Doug /?p=130 [doug]I don’t think I’m a bad parent, but recent experience has shown me that, without mothers, most children would never live to see their third birthday. Let me explain a couple of incidents that happened with NaNi this week:

    Incident 1: I took all the kids, including Naomi (NaNi), Mother’s Day shopping at Wal*Mart Saturday night. The trip actually went pretty well, and the boys’ behavior was not-as-bad-as-usual-while-shopping. On the way out to the car, we started down a small incline, and NaNi’s car seat (with her inside), flipped off of the shopping cart, and she landed face-down (but without a scratch, because she was securely fastened in a 5-point safety harness) on the mulch in an island we were adjacent to.

    In the moment afterward, the entire cart flipped over, dumping David, who was riding it, and our merchandise to the ground. No one was harmed, although NaNi cried for about 60 seconds.

    Now, I was certain that I had attached NaNi’s seat to the shopping cart—but Nichelle (a Mom), wouldn’t have stopped there: She would have attached the seat, listened for the click of the latch attaching, tried to pull the seat off to verify it was secured, asked 3 people to try the same, and probably avoided the slightest incline when navigating back to the car.

    Incident 2: Last night, I was watching the kids while Nichelle went to ladies’ Bible study and then grocery shopping. When Nichelle got home, NaNi spit up, and Nichelle asked me, “How is it that NaNi was eating brown paper?” (Oddly enough, I didn’t get “The Look,” which husbands and children everywhere fear.) Somehow the little weaselette had torn a 1-inch long piece of cardboard off a big box David was playing with, and swallowed it. She did this while being watched by me, and in the presence of both David and Isaac!

    You may now go about the process of organizing the lynch mob …

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    My First Spam in Hebrew! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=131 Tue, 11 May 2004 15:14:09 +0000 Doug /?p=131

    I’m so glad that the Internet allows such rapid intercontinental communication. Imagine a world where one’s inbox would not be regularly populated by the decades-old and now primarily e-mail based Nigerian Money Scam, and the like. Horrible!

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    It’s About Time—A 4 Wheel Drive SUV that gets 35 MPG http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=132 Mon, 24 May 2004 12:09:09 +0000 Doug /?p=132 [doug]I’ve been interested in the Ford Escape SUV hybrid for a while, not because I hope to be an SUV owner, but because the fascinating technology of hybrid and alternative-fuel vehicles is finally hitting the market. This lengthy article is worthy of attention.

    Thanks to Phil Luchon for the link.

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    The King Returned—at Midnight http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=133 Tue, 25 May 2004 15:29:47 +0000 Doug /?p=133

    Last night I went beyond mere fandom, and decided that I would head out to our nearby 24-hour Wal*Mart superstore around midnight to pick up the long-awaited Return of the King DVD. As a bonus, Wal*Mart was giving away a small photoframe magnet for those who picked up the DVD between midnight and 6:00 this morning. Both are pictured above.

    While I wouldn’t travel very far to do this, and definitely wouldn’t camp out awaiting such a release, there was a certain thrill to owning the DVD almost before anyone else in my area, especially at only $14-something.

    We still await word on what will be in the extended edition, due out in the “Holiday Season” of 2004. I keep checking The Digital Bits Web site, and the official Lord of the Rings Web site, but no news has been released yet.

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    Have Space Ship—Will Travel http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=134 Thu, 03 Jun 2004 12:21:49 +0000 Doug /?p=134 The SpaceShipOne rocket plane, shown in this photo from its first supersonic flight test, is due to make its first true spaceflight June 21. (Photo courtesy of Scaled Composites.)

    On June 21, the privately-funded SpaceShipOne will launch for a history-making, 100 km (62 mile) altitude flight.

    “Our goal is to demonstrate that non-government manned space flight operations are not only feasible, but can be done at very low costs.” (Burt Rutan)

    Read the article at MSNBC.com here, and check out the Scaled Composites FAQ and related pages.

    Thanks to Phil Luchon for this reference.

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    Naomi and Her Dad http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=135 Sun, 06 Jun 2004 23:55:22 +0000 Nichelle /?p=135 Ah, Naomi and her Dad...it’s taken her no time at all to be up on her Dad’s shoulders just like her brothers. It’s very sweet. Actually, she’s rough-housing already.

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    Naomi and Mom http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=136 Mon, 07 Jun 2004 00:25:33 +0000 Nichelle /?p=136 As I go through the pictures, I don't find many pictures of me w/ Naomi due to the fact that I'm always taking the pictures. Anyway, it is nice to see some w/ me in them too...


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    Nichelle’s Notes from May http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=137 Mon, 07 Jun 2004 01:16:56 +0000 Nichelle /?p=137 Naomi will be 7 mos. old on 5/13...the time goes so fast. She is now mobile. At 5 mos. she started to creep, but realized rolling where she wanted to go was much faster until a week and a half ago. One day last month she was on my bed w/ me playing with some toys and a doll that was mine when I was either 4 or 5. Things were great until David came in with his sword and shield and she left the doll and played with the shield. LOL. So now on occasion she'll have a sword in hand, or mouth (check out the picture—it’s quite cute).

    Isaac and David play w/ her and she grabs their hair. Now mind you, they do scream or say “ouch,” but they keep giving their hair back to her to pull, it's pretty funny. John too, does the hair thing, but doesn't scream, which is good.

    Nearly 6 mos. of residency here in Nashua, amazing. We love it here! As Doug is home so much earlier now, a huge blessing. We do miss our friends in Ma., we'll be down again, really, but many times over we see why God brought us here—Particularly for the 24-hour Wal*Mart in Amherst (just outside of Nashua) or the one in Hudson (a few minutes away) that’s open to midnight everyday ;-)!! :: drool, drool :: Alright, maybe not just for those, but it's a perk. I will have to admit shopping after midnight can get a bit wacky, as my sister-in-law, Joyce, came to see. We said, we'd never do that again.

    Two weeks ago now, I joined the choir and work in the nursery once a month. Doug has been going out on visitation weekly now and John too has gone a couple of times. As for other ministries we're still praying for God's leading on that. It's wonderful seeing the kids excited about Sunday school and junior church and also their classes on Wednesday night. One of David's friends in his class is named David and was born two days before him. They'll be in K5 together in September.

    Isaac turned 9 a couple of weeks ago,and we had a party for him at the house. He had a great time w/ his new friends and even Nda came up for the event. Nda has been up here a few times and we've so enjoyed his visits and the visits of our other friends and family as well. Hope we'll see more of you, too.

    A couple of months ago, I started watching a little girl named Mikayla (4 days/wk). She's a sweetie. She and David get along very well. Mikayla will be starting K4 in September.

    For the month of July our church offers a day camp for grades 1 to 10. I'm really looking forward to that. The program sounds awesome!

    Today (5/6), I was asked to watch a little boy of about 15 mos. old named Ethan. I'll only be doing this two days a week-which is great. I start tomorrow.

    Wow, it's already the 31 of May ... Yesterday my cap on the radiator went once I arrived at church for choir practice. The car is now in the shop. We were planning to visit Cindy, but obviously that had to change. It's alright for it gives us an extra day to get things cleaned out downstairs.

    Naomi had a full bath in the tub today...which she loved. She's been creeping for several weeks now,and two days ago started pulling her legs under her to get ready to crawl. Naomi also was able to pull herself up on the stairs in the family room.

    John wanted to visit his friends in Mass. and Doug took him and the kids to Lowell and road the train w/ him part way (to North Station) and then sent him on the way. John made it to Brockton, with only a minor problem due to someone giving him the wrong information about what track the Middleboro/Lakeville train was on. Well, he made it back to Lowell Sunday afternoon so we could leave for Cindy's after church. With that trip being cancelled due to the car problem, John hopped back on the train to head to his friend Ryan's party. Can't believe his 16th birthday is a few weeks away...need to get planning. Actually, he needs to get planning!

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    “You’re talking politics. I want to know what you think is right.” http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=138 Tue, 08 Jun 2004 12:22:30 +0000 Doug /?p=138 Former President Ronald Wilson Reagan died on Saturday, June 5, at the age of 93. We mourn the passing of a leader who inspired our nation, saw the end of the Cold War, and chose to do what he believed was right, rather than what was politically expedient. Even Bill Clinton chose to pattern some of his Presidency after Reagan—it is a pity he chose not to try to emulate Reagan’s integrity.

    There are hundreds of articles available about President Regan. Here is one perspective; Dr. James Dobson also has written an excellent account of his experiences with President Reagan and his administration. I highly recommend reading the latter, as it offers a perspective on conservative political issues from before Reagan era through today.

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    BLEEX: One Step Closer to Powered Suits http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=139 Thu, 10 Jun 2004 14:50:11 +0000 Doug /?p=139 This will interest fans of Robert A. Heinlein’s Starship Troopers book (not the horrible movie by the same name—where was Peter Jackson when we needed him?). Check out the BLEEX (Berkeley Lower Extremity Exoskeleton) project.

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    Good moring. Ugh. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=140 Fri, 11 Jun 2004 10:49:23 +0000 Doug /?p=140 It’s 8:45 a.m. (funny that Mark Sohmer hasn’t noticed that the BLOG postings are all on Pacific Time), and I’m waiting for my co-workers to come in (especially “JavaDoug” Ross and Pankaj Verma) after Ravi Gopalan and I pulled an all-nighter at Kronos. Our team is very well-managed, and this is the first deadline crunch that has caused more than a minor annoyance.

    Trying to write while being sleep-deprived is an interesting experiment. I’ve had to rewrite portions of the first paragraph four times because they didn’t make sense. Of course, they still might not make sense.

    Today is the last day of school for the year for John and Isaac, tomorrow is a birthday party for John, who will be 16 on Tuesday. It’s shaping up to be a busy summer.

    Suspected Half-Life Thieves Nabbed!
    Gamers actually helped catch these guys. Also in the ZDNet article is the information that all the source code had been stolen, but I thought previous reports had said only part of the code was. I hope they sentence the jerks, whose theft has delayed the release of Half Life 2 by at least six months, to be thrown into the crowd at a gaming convention. Check out the article and comments at Planet Half Life.

    Pankaj has arrived, so I may get to hand the torch off and get some sleep soon.

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    2 Years at Kronos: Message to My Co-Workers http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=141 Fri, 18 Jun 2004 02:52:05 +0000 Doug /?p=141 Today marked my second year of employment at Kronos.

    What a busy year it has been on the home front! Naomi Nichelle (NaNi) was born in October, 2003. I lost my father in December—which was very sad—but I will see him again one day. Peter Jackson fulfilled our dreams with The Return of the King (and restored the Huorn in The Two Towers extended edition). We (finally) sold our house in Brockton, and moved to Nashua in January, 2004, shortening my commute by over 2 hours per day, and greatly improving our family life. I reveled in buying cool geek swag for NaNi from thinkgeek.com, and my wife Nichelle gave me the “Holy Grail of Lego” (the Star Destroyer model) for our anniversary.

    Work this year has brought many changes. I've had three managers, one of whom endured me only for a couple of weeks. I've tried to forget the HTML UI Framework v1, and concentrate on building v3 (despite the occasional, discourteous reminders of v1 via the PAR system). I've had the opportunity to learn Struts, dramatically improve my Java skills, start studying for Sun Java certification, and achieve victory (with the help of a great team) in building the Lego guy at the tech summit. Along the way came immersive learning in ADP-ization, Czech localization, and AccuRev. Now that Larry Krakauer has retired, I may even have a shot (albeit a long one) at becoming the alpha geek—someday.

    The constant support and genuine caring my co-workers provide has made this year pass quickly and pleasantly. More than ever, I am grateful for the blessing of working at Kronos—such an excellent company—among such excellent company. Thank you for your part in making this past year such a great one!

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    The Virus Wars http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=142 Wed, 23 Jun 2004 17:23:08 +0000 Doug /?p=142 Read this unusually detailed story at PC Magazine online.

    Among other things, this article covers the human engineering factors in virus writing, the state-of-the-art in combating viruses by antivirus software companies, and the real scenarios we are likely to see in the future. The article is very infomative, and includes input from a several different virus writers.

    On a related note, The Wilcox Family Says Goodbye to Internet Explorer: Mozilla has become our default browser for the time being, as I am waiting for some very scary Browser Helper Object vulnerabilities (and other exploits) to be repaired in IE. I’ve had one virus make it past Norton Antivirus in the form of a BHO (it was caught in my nightly scan, and did no damage), and my team leader, who is tech-saavy enough to write his own viruses and extremely security-conscious was nailed with two separate BHO infections in the course of a week. So, for the time being, we default to ’Zilla, and only fire up IE for a few sites (like the Sohmer Family BLOG that won’t display or work correctly in Mozilla.

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    Slaying Dragons: Scumware Removal http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=143 Tue, 29 Jun 2004 19:13:16 +0000 Doug /?p=143 I spent a number of hours this weekend removing scumware from a friend-of-the-family’s machine. The following Q&A pretty much sums up what I went through.

    Q: What caused all this mess?
    A: All these problems were caused by a class of programs known as “adware,” or “spyware,” often called “scumware.” At the most basic level, adware is software that, once installed on your computer, displays advertisements, usually associated with Web sites you visit, and typically in the form of other Internet windows that open.

    There are many varieties of this adware. All varieties are annoying, but have to be installed at the users choice, and can be uninstalled easily via the Control Panel. Unfortunately, many types of adware are not so easily removed, and are extremely intrusive in what they do. Even worse varieties are nothing less than viral infections that require extreme measures to remove. (The courts and Congress are finally beginning to take action against this latter type.) And in a few cases, these software packages will install without even asking the user permission, although they usually rely on unpatched software and lack of virus protection to do so.

    Q: Why did Norton Antivirus not take care of this when it all started?
    A: These problems are a fairly recent phenomenon. Until Norton Antivirus 2004, this type of problem was not addressed by antivirus software (you have Norton 2002, which is excellent, but won’t stop this particular problem from happening).

    Q: What can I be aware of so it doesn’t do it again?
    A: Most of these ad programs, and many viruses, get in through Internet Explorer. There are a couple of reasons for this. Internet Explorer has a couple of known “holes” in its security, and (in addition) unsuspecting users often install things via ActiveX controls (those windows that say, “Do you want to install such-and-such?”) that allow companies to take over search results, the default home page, and even worse, as you found out. You might be interested in this related link on my BLOG: http://blog.wilcoxfamily.net/?p=142. It was probably the case that these adware things were installed when you accidentally clicked “yes” on one of these controls.

    However, in a few cases, just visiting a site can install these browser helper objects. My advice to users for the time being is avoid Internet Explorer (switch to Mozilla) until Microsoft patches these critical holes.

    Also be sure you run the Windows Update Service (it probably reminds you automatically) to keep Windows ME updated with the latest patches, and be extremely religious about updates to PestPatrol and Norton AntiVirus. Run virus and PestPatrol scans at least weekly. (I use a daily scan now.)

    Q: Will all the new things we installed keep everything out?
    A: Between Norton AntiVirus, BHODemon, PestPatrol, and switching to Mozilla, I think you’re in good shape as far as protection goes. You seem to pay good attention to how your computer is operating, and running a PestPatrol scan now and then should keep you free from trouble. Like Norton, PestPatrol works constantly, and should prevent something like this from happening in the future. At the worst, you’ll know when it happens, and we can get it cleaned out.

    Q: Can you explain what each one does, so that I (a know-nothing-about-it guy) will be able to understand.
    A: We installed two new things. The first, is BHODemon. As you’re not using Internet Explorer now, you don’t have to pay too much attention to it. What it does is show you which Browser Helper Objects (little programs that attach to Internet Explorer) are installed, and let you disable them. This was helpful in showing me that you had several obviously malicious Browser Helper Objects (BHOs) installed, and let me disable most of them. There is one on the list that is disabled, but still in existence. Next time I’m working on your computer, I’ll get rid of it, but it isn’t doing any harm right now, as BHODemon is keeping it dead.

    The second piece of software is PestPatrol. PestPatrol is designed to fill in the gap where Norton Antivirus doesn’t typically operate, and completely remove all the little pieces of these nasty programs we’ve been talking about. Like Norton AntiVirus, PestPatrol runs all the time, and will offers good protection and removal of these threats. Like Norton AntiVirus, PestPatrol has an auto-update feature (right-click on the icon in the system tray to run it), and like Norton AntiVirus, you should run a full scan about once a week. Don’t worry about any Spyware Cookies that are reported. They do no harm.

    Q: When we installed Mozilla, you showed me a way to have 2 or 3 subjects up and could go from one to the other, I do not remember how. Can you explain or tell me how to grt that information, from the program.

    A: The “tabbed browsing” is my favorite feature of Mozilla. To open a new tab, just press CTRL-T or choose File --> New --> Navigator Tab. You can also open a link on one page into a new tab, by CTRL-clicking on that link.

    Q: Just out of curiosity,when did you finish up with this?
    A: I think it was about 12:45, but I actually didn’t spend that much time at the computer. Mostly it was a case of running a scan, using PestPatrol to remove files, then restarting and rerunning the scan. After a few cycles, we got down to only one piece of scumware left: CleverIEHooker, which consumed most of my time.

    I spent quite a bit of time with PestPatrol, PestPatrol’s Web site, a startup configuration utility from Microsoft called MSConfig, and the Windows Registry Editor to get rid of CleverIEHooker. It turned out that this program was replacing a registry key every time I removed it, which is why PestPatrol didn’t clean it out completely. I found and deleted the program that was replacing the registry key, got rid of the key, and on the next reboot, was able to remove the remaining pieces. Once I was done, I did a final reboot, verified there was nothing else hiding, and set VNC (the remote-control software) back to its original mode, where you’ll have to activate it if you need my help. Overall, this was at times annoying, but I’ve learned some excellent scumware removal procedures from it. I’m glad I could help.

    —Doug

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    All You Need Is Jesus (So I Need the Light Saber) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=144 Thu, 08 Jul 2004 15:02:33 +0000 Doug /?p=144 [david]David, who turned 5 the day we moved in January, re-discovered my light saber keychain, that came as a promo with Jedi Knight II: Jedi Outcast. He has been trying, unsuccessfully, to get me to give it to him for a couple of weeks. The other day he found an angle that he was sure would work.

    “Dad, when you’re saved, all you need is Jesus, right?” I looked at his face, and noticed that he had an odd-but-very-cute, somewhat droll smile that I’ve seen before, usually when he thinks he’s figured out a way to get more allowance money.

    As he’d been pestering me for several days about the keychain, and I was in its general vicinity, it only took me a few seconds to see where he was going with this. “So,” I said, “you are saying that I only need Jesus, and I don’t need the light saber, so I should give it to you!” His smile broadened, as he was obviously pleased that I saw things his way. “Unfortunately, even though I don’t need the light saber, I still want the light saber, so you can’t have it.” (Plus he has broken it twice.)

    Maybe I’ll get him one for Christmas. Of course, he’s already asking for Christmas gifts early (wanting me to order them online immediately), specifically two Lego Spider-Man sets.

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    How Accurate Is Our Perspective on the War in Iraq? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=145 Wed, 21 Jul 2004 11:57:24 +0000 Doug /?p=145 Commentator Mark Bowden, author of Black Hawk Down, says American troops returning from Iraq are surprised to find such a pessimistic view of the war in the media.

    Listen to his commentary at this National Public Radio archive site.

    Interestingly, Mark Bowden is actually against the war, given the failure to find weapons of mass destruction.

    I still find it interesting that we have forgotten that Bill Clinton believed Iraq had WMDs, that he failed to transfer information on current terrorist threats to the Bush administration, went soft on terror, crippled the military, and even failed to eliminate Osama Bin Laden when given the opportunity.

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    Rust in Piece http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=146 Tue, 27 Jul 2004 14:38:30 +0000 Doug /?p=146 It appears that the last straw has been added to the problems with our still-beloved 1994 Buick Century station wagon.

    Although the car is now 11 years old, we were hoping to get another year or two out of it. Instead, the past two repairs have included one big electrical system problem ($300+), a leaky oil seal ($650+), and a blown head gasket ($1,000+).

    Today the car was hesitating, so Nichelle took it in to a mechanic. He found the transmission fluid was 2 quarts down, and that there was rust on the transmission fluid dipstick. This appears to be caused by contamination between the transmission cooling system and the engine cooling system. Eventually, this kind of corrosion wipes out the transmission, but he thought it could last up to a year, if we watch the fluid levels. It would cost about $2,000 to actually fix the problem. He added the transmission fluid, and gave the car a test drive.

    Nichelle started up the street, and within sight of the mechanic's place, the car died completely. A police officer pushed it with his car into a McDonald’s parking lot.

    At any rate, it looks like we’ll need to get a new[er] car, which we need to see if we can actualy afford. This eliminates, at least temporarily, our ability to go anywhere together. Thankfully, lots of people from church live near us, and will help out.

    Time to start praying about this latest issue, and the obvious anxiety it brings!

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    Nightmares http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=147 Fri, 30 Jul 2004 11:44:22 +0000 Doug /?p=147 Our son, David, is at the age where nightmares are common, and often wakes us up when he’s had a bad dream.

    Sometimes as adults we forget how troubling a bad dream can be, as our nightmares (for most of us anyway) are very infrequent.

    It has been a very stressful week. Work was busy, and worst of all, our station wagon died, leaving us with a 6-person family and a 5-passenger car. Last night I had a horrible dream, for which I am holding my co-worker Doug “JavaDoug” Ross partially responsible:

    I dreamed that, despite the fact that our SMC router's firewall prevents detection of machines behind it, and protection via Norton Antivirus (I do not recommend any other product), our two computers were infected by a trojan that allowed someone from outside to remote control the machines.

    No matter what I tried, the remote-operator would write taunts to the screen, install and launch games one after another (Duke Nukem was one, for some reason), and prevent me from using the machines.

    What was really scary is that in the dream I hit the button which disconnects the cable modem from the outside world, to eliminate the attacker’s access and start cleaning the damage, but the malicious remote operation didn’t stop!

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    Rats! We Missed a Tornado! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=148 Wed, 18 Aug 2004 11:10:51 +0000 Doug /?p=148 Sometime close to when we passed through Meredith, New Hampshire, as we were driving back from Moultonborough on Friday, a small tornado (which started as a waterspout) knocked over a few trees.

    The Champlain Channel has the details, and even video of the tornado.

    I wish I’d seen it.

    I am assembling pictures of our Moultonborough trip at photos.wilcoxfamily.net

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    David Now Has His Own Web Site http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=149 Thu, 26 Aug 2004 11:32:51 +0000 Doug /?p=149 It’s in development, but being documented as it is built. http://david.wilcoxfamily.net/ Part of the trouble was trying to explain to him what I can and cannot do on a Web site. He plays the Flash- and Shockwave-based games online quite often, and figured that I could just whip up one of my own in about half an hour. There is more detail on the site, including my commentary from his perspective. Enjoy.

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    John Makes the Soccer Team http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=150 Fri, 27 Aug 2004 17:08:59 +0000 Doug /?p=150 Congratulations to John, who has been officially awarded a starting fullback position on Tabernacle Christian School’s soccer team.

    John starts ninth grade on August 30. His good friend Jay Mavrogeorge did the appropriate arm-twisting, and succeeded indoing what we could not, getting John to try out for the team.

    (I’d add w00t! but John would consider that too geeky.)

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    What If They Opened a Highway, and Nobody Came? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=151 Fri, 03 Sep 2004 11:26:19 +0000 Doug /?p=151 Yesterday the slowpokes widening Route 3 announced the first section to have all three lanes (and two shoulders) opened, which was Route 3 northbound, between Drum Hill (Route 4) and the New Hampshire border.

    I was very pleased, as I usually go home by driving up to Drum Hill through Chelmsford side roads to get onto Route 3, rather than trying to go through the four-lanes-becoming-two-lanes nightmare currently at the 495 interchange.

    So, I got the e-mail notice yesterday, but discovered that almost no one was actually using the newly-opened right lane. I guess that most people did not know the lane was opened, and definitely did not know that it was open all the way to New Hampshire.

    In a related effect, we have been waiting all summer for the paving to be finished over the railroad grade crossing in Nashua that is on our way to church in Litchfield. The grade crossing was in such a bad condition that any speed over about 1 MPH would virtually guarantee significant damage to one’s vehicle. Well, a few days ago, they finally finished the top coat paving, making the grade crossing passable for the first time in months. However, people are so conditioned to driving over it at extremely slow speeds, that they are still doing so.

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    Fahrenheit 9/11 Does Not Even Deserve the Dubious-Yet-Ubiquitous Description “Based on a True Story” http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=152 Thu, 09 Sep 2004 12:20:10 +0000 Doug /?p=152 See this article at Slate for an unusually detailed (for a Web article) look at the highly controversial leftist propaganda piece. Here is an excerpt:

    To describe this film as dishonest and demagogic would almost be to promote those terms to the level of respectability. To describe this film as a piece of crap would be to run the risk of a discourse that would never again rise above the excremental. To describe it as an exercise in facile crowd-pleasing would be too obvious. Fahrenheit 9/11 is a sinister exercise in moral frivolity, crudely disguised as an exercise in seriousness. It is also a spectacle of abject political cowardice masking itself as a demonstration of "dissenting" bravery.

    … And I thought the end of the Cold War had also brought an end to the great age of propaganda!

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    Farewell to Connie Nordahl http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=153 Tue, 14 Sep 2004 16:04:41 +0000 Doug /?p=153 I am sorry to learn that Connie Nordahl passed on (as she would have said), on Sunday, September 5, 2004. Connie was the original owner of WordSmith, a transcription and typesetting service in South Weymouth, Massachusetts; as such, she was my first boss in Desktop Publishing. (Eventually, I bought out most of the business, which became WordSmith Digital Document Services.)

    Working for Connie was very helpful to my computer career; indeed, working at WordSmith provided many skills and opportunities that became foundational to what I am doing today (Java programming and Web development). When I ever get around to my page to honor “people who have helped me in life,” Connie will have an important place.

    A few weeks ago, I started writing an e-mail because I’d read my first book by P.D. James, one of her favorite authors. Unfortunately, I never finished and sent it. I will also miss having someone who always agreed with strict grammatical rules.

    A memorial service will be held at the Lutheran House of Prayer in Hingham (916 Main St., Route 228), at 3:00 PM on Saturday, September 18, 2004.

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    Family Photos Have Arrived! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=154 Fri, 17 Sep 2004 02:24:37 +0000 Doug /?p=154     

    They’re unretouched, they’re great examples of how difficult it is to get six people to look good at the same instant of time, and they’re here, at the Wilcox Family Photo page.

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    Online [PC/Video] Gaming: An Industry Name Finally “Gets” It http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=155 Mon, 20 Sep 2004 19:24:54 +0000 Doug /?p=155 From this article at Reuters:

    The new platforms are expected to offset what Florin [Gerhard Florin, Electronic Arts’ head of European publishing] sees as a disappointing early start for online gaming. The prospect of amassing a core of gamers who pay a monthly subscription to battle other global combatants on the Internet has yet to take off.

    Florin attributed the slow take-up to a nagging fear that a gamer could be humiliated in challenging an unknown foe.

    “We expected millions of people wanting to play the online games and we have found that, no, they don’t. There is a pretty easy reason. If you play tennis and you don’t know your opponent you are careful whether you should play against him. The same is true with online. If you go online you could be slaughtered or cheated,” he said.

    Overcoming the social aspect of online gaming, he added, will hold back the market in the short term.

    I think this is probably the most frustrating thing in online gaming. It is almost impossible to win (other than when I am playing with a known group of friends), because those who do game online tend to be those who spend far too much time gaming online. So it isn’t that one might be humiliated, it’s that one will be humiliated. Of course, years ago I was beaten at Command and Conquer by an eight-year-old. When one throws in “unsportsmanlike behavior”—everything from player-killers to abusive language—as well as lag time and trouble keeping a connection to many servers, the appeal of single-player games is obvious.

    I do like to play against human opponents. My son John is very challenging, especially at WarCraft III, but our skills are near enough that I can beat him when I really work at it. When I play with Isaac and David we either team up against computer-AI-driven opponents or give them one or more computer partners to help balance things out (except in the Jedi Knight series, where David needs no help). Overall, though, it is rare that online gaming is very fulfilling to the average gamer.

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    Why Is Doug Posting Something About My Little Pony? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=156 Wed, 22 Sep 2004 15:06:22 +0000 Doug /?p=156 Follow this link, courtesy of Christine Bennett, and you will see what can be done with a My Little Pony.

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    A Guide to Digital Photography http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=157 Thu, 30 Sep 2004 12:38:47 +0000 Doug /?p=157 PC Magazine Online has posted an excellent guide to using digital camera features to take great photographs that go beyond point-and-click.

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    Skunks Do Not Always Spray When Surprised http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=158 Thu, 14 Oct 2004 13:35:14 +0000 Doug /?p=158 [doug]Skunks don’t bother me. Really. I actually find the complex smell of the skunk scent to be pleasant, except when it is exceptionally strong. The other night (or morning, I have no idea of the actual time), Nichelle was conducting a late-night grocery procurement operation, and had the nerve to wake me up to help bring the groceries in.

    As I walked down our back steps, I surprised a skunk, who made a fast retreat in the other direction; I was so sleepy I was already three steps away from the skunk before I processed exactly what had happened.

    Now, I know it's possible to “tail” a skunk—pick one up by the tail—which will prevent it from spraying. It’s a risky business, especially as I have no idea how to put one down again. Maybe I can get my kids to try it.

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    Naomi’s First Year http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=159 Sat, 16 Oct 2004 03:05:00 +0000 Doug /?p=159 Naomi celebrated her first birthday on Oct. 13. I wanted to do something for her and also for our family and friends to celebrate her first year. Doug showed me (very patiently) how to get the photos entered into our family photo gallery and all of the editing that went along with it. Amazingly, I did it, to my surprise. This is the first set for Naomi there will be a second part as well, but that'll be for another night.

    We do love our little girl and am very thankful to God for giving her to us. She is truly a precious and sweet gift from our Heavenly Father (I must also point out that our boys are gifts (just as precious and sweet, but boyishly (lol), as well).

    Things that she’s doing now: climbing up onto our loveseat to the top over the loveseat onto the stairs and back over again, but not before letting go and falling down to the cushions laughing. Unfortunately, I didn’t have the camera ready for that one. She’s been taking steps now for about a month on her own...not running yet, which is perfectly fine. ;-)

    Words she says: I would have to say that her first word was: Isaac (sounding like “Aye-yah”; now it's clearer, but not with the c ending. She also said “Mum,” but that was only a few times. She does say “Mama” and “Dada” now. Other words are “up” and “hi” (from time to time).

    She already loves to have her hair done. I give her a container with her barrettes in them, and she plays as I do her hair. Once I’m done, she gets a turn and does mine. She loves the phone, especially being able to play with our cell phone. She enjoys opening it and playing with the buttons and pretending to talk into it. It’s charming. Hmmm, now that I remember that I don't think I had any photos of that either...need to get with it, I know.

    The great thing about getting these entered myself is that I can do more now without bugging Doug—so our boys will have a place on in the photo gallery, too. Enjoy the pictures.

    Love,
    Nichelle

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    David and Salvation http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=160 Tue, 19 Oct 2004 00:39:49 +0000 Nichelle /?p=160 On October 12, I was standing in the living room when David came upstairs after he got changed into his play clothes after school. He says to me, "I want to ask Jesus to be my Savior." It took just a moment to register, but what a joy it was to hear those words come out of his mouth. So we went off to my room together and I asked him many questions about why he wanted to do that and shared verses with him as well.

    After all that was said and done, he understood why he needed to be saved and wanted to do it right away. How awesome that was.

    As I shared scripture with him, he would reach over and give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. It was so very precious and special. David prayed and got saved that afternoon.

    The next day he asked about baptism, we haven't gotten into that yet though.

    Another wonderful thing is that David's best friend is named David (who was born just 2 days before him), talked to his mother that same evening and he too got saved. Neither boy knew of this happening for both David's mom and I gave testimony at church about what took place with our children. Some time on Thursday, Cindy LaVoie told her son David his friend David got saved, too, the other day. His eyes got wide and bright and he just had this great big smile on his face. I also told David what took place with his friend and his reaction was nearly the same. God is awesome!!! Praise Him for the salvation of these little ones.

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    Digitizing the Star Wars Trilogy http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=161 Mon, 25 Oct 2004 15:38:57 +0000 Doug /?p=161 My team leader, Brian Cortez, contributed this link from the BBC: Macs do Star Wars Dirty Work: Behind the scenes, painstaking effort and computing power has gone into cleaning up George Lucas’s original Star Wars trilogy for its DVD release.

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    New Hampshire Residents Choose to Die http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=162 Tue, 26 Oct 2004 12:10:43 +0000 Doug /?p=162 Co-worker Josh Ain penned this amusing article at BBSpot, inspired by the New Hampshire motto, “Live Free or Die.”

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    Doug, the Haiku Master http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=163 Tue, 26 Oct 2004 14:04:37 +0000 Doug /?p=163 Stream unvisited—
    An update is required.
    I wait forever.

    Okay, the above title is an exagerration, but let me explain. We are using a new version of the source control system in place at Kronos. (We switched to this new system—which is not a Kronos product—about six months ago, from VSS, which sometimes produced catastrophic problems, and was not living up to our needs). The latest release of this new product promised some highly beneficial new features, but, primarily because Kronos is pushing the product well beyond its typical implementation, there have been some “performance issues.”

    After receiving a notice last week that performance was really slow, but the system was not locked up, instead of a whine, I posted back a quick Haiku. Haiku, at least as we learned it in high school, is Japanese poetry consisting of three lines of five, seven, and five syllables, respectively. There are variations on the definition, especially when working in English, but the format tends to produce poetry that appears to be deeply insightful at best, and pithy at worst.

    I received quite a few compliments on the e-mail, but didn’t realize how notorious I’d become until a co-worker who I do not believe I’ve ever even seen stopped me in the stairwell and asked, “You’re the guy who wrote that Haiku, aren’t you?”

    Here are a few of the other comments:

    • This is most masterful.
    • Thanks Doug. This helps make the pain of [the source control product] more bearable.
    • Very nice!
    • {:-)
    • This is great. (-:
      I’m sure you've seen all those “error message haiku” that have been circulating for years. Some of them are very funny as well. My favorite was:

      With searching comes loss
      And the presence of absence:
      “My Novel” not found.
    • Congratulations tovarisch Doug Wilcox: you are now awarded the “Udarnik of the Month” title. Now write more haikus “sverx plana” before the end of October. (“sverx plana” means something like “above the required quota”).
    • bravo!
    • Excellent haiku of the day. Thank you!
    • Excellent!
    • LOL!!!

      How about:

      Jboss starting up,
      Machine useless for all tasks.
      Gaze at screen saver.

      To which I responded:

      JBoss now better;
      Standards can be pleasant:
      One Gig of RAM.

      OK, that one made my cat wake up when I laughed!

    So am I popular, or notorious?

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    62,000 versus 3.4 Million—What Does This Show about the US Technology “Edge”? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=164 Thu, 28 Oct 2004 13:23:21 +0000 Doug /?p=164 Dean Kamen (the inventor of the Segway) “noted that last year the U.S. graduated just 62,000 engineers (there were more Sports Management graduates) as compared to the 3.4 million technology grads coming out of universities in India. Kamen says we have only ourselves to blame. ‘You get what you celebrate…we celebrate sports and movies.’”

    See this article at PC Magazine online for a more complete story about his speech at the FIRST robotics competition.

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    Why President Bush Is Opposed to Federal Spending on Stem Cell Research http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=165 Mon, 01 Nov 2004 00:10:10 +0000 Doug /?p=165 This weekend, for the first time ever, I actually heard a newscast (a Webcast, actually) that included the words, “the destruction of embryos,” in conjunction with President Bush’s stance on Federal funding of stem cell reseach.

    On October 21, I had the privilege of attending a lecture by Lisa Boucher Clark, Ph.D., from the University of New Hampshire, entitled “Stem Cells and Cloning: The Perils and the Promise.” The issue was fascinating, and Dr. Clark presented this extremely controversial topic in a factual context, attempting to avoid editorializing or taking a side on the issues, and, in general, succeeding in doing so. (The topic needs a BLOG entry of its own; despite Dr. Clark’s efforts, there were outbursts and arguments that erupted from the audience.) One of the things she discussed is the promise of using stem cells in therapeutic medicine. For example, we are nearing the technological point at which it would be possible to combine somatic cell nuclear transfer (cloning) with stem cell harvesting to produce stem cells that would later be coaxed to differentiate into heart cells—or just about any other tissue—that perfectly match the donor-recipient to replace damaged heart muscle. (This is something of an oversimplification: Although the basic technologies have already been proven, they are not yet very reliable, and to date, SCNT has not been successful with human cells.)

    This is the promise of cloning and stem cell research. But it comes at a price. Assuming the SCNT procedure works, the stem cells produced would be removed from an embryo at its blastocyst stage, thus killing the developing embryo. Those stem cells could then be cultured into entire cell lines. Note that current stem cell lines are produced using discarded embryos from in vitro fertilization (IVF) clinics, not from cloning via SCNT.

    Our President does not want to give federal money toward stem cell research that destroys embryos. He has allowed for federal funding for stem cell research in cultured stem cell lines that are already in existence, and has done nothing to prohibit or outlaw privately-funded stem cell research. He is not trying to stop the progress of science in a potentially helpful area. He is living up to his beliefs, and his promises, by not putting tax dollars to use in killing the unborn.

    The media have done a poor job of presenting the technology and the subject matter as it actually exists, although it is not entirely their fault. Former President Reagan’s son Ron is an outspoken advocate of stem cell research, but he carefully avoids talking about the fact that embryos are destroyed in the current process. More proponents of embryonic stem cell research should come clean on what the full implications of such research are.

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    So, Where Do They Stand? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=166 Mon, 01 Nov 2004 01:37:07 +0000 Doug /?p=166 IssuePresident BushSenator KerryPassage of a Federal Marriage Protection AmendmentSupportsOpposesPermanent Extension of the $1,000 Per-Child Tax CreditSupportsOpposesEducational Choice for Parents (School Vouchers)SupportsOpposesUnrestricted Abortion on DemandOpposesNo ResponseFederal Funding for Faith-Based Charitable OrganizationsSupportsNo ResponsePermanent Elimination of the “Marriage Penalty” TaxSupportsOpposesPermananet Elimination of the Death (Inheritance) TaxSupportsOpposesPartial Birth Abortion BanSupportsOpposesPublic Financing of AbortionsOpposesSupportsAdoption of Children by HomosexualsOpposesNo ResponsePlacing US Troops under UN ControlOpposesNo Reponse (but you’ve heard his speeches)Affirmative Action Programs that Promote Preferential TreatmentOpposesSupportsAllowing Younger Workers to Invest a Portion of Their Social Security Tax in a Private AccountSupportsOpposesUnborn Victims of Violence ActSupportsOpposesAppointing Pro-Life JudgesSupportsOpposesProhibiting Distributing “Morning After” Pills to Children in SchoolsSupportsOpposesRequring Parental Notification for a Minor Daugher’s AbortionSupportsOpposes]]> 166 2004-10-31 20:37:07 2004-11-01 01:37:07 open open so-where-do-they-stand publish 0 0 post 0 275 204.110.135.35 2004-11-01 00:00:00 2004-11-01 00:00:00 1 0 0 276 158.228.57.6 2004-11-01 00:01:00 2004-11-01 00:00:00 Here is an excellent link to a video about President Bush and his faith.]]> 1 0 0 277 158.228.57.6 2004-11-01 00:02:00 2004-11-01 00:00:00 Palpatine for President in 2004. There used to be a hilarious site, which is now gone, entitled Palpatine for President, and even included an anlysis of possible running mates. (My favorite was Darth Vader; Cons: Goes through military leaders like Kleenex.)]]> 1 0 0 278 158.228.57.6 2004-11-01 00:03:00 2004-11-01 00:00:00 Amusing.]]> 1 0 0 280 24.91.66.155 2004-11-02 00:04:00 2004-11-02 00:00:00 1 0 0 Death and Taxes http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=167 Wed, 03 Nov 2004 12:21:43 +0000 Doug /?p=167

    Taxpayer Dies After Official Error
    Mon Nov 1, 2004 07:49 AM ET

    WARSAW (Reuters) - A Polish taxpayer died from a heart attack after a demand for immediate payment in full of 80,000 zlotys ($23,560) following a mistake by the tax office. Locksmith Zbigniew Macewicz died during a hearing in the central city of Bydgoszcz, where tax collectors demanded 80,000 zlotys because he failed to keep to a restructuring agreement.

    But, in fact, the tax office had miscalculated one payment, telling Macewicz to pay 8.80 zlotys less than he should have and thus putting him in arrears on his repayment schedule.

    The government expressed regret over the incident.

    "I express my deep regret at the taxpayer's death," deputy Finance Minister Stanislaw Stec was quoted by the Gazeta Wyborcza daily as saying in Bydgoszcz, where he was sent to look into the matter.

    He ordered an internal audit of the city's tax authorities.

    © Reuters 2004. All Rights Reserved.

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    Man goes on rampage in tax office Fri Jul 29, 2005 11:30 AM ET BELGRADE (Reuters) - After twice receiving a tax bill, an enraged Serb stormed the tax office, started shooting and tried to set the tax chief and the building on fire, Serb media reported Friday. Nebojsa Miladinovic, a saw-mill owner in his fifties, tried for days to convince tax officials in the central town of Gornji Milanovac he had paid his 192,200 dinar ($2,794) bill. They said he had not, sent the bill again and blocked his bank account. After arguing his case Thursday, Miladinovic returned, doused tax chief Gojko Stefanovic and the office files with petrol, shot at computers and yelled "I was ripped off." Two people were injured in the melee and parts of the office caught fire, with panicked staff escaping through the windows. Police arrested Miladinovic, whom neighbors described as a hard worker who never made trouble. Witnesses said he even paid for parking his car in front of the tax office before the rampage. © Reuters 2005. All Rights Reserved.
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    See You Later, Sam Tanasso http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=168 Mon, 08 Nov 2004 17:46:33 +0000 Doug /?p=168 Yesterday we learned that Sam Tanasso, long-time friend of the Wilcox family, passed away Friday at age 80.

    Sam was the treasurer at our church when we lived in Massachusetts, and had been there as long as I could remember.

    An online obituary is available here, including a Web form to send a note of condolences to the family.

    I will have to write a bit more later.

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    Just Stirring Things up a Bit: Media Bias http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=178 Mon, 06 Dec 2004 12:03:42 +0000 Doug /?p=178 I thought I would post a couple of links for some interesting reading:

    • NPR Reporter Says Christians Should “Burn” (an NPR reporter makes a mammoth CLM—Career Limiting Move)
    • Cheering in the Press Box (This reporter points out something I noticed: The “photographic bias” in the recent election. Of course, Heinlein wrote about this technique in “A Bathroom of Her Own,” which is included—along with another favorite of mine, “‘Pravda’ Means ‘Truth’”—in Expanded Universe)

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    Christmas Greetings from the President http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=179 Thu, 09 Dec 2004 15:59:34 +0000 Doug /?p=179 A few days ago, I got home and Nichelle told me we had received a special Christmas greeting. I looked at the envelope, and saw that it had what may be America’s most famous address, and that it was postmarked from Crawford, Texas.

    We like the verse of Scripture our President and first lady have chosen: “Let us come before Him with thanksgiving, and extol Him with music and song.” (Psalm 95:2)

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    Huygens Descent Today http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=180 Fri, 14 Jan 2005 13:20:28 +0000 Doug /?p=180 The European Space Agency has an excellent annotated animation of the Huygens probe (launched from the Cassini spacecraft on Christmas Eve) descent to the surface of Saturn’s moon Titan. See also The Cassini Site at the Jet Propulsion Laboratory (JPL).

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    180 2005-01-14 08:20:28 2005-01-14 13:20:28 open open huygens-descent-today publish 0 0 post 0 299 24.147.79.190 2005-01-23 00:00:00 2005-01-23 00:00:00 ESA’s Cassini-Huygens site for the latest pictures. Brian Cortez rightly points out the that ESA whined a lot about how slow NASA was in getting pictures publicized (which was just plain silly—especially during the mars missions, where you could essentially watch the images as they downloaded from the Red Planet). Anyway, the weasels at the ESA are dragging out the release to the public of images and other data.]]> 1 0 0
    What's Wrong with Nichelle? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=181 Thu, 27 Jan 2005 12:06:01 +0000 Doug /?p=181 Other than Fibromyalgia, that’s something we’re still trying to figure out.

    Today we visit with the neurologist, who may choose to have Nichelle undergo an MRI. We had blood work done last week, but still need to discuss the results.

    Nichelle has had debilitating exhuastion, strange feelings in her limbs, and stabbing pains in her head that spread throughout her body. Put everything together and you get a lot of time spent on the couch or in bed, but she never seems to get enough rest.

    Can you believe it? She actually wants me to help out around the house. Sheesh.

    I think she's just lazy.


    Related posts: The Twins Are Back: What’s Wrong with Nichelle, Continued, Pain; or view all posts categorized as related to fibromyalgia.]]>
    181 2005-01-27 07:06:01 2005-01-27 12:06:01 open open what%e2%80%99s-wrong-with-nichelle publish 0 0 post 0 300 24.62.84.137 2005-01-31 00:00:00 2005-01-31 00:00:00 I think she's just lazy. Doug = Brave!]]> 1 0 0 301 24.147.79.190 2005-01-31 00:01:00 2005-01-31 00:00:00 1 0 0 302 158.228.57.6 2005-02-01 00:02:00 2005-02-01 00:00:00 One Flaw in Women By the time the Lord made woman, he was into His sixth day of working overtime. An angel appeared and said, “Why are you spending so much time on this one?” And the Lord answered, “Have you seen my spec sheet on her? She has to be completely washable, but not plastic, have over 200 movable parts, all replaceable, and able to run on diet Coke and leftovers, have a lap that can hold four children at one time, have a kiss that can cure anything from a scraped knee to a broken heart—and she will do everything with only two hands.” The angel was astounded at the requirements. “Only two hands! No way! And that’s just on the standard model? That’s too much work for one day. Wait until tomorrow to finish.” “But I won’t,” the Lord protested. “I am so close to finishing this creation that is so close to my own heart. She already heals herself when she is sick AND can work 18-hour days.” The angel moved closer and touched the woman. “But you have made her so soft, Lord.” “She is soft,” the Lord agreed, “but I have also made her tough. You have no idea what she can endure or accomplish.” “Will she be able to think?” asked the angel. The Lord replied, “Not only will she be able to think, she will be able to reason and negotiate.” The angel then noticed something, and, reaching out, touched the woman’s cheek. “Oops, it looks like you have a leak in this model. I told you that you were trying to put too much into this one.” “That’s not a leak,” the Lord corrected, “that’s a tear!” “What’s the tear for?” the angel asked. “The Lord said, ’The tear is her way of expressing her joy, her sorrow, her pain, her disappointment, her love, her loneliness, her grief and her pride.” “The angel was impressed. “You are a genius, Lord. You thought of everything! Woman is truly amazing.” And she is! Women have strengths that amaze men. They bear hardships, and they carry burdens; but they hold happiness, love and joy. They smile when they want to scream. They sing when they want to cry. They cry when they are happy and laugh when they are nervous. They fight for what they believe in. They stand up to injustice. They don’t take no for an answer when they believe there is a better solution. They go without so that their family can have. They go to the doctor with a frightened friend. They love unconditionally. They cry when their children excel and cheer when their friends get awards. They are happy when they hear about a birth or a wedding. Their hearts break when a friend dies. They grieve at the loss of a family member, yet they are strong when they think there is no strength left. They know that a hug and a kiss can heal a broken heart. Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors. They’ll drive, fly, walk, run, or e-mail you this to show how much they care about you. The heart of a woman is what makes the world keep turning. They bring joy, hope and love. They have compassion and ideals. They give moral support to their family and friends. Women have vital things to say and everything to give. However, if there is one flaw in women, it is that they forget their worth. ]]> 1 0 0 303 24.147.79.190 2005-02-01 00:03:00 2005-02-01 00:00:00 1 0 0 304 204.110.135.35 2005-02-07 00:04:00 2005-02-07 00:00:00 1 0 0 305 24.147.79.190 2005-02-07 00:05:00 2005-02-07 00:00:00 1 0 0 306 158.228.57.6 2005-02-08 00:06:00 2005-02-08 00:00:00 1 0 0 307 24.147.79.190 2005-02-08 00:07:00 2005-02-08 00:00:00 about an hour’s time THREE GRUELING HOURS, maybe a little longer, but he was buying for a family of six. It generally take me longer to do that and I know where to find the items, but I also love shopping. Actually, I go up each isle and cross off things as I go. But in the super Walmart, the first time buying that much food alone, he did amazingly well. Love you dear. ;-) Being the spouse of someone w/ a chronic health problem isn't an easy thing. Doug is awesome in more ways than you realize and I thank God for bringing him into my life. Honey, if you see any errors/typos in this entry, you can go right ahead and correct them. LYVM ;-)]]> 1 0 0 309 158.228.57.252 2005-02-08 00:08:00 2005-02-08 00:00:00 1 0 0 310 24.147.79.190 2005-02-09 00:09:00 2005-02-09 00:00:00 1 0 0 311 158.228.57.6 2005-02-09 00:10:00 2005-02-09 00:00:00 1 0 0 312 158.228.57.6 2005-02-09 00:11:00 2005-02-09 00:00:00 should have explained was that my phone call did not change the time my order took to be filled. I felt really bad, though, about this perceived offense. Next time I will step out of line (an option that did not occur to me at the time). Things went better after the deli. I called Nichelle to get the rest of the list, which she was working on from home. Bear in mind I needed brand names and package colors in most cases, and you’ll have some idea of just how patient she is. I filled up my paper, then the space above where I was writing, then the back of the paper, then the space above that. She also had to tell me what not to get, such as not substituting snap pea pods for snow pea pods. (Thankfully, she thought to mention that one.) Then the hunt began. It was about 10:30 by this time, and I was already getting tired. Nichelle and I stayed in touch by cell when I had a question, which was several times throughout the expedition. Nichelle had also given me tips about what things were near, which helped. I continued hunting. Meanwhile, the staff was doing shelf restocking, which sometimes obscured my view. Despite wearing my most perplexed expression, none of the staff offered to help me find anything. My one victory in that respect was that I needed to find a particular type of rice. (I have forgotten which.) Wal*Mart sells 4,396 different varieties of rice, everything from Goya enriched white rice to Uncle Ben’s microwavable somethingorother. I walked up and down the long stretch of rice, reading every label and every price tag. Finally, I noticed what Nichelle wanted, in an unopened shipping bag! I never did find the frozen egg patties, and they were out of snow pea pods. Otherwise, I found everything on the list. To add to my worries I was being very budget conscious. It was two days until pay day, and we had paid all our bills, so there was not much money left in our primary account. (I did have a backup account to use, but did not want to dig into it.) I was helped by the fact that the Super Wal*Mart is not as big as the large supermarkets. Still, I did not finish until after midnight. I don’t know how Nichelle accomplishes this every week, especially often with children in tow.
    “Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.“ —Proverbs 31:28
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    Mulan II: “Dishonor! Dishonor on your whole family! Dishonor on you ... dishonor on your cow ...” http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=182 Tue, 15 Feb 2005 21:59:45 +0000 Doug /?p=182 Last weekend, we decided to rent a movie for the kids to watch, and Mulan II was one of the things in which they had expressed an interest. The following commentary is put together from Nichelle’s comments and mine, with individual comments where noted. (Caution: Spoilers within.)

    Mulan, the original, is one of Disney’s finest pieces of animation, with a compelling story, delightful characters, masterful animation, thrilling music, and an overall moral lesson of willingness to sacrifice one’s own life in order to save the life of her beloved father. Although the heroine is slightly flawed—she attempts to cheat on her matchmaking exam—the results of her cheating are appropriately disastrous.

    The overall moral message of Mulan II is “Follow your heart, regardless of duty, honor, or propriety.” The second immoral theme is, when all else fails, propagate a lie. (I haven’t seen this much pervasive selfish behavior since the abhorrent Titanic.)

    (Doug) I also have major gripes with the overall quality of the film. Character animation design has changed dramatically with several characters, perhaps most with Cri-Kee the cricket. A children’s fight training scene at the beginning, meant to be reminiscent of the amazing “Be a Man” training sequence from the original, is barely worthy of modern television cartoons, and seems to be jarringly out of place with the style of animation used in both films. Facial and body movements do not match the first film for many characters, which further separates one from the illusion of continuity.

    Other than noticing the animation changes, our initial thoughts about the movie were good. The humor was great. We were laughing for a while, and then things went a different way. I’ve seen other sequels to Disney movies, but haven’t been disgusted by one of them as much as with Mulan II.

    Mulan claims she was “following her heart” when she took her father’s place in the first film. Not true! She did that to save his life at the risk of her own, and pressed on when her heart told her to give up.

    In Mulan II, Mulan and General Li are ordered to safely transport the Emperor’s daughters to the another province, where the princesses were to be married to seal a mutual protection pact. If that does not succeed, China fall prey to the superior forces of the Huns, who would invade, causing perhaps millions to die and the destruction of the empire.

    All the characters, including the princesses, start off by reluctantly fulfilling their duty. Mulan soon expresses her disapproval of an arranged marriage, and leads the princesses to believe that all would be well if they simply followed their hearts. Nichelle and I both thought of Jeremiah 17:9—“The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?” The princesses (within hours) fall completely in love infatuation with their three guards, who are, as one might expect, Yao, Chien-Po, and Ling from the first film. This infatuation, combined with Mulan’s coaxing, the guards’ misdirection, and Mushu’s machinations, leads to the princesses’ abandoning their mission. In the end, when she believes General Li to be dead, Mulan determines that she will complete the mission by offering herself to wed the eldest prince in the place of the princesses.

    With its predictable plot moving in such uncomfortable directions, I began to have serious misgivings about the film early on. (Doug) I actually found myself getting sick to my stomach toward the end, particularly as I considered the intended audience. I want my daughter to be like the first Mulan, willing to give her life for an extremely noble cause, not like this version, willing to follow her heart toward whatever selfish desire it happens to find.

    We stopped the film at one point, and talked about “following one’s heart” with the boys. They agreed that honor, duty, and obedience were rather to be chosen. We explained that this movie would not be purchased or watched by them again. (They had no complaints.)

    There were no negative consequences for the characters’ dereliction of duty and direct disobedience to the Emperor. In the final scenes, General Li arrives to prevent the marriage of Mulan, and Mushu impersonates the Golden Dragon of somethingorother. Mulan and the General seem to have no problem in going along with such an obvious deception. It is accepted, with an “all’s well that ends well” finale that would make Machiavelli proud. The princesses get to marry who they wanted by going against everything their father said, and doing the opposite of what they were committed to.

    Deception was Mushu’s way of getting what he wanted (which is not much different than the first film, so at least his character is consistent), but he did admit to his deceit and selfish motivation later in the first film. Misguidedness, deceit, and a lack of honor could have destroyed all that Mulan originally fought for. (Nichelle) Now that I look back, the only one who actually wanted to do what was right in the film was Cri-Kee! I have been quite disappointed with a few other Disney films having such poor messages (such as The Lion King), but, Mulan II may be the worst to date.

    Get your kids the first Mulan, The Emperor’s New Groove, or Lilo & Stitch instead.

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    Fighting the Sick Computer http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=183 Fri, 25 Feb 2005 15:17:29 +0000 Doug /?p=183 [doug]Before you ask, I will point out that I run a hardware firewall (provided via my SMC Barricade router, and have Norton Antivirus 2005 doing e-mail scanning, realtime protection, and nightly full system scans, including, of course, using the latest virus definitions. This cannot be a virus problem!)

    It all started just before Christmas. I really needed more hard drive space, so I decided to stop by Best Buy and grab a decent-sized (160 GB) Western Digital 7800 RPM drive. You’re probably thinking, “No problem, just throw the new drive in, and you’re all set.”

    (I am going to outline this from here on, and will update the entry when I have a chance to provide more detailed information.)

    • Used the Western Digital utilities to copy the system and secondary partiition to new partitions on the new drive.
    • I begin booting from teh new drive, with the old drive attached as a secondary drive.
    • I am amazed at the new drive’s performance increase.
    • After 3 days, the new drive slows to a crawl, and shows massive time-to-read errors in its SMART monitoring system, but no data loss or bad sectors.
    • I exchange the new drive, and repeat the process.
    • Network games that are heavy on processing power start locking up the system. I suspect a power supply overload, so I disconnect the old drive. The problems go away.
    • At the beginning of February, a bunch of System level-files go missing (application data like the install file for Microsoft FrontPage). A bunch of DLLs stop loading. The only real symptoms are missing icons, the inability to update old installs, a 5-minute launch time on our ZoomBrowser, and System Restore won't come up.
    • I spend days using the Event Viewer. There are no hardware failures or disc errors reported, and no explanation for this.
    • In mid February, the unthinkable happens. David puts in Knights of the Old Republic, and the CD icon comes up, but the launcher never appears.
    • I kill the process and log his account off. When I jump to my account, I get a notice that an error occurred with one of the registry files, and that Windows had restored the registry from a backup.
    • I reboot, and discover that I can’t get into my account. Several of the other accounts have reverted to their “new user” states—the default desktop, no e-mail configuration, etc.
    • I fear that more folders have disappeared, and that our e-mail is among them. I start a search for inbox.dbx, under my Documents and Settings folder, and it finds nothing.
    • My fifth search produces results. Our e-mail is safe.
    • I reinstall the drive old drive from December, and synchronize our files.
    • Earlier this week, the same registry problem occurs. this time I run system restore from the previous night’s automatic recovery point, and everything returns to normal

    I still have not found the source of the problem, and am very anxious while wondering if it will occur again. Maybe the registry fault is an errant piece of Knights of the Old Republic, or even caused by a dirty CD. The game itself was copied from the "old" D-partition to the new bigger one, so something could have gone wrong in a strange way. I’ll have to give reinstalling it a try.

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    Microsoft Developers Are Allowed to Have a Sense of Humor http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=184 Thu, 03 Mar 2005 17:40:35 +0000 Doug /?p=184 I found this very amusing TechNet article in today’s Langa List.

    Here is an excerpt:

    I Thought We Weren’t Supposed to Change Settings in the Registry?

    As you probably know, Microsoft has a sort of love-hate relationship with the registry. The registry is the configuration database for Windows and Windows applications, and many options can only be set by manually changing a value in the registry. For example, if you’ve ever read a Microsoft Knowledge Base article, you’ve likely seen a sentence similar to this:

    To correct this problem, change the following value in the registry.

    Now that’s fine, except that this sentence is invariably followed by a disclaimer similar to this one:

    Warning: Don’t ever change a value in the registry. Ever. We know we just told you to do that, but would you jump off a cliff if we told you to? Don’t ever change a value in the registry. Don’t even say the word registry. We know a guy once who said the word registry, and three days later he was hit by a bus. True story. As a matter of fact, you shouldn’t even have a registry on your computer. If you suspect that you do have a registry on your computer, call us and a trained professional will be dispatched to your office to remove the registry immediately. If you accidentally touch the registry, wash your hands with soap and water and call a doctor. Do not swallow the registry or get it in your eyes!

    Now, to be honest, some of those fears are a bit exaggerated, and the disclaimer is there largely for legal reasons (remember, this is the day and age when you can order hot coffee in a restaurant and then sue the restaurant when the coffee they give you turns out to be, well, hot). If you do it correctly, changing the registry is perfectly harmless. At the same time, however, it’s true that there are certain values in the registry that should never be changed. In fact, changing them can pretty much wipe your computer out, once and for all. It’s like working on the bomb squad: if you snip the right wire, the bomb is defused and everything is fine. But if you snip the wrong one—Boom! You just created Microsoft Bob!

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    Lightning Out of Lebananon http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=185 Fri, 04 Mar 2005 12:21:27 +0000 Doug /?p=185 The American people have an amazing capacity to ignore the important while obsessing on the trivial.

    I am not usually a big fan of Terry Gross or her NPR program, “Fresh Air,” but her show from yesterday was unusually good. She interviewed law enforcement expert Tom Diaz and journalist Barbara Newman warn of the presence of Hezbollah militants in the United States. They are the authors of Lightning Out of Lebanon: Hezbollah Terrorists on American Soil, who say the cells could potentially be more dangerous than al Qaeda, estimate Hezbollah has cells in 14 cities.

    Give this frightening story a listen.

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    America Leaves a Lasting Impression (A Brit’s Love Letter to America) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=186 Fri, 04 Mar 2005 17:09:45 +0000 Doug /?p=186 I was moved by the BBC’s Washington Correspondent Rob Watson’s farewell address as he prepared to leave the US after 10 years of residency.

    You will want to read the whole article, but here are a few brief excerpts:

    As infectious as their happiness is their optimism and “can do” spirit, the sense that there is no problem which does not have a solution.

    As a European, what I found most refreshing here was the remarkable lack of envy in American society.

    When Americans see someone doing well, they do not grumble about it being all right for some, instead they say, one day that could be me.

    I have marvelled too at the country's ability to absorb so many immigrants, from so many different places, and at the ease with which Americans adapt to change.

    Driving it all is the American dream, which still motivates immigrants and those born here alike. A belief that tomorrow is always a better day and that there is nothing you can not do if you really put your mind to it.

    Until I return, I will not mind telling anyone that the rest of the world has far more to learn from you than it has to fear.

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    Naomi News http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=187 Fri, 04 Mar 2005 15:57:48 +0000 Nichelle /?p=187 A day doesn’t go by that I don’t tell Doug the things that Naomi is doing and I’ve been told, “You should be blogging this.” Well, I’m finally doing that.

    I'll start with the most recent:

    • Naomi will be 17 months old on March 13.
    • She has been putting on her own shoes on the right feet now for a little over a week. I think that’s pretty good.
    • She has 10 teeth now, and 3 or 4 are on their way in.
    • Yesterday, I went to get my hair done (the braids are back) and it took only 5 hours. For those of you who say, “Five hours!!! No way!” I have to say that, at the place I used to go to, it took up to 8 hours. So I was very thankful to get out of there in only 5 hours. Anyway, Naomi came with me again. Before we left from home and during the trip to the salon I was praying she’d do well. She’s been teething, and the night before in church she wasn’t very happy and her mouth was very sore. Anyway, Naomi was angelic the entire time I was there, really. The only time she fussed was when one of the owners of the salon tried to hold her (she didn’t like that), and one other time she tripped and cried. Both times though, she cried only for a very short time, and then she was back to her playful self. Naomi was highly praised by the other hair stylist and customers for being so good for that long, and even without her nap.
    • She’s been saying the following words: “erit iz” for here it is; “Ankoo” for thank you; “Eez” for please. There are others, but they’re not coming to me right now, as I’m a bit sleep deprived. I will have to add more another time.
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    I am an Idiot http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=188 Tue, 08 Mar 2005 14:42:45 +0000 Doug /?p=188 [doug]Nichelle is making me post this, because I used it as leverage to get her to finally post an update on all the cute things Naomi is doing.

    As you know, we had some computer problems, which seem to have all been solved. However, after upgrading to Trillian 3.0, Nichelle complained that she was not hearing any sound from Trillian.

    We tested sound from other sources, Media Player, Flash animations, etc., and everything was fine, so I logged on to her screen and checked the Trillian preferences. Sound was enabled, and I looked everywhere trying to see what was wrong.

    A few minutes later, she looked through the sound preferences for Trillian, and discovered that, despite the fact I had looked at the setting three or four times, I completely overlooked the checkbox marked, “Do not play sounds when I’m away.” Nichelle was, of course, as usual, in “away” mode all the time, because she tends to just be at the computer for a few minutes.

    So, I get an “F” in troubleshooting for that day. ::: sigh :::

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    More Lego Coolness http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=189 Wed, 09 Mar 2005 18:31:06 +0000 Doug /?p=189 Check out Nathan Sawaya’s amazing full-size Han Solo in Carbonite sculpture, as well as his other work.

    This makes me want to throw my Lego out the window, especially when I consider all the trouble I have had putting together a decent-looking Thunderbid 2 model. ::: sigh :::

    (Thanks to Christine Bennett for the link to Nathan Sawaya’s site.)

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    Warning: I Am Posting Something Nice About the IRS http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=190 Thu, 10 Mar 2005 16:18:04 +0000 Doug /?p=190

    We, like many Americans, are waiting for our tax refund from the Treasury Department. I was poking about the IRS Web site, and discovered an online tool that will tell you when the IRS received your return, and when your refund check will be mailed. Give it a try!

    Of course, I lean Libertarian (although I understand the needs of a Federalist system), so I want much more of my tax money back, but that’s a different topic.

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    And That’s … Bad? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=191 Fri, 18 Mar 2005 11:33:28 +0000 Doug /?p=191 The following is an excerpt from a Reuters Article (which probably won’t be available a month from now). I say, anything that gets kids to stop watching television is probably a good idea.

    Commercial Leaves Kids Too Scared to Watch TV

    LONDON (Reuters) - A Marmite commercial that parodied 1950's science fiction film "The Blob" has been banned from all children's' programs in Britain after leaving kids too scared to watch television, the advertising watchdog said.

    Six people complained to the Advertising Standards Authority (ASA) that their toddlers had been terrified by the adverts, with four refusing to watch television after seeing them and two suffering nightmares.

    I am amazed at how early children can identify with what is on television. One evening Naomi, at age 16 months, picked up her paper “Zoo Pals” plate, held it vertically in front of her face, and hummed a little song as she rotated it back and forth slightly. Nichelle told me that Naomi was mimicking the commercial.

    Naomi is also enthralled with “Blue’s Clues,” and David, somewhat reluctantly, had to share his stuffed Blue dog with Naomi until Nichelle was fortunate enough to find one costing only a few dollars for Naomi. We have some old episodes on tape, and Naomi loves the program. Singing the theme song (which I do very poorly) is enough to get her dancing. I find this impact of television both fascinating and a bit frightening. (By the way, if you have heard a rumor that Steve Burns, the original (and best) host of “Blue’s Clues,” is dead, then you have been misled.)

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    Potty Time http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=192 Fri, 18 Mar 2005 13:26:23 +0000 Nichelle /?p=192 [nichelle]Well, I’m quite impressed by this, with good reason, I think. Naomi, now just 17 months old, came into the kitchen this afternoon and pulled down her pants partially. I asked her if she had to go potty and she nodded her head yes and walked to the bathroom door. Her brother was in there at the time. She waited, and we went in. Now, Naomi is not potty trained, and I would not even have attempted to do that for at least another year. So for her to do what she did was pretty good. So, I took off her diaper and put her on the potty and she sat there at first and then wanted to get down. No problem with that. Then she wanted to get back on again. She didn't go potty, but the realization that she wanted to use the potty was amazing to me. I decided to get her potty, which hasn't been used in several years. I got it ready and she couldn't wait to sit down on it. Still nothing happed, but I wasn't actually expecting her to do anythiing. Well, Naomi wanted to use the big potty again, along with toilet paper and so I gave her some. She used it, incorrectly, but no problem there and put it in the toilet. She got down and wanted to flush. About an hour or so later, she soiled her diaper and I got her cleaned up and took her to the bathroom to flush it and I wanted her to see what I was doing. At that point she wanted to try using the potty again. The fact that she does answer by nodding her head if she has to go poop, is unbelievable. So I'm not going to push this, starting too soon can cause problems, too, but I'll see what she does today.

    Other Naomi News:

    Naomi loves to mimic things, like putting on lotion or brushing her teeth, doing her hair, trying to get a drink from the fountain at church, putting a CD in the drive to play a game on the computer, flying her baby in the air making the sounds and then (and this is not mimicked, but something she does) dropping her on the floor and covering her mouth and laughing. She does pick up her baby and give her a hug and pats her back, but then she goes back to the flying thing again. She loves to play rough, but she also does “the little girl things.” Typically every morning, when I go to get her out of bed, she stands up and looks down at the floor and smiles or laughs because lying there next to her crib are her babies and their blanket.

    She has the Ocean Wonders Aquarium which plays music on her crib. Her bedtime routine includes reading her book, singing a song (usually “Jesus Loves Me” in Engllish and then Spanish), laying her down and then I pray with her. A few times, I tried putting her music on when I put her to bed, and she would reach up and shut it off. She only likes to play her music in the morning. She doesn’t like to fall asleep with it on.

    After I’m done reading her bedtime story, she stands up and grabs her “lovey” (a small, pink blanket) and the blanket she loves to sleep with, walks to her bed, and waits for me to put her in. It’s so very sweet. I love our little girl, and am very thankful to God for giving her to us.

    We Have Other Children, Too:

    I also love our boys, and am thankful for them as well, in case some of you may be wondering.

    I tell my kids often that my prayer for them is that they will grow up loving and serving God with their lives and throughout their lives. We are accountable to God for what we teach our children, and we need to be careful that we teach them as we ought, too.

    Time goes by so fast. Isaac is nearly 10 years old, John will be 17 in June, and David is already 6 and eager to graduate from K5 and enter Mrs. Grennon’s first grade class. He's reading now, and going through his school reading books very quickly.

    Pray for us as we teach and train our children. I praise our Savior for my family and for all that He does in our lives. I am reminded of a song sung by Steve Green, and the words from the chorus:

    Oh, may all who come behind us find us faithful.
    May the fire of our devotion light their way.
    May the footprints that we leave lead them to believe
    And the lives we live inspire them to obey.
    Oh, may all who come behind us find us faithful.

    It’s a great song with a wonderful message.

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    Credit Card Fraud http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=193 Tue, 22 Mar 2005 14:00:43 +0000 Doug /?p=193 So, amid the two-to-three Phishing schemes I receive every day (those that make it past my K9 Spam filter), and the insistence of credit card companies that they are doing everything within their power to prevent credit card fraud, I was fascinated by this very amusing attempt, described at www.ZUG.com, to determine “How far could I go before they would check my credit card signature?”

    Thanks to Mark Sohmer for the link.

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    Marburg—Similar to Ebola http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=194 Wed, 30 Mar 2005 15:14:31 +0000 Doug /?p=194 Since Monday, I have been tracking the news about an outbreak of the Marburg hemorrhagic fever, a really nasty virus, in Angola.

    Try this article for some scary reading, especially the following (emphasis mine):

    “The latest figures available show the disease had killed 117 out of 124 people known to be infected by Tuesday. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta says the usual death rate is 23 percent to 25 percent, but few infected patients are reported to have recovered this outbreak. There is no known cure.”

    Recommended Reading: The Demon in the Freezer, by Richard Preston, and The Hot Zone, also by Preston.

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    The Great Gasoline Boycott http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=195 Mon, 11 Apr 2005 16:07:03 +0000 Doug /?p=195 You may have received an e-mail encouraging you to boycott, for the next year, two major gasoline vendors (click for a sample), to help achieve lower gasoline prices.

    It is an interesting idea—certainly better than the “don’t buy gas for one day” e-mails that have gone out—but it can't work, from an economics perspective.

    There are two major factors affecting gasoline prices. The first is the price of crude oil. The second is demand on gasoline itself.

    Currently, crude oil production worldwide is at or near a maximum, reserves are shrinking, and much of the oil obtained is less desirable (and more expensive) for use in gasoline production. In addition to decreasing supply, the rapid growth of industry and the middle class in China is rapidly increasing demand on crude oil worldwide. Crude oil prices are going to continue to increase until production increases significantly or demand decreases.

    Then there is supply-and-demand for gasoline itself. Worldwide, refineries, which convert crude oil into gasoline and other petroleum products are typically operating 24/7. This means that gasoline production is at its maximum. Due to environmental and security issues, few, if any, communities are willing to allow refineries to be built in their areas, and refinery construction can't happen overnight in any case.

    Do we really think that gasoline companies are inflating prices by 100%? They are making a profit, to be sure, but certainly not at that margin. (Ironically, considering the e-mail I received, our local Hess station—one company targeted by the boycott—is typically charges 10¢ per gallon less than its competition.)

    If we are to reduce the price of gasoline, we must decrease the demand. This can be done via carpooling, using public transportation, and buying hybrid or elecric vehicles. (Another topic is why the hydrogen fuel-cell powered car is a bad idea, but I'll save that for another time.)

    It is estimated that gasoline will have to stay consistently over $3.00/gallon before people will stop buying the worst offending SUVs (some of which get as few as 7–8 MPG) and get something more fuel-efficient. (Many SUVs do much better, and the average MPG for an SUV appears to be over 20 MPG. My thanks to Robert Hardman for correcting my original misstatement.) I'm ashamed that our minivan only gets 20 MPG around the city, but our choices were limited by the need for space for our 4 children and personal economics. If we did not have a daily need for a larger vehicle, we would not have bought one.

    What we ought to be doing is forcing the government to make its fleet vehicle purchases electric-gasoline hybrids or straight electric, demanding increases in public transportation allocation, subsidizing hybrid vehicle purchases (and other energy-saving projects) through tax breaks, and building more nuclear plants—which the US has a near-perfect safety record in operating, and which do not contribute to global warming or other air pollution—to supplement or replace natural gas-, coal- and oil-fired plants.

    Anyway, that's my typical more-than-2¢.

    (Thanks to Maryjane Case for the topic suggestion.)

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    Ten? Celebrating a Decade Since the Birth of Isaac http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=196 Sun, 01 May 2005 01:18:03 +0000 Doug /?p=196 Today, we celebrated Isaac’s birthday with a group of his friends from church and school. We had such a wonderful time with everyone.

    Trish D. ever so nicely volunteered to help me with things and brought some supplies with her and her children, Chaz and Pheobe. They arrived early and got busy: Trish with the preparations and the kids helped by playing with our children. After making scores of calls, John (nearly 17 now) managed to arrange to be out of the house for the duration of the party. (I certainly don’t blame him.)

    They had a great time, with many loud noises and weird sounds being made. Next to arrive was Meghan C. and her Mom, Laurie, followed by Isaac’s friends Cassie, then Brian, and lastly, Michaela.

    The party theme was “Creepy Crawlies”—mostly about bugs. We had giant bugs hanging up as decorations. We put together a “dirt cake” covered and embedded with crushed chocolate graham crackers, chocolate sandwich cookies, gummy worms and spiders. It was awesome and the kids, both the girls and the boys liked it a lot, especially Isaac and David, who helped put the gummy worms on and burrowing through the cake. We also took my corn snake and Isaac’s tarantula out of the cage. The snake was a big hit, and, surprisingly, nearly everyone was willing to pet the tarantula, although not hold it.

    We had a few games to play with the kids, including a “bug quiz” (Isaac and Meghan both got perfect scores, although there were rumors of collusion.), a “bug hunt,” and one last one, named “bug toss.”

    By the time of the bug toss, pizza had arrived, presents had been opened, and cake eaten, and the kids were in a state of sugar-frenzied, toy overloaded pandemonium. I got everything set up, and announced, “Okay, it’s time for us to play the bug toss game.” What I didn’t notice was that Doug had hooked up a self-contained Star Wars video game Isaac received from Cassie, which was, especially to the party-goers, a waaaaaaaaaay cooler game than the bug toss. No problem;, it give us adults more time to sit and chat, and I really enjoyed that. So thanks to the Dunns, Chalmers, Caslins, Vallerands, and the York family for making Isaac’s celebration so very special.

    Of course, no day would be complete without a little friendly competition between the boys and the girls. Isaac, who is very competitive, had a hard time dealing with the boys’ team losing the bug hunt. Ah, the joys of a ten year old ... It’s hard to believe he’s already ten.

    Michaela, thanks so much for bringing the whoopee cushion. It was definitely fun watching a group of 8–10 year olds enjoying that sound, time and time (and time, and time, and time, and time) again. LOL.

    Naomi and David had no trouble fitting in. Naomi reveled in having so many playmates, especially during the light saber and gun battles.

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    Star Wars Episode III—We Have Our Tickets http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=197 Tue, 03 May 2005 18:09:58 +0000 Doug /?p=197 We have our tickets, for midnight on May 18 (specifically for 12:01 a.m. on May 19). Now we just need a babysitter.

    In costume, or not? Decisions, decisions …

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    The Darth Vader BLOG (The Darth Side: Memoirs of a Monster) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=198 Tue, 03 May 2005 18:13:18 +0000 Doug /?p=198 You will just have to read this.

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    NASA Coolness http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=199 Fri, 06 May 2005 12:30:11 +0000 Doug /?p=199 A Dust Devil on Mars Apollo 13, We Have a Solution—An accurate and fascinating account of the engineering and preparation that allowed Apollo 13’s crew to return safely to earth. If you have seen the film, you definitely want to read the real story. Doug “JavaDoug” Ross contributing this link to the MSNBC Tech/Science Slide Show Archive, which contains more wonder. Artist Lynette Cook is achieving fame via her amazing work on extrasolar planets. Be sure to look at her other work as well.]]> 199 2005-05-06 07:30:11 2005-05-06 12:30:11 open open nasa-coolness publish 0 0 post 0 625 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-09-13 10:15:32 2005-09-13 15:15:32 Langa List newsletter, a pointer to a file on the JPL Mercury Messenger site:
    The Mercury-bound MESSENGER spacecraft captured several stunning images of Earth during a gravity assist swingby of its home planet on Aug. 2, 2005. Several hundred images, taken with the wide-angle camera in MESSENGER's Mercury Dual Imaging System (MDIS), were sequenced into a movie documenting the view from MESSENGER as it departed Earth. Comprising 358 frames taken over 24 hours, the movie follows Earth through one complete rotation. The spacecraft was 40,761 miles (65,598 kilometers) above South America when the camera started rolling on Aug. 2. It was 270,847 miles (435,885 kilometers) away from Earth (farther than the Moon's orbit) when it snapped the last image on Aug. 3.
    http://messenger.jhuapl.edu/the_mission/images/flyby_images/mdis_depart.mpeg ]]>
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    Who Is Geekier? Mark Sohmer or Doug Wilcox http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=200 Fri, 06 May 2005 17:25:11 +0000 Doug /?p=200 This started when Matt Camillieri described my friend Mark Sohmer as a “wicked smaaart super geek.” Frankly, I do not think Sohmer is quite deserving of that title. The debate rages on, and I am taking this public.

    I started by pointing out a little secret to Matt:

    Did you ever notice that just before Mark comes up with a brilliant answer to a Geekworthy problem he sneaks off somewhere to use his cell phone? Do you believe this is merely coincidental?

    See this post

    --Doug

    Mark responded with some foolishness about owning a BlackBerry, which he first capialitzed wrong, and then insisted was two words (which it isn’t).

    I listed a few points in my favor:

    I think, despite what Mark will try to claim, that the evidence speaks for itself:

    1. I operate a Star Wars Web site that has received over 1/2-million hits.
    2. I have the highest score on the Geek Test of anyone I have ever met.
    3. I know the name of the Restaurant at the End of the Universe (Milliways), and the name of the leader of the "Disaster Area" band (Hotblack Desiato).
    4. My cube is furnished with a Lego Star Destroyer (as well as an X-Wing and Y-Wing). See http://stardestroyer.wilcoxfamily.net/.
    5. I own two binary timekeeping devices: A BCD (binary coded decimal) LED clock and a straight-binary digital watch.
    6. I hated Titanic (except for the few minutes where the ship sinks—that part was cool).
    7. I have built my own light saber.
    8. When house-shopping, a primary concern was having a good space to put my 1100+ volume library, about 1/3 of which is science fiction.
    9. When I heard on the news that Tom Clancy had bought the Vikings, I thought the reference was to the 1970s Martian spacecraft.
    10. I can only watch The Net as part of giving it the MST3K treatment.

    I could go on ...

    —Doug Wilcox

    Let the flames begin ...

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    Two words: Black Berry Only a way smaaart super geek would confuse how many words make up the way smaaart super geek device. Us way smaaart super geeks are known for our clumsiness with the English language.
    So I obviously was aware that I had capitalized it wrong, and that mistake was actually proof of my superior geekiness! "Us way smaaart super geeks are known for our clumsiness with the English language." But I won't dignify Doug's "argument" any further. On to the authoritative proof. Ladies and Gentlemen of the jury, I present to you the definitive PROOF that Mark is way geekier than Doug:
    1. I have a Blackberry™. 'Nough said.
    2. I'm the one who always tells Doug about when Star Wars or some other über-Geek trailer/review/news is available and where to download it.
    3. My BLOG runs on MySQL. Doug's runs on (laughter) Microsoft Access.
    4. My BLOG runs on Linux. His runs on (giggle) Windows server (crash! boom! Can you hear that hissing? It's the memory leaking.)
    5. You can put single quotes (') in my BLOG's subject line without having to memorize HEX (not that I have a problem with HEX, mind you.)
    6. I hold certifications from Sun™, Cisco™, Microsoft™, CompTIA™, and TIBCO™.
    7. I have a favorite UNIX shell and can defend /bin/bash over /bin/sh, or even (yikes) /bin/csh.
    8. I can use sed and awk without running a man command.
    9. I dream in binary.
    10. I have written perl scripts.
    11. I laughed when I heard the joke: "There's no place like 127.0.0.1."
    12. I have NEVER soldered Ethernet cables.
    13. Working in vi for me is like a hot bath with Calgon.
    14. I have configured both Bay Networks and Cisco routers with a hand-held PocketPC™ device.
    15. I have disobeyed the laws of gravity and won.
    16. I have been a Presidential advisor. See exhibit a.
    17. I was once a member of the Beatles. See exhibit b.
    18. I have genetically altered my kids to look just like me! See exhibit c.
    19. Matt Camillieri's dad regularly calls me a Geek.
    [There was a picture of Mark with the Clinton’s here, but I removed it. I?d sooner post a picture of baby seals being clubbed.]
    Exhibit A: Presidential Advisor

    Exhibit B: Original Beatle

    Exhibit C: Genetic Engineer
    Ladies and Gentlemen of the jury, I rest my case! signed,
    The official way smaaart super geek!]]>
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    It was Probably Next to the Whitewater Documents http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=201 Thu, 12 May 2005 21:24:28 +0000 Doug /?p=201 Judicial Watch claims Sen. Hillary Clinton, D-NY, failed to report two million dollars in campaign contributions gathered at a star-studded Hollywood fundraiser.]]> 201 2005-05-12 16:24:28 2005-05-12 21:24:28 open closed it-was-probably-next-to-the-whitewater-documents publish 0 0 post 0 377 207.159.181.91 2005-05-12 00:00:00 2005-05-12 00:00:00 1 0 0 Geek Parenting Tricks http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=286 Tue, 17 May 2005 16:09:10 +0000 Doug http://www.wilcoxusa.net/wpblog/?p=286 Roomba-inspired entry.]]> 286 2005-05-17 11:09:10 2005-05-17 16:09:10 open open geek-parenting-tricks publish 0 0 post 0 Late for Work? Blame Your Car’s Software! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=287 Tue, 17 May 2005 22:50:01 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=287 Reuters News, the Toyota Prius hybrid may have a software glitch that causes it to stall out. Because Reuters does not make their articles available after 30 days, here is the text of the article:
    Toyota investigating Prius stalling complaints DETROIT (Reuters) - Toyota Motor Corp. said on Monday it is looking into complaints in the United States that its popular Prius hybrid car suddenly stalled or shut down, often at high speeds on highways. "We have been alerted to the fact that some owners might have a problem," Toyota spokesman John Hansen told Reuters. "We are going to go back to our service records to find out what owners have had a problem like this and how many." The U.S. National Highway Traffic Safety Administration said it has received 13 complaints so far of the gas-electric hybrid vehicles stalling or stopping unexpectedly. Toyota dealers attributed the problems to a software glitch in the car's complex computer system, according to some complaints. NHTSA spokesman Rae Tyson said the agency is monitoring the complaints but that no formal investigation has been launched. Toyota has sold 34,225 Prius cars so far this year. There is usually a waiting list to buy the vehicle, which has a gasoline engine with an electric motor to increase fuel efficiency. The Prius gets as much 60 miles per gallon of gasoline.
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    The Force at Midnight (The Star Wars Episode III Experience)—No Spoilers http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=288 Thu, 19 May 2005 21:51:22 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=288 Star Wars Episdode III was really exciting in many ways. Nichelle and I weaseled our way into attending the midnight opening at the Apple Tree Cinemas, along with our friends Mark and Shelby Sohmer, and six of their friends: Matt and Wendy Camillieri, Phil and Jennifer Wilson, Matt and Heather Graves. Their plan was to go out to eat ealier at the nearby 99 restaurant, and then head over between 9:30 and 10:00 to get into line. I still had my Jedi costume from Episode I, and Nichelle surprised me by announcing that she would also create a costume. She found one of David’s action figures that would be possible to re-create, and hit the costume shops for makeup, thrift shops for the clothing, and a fabric store for a few dollars’ worth of material. Nichelle and I had our Wednesday night Bible study at church, and then needed to install the baby sitter(s) at our house and change into our costumes, so dinner with the group was out for us. We got to the theater just before 11, and found the rest of our group waiting out back for the opening at 12:01 a.m. Below are the costumes my wife Nichelle and I wore (and our son, Isaac, hamming it up). Nichelle is dressed as Jedi Master Luminara Unduli. (Disclaimer: This is a very unflattering picture of Nichelle, and not a very good idea of what my Jedi costume looked like, either.) Nichelle and I were asked to pose for pictures on our way in, and complimented on our costumes on our way out.

    Star Wars fans are an interesting bunch, and the fandom was truly in Force (I couldn’t resist—sorry) that evening. The lines went out around the building in every direction. While waiting for the film, we saw dozens of costumes: Lea Organa, Darth Vader (thanks primarily to the Darth Vader Voice Changer helmet now available in toy stores everywhere), Boba Fett, an attempt at General Grievous (which I didn’t figure out until the next day), several jedi. Light sabers were in abundance, including a few very nice plasma-tube models with realistic sound effects and a very convincing (if permanently attached) blade, the plasma in which extended and retracted when it was powered up. (Of course, there is such as thing as going overboard with this.) Most of our group was at the far back of the line, and when we got in, Nichelle and I discovered that only 8 seats had been saved instead of 10. We settled for what appeared to be the only two adjoining seats left, in the far left of the third row of the “orchestra pit” section of the theater—not really ideal viewing. We ran into several people from our church, most of whom were guys who had left their wives at home with the children. (Personally, I hate attending anything without Nichelle, although a break from the kids is sometimes welcome.) There was quite a bit of time to wait between opening the auditorium and starting the movie. Some fans brought laptops or portable DVD players and were watching the other Star Wars films. People were chatting, laughing, trying to make pithy (perhaps Sithy) remarks. The atmosphere was festive, yet full of anticipation. The management held a costume contest, which we had not known about. (As a prize, in our auditorium they gave away the full-size Chewbacca cardboard stand-up which had been used for promotion before then.) About a dozen of us lined up in front of everyone, and a cheer-based voice vote was conducted. It became clear that the winner would not be the one with the best costume, but the favorite character. Nichelle and I did fairly well; ultimately, though, Boba Fett won out over Darth Vader. Vader then attacked Boba with a light saber, which generated laughter and applause. Our friend Phil Luchon reported via cell phone that in his theater in Randolph, Massachusetts, people set off the fire alarm twice, and they had to evacuate the auditorium. A guy dressed as a stormtrooper yelled, “The first transport is away!” and everyone cheered. Finally, although a few minutes late, the lights went down, and the trailers started. Of particular interest to our group was the Chronicles of Narnia (see also this site). Then the magic began! (Except that the left half of our screen was badly out of focus, and I found that very distracting, especially being so close to the front. The manager of Apple Tree Cinemas is sending us VIP passes—there was, indeed, a problem with the lens.) Without revealing much in this non-spoiler article, we really loved the film. Anakin’s complete turn to the Dark Side is indeed very disturbing. Yoda is amazing in both action and dramatic expression. The integration of the prequel and sequel story lines, and some nagging questions left over from Episode I are handled wonderfully. Lucas has finally succeeded in making a prequel that works. When we got home, we discovered Isaac had written this note, and put it in front of our bedroom door:

    We took the kids to see the film on Saturday afternoon. :)]]>
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    Star Wars Episode III Discussion, Spoilers Included http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=289 Fri, 20 May 2005 17:59:48 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=289 The Force at Midnight (The Star Wars Episode III Experience)—No Spoilers Okay, let’s hear what you thought.]]> 289 2005-05-20 12:59:48 2005-05-20 17:59:48 open open star-wars-episode-iii-discussion-spoilers-included publish 0 0 post 0 391 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-05-23 09:15:33 2005-05-23 14:15:33 The Phantom Menace. There's like 15 years TOPS between Menace and Clones. That makes him 40 in Clones. Add 2 or 3 years till Sith. Luke was, what, 17 in A New Hope? That makes ObiWan 60 in A New Hope. I think he looked a lot older than 60, and I'm not even convinced that ObiWan was really as old as 25 in Phantom. What do you think?]]> 1 0 4 392 gravesclan.matt@comcast.net 64.47.124.250 2005-05-23 11:07:14 2005-05-23 16:07:14 1 0 0 393 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-05-23 11:17:11 2005-05-23 16:17:11 Phantom, then I guess that would work. I didn't think he was that old in that movie though. I guess Padawans train for a while. No wonder Anakin was so arrogant for being mad that he wasn't made a Jedi Master in Sith.]]> 1 0 4 394 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.79.190 2005-05-23 13:35:50 2005-05-23 18:35:50 were 30” would be the correct subjunctive. Too much “alternative” poetry and not enough Shakespeare.]]> 1 0 2 396 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-05-23 13:53:50 2005-05-23 18:53:50 Were would be the present subjunctive. But since I was speculating on a past tense event, then would not the past tense be used? I'm honestly not sure. Is it different to say, "If I were 50," than to say "if I were 50 back in 1985?" I'm not sure. As for too much "alternative" poetry, you're DEFINITELY right on that one!]]> 1 0 4 398 gravesclan.matt@comcast.net 64.47.124.250 2005-05-24 13:20:04 2005-05-24 18:20:04 1 0 0 399 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-05-24 14:18:59 2005-05-24 19:18:59 1 0 4 400 gravesclan.matt@comcast.net 24.128.239.25 2005-05-24 18:43:54 2005-05-24 23:43:54 1 0 0 401 gravesclan.matt@comcast.net 24.128.239.25 2005-05-24 18:44:56 2005-05-24 23:44:56 1 0 0 402 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-05-25 08:19:08 2005-05-25 13:19:08 1 0 4 403 gravesclan.matt@comcast.net 64.47.124.250 2005-05-25 13:04:05 2005-05-25 18:04:05 1 0 0 404 gravesclan.matt@comcast.net 64.47.124.250 2005-05-25 13:12:23 2005-05-25 18:12:23 1 0 0 413 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-06-02 10:18:11 2005-06-02 15:18:11 1 0 4 My Sister Fran and Brother-in-Law Chet Matheson http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=290 Sun, 29 May 2005 04:04:49 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=290

    This was more than a few years ago, but you can see that the fashion sense I have seems to run in the family. My first thought was that this was in México, but I think it's probably from Brazil.]]>
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    Mi Hija Méxicana http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=291 Mon, 30 May 2005 03:44:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=291

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    Yet More Photos of NaNi http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=292 Mon, 30 May 2005 15:48:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=292

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    I Told You I Had Other Children, Too! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=294 Wed, 01 Jun 2005 03:21:24 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=294

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    I Hate Safari http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=295 Thu, 02 Jun 2005 03:06:30 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=295 you hate Safari.]]> 295 2005-06-01 22:06:30 2005-06-02 03:06:30 open open i-hate-safari publish 0 0 post 0 416 dross@kronos.com 158.228.109.186 2005-06-03 10:01:46 2005-06-03 15:01:46 1 0 0 417 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-06-03 10:32:04 2005-06-03 15:32:04 think www.apple.com works in Safari. The biggest problem isn't in how basic pages are rendered (although that is a problem). It's in what happens when more than rudimentary "I want to look at a page" functionality is desired. Why, oh, why, did Apple start with Konqueror instead of Firefox? (For that matter, why didn't they just brand Firefox?)]]> 1 0 2 424 bcortez@kronos.com 158.228.105.194 2005-06-08 13:19:35 2005-06-08 18:19:35 1 0 0 425 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-06-08 13:53:49 2005-06-08 18:53:49 1 0 2 447 dougblogcomments@andersonrepublic.com http://www.billygraham.org 207.203.131.5 2005-06-21 07:28:02 2005-06-21 12:28:02 1 0 0 448 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.79.190 2005-06-21 07:53:16 2005-06-21 12:53:16 1 0 2 476 magicmarloaw@yahoo.co.uk 212.158.205.109 2005-07-07 03:13:55 2005-07-07 08:13:55 1 0 0 477 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-07-07 12:13:27 2005-07-07 17:13:27 this post, then.]]> 1 0 2 So, You Wanna See Star Wars in Digital? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=300 Thu, 02 Jun 2005 23:36:41 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=300 Star Wars Episode I opened. We were fortunate enough to live near one.

    Try this digital cinema finder, from Texas Instruments, the folks who bring you DLP, to see if there is one near you. DLP is, quite frankly, an amazing improvement over film. I have heard that there are some theaters with a newer DLP projector that has even higher resolution.]]>
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    The Walt Disney Co. and Dolby Laboratories Inc. said on Monday June 27 they will install 100 digital movie systems in theaters this fall, marking the third recent unveiling of plans for digital cinema that could revolutionize the film industry. Disney and Dolby said plans call for the systems to be in place for the Nov. 4 release of Disney's computer-animated movie Chicken Little.
    Digital screens cost about $100,000. The computer equipment required to run them adds to that cost. Part of the delay in rolling out digital cinema is that theater owners want the movie studios to foot the bill, and studios want the theater owners to pay.]]>
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    Early Memories of Our Children http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=301 Sat, 04 Jun 2005 20:40:24 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=301 Isaac: I found this note in our cellar, originally from May 13, 1993:
    Today Isaac was talking about Andrew (my newphew/his cousin) and asking, "Is he three?" while holding out three fingers. I said, "No, he's thirteen." Isaac immediately asked, "Where's the thirteen finger?"
    Isaac has a host of interesting things we could write about. He surprised us at 18 months by identifying and naming the letters "O" and "A" on his alphabet blocks. Before he was 2, he could name every letter of the alphabet, and recite them in rapid fashion if one pointed to a word. (He was at least 4 before he mastered the alphabet song.) We tried to raise Isaac to be "weapons-free." (We were naive parents.) At age 2, he ate his toast into the shape of a gun, and said, "Look, a toast gun. Bang!" After that we realized that there were just things, like playing army, that are normal for a boy's development. David now has a huge arsenal of toy guns and swords. Naomi enjoys playing with them as well. July 2, 2005 (in reference to sometime in 1995): This was what life was like with a newborn.
    • This morning I knocked a book off my nighttable—Nichelle thought I dropped Isaac.
    • A couple of days ago I brought some work home to do on my computer—I fell asleep at the computer, and didn't wake up until midnight. Then I had to work until 2:00 a.m.!
    • One night I fell asleep when I was feeding Isaac.
    • Nichelle always wakes up, and can't remember that she put Isaac to bed. She panics momentarily because she can't find him.
    David: When David was somewhere around 4, he believe the opposite of incorrect was outcorrect. John: We adopted John when he was 10 years old. One of the things we really miss is that early childhood history. His sister has given us a few old photos, but there's nothing to substitute for a decade of missing information. (Even his medical records were woefully incomplete.)]]>
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    IBM DeathStar / Down in the Dumps http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=304 Thu, 09 Jun 2005 14:24:26 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=304 That setup was toasted, apparently, by a bad power supply, now replaced, that caused some data loss.) Part of the time the IBM drive isn't being recognized at all. After a certain amount of time—perhaps due to overheating, perhaps due to another type of drive failure, it won't be recognized at all. Rebooting the system sometimes catches it and boots to the original drive, especially if the whole system has been off for a while. On a really hot day, or after a period of high disk activity, the drive will fail again and the system will reboot to the bad partition. I'd like to try copying the image over to a new drive, using Ghost or whatever comes with the new drive (I'm leaning toward Seagate), as it would get me instantly up-and-running without having to reinstall. Of course, I do not have that much hope that the old drive will "hang in there" long enough for such a data-reading-intense operation to happen. If that doesn't work, I'm willing to bite the bullet and do a reinstall of XP Pro. However, there is a drive size limitation (I think it's 120 GB) in the initial release of XP Pro (pre SP-1), which is what I have. Installing from an SP2 CD would be even sweeter, and less prone to failure than upgrading to SP2 from a previous version. :: sigh :: Editor's note added June 13, 2005: It looks like the drive is only flaking out when it overheats. I think it may fail soon, but letting it cool down with the machine off so far makes it recover. In the mean time, I'm keeping my data backed up daily, and when the drive does fail, I can boot to my "February" installation, and still run all my apps, so replacing the drive is now less urgent, and I can plan for this at my convenience. Editor's note added June 21, 2005: No, it's not necessarily related to overheating. Or, if it is, the drive is "overheating" at a temperature far below what its temperature sensor would indicate shoud be a problem. Last night I was running at a reasonably cool 35 degrees C, when the whole things went kablooie. At first I had the usual trouble recognizing the drive. Then, when I finally got it to recognize, it was dog slow, and told me that Windows couldn't boot because windows/system32/system was missing or corrupt. I had just finished backing up everyone's e-mail, pictures, etc., except mine. This morning, after leaving the system off overnight, I got the drive to be recognized by leaving it running for a few minutes, and everything seemed to be fine. So heat may be playing a factor, but I think it's time to just retire the drive. I'm also looking at putting together a new system that would kick butt for as little as $500, but I also need to get this one back to a reliable state. Editor's note added June 27, 2005: Wednesday night after church, I went out and grabbed a 120 GB Seagate Barricuda drive to replace the boot drive. On Wednesday, the IBM DeathStar drive seemed to fail completely, and I was looking at rebuilding my system. On Thursday evening, I decided to give the IBM drive a few more tries, and got it to recognize at startup! Hurriedly, I rebooted with the Seagate drive, hoping to be able to copy my IBM drive over to the Seagate drive, which would become the new boot drive, and save me from having to reinstall everything. Seagate's drive setup software is supposed to be easier to use than Western Digital's. I actually didn''t find that to be the case. They both are about the same, but there were some nonintuitive points that I had to keep hitting the help file and documentation for. Once nice thing (which I did not need) is that Seagate lets you print installation instructions that are customized for what you're actually doing. It took hours for the drive to copy, mostly due to the read errors (all were being corrected, but it was having to perform each read multiple times) that SMART was reporting. Copying also appeared to be slow because of Seagate's verification process, but getting an exact drive copy is far more important than getting a fast copy. I only found three problems:
    1. Trying to access the System Restore tab crashed. It turned that is always caused by a drive copy process, and all I had to do to fix it was disable the System Restore service, then re-enable it.
    2. The next problem was a missing FrontPage icon (the link would work, but the icon itself was the default rectangle). It was looking for something under installs that clearly wasn't around any more. I simply replaced the shortcuts with new ones.
    3. Lastly, the icons on my own logon are weird. Unless I run in 32-bit color mode, I get ugly 2d, 8-bit icons. It seems to happen only on my account. I find it disturbing, but it can't be described as much more than a cosmetic issue. Some of the menu colors are off as well. Again, it's no big deal, but it does bother me.
    Other than that, the machine is working perfectly. My friend Phil Luchon came over and brough his machine. We played WarCraft and StarCraft. The Lego Star Wars game, which the kids play every moment we will allow (one hour on weekedays, 2 on weekends), which had been very prone to crashing and lockups, has not had a single failure in 3 days. Everything involving disk access is much faster on the new drive: booting, loading big programs, virtual memory swapping, etc.]]>
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    All I Want Is a Half-Decent Sombrero! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=305 Mon, 13 Jun 2005 15:54:51 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=305 sombrero ranchero purchased in Mexico in 2003, was accidentally squashed during our return from vacation in Moultonborough, New Hampshire. (If one is a cowboy, rather than a farmer, that same hat might be called a somebrero vaquero.) Six months later even I, with my less-than-excellent fashion sense, had to admit that it was time to retire the hat, so I've switched to a Kronos-issued, "100 Quarters of Revenue Growth," baseball cap. Although a cowboy hat is certainly unusual in New England, there is nothing better for keeping the rain, snow, and sun off of one's head. I find I can weather the most severe rainstorm without a jacket with the proper headwear, and a ball cap just doesn't cut it. I'm also a bit picky about what type of hat I get. I don't want one that is so fancy or obviously expensive that it will label me as an outsider during my trips to Mexico. I've toyed around with purchasing a new hat online. Long-distance co-worker Ricardo Castillo, who works for Kronos in Cleburne, Texas, referred me to Cavenders, which seems to have a reasonable selection. I spent an hour searching for similar sites online, and found only one or two sites that fit into the "reasonable" category. Most had a truly horrible selection. Only one had affordable prices. My biggest letdown is that none of them seemed to include the traditional Mexican four feathers in the brim. Still, I should be able to remedy this by sending my wife to a craft store. (The feathers consist of one each of green, yellow, and red, plus one smaller, spotted one. I assume the colors are linked to the Mexican flag, although its major colors are green, white, and red, in that order. It may be the yellow feather is used to better contrast against the typically off-white color of the hat, or that it is easier to dye a feather yellow than bleach one to white. Maybe yellow has better color retention. Life is full of small mysteries. I did find this link about cross-cultural palettes.) Part of the problem might be the same reason most people would be hesitant to buy shoes online. The buyer wants a hat that he knows will fit well and look good, and there is no substitute for being able to try the item on and handle the materials. So, clothing—especially certain items—purchased online would probably have a very high returned item ratio, and could, I surmise, dramatically harm the profit margin. So, imagine my delight when, while we were up in Manchester, New Hampshire, I spotted a store, El Cowboy Pasedo, with two huge Mexican flags in the windows. After our bus visitation work, Nichelle and I eagerly entered the store. Inside was a variety of Mexican clothing, including some very attractive sombreros. I found an excellent hat nearly right away, confirming at least the size I need, and asked what it cost. (Hover over the text for translations.) "Dos ciento." "¿Docientos dolares?" I asked, incredulously. The sales clerk went on to explain that some of the hats were only $150. I explained that the hats were indeed very beautiful, but that I was accustomed to spending only about $12 in Mexico, but that these were of finer quality. I would easily spend $25 or $50 on one like this, but that $150 to $200 was simply unaffordable. The search continues.... ]]> 305 2005-06-13 10:54:51 2005-06-13 15:54:51 open open all-i-want-is-a-half-decent-sombrero publish 0 0 post 0 430 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-06-13 11:12:06 2005-06-13 16:12:06 yarmulcha for $15 dollars!]]> 1 0 4 431 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-06-13 17:28:42 2005-06-13 22:28:42 Here's one for typically $5,000.]]> 1 0 2 442 MJCase4@aol.com 64.12.116.131 2005-06-17 16:35:46 2005-06-17 21:35:46 1 0 0 1542 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-03 10:24:16 2006-01-03 15:24:16 sombrero for Christmas: ]]> 1 0 2 "That was totally wicked!!!!!!!!" (Batman Begins Surprise) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=307 Wed, 15 Jun 2005 16:13:09 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=307 Batman Begins for a very long time, and planning on seeing it for his 17th birthday, which is today. Doug and I first scared John into thinking he was in some serious trouble by calling him upstairs just before 11:00 p.m. last night. He was standing in front of Doug and I was off to the side. We made it seem that he'd done something wrong (but only for a minute, if it was that long). What John did not know was that Doug had purchased the tickets for the midnight showing online and had the printout behind his back. John looked very concerned, and after some dialog between us, Doug pulled the tickets out and John couldn't believe that we were kidding. Batman Begins was awesome! John and I went to see it together and I will have to say that it outdid the first two Batman movies. I can't wait to go and see it again. I was planning on staying home with our kids so Doug could take a group of John's friends to see it on Friday. Well, now I'm hoping to be there to see it with them. It's too cool to pass up. Ah, Batman Begins ... another opening night showing. I can't wait to see it again.]]> 307 2005-06-15 11:13:09 2005-06-15 16:13:09 open open that-was-totally-wicked publish 0 0 post 0 438 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-06-15 11:19:36 2005-06-15 16:19:36 1 0 4 439 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http:// 24.147.79.190 2005-06-15 11:55:21 2005-06-15 16:55:21 1 0 1 441 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-06-17 07:50:57 2005-06-17 12:50:57 1 0 4 446 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.79.190 2005-06-20 20:11:42 2005-06-21 01:11:42 Batman Begins with John, Isaac, my niece Jennifer, and a couple of of John's friends (Amanda and Rubens). Like my wife and John had done on Tuesday night/Wednesday morning (depending on how you slice it), we went to the Apple Tree Cinemas in Londonderry. I was on the edge of my seat the whole time, except when I was out of my seat, when Isaac got scared by the masked villian character (no real spoilers here), and I had to take him out of the auditorium. Thankfully, I didn't miss much more than a few seconds. My only regret? It was over too quickly. The film, of course, demands a sequel. So will the fans.]]> 1 0 2 David's K5 Graduation.... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=308 Thu, 30 Jun 2005 22:35:14 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=308

    Once the play was over, the K5 class left to get their caps and gowns on. During the wait, the K4 came up and entertained with songs, memory verses and different things that they learned throughout the year. Once the K5 class entered the gym and headed for the platform it happened, I got teary-eyed. I didn't weep, but I was emotional. Thinking about how fast time will go before he's actually walking the isle to get his diploma. (Thinking about that now, I'm nearly teary-eyed.)


    Of course, while we were out at Friendly's, Naomi couldn't resist being entertaining as well:

    (Click here, or right-click and save if the above video won't play.)
    David is so very excited about going to first grade. He had an awesome year in school. The only thing he didn't like was nap time and he's very glad that he will no longer have one in the other grades. We got a great picture of the Davids together. We are very thankful for his teacher, Sue Mullett, too for making David's first experience in school so sweet.]]>
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    Biblical Idiocy (A Lesson in Humility) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=310 Fri, 17 Jun 2005 02:47:15 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=310 Mosaic Law prohibited wearing clothing made from more than one type of materials. Examine our shirt tags, and we would find our cotton-polyester blends were contrary to the Old Testament Law. Although Christ came to fulfill the Law, the New Testament makes it clear that we, as believers, are dead to it. So far, I was fine. Then I decied to add a second example. That's where I proved that I needed a lesson in humility. I said (although I believe the Scripture's pro-life teaching is clear), that the Mosaic law did not prohibit abortion, but instead provided a financial renumeration for the loss of an unborn baby. My statement was based on Exodus 21:22-25, but I had goofed on the interpretation of it several years ago, and failed to notice my error successive rereading. Fellow church member Gordon Wellman pointed out my mistake, for which I am grateful. I was really embarrassed. Here's where I went wrong:
    Exodus 21:22-25: 22If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her, and yet no mischief follow: he shall be surely punished, according as the woman's husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine. 23And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life, 24Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, 25Burning for burning, wound for wound, stripe for stripe.
    What I got wrong was the meaning of so that her fruit depart from her. I had read it as meaning, "if the baby dies," but the meaning is actually, "if the child is born [early]." In that case, the woman's husband, with the assitance of a judge, may impose a fine, but in addition to that, any harm that comes to the infant must be paid for using the classic "eye for an eye" rule. No matter how much we study the Word of God, there is still more to learn. While preparing a Junior Church lesson last week, I noticed a description of David just after he was anointed to be the next king of Israel, when most consider (and teach) that he was merely a Shepherd boy, that indicates he was already well known as a warrior:
    1 Samuel 16:18, emphasis mine: 18Then answered one of the servants, and said, Behold, I have seen a son of Jesse the Bethlehemite, that is cunning in playing, and a mighty valiant man, and a man of war, and prudent in matters, and a comely person, and the LORD is with him.
    To be sure, his family didn't seem to see or treat him that way. As the youngest of 8 brothers, David seems to have been branded as the baby--even by his father--long after he had proven himself to be more. I suppose God's lessons in humility would be less effective if administered in private.]]>
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    Life with an Anxiety Disorder http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=313 Thu, 23 Jun 2005 17:28:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=313 History of My Anxiety In October of 1995, I awoke one morning in a state of what I can only describe as abject terror. I had never experienced anything like this before. Even worse, unlike some people who have panic attacks, this anxiety never went away. It was with me all day, every day, for every waking moment. I could not figure out what was wrong. Despite knowing that many such things are caused by chemical imbalances within the brain, my self-diagnostic software was offline. I concluded that this must be some sort of spiritual attack. As I look back now, I can see that I had fairly long periods of heightened anxiety about certain situations throughout my youth, probably starting at age 8 or 9; I will discuss that later. I was in agony. I was able to work, operating WordSmith Digital Document Services full-time, although it was very difficult to concentrate. When I got home, I was exausted. I couldn't eat much. I spent long hours on the phone, talking with my sisters Cindy and Fran. Of course, I also spent a lot of time talking to my wife, Nichelle. Fran fed me Scripture and we prayed often. Nothing seemed to work. Talking about how I felt and praying with my family helped sometimes, but nothing took away the almost always overwhelming, constant feeling of fear. I remember a couple of things very clearly. I remember looking at Isaac, who was six months old at the time, and thinking, "I should be enjoying this time with my son, but I can't." I also remember once or twice, while transitioning into waking, the anxiety would not be present for just a second or two, and then it would come crashing down on me. Feeling normal for such a fleeting moment made everything worse. Because I was not eating normally (I didn't have food anxieties, but had little interest in food), I lost weight. It was ironic when people would comment on how much better I looked. It wasn't worth the price. Occasionally, I'd get bad advice from the uninformed. My friend Mark and I boiled this down to a simple message, "You don't have enough faith." (We continue to tease each other in that fashioin to this day.) Many people simply don't view the mental health realm as being biologically based. Few people would say to someone with a broken arm or influenza, "Well, just keep praying." Praying should definitely be part of any treatment, but broken bones need to be set, and the flu is a virus the body must fight off. I am not at all saying that prayer doesn't work, but the fact is that, although He does miraculously heal people, God doesn't want everyone healthy; there are lessons to be learned in our infirmities, and His plan for our life may involve suffering. After nearly six months of this, my family's practicality sunk in, and I went to see a doctor. I didn't really trust the fields of psychology or psychiatry (although a psychopharmacologist would, in retrospect, have done me a world of good), but I agreed to go to an internal medicine specialist, Dr. Richard Lubens, who I knew had an excellent reputation for listening to his patients. He said, "Ah, it sounds like you have a generalized anxiety disorder. We don't know what causes them, but there are some treatments that work very well." He chose an older medication, partly because of its well-established history, and probably partly because I was uninsured at the time and it was inexpensive, unlike many of the newer medications. He put me on a small dosage of amitriptylene, which is an older, tricyclic medication. Within a week I was feeling vastly improved. A week later, as a follow-up, he increased the dosage slightly. I was normal again. Even better than normal. For the first time in my life, the things which had caused my occasional anxiety as a child stopped bothering me. I had my life back. What a blessing! But the story does not end there. Note: This post will be expanded over the next few days, or perhaps longer. Topics to come:
    • Anxiety "triggers"
    • My anxiety versus panic attacks
    • Reflections on anxiety/panic during childhood
    • Current status
    ]]>
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    Peter Jackson May Have Pulled It Off (Again) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=317 Tue, 28 Jun 2005 03:31:03 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=317 The Lord of the Rings movies. Those who so loved the books were not convinced, especially given the early press, that any director could possibly bring them to screen in a manner that would please diehard fans. But he did it. We abandoned our idolatrous worship of George Lucas, and erected a new god in his place: Peter Jackson. Nichelle and I have just watched the trailer for the upcoming King Kong remake, directed by Jackson, and believe that he may have done the impossible again: Making a good remake, and making a good film out of the King Kong story.]]> 317 2005-06-27 22:31:03 2005-06-28 03:31:03 open open peter-jackson-may-have-pulled-it-off-again publish 0 0 post 0 451 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-06-28 05:53:54 2005-06-28 10:53:54 1 0 0 690 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-05 11:41:43 2005-10-05 16:41:43 Microsoft, film studios tap Jackson for 'Halo' By Lisa Baertlein LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - The Oscar-winning creative team behind the "The Lord of the Rings" films, including director Peter Jackson, has been named to run the production of the upcoming film based on Microsoft Corp.'s (MSFT.O: Quote, Profile, Research) blockbuster "Halo" video game, the company said on Tuesday. Jackson and his wife, Fran Walsh, will serve as the executive producers for "Halo," which is targeted for worldwide release in mid-2007 by Universal Pictures and Twentieth Century Fox film studios. Universal will oversee the film's production and domestic distribution. Fox will handle international distribution. "Halo" will be shot in Wellington, New Zealand, and will use Jackson's production and post-production facilities there. "I'm a huge fan of the game and look forward to helping it come alive on the cinema screen," Jackson said in a statement. The executive producers will collaborate with Universal, Fox and Microsoft's Bungie Studios, which created the game. "Halo," the best-selling franchise for Microsoft's Xbox game console, follows the adventures of the futuristic super-soldier "Master Chief" as he battles an alien onslaught. Screenwriter and novelist Alex Garland wrote the original feature film adaptation of Halo. A director will be named in coming weeks, but the cast has yet to be announced. And there's another article at 1Up: http://www.1up.com/do/newsStory?cId=3144311]]> 1 0 2 The Geek Life Begins Early in the Wilcox Family http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=318 Wed, 29 Jun 2005 16:32:44 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=318

    I went searching for the camera, and missed that shot, but when I came back I found Naomi had left her doll as the picture above shows. ]]>
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    Well, I bet he won't do that again! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=319 Thu, 30 Jun 2005 23:24:15 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=319 until he got to the peppers. He was instructed to wash his hands well, because he was dealing with habeneros and another chili pepper. After he was done cutting them up, he rinsed his hands off, but did not wash them off, for Doug and I began to hear the sound of repeated screams coming from the bathroom. At some point during the cooking process, he touched his face somewhere around his eyes, which left an extreme burning sensation first in his eyes, and then his forehead, and most of his face. We advised him to begin rinsing his eyes out with running water, while we called the Aetna Nurse Answer line. While we were finding the number, the screaming subsided somewhat, but still continued. The nurse on call explained that this happens all the time, and that the rinsing John was doing would work, even though it might take half an hour to complete. She also informed me that many times, men have a similar problem with not washing their hands thorough or wearing gloves, and then "using the bathroom." I'm sure you get the picture.]]> 319 2005-06-30 18:24:15 2005-06-30 23:24:15 open open well-i-bet-he-wont-do-that-again publish 0 0 post 0 459 pablo_willie@hotmial.com 24.73.53.90 2005-06-30 19:42:21 2005-07-01 00:42:21 1 0 0 460 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-06-30 20:22:32 2005-07-01 01:22:32 1 0 0 461 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.79.190 2005-06-30 20:25:32 2005-07-01 01:25:32 ever posting again ... ::]]> 1 0 2 465 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.79.190 2005-07-01 08:55:40 2005-07-01 13:55:40 1 0 2 471 jthorne@maine.rr.com http://lolwhat 69.205.233.254 2005-07-04 23:04:04 2005-07-05 04:04:04 1 0 0 WordPress 1.5.1.3 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=320 Fri, 01 Jul 2005 20:00:17 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=320 BLOG Updates page for more details on the changes that have been made to the BLOG over time.]]> 320 2005-07-01 15:00:17 2005-07-01 20:00:17 open open wordpress-1513 publish 0 0 post 0 466 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-07-01 18:18:09 2005-07-01 23:18:09 1 0 0 What a terrific day!!! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=321 Tue, 05 Jul 2005 14:20:03 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=321 [Added by Doug] Unlike last year, I actually got to see the entire fireworks display, instead of just what was visible four blocks away from my car, because Lolita McGrath offered to watch David and Naomi, thus allowing me to see the show along with Nichelle. (Nichelle had graciously offered to skip this year's show so that I could attend.) And the fireworks were indeed amazing! Sunday evening Isaac, John, and I attended the fireworks in Manchester, which were very, very good. The Nashua show was of much higher quality, although shorter in length, with every launch being a multiple burst. The fireworks were launched right overhead. It was stunning! Like Batman Begins, my only regret was that it had to end. Once the fireworks show was over we headed back to our house for dessert. I made Bananas Foster, an incredible dessert that was kicked up a notch, thanks to Phil, who suggested we use a fried dough base he had at a restaurant instead of the sponge cake base. As usual, we stayed up too late watching a movie which Phil "Movieman" Luchon brought over. ]]> 321 2005-07-05 09:20:03 2005-07-05 14:20:03 open open what-a-terrific-day publish 0 0 post 0 Jaeden Has Escaped http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=322 Wed, 06 Jul 2005 15:21:19 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=322 322 2005-07-06 10:21:19 2005-07-06 15:21:19 open open jayden-has-escaped publish 0 0 post 0 472 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-07-06 10:24:23 2005-07-06 15:24:23 1 0 4 473 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-07-06 10:41:43 2005-07-06 15:41:43 1 0 2 474 pablo_willie@hotmial.com 24.73.53.90 2005-07-06 17:33:26 2005-07-06 22:33:26 1 0 0 475 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.79.190 2005-07-06 20:21:50 2005-07-07 01:21:50 1 0 2 478 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-07-07 13:03:09 2005-07-07 18:03:09 1 0 2 481 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-07-08 05:44:03 2005-07-08 10:44:03 1 0 0 483 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-07-08 09:41:11 2005-07-08 14:41:11 1 0 2 487 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-07-11 16:56:27 2005-07-11 21:56:27 1 0 2 488 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-07-13 08:26:34 2005-07-13 13:26:34 clicking here.]]> 1 0 0 495 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-07-20 15:08:10 2005-07-20 20:08:10 1 0 2 496 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-07-20 19:39:38 2005-07-21 00:39:38 1 0 0 527 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-08-10 13:22:02 2005-08-10 18:22:02 purchased a new snake instead, for about half the cost Jaeden was, despite being the same species (and at the same store).]]> 1 0 2 532 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-10 21:50:22 2005-08-11 02:50:22 Jayden's name is actually Jaeden. Fortunately, some quick SQL fixed it everywhere.]]> 1 0 2 1915 lilmon1906@aol.com 68.174.77.175 2006-04-02 09:43:23 2006-04-02 14:43:23 1 0 0 Splitting the Mac's Personality http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=323 Wed, 06 Jul 2005 21:54:35 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=323 Safari, for those of you wondering, is Apple's partly-home-grown Web browser, and it's the default browser for Mac users.) One of our problems in development is the rapidity with which Apple releases new versions of its operating system. Unlike Windows, which tends to be fairly stable, we might see Apple users upgrading their operating systems every six months or so. But, our applications need to work on Safari, and it's considered a good idea to make sure they actually work. The immediate question is which Safari? A user with Safari 1.3 on OS X 10.3.9 is going to get a very different experience from a user with Safari 1.2.4 on OS X 10.3.8 or 10.3.9, and that will vary still from a user with OS X 10.4.1 and Safari 2.0. Nevertheless, these environments are all likely to be encountered by our customers, so we have to test them. A few days ago, I'd upgraded our G5 Mac to OS X 10.4.1 with the latest patches, and intended to leave OS X 10.3.9 installed on a much-slower iMac that also belongs to our team. But I realized we still needed an environment on which to test the latest builds of Safari and the operating system as we get them from our Apple Developer Connection subscription, which works much like the MSDN subscription does. The best solution, given that we use the Mac relatively little, would be to put all three builds on the same machine. I'd never set up multiple partitions on a Mac before, and was curious about dual-booting two flavors of OS X. It turned out to be surprisingly easy. I knew that repartitioning the drive would wipe out all the data. The only items of importance to us on the machine were a few bash scripts Doug "JavaDoug" Ross had written for a massive properties namespace protection/conversion project we'd done. I moved those off to my own machine via FTP. I popped in the OS X 10.4 DVD (yes, DVD), and chose Restart from the Apple Menu. Holding down "C" allowed me to boot from the DVD, which automatically launched the installer. From the installer menu, I could choose to run the Disk Utility, which is pretty much like fdisk combined with chkdsk, but with a prettier interface. I realized I should actually create three partitions. The first would be our "main" test setup, which is currently OS X 10.4.1 (and climbing). The second partition would hold the last release of OS X 10.3.9, which is the last version of OS X we support with the release of Kronos Workforce Central 5.1 product suite. The third partitions would be an OS X 10.4.x sandbox, where we can install the latest released-to-developers code without risk to our test machine. I got OS X 10.4.0 installed, and ran two levels of restart-required patches to bring it up to 10.4.1 with the latest security updates. I verified that everything, including VNC, was running correctly at startup. (Do you think I want to spend my days running back and forth to our hardware lab? Yes, there is a certain Geeky thrill to being in a room with raised flooring and immersed in the overpowering sound of the blowers, but I happen to like my cube--which some have described as a "playpen.") The first part of the project took less than half an hour. I was only stumped once. Next came the OS X 10.3.9 installation. The latest disk I had readily available was OS X 10.3.5, but it's a simple process to patch it to the later version. This time I had to hold Option down at startup, to give me the choice of booting from the install CD or from the OS X 10.4.1 partition. Picking the installation volume (partition) and getting OS X 10.3.9 running was easy. This version ships on CD instead of DVD, and it took surprisingly longer to set up--over an hour, I would estimate. It's in the final stage of installing now; I've just installed the first 11 items that require a restart, and then the Software Update applet found 7 more items. One interesting bit of trivia: Apple was pitching an Earthlink Internet connection subscription as part of the OS X 10.3.5.
    <rant> That reminds me. Why is it that Apple can do no wrong? It's guilty of doing things that would land Microsoft in court, but no one seems to care. For example:
    • Apple installs only QuickTime for media playing, and it's not an optional install, even when choosing the custom installation option. I guess the ability to install a different media player is good enough for Apple in the EU, but not for Microsoft.
    • What's with the hard sell for Earthlink (then later a pitch for a .Mac account at $100/year)?
    • On a Windows system, why does iTunes install and run (without asking me) both the iPod service and the QuickTime system tray lurker? They are both needless consumers of my computer's resources, and iTunes ought to even ask if I even own an iPod. Every time I update iTunes, and hence QuickTime, QuickTime can't remember my preferences about this from the last install!
    • What's up with the only CD/DVD eject button being on the keyboard? What if I don't use a Mac keyboard? What if I want to install a second CD/DVD drive internally? There's no place to put it without taking a hack saw to the beautifully-finished front panel.
    • I know I have a choice since the devices are USB-based, but a one-button mouse is just about as useless as possible. Not even a mousewheel is standard. Remember when Apple had sensible designs? Tell me why control-clicking, which requires two hands, is more intuitive than right-clicking, which requires only one. And, of course, playing Find the Scrollbar is such fun, I can't imagine why anyone would ever miss their mousewheel!
    • Microsoft wrote a Remote Desktop client for the Mac, which allows Remote Desktop to be used on a Mac to connect to a PC. Guess what platform Apple never bothered to write a remote desktop client for? And guess which company charges a small fortune to even get it's Remote Desktop application? It's a good thing there's OSXVNC and Chicken of the VNC on SourceForge!
    </rant>
    You might be tempted to think I don't like OS X or Apple. You'd be wrong. I actually love the Apple, but its defenders seem to be unable to look at it objectively. My one other gripe is that OS X can be extremely powerful, but that power (think one-button mouse here) is insulated from the users. Mac users fall into two categories: "I can only do e-mail," and "I'm a 'Nix propeller-head who thinks any GUI is for the weak." Like it or not, Windows provides an easy learning path to becoming a power user, with the most advanced features lying under the surface, ready to be explored via right-clicking and choosing "Properties." Just like Mac users, Windows users can ignore the power, but it's there when you want it. On the other hand, most Apple users don't fear an operating system upgrade. Most applications work fine on the new O/S or patch, and even reinstalling the O/S (if one isn't repartitioning a drive) can be done without losing existing user accounts or application data. There is much Microsoft could learn from Apple, including the possibility of ditching backward compatibility for something lean-and-mean while providing a good emulator. Anyway, the third operating system install is in progress (OS X 10.4.1, ready for the latest developer code). It's been 9 minutes, and the installer predictions about 7 minutes to go. I'll have to finish configuring it in the morning, because I need to head home, but I can't believe how easy and quick the installation is.]]>
    323 2005-07-06 16:54:35 2005-07-06 21:54:35 open open splitting-the-macs-personality publish 0 0 post 0 520 eneville@yahoo.com http://www.thenevs.com 207.172.138.64 2005-08-07 13:48:00 2005-08-07 18:48:00 1 0 0 522 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-08 21:05:50 2005-08-09 02:05:50 does hide software features behind the imaginary right mouse click. Indeed, they throw menu items under command-clicks, option-clicks, click-and-holds, shift-clicks, and combinations of all the above. Unlike M$, they don't put everything on the menus, either, which annoys me. The Mighty Mouse looks like what Apple should have thrown to the market around the time the wheel mouse became popular. I've been actively wondering why they hadn't come up with something for about three years now, and envisioned a product much like the one that was released. Don't get me wrong, I think Apple has done some fabulous hardware design work (especially the iPod and Mac Mini), and Tiger totally rocks (except for Safari). I just think they've missed following some clearly predefined market choices (two-button mouse with scrollwheel). It's almost like Microsoft and Apple are spoiled children: After the "copy everything" years (1995--2000), neither one of them is willing to admit the other company might have had an idea that is worth using.]]> 1 0 2 523 kenlee333@comcast.net 158.228.57.42 2005-08-09 10:07:32 2005-08-09 15:07:32 1 0 0
    Terrorists Hit London Public Transport http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=324 Thu, 07 Jul 2005 17:39:34 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=324 terrorists detonated four bombs, three on the London Subway system (at 8:51 a.m., 8:56 a.m., and 9:17 a.m., BST) and one on a double-decker bus (at 9:47 a.m., BST). Thirty-three people were killed in the subway system, and more on the bus. Hundreds were injured. The BBC has posted some accounts from survivors here. I heard about this on WBUR, which was still running the BBC broadcast, while on my way to work. I was stunned. I don't know how to react. I wondered if the past decade of quiet from the IRA had lulled Londoners into a more complacent state. I tried to imagine what it was like for the people who went through it. I wondered if these bombs were left in knapsacks like the ones used in the Madrid train bombings. If so, how would I react if I noticed a knapsack or bag left behind while on the subway? Would I even notice, or would I be oblivious, paying attention to my reading and nothing else, until the blast hit? Terrorism is the new Cold War. I miss the old one. At least then we knew who the black hats were. Growing up in the Cold War, I don't think we were instilled with the idea that the Russian people were our enemies, it was just the government of the USSR and its leaders that were bent on global domination under Communism. As a late-comer to the nuclear age, I also didn't fear nuclear holocaust. The rational insanity of MAD (mutually assured destruction) made perfect sense, and kept the peace for decades. I'll have to talk to my children about this. I wonder if they are fearful about what is going on in the world. David, our six-year-old hero, would probably not be afraid. He would imagine himself defusing a subway bomb before it could detonate, and single-handedly wiping out the terrorists who left it. At some point, we grow out of being afraid of things like lightning, and take on fears that are larger in scope. Isaac probably wouldn't think about it at all, and John would probably be nervous about riding on public transport. I don't live in fear, but I know many people do. I do wonder what is next. There are many nasty things that we haven't seen used by terrorist organizations. Some of them, like a bioterror attack using Spanish Influenza, are so easy that I can't believe they haven't been used yet. Read Richard Preston's Demon in the Freezer, for starters. And, since I'm on the topic, let's stop calling the Iraqui terrorists insurgents. In our own War for Independence in 1776, we were insurgents. With the only exception being the destruction of the tea in the Boston Tea Party, our targets were strictly military. When innocent civilians are intentionally targeted (and not merely suffering in collateral damage), that's terrorism. Why are we afraid to use the word? And what do the terrorists want you to believe?]]> 324 2005-07-07 12:39:34 2005-07-07 17:39:34 open closed terrorists-hit-london-public-transport publish 0 0 post 0 485 MJCase4@aol.com 152.163.100.131 2005-07-10 21:57:41 2005-07-11 02:57:41 1 0 0 486 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-07-11 15:52:53 2005-07-11 20:52:53 1 0 2 492 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.79.190 2005-07-14 00:13:37 2005-07-14 05:13:37 1 0 2 Some Dare Call It Patriotism http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=325 Wed, 06 Jul 2005 17:34:56 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=325 requires the availability of hundreds of thousands of exploited laborers, many of whom are illegals. Listen to Marketplace's special report, "The Undocumented War," to gain a better perspective than many Americans have.]]> 325 2005-07-06 12:34:56 2005-07-06 17:34:56 open open some-dare-call-it-patriotism publish 0 0 post 0 479 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-07-07 13:20:33 2005-07-07 18:20:33 1 0 4 480 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-07-07 14:13:12 2005-07-07 19:13:12 1 0 2 482 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-07-08 09:31:22 2005-07-08 14:31:22 1 0 2 John Is Off--On A Missions Trip to Jamaica http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=326 Wed, 13 Jul 2005 02:27:53 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=326 Early Wednesday morning---at 2:30, actually---John will be leaving with a group of teens from Tabernacle Baptist Church for a ten-day missions trip to work with missionaries Quentin and Sally Reese in Jamaica. During their trip, they will be running a week-long Vacation Bible School, working with the Manna Care Ministry (which brings food and medicine to poor and homeless children), and taking part in two different Sunday services at God’s Way Baptist Church. They will also be passing out gospel tracts, and doing other work to help the missionaries in whatever way they can. This will be John's first missions trip. In fact, it will be his first trip out of the country. He is, admittedly, a little nervous. Tonight after dinner we read a short devotional by Corrie Ten Boom about worry. A few days ago I encouraged him not to be afraid, as the worst that could happen is he'd get to go to Heaven soon, and I'd get his X-Box. This is a great opportunity for John. I know from my own experience that such trips can be profoundly life-changing. Seeing how much of the world lives--or struggles to live--is eye opening. Meeting and spending time in fellowshipping with those who share the common bond of brotherhood in Jesus Christ is enriching. I'll update this post throughout the week, as news comes in. Most likely most of the details will need to wait until John returns. Update--Wednesday, July 13, 2005 Well, the group made it safely to Jamaica, albeit after some delays and sans about half of their luggage. I hope the latter arrives soon for them. On one trip to the Dominican Republic, Nichelle and I were warned to bring at least three days' worth of clothing and essentials as carry-on. It took exactly that long for us to get our bags. Update--Saturday, July 16, 2005: Luggage and Hurricanes We heard that the group's luggage had been flown to an airport near Kingston, Jamaica, and was supposed to be delivered to them by yesterday or today, if I have the details right.

    Hurricane Emily (I still think all hurricanes should be named after women) didn't hit Jamaica directly, but judging from the satellite photos today, they're getting some serious wind and rain. That should keep the teens' lives interesting. Here's the word from The Weather Channel:
    Emily: the Atlantic Basin's strongest July hurricane
    2:55 p.m. ET Sat., Jul.16, 2005 M. Ressler, Meteorologist, The Weather Channel With winds of 155 mph, Emily has beaten out Dennis for the honor of strongest July hurricane on record in the Atlantic Basin. Emily remains a small but very strong and very dangerous major Category 4 hurricane. If the sustained wind were to increase 1 more mph, Emily would become a Category 5 hurricane. Emily continues to zip to the west-northwest at 18 mph heading into the western Caribbean. The torrential outer rain bands may dump from 6 to locally 10 inches of rain over the mountains of Jamaica and 4 to 7 inches over the Cayman Islands. Flooding and mud slides are possible. The rain bands may possibly produce a few wind gusts to near hurricane strength in the mountains and along the south coast of Jamaica today and then over Grand Cayman Island later tonight into Sunday. A tropical storm warning has been dropped for the southwestern peninsula of Haiti. A hurricane warning is in effect for Jamaica and for the Cayman Islands. A hurricane watch is in effect for the Caribbean side of the Yucatan. A tropical storm watch is in effect for the northern half of coastal Belize.
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    326 2005-07-12 21:27:53 2005-07-13 02:27:53 open open johns-is-off-on-a-missions-trip-to-jamaica publish 0 0 post 0 489 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-07-13 08:29:06 2005-07-13 13:29:06 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher? And how shall they preach, except they be sent? as it is written, How beautiful are the feet of them that preach the gospel of peace, and bring glad tidings of good things! Romans 10:13-15]]> 1 0 0 490 MJCase4@aol.com 152.163.100.131 2005-07-13 15:56:10 2005-07-13 20:56:10 1 0 0 491 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.79.190 2005-07-14 00:09:32 2005-07-14 05:09:32 1 0 2 493 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.79.190 2005-07-15 12:56:20 2005-07-15 17:56:20 1 0 3 498 fpandele@aol.com 152.163.100.131 2005-07-22 00:09:14 2005-07-22 05:09:14 1 0 0 499 john@wilcoxfamily.net http://john.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.79.190 2005-07-24 00:41:23 2005-07-24 05:41:23 1 0 2 500 fpandele@aol.com 152.163.100.131 2005-07-24 01:58:37 2005-07-24 06:58:37 1 0 0
    E-Mail from the Edge of Emily (Jamaica Missions Trip Update) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=328 Wed, 20 Jul 2005 02:23:30 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=328 [in brackets and italicized]. I will add e-mail as it comes in. Below, with some minor edits (mostly for spelling), is what we have received:
    Saturday, July 16, 2005: Dear Slackers, I landed in Jamaica around 5 in the afternoon on Wednesday. Our flight to Jamaica was delayed an hour and 45 minutes. (Good thing I brought those books, huh? :)) [For the first time, John took my advice about bringing a couple of books with him to read, because you never know when you're going to be stuck somewhere waiting, with nothing to do.] When we had landed we all waited for our luggage. To our dissatisfaction, only 3 of us had gotten our luggage back. Lori, me, and Rachel, but I had to wait for my big black suitcase for 20-25 minutes. And so I was like, "Well, I don't think I'm going to live much longer when I return home." [We threatened John with death if anything happened to our huge, virtually indestructible, Samsonite suitcase.] Then came the immigration forms we had to fill out when we landed. It was pretty wierd filling those out because I felt important. When we had to load the luggage I saw Mrs. Hinxman get into what I had thought all my life was the driver's side of the vehicle. But to my surprise, the steering wheel was on the right side and I thought that was really cool. Well when, we had started to drive I felt like I was in the passengers side of a vehicle that was being driven by the Terminator. Right then I prayed to God and thanked him for seatbelts. To my surprise, our driver was driving 60-65 mph the whole time (1 hour), but we did make frequent stops. And I thought Massachusetts driving was bad! I was dead tired; I had only had 2 hrs sleep the whole trip because of the girls and their non-stop talking (no offense, Mom). When we arrived at the Reese's house, I was like, "Wow this is a beautiful house." We were told to make ourselves at home, and, well, I did. To me it's like a mansion. I thanked God for His taking care for us and where we were to stay. Currently, myself, along with Ken, Mr. Small, and Tim, are staying at another missionary's house that the Reeses work with (the Harmons). You may have heard of the name, but they are not the same missionaries. His brother [Jerry Harmon] is a missionary that our church supports. I've been doing devotions every day, and it is a beautiful country, but the people that we see every day as we drive on the streets. I mean, I feel like giving them money and helping them out. And I know that I wouldn't feel this way if I didn't pray to God about the Jamaican family situation. [John was in an really bad foster home (long since disbanded) which was run by a family of Jamaican descent. He had to overcome the all-too-human tendency to transfer blame to all citizens of a country based on the actions of one or more of its citizens. We're very proud he was able to do this.] You may have heard that there was a hurricane that was headed for us. I had gotten scared and I prayed, and when I had woken up I saw the news and God answered my prayer. It had totally missed us. But the day before that, we (the men) had done some work to prepare for the hurricane. Right now I'm just having fun and enjoying the kids. Tomorrow comes the real work: Vacation Bible School. There will be a little bit more than 300 kids, and the environment around the church is rough. Yesterday their was a gun shot across the street from the church, and so I ran into the church. I pray to God every day for the safety of our trip. So please continue to pray for our trip and I love you all and hope to see you guys on the 25th.
    Monday, July 18, 2005: [We informed John that we'd commandeered his X-Box while he was away, and borrowed Star Wars: Battlegrounds from the Dunn family.] Oh, so you borrowed my most loved thing in my room. lol. Well, ok, just make sure when they get mad they don't throw my controller. lol. Yeah, you can write that on the BLOG if you'd like. The kids get their luggage back today, so they are all happy. [The luggage also contained many items they needed for the VBS, but I can imagine that not having to wear the same clothes every day was quite appealing.] Tuesday, July 18, 2005: Well, I thank you for your prayers for my safety in the hurricane. And I thanked God for His safety yesterday, because there was man that was chased down the street that the church was on and was stabbed to death. I thanked God that He protected me. But I can see what you are saying with the questions. It is a very good conversation to have. [I'll be posting an entry about God's sovereignty and luggage; I had outlined it for John, trying to frame my thoughts a bit. That's the conversation to which he was referring.] Yes, I do think that this would be a life changing trip, because I am already starting to pray to God and asking him to forgive me for my hatred in the past towards my biological parents and the Jamaican foster home. Even though they did something terrible and wicked to me doesn't mean I should not love them and not care for them. But you know I am doing devotions much longer and having more prayer time and praying for people who I would never have even think to pray about. I gotta go now, and I hope to see you soon. Oh, by the way, how's the weather up there? lol. Well, catch ya later, and thanks for being my Dad, and I love you a lot; and tell Mom that I love her, and thank her for being my the best Mom that any teenager could ever have. But I gotta go, and I love you guys.
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    Naomi and John's Return http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=330 Tue, 26 Jul 2005 13:37:49 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=330 330 2005-07-26 08:37:49 2005-07-26 13:37:49 open closed naomi-and-johns-return publish 0 0 post 0 501 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-07-26 08:41:43 2005-07-26 13:41:43 1 0 4 Nichelle Has Been Scheming http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=331 Wed, 27 Jul 2005 04:45:28 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=331 My wife has been scheming for the past few weeks. I knew something was up, because she would do things like call me on my cell phone, and have the kids chorus, "Neener, neener, neener." I also ought to have been extremely suspicious, because she volunteered to drop the kids off at day camp, which involved the extra task of getting Naomi ready to leave the house early. All of the usual items were off the list. It wasn't my birthday, and it wasn't our anniversary, and Father's Day has already passed. I have a history of puzzling things out from the smallest of clues, so she wasn't going to provide even a hint as to what she was up to. Today was no exception. I knew she wasn't home because she'd said she would be out of the house all day, and she hadn't logged on to the computer. This time, however, she assured me that I would find out this evening what was going on. To my complete surprise (I don't think I would have figured this out even with a small hint), Nichelle presented me with an extremely well-made dress that she made for Naomi. With the help of our friend Trish Dunn, Nichelle has been learning to sew, something that she has wanted to do for years. Typical of my wife, her first project was amazingly well done, as the photo above shows. It seems that anything she wants to tackle comes easily to her, from sewing to cutting hair. Of course, she's really looking forward to sewing all John's school clothes for next year. ;) I've already quoted part of Proverbs 31 when talking about Nichelle, but here are a few more appropriate verses from the same chapter:
    19She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 20She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
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    Lost Luggage and the Sovereignty of God http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=329 Wed, 07 Sep 2005 02:59:47 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=329 Lost Luggage When my son John was away with a group from our church on a part-time missions trip to Jamaica, most of them---all but three, actually---had to wait until nearly a week had gone by to receive their luggage. (This is a common problem when traveling to Caribbean destinations. We were advised on a Christmas trip to Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic, to bring at least three days' worth of clothing and essentials as carry-on, because the airline would lose our luggage. We did, and they did.) The mother of one of the few who got their luggage on the missions trip was thrilled that her daughter's luggage had not been lost, and considered it "an answer to prayer." But what about everyone who didn't get their luggage? Was God angry with them, or was it just "one of those things?" I would like to think that most, if not all, parents with children on the trip were actively and earnestly praying for a smooth trip and for the children's safety (just as Nichelle and I were), and having their luggage would certainly be part of a smooth trip. What prayer was actually answered? (I should have asked more pointedly, but I am learning to have a bit more discretion.) Let me further complicate this particular matter. As one of the group leaders testified, on the last day of the trip, our group in Jamaica met another group from Merrimack Valley Baptist Church. The group from MVBC had much of their luggage impounded, as the Jamaican customs officials wanted to charge them over a thousand dollars in import duties on the paper, crayons, candy, and other items they were bringing in for a vacation Bible school they were going to operate. Our youth pastor was relieved that, when the luggage was finally picked up, because customs knew why they were there, they were essentially "waved through," and were not asked to pay any import duties. However, if God used (or caused) the luggage's being late to get it through customs without an import duty, does that mean that God caused the other group's luggage to be impounded simply to reveal to our group that the lost luggage was, ultimately, a blessing? For that matter, we believe in God's omnipotence; if God wanted the luggage to get through customs without difficulty, His power is certainly efficacious enough to accomplish this. Prayer and Hurricanes A similar question might be asked about Hurricane Emily. Was the fact that Emily missed Jamaica while our group was there an answer to prayer? I prayed that the group would be safe, but not that God would move a hurricane. What about all the people in the Yucatan peninsula, where no doubt other equally important missions trips were underway, where Emily made landfall? Is my prayer for the safety of a small group rather than for moving the storm evidence of lack of faith on my part? The topic of prayer and weather is particularly interesting because Pensacola Christian College sent out the following e-mail to their mailing list seeming to imply that it was an answer to prayer when the college was spared by the previous 2005 hurricane, Dennis:
    Sunday, weather reports placed the path of Hurricane Dennis directly into the Pensacola area; but just hours before landfall the Lord weakened Hurricane Dennis’ winds and moved the storm north to make landfall across the Florida Panhandle east of Pensacola. It was great to be on the west side of the storm where the winds are less intense. During the storm, student summer workers and Summer Music Academy campers were safely sheltered in the PCC Sports Center and Communicative Arts Center---they were back in their own residence hall rooms early Sunday evening with full power and air conditioning! In addition, shelter was provided in the Pensacola Christian Academy building for over 500 staff and their families. As a matter of interest, our campus buildings and shelters are architecturally designed to withstand hurricane force winds, and we are seven miles from the beaches where the damage from waves and storm surge make great news for television but no effect on our facilities. We thank the friends of Pensacola Christian College who prayed for God’s protection during Hurricane Dennis. Above all else, we thank the Lord for answered prayer.
    This letter seems to imply that God weakened and moved the hurricane as a response to the prayers of those at Pensacola. While this may be true, it seems at once both supercilious and overly facile from a doctrinal approach. If they expected God to protect them from the hurricane, why take shelter in special buildings? Is God powerful enough to move a hurricane? Of course. Would He do so in response to prayer? Quite possibly. Now, before I am dismissed as faithless or minimizing God, allow me to direct your attention to James 5:17: "Elias [Elijah] was a man subject to like passions as we are, and he prayed earnestly that it might not rain: and it rained not on the earth by the space of three years and six months." There is, indeed a clear Biblical basis for the prayers of one ordinary man affecting the weather. (I would not be so bold as to describe the prophet Elijah as ordinary, but that is the implication in James 5:17.) I am convinced that most believers have not really stopped to examine their words and doctrines in light of what the Scripture teaches about God's sovereignty. We (rightly) are content to praise God when good things happen to us, and we certainly don't curse God when bad things happen to us. The fact is, there are things to be learned from the good and the bad. According to Romans 8:28--29:
    28And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose. 29For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.
    These verses also deal with another important topic that closely relates to sovereignty: predestination (also called election). We'll get back to that later. Sovereignty God is sovereign. He is the greatest in status or authority or power; He is ruler of all Creation; He is master of Heaven and Earth. By His will, the universe was formed. By His will, all things exist. We humans can scarcely grasp the omnipotence of God, as the concept of infinity itself is slippery enough, getting our minds around infinite power is even more difficult. So, if God is infinitely powerful, what place is there in His universe for the free will of man? Is it merely an illusion? Do we actually have a choice in anything we do? Or is it all foreordained by God, and we are merely puppets acting out some great morality play? I used to believe that it was just a matter of viewpoint: God did preordain, or predestine, all things and events, but from the human perspective, we have complete free will. The truth, as Scripture teaches it, is a bit more complicated. Predestination And that leads to perhaps the most-ignored doctrine of Christianity today: Predestination. Simply put, God has chosen some of us to be His elect. Those who will, by His grace, trust Christ as Savior, be redeemed, and live forever with Him in Heaven. There are two extremes in this: Hypercalvinism and Arminianism. Hypercalvinism would teach that nothing we do can influence someone to be saved. Why have missionaries? One church I attended as a child went this route. They changed the "pot luck dinners" into "covered dish suppers," which might actually be more correct, but one parent of a clearly lost teen wrote that he had resigned himself to the fact that his son would go to Hell for the glory of God. Whoa! The New Testament never talks about salvation this way. The fact is, we do not know who the elect are. It is our job to keep propagating the Gospel message of salvation through the atonement of Jesus Christ, and keep praying for our lost loved ones, all of our days. The Apostle Paul wrote:
    22To the weak became I as weak, that I might gain the weak: I am made all things to all men, that I might by all means save some. 23And this I do for the gospel's sake, that I might be partaker thereof with you. (1 Corinthians 9:22--23)
    Arminian theology (see this excellent reference at about.com) is at the opposite end. In it, mankind has complete free will. God would seem to have no more control than making a few suggestions. Clearly, this philosophy is not Scriptural, either. (However, as the about.com article points out, Arminian theology was important for getting people to realize they could make a difference in society: Slaves were not predestined to be slaves; the poor might be helped to another, higher, station; the battle against disease could be fought and won. In between, these extremes, yet more than merely the middle ground, is Calvinism:
    "I have my own opinion that there is no such thing as preaching Christ and Him crucified, unless we preach what nowadays is called Calvinism. It is a nickname to call it Calvinism; Calvinism is the gospel, and nothing else. I do not believe we can preach the gospel if we do not preach justification by faith without works; nor unless we preach the sovereignty of God in His dispensation of grace; nor unless we exalt the electing unchangeable eternal, immutable, conquering love of Jehovah; nor do I think we can preach the gospel unless we base it upon the special and particular redemption of His elect and chosen people which Christ wrought out upon the cross." (Charles Spurgeon, The New Park Street Pulpit, Vol. 1, 1856).
    Whose Will Wins? Just as God is sovereign, He has made His will clear:
    4Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth. (1 Timothy 2:4)
    If God wants all men to be saved, is there universal atonement, as the Universalists teach? Or, alternatively, are God's will and omnipotence defeated because not all men will accept His gift of eternal life? In regard to election, people do not become saved of their own will. The Holy Spirit must draw men to the Lord. C.H. Spurgeon put it quite eloquently:
    "We declare on scriptural authority that the human will is so desperately set on mischief, so depraved, so inclined to everything that is evil, and so disinclined to everything that is good, that without the powerful, supernatural, irresistible influence of the Holy Spirit, no human will ever be constrained toward Christ." (Charles Spurgeon, Sermons, Vol. 4, p. 139). (See more of Spurgeon's quotes on Calvinism.)
    A Premature Conclusion I did not set out to answer all these questions in this one post, but I have had this percolating for a month now, and did not want to procrastinate indefinitely. After reading a friend's BLOG for a while, I realized that I had fallen into the "intellectual flabbiness of the larger society," especially where questions of doctrine were concerned, and wanted use by own BLOG to both clarify and proclaim my own faith. This is a beginning. I expect this will generate some excellent discussion, and further expect to revise and expand this particular post over the next few weeks.]]>
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  • Total depravity
  • Unconditional Election
  • Limited Atonement
  • Irresistable Grace
  • Perseverance of the Saints
  • So is a hyper-calvinist someone who really-really believes in TULIP, whereas a regular Calvinist believes only somewhat in TULIP? I know this is semantics, but you either believe the 5 points or you don't. Your problem with hyper-calvinism in my mind can better be termed bad application of Calvinism. You're 100% right that we do not know who the elect are and God commands us to "preach the gospel to every creature" (Mark 16:15.) In fact, the doctrines of grace (another term for "Calvinism") encourage me in my evangelistic efforts, because they tell me, "It's all in God's hands and you merely need to be faithful to the message and not worry about methods or other trivialties." I'd recommend The Sovereignty of God by A. W. Pink, but it seems that you've thought this out enough on your own! :) In addition to the Biblical reasons to believe in the doctrines of grace, of which there are many, here are some logical ones: kids: We know that God has preordained the birth of every creature. The Bible teaches that God knew us before the foundation of the world. Since Isaac Wilcox could only have come about by the union of Doug and Nichelle, then God must have preordained Doug to marry specifically Nichelle. Furthermore, God ordained for them to know one another at the exact date and time that conceived Isaac. None of this nonesense about "I married the wrong person." driving: We all drive like Calvinists, even if we profess to be Arminian. Don't we pray, "Lord, please give us travelling mercies?" In effect we are praying, "Lord, please interfere with the free will of every driver on the road!" If Arminianism were true, i.e. free will existed, then God would have to answer, "I'm sorry, I can't give you travelling mercies because I can't interfere with Bill Jones who has decided by his free will to drink and drive and then cross the lane to kill you." I praise God that he interferes with the free will of the drivers! Should I or someone I love get killed by a drunk driver, God is not in heaven saying "Yikes, I wish that hadn't happened." It would be a part of His sovereign plan, and I may never know the purpose. I don't have to know the purpose. I am the creation - not the creator. Planning the ends requires planning the means: There's a song by Caedmon's Call called Table For Two that has this great line about God's sovereignty in our everyday activities: "And You know the plan You have for me; And You can't plan the ends and not plan the means." Derek Webb, the author of that lyric, is 100% right! We know God plans the ends from the Bible. If so, He MUST plan the means as well. We serve a Sovereign God! So often we're afraid to believe in God's ultimate sovereignty because we don't want to blame God for the bad things that happen. We want to be like the Jehovah's Witnesses who attribute good things to God and bad things to the devil, as if God is not in control of the devil. Well, the Jehovah's Witnesses are wrong about this. God is King of everything: good, bad, everything. Jonathan Edwards said: "Absolute sovereignty is what I love to ascribe to God."
    "And the Lord added to the church daily such as should be saved" (Acts 2:47)
    It is GOD who added to the church. It still is. I paraphrase John Piper's excellent book Desiring God when he wrote that it was inappropraite to ascribe to man the power to thwart the will of the Sovereign God. Amen, and Amen.]]>
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    597 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-09-07 14:43:01 2005-09-07 19:43:01 Desiring God currently. It's a wonderful book. I bought my own copy after hearing so many excellent recommendations about it. I'm going to continue to label hypercalvinism the way I have. It may be extreme, but I think of it as Calvinism carried so far that it removes the individual's duty in spreading the gospel, and believes that those who are unwilling to accept the gospel at a particular point in time will never do so. (Plus, covered dish just sounds silly.) I'm also going to be digging into Spurgeon a little more. Everywhere I search I find jewels of wisdom in his theological preaching. On an aside, I'm trying to find a reference to a sermon I believe he did---something about four verses or four words he believed should have been made part of the King James Bible.]]> 1 0 2 598 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-09-07 14:44:06 2005-09-07 19:44:06 Calvinists are those who think much of God and little of man. Arminians are those who think much of man and little of God.]]> 1 0 4 599 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-09-07 14:48:44 2005-09-07 19:48:44 Ray Comfort is a HUGE fan of Spurgeon. He compiled a "best of" book called Spurgeon Gold which you can check out and purchase by clicking here. The description is as follows:
    Books about the life and ministry of "The Prince of Preachers" are not uncommon. However, Spurgeon Gold takes a unique approach. It has isolated the great preacher's deep passion for the lost, many of his powerful gospel proclamations, and his convicting exhortations to Christians to share their faith. You will weep your way through this rich compilation.
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    600 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-09-07 14:50:51 2005-09-07 19:50:51 Desiring God is a MUST READ and can be found by clicking here.]]> 1 0 4 603 jasonkst@adelphia.net 12.6.239.196 2005-09-08 07:22:47 2005-09-08 12:22:47 1 0 0 604 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-09-08 09:28:30 2005-09-08 14:28:30 1 0 4 606 jasonkst@adelphia.net 12.6.239.196 2005-09-08 10:35:59 2005-09-08 15:35:59 Eph 1:4-6). From my understanding, Romans 8:29 is dealing with the sanctification of the believer (predestined to be conformed to the image of his son) And...foreknew in 8:29 does NOT mean that God looked down the annals of time to se who would choose him, and thus predestined those. This theology is propogated by many a baptist church and seminary and I do not believe it to be accurate. Again, it puts man in the driver's seat - not God. I agree with Mark about reading Pink's book. Sproul's "Chosen by God" is also an excellent primer on these topics. J]]> 1 0 0 607 timmorgan@themorgans.com 216.75.137.83 2005-09-09 08:49:19 2005-09-09 13:49:19 1 0 0 608 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-09-09 11:40:25 2005-09-09 16:40:25 Romans 8:28--29 is part of a chapter dealing with the sanctification of all believers, it's valid to consider it speaking of salvation, especially in light of verse 30. I should have included it with my reference above:
    30Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.
    There's little doubt that calling and justification are talking about salvation. In essence, Paul is working his way backward to predestination from final glorification (being made like Christ in our resurrected bodies). However, I do absolutely agree with you that the Arminian anthropocentric viewpoint you point out is quite wrong. This is probably also what gave rise to the "easy believism" that is so prevalent in Baptist and other evangelical churches today, which leaves people are trusting in a prayer they prayed, rather than in the Savior.]]>
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    610 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-09-09 15:09:50 2005-09-09 20:09:50 22Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Thy name? and in Thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works? 23And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from Me, ye that work iniquity. (Matthew 7:22--23) I don't know how much comfort this will give you, but the bottom line is that I don't think it's possible to want to be saved and not actually be one of the elect. We might think about all the verses that guarantee salvation to those who ask, or the testimony of the new converts throughout the New Testament. But you do raise some valid concerns. There are many verses that talk about determining whether one is truly saved (the book of 1 Jobn has several "tests" for salvation). [More to come later ... it'll be a few hours.] ]]> 1 0 2 611 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.4 2005-09-09 17:50:10 2005-09-09 22:50:10 1 0 0 613 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-09-09 22:25:00 2005-09-10 03:25:00 got to get a Hebrew-Greek-Intralinear. (CBD has it for $30.) The more I study this topic (and others), the more I need to get a better picture of how the original languages work. When and where do you want to start the Koine Greek class?]]> 1 0 2 614 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.149.122 2005-09-10 10:46:07 2005-09-10 15:46:07 1 0 0 615 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.149.122 2005-09-10 12:00:47 2005-09-10 17:00:47 1 0 0 616 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-09-10 13:57:35 2005-09-10 18:57:35 indices, although the second spelling of indexes is allowable. There aren't many people who will get it right. Many of our words are strange when one stares at them. Eight is the first one that comes to mind. Thank you for putting your input into this topic. A "live" discussion might be even better, but the audience is geographically quite widespread, and this does give us time to think about responses. I started this as a way of codifying my own thoughts.]]> 1 0 2 619 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.163 2005-09-12 08:03:55 2005-09-12 13:03:55 1 0 0 623 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.129.3 2005-09-13 08:28:03 2005-09-13 13:28:03 the bottom line is that I don’t think it’s possible to want to be saved and not actually be one of the elect Amen to that! I agree 1 bazillion percent. However, if you're lazy as you say, then I want to encourage and exhort you to take small steps top change that. It's hard, I know, but start small. The grand word studies and language studies of Beth'sMomToo are superb, and should be encouraged, but you don't learn to fly before you learn to crawl. In the Epistle to the Hebrews, people who WERE SAVED were exhorted to grow in Christ:
    ye are dull of hearing. For when for the time ye ought to be teachers, ye have need that one teach you again which be the first principles of the oracles of God; and are become such as have need of milk, and not of strong meat. For every one that useth milk is unskilful in the word of righteousness: for he is a babe. But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil. (Hebrews 5:11-14)
    These people were Christians, just not ones that were growing. So it is possible to be SAVED but not growing a whole lot. And the word to people like that is, change it!
    As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby (1 Peter 2:2)
    So Varamek, I am encouraged by your transparency and humility of your post. You have identified your sin: laziness. Now you can take steps to change that behavior andreplace it with new behaviors. If you merely try to repent without making new habits, you'll likely fall back into that sin. Instead of laziness, make a plan to do a few things productive each day and force yourself to do it. Soon it will be a habit, and God will use your newfound productivity to grow in Christ! Some day you'll be thriving on the meat of God's Word, and you'll be a soldier for Christ, and one day hear: "Well done, thou good and faithful servant." Everyone on this BLOG will be praying for you!]]>
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    626 jasonkst@adelphia.net 12.6.239.196 2005-09-13 11:40:40 2005-09-13 16:40:40 1 0 0 630 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.158.115 2005-09-13 18:13:18 2005-09-13 23:13:18 1 0 0 637 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-09-14 00:03:29 2005-09-14 05:03:29 1 0 0 638 timmorgan@themorgans.com 216.75.137.83 2005-09-14 10:27:32 2005-09-14 15:27:32 1 0 0 639 phil.luchon@gmail.com 69.164.99.77 2005-09-14 13:45:04 2005-09-14 18:45:04 1 0 0 646 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.158.140 2005-09-14 19:37:37 2005-09-15 00:37:37 1 0 0 652 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-09-16 22:17:42 2005-09-17 03:17:42 1 0 2 687 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-04 14:10:35 2005-10-04 19:10:35 1 0 2 689 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-05 09:32:48 2005-10-05 14:32:48 1 0 2 831 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-20 21:10:56 2005-10-21 02:10:56 MIS AMADOS HERMANOS: OREMOS POR LOS HERMANOS DE CUBA, MÉXICO, LA FLORIDA Y TODOS LOS QUE SERÁN AFECTADOS POR EL HURACÁN WILMA PARA QUE DIOS LE FORTALEZCA Y LE BENDIGA EN ESTA PRUEBA, PERO PRINCIPALMENTE PARA QUE NO HAYAN PÉRDIDAS HUMANAS Y QUE LOS QUE NO CONOCEN DE CRISTO VUELVAN SU ROSTRO A ÉL. PASTOR JOSÉ MALLÉN MALLA In English, it reads:
    My beloved brethren: We pray for our brothers in Cuba, Florida, Mexico, and all those who may be affected by Hurricane Wilma, that God would strengthen them and bless them in this trial---but most of all that there would not be human lives lost and that those who do not know Christ would turn their faces to Him.
    Amen!]]>
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    1598 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-12 11:19:45 2006-01-12 16:19:45 The End of the Spear: Let God Write Your Story]]> 1 0 2 1603 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.158.52 2006-01-13 18:56:48 2006-01-13 23:56:48 1 0 0
    A Crocodile Monitor on the Loose ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=333 Wed, 10 Aug 2005 03:26:36 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=333 RJ's Exotics to buy some food for the critters. I too was on the lookout for a new snake. (See Jaeden Has Escaped.) As we checked out all of the cool creatures they carry, I spotted some corn snakes. I was holding Naomi, when Isaac and David quickly came to the front of the store and I heard that a crocodile monitor had escaped. One of the employees came charging up front looking for his gloves. We were told that the front of the store was safe, but not to enter the back of the store. In the meantime, I had Isaac and David go outside and wait by the door. Things settled down a little and at that time I had narrowed my choice of snake down to two. The monitor was still on the loose, but I finally decided which snake I wanted to buy. Unfortunately, the containers to transport the new Wilcox addition was in the back of the store with the monitor. I told the employee, not to worry, I'd come back in about half an hour or so to buy the snake then. When I returned, I was informed that the monitor had been captured, and that no one was hurt. They can be quite vicious. So I now have a new female corn snake, which looks pretty much like this one. See "Name That Snake" for some pictures. ]]> 333 2005-08-09 22:26:36 2005-08-10 03:26:36 open closed a-crocodile-monitor-is-on-the-loose publish 0 0 post 0 524 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-08-10 05:42:23 2005-08-10 10:42:23 1 0 0 525 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-10 08:13:42 2005-08-10 13:13:42 1 0 3 526 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-08-10 09:36:30 2005-08-10 14:36:30 1 0 2 528 mike_matheson@juno.com 69.132.109.152 2005-08-10 16:25:00 2005-08-10 21:25:00 1 0 0 529 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.99.7 2005-08-10 18:43:39 2005-08-10 23:43:39 1 0 0 530 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-10 20:46:33 2005-08-11 01:46:33 1 0 3 531 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-10 21:07:14 2005-08-11 02:07:14 free Colombian Red-Tailed Boa? This was an animal rescue our local pet shop didn't quite have room for. They only grow to 10--12 feet! Nichelle decided that she would follow the herpetologists' recommendations for handling; one person per 5 feet of snake. Somehow the idea of having a snake that might accidentally decide to constrict one of us was too much for her.]]> 1 0 2 533 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-10 22:33:58 2005-08-11 03:33:58 Name That Snake" post.]]> 1 0 2 Nichelle and NaNi Play Dress Up (At Clark's Trading Post) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=334 Thu, 11 Aug 2005 02:40:02 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=334 Clark's Trading Post. Nichelle decided that she and NaNi would have one of those old fashioned photos done. (This is exactly the kind of thing my parents would never have done because (1) it might have been fun, and (2) it cost money. According to Nichelle, Naomi had a great time. Below are the results, with some fun effects. I got tired of just the original and sepia, so I tried Lego (0fficially "Kids Blocks") and stained glass, which I modified to look more like a mosaic. Click to view the enlarged versions.

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    334 2005-08-10 21:40:02 2005-08-11 02:40:02 open closed nichelle-and-nani-play-dress-up-at-clarks-trading-post publish 0 0 post 0 534 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.73.53.90 2005-08-11 03:44:15 2005-08-11 08:44:15 1 0 0 535 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-08-11 05:48:18 2005-08-11 10:48:18 different role. ;)]]> 1 0 0 540 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-11 08:07:05 2005-08-11 13:07:05 1 0 3 546 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.99.7 2005-08-11 18:24:47 2005-08-11 23:24:47 1 0 0 548 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-11 20:52:28 2005-08-12 01:52:28 1 0 3 549 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-11 23:12:57 2005-08-12 04:12:57 1 0 2 553 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-08-12 14:26:56 2005-08-12 19:26:56 REAL reason. They're so cowardly to come out and say why they don't want cross-dressing - because it's a family establishment!]]> 1 0 4
    Name That Snake http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=335 Thu, 11 Aug 2005 03:26:24 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=335 Jaeden has Escaped" and "A Crocodile Monitor on the Loose" for the background.)

    We need to come up with a good name for her. Your suggestions are welcome. (This oughta be good ...)]]>
    335 2005-08-10 22:26:24 2005-08-11 03:26:24 open closed name-that-snake publish 0 0 post 0 536 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-08-11 05:51:12 2005-08-11 10:51:12 1 0 0 537 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-08-11 05:51:50 2005-08-11 10:51:50 1 0 0 538 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-08-11 05:55:24 2005-08-11 10:55:24 know she's a girl?]]> 1 0 0 539 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-11 08:03:47 2005-08-11 13:03:47 1 0 3 542 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-08-11 10:53:05 2005-08-11 15:53:05 http://www.pythons.com/probing.html.]]> 1 0 2 543 fran_matheson@sil.org 69.132.74.99 2005-08-11 15:29:56 2005-08-11 20:29:56 1 0 0 544 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-11 16:28:50 2005-08-11 21:28:50 1 0 3 545 pfw1148@aol.com http://dna 152.163.101.7 2005-08-11 17:22:19 2005-08-11 22:22:19 1 0 0 547 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.99.7 2005-08-11 18:28:03 2005-08-11 23:28:03 1 0 0 550 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-11 23:19:43 2005-08-12 04:19:43 Lucifer for the name. ;) Thanks also for all who responded so far; this topic is generating quite a few comments, which is something I hope the BLOG continues to do. We actually picked Naomi's middle name after soliciting opinions from those who read our BLOG. Naomi Nichelle won out (suggested by our friend Juan Brea in the Dominican Republic) because he thought of the perfect nickname to go with it: NaNi.]]> 1 0 2 552 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-08-12 14:25:03 2005-08-12 19:25:03 1 0 4 554 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-08-12 14:29:13 2005-08-12 19:29:13 Jewel it is! Thank you, Mark, for making such a clear argument in favor of the name.]]> 1 0 2 557 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-12 18:56:52 2005-08-12 23:56:52 1 0 3 560 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-16 08:28:26 2005-08-16 13:28:26 1 0 3 563 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-08-19 05:49:20 2005-08-19 10:49:20 1 0 0 564 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-19 07:38:28 2005-08-19 12:38:28 1 0 2 565 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-19 08:06:51 2005-08-19 13:06:51 1 0 3
    NaNi's Words - Getting Beyond the R2-D2 Stage http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=336 Fri, 12 Aug 2005 16:27:02 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=336 Photos in this post: top---Naomi the explorer (Rattlesnake Hill, elevation 1,231 feet, next to Squam Lake, Holderness, New Hampshire); middle---Naomi enjoys reading Calvin and Hobbes while on a trip to the Lower Falls, Kancamagus Highway; bottom---Naomi shows off her block-tower-building prowess. Right now, she is in a fascinating speech development stage, after a fairly long plateau (if anything can be considered long in toddler development) of sounding like R2-D2, where we could figure out what she was saying by the emotion put into the words and sometimes matching syllables, to using new words every day. We repeat what we think she's said back to her in an interrogative tone, so she can confirm it. One funny example: We were watching the 2004 movie Thunderbirds, and she was watching it quite intently. I asked her, "Do you like this movie?" She replied, "[Unknown syllables], [unknown syllables], [unknown syllables] cute." "What!?" I responded, "He's cute?" (Probably referring to Brady Corbet, who played Alan Tracy in the film.) "Uh-huh," was her answer. Also like R2-D2, NaNi can understand just about everything we say to her, and has been able to for the past 9 or 10 months---even complex sentences with multiple commands, like, "Pick up your shoes and put them in your room." Of course, she's also at the age where she's developing a strong will (or perhaps a strong won't), so she is equally good at ignoring our instructions completely when it suits her purposes. She's also doing other cool things. She can identify just about everything in a picture or storybook we can name. She recognizes people in photos. She builds block towers, puts together Duplo, and will sometimes partially assemble Lego people. She can climb the long ladder to our slide, and slide down it without help, now that she's learned to slow herself down. She will come over to me, lie down, and stick her feet up in the air, which means she wants a "pendulum" ride, where I pick her up by the feet and ankles and swing her back and forth while upside-down. She recognizes the tunes of many songs, and can even hum along to the "Imperial March" from The Empire Strikes Back. She brushes her teeth by herself. She picks out which pair of shoes she wants to wear, and can put them on. (When we got back from vacation, she insisted on wearing her ruby-red dress shoes to bed, as she apparently missed them while we were away.) In the past two week, she has started using new words, such as up, and even surprised us with lifejacket. She has managed to wrap every one of us around her little finger. So, I'm going to try to enumerate her vocabulary. (I'll be updating this often in the next couple of days, as I think of new words she is currenlty using):
    • ah-ha
    • all done
    • apple
    • baby
    • backpack (to refer to her baby-carrier backpack that we wear, or to her riding onto my back without the backpack, with her arms around my neck)
    • Bible
    • Blue
    • Blue's Clues (Her absolute favorite television show, although we limit her to about one hour of TV per day. For the record, Steve was a much better host than Joe is.)
    • bye
    • bye-bye
    • cheese
    • cyclopentanoperhydrophenanthrene
    • Chapstick (Yes, I know it's a brand name.)
    • Chaz
    • Daddy
    • hi (She also---just yesterday---started using hi in conjunction with a person's name, as in "Hi, Daddy.")
    • ice
    • Isaac
    • keys
    • lifejacket
    • marble
    • me
    • mine (I taught her that one. I tried teaching her gimme, but Nichelle took issue with that.)
    • Mommy
    • no
    • nooooooooooooooooooooooo (used especially when her brothers are bothering her, or trying to take something away from her)
    • okay
    • oooooooooooooooooooooooh (drawn out with a long o sound, as if in realization or final comprehension of something)
    • ow
    • ooooooooooooooooooooooow (used especially if her brothers are touching her in the slightest way)
    • pee
    • Phoebe
    • please
    • plum
    • pool
    • Pop Tart (Another brand name)
    • stuck
    • thank you (more of a syllabic match than a phonetic one)
    • T.V.
    • up
    • uh-huh (for yes)
    • uh-oh (for no)
    • uh-uh (for no)
    • up
    • Yes, sir! (Only when singing "I May Never March in the Infantry ..."; she also salutes with her hand, and does all of the other actions correctly.)
    NaNi loves to sing. Some of her songs are more phonetic or syllabic than verbal, but here are her favorites:
    • Blind Man (an old chorus I learned at Camp Fireside)
    • The Emperor's March, from The Empire Strikes Back
    • The Farmer in the Dell (which her See 'n Say® plays)
    • Happy Birthday (She surprised us by knowing that one today.)
    • I May Never March in the Infantry
    • Jesus Loves Me
    • Old McDonald had a Farm (another See 'n Say® one)
    And she can identify the following body parts:
    • belly button
    • ears
    • eyebrows
    • eyes
    • fingers
    • hair
    • mouth
    • nose
    • spleen (I'm not kidding)
    • toes
    • tongue
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    336 2005-08-12 11:27:02 2005-08-12 16:27:02 open closed nanis-words-getting-beyond-the-r2-d2-stage publish 0 0 post 0 551 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.135.35 2005-08-12 14:23:33 2005-08-12 19:23:33 1 0 4 555 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.99.7 2005-08-12 17:52:16 2005-08-12 22:52:16 1 0 0 556 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-12 18:52:39 2005-08-12 23:52:39 1 0 0 559 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-08-15 12:25:13 2005-08-15 17:25:13 1 0 2 568 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-20 17:40:42 2005-08-20 22:40:42 house, NaNi, outside, Johnand thank you (very clearly, and at the appropriate times without prompting). Oh, and the word, why is being used more often now.]]> 1 0 3 569 mike_matheson@juno.com 69.132.108.99 2005-08-21 15:23:28 2005-08-21 20:23:28 1 0 0 571 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-21 22:47:25 2005-08-22 03:47:25 1 0 3 583 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.73 2005-08-24 19:54:28 2005-08-25 00:54:28 1 0 0 585 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-27 22:15:52 2005-08-28 03:15:52 cyclopentanoperhydrophenanthrene or human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG), but I think that NaNi was saying cyclopentanoperhydrophenanthrene first. NaNi is crazy about animals, including our snake (belongs to Nichelle), the two tarantulas (Isaac and David each have one), and Isaac's bearded dragon. I'm like a mad scientist with Naomi---determined to unleash my creation (a Christian girly-girl Geek engineer) on an unsuspecting world. Beth would be an excellent role model (if we could only get her to stop using those words that make Beth'sMomToo frown).]]> 1 0 2 653 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-09-16 22:22:20 2005-09-17 03:22:20 1 0 2
    "You See, I Had This Space Suit" http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=337 Fri, 19 Aug 2005 12:42:08 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=337 You see, I had this space suit. How it happened was like this: "Dad," I said, "I want to go to the moon." "Certainly," he answered and looked back at his book. It was Jerome K. Jerome's Three Men in a Boat, which he must know by heart. I said, "Dad, please! I'm serious." This time he closed the book on a finger and said gently, "I said it was all right. Go ahead." "Yes ... but how?" "Eh?" He looked mildly suprised. "Why, that's your problem, Clifford." (Opening lines from Robert A. Heinlein's Have Space Suit---Will Travel) I remember when I in elementary school, and the short Saturday-morning "In the News" program predicted that, if one were 25 years of age or younger, it would be possible to vacation on the moon in one's lifetime. Despite our different focus in our government-sponsored space program, new materials science and technology, the availability of massive amounts of private capital, and the undying dream of human space exploration and even tourism, are working to make those predictions a reality. See my post Have Space Ship---Will Travel, as well as other Wilcox Family BLOG posts regarding NASA and Space. Here is just one such example of what is developing, with a view for what wonders the next 20 years may bring: Wired: The "Moon Could Be Next Tourist Trap." Space tourism is already a reality for those wealthy enough to afford it. But just like transcontinental voyages and air travel, space will open up for the common man. Time to start buying Skyway Soap ...]]> 337 2005-08-19 07:42:08 2005-08-19 12:42:08 open closed you-see-i-had-this-space-suit publish 0 0 post 0 570 mike_matheson@juno.com 69.132.108.99 2005-08-21 15:36:21 2005-08-21 20:36:21 1 0 0 573 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-08-22 12:00:12 2005-08-22 17:00:12 1 0 2 574 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-08-22 13:04:00 2005-08-22 18:04:00 1 0 3 575 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.184 2005-08-22 18:59:07 2005-08-22 23:59:07 Three Men in a Boat, but it's in the "to read" pile. And you made me realize I have only read Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert Heinlein. I guess I never stopped to investigate what else he had written. Thanks to you, I had the urge for SciFi again and returned to my perennial favorite atheist SciFi author-Ray Bradbury. I read Something Wicked This Way Comes and enjoyed every minute of it. Do you know if it's the same character as in The Illustrated Man? It's been a while since I read that. Of course, The Martian Chronicles would be my ultimate favorite collection of his. Right now I'm reading The Art of the Personal Essay. It starts with a precursor---Seneca the Younger in 1st Century Rome. What a hoot to read about the noises he can hear from his lodging up over a public bath in Rome! What a great resource for reading about what life was like in Rome at the time of Christ and the first church. I ordered a book of his personal essays to share with my SS kids (I'll read them first, of course.) Here's an excerpt: "When the strenuous types are doing their exercises...I hear the grunting as they toil away...on top of this some ball player comes along and starts shouting out the score...the man who likes the sound of his voice in the bath, and the people who leap into the pool with a tremendous splash ..." Doesn't this sound familiar?! Just imagine ... some guy singing in the shower (bath) and someone doing cannonballs into the pool - it just makes it seem so real, even though almost 2000 years have passed. THAT'S how history needs to be taught!]]> 1 0 0 579 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-08-24 12:20:25 2005-08-24 17:20:25 The Martian Chronicles and Fahrenheit 451, and rapidly building up my collection, that I discovered he had written that story I had read in third grade. I'm not sure about The Illustrated Man versus Something Wicked This Way Comes. I have a vague recollection, though, that you are correct about the characters. I have never read Three Men in a Boat. It was only recently that I learned it was a real book. The passage about Kip's father is somewhat ironic, too, because I read Have Space Suit about once a year, and nearly know that book by heart. The essay book sounds wonderful. I look forward to hearing more about it, especially how useful it has been in Sunday school. You really ought to start a book BLOG. If you've only read Stranger in a Strange Land, you have missed Heinlein at his best. I find his "adult" books to be (often) too "adult" in the wrong way. Stranger is at about my margin of tolerance. I highly recommend Have Space Suit---Will Travel, Starship Troopers, and The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress.]]> 1 0 2 580 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-08-24 16:31:53 2005-08-24 21:31:53 never, never, never suggest that Bradbury's "The Small Assassin" would make good reading for one's wife when she is hospitalized with preeclampsia. (See the text and comments on this post.)]]> 1 0 2 581 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.73 2005-08-24 19:32:49 2005-08-25 00:32:49 1 0 0 582 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.73 2005-08-24 19:45:49 2005-08-25 00:45:49 1 0 0 Absolutely Nothing ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=339 Thu, 18 Aug 2005 22:42:15 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=339 339 2005-08-18 17:42:15 2005-08-18 22:42:15 open closed absolutely-nothing publish 0 0 post 0 Nashua Commuter Rail http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=340 Fri, 19 Aug 2005 01:23:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=340 Editor's note: I moved this post to a this page on Monday, October 24, 2005. Nashua, N.H., seems too far away from Boston to be a "bedroom community," but in the quest for affordable housing, crime-free neighborhoods, and other prized essentia of suburbia, Nashua is an excellent choice, especially considering its sales-tax-free shopping and vibrant downtown. After seeing the huge benefits the commuter rail brought to our former hometown of Brockton, Massachusetts, I am eagerly awaiting the day Nashua becomes a stop on the Purple Line. I thought I'd start tracking some of the articles that come through Google Alerts about the rail project. ]]> 340 2005-08-18 20:23:16 2005-08-19 01:23:16 open closed nashua-commuter-rail publish 0 0 post 0 Man with a Backhoe http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=343 Tue, 13 Sep 2005 12:54:58 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=343 Urgent Notice: 9/12/2005 Currently there is a Major Power Outage that has affected Los Angeles Area where one of our data center currently reside. About half of the servers are currently running using the backup generators. Unfortunately, the backup generators are not able to supply enough power for the other half of the servers. We are currently working with the Los Angeles power department to getting power back up for your server. To read more about the power outage... http://kcal9.com/topstories/topstoriesla_story_255162353.html. If you have any questions regarding this matter, please proceed and open a support ticket or give us a call. Thank you. 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    Today I retrieved the mail to find Christmas catalogs from both L. L. Bean and eToys. :: sigh :: I remember countless years of devouring the Sears Wish Book, whose arrival announced the official commencement of the blessed season of unrestrained Commercialism. Today my own dreams of childhood (I once requested a Lego set costing $50) pale next to $179 pogo sticks promising 6 feet of "air" (no kidding!) and $300+ game systems. (Of course we all know the top item on most lists will be the $399 Xbox 360 model that includes backward conpatibility with the existing Xbox.)]]>
    344 2005-09-13 20:22:08 2005-09-14 01:22:08 open open its-officially-christmas-season publish 0 0 post 0 634 mike_matheson@juno.com 69.132.180.236 2005-09-13 20:57:24 2005-09-14 01:57:24 1 0 0 635 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-09-13 20:58:48 2005-09-14 01:58:48 1 0 2 642 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.99.7 2005-09-14 17:35:51 2005-09-14 22:35:51 1 0 0 644 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.158.140 2005-09-14 18:58:06 2005-09-14 23:58:06 1 0 0 648 fran_matheson@sil.org 69.132.109.138 2005-09-15 20:20:42 2005-09-16 01:20:42 1 0 0 650 mike_matheson@juno.com 69.132.180.236 2005-09-16 18:19:53 2005-09-16 23:19:53 1 0 0 682 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-03 10:36:27 2005-10-03 15:36:27 Moller SkyCar is the only thing that really interested me, some of these things would be good arguments (like the entire SkyMall catalog) that Americans have way too much money.
    Gas prices high? Try an eco-friendly, $3.5 mln Skycar CHICAGO (Reuters) - If that Hummer is draining your cash at the gas pump, Neiman Marcus Group Inc. has the perfect holiday gift: A fuel-efficient, $3.5 million "Skycar" that flies 350 miles per hour and burns environmentally friendly alcohol. The luxury retailer's annual Christmas Book of gifts for the rich and richer shows no signs of scaling back in times of economic strain -- although there are a few stocking stuffers such as a $15 paperweight for those on a tighter budget. The M400 Skycar prototype is a vertical takeoff and landing aircraft that gets 21 miles per gallon and is designed to be "as safe, affordable and easy to use as an automobile. "A limited number of M400s is expected to be available within the next three years, but you can purchase the actual prototype for yourself or your favorite commuter now," Neiman Marcus said in the catalog. Delivery is not included. Buyers must clear regulatory requirements, including International Traffic in Arms Regulations and Federal Aviation Administration authorization. For those who can't get clearance, there is always the private Elton John concert. For $1.5 million, you and 500 close friends can enjoy an intimate piano concert while helping a good cause---the money goes to John's AIDS foundation. Sports fans can opt for the $65,000 IndyCar race simulator. For an extra $10,000, they will throw in a "race hospitality package" for the famed Indianapolis 500, including pit access, four nights' hotel and autographed merchandise. Act fast -- only five hospitality packages are available. There is also a jewelry collection for $1.2 million, and a "levitating sculpture" that uses an invisible magnetic wave to suspend an oval-shaped aluminum sculpture with no visible means of support. The sculpture comes in a 6-foot limited edition for $90,000, or a 16-inch version for just $18,000. For the environmentalist who can't afford a Skycar, Neiman Marcus offers a special-edition 2007 Lexus GS 450h luxury hybrid sedan for $65,000. Only 75 will be made, with exclusive Crystalline Ice exterior paint. Don't procrastinate. The retailer said the limited-edition cars---as well as many other items featured in its Christmas catalog---have sold out every year since 1995. Cars tend to sell quickly, often in the first 24 hours. The Christmas Book, first published in 1926, will be mailed to some 2 million households worldwide this week.
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    Star Trek Tech Coming to Your Home http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=345 Wed, 14 Sep 2005 14:12:58 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=345 Star Fleet Technical Manual and the Next Generation Technical Manual, the development of real world technology that works just like on Star Trek is always fascinating. One example of this is cell phones, which, in function and actual physical design, work just like Captain Kirk's [pardon my language] ST:TOS communicator. Other than space-warp propulsion, artificial gravity, and transporters, the designers of Star Trek typically try to predict everyday technology that is about 20 years away from real-world current technology. (Although researchers have successfully space-shifted a laser beam using quantum mechanics, and suspect being able to do so with a simple atom may not be far off, which gives us a basis for transporter technology.) The voice-aware communications system employed on the Enterprise may be in your home's future.
    The Palo Alto Research Center (PARC) is working on the problem with Social, Mobile, Audio Spaces, a project designed to create shared audio space so you can be in constant communication with people in other homes. Instead of making phone calls, you'll have an always-on, hands-free connection that picks up your voice wherever you are. It's jokingly referred to as "the God phone."
    Read the full article here at PC Magazine Online. Now, if I were able to go into the 23rd century world of Star Trek, I already know how to make myself rich enough to be the envy of every Ferengi. I'd simply patent a nonexploding control console for use on starships ...]]>
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    Ruth http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=346 Fri, 16 Sep 2005 05:14:49 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=346 Thursday night (I realize it's now officially Friday), I was blessed to attend a New Life Fine Arts musical production of Ruth. Ruth is one of my absolute favorite parts of the Bible (I named a daughter after Naomi, Ruth's mother-in-law),* and one of the most deeply moving and touching illustrations of God's plan of redemption offered to all people. This musical adaptation (click here for a brief audio sample) provides a detailed, convincing, and highly engrossing presentation. Although there are a few necessary artistic liberties taken in expanding the Biblical story, only one detail seems slightly overdone, and the rest of of it never departs from the plausable. The story opens with a monologue by the prophet Samuel. The first major scene is in the city of Bethlehem, during the height of a severe famine. The people's reaction to what they were going through was immediately engrossing, and convinced me this would be more than just a superficial retelling. The characters were self-consistent and varied, the story dealt with the racial tension between Israel and Moab, and the varied attitudes toward strangers in the two lands. I was teary-eyed at least half a dozen times over the course of the evening. The sets were ingeniously designed, the staging was well choreographed, and to call the music beautiful would be an understatement. See this musical if you have a chance. You will be moved and blessed. The production has four more shows at the Chevalier Theater in Medford, Ma: one Friday night at 7:30, two on Saturday, and an afternoon show on Sunday.
    *I realize that Ruth is, perhaps, the greater of the two main female characters in the story of Ruth, but I have always found the way the name Naomi sounds to be endearing. See the discussion around my daughter Naomi's name (and middle name) on this post and its comments. ]]>
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    Avast, It Be International Talk Like a Pirate Day! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=347 Mon, 19 Sep 2005 13:25:01 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=347 ]]> 347 2005-09-19 08:25:01 2005-09-19 13:25:01 open open avast-it-be-international-talk-like-a-pirate-day publish 0 0 post 0 658 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-09-19 18:47:13 2005-09-19 23:47:13 1 0 0 659 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-09-19 21:43:02 2005-09-20 02:43:02 1 0 2 678 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-09-30 08:46:33 2005-09-30 13:46:33 Read the article.]]> 1 0 2 Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders (Anna C. Salter, Ph.D.)---[More Than a] Book Review http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=348 Fri, 30 Sep 2005 16:10:30 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=348

    Anna Salter understands how sexual predators think and operate. She has spent over two decades studying, interviewing, and treating sexual offenders and their victims. Her book, Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders : Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect Ourselves and Our Children, is an accessible, powerful work that strikes at the heart of our common misinformation and misunderstandings about sexual offenders, their behaviors, and dangers. How Big Is the Problem? Sexual predators. Who are they?
    • They are the man who relentlessly probes for weaknesses he can exploit to convince (or force) post-pubescent teenage girls into having sex with him. He will prey on those who are alone, have family issues, or otherwise make the mistake of trusting him. He volunteers extensively with the youth in his local church where most of his victims attend, and often sings there. Prohibitions against gossip, as well as naivete and shame, leave his crimes hidden for years. He marries, and the church staff presume incorrectly he is then "safe" from engaging in further predatory behavior.
    • They are the church worker who, when the church bus is nearly empty, fondles the vulva of a gradeschool-aged bus rider.
    • They are the homosexual man who has claimed there is nothing wrong with a sexual relationship between an adult male and a teenager. He is recommended by the church staff to direct a youth program at another church.
    • They are the adult-age brother who repeatedly fondles his preteen younger sister.
    • They are the employer who believes it is acceptable and understandable to have an extramarital affair with his older teenaged employees.
    • They are the man who consummates his marriage by, after being told by his bride that she is both exhausted and suffering from a terrible headache, declaring, "I'm getting what I deserve," and forces her.
    • They are a respected, well-liked, family man who has been sexually abusing a neighbor for years. When the neighbor moves away, he finds a new victim---his granddaughter. In this rare case, the church he attended acted completely appropriately, working with law enforcement authorities to ensure the offender's arrest, interviewing possible victims, and making the problem known to the congregation. (None of his offenses occurred in relation to any church activities or at the church itself.)
    • They are a man no one---not even his wife, houseguests, or closest friends---suspects of sexually abusing and raping at least one boy over many years. He chooses his victims carefully: Those already suffering from abuse at home are not likely to be acknowledged or believed, whereas those from stronger families, despite ease of access, would present too high a risk. Church work guarantees access to the former. None of those around him know he had long ago beaten one rap in California. During a later trial he will not testify, but does not realize the statements made to friends are damning when statement analysis techniques are applied.
    I have not taken any of the descriptions above from Anna Salter's excellent book; rather, I have personally known every single one of the offenders I have described. I know some---but far from all---of their victims. From my own interactions with the victims of sexual predators, I am all too aware of the destruction their abuse causes, and the years of pain the victims suffer. A few victims eventually find deliverance in one way or another. Some, rarely, will have loved ones who patiently work to rebuild what others have destroyed. Some victims seem irreparably harmed---especially those who are abused at a young age---suffering severe psychological damage that persists decades beyond the abuse. I have intentionally omitted the many victim stories of which I am aware, and described only the predators I personally knew. I am not that old. Most of my social contacts occur within the two churches I have attended in the past 30 years. Nevertheless, I can quickly call to mind the identities of eight such abusers (and at least five more that I have known but have sparser details about). Either my life is particularly prone to intersect with sexual abusers, or the problem is far more prevalent than most people would admit. It would seem that the latter conclusion is the correct one. (Many sexual predators like to target Christians and churches, because claiming to be a fellow Christian quickly helps establish unmerited trust. However, just because most of the abusers I listed were known from a church context, one should not assume churches harbor a greater number of sexual predators than would be represented in the general population. One exception to this would be the Catholic priesthood, where the required absence of adult romantic interests; an immense amount of respect and trust in the position; easy access to children; and the Catholic Church's consistent cover-up, rather than removal, of abusers all worked together to create an ideal environment for pedophiles.) Sexual abuse is not new. Sexual predators are not new. Hundreds of years before Christ, God provided in the Mosaic Law legal protection for women against rape, clearly attesting to the fact that such offenses span centuries and cultures. Research as early as 1929 "documented rates of sexual abuse of female children ranging from 24 to 37 percent" (p. 11). "[R]ates of child sexual abuse are extraordinarily high." What's even worse is that offenders, even repeat offenders of the most egregious type, keep getting away with it:
    In treating victims since 1978, I have heard the stories over and over of offenders who were never caught. A young woman tells me that as a young teen, she and a friend were raped repeatedly by a friend of their parents. It went on for years. He would rape the girls in front of each other and threatened the lives of both of them if they told. They didn't. They were both afraid of him and convinced they wouldn't be believed anyway, given his high standing in the community and his friendship with their parents. There is a song she still hates, she tells me, because he used to sing it as he undressed them. Her friend committed suicide as a young adult. My client has been plagued with low self-esteem, ongoing nightmares, and depression. She has always lived a walled-off existence, keeping others at emotional arms' length. And what happened to him, I ask? "Him?" she says, perplexed at the question. "Nothing. He's still moderator of the town meetings." There ... was a predator who was bold enough to rape children in front of each other. He was implicated in the suicide of one, had damaged the life of another, and more than a decade later was standing up in front of his peers cracking jokes. And, no doubt, still singing his song. (p. 13)
    Of the eight predators that I have personally known and described above, only three have faced criminal charges, and even that represents an uncharacteristically high percentage. "There are a lot of sexual offenses out there, and the people who commit them don't get caught very often. When an offender is caught and has a thorough evaluation with a polygraph backup, he will reveal dozens, sometimes hundreds, of offenses for which he was never apprehended." (pp. 12--13) Dr. Salter's book is not simplistic or light handed, and even avoids being alarmist. She approaches the subject with a rationality and thoroughness that is scarcely seen, and conveys a strong empathy toward the victims she describes. She also is not afraid to sacrifice psychology's sacred cows in the course of defining the problem:
    In the past one hundred years, psychology has twisted itself into pretzels developing theories to answer [the question of why people molest children]. Few of these theories have any research at all behind them, and many of them are little more than excuses and rationalizations for child molestation. I am not talking now about Freud's failure to accept the victim accounts given by his patients and his turning them into "Oedipal fantasies" to avoid ostracism by his peers. That has been too well documented to deserved further comment. Nor am I talking about cases where memory of abuse was lost and then recovered, although there is considerable evidence that this can occur. What is actually more perplexing in the history of psychology is the attitude toward cases in which it was known and acknowledged that the abuse took place. In the early part of the century, psychoanalytic writers maintained steadfastly that sexual abuse was the fault of the child, not the adult ... (p. 51)
    Dangerous Misinformation and Knowledge Gaps There are two major knowledge gaps---or perhaps broad categories of misinformation---in the general population, and even in the criminal justice system population: How skilled sexual predators are in deception; and how harmful sexual abuse is toward those who are abused. There are other knowledge problems as well. Some of these, such as the idea that pedophilia is not immoral, merely illegal, are perpetrated by those who actively work to legalize pedophilia. Others, such as the concept that all recovered memory is incorrect, seem to take on lives of their own in the popular media and culture. Masters of Deception One of the things that is so puzzling, given the vast number of child sexual abuse incidents per year, is why perpetrators continue to get away with it. Even worse, why are people so willing to "forgive and forget" the actions of known offenders, blissfully ignorant of the virtual guarantee of reoffense in the long term? The biggest reason is simply that children who are sexually abused rarely tell anyone what has happened, even when the results of the abuse are devastating. Forty percent of children who are infected with sexually transmitted diseases will deny any sexual contact.
    But not all children tell in the first place. For reasons as varied as fear of the offender, shame at their helplessness, love and protection of a parent, or even---if the offender is clever enough to stroke their genitals---shame of their own sexual arousal during the sex acts---they don't tell. Also, they often think their silence affects only them. (p. 14)
    Unfortunately, often, even revealing the abuse does not protect a child from from further abuse or protect other children from abuse by the same perpetrator (Salter, p. 14). Another reason is that social workers and psychologists are ignorant about what to look for. They will perform an "interactional assessment," and will watch the victims interact with their abusers. If they do not observe any fear, especially on the part of a child, or do observe what they believe is appropriate behavior on the part of the accused abuser, they conclude that the person must be innocent. Dr. Salter explains, however:
    Of course, there is no research and no good theory to support this approach. I stood in a conference once when someone was discussing this type of assessment and noted the lack of research to support it. I mentioned that sex offenders are notorious for bonding with a child and using that relationship to manipulate the child into having sex with them. I stated that, in addition, a child might be afraid of the man for entirely different reasons. Perhaps he beat her mother but never laid a hand on her. What justification did the presenters have for believing that one could tell from the interaction between child and alleged perpetrator whether the abuse had occurred or not? (p. 16)
    Dr. Salter explores the various techniques of deception used by sexual predators, as well as people's inability to accurately detect deception. Surprisingly, almost no-one is good at detecting deception. Not surprisingly, almost everyone thinks that he or she is better at detecting falsehood than reality, with disastrous results. Modern tools such as statement analysis and polygraphs (when performed by a skilled interviewer) are much more accurate. Then there is simply the double-life. Predators keep up an appearance of kindness and likability. Most of the predators I listed at the top of the article were extremely amiable. Several were extremely popular in their social groups. All of them were able to successfully project an image of fine, upstanding citizens. All of them were (and most still are) trusted by those around them. Nearly all have been praised for their fine Christian testimony.
    Likability is such a potent weapon that it protects predators for long periods of time and through almost incomprehensible numbers of victims. Mr. Saylor, an athletic director in an elementary school, operated undisturbed for almost twenty years. He tells me there is almost no limit to the number of molestations that one can get away with. (p. 26)
    We expect child molesters to be monsters. It seems to be contrary to human nature to think that people who project "niceness" and normality could harbor such dark secrets. (This happens for other sexual offenders as well. One court-appointed evaluator concluded that an offender could not be a rapist, because he was polite and performed such normal acts of courtesy like holding the door for her.) "But it is a misconception that child molesters are somehow different from the rest of us, outside their proclivities to molest. They can be loyal friends, good employees, and responsible members of the community in other ways" (Salter, p. 47).
    [T]hose who see child molesters as monsters seem the quickest---when their neighbor, friend, or family members is accused---to say that it is definitely a false report. After all, child molesters are perverts, creeps, and monsters, and their nice neighbor/minister/father/uncle/friend/priest is not a monster. Ergo, he is not a child molester. Once this kind of denial locks in, no amount of evidence will change their minds. A cab driver said to a colleague of mine, "Child molestation! I know all about child molestation. My father was accused of child molestation, and the children lied---all twenty-six of them." (p. 47)
    Remember that a sexual offender nearly always has to lead a completely double life. The ability to be dishonest yet convincing is a daily requirement, and practice improves that ability. One of the most terrible lessons I have had to apply in my life is essentially impossible to observe: "Never mistake for truthfulness the ability to lie with impunity." Sexual offenders have been so convincing that they are able to fool those with the most experience. Dr. Salter notes the case of one offender who earned the trust of a correctional officer and his family to the extent that they allowed him to live with them, even though they had a nine-year-old daughter. He began molesting the daughter, and was sent back to prison for it, but even then they continued to try to visit him in prison. "The only rule for deception in sex offenders I have ever found is this: If it is in the offender's best interests to lie, and if he can do it and not get caught, he will lie" (Salter, p. 73). The ability to deceive is underestimated by people who are generally truthful. We do not see what we do not want to see. I have personally seen extreme examples of this. One father (whose wife I knew for years) killed his infant in an alleged accident while giving the child a bath. The same thing happened a few years later. This time he was found guilty of murder and sent to prison. Nevertheless, the man's wife refuses to believe, against evidence and common sense, that both deaths were not accidental. There is no cure for sexually abusive behavior. Dr. Salter agrees with the Association for the Treatment of Sexual Abusers (ATSA): "Although many, if not most, sexual abusers are treatable, there is no known 'cure.' Management of sexually abusive behavior is a life-long task for some sexual abusers" (p. 59).
    [S]ixty out of one hundred sex offenders would still reoffend after the most effective treatment available today, and that means we are a long way from "curing" pedophilia or rape. Note also these results were for the short run. No one really knows the impact of treatment in the long run. Another common mistake is the belief that child molesters are always themselves victims. Not all victims are offenders, and most offenders are not victims. (Salter, pp. 72--73) There is a long history in psychology of not holding sex offenders responsible for their behavior.
    The behavior was, it seems, the fault of their 'frigid' wives or 'seductive' child victims. It was a symptom of family dysfunction. We mute the realization of malevolence---which is too threatening to bear---by turning offenders into victims themselves and by describing their behavior as the result of forces beyond their control. (pp. 174--175)
    Most sexual offenders, especially those who abuse children, engage in a process known as grooming. According to one offender:
    When a person like myself wants to obtain access to a child, you don't just go up and get the child and sexually molest the child. There's a process of obtaining the child's friendship and, in my case, also obtaining the family's friendship and their trust. When you get their trust, that's when the child becomes vulnerable and you can molest the child.... As far as the children goes, they're kind of easy. You befriend them. You take them places. You buy them gifts.... Now in the process of grooming the child, you win his trust and I mean, the child has a look in his eyes---it's hard to explain---you just have to kind of know the look. You know when you've got the kid. You know when that kid trusts you. In the meantime you're grooming the family. You portray yourself as a church leader or a music teacher or whatever, whatever it takes to make that family think you're OK. You show the parents that you're really interested in that kid. You just trick the family into believing you are the most trustworthy person in the world. Every one of my victims, their families just totally thought that there was nobody better to their kids than me, and they trusted me wholeheartedly with their children.... (p. 42)
    "Like Being Bitten by a Rattlesnake"---The Harm of Child Sexual Abuse Childhood sexual abuse has significant long-term consequences. Even children abused at ages younger than two years, when no real memories tend to persist, are affected by the abuse. The major sequelae of sexual abuse include (from http://www.annasalter.com, as well as other sources):
    • PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder)
    • Depression
    • Anxiety disorders
    • Dissociation
    • Sexual problems
    • Traumatic worldview
    • Re-victimization
    Of these, the one that seems most counterintuitive is revictimization, yet it is a considerable problem. Why would someone who has been abused allow himself or herself to be abused again? There are many reasons for this, although the mechanism is not well understood. One factor that seems clear is discussed in The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse:
    When children are abused, their capacity to say no and set limits is severely damaged. So even if the abuse continued into your adult years, you are still not to blame. There is no magic age where you suddenly become a responsble, cooperative partner in sexual abuse" (Ellen Bass and Laura Davis, pp. 117--118).
    Other statistically significant long-term effects of childhood sexual abuse include:
    • Needing psychotropic medication
    • Attempting suicide
    • Being battered as adults
    • Drug addiction/abuse
    • Alcoholism
    • Having sexual problems
    • Being afraid of men
    • Having fear of women
    • Reporting out of body experiences
    • Having nightmares
    • Isolation
    • Decreased sex drive
    • Dissociation
    • Anxiety attacks
    • Trouble with temper
    • Antisocial behavior
    • Prostitution
    Studying the impact of child sexual abuse, Dr. Salter planned to read all the literature on the sequalae of child sexual abuse:
    [B]ut that grandiose plan faded as I read for months on end without being able to tap into all the research. At the end of several months, however, I was convinced of one thing. Child sexual abuse was like getting bitten by a rattlesnake: Some kids recovered completely, and some didn't, but it wasn't good for anybody.
    Sexual abuse will often haunt the victims for a lifetime. There is hope for those who choose to heal, but for many that choice may never be readily available. Healing can be extremely difficult and painful. Many survivors inaccurately blame themselves for the abuse, or suffer enormous misplaced guilt in regard to the abuse. This may happen for many reasons. One is that guilt allows the survivor an illusion of power: If the survivor was at fault, he or she had the power to stop the abuse. (The same dynamics are observed in the survivors of violent assaults and other personal crimes.) The alternative is to admit that nothing the survivor could do would have stopped the abuse, and that helplessness seems like something we consciously or subconsciously avoid acknowledging. In other cases, abusers or others---even caretakers---project their own guilt onto the survivor. Abusers often reinforce the idea that the child wanted the abuse to take place. This is especially true when the suvivor's experiences automatic sexual arousal in response to the abuse. Others who should support the survivor often knowingly or unknowingly add to this guilt by refusing to acknowledge the abuse took place or failing to place the guilt solely on the abuser. For some reasons, girls tend to channel their negative emotions inward, often engaging in a variety of self-destructive behaviors. The total impact is severe and frightening, and the lists above do not really do it justice. "Trust No One"---Mitigating Risk for Our Children Many child-safety programs focus on the danger of strangers. Although it is true that abduction and abuse by strangers does occur, most abuses are perpetrated by someone who is known to and trusted by the family of the child. The best protection children can have is their own parents. In one sense, parents need to learn to be far less trusting than they are, and avoid situations and behavior that have no benefit. Would a child molester abuse a child when there were other children or people in the home? Yes. Some will be so bold as to abuse a child with a sleeping spouse in the same bed, and many with the spouse in the next room. Some will do it with the family watching, fondling children while in the process of wrestling with them, carrying them around, or throwing them up in the air. Learn to avoid high-risk situations. Like handling blood or body fluids that might be contaminated with HIV, our though process and actions need to reflect the possable danger in situations we formerly thought nothing about. We cannot guarantee we can protect our children from harm. There are times and places that we cannot control (such as a teacher or principal who takes kids out of the classroom and molests them at the school). "But in the majority of cases of child molestation, a parent has been conned into allowing the offender to spend time with the child. In those cases, we have considerably more of a chance to prevent it" (p. 226).
    A friend called me recently. A young man has befriended the family of her son's best friend. The young man seems particularly taken with the children in the family. In fact, he seems to adore them, and he is over at the house, mostly playing with the children, almost daily. He does not appear to have any adult love interests, male or female. He has never been married, and he does not date. My friend has met him. He seems delightful, a bit immature perhaps, but really a nice guy. Did I think there was any problem with her leaving her own son alone with this man? Would I be concerned? You bet I would. Would I be rude to him or refuse to go out to dinner with the family if he's along? Of course not. I have no proof that there is anything wrong with him. But would I quietly make sure my own children were never alone with him? Yes, because I know that he is in a high risk category. I would do it for the same reason that I don't dive into pools that could hold hidden rocks. It only takes one. I have since met this man. I like him. There is nothing about the way he talks or acts that suggests he is a child molester---which means nothing and changes nothing. I won't leave my children alone with him. "Liking" isn't enough for me to override what my head tells me. He is in a high-risk category, whether I like him or not. (pp. 227--228)
    Dr. Salter illustrates the situations that can arise, and the social awkwardness that can arise as a result of being aware of such situations, with this experience from her own life:
    I am standing at the gym at a children's sock hop. The noise is deafening. Two hundred children are running, hopping, sliding, dancing, and whirling, all the while simultaneously shrieking at the top of their lungs. There is such a thing as a perpetual motion machine, and it is called childhood. The yelling children and the blaring rock music make me hunger for the quiet and the solace of my little fireplace and the book I left behind. Because neither of my children has given a backward glance since they headed into the fray, I began to wonder why I'm here. The mother of my daughter's best friend had invited both of my children to come with her, but I had been reluctant to give them up. I work so much that time with my children is precious. "This is spending time with your kids?" I think. I feel foolish and out of place. I don't see anyone I know. I trudge grumpily over to check every twenty minutes or so just to keep track of my kids. It is a neurotic impulse, I think. What could happen in such a public place? I find my daughter. At age six, she is dancing happily with her best friend and another girl and the other girl's father, a man I don't know. I wave and turn away. Twenty minutes later I look for her again. She is still dancing with the same group. It crosses my mind that this is a little unusual. In a setting like this, her attention span is normally measured in nanoseconds, not in forty-minute blocks. Usually she has to see everybody, explore every corner of the gym. Why is she still there? Twenty minutes later the same group is still dancing. I am uneasy now; this is simply not her pattern. I walk over and touch her arm and turn her to dance with me. Instantly the man grabs her arm and pulls her back, right out of my hands. I take her arm again, give him a look that would freeze blood, and yell, "I am her mother" over the blaring rock music. He backs off. My daughter and I and her best friend go off to dance together. After that I keep an eye on her---and him. He ignores his own daughter, but when he thinks I am not looking, he finds mine and her best friend in a long line of kids waiting to go under a limbo pole. He looks around, then picks both of them up and throws them into the air, all the time smiling and laughing and focusing on them intently. I step up, and he slips off. A few days later I call my daughter's teacher. I was uncomfortable, I tell her. No other father in the room was hanging around other people's children in that way. It was inappropriate, and if that man comes to school, I don't want him alone with my daughter. "Funny you should say that," she says. "He showed up for a field trip the other day. He spent so much time with another child that I thought he was that child's parent and sent a note home to the wrong family." I go home and tell my nanny. Someone's going to call, and it won't be him. Likely it will be the child, perhaps the mom. They're going to invite my daughter over to play. Just be ready because she isn't going. "What do I say?" my nanny asks, panicked. "I don't know what to say." I stare at her incredulously. "Tell them she's sick," I say evenly. "Tell them she was abducted by aliens. Tell them she's pulling the wings off flies or doing quadratic equations. I don't care what you tell them. But she is never going." Within a week, the call comes. I tell the parents of my daughter's best friend because she was targeted too. Their daughter doesn't go either---for a while. But time and social norms wear her parents down. "What could we say?" they ask me. "It was during the day. He wasn't home. I don't think he'd do anything during the day with the sitter there, do you?" Maybe he won't, I think. Maybe he isn't even a child molester. Maybe I am wrong about this. But if he is, he will not hesitate to come home early from work, dismiss the sitter, and take a little girl's trusting face in his hands and tell her he will teach her a new game. I don't know what to say to these parents. In their heart of hearts they believe what they want to believe. He is middle-class, wears a suit, goes to work every day, pays his bills, takes his family on vacation, and seems like a nice person. He is a "nice" man in their world, and niceness, they believe---they want badly to believe---is a character trait, not a decision. They are afraid of strangers. I am afraid of him. (pp. 79--80)
    Should You Read Predators? Be aware that the descriptions of sexual abuse in the book may (or perhaps should) evoke strong emotional or physiological responses. At times, the true evil exposed can be heart-wrenching or physically sickening. (I would caution those who have experienced severe sexual abuse.) It is, however, my strong recommendation that Predators be read by every parent, minister, grandparent, educator, church worker, social worker, criminal justice worker, police officer, or doctor. Parents especially need to understand the scope of the problem, and be well informed about what risks they can easily avoid and what they should watch for in protecting their children. There is a misappropriation of effort in educating children to be aware of "stranger danger" (which is important, nevertheless), and the situational awareness parents must have to adequately perform their job of protecting their children. For Further Reading Although much more clinical, I have also found Dr. Salter's Transforming Trauma: A Guide to Understanding and Treating Adult Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse to be especially helpful in understanding the long-term affects of childhood sexual abuse. I am also digesting a number of books on healing from sexual abuse. (See my 2005 book lists.) Healing is painful, but it can and does happen. I have also enjoyed Dr. Salter's works of crime fiction about forensic psychology: Shiny Water, Fault Lines, White Lies, and Prison Blues. When I finish a few more books, I'll BLOG them as a resource guide, or add them to this entry.]]>
    348 2005-09-30 11:10:30 2005-09-30 16:10:30 open closed book-review-predators-pedophiles-rapists-and-other-sex-offenders-anna-c-salter-phd publish 0 0 post 0 691 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-05 16:05:31 2005-10-05 21:05:31 New Hampshire Public Radio (NHPR) had a discussion today on its "Exchange" call-in program, hosted by Laura Knoy, on the pending legislation to require Tougher Sentencing for Sex Offenders. The discussion is worth listening to, and is provided in both Windows Media and MP3 format. One caller typified common misinformation. He said he knew three people who had been convicted sexual offenders, but that he believed they had overcome their problem, like an alcoholic might. Sex offenders have a 98% recidivism rate over the long-term (25 years). Under the best treatment available today, there is a 60% occurrence of reoffence within five years. The probability that at least one of the three offenders he knows will not reoffend---or, even, depending on the time frame involved, is not already reoffending---is extremely small (93.6%), even if they are all getting excellent treatment (probability = 1 -- .6 ^ 3). He also put forth the idea that most sexual offenders were themselves abused as children. Although a very commonly held belief, this is simply not true. Some victims do go on to abuse; most do not. The key here is the study metholodgy use to derive the data. According to Salter:
    Being victimized as a child has become a ready excuse for perpetratoing child molestation. The offender who claims he himself was victimized gets seen as less of a "monster" than one who wasn't a victim, and he gains much more empathy and support. It is hard to trust self-reports of sex offenders about abuse in their past when such reports are in their best interest. In a series of three studies, the offenders who claimed they were abused as a child were 67 percent, 65 percent, and 61 percent without the threat of a polygraph. With polygraph (and conditional immunity), the offenders who claimed they were abused as children were 29 percent, 32 percent, and 30 percent, respectively. Nonetheless, the notion that most offenders were victims has spread throughout the field of sexual abuse and is strangely comforting for most professionals. (Salter, pp. 73--74)
    The program also expressed the extremely important point that most sexual abuse (97% of the abuse against children under the age of 6; and 95% of abuse against children between ages 6 and 12) is perpetrated by family members or people who are well-known to the family. Also given was a hotline for survivors of sexual abuse (even adult survivors), toll free: 1-866-644-3574, operated by the New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence. ]]>
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    740 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-14 15:44:00 2005-10-14 20:44:00 Jury clears elementary school teacher of molestation charges. Read the entire article. The grooming behavior is described thusly:
    The boy met Crowley, a former fourth-grade teacher in Gilford, through an after-school program when he was in fifth grade, and they grew increasingly friendly. The boy testified that Crowley took him to movies and to the playground. When the boy was in sixth grade, his mother asked Crowley to baby-sit while she went to North Carolina for a week. The incident took place Dec. 3, but the boy didn’t tell his mother until April 19 when he was supposed to have dinner with Crowley as a reward for making the honor roll.
    The contradictions are plain:
    He initially denied touching the boy, but by the end of his interview said he touched the boy while cleaning him.
    And the excuses are credible, at least enough to introduce doubt to the jury. What frightens me is that the entire process, from grooming, to betrayal, to the various levels of denial, then excuse, is exactly conforming to the behaviors Salter and other writers describe as typical of pedophiles. I do not at all believe justice was done in this case.]]>
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    877 cyndiebski@yahoo.com 70.110.41.38 2005-10-25 22:16:54 2005-10-26 03:16:54 1 0 0 886 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-26 10:24:01 2005-10-26 15:24:01
  • Unceasing vigilance/Unceasing distrust: "I do watch his every move. I watch his actions closely.... I will never trust him completely again."
  • Offender's true realization of the damage done to the victim[s] and his own loved ones: He ... has realized what he has done to this young womans life.... He nearly lost us all by his actions." (This empathy Cyndie speaks of goes far beyond what we normally think of as remorse or apology, as even most remorseful offenders will deny the true impact their abuse has on their victims.)
  • Strict avoidance of offense-related situations: "He does not hang around young females (his chosen victim)."
  • Ongoing counseling: "He does go to church and completed counseling with 3 counselors."
  • Declared willingness to turn the offender in if he reoffends: "I would not hesitate to turn my husband in if I saw of knew of anything going on."
  • Monitoring and accountability for every thought:* "And if he even has a wayward thought, he tells either me or one of the pastors or his two closest friends."
  • I am encouraged and blessed by Cyndie's response. There is hope here, but it is not the misguided, wishful thinking of, "He's already been caught and dealt with it. He wouldn't do it again." Instead, her hopes lives in a determined, educated plan that acknowledges every harsh reality of the life of an offender.
    *In addition to the works of Anna Salter, which explore thinking errors, see Inside the Criminal Mind, by Stanton E. Samenow, Ph.D., for an excellent, readable analysis of how incorrect thought processes are the precursors of reoffense. ]]>
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    3676 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.106.69 2006-10-04 13:59:15 2006-10-04 18:59:15 Editor's note: I decided to make this it's own post, rather than just a comment on this post.] Congressman Mark Foley is unquestionably a homosexual pedophile. I've just finished reading the transcript of one of Mark Foley's instant messenger conversation with a former Congressional page. (There are a few more excerpts from a different conversation here on CNN.) While such communication has been repeatedly labeled "inappropriate," in the media, reading the transcript makes it clear that it was way beyond inappropriate, and clearly typical of a predatory pedophile. What hasn't happened yet (as far as we know) is Foley being caught having an active sexual relationship with a minor, but that doesn't change the definition of pedophile. He is guilty (assuming these transcripts are genuine) of sexually exploiting/harassing teens for his own sexual gratification via his instant message communications. As detailed in the transcript linked above, Foley discusses with a minor various sexual acts, including masturbation and manual penile stimulation by another individual, talks about wanting to slip the minor's shorts off him and "gram the one-eyed snake," [sic; grab was mistyped as gram] then goes on to request that the minor remind him of the length the boy's erect penis, which had been communicated to Foley before. We should not tolerate this evil, nor be afraid to name it for what it is.]]> 1 0 2 3531 scott@familybeacon.com http://wwwfamilybeacon.com 204.250.220.62 2006-09-15 10:42:24 2006-09-15 15:42:24 [Editor's note: Scott Udy hails from FamilyBeacon.com, so this comment qualifies as lightweight advertising, although the service is free. Still, the service is a valuable one, especially if you are interested in a state that provides good public data. Also, one should be aware that typically only the worst ("Level 2" or "Level 3") sex offenders are described in public registries.]]]> 1 0 0 1412 youduntsay@yahoo.com 68.251.179.88 2005-12-04 22:20:19 2005-12-05 03:20:19 1 0 0 1413 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-12-05 00:06:36 2005-12-05 05:06:36 always harmful to the young people involved, regardless of the setting, circumstances, or any supposed consent. He also claims to have done nothing illegal. If this is true, then there really isn't anything that can be done, assuming he is telling the truth and intends to keep himself legal. However, perusing this organization's Web site is very frightening; their Ethos and Creed statements are excellent examples of cool-headed rationality combined with what can only be described as intentional ignorance of the real effects of child sexuality. The real danger is that the Web site is designed to make child sexual predators seem nonthreatening, and, like the claims of the False Memory Foundation, it would be easy to sway those unfamiliar with the issues.]]> 1 0 2 1433 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-08 10:40:49 2005-12-08 15:40:49 http://www.curledup.com/predator.htm.]]> 1 0 2 1500 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-20 15:59:57 2005-12-20 20:59:57 1 0 2 1564 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-08 16:46:24 2006-01-08 21:46:24 1 You are always righteous, O LORD, when I bring a case before you. Yet I would speak with you about your justice: Why does the way of the wicked prosper? Why do all the faithless live at ease? 2 You have planted them, and they have taken root; they grow and bear fruit. You are always on their lips but far from their hearts. 3 Yet you know me, O LORD; you see me and test my thoughts about you. Drag them off like sheep to be butchered! Set them apart for the day of slaughter! Psalm 73 is meaningful to me in this context as well, although I sometimes find it hard to claim, like Asaph, "I have made the Sovereign LORD my refuge." (I know my newfound understanding of God's sovereignty is helpful; sometimes, albeit not often, I simply don't feel comforted by this viewpoint.)
    Editor's Note: I have updated the "Like Being Bitten by a Rattlesnake" section in the main post, above, in response to reading more about the process of healing from sexual abuse.]]>
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    1633 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-16 16:43:17 2006-01-16 21:43:17 Christianity Today Web site: From I Was Sexually Abused: But I'm finally healing from the pain of my past, by Joy Michaels, an incest survivor:
    After unearthing some of those long-buried secrets and drying each other's tears, my sister and I felt some relief, but also self-pity and anger. I wondered if my relationship woes were somehow tied to my loss of innocence in childhood. My sister figured her lack of interest in sex was because of the incest. Naively, we encouraged each other to forgive, forget, and get on with life. I tried, but didn't get very far.
    There is one part of this article I strongly disagree with:
    Despite the far-reaching ravages of pornography and sexual abuse, I don't blame my brother for the botched-up decisions I made in adulthood. (After all, I alone am responsible to God for my sinful actions.)
    After extensive research on child sexual abuse, it is clear there is a stunningly high incidence among sexual abuse survivors of self-destructive behaviors and revictimization in later years, including near-adulthood and adulthood. Based on the near universality of these problems, it is clear the responsibility for these behaviors falls squarely on the abusers. From How the Clergy Sexual Abuse Scandal Affects Evangelical Churches:
    "In evangelical circles, agreements tend to be 'you go away quietly and it stays quiet.' It is done under the guise of being better off for everyone but it is harmful." Even when a leader's sin becomes public, he says, there can be a rush to offer a second chance. "When people are just reinstated after a moral problem without consequences, it sends the wrong message to young people." ... Swetland and others say just watching and listening isn't enough. Churches must actively screen Sunday school teachers, youth group leaders, and other workers. Hammar, legal counsel for the Assemblies of God, says even laity must apply Ronald Reagan's maxim during arms negotiations with the Soviet Union: "Trust, but verfiy." "The widely held conception among church leaders that 'the people will not tolerate screening' is simply no longer true. To the contrary, people expect it and want it. What parent would rather attend a church where youth workers are not screened?" ... "We need to be on our knees praying for the church that the Evil One would not use this to compromise the body of Christ."
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    1933 jim@abwhost.net 66.215.44.220 2006-04-11 16:00:34 2006-04-11 21:00:34 1 0 0 1934 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-04-11 20:38:01 2006-04-12 01:38:01 Mindhunter: Inside the FBI's Elite Serial Crime Unit:
    ... [I]t doesn't do any good to castrate repeat raptists---as satisfying and fulfilling as the idea may be to some of us. The problem is, it doesn't stop them, either physically or emotionally. Rape is definitely a crime of anger. (Douglas & Olshaker, p. 336)
    There is no effective long-term treatment for sexual predators, although some programs do cut down on recidivism rates, only the best do so over 50% in the short term, and there is still a virtually certain long-term repeat offense rate. Dr. Samenow has had significant success with correcting criminals' thinking errors that lead to reoffense at the onset, but even his program is not as successful as required for protection of the innocent. The best way to eliminate reoffense for rapists and sexual abusers is a lifetime in prison. When released, pedophile offenders can never be trusted around children, and those who interact with them must be aware of the offense and aware of the dynamics of such predators. The best protection a child has is a nonoffending parent---but that requires constant vigilance and better education than is typically found. This is why I recommend Dr. Salter's Predators book to every parent or other person who works with children. For years, ignorance, misinformation, and secrecy have benefited sexual abusers of children. We can eliminate that advantage.]]>
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    1885 oriole42801@hotmail.com 209.161.178.76 2006-03-23 06:04:58 2006-03-23 11:04:58 1 0 0 5964 pete@ricoforkids.org http://www.ricoforkids.org 74.67.141.233 2007-01-23 13:30:39 2007-01-23 18:30:39 Editor's note: The site Mr. Lafond speaks of is http://www.ricoforkids.org/.]]> 1 0 0 6038 mjlm19@yahoo.com 64.222.186.237 2007-01-25 13:55:11 2007-01-25 18:55:11 1 0 0 24989 estevens3@tampabay.rr.com 24.73.0.55 2007-04-27 10:48:41 2007-04-27 15:48:41 1 0 0 27191 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-05-01 09:03:19 2007-05-01 14:03:19 looked 6." These are the most heinous offenders, but the large number of older men preying on older teens is likewise horrible, and we ought not to minimize the harm they cause. If you are interested in the long-term effects of sexual abuse, I would recommend reading Salter's Predators book, probably followed by The Sexual Healing Journey, by Wendy Maltz. (I need to put together a resource page soon.)]]> 1 0 2 37182 http://www.volconvo.com/forums/society-rights/16365-proposals-execute-paedophiles-make-headway-us-2.html#post388225 72.34.44.54 2007-05-28 18:59:53 2007-05-28 23:59:53 1 pingback 0 0 47671 http://www.bloginfiji.com/?p=50 66.40.7.41 2007-07-02 06:40:29 2007-07-02 11:40:29 1 pingback 0 0 64200 cheri1@isp.com 205.208.227.28 2007-09-07 21:59:16 2007-09-08 02:59:16 1 0 0 64586 cheri1@isp.com 205.208.227.46 2007-09-09 09:09:07 2007-09-09 14:09:07 [Editor's note: This comment appears to refer to items published on Mark Sohmer's BLOG; I am working with the author of this comment to obtain further clarification; we may address TC's points in an upcoming separate post. I am temporarily commenting it out for that reason.] ]]> 1 0 0
    Meeting with 2 Mormon Missionaries http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=349 Tue, 27 Sep 2005 18:30:51 +0000 Mark http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=349 "Prove all things; hold fast that which is good" (1 Thessalonians 5:21) "These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so." (Acts 17:11) "Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world." (1 John 4:1) The Mormon Missionaries are not interested in answering questions or objections. They want to find people who will listen to them and not question their use of words like "God" and "Jesus." They use Christian words with different meanings with the intention to deceive. They want to find a woman whose husband just died and is feeling sad so they can say "Our Church can give you purpose and meaning." They don't want someone who has questions about false prophesies of Joseph Smith. I was chatting with my wife about this, and if a group of Orthodox Jews called me and said, "We're Orthodox Jews and we don't believe in Jesus. Can you come over so we can hammer you with hard questions?" I'd be like: Bring it on! I'd LOVE that opportunity! But these Mormons want people who have no critical questions and no concerns (even legitimate ones.) I didn't expect these Mormons to repent of their idolatry, but perhaps seeds were planted that God can water. I don't know how they can say they have "prayed about" whether something is true when the Bible contradicts what they teach. These people deceive many many people. Thank you to everyone for your prayers about the meeting. I believe that Rob, Jason and I faithfully and firmly and lovingly presented the truth to them, and that pleases and glorifies our God. Our success is not measured in their response - only in our faithfulness. God bless you! in Christ and for His gospel, Mark P.S. I wrote a document outlining Mormon beliefs and what the Bible has to say about them. It's called Letter to a Mormon: Testing the Claims of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints This document was written with 2 purposes in mind:
    1. To train Christians in what the Mormons actually believe (but might not tell you)
    2. To have something tangible that you can give to a Mormon as a witnessing tool.
    This document contains a gospel message and an overview of doctrines that the LDS church teaches. All of them list quotations from actual LDS sources, citing where these can be found. In addition, each doctrine has what the Bible teaches on the subject. You should print out at least 2 copies to have near your door since the Mormons always come in 2's. Give this to the Mormons. It contains material that they may not even know about. You can download it by clicking here. You can also find notes and other files from a Cult class I am teaching at: http://cults.sohmer.net]]>
    349 2005-09-27 13:30:51 2005-09-27 18:30:51 open closed meeting-with-2-mormon-missionaries publish 0 0 post 0 673 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-09-27 13:50:10 2005-09-27 18:50:10 1 0 2 674 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 204.110.129.3 2005-09-27 14:06:18 2005-09-27 19:06:18 1 0 4 675 judgment_pi@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2005-09-27 14:50:49 2005-09-27 19:50:49 1 0 0 693 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.158.61 2005-10-06 16:14:58 2005-10-06 21:14:58 1 0 0 700 elderbrowley@yahoo.com 131.216.45.127 2005-10-10 18:28:34 2005-10-10 23:28:34 1 0 0 704 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-11 07:28:50 2005-10-11 12:28:50 1 Timothy 4:12 to be an example to his elders, despite age. Also, these LDS missionaries have had training at Church Missionary Training Centers (MTCs). I find it hard to believe that in their training, the church would be remiss about what to say about doctrines such as the nature of God, the nature of Jesus, salvation, prophecy, et cetera. And if the MTC didn't train them in that, then one must wonder about the audacity of the LDS Church to send out representatives without such basic training! Your reference to 1 Corinthians 11:16 isn't appropriately interpreted. The very next verses say:
    Now in this that I declare unto you I praise you not, that ye come together not for the better, but for the worse. For first of all, when ye come together in the church, I hear that there be divisions among you; and I partly believe it. 1 Corinthians 11:17-18
    The context demonstrates that 1 Corinthians 11:16 is in regard to believers who are being contentious, and is not a mandate for how to do evangelism. How did Paul deal with contentious people? He reasoned with them. This is seen all through the book of Acts! Now I will grant you that there comes a point when someone is so closed that talking more is like throwing pearls to swine, (Matthew 7:6), but asking legitimate questions about the Book of Mormon and Joseph Smith's false prophesies does not constitute being closed. It means I am testing the claims of the church the way the Bible tells me to in Deuteronomy 18:20-22:
    But the prophet, which shall presume to speak a word in my name, which I have not commanded him to speak, or that shall speak in the name of other gods, even that prophet shall die. And if thou say in thine heart, How shall we know the word which the LORD hath not spoken? When a prophet speaketh in the name of the LORD, if the thing follow not, nor come to pass, that is the thing which the LORD hath not spoken, but the prophet hath spoken it presumptuously: thou shalt not be afraid of him. (emphasis mine)
    As I said before, according to the Bible, truth is not found in subjectively "praying about it" but by testing it:
    "Prove all things; hold fast that which is good" (1 Thessalonians 5:21) "These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so." (Acts 17:11) "Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world." (1 John 4:1)
    When we test the book of Mormon, we find:
    • The theory that the American Indians are descendants of the Hebrews is genetically incorrect. No one questions this anymore due to the DNA testing available today which wasn't available in the 1800's.
    • There never was a reformed Egyptian language. And Hebrews didn't write in Egyptian.
    • Egyptians were pagans during the Old Testament era, so why would the Book of Mormon be based on pagan Egyptian writings?
    • The Book of Mormon places Jesus' birth in Jerusalem, not in Bethlehem as in the Bible.
    • There have been 3,913 changes made to the Book of Mormon since the original 1830 edition.
    • Not one piece of independent, non-Mormon archeological evidence supports the Book of Mormon.
    http://www.whatismormonism.com
    I have real questions about the Book of Mormon:
    • Linguistics. Why, if the American Indians were descended from Lehi, was there such diversity in their languages, and why were there no vestiges of Hebrew in any of them?
    • Why does the Book of Mormon say that Lehi found horses when he arrived in America? The horse did not exist in the Americas until the Spaniards brought them over in the sixteenth century.
    • Why was Nephi stated to have a bow of steel? Jews did not have steel at that time, and no iron was smelted in the Americas until the Spanish colonization.
    • Why does the Book of Mormon mention "swords and cimeters" when scimitars (the current spelling) did not come about until the rise of Islam after 500 A.D.?
    • Why does the Book of Mormon mention silk, when silk did not exist in the Americas at that time?
    http://www.contenderministries.org/mormonism/bomproblems.php
    Why, if the Book of Mormon was miraculously translated by God one word at a time, have there been major changes in the Book of Mormon at:
    • 1 Nephi 11:18
    • 1 Nephi 13:40
    • 1 Nephi 20:1
    • Alma 29:4
    • 2 Nephi 30:6
    • 3 Nephi 22:4
    • Mosiah 21:28?
    For a complete side-by-side list of significant changes in the Book of Mormon, click here. If the book of Mormon was allegedly written in 400 AD by Mormon, then why does it contain italicised words that didn't exist until the King James translators put them there 1,190 years later? To see this for yourself, compare III Nephi 24:10 with Malachi 3:10, "that there shall not be room enough to receive it." When we test the Book of Mormon, as the Bible tells us to, we must conclude:
    The Book of Mormon is not the translation of an ancient document, regardless of any feelings, emotions, "burning in your bosom," or testimony. "Knowing" that it's true doesn't correlate with the historical and archeological facts and evidence. Wanting it to be true doesn't change the facts and evidence. The Book of Mormon was not from God. http://www.whatismormonism.com
    And then there is the issue of false prophecies of Joseph Smith. Remember Deuteronomy 18:20-22:
    But the prophet, which shall presume to speak a word in my name, which I have not commanded him to speak, or that shall speak in the name of other gods, even that prophet shall die. And if thou say in thine heart, How shall we know the word which the LORD hath not spoken? When a prophet speaketh in the name of the LORD, if the thing follow not, nor come to pass, that is the thing which the LORD hath not spoken, but the prophet hath spoken it presumptuously: thou shalt not be afraid of him. (emphasis mine)
    Some prophecies of Joseph Smith:
    • Jesus will return before 1891 (History of the Church, Vol. 2, p. 182, and Journal of Oliver Boardman Huntington, Vol. 2, pp. 128,129).
    • Joseph Smith prophesied that David W. Patten would perform a mission for him the next Spring. (Doctrine & Covenants 114:1). David Patten died before Spring came. (History of the Church, Vol. 3, p. 171, 10-25-38.)
    • Joseph Smith prophesied that his enemies would not destroy him (2 Nephi 3:14). Smith's enemies killed him on June 27, 1844 in Carthage, Illinois.
    • A Temple will be built in Jackson City Missouri in Smith's generation. As of 2005, this has not come to pass. "Zion" has moved to Salt Lake City.
    • The American Civil War would be poured out upon all nations (Doctrine and Covenants 87:1-2.) This did not come to pass.
    • God would give the gold of Salem Massachusetts into Smith's hands to pay debts, (Doctrine and Covenants 111:2,4-5.) This never occurred.
    • U.S. Government overthrown for "wrongs" against Mormons. (History of the Church, Vol. 5, page 394).
    And Brigham Young prophesied:
    "The present struggle (Civil War) will not free the descendants of Ham who are slaves." (Prophet Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses, vol. 10, p. 250, October 6, 1863) "as the Lord lives we will build up Jackson County in this generation" (Prophet Brigham Young, Times & Seasons, vol. 6, p. 956, April 6, 1845)
    And in case you say that not all of these are scripture, many are found in Mormon Scriptures, (i.e. Book of Mormon, Pearl of Great Price, Doctrines and Covenants.) Also, in regard to his words and sermons, Brigham Young said:
    "I say now, when they are copied and approved by me they are as good Scripture as is couched in this Bible" (Prophet Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses 13:264)
    Brigham Young compared his sermons with scripture.
    "I have never yet preached a sermon and sent it out to the children of men, that they may not call Scripture. Let me have the privilege of correcting a sermon, and it is as good Scripture as they deserve. The people have the oracles of God continually." (Prophet Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses 13:95)
    Also, the LDS official website says that prophets speak God’s words:
    "A prophet speaks for God, with divine power and authority... There is a living prophet on the earth today who communicates God’s will and stands as His special witness." (http://www.mormon.org)
    See also the LDS 6th Article of Faith. You said:
    Those missionaries are having one of the most rewarding and wonderful experiences of their lives serving the people they meet. My advice to you is to enjoy your beliefs and your life, and stop trying to waste time, energy, and probably money unsuccessfully trying to destroy something that has and will continue to bless many lives.
    Given the facts presented here, it would be unloving of me NOT to warn Mormons and those with whom they come into contact. These LDS missionaries "bless many lives?" How, by teaching a false gospel and getting people to trust a false prophet? Would you go up to the Apostle Paul at Mars Hill in Acts 17 and say, "Hey, let those Pagans live the way they want to."? Of course not! Paul extended "time, energy, and probably money" because he was an ambassador for Christ and a committed Christian. This is what we Christians do. We preach the gospel, and we warn those about heresy. I have no way of saying this other than that Exodus 20:3 says emphatically "Thou shalt have no other gods before me." The 10 Commandments also orders us not to create a "god" to suit ourselves. The Mormon Church presents a god who is one of an infinite number of deities. The LDS god was once a man, and became God through good deeds, and who calls us to strive to become a God too. This is not the God of the Bible. The Bible Teaches, "Thus saith the LORD the King of Israel, and his redeemer the LORD of hosts; I am the first, and I am the last; and beside me there is no God... Is there a God beside me? yea, there is no God; I know not any" (Isaiah 44:6,8) Can we progress to godhood as the Mormon Church teaches? The Bible says, "before me there was no God formed, neither shall there be after me." (Isaiah 43:10) Is God the Father one God among many, as Joseph Smith Jr. taught in the Follett Discourse? The Word of God answers this conclusively. "I am the LORD, and there is none else, there is no God beside me" (Isaiah 45:5) "I am God, and there is none else; I am God, and there is none like me” (Isaiah 46:9) Be warned: to believe in the god of Mormonism is to put another god before the True and Living God of the Bible. Anyone who does this has broken the 1st and 2nd commandment, and will be found guilty on Judgment day. "And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment" (Hebrews 9:27). Acts 17:31 warns us that God "hath appointed a day, in the which he will judge the world in righteousness." On that day, those who follow the LDS god will be found guilty of transgressing the 1st and 2nd commandments. And God will be just in casting that person out forever. "It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God" (Hebrews 10:31). The most important question everyone must answer is: "If you were to die today, do you know that you have eternal life? Are you certain that you will spend all eternity with God the Father?" Despite the impressive zeal and devotion of many, many Mormons, following the wrong god is a serious matter. Romans 10:2 tells us it is possible to have zeal without knowledge of the True God. This is the case with the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. The Biblical gospel is that we are all guilty of transgressing the Law of the One True God. All our works are like filthy rags (Isaiah 64:6). If we try to reach God on our merits, we will fail every time. But in God’s great love and mercy, He came down in the form of a man and died on the cross, not just to offer us a resurrection, but to offer us salvation! "For by one offering he hath perfected for ever them that are sanctified" (Hebrews 10:14). "For Christ also hath once suffered for sins, the just for the unjust, that he might bring us to God" (1 Peter 3:18). I invite you to repent of and forsake all false gods, and turn to and worship the True and Living God, who offers salvation and full atonement because of what Jesus Christ has accomplished. Ben, I implore you to download and read Letter to a Mormon: Testing the Claims of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, which you can download by clicking here.]]>
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    705 elderbrowley@yahoo.com 131.216.45.140 2005-10-11 15:11:53 2005-10-11 20:11:53 1 0 0 709 jasonkst@adelphia.net 68.171.193.255 2005-10-11 20:20:10 2005-10-12 01:20:10 1 0 0 710 jasonkst@adelphia.net 68.171.193.255 2005-10-11 20:29:55 2005-10-12 01:29:55 1 0 0 712 elderbrowley@yahoo.com 70.180.192.183 2005-10-12 02:21:22 2005-10-12 07:21:22 1 0 0 717 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-12 07:37:54 2005-10-12 12:37:54 if you put the Bible under the same scrutiny you have put the Book of Mormon and the Prophet Joseph Smith under. You could cause, by your reasoning, that foundation from which you have derived all of those point-proving scriptures, to crumble. I whole-heartedly reject this. I invite you to put the Bible under the same scrutiny - and it will and has stood. The Book of Mormon is rife with inconsistencies (compare Alma 34:36 with Doctrine and Covenants 130:3), historical anachronisms (like horses, steel, silk, etc.), plagiarism (contains italics and translation errors from the KJV that didn't exist until 1,190 years later!), and false prophecies (which I have listed before.) The Bible suffers from no such problems. The Bible is internally consistent, self-authenticating, and true. Not one of the many specific prophecies have been proven false. Not one. And what kind of an argument is that? If you really believe that the Bible would fail being tested (which it doesn't) then you should throw all of it out! If the Bible crumbled under the same test as the Book of Mormon, then none of us should believe any of it. I am pleased to proclaim that the Bible is the very trustworthy, very Word of God! You said:
    Now we both know that the Bible is true.
    Ben, I have to say that you're either being disingenuous here, or deceiving yourself. Mormons do not believe the Bible is true. What they actually believe is:
    We believe the Bible to be the word of God as far as it is translated correctly. 8th Article of Faith (emphasis mine)
    First Nephi 13:26 says:
    a great and abominable church which is most abominable above all other churches; for behold, they have taken away from the gospel of the lamb many parts which are plain and most precious
    And the Mormon Apostle Orson Pratt said:
    No one can tell whether even one verse of either the Old or New Testament conveys the ideas of the original author. (Journal of Discourses 7:28)
    The Mormon prophet Joseph F. Smith said:
    The Bible itself is but the dead letter. (Joseph F. Smith, Gospel Doctrine, p. 102)
    Finally, the Mormon prophet Joseph Smith Jr. himself had this to say about the Bible:
    Ignorant translators, careless transcribers, or designing and corrupt priests have committed many errors (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, pg.327)
    So I just can't believe you when you say "Now we both know that the Bible is true." And you allegation that the Bible would crumble under testing is further proof that you do not believe the Bible. If Mormon's did believe the Bible, then they wouldn't be able to believe that there are many Gods:
    "Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD" (Deuteronomy 6:4) "Thus saith the LORD the King of Israel, and his redeemer the LORD of hosts; I am the first, and I am the last; and beside me there is no God... Is there a God beside me? yea, there is no God; I know not any" (Isaiah 44:6,8) Jesus prayed to "the only true God" (John 17:3) "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5) "Ye are my witnesses, saith the LORD, and my servant whom I have chosen: that ye may know and believe me, and understand that I am he: before me there was no God formed, neither shall there be after me." (Isaiah 43:10) "I am the LORD, and there is none else, there is no God beside me" (Isaiah 45:5) "I am God, and there is none else; I am God, and there is none like me" (Isaiah 46:9)
    If Mormon's did believe the Bible, then they wouldn't be able to believe that God is not eternal:
    "In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth." (Genesis 1:1) "Before the mountains were brought forth, or ever thou hadst formed the earth and the world, even from everlasting to everlasting, thou art God." (Psalm 90:2) "Thy throne is established of old: thou art from everlasting." (Psalm 93:2) "The eternal God is thy refuge" (Deuteronomy 33:22)
    If Mormon's did believe the Bible, then they wouldn't be able to believe that humans can become a God:
    "Ye are my witnesses, saith the LORD, and my servant whom I have chosen: that ye may know and believe me, and understand that I am he: before me there was no God formed, neither shall there be after me." (Isaiah 43:10) "I am the LORD, and there is none else, there is no God beside me" (Isaiah 45:5) "I am God, and there is none else; I am God, and there is none like me" (Isaiah 46:9)
    If Mormon's did believe the Bible, then they wouldn't be able to believe that Christ's church had apostatized:
    "And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it." (Matthew 16:18) Does NOT say: "And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it, except between AD 100 and AD 1830." "Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen." (Matthew 28:19-20) Does NOT say: "lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world, except between AD 100 and AD 1830."
    I also find it interesting that you ended your correspondence by saying:
    I have no doubt that you are good Christian men and women, and have I nothing but love for you and the good that you do. Despite our differences, I hope that we can all find common bonds and work together to serve those around us in the spirit of goodwill and love, AKA the Spirit of Christ.
    Ben, again, I have to ask if you're being genuine here. Aren't you aware of what your Church has to say about non-Mormons?
    "no man or woman in this dispensation will ever enter into the celestial kingdom of God without the consent of Joseph Smith... every man and woman must have the certificate of Joseph Smith, junior, as a passport to their entrance into the mansion where God and Christ are" (Prophet Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses 7:289). "he that confesseth not that Jesus has come in the flesh and sent Joseph Smith with the fullness of the Gospel to this generation, is not of God, but is anti-christ" (Prophet Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses 9:312). "If it had not been for Joseph Smith and the restoration, there would be no salvation. There is no salvation outside The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints" (Apostle Bruce McConkie, Mormon Doctrine, p. 670).
    How can you call us "good Christian men and women" when the Prophet Brigham Young calls us "anti-christ?" I also find it ironic that now you think we're "good Christian men and women," when, in comment #5 you used 1 Corinthians 11: 16 (out of context) to suggest that we might be contentious. Ben, Mormon Missionaries routinely use deception and half-statements to say one thing, but mean another. It would be unloving of me to mention that you yourself have been guilty of that on this BLOG, as I have pointed out. As a Christian, and as someone who takes my role as "ambassador for Christ" seriously, I try hard never to deceive anyone. I am forthright when tell people what the Word of God says about the Bible, evolution, salvation, election, Christ, Hell, et cetera, without saying things like, "Oh, that's too hard for you to understand unless you become a member of my church and study for years." In regard to F.A.R.M.S., I am well acquainted with them and have found their scholarship to be backwards. They want to believe the Book of Mormon, so they look for ways to defend it. Perhaps F.A.R.M.S. gives comfort to those in a false system, but that comfort is not unlike someone sleeping peacefully in a burning building. It is temporary comfort, and there will be a severe wake-up when the flames hit. I do not mean to be trite here. God will judge us. As I have stated already:
    Be warned: to believe in the god of Mormonism is to put another god before the True and Living God of the Bible. Anyone who does this has broken the 1st and 2nd commandment, and will be found guilty on Judgment day. "And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment” (Hebrews 9:27). Acts 17:31 warns us that God "hath appointed a day, in the which he will judge the world in righteousness." On that day, those who follow the LDS god will be found guilty of transgressing the 1st and 2nd commandments. And God will be just in casting that person out forever. "It is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God" (Hebrews 10:31).
    The Book of Mormon is undefendable. It is not another testament of Jesus Christ, despite what any "burning in your bosom" tells you. Joseph Smith is clearly a false prophet. Joseph Smith isn't even close to being in league with the perfect accuracy of Isaiah, Ezekiel, Daniel, et cetera. I will pray for you, Ben, that you seek out the truth and trust not your burning or "testimony" which is subjective and not different than how Muslims and Jehovah's Witnesses and Christian Scientists feel, but trust the true Word of God. I pray that you will trust in the eternal unchanging and only God, and that you will repent of the false and demonic system known as Mormonism that so firmly has hold of you. You can email me or Jason or Doug anytime for help from the Bible on how to proceed. God bless!]]>
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    719 elderbrowley@yahoo.com 131.216.45.132 2005-10-12 13:48:03 2005-10-12 18:48:03 1 0 0 720 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-12 14:20:22 2005-10-12 19:20:22 One turn-off for many about Christians (and religion in general), is that we’re so uptight and disagreeable with each other. We teach about love, understanding, forgiveness, judging not, but we sure believe those Catholics, or Mormons, or Baptists, etc. are deceived and going to hell. Isn’t that ironic? Not ironic at all. It means we believe the first commandment, that there is one God and we ought not have any others. It means we believe the Bible when it says "he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God" (John 3:18.) It means we believe the Bible when it calls those without Christ "by nature the children of wrath" (Ephesians 2:3.) A wrathful judgement is coming, and it is loving to tell people about it. Wouldn't it be unloving NOT to say anything? I believe I have been patiently and lovingly pointing out the inconsistencies and problems with Mormon doctrines because I desire to see your salvation. This is loving. Have you considered that some of the harshing things said in the name of religion were said by Mormon leaders?
    “he that confesseth not that Jesus has come in the flesh and sent Joseph Smith with the fullness of the Gospel to this generation, is not of God, but is anti-christ” (Prophet Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses 9:312).
    "Anti-Christ" is pretty harsh, and it was Brigham Young who said it. I wouldn't begrudge him for saying it if it were a true statement. But given his many false prophecies and un-Biblical positions, he has no standing to make such a proclamation. For the record, I did what you suggested (only I used google instead of yahoo). I did a google search for "flaws in the Bible" and went to a few of the websites. Here are a sampling of the "flaws in the Bible" I found:
    Matthew 15:4 Jesus says, "Honour thy father and mother..." VS. Luke 14:26 Jesus says, "If any man come to me, and hate not his father and mother...he cannot be my disciple."
    The love we have for Christ is to be so strong that our feelings for everyone else is like hate in comparison. This is hyperbole, and anyone with a 3rd grade reading level can understand what's going on here. Another site shows scriptures that teach us to love God. Then shows scriptures that show that we are to fear God. Then shows scripture that says there is no fear in love. Again, any 3rd grader can understand what's going on here. If these are the "flaws in the Bible" then my faith is on a solid rock. These are not even in the same realm as the anacronisms, plagiarisms, and errors in the Book of Mormon. I gave you specific, serious, troubling points to consider. You can continue to believe in the Book of Mormon if you'd like, but no reasonable person should. Faith is not the ignoring of facts. Ben, I do not mean this rudely, but you've made a great case for why not to be a Mormon. Throughout our dialog, you have consistently shown your strong reliance on "feelings" "emotions" and "subjectivity." This is no different than why a Bhuddist feels the way he or she does. I have shown you specific and verifiable reasons to reject the Book of Mormon and Joseph Smith. Your answer has been "you have good points but F.A.R.M.S. or someone else has the answers (and I won't write those answers here) and I'll still believe in the Book of Mormon despite the glaring reasons not to." I do not envy your "don't confuse me with the facts!" attitude about your faith. I don't see how you can consider us "good Christians" if you really believed there was a hell and a judgement and that we will be made accountable to the Mormon gospel. Ben, I do believe in hell and judgement and that we will be made accountable to the Biblical gospel. That is why I do what I do. I plea to people to flee from their sin and flee to the Jesus of the Bible. I implore you to do this soon. You may not have tomorrow. There is no greater way to help someone lovingly than to lead them into the truth.
    How beautiful are the feet of them that preach the gospel of peace, and bring glad tidings of good things! Romans 10:15
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    722 akp@gsinet.net 12.16.102.149 2005-10-12 15:12:07 2005-10-12 20:12:07 1 0 0 723 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-12 15:34:50 2005-10-12 20:34:50 Jude 2--4: 2Mercy unto you, and peace, and love, be multiplied. 3Beloved, when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints. 4For there are certain men crept in unawares, who were before of old ordained to this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying the only Lord God, and our Lord Jesus Christ. I don't think what is happening here is wrong at all, and I'm thrilled for my small part in providing this forum for discourse. I have not studied Mormanism to the extent Mark has, but there are striking contrasts with how the LDS Church wants to be portrayed now versus its historical positions. Isn't polygamy rather interesting in this respect? Why wouldn't Mormons also embrace a single wife having many husbands? Or might the original teaching have been an example of "turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness," designed to provide large families and sexual opportunity to Mormon men? Isn't the ultimate goal of a good Mormon man to receive his own planet in the afterlife to repopulate with the help of his spirit-wives? (I realize that most ordinary Mormans do not exepct to reach this level of godhood, but the teaching is there nonetheless.) Isn't teaching that anyone can obtain godhood "denying the only Lord God"? Isn't the belief that Jesus and Satan were brothers denying "our Lord Jesus Christ"? What about the history of racism in Mormanism? Should we ignore the history that Africans and those of African descent were considered accursed? This is what the Mormon prophets taught! There is no Mormon-scripture-supported means for these doctrines to have changed. I found the reading at the F.A.R.M.S. site to be fascinating, although sparse on content. One of the most interesting transitions is how the North-and-South American continental locations described in the Book of Morman are now being reinterpreted to mean a tiny area in Central America. This was not, the teaching of the LDS Church throughout its history, and one would think that the inspired prophets of Morman history---if they were being directed by God---would have known this. Paul's warning to the Galatians applies to Mormonism:
    8But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed. 9As we said before, so say I now again, if any man preach any other gospel unto you than that ye have received, let him be accursed. (Galatians 1:8--9)
    We ought to, as the Apostle Paul commanded, "Prove all things; hold fast that which is good" (1 Thes. 5:21).]]>
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    729 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-14 10:25:52 2005-10-14 15:25:52 clicking here. For some reason, the font size is really small, so you may want to increase it in your web browser. You should be able to do that under "View:text size." Anyhow, if you don't read the whole article, DEFINITELY read the section entitled "ABOUT THOSE SWORDS, DR. HAMBLIN." It exposes the false scholarship of FARMS for what it realy is. White concludes:
    I heartily recommend the reading of Hamblin’s article as a classic example of the apologetic methodology of FARMS. As anyone knows who has read Nibley’s attempted defense of the Book of Abraham, or Sorenson’s attempt to find the horses of the Book of Mormon, Hamblin is simply following those who have gone before him in doing his best to rescue a false prophet from the singular verdict of history. Once again, such attempts reveal the importance that Mormon apologists attach to Joseph Smith. They also reveal the sheer desperation of their cause.
    I post this with no glee or spite. I post this out of loving concern for those who are trusting F.A.R.M.S. with answers of eternal weight. It is vital to flee from the false, but captivating system of Mormonism. Study prayerfully.]]>
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    730 awyatt@dcomp.com 128.187.0.165 2005-10-14 12:30:18 2005-10-14 17:30:18 1 0 0 731 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-14 13:04:06 2005-10-14 18:04:06 1 0 4 732 awyatt@dcomp.com 128.187.0.165 2005-10-14 13:44:58 2005-10-14 18:44:58 1 0 0 733 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-14 13:47:39 2005-10-14 18:47:39 absolutely not use "absolutist" language? ;)]]> 1 0 4 734 awyatt@dcomp.com 128.187.0.165 2005-10-14 14:00:51 2005-10-14 19:00:51 1 0 0 735 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-14 14:26:45 2005-10-14 19:26:45 contradictions of that calliber, and it looks like they're dealt with exhaustively at the websites I suggested. These "problems" are not in the same league as the anachronisms, plagiarisms, and errors in the Book of Mormon. And unlike the shoddy scholarship of F.A.R.M.S., the Bible talks about actual places and actual events and actual people who actually existed. I'm not sure if you know too much of what the Book of Mormon claims, but it claims that American Indians are descended from Hebrews and had swords and animals that didn't exist in the Americas at the time. Mormons call this fiction "scripture" and "another testament of Jesus Christ," so as a Christian, I take offense at that. It would be like if you loved the Red Sox passionately, and someone said that the Yankees and the Red Sox are basically the same. You'd take offense at that because it would drag your beloved Red Sox in the mud. Well, the claim that the Book of Mormon is "another testament of Jesus Christ" is an infinitely more audacious statement than my poor baseball analogy. If you have any more questions, please don't hessitate to ask! God bless!!! :)]]> 1 0 4 736 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-14 14:33:45 2005-10-14 19:33:45 alleged false prophecy is that God said that Abraham's descendents would be as numerous as the stars in the sky, yet there aren't actually that many Jews. This is silly. Of course a 2nd grader can tell that "as numerous as the stars in the sky" is poetic metaphor, similar to when I tell my 6-year-old that I love her "to the moon and back." This isn't the same as the failed prophecies of Joseph Smith, which I have listed in comment #6.]]> 1 0 4 737 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-14 14:39:16 2005-10-14 19:39:16 page 8 very interesting! Perhaps you will too.]]> 1 0 4 739 awyatt@dcomp.com 128.187.0.165 2005-10-14 15:18:40 2005-10-14 20:18:40 1 0 0 741 jlynchs@pacbell.net 68.121.218.122 2005-10-14 20:49:25 2005-10-15 01:49:25 1 0 0 743 metatron99@hotmail.com http://www.angelfire.com/az3/LDC 68.110.112.247 2005-10-15 13:32:04 2005-10-15 18:32:04 1 0 0 744 macl66g@hotmail.com 67.166.69.155 2005-10-15 15:31:56 2005-10-15 20:31:56 1 0 0 745 met.writer@gmail.com 4.253.6.71 2005-10-15 23:33:49 2005-10-16 04:33:49 1 0 0 746 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-16 00:20:40 2005-10-16 05:20:40 While we love the scriptures and thank God regularly for them, we believe that one can have sufficient confidence and even reverence for holy writ without believing that every word between Genesis 1:1 and Revelation 22:21 is the word for word dictation of the Almighty or that the Bible now reads as it has always read. Indeed, our own scriptures attest that plain and precious truths and many covenants of the Lord were taken away or kept back from the Bible before it was compiled (1 Nephi 13:20-29; Moses 1:40-41; Articles of Faith 1:8). But we still cherish the sacred volume, recognize and teach the doctrines of salvation within it, and seek to pattern our lives according to its timeless teachings. Can we take the Book of Mormon at face value as illustrative of Mormon teaching? What about Doctrines and Covenants? If we want to continue this discussion and profit from it, what can we accept as foundational for the two sides? I can easily argue from the Bible that Jesus and Satan could not have been brothers, because it stomps on the deity of Christ. However, it appears that Mormonism is free to simply say, "Oh, well, all those parts of the Bible (such as John 1:1) that talk about the deity of Christ were just mistakes. In addition to determining the authoritative source for Mormon doctrine, I also need some defintions to be agreed upon. What is meant, for example, by the word revelation as used in Mr. Millett's document? There is further paradox expressed in Millet's document, which is especially clear in the attempt to explain the fact that blacks were not allowed to join the Mormon priesthood until 1978:
    For as long as I can remember, the explanation for why our black brethren and sisters were denied the full blessings of the priesthood (including the temple) was some variation of the theme that they had been less valiant in the premortal life and thus had come to earth under a curse, an explanation that has been perpetuated as doctrine for most of our Church’s history.
    Essentially, he is saying that "all 'old' revelation by LDS church leaders can be ignored if something new supercedes it." Eliminating all of Mormon historical teaching from the study of Mormonism may answer a lot of questions, but it does nothing to allow a real analysis of Mormon doctrine. The teaching against blacks joining the priesthood, for example, persisted for 148 years, and has been revoked only for 27 years. When the next revelation shift occurs, anything we discuss today is completely open to revision. This seems like the error of those who attempt to negate the Apostle Paul's teaching against homosexuality: "Yes, it's in the Bible, but we know better now what God meant."]]>
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    747 awyatt@dcomp.com 24.2.94.51 2005-10-16 21:14:57 2005-10-17 02:14:57 1 0 0 748 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-17 07:46:19 2005-10-17 12:46:19 But there is biblical precedent for new revelation superceding old ways of doing things. Think about Peter receiving the revelation that the gospel was to be preached to the gentiles. The belief/revelation that they were operating under was that they should not be taught. It took a revelation from God to change the old ways and replace it with a more open way of carrying the gospel to others. New revelation must never change old revelation. If God says in the Bible that there is only one true God, then it is foul for Joseph Smith to appear in 1930 with "revelation" that there are many many gods. There was never any "revelation" telling the apostles not to preach to the Gentiles. God's revelation to Peter was not changing something that He had said previously as fact. Many of the Mormons' "revelations" contradict prior revelations, and therefore, the newer ones must be discounted.]]> 1 0 4 749 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-17 08:04:38 2005-10-17 13:04:38 Wow, talk about a setup. Reminds me of the idea of a person lying to test if someone else is lying…. Kind of missing the ethical point. If you wanted to learn something then why were you trying to prove something? This is a truely sad example if you were trying to be an example of a good christian. Matthew, I'm sure you know that Jesus commanded us to lovingly share the Biblical gospel. This is something I take very seriously, because of my love and devotion to Christ. Of course I wanted to share the Biblical Jesus with these missionaries. Because of my love for Jesus and concern for those who do not know Him, I want to share Jesus with everyone I can. Rob Merchant setup the meeting and told the missionaries, "We want to hear what you have to say." And we did. There was no deception on our part. We were very open about the fact that we had studied Mormonism and had issues, like:
    • belief in many gods
    • that man can become a god
    • that God was once man
    • prophecies in the BOM that didn't come true
    • et cetera
    We told the missionaries that we wanted to know what they believed about these things. They used deception and word games to get around the issues. As an example, they said that they believed in the Bible, as many Mormons on this BLOG have said. But what they mean is that they believe in the Bible when it is translated correctly. So when the Bible doesn't agree with Mormonism (in many essential areas) they say, "translated badly." In practice they do not believe the Bible. We've seen statements like Ben's in comment #7:
    I just have one thought: Say that if you put the Bible under the same scrutiny you have put the Book of Mormon and the Prophet Joseph Smith under. You could cause, by your reasoning, that foundation from which you have derived all of those point-proving scriptures, to crumble.
    I responded in comment #11 with:
    Mormons do not believe the Bible is true. What they actually believe is: We believe the Bible to be the word of God as far as it is translated correctly. 8th Article of Faith (emphasis mine) First Nephi 13:26 says: a great and abominable church which is most abominable above all other churches; for behold, they have taken away from the gospel of the lamb many parts which are plain and most precious And the Mormon Apostle Orson Pratt said: No one can tell whether even one verse of either the Old or New Testament conveys the ideas of the original author. (Journal of Discourses 7:28) The Mormon prophet Joseph F. Smith said: The Bible itself is but the dead letter. (Joseph F. Smith, Gospel Doctrine, p. 102) Finally, the Mormon prophet Joseph Smith Jr. himself had this to say about the Bible: Ignorant translators, careless transcribers, or designing and corrupt priests have committed many errors (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, pg.327) So I just can’t believe you when you say “Now we both know that the Bible is true.” And your allegation that the Bible would crumble under testing is further proof that you do not believe the Bible.
    I honestly did want to hear what the Mormon missionaries had to say, and they said things like "We believe in the Virgin birth," "we believe in salvation by grace" and "We believe in the Bible." When I pressed them for what they mean by the "Virgin birth," "salvation by grace," etc., they said I'd have to be a member of their church for years to understand it. Beware of any salesman who won't tell you what he's selling up front. What do you want to know about what the Bible teaches? I'll tell you anything up front.]]>
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    750 jasonkst@adelphia.net 12.6.239.196 2005-10-17 08:30:36 2005-10-17 13:30:36 1 0 0 751 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-17 08:50:28 2005-10-17 13:50:28 If God created Satan that that would make him God’s son would it not. Mormons seem to misunderstand the meaning of the term "son of" when used in reference to Jesus. It is true that JFK Jr. is the "son of" JFK, but the Bible does not use the term "son of" the same way in reference to Jesus and God. You seem to be making the false assumption that the Bible only uses the phrase "son of" the same way we use it today of a human father-son relationship. I invite you to ask this question: does the Bible use the phrase in any other way? So how does the Bible use the term "son of?" The answer is found by reading the New Testament. How far? One verse. The very first verse in the whole New Testament teaches us how God used the term "son of."
    “The book of the generation of Jesus Christ, the son of David, the son of Abraham. (Matthew 1:1)
    This one verse, this first verse in Matthew’s gospel, silences the idea that “son of” in the Bible is only used the same way the JFK Jr. is the “son of” JFK. I ask anyone to honestly read Matthew 1:1 and truthfully and objectively find out how the term “son of” is used in the Bible (particularly in reference to Jesus Christ). Here Jesus is both the “son of David” AND “the son of Abraham.” Putting aside that Jesus was NOT the physical son of either of these men, it is still impossible for someone to be a son of TWO people. At least it is impossible if one narrowly defines the term “son of” in the same way one would say that JFK Jr. is the “son of” JFK. Matthew 1:1 teaches that the Bible does not use the term “son of” that way. This first chapter of Matthew also records for us Jesus’ genealogy. Verse 17 shows clearly that Jesus was far removed from both David and Abraham. Yet the Bible calls Jesus both the “son of Abraham” and “son of David.” This is just one example of how we can fall into error when we fail to allow the Bible to define itself. Based on Matthew chapter 1, we learn early on in the New Testament that the term “son of” is used to mean “in the order of.” Matthew wanted his audience to know that Jesus was the Messiah because he was “in the order of David” and “in the order of Abraham.” That is what the context teaches. The whole point of Matthew chapter one is to show Matthew’s Jewish audience that Jesus was of the order of David and Abraham. The Biblical definition of the phrase “son of” means “of the order of.” That is why Jesus can be called both the “son of David” and the “son of Abraham” when neither one of these men were his physical father. Jesus is also the “son of God” and the “son of man.” As Bible-believing Christians, we deny the Greek idea that gods go around impregnating people to produce non-eternal offspring. Jesus is not the “son of God” in that Pagan sense. When Jesus called himself the “Son of God,” he was not claiming to be a physical offspring as JFK Jr. is a physical offspring of his father. This example shows how easy it is to be lead astray and fall into error when we depart from the definitions the Bible gives for itself. So I deny that Satan is a "son of God" in the same sense that Jesus is. Jesus is God. Satan is a created being. Jesus is not a created being. Jesus is Creator.
    For by [Jesus] were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by him, and for him (Colossians 1:16)
    Jesus created Satan. Jesus and Satan are not brothers according to the Bible. You can believe otherwise if you wish, but please don't insult our intelligence by saying you believe something unbiblical but yet still believe the Bible. This is a quandry for the Mormon. Fortunately you can repent of your false doctrine and false teachers and cling to the true and Living God! Jesus offers forgiveness of sin and a true relationship with His Father based on what He did.]]>
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    752 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-17 09:11:48 2005-10-17 14:11:48 Well, it seems to me that your entire purpose for having the missionaries to your home was to try and school them, not to learn from them. I find your manner quite disingenuous in that you seem to take pride in confounding rather than understanding or being understood. Quite honestly, I could answer pretty much any question you put forth, but I would not waste my time. Your desire is not to learn, but to contend. You do not look for common ground, but differences. So now we're back to the name-calling and charges of being contentious. I said in my original post:
    The Mormon Missionaries are not interested in answering questions or objections. They want to find people who will listen to them and not question their use of words like “God” and “Jesus.” They use Christian words with different meanings with the intention to deceive. They want to find a woman whose husband just died and is feeling sad so they can say “Our Church can give you purpose and meaning.” They don’t want someone who has questions about false prophesies of Joseph Smith. I was chatting with my wife about this, and if a group of Orthodox Jews called me and said, “We’re Orthodox Jews and we don’t believe in Jesus. Can you come over so we can hammer you with hard questions?” I’d be like: Bring it on! I’d LOVE that opportunity! But these Mormons want people who have no critical questions and no concerns (even legitimate ones.)
    John, you've helped prove this point. You said:
    Try some humility. You may begin to learn if you do.
    This from the same person who said:
    I could answer pretty much any question you put forth, but I would not waste my time.
    Christians are called upon to "waste time" explaining patiently and defending Biblical truths.
    And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth (2 Timothy 2:24-25)
    So I'm waiting to hear how Joseph Smith can be a true prophet when he taught that God was not always God, that men can become a god, and that there are infinite gods.]]>
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    753 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-17 09:22:24 2005-10-17 14:22:24 I suggest to you and others that you learn more about what *is* and *is not* LDS doctrine Ah, the ol' "you can't hold this heresy against us because it's not in the standard works argument!" This is how many Mormons try to skirt around the fact that LDS prophets and apostles have taught such things as:
    • men live on the moon, are 6-feet tall, dress like Quakers, and live to be 1,000 years old
    • black people are black because of misdeeds in the pre-existence
    • Indians can become whiter through becoming Mormons
    • a white person who has sexual relations with a black person must be put to death
    • more...
    Unfortunately for the Mormon, Brigham Young said that his sermons (where much of this comes from) ARE scripture: In regard to his words and sermons, Brigham Young said:
    "I say now, when they are copied and approved by me they are as good Scripture as is couched in this Bible" (Prophet Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses 13:264)
    Brigham Young compared his sermons with scripture:
    “I have never yet preached a sermon and sent it out to the children of men, that they may not call Scripture. Let me have the privilege of correcting a sermon, and it is as good Scripture as they deserve. The people have the oracles of God continually.” (Prophet Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses 13:95)
    So Kevin, what "*is* and *is not* LDS doctrine"? I found the answer to that by reading the sermons of LDS prophets, the words of LDS apostles, and the standard works. If anyone wants to know what the LDS church believes, you can either ask a missionary and become a member for years before you'll hear about these things, or you can download my essay, Letter to a Mormon: Testing the Claims of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. You can also find notes and other files from a Cult class I am teaching at: http://cults.sohmer.net. God bless you!]]>
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    754 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-17 09:36:36 2005-10-17 14:36:36 1 0 2 836 rpavich123@yahoo.com http://pavichfamily.blogspot.com/ 151.205.55.154 2005-10-22 06:41:02 2005-10-22 11:41:02 1 0 0 861 ike_97@hotmail.com 207.200.116.9 2005-10-25 02:48:23 2005-10-25 07:48:23 1 0 0 865 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-25 09:22:18 2005-10-25 14:22:18 "There never was a reformed Egyptian language."]]> 1 0 2 871 ike_97@hotmail.com 12.145.154.36 2005-10-25 13:14:12 2005-10-25 18:14:12 1 0 0 873 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-25 14:57:48 2005-10-25 19:57:48 I understand that we have many points of disagreement between us, but are the differences between the Book of Mormon’s descriptions as “reformed” and “altered” and these other descriptions so great as to be worth anyone’s time to discuss them? Can’t we just move on to something of substance? I agree with you that our difference over "Reformed Egyptian" is not so great as to be worth a lot of time. Honestly, my reason for not being a Mormon is not because "they're wrong about Reformed Egyptian." It's a very small issue. Maybe you're right and there was such a thing, (but I still wonder why ancient Hebrews would write in any form of Egyptian) but it means very little ultimately. But I don't think I spent a lot of time on that topic. When you read through my posts and this whole thread, I spend a LOT more time testing the Mormon Church in regard to the following:
    • false prophecies: D&C 84:1-4 and more
    • The 3,913 changes made to the Book of Mormon since the original 1830 edition (even though it is claimed to be translated one word at a time by God in 1830)
    • Not one piece of independent, non-Mormon archeological evidence supports the Book of Mormon
    • How can Joseph Smith be a true prophet when he taught that God was not always God, that men can become a god, and that there are infinite gods.
    • If the book of Mormon was allegedly written in 400 AD by Mormon, then why does it contain italicised words that didn’t exist until the King James translators put them there 1,190 years later?
    • Mormons claim that American Indians are descended from Hebrews and had swords and animals that didn’t exist in the Americas at the time of the Book of Mormon
    So, yes, I do have concerns about "Reformed Egyptian," but they pale in comparison to my concerns about the LDS doctrines of polytheism, eternal progression, the origins of Black people, plagiarism in the BOM, false prophecies, and many many more. You can read about these concerns in the document, Letter to a Mormon: Testing the Claims of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. In it you will see the many many problems with the claims of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.]]>
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    884 va2ak@msn.com 66.255.12.210 2005-10-26 10:13:18 2005-10-26 15:13:18 1 0 0 885 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-26 10:21:17 2005-10-26 15:21:17
  • false prophecies: D&C 84:1-4 and more
  • The 3,913 changes made to the Book of Mormon since the original 1830 edition (even though it is claimed to be translated one word at a time by God in 1830)
  • Not one piece of independent, non-Mormon archeological evidence supports the Book of Mormon
  • How can Joseph Smith be a true prophet when he taught that God was not always God, that men can become a god, and that there are infinite gods.
  • If the book of Mormon was allegedly written in 400 AD by Mormon, then why does it contain italicised words that didn’t exist until the King James translators put them there 1,190 years later?
  • Mormons claim that American Indians are descended from Hebrews and had swords and animals that didn’t exist in the Americas at the time of the Book of Mormon
  • and more...
  • ]]>
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    887 va2ak@msn.com 66.255.12.210 2005-10-26 10:37:03 2005-10-26 15:37:03 1 0 0 888 va2ak@msn.com 66.255.12.210 2005-10-26 10:44:21 2005-10-26 15:44:21 1 0 0 889 va2ak@msn.com 66.255.12.210 2005-10-26 10:59:47 2005-10-26 15:59:47 1 0 0 890 va2ak@msn.com 66.255.12.210 2005-10-26 11:08:39 2005-10-26 16:08:39 1 0 0 891 va2ak@msn.com 66.255.12.210 2005-10-26 11:11:02 2005-10-26 16:11:02 1 0 0 892 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-26 11:36:17 2005-10-26 16:36:17 doesn't exist. (One cannot prove, for example, that Santa Claus does not exist.) However, Mark's claim can be easily refuted if independent archeological evidence of the New World history as described in the Book of Mormon actually exists, especially if it was so abundant in the Great Plains states that all Joseph Smith needed to uncover it was a few minutes and a shovel. The, "Oh, that wasn't North and South America, that was just a tiny area of Central America," put forth by FARMS is simply ludicrous, and an obvious attempt to reinterpret Mormon historical teaching. Wouldn't the prophet Joseph Smith have a clue about the locations mentioned in the new scripture he was being given, especially since he wrote about digging up the evidence? I could claim with just as much credibility that Jerusalem was just a nickname for a particular neighborhood in Tanzania, where descendents of the Sumerians lived 2000 years ago, speaking modern Castillian Spanish, and that a translation of one of their ancient texts just happens to coincide word-for-word (right down to the translator's notes) with Edith Grossman's English translation of Cervantes Don Quixote. I am still waiting for an answer to my challenge to define the source of authoritative Mormon teaching.]]> 1 0 2 903 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-27 10:34:33 2005-10-27 15:34:33 The Bible is infallible as you all state here are just a couple of examples of prophets prophecies not being fullfilled. One obvious example is the story of Jonah, who was told by God to prophecy to the people of Nineveh. Jonah prophesied that the people would be destroyed in 40 days (Jonah 3:4) - no loopholes were offered, just imminent doom. There is a principle that you are missing here. The God of mercy told the Ninevites that doom was imminent, but repentence is always an option to those facing judgement. When we consult the whole councel of God's Word, we find this principle very clearly in Jeremiah 18:7-8:
    At what instant I shall speak concerning a nation, and concerning a kingdom, to pluck up, and to pull down, and to destroy it; If that nation, against whom I have pronounced, turn from their evil, I will repent of the evil that I thought to do unto them.
    The Ninevites clearly understood what God meant: repent or be destroyed. And that's exactly what happened:
    "And God saw their works, that they turned from their evil way; and God repented of the evil, that he had said that he would do unto them; and he did it not." (Jonah 3:10)
    Nineveh repented, and so God spared them. This is not even to be compared to the blatently false and ridiculous "prophecies" of Joseph Smith:
    • Jesus will return before 1891 (History of the Church, Vol. 2, p. 182, and Journal of Oliver Boardman Huntington, Vol. 2, pp. 128,129).
    • Joseph Smith prophesied that David W. Patten would perform a mission for him the next Spring. (Doctrine & Covenants 114:1). David Patten died before Spring came. (History of the Church, Vol. 3, p. 171, 10-25-38.)
    • Joseph Smith prophesied that his enemies would not destroy him (2 Nephi 3:14). Smith’s enemies killed him on June 27, 1844 in Carthage, Illinois.
    • A Temple will be built in Jackson City Missouri in Smith’s generation. As of 2005, this has not come to pass. “Zion” has moved to Salt Lake City.
    • The American Civil War would be poured out upon all nations (Doctrine and Covenants 87:1-2.) This did not come to pass. God would give the gold of Salem Massachusetts into Smith’s hands to pay debts, (Doctrine and Covenants 111:2,4-5.) This never occurred.
    • U.S. Government overthrown for “wrongs” against Mormons. (History of the Church, Vol. 5, page 394).
    And Brigham Young prophesied:
    • “The present struggle (Civil War) will not free the descendants of Ham who are slaves.” (Prophet Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses, vol. 10, p. 250, October 6, 1863)
    • “as the Lord lives we will build up Jackson County in this generation” (Prophet Brigham Young, Times & Seasons, vol. 6, p. 956, April 6, 1845)
    Let an open-minded person judge for him or herself whether Joseph Smith and Brigham Young and Jonah are in the same category. Only someone who is already convinced ahead of time that he or she is going to believe in the Mormon prophets would associate them with Jonah. Unlike Jonah's prophecy, Joseph Smith's and Brigham Young's prophecies were not conditional. "Jesus will return by 1891 (period.)" "David W. Patten would perform a mission for him (period.)" "A temple will be built in Missouri in Smith's generation (period.)" "God would give the gold of Salem MA to Joseph Smith (period.)" "The Civil War will not free the slaves (period.)" So Jonah's conditional prophecy should give no comfort to the Mormon wrestling with the many unfulfilled unconditional prophecies of the LDS prophets. The problem with Joseph Smith is that many of his prophecies failed to come to pass even when the conditions were met, or when there were no conditions. We would do well to heed the Apostle's warning:
    "Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world." (1 John 4:1)
    I will pray that you will see the Mormon prophets for the false prophets that they are.]]>
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    904 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-27 10:41:47 2005-10-27 15:41:47 Another problematic prophecy is found in 2 Samuel 7:4-17, where Nathan the prophet tells David that his royal house and kingdom will “be established forever” Mike, I am excited to proclaim that Jesus Christ of Nazareth, the true Jesus of the Bible, is the fulfillment of this prophecy!
    And, behold, thou shalt conceive in thy womb, and bring forth a son, and shalt call his name JESUS. He shall be great, and shall be called the Son of the Highest: and the Lord God shall give unto him the throne of his father David: And he shall reign over the house of Jacob for ever; and of his kingdom there shall be no end. (Luke 1:31-33)
    Hallelujah!]]>
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    905 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-27 10:49:07 2005-10-27 15:49:07 I believe the Bible to be the word of God as I do the BofM Mike, I just can't believe Mormons anymore when they say they believe in the Bible, or that they believe that the Bible is the Word of God. This is deceitful on your part, because what the Mormons actually believe about the Bible has been covered exhaustively in comment #11. Mormons do not believe the Bible is true. What they actually believe is:
    We believe the Bible to be the word of God as far as it is translated correctly. 8th Article of Faith (emphasis mine)
    First Nephi 13:26 says:
    a great and abominable church which is most abominable above all other churches; for behold, they have taken away from the gospel of the lamb many parts which are plain and most precious
    And the Mormon Apostle Orson Pratt said:
    No one can tell whether even one verse of either the Old or New Testament conveys the ideas of the original author. (Journal of Discourses 7:28)
    The Mormon prophet Joseph F. Smith said:
    The Bible itself is but the dead letter. (Joseph F. Smith, Gospel Doctrine, p. 102)
    Finally, the Mormon prophet Joseph Smith Jr. himself had this to say about the Bible:
    Ignorant translators, careless transcribers, or designing and corrupt priests have committed many errors (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, pg.327)
    Your allegation that the Bible would crumble under testing is further proof that you do not believe the Bible. If Mormon’s did believe the Bible, then they wouldn’t be able to believe that there are many Gods:
    “Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD” (Deuteronomy 6:4) “Thus saith the LORD the King of Israel, and his redeemer the LORD of hosts; I am the first, and I am the last; and beside me there is no God… Is there a God beside me? yea, there is no God; I know not any” (Isaiah 44:6,8) Jesus prayed to “the only true God” (John 17:3) “For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus” (1 Timothy 2:5) “Ye are my witnesses, saith the LORD, and my servant whom I have chosen: that ye may know and believe me, and understand that I am he: before me there was no God formed, neither shall there be after me.” (Isaiah 43:10) “I am the LORD, and there is none else, there is no God beside me” (Isaiah 45:5) “I am God, and there is none else; I am God, and there is none like me” (Isaiah 46:9)
    If Mormon’s did believe the Bible, then they wouldn’t be able to believe that God is not eternal:
    “In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth.” (Genesis 1:1) “Before the mountains were brought forth, or ever thou hadst formed the earth and the world, even from everlasting to everlasting, thou art God.” (Psalm 90:2) “Thy throne is established of old: thou art from everlasting.” (Psalm 93:2) “The eternal God is thy refuge” (Deuteronomy 33:22)
    If Mormon’s did believe the Bible, then they wouldn’t be able to believe that humans can become a God:
    “Ye are my witnesses, saith the LORD, and my servant whom I have chosen: that ye may know and believe me, and understand that I am he: before me there was no God formed, neither shall there be after me.” (Isaiah 43:10) “I am the LORD, and there is none else, there is no God beside me” (Isaiah 45:5) “I am God, and there is none else; I am God, and there is none like me” (Isaiah 46:9)
    If Mormon’s did believe the Bible, then they wouldn’t be able to believe that Christ’s church had apostatized:
    “And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.” (Matthew 16:18) Does NOT say: “And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it, except between AD 100 and AD 1830.” “Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.” (Matthew 28:19-20) Does NOT say: “lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world, except between AD 100 and AD 1830.”
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    906 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-27 10:52:32 2005-10-27 15:52:32 Lets go with the other weak attempt of trying to discredit the BofM for having errors. These errors were mostly all printing and grammitcal errors. "Printing and grammatical errors?" There are significant changes at:
    • 1 Nephi 11:18
    • 1 Nephi 13:40
    • 1 Nephi 20:1
    • Alma 29:4
    • 2 Nephi 30:6
    • 3 Nephi 22:4
    • Mosiah 21:28
    • more…
    For a complete side-by-side list of significant changes in the Book of Mormon, go to: http://www.mazeministry.com/machine/machine.htm]]>
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    907 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-27 11:01:38 2005-10-27 16:01:38 But where are they when it comes to finding out about Biblical errors? There are quite a few. Chronoligical, numerical, translations. You name it, its in there. There is no question that some parts of the text have been corrupted. Of the thousands of early Greek and Hebrews manuscripts and fragments that scholars have to work with, there are many small and some serious differences that make it impossible to propose one single, standard text that one might hope to be free from errors. Yet more evidence that you don't really believe the Bible is the Word of God. You believe it has errors. You believe it has been poorly translated. You believe it has mistakes. See? You're being disingenuous when you say that you believe the Bible. I say that I do believe the Bible, and I mean it. Are there variants and other texts? Sure. But I discount them. God said that He would supernaturally preserve His Word, and I believe Him.
    The words of the LORD are pure words: as silver tried in a furnace of earth, purified seven times. Thou shalt keep them, O LORD, thou shalt preserve them from this generation for ever. (Psalm 12:6-7)
    Yes we can trust the Bible we have today to be supernaturally preserved by God, and we can discount the fakes and the phonies put forward by the Catholic Church and others through the years. If you cannot, like me, say that you trust the Bible to be God's perfect inerrant Word, then throw it out and please don't patronize us with deceitful statements like that you "believe the Bible." At least have the decency to be honest like an atheist who says he doesn't believe any of it. If you remember, the reason I started this thread was to point out the deceitfulness and deception of the Mormon missionaries. You have demonstrated that sadly their trickery was not unique to them.]]>
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    909 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-27 11:15:02 2005-10-27 16:15:02 As for using passages from the bible in the book of mormon…….Plagiarism is the act of deceitfully using someone else’s words as one’s own. So what about the Book of Mormon version of the Sermon on the Mount? Well, here we have Christ speaking to some Book of Mormon people, using words very similar to those that Christ spoke earlier in Jerusalem. Thus, the Book of Mormon claims that the words of Christ were given by - can you guess who? - yes, Christ. Oh, the shame! Has Joseph Smith no decency? You misunderstand a critical point. I was not acusing Jesus of plagiarizing Jesus. I was and am accusing Joseph Smith of plagiarizing the Bible when he said he had received the words through divine guidance. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints alleges that the Book of Mormon was written in the 5th Century AD. They furthermore claim that it was translated one word at a time by God's supernatural help.
    "Drawing it closely around his face to exclude the light and in the darkness the spiritual light would shine a piece of something resembling parchment would appear and on that appeared the writing one character a time would and under was an interpretation in English. Thus the Book of Mormon was translated by the gift and power of God, and not by any power of man." (An Address To All Believers In Christ, by David Whitmer, Richmond, Missouri, 1887, p. 12)
    In 1844 Joseph Smith declared that the Book of Mormon was "the most correct of any book on earth, and the keystone of our religion, and a man would get nearer to God by abiding by its precepts than by any other book" (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, p. 194, and History of the Church, 4:461). Remember, this book was written in the 5th century, and translated one word at a time by supernatural means. Then why does it contain words that DID NOT EXIST IN THE 5TH CENTURY?
    The gold plates are claimed to have been buried in 421 A.D. by Moroni. The King James Bible came out 1,190 years later. Thus the Book of Mormon couldn't be based on plates buried in 421 A.D. since the Book of Mormon contains translation errors that didn't occur until 1,190 years later. Additionally, the language of the King James Bible didn't exist in 421 A.D. http://www.whatismormonism.com
    I do not begrudge a writer of scripture to quote previous scripture, but all of us should object to anyone claiming to have supernaturally translated new scripture when it can be demonstrated that in fact he had merely copied his words from a book freely available to him at the time and called it new scripture. Mike, you said:
    So, I really do not see the point of trying to discredit here since the early inhapitants of the Book of Mormon brought with them the old testement and taught from it, and prophesied Of Christ and his coming to them why they would not have this.
    I might buy that they would have the Old Testament, but they WOULD NOT HAVE a version that contained italicized words that were added by the King James translators 1,190 years later. They also would not have a version with translation errors unique to the King James version. One must wonder how these 17th century anomolies crept into the Book of Mormon that is claimed to be from the 5th century. It is clear the Book of Mormon is not a 5th century work, as claimed by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, but a 19th century work of fiction written by a zealous farmer from New York.]]>
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    910 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-27 11:25:21 2005-10-27 16:25:21 John is refering to the book of revelation as not being added to and taken away from. In comment #45, I agreed with you that Revelation 22:18-19 refers to John's Revelation only. Interestingly enough, though, Joseph Smith violated even this narrow interpretation.
    The injunction in Revelation 22:18 addresses adding to or subtracting from the Book of Revelation. Joseph Smith blatantly violated this injunction, for he both added to and subtracted from the Book of Revelation. Smith made alterations to the (kjv) biblical text and produced the so-called "Inspired Version" of the Bible. An example is Revelation 5:6, where Smith changed the kjv rendering, "having seven horns and seven eyes, which are the seven Spirits of God," to "having twelve horns and twelve eyes, which are the twelve servants of God, sent forth into all the earth." (Geisler, N. L., & Rhodes, R. 1997. When Cultists Ask : A Popular Handbook on Cultic Misinterpretations. Baker Books: Grand Rapids, Mich.)
    So no matter how you interpret Revelation 22:18-19, Joseph Smith has violated the warning.]]>
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    916 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-27 12:30:31 2005-10-27 17:30:31 clicking here. The article asks the very good question: "How, then, do Latter-day Saints reconcile the scriptural description of God as being "from everlasting to everlasting" with the idea that he has not always been God?"
    Not much has been revealed about this concept beyond the fact that God was once a man and that over a long period of time he gained the knowledge, power, and divine attributes necessary to know all things and have all power. Because he has held his exalted status for a longer period than any of us can conceive, he is able to speak in terms of eternity and can state that he is from everlasting to everlasting. President Joseph Fielding Smith explained that "from eternity to eternity means from the spirit existence through the probation which we are in, and then back again to the eternal existence which will follow. Surely this is everlasting, for when we receive the resurrection, we will never die. We all existed in the first eternity. I think I can say of myself and others, we are from eternity; and we will be to eternity everlasting, if we receive the exaltation." (Joseph Fielding Smith, Doctrines of Salvation, 1:12)
    So the Mormons say out of one side of their mouth that they agree with us that God was from everlasting, but out of the other side they say, "Because [God] has held his exalted status for a longer period than any of us can conceive, he is able to speak in terms of eternity and can state that he is from everlasting to everlasting." Mormons use words with a different dictionary! So apparently "everlasting" means "longer than anyone else." Be careful when a Mormon says they believe that God is eternal, that Jesus is Savior, that you are saved by grace, or a host of other terms. Make sure you have them define specifically what they mean by that. Of course they likely will tell you that you'll only be able to understand if you become a member of their church and study for years. Very sad. In contrast to Mormonism, Biblical Christianity teaches that God truly is from everlasting to everlasting and has always been God, and when we use the term "everlasting" we mean "everlasting."]]>
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    917 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-27 13:04:24 2005-10-27 18:04:24 1830 Book of Mormon Comparison Machine a bit unweildy, here are a few selections to show the differences Mark has described. (It took me three tries to figure it out, and I'm a Web application developer.) The emphases in boldface were added by me. 1830 Book of Mormon, 1 Nephi 11:18, 21, 32:
    18And he said unto me, Behold, the virgin which thou seest, is the mother of God, after the manner of the flesh.
    Current version:
    18And he said unto me: Behold, the virgin whom thou seest is the mother of the Son of God, after the manner of the flesh.
    1830 Book of Mormon, 1 Nephi 11:21:
    21And the angel said unto me, behold the Lamb of God, yea, even the Eternal Father! Knowest thou the meaning of the tree which thy father saw?
    Current version:
    21And the angel said unto me, behold the Lamb of God, yea, even the Son of the Eternal Father! Knowest thou the meaning of the tree which thy father saw?
    1830 Book of Mormon, 1 Nephi 11:32:
    32And it came to pass that the angel spake unto me again, saying, look! And I looked and beheld the Lamb of God, that he was taken by the people; yea, the Everlasting God, was judged of the world; and I saw and bear record.
    Current Version:
    32And it came to pass that the angel spake unto me again, saying: Look! And I looked and beheld the Lamb of God, that he was taken by the people; yea, the Son of the everlasting God was judged of the world; and I saw and bear record.
    1830 Book of Mormon, 1 Nephi 13:40:
    40And the angel spake unto me, saying: These last records which thou hast seen among the Gentiles, shall establish the truth of the first, which is of the twelve apostles of the Lamb, and shall make known the plain and precious things which have been taken away from them; and shall make known to all kindreds, tongues, and people, that the Lamb of God is the Eternal Father and the Saviour of the world; and that all men must come unto Him, or they cannot be saved;
    Current Version:
    40And the angel spake unto me, saying: These last records, which thou hast seen among the Gentiles, shall establish the truth of the first, which are of the twelve apostles of the Lamb, and shall make known the plain and precious things which have been taken away from them; and shall make known to all kindreds, tongues, and people, that the Lamb of God is the Son of the Eternal Father, and the Savior of the world; and that all men must come unto him, or they cannot be saved.
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    918 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-27 13:07:27 2005-10-27 18:07:27 1 0 4 919 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-27 13:28:22 2005-10-27 18:28:22 Mormonism Research Ministry touches upon a subject that is dear to my own heart.
    Until 1981 2 Nephi 30:6 in the Book of Mormon taught that dark-skinned Lamanites (Indians) would eventually experience a change in the color of their skin should they embrace the Book of Mormon.
    Read the larger article, White and Delightsome or Pure and Delightsome?---A Look at 2 Nephi 30:6 by Bill McKeever and Eric Johnson.]]>
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    920 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-27 14:24:50 2005-10-27 19:24:50 At the October 1960 LDS Church Conference, Spencer Kimball utilized 2 Nephi 30:6 when he stated how the Indians "are fast becoming a white and delightsome people." He said, "The [Indian] children in the home placement program in Utah are often lighter than their brothers and sisters in the hogans on the reservation" (Improvement Era, December 1960, pp. 922-3). During the same message Kimball referred to a 16-year-old Indian girl who was both LDS and "several shades lighter than her parents..." He went on to say, "These young members of the Church are changing to whiteness and to delightsomeness. One white elder jokingly said that he and his companion were donating blood regularly to the hospital in the hope that the process might be accelerated." And another meaningful passage:
    It has also been taught in Mormonism that opposite repercussions could result when a white man abandoned his Mormon faith. For instance, the "Juvenile Instructor" (26:635) reads, "… in fact, it has been noticed in our day that men who have lost the spirit of the Lord, and from whom his blessings have been withdrawn, have turned dark to such an extend as to excite the comments of all who have known them." In 1857, Brigham Young declared that apostates would "become gray-haired, wrinkled, and black, just like the Devil" (Journal of Discourse 5:332). Despite the comments from past Mormon leaders, skin color has nothing to do with a person's spirituality. To say 2 Nephi 30:6 was altered merely for clarification and had nothing to do with skin color is without merit. It was a false prophecy, nothing more, nothing less.
    The LDS church out to be ashamed. Members of the LDS church must repent and leave this church that has such a strong hold on them, and come to the real Jesus of the Bible.]]>
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    921 va2ak@msn.com 66.255.12.210 2005-10-27 15:41:27 2005-10-27 20:41:27 1 0 0 922 va2ak@msn.com 66.255.12.210 2005-10-27 15:42:58 2005-10-27 20:42:58 1 0 0 923 va2ak@msn.com 66.255.12.210 2005-10-27 15:55:36 2005-10-27 20:55:36 1 0 0 925 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-27 16:17:10 2005-10-27 21:17:10 1 0 2 935 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-28 09:28:50 2005-10-28 14:28:50 1 0 4 936 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-28 09:58:15 2005-10-28 14:58:15 This is laughable since it was the catholic church that compiled the scriptures into the bible you condemn by the catholic church. I do not agree. The Roman Cahtolic Church (RCC) has propogated their own NT Greek texts, Codex Vaticanus and Codex Sinaiticus, and have their own translations, (i.e. New American Bible, New Jerusalem Bible, Douay-Rheims, etc.), but these are not the only options. The Bible I use, the King James, is from the received text, or Textus Receptus, and has been preserved apart from the RCC. In fact, the RCC persecuted and tortured many people for using that text. But that's for another discussion. The point of this thread is to highlight deceptive practices of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Arguing textual criticism is outside of that scope, though a worthy topic. The Bible I use is not a RCC Bible, nor do I recommend any RCC Bible to anyone. You wrote:
    WHat churches were around after christ and the apostles were killed? Do you really not have any clue as to the history of how the bible came about?
    Answer: Christ's true church! The RCC did not start until Constantine. Christ's Church existed before that and continued alongside the RCC. The Reformation did not start with Martin Luther. There has been a True Church made up of believers in Jesus who were saved by grace alone through faith alone in Christ alone long before Martin Luther, before John Calvin, and beforethe Emporer Constantine. Remember, Jesus said that He would build His church, "and the and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it." (Matthew 16:18) As I've pointed out before, this verse does NOT say: "and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it, except between AD 100 and AD 1830." Jesus also commissioned his church and gave them authority here: "Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen." (Matthew 28:19-20) This does NOT say: "lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world, except between AD 100 and AD 1830." So the answer to your question: "WHat churches were around after christ and the apostles were killed?" The answer is: the Biblical Church, as promised by Jesus Himself and recorded in the Bible. This is not the Roman Catholic Church. You wrote:
    You may have heard of the council of Nicea in the 320AD range in which many of your beliefs were voted on…..by whom else….catholic priests and monks.
    The Nicene Creed was not drafted to create Christianity. It is more correctly thought of this way: Imagine a small club made up of close friends. There's a secret handshake, a secret code, a secret password, et cetera. Everyone is of like mind and agreement, and there is very good communication among the group. But then imagine they decide to open membership to everyone. As a result, more and more people join, unconcerned with the integrity of the original handshake, the original code, et cetera. Very soon, the club is in serious danger of changing forever into something unlike what it started. The answer is to get together the ones who are from the original group, or as close as possible, and have them study the original intentions of the founders, writing down clearly a short creed so that the club can go back to the original form. This analogy is not a bad one to explain the purpose for the Nicene Creed. The Christian church was becoming splintered with its rapid growth due to its legalization. Walter Martin says it this way:
    The Gnostic heresy, for instance, (which permeated Christendom in the lifetime of the apostles) drew strong condemnation in Paul's Epistle to the Colossians and John's First Epistle. Denying the deity of Christ, the Gnostics taught that He was inferior in nature to the Father, a type of super-angel or impersonal emanation from God. Following the Gnostics came such speculative theologians as Origen, Lucian of Antioch, Paul of Samosota, Sabellius, and Arius of Alexandria. All of these propagated un-biblical views of the Trinity and of the divinity of our Lord. But perhaps the most crucial test of Christian doctrine in the early church was the 'Arian heresy.' It was this heresy which stimulated the crystallization of thought regarding both the Trinity and the deity of Christ. The climax was reached at the famous Council of Nicea (325 A.D.). There, backed by laborious study of both Testaments, Athanasius and Paul (Bishop of Alexandria)... drafted the famed Nicene Creed and shortly afterward the Athanasian Creed. Thus the church recognized what the apostles and prophets had always taught - that the Messiah shares the nature of God, as does the Holy Spirit. Martin, Walter, Essential Christianity, Regal Books, Ventura, California, 1962, p. 26, emphasis mine
    In short, Nicea merely put into words what was already known to be true. Mike, you wrote:
    As the years went on scribs translated over and over the scriptures into english versions…..by whom? Catholic priests and monks.
    God promised to supernaturally preserve His manuscripts, and I believe Him at His word. Though there may have been some altering by scribes, the Bible we have today is not from that line. Let's say that some anti-Mormons changed the Book of Mormon, that would not make the real BofM at BYU suspect. You would say, "Hey, these people may have their own changed version, but I'm sticking to mine." It's the same thing here. That's why I do not use any Bible derived from Codex Vaticanus or Codex Sinaiticus, nor do I endorse the New American Bible, New Jerusalem Bible, Douay-Rheims, et cetera. Mike, you wrote:
    As time went on…Martin Luther and others saw many things taught in Christs original church that were not in the catholic church, hence a break off or a branch…..many others over time folloew suit.
    Praise God for the Reformation! But as stated earlier, the Reformation did not re-establish Christ's Church. It merely brought into the mainstream what had been going on alongside and apart from the Catholic Church for years. Groups like the Waldenses, Anabaptists, and more had died at the hands of the RCC for teaching salvation by grace alone by faith alone on Christ alone years and years before Martin Luther ever nailed his thesis to the door in Wittenberg. Remember, the Bible teaches at places like Matthew 16:18 and Matthew 28:19-20 that Christ's Church would always exist and not apostatize. You wrote:
    Funny the comment you make has all of your core beliefs coming from the organiztion you condemn.
    This shows a misunderstanding of church history on your part. Biblical beliefs do not come from the RCC. They come from the Bible, and many men and women have died at the hands of the RCC defending those truths.]]>
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    937 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-28 10:26:23 2005-10-28 15:26:23 I believe there are over 20,000 to 30,000 different christian organizations in the world today…..all of which have the bible….not the same bible, but a bible…..they take that bible and I really dont’t believe they all believe the exact same thing. So, again, please tell me why having all these different versions of the bible in which none of these organiztions totally agree on the same things, which one is correct? I wanted to post a separate comment just for this because this is important. Chrust's church has been around for 2,000 years, and in those 2,000 years, it has pleased God to use fallible men. Fallible men make mistakes and quarrel and disagree. So there are different denominations. Yet the overwhelming # of them agree on salvation by grace alone through faith alone because of Christ alone. Perhaps we differ on whether to sprinkle, dunk, or pour. And many of the denominations are due to geography. Before email and BLOGS, it was hard for the church in England to communicate with the church in the Netherlands, or Israel. So it's natural that there would be some diversity due to not communicating with one another. But let's look at the Mormons. You've been around a mere 175 years or so, and you've already got many splinter groups yourselves, and you have an infallible prophet to guide you! There is the "Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints" in Utah, which believed that Brigham Young was the rightful successor to Joseph Smith. As you know, their website is: http://lds.org/ There is the "Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ," also known as "The Community of Christ" in Missouri, which believed that Joseph Smith's son was the rightful successor to Joseph Smith. Their website is found at: http://www.cofchrist.org/ There is the "Church of Christ (Temple Lot)" which is the only Mormon denomination that actually owns the property where Joseph Smith falsely prophesied that a temple would be built in his generation. Their website is: http://www.churchofchrist-tl.org/ There is the "Remnant Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints" in Missouri. Members of the Remnant Church believe in the doctrine of Lineal Succession. The Prophet of the Remnant Church, President Frederick Niels Larsen, is a direct descendent of Joseph Smith Junior. Their website is: http://www.theremnantchurch.com/ There is the "Church of Jesus Christ (Bickertonite)" which believes that Sidney Rigdon, Joseph Smith's "right-hand-man" was the rightful successor to Joseph Smith. Their website is: http://www.thechurchofjesuschrist.com/ There is the "Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints", also known as the "Strangite church" which believes that James J. Strang was the rightful successor to Joseph Smith. Their website is at: http://www.strangite.org/ There is the "Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints", which disagrees with the great accomodation and still practice plural marriages today. There is the "True & Living Church of Jesus Christ of Saints of the Last Days" started by James D. Harmston. Their website is: http://www.helpingmormons.org/TLC_Manti/index.html There is the "Latter-day Church of Christ" or "Kingston Clan," whith broke from Brigham Young's flavor of Mormonism in 1876. All these splits in under 200 years. I bet Christ's Church didn't have all these by 200 AD. If the Lord should tarry, I wonder how many Mormon denominations there will be in 1,800 years! Why should I believe that your particular Mormon denomination is the right one? Beause you have a prophet? They all do! Because you have a "burning in your bosom?" They all do! Because you're the largest of them all? The RCC is larger than you - perhaps you should be Catholic. The Mormon church has splits for the same reason that Christ's true church has splits - it's headed on earth by fallible sinful people. At least we don't claim we have infallible prophets heading us. Jim Spencer writes about his thoughts when he learned about these splinter groups:
    Gradually it began to dawn on me that all four parts of a typical Mormon testimony could be recited by any one of these groups. All believed Joseph Smith was a prophet, that the Book of Mormon was the Word of God, that they belonged to the Restored Church, and that a prophet was the head of the Church today. So in reality, there was one main question up for discussion: Who was the prophet today? And, working backwards: Who had been the rightful successor to Joseph Smith? I was beginning to see that my Utah Church could not base its claim to authenticity solely on either Joseph Smith or the Book of Mormon. They were obliged to prove that theirs actually was the Church Joseph founded, and that Brigham Young was Joseph Smith’s rightful successor. Jim Spencer, Beyond Mormonism: An Elder's Story, You can read this book online for FREE at: http://www.beyondmormonism.com/
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    938 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-28 10:40:07 2005-10-28 15:40:07 You are very judgemental and condemning…..just remember the way you judge others you will be judged yourself. Mike, if I were to say, "Scott Peterson killed his wife and he should be ashamed of himself," I am not judging. Scott Peterson was found guilty by a court of law and jury of his peers. I'd merely be reporting what the verdict was. I'd be repeating the judgement that was already made. In the same way, as Christians, we are called upon to preach the gospel, and part of that is reporting what the Righteous Judge, God Himself, has already judged to be so. When I say that those who reject the gospel must repent and leave their idolatry, I am not judging. I am merely repeating the judgement of the Righteous Judge. I would think you'd understand that principle since the Mormon Church also tells people they must repent and change.]]> 1 0 4 939 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-28 10:54:17 2005-10-28 15:54:17 Also, I appreciate how the first few questions you ask, I provide answers, you then go into a rant and start pulling up more questions that “supposedly disprove” the church. Typical born again tactics of not discussing but condemning and clogging the issues with so many other “contadictions.” Mike, I think we're reading a different BLOG. The great majority of the questions I have been "pulling up" are questions I already asked at the beginning and have been re-stating because there has been no answers. Similarly, Doug has been asking over and over again about authority. We're not bringing up new questions, but asking the same ones that have not been getting an answer. As I said in comment #33:
    Beware of any salesman who won’t tell you what he’s selling up front. What do you want to know about what the Bible teaches? I’ll tell you anything up front.
    I still have not received an answer to how Joseph Smith could be a true prophet since he was wrong so many times. I still have not received an answer to how the Mormon Church can say they believe the Bible when they reject so many fundamental Biblical teachings, like: there is one God, He was always God, no one else gets to be God, et cetera. I am not bringing up new questions, but re-asking the same ones that have not been answered. If anything, I have been patiently answering all the objections you've been raising, including:
    • history of the Bible
    • denominations
    • the prophet Jonah
    • etc.
    I have been doing this because, as a Christian, I am called upon to patiently help people find the true faith.
    And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth; And that they may recover themselves out of the snare of the devil, who are taken captive by him at his will. (2 Timothy 2:24-26)
    As I said in comment #13:
    There is no greater way to help someone lovingly than to lead them into the truth. "How beautiful are the feet of them that preach the gospel of peace, and bring glad tidings of good things!" (Romans 10:15)
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    940 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-28 11:01:12 2005-10-28 16:01:12 how about having a civil dicussion of ideas and beliefs with out you telling me I am dishonest just because I don’t agree or believe the same way you do. I never called anyone dishonest for not believing like I do. I called people dishonest for:
    • saying they believe the Bible, but then saying that the Bible is full of mistakes and contradictions and bad translations
    I called people dishonest for:
    • saying they believe God is eternal, but upon closer scrutiny discovering that what they mean is that he's been god longer than anyone else
    I called people dishonest for:
    • saying they believe in salvation by grace, but what they mean is that your resurrection is by grace, but your exaltation is by works
    This whole thread was started to display the deceptive tactics of the Mormon missionaries, not because they disagree with us, but because they intentionally use words and tactics to deceive. I've highlighted them and Ben, Mike, and others have been exposed doing the same thing.]]>
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    1118 jdodsbrown@yahoo.co.uk 62.121.30.82 2005-11-05 23:13:45 2005-11-06 04:13:45 1 0 0 1876 crane_457@hotmail.com 67.172.254.205 2006-03-20 19:33:39 2006-03-21 00:33:39 1 0 0 1877 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-03-20 19:51:16 2006-03-21 00:51:16 39Search the scriptures; for in them ye think ye have eternal life: and they are they which testify of me. (John 5:39) You will find love. Love first and foremost of truth, defined by God in Scripture. It's not loving---nor was it the example of Christ---to allow people to be deceived by false teachers, and that exactly defines Mormonism.]]> 1 0 2 1841 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2006-03-02 10:27:00 2006-03-02 15:27:00 "Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world" (1 John 4:1). The same Apostle said:
    "I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth" (3 John 4).
    That is exactly what we are after: the truth. It is a joyful thing to learn, know, and follow the truth. The Apostle Paul no doubt was accused of being intolerant in his day, else he would not have said to the Galatian church:
    "Am I therefore become your enemy, because I tell you the truth?" (Galatians 4:16).
    The fact is that we are commanded in scripture to "contend for the faith" (Jude 3).
    "Beloved, when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints. For there are certain men crept in unawares, who were before of old ordained to this condemnation, ungodly men, turning the grace of our God into lasciviousness, and denying the only Lord God, and our Lord Jesus Christ" (Jude 3-4).
    The context shows that the reason we must "contend for the faith" is because of false teachers! It was not unloving or divisive of Paul to lovingly point out the errors of the Galatian church, or the Pagans at Mars Hill, or for Jesus to show the errors of the Pharisees. The loving thing is to correct/warn/rebuke. I hope that helps. God bless you!]]>
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    David's Grace http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=351 Tue, 11 Oct 2005 03:02:53 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=351 I brought one home to surprise the kids. Nichelle went to plug it in, and asked, is this supposed to be in two pieces? Despite the globes' being packaged in heavy styrofoam, I managed to pick one that was broken. Fortunately for us, Wal*Mart is only a few minutes away, although I was glad I brought a book with me while waiting in the customer service line. I returned with a new plasma globe, and the kids loved it. (See the photo above.) The next day, I returned home from work to learn that the new plasma globe had been broken. Isaac apparently left it on the floor, and later forgot it was there and damaged it. So, justly, Isaac had to pay to replace the plasma globe. However, David stepped in, and for reasons of his own, demonstrated grace. He said, "I have more money than Isaac,* so I want to pay for the new plasma globe." I haven't purchased the new globe yet. I am thinking that a $20 model which is much larger would be better, but I am amazed by the grace David showed, especially in an issue involving money, which he cares quite a bit about. It's wonderful to see one's children behaving unselfishly. Now, if they would only default to unselfish behavior ...
    *This is a statistical anomoly. David never has more money than Isaac. ]]>
    351 2005-10-10 22:02:53 2005-10-11 03:02:53 open open davids-grace publish 0 0 post 0 702 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-10-11 04:22:25 2005-10-11 09:22:25 let me tell you about MY CHILDREN parents, but this reminds me of a story about Juliana, which you can read by clicking here.]]> 1 0 0 701 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-10-11 04:20:38 2005-10-11 09:20:38 1 0 0 707 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.179.53 2005-10-11 18:35:36 2005-10-11 23:35:36 1 0 0 708 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-11 19:04:29 2005-10-12 00:04:29 flood books. What a great term!]]> 1 0 2
    Horchata de Arroz http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=353 Wed, 12 Oct 2005 03:41:03 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=353 Nichelle made me horchata (pronounced or-CHAHT-uh) the other night, from a mix she got at Wal*Mart, of all places. I love my wife, and am thankful for the myriad ways she makes my life better. Horchata de arroz is a wonderful, refreshing, sweet soft drink made from rice, and common in Mexico. It also makes an extremely reliable litmus test for determining the authenticity of a Mexican restaurant. If the restaurant never serves horchata (or worse, doesn't even know what it is), it isn't authentic. This post at Too Many Chefs contains a recipe, and provides the history of horchata, or at least a credible theory about it. There are recipes all over the Web; here's another one. Or perhaps you'd like to try this receta (Spanish for recipe). Tasting horchata again certainly brings back memories. I sip it, and am instantly transported to northern México, where I have visited many times, or further back to my [church] bus route in Chicago---my first immersian in Latino culture. ]]> 353 2005-10-11 22:41:03 2005-10-12 03:41:03 open open horchata-de-arroz publish 0 0 post 0 715 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-10-12 04:25:47 2005-10-12 09:25:47 encherito I get at Taco Bell isn't authentic? Oy Veymos!]]> 1 0 0 Cuteness http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=354 Wed, 12 Oct 2005 02:49:18 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=354 getting past the R2-D2 phase a month ago, is now exploding with sentences and more complex thoughts, and with more new words every day than we can list.

    Every morning when one of us goes to get Naomi out of her crib (surprisingly, she hasn't climbed out of it yet), she will not even say hello, but asks for the other parent. If I go in, her greeting is, "Where's Mommy?" If Nichelle goes in, her greeting is, "Where's Daddy?" Last Sunday Nichelle and I decided to go in together to see what her reaction would be. She wouldn't say a word, not even hi.

    Today Naomi received a birthday card from Grandma Wilcox, and it contained a $5 bill. She was excited to get mail. (Nichelle sang the "Mail Time" song from Blue's Clues.) As Naomi opened the card, she saw the $5 bill, grabbed it, held it up to her face, gave it a hug, and then gave it a kiss. Yikes!

    Nichelle had fun creating---and has fun maintaining---NaNi's classic beaded hairstyle.

    As for me, I'm keeping my shotgun in good order. Those boys will be coming to the door any day now; I want to be ready.]]>
    354 2005-10-11 21:49:18 2005-10-12 02:49:18 open open cuteness publish 0 0 post 0 713 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-10-12 04:20:58 2005-10-12 09:20:58 1 0 0 724 mike_matheson@juno.com 69.132.109.152 2005-10-12 21:11:53 2005-10-13 02:11:53 1 0 0 725 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-12 21:24:03 2005-10-13 02:24:03 1 0 2 821 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-19 07:31:33 2005-10-19 12:31:33 1 0 3 1131 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-11-09 22:46:23 2005-11-10 03:46:23 1 0 2 1680 abmcacmom@aol.com 205.188.117.6 2006-01-20 10:35:08 2006-01-20 15:35:08 1 0 0 1717 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.179.149 2006-01-22 17:22:51 2006-01-22 22:22:51 1 0 0 1726 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-23 10:25:50 2006-01-23 15:25:50 much better than a shotgun! Sign us up on the "to borrow" list. Hmm. Jen and Phil have six children. You weren't implying this might be needed in another context, were you?]]> 1 0 2 1739 abmcacmom@aol.com 152.163.101.9 2006-01-24 13:24:47 2006-01-24 18:24:47 1 0 0
    Halo: Naomi, Dad, Isaac, and Peter Jackson http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=355 Wed, 12 Oct 2005 03:27:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=355 Naomi: Naomi has learned her first video game name. It is Halo! Give it a listen in .mp3 format: naomi_halo.mp3. Dad: Since I purchased John's Xbox at the beginning of summer, we've played countless rounds of Halo 2 in split screen mode. The problem: I can almost never beat David (age 6), and can never beat Isaac (age 10). :: sigh :: Peter Jackson / Isaac: Peter Jackson, amazing director of The Lord of the Rings films, has been tapped to run (as executive producer) the Halo movie, coming out in mid-2007. The photo on the left shows how Isaac reacted to the news that Peter Jackson would be involved with the upcoming Halo movie. If anyone can pull off a successful video-game-to-movie production, it's Peter Jackson. (Arguably the only game-to-movie film to date that even bears watching is Final Fantasy: The Spirits Within.)
    Microsoft, film studios tap Jackson for 'Halo' By Lisa Baertlein LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - The Oscar-winning creative team behind the "The Lord of the Rings" films, including director Peter Jackson, has been named to run the production of the upcoming film based on Microsoft Corp.'s (MSFT.O: Quote, Profile, Research) blockbuster "Halo" video game, the company said on Tuesday. Jackson and his wife, Fran Walsh, will serve as the executive producers for "Halo," which is targeted for worldwide release in mid-2007 by Universal Pictures and Twentieth Century Fox film studios. Universal will oversee the film's production and domestic distribution. Fox will handle international distribution. "Halo" will be shot in Wellington, New Zealand, and will use Jackson's production and post-production facilities there. "I'm a huge fan of the game and look forward to helping it come alive on the cinema screen," Jackson said in a statement. The executive producers will collaborate with Universal, Fox and Microsoft's Bungie Studios, which created the game. "Halo," the best-selling franchise for Microsoft's Xbox game console, follows the adventures of the futuristic super-soldier "Master Chief" as he battles an alien onslaught. Screenwriter and novelist Alex Garland wrote the original feature film adaptation of Halo. A director will be named in coming weeks, but the cast has yet to be announced.

    And there's another article at 1Up: http://www.1up.com/do/newsStory?cId=3144311.

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    355 2005-10-11 22:27:16 2005-10-12 03:27:16 open open halo-naomi-dad-and-peter-jackson publish 0 0 post 0 714 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-10-12 04:23:16 2005-10-12 09:23:16 The Hobbit?]]> 1 0 0 728 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-13 15:21:07 2005-10-13 20:21:07 http://film.guardian.co.uk/News_Story/Guardian/0,4029,1439974,00.html.]]> 1 0 2 1030 phil@convergenesis.com 69.164.99.77 2005-10-31 15:55:30 2005-10-31 20:55:30 1 0 0
    Hi, Slacker! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=359 Wed, 19 Oct 2005 15:36:21 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=359 Give it a listen: naomi_hi_slacker.mp3. After a day, her pronunciation became even better: Give it a listen: naomi_hi_slacker_2.mp3. Naomi even made up her own song using her new favorite word:

    (Click here, or right-click and save if the above video won't play, or you can view it on Google Video.)
    Google Video is now including embedding code. Here it is below:
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    359 2005-10-19 10:36:21 2005-10-19 15:36:21 open open hi-slacker publish 0 0 post 0 859 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-24 18:50:08 2005-10-24 23:50:08 1 0 2 822 mike_matheson@juno.com 69.132.109.152 2005-10-19 16:07:44 2005-10-19 21:07:44 1 0 0 828 MJCase4@aol.com 141.154.243.81 2005-10-20 11:24:00 2005-10-20 16:24:00 1 0 0 829 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-20 13:25:22 2005-10-20 18:25:22 Red Penguin Production!]]> 1 0 4 830 GLincoln@aol.com 152.163.100.68 2005-10-20 14:06:28 2005-10-20 19:06:28 1 0 0 849 trish@inr.net 68.232.199.106 2005-10-23 16:15:48 2005-10-23 21:15:48 1 0 0 858 beepon2@aol.com http://www.spatulatta.com 24.12.193.95 2005-10-24 16:37:29 2005-10-24 21:37:29 1 0 0 864 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-25 06:57:34 2005-10-25 11:57:34 1 0 3 872 beepon2@aol.com http://www.spatulatta.com 24.12.193.95 2005-10-25 13:56:47 2005-10-25 18:56:47 1 0 0 878 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-26 07:00:24 2005-10-26 12:00:24 1 0 3 902 carpenterdlc@yahoo.com 69.95.32.38 2005-10-27 10:18:52 2005-10-27 15:18:52 1 0 0 941 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-28 12:30:03 2005-10-28 17:30:03 Neener, as in, "Neener, neener, neener!" That's one sarcastic kid we're raising.]]> 1 0 2 1350 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-18 11:54:46 2005-11-18 16:54:46 Google Video: View it here]]> 1 0 2 1393 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-28 15:01:18 2005-11-28 20:01:18 weasel over our Thanksgiving break. She's soooooo cute.]]> 1 0 2 1402 mark@sohmer.net http://www.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-12-01 16:35:53 2005-12-01 21:35:53 http://blog.sohmer.net.]]> 1 0 0
    The Human You Have Reached, Doug Wilcox, Is Not In Service---Civ IV Is on the Way Here http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=361 Mon, 24 Oct 2005 18:57:30 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=361 It's happening ... The long-awaited Civilization IV is about to hit store shelves, and a special edition is available for pre-order now, probably shipping tomorrow. Civilization IV is the latest in the wildly popular series of games from Sid Meier and Firaxis Games. GameStop has the pre-order version with free 3-day shipping, using coupon code "CIV4." I have played untold hours of Alpha Centauri and Civlization III. Few game experiences are more enriching than nurturing a tiny colony into a massive, multicontinental empire---and what fun along the way! Research technology, explore, build wonders, wage war, handle diplomatic agreements, conduct espionage, or even build a spaceship to get to Alpha Centauri (my personally favorite victory condition). Civ IV promises completely reworked, smoother gameplay, a real 3D graphics engine, and a multiplayer mode that is actually playable. Civ IV also brings back "wonder movies," which existed in Civ II and Alpha Centauri, but were not included in Civ III. Read the detailed review at IGN, and wander over to the official Civ IV Web site. Best Buy has the system requirements, which aren't excessive. Once this game arrives, little is going to be able to drag me away from my keyboard. Hmmm. This will probably be a nationwide phenomenon. I don't think it's too late to invest in Maxwell House stock. ]]> 361 2005-10-24 13:57:30 2005-10-24 18:57:30 open open the-human-you-have-reached-doug-wilcox-is-not-in-service publish 0 0 post 0 869 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-25 12:12:34 2005-10-25 17:12:34 1 0 2 876 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-25 20:21:59 2005-10-26 01:21:59 1 0 2 880 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-26 08:07:42 2005-10-26 13:07:42 UPS on Friday. Looks like the shipment to stores date was yesterday. Best Buy has the official in-store release as Thursday. Not bad! Time to start using up my accumulated vacation.]]> 1 0 2 901 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-27 07:54:57 2005-10-27 12:54:57 1 0 2 930 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-27 21:18:15 2005-10-28 02:18:15 1 0 2 942 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-28 14:55:07 2005-10-28 19:55:07 Technical Issues It looks like the mammoth release of Civ IV has created its own slew of support issues. The most obvious one, of course, was all the people who, like me, received the tech tree in French instead of English. There was is a link to the online form to get the correct one. More important might be the fact that the 2K Games Support Site seems to be blown out of the water. My videos (the opening video, including the 2K Games and Firaxis animated logos; so far everything I've seen in-game has been fine) play somewhat choppily. I had this problem with all the full-screen video in Far Cry, until I updated my nVidia video drivers; however, installing the latest drivers last night didn't help Civ IV. I did have one lockup, which I suspect was sound driver related. I decreased my graphics settings to medium to try to speed up what seemed a bit sluggish, and never had another lockup, so I'm not sure about how big a problem this is. Other users have had problems with ATI graphics cards, although there are a couple of fixes on the Civ IV support site now for that. It's odd that these weren't detected in beta. My friend Phil noticed that running the Trillian chat client at the same time as launching Civ IV caused his game to report that the movies were not installed correctly.]]> 1 0 2 1031 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-31 16:02:09 2005-10-31 21:02:09 SMAC below refers to "Sid Meier's Alpha Centauri," which came out about seven years ago.) I'm still absorbing the differences in where things are on the menus and in units and buildings (such as a coloseum) between Civ III and Civ IV. One of the things I couldn't find until recently is the indicator for which units are stacked in the tile on which one is focused, and how to select a particular unit. (It was right in front of my face, but it wasn't big and blinking ...) Concerning stability, I haven't had a single crash in single-player mode since the first one I described above. I did have some tooltips disappear at one point when I was playing with the preferences, but these reappeared when I restarted the next time. The one consistent problem I have is the sound being intermittent on movies. There's also an error in the manual: There is supposed to be a Movies menu off of the Advanced menu, but it isn't there. Also, my friend Phil found that running the Trillian chat software at the same time as the game caused it to report erroneously that the movies had not been installed properly. I will say, based on the reviews I've seen at Amazon, that Firaxis did far too little beta testing. They do have a good history of getting patches out quickly, but there is no excuse for some of the problems players have had. In addition, the 2k Games support site is completely useless, having no information of any kind about Civ IV, at least as of today. (Note, this is still true half a week after the release. Firaxis should have stuck with Atari.) My friend Phil and I tried the multiplayer game in simultaneous turn mode. It rocks! The biggest problems were creating a GameSpy account (the one I already had wouldn't work for some reason) and trying to find the game he hosted. The list of games is nearly unusable; it keeps rewriting itself so quickly that it is nigh-unto-impossible to try to join a specific game. I also had several crash-to-the-desktop failures when playing with the multiplayer setup screens. Once in the multiplayer game, though, everything was completely smooth, with no crashes. Here are some of the big improvements over Civ III: Graphics: I must say the graphics are hard to get used to, because they are so busy. Now that I've played the game for a while, it's becoming a little more easy to read the display and terrain. There is a great feature one can toggle to show resources in little floating circles, which makes reading the map easier, especially in comparison to the puzzle of finding the 5-pixel wide coal resource on a huge map in Civ III. Zooming in on the detailed images is really cool, especially with the animations in them. There are animated animals, windmills, mine cars, etc. Dynamically adjusting the zoom level with the mouse wheel is extremely beneficial over the course of a turn. I'm still trying to figure out what my "preferred" scope is. The "globe" view overtaxes my PC when at its maximum settings. Thankfully, one can "dumb down" the globe view without affecting the other graphics settings. The game "felt" sluggish, so I went to medium on the graphics complexity settings, but I have since reverted back to high. Then, after another night's play, I waffled on the graphics again. Globe view gets set to Low, effects to Medium, and general settings to High. It seems to be much smoother now. On my system, which is good but not amazing, scrolling and zooming was slightly choppy, but not severely so, except toward the end of my current game when the globe view was crammed full of information. Everything else is wonderful. Sound: Zooming in reminded me of one of my favorite features. It's not particularly useful, but it is extremely cool: When you zoom in on a city, the game provides the background soundscape that applies to what that city is doing at the time. It might be the sounds of traffic and industry, or (when engaged in War with a city protected by Infantry) the Marine song "From the Halls of Montezuma," (which I found amusing because I was at war with the Aztecs at the time). Music: The game music is gorgeous. The theme music that accompanies each leader on the diplomacy screen is also excellent. I love to talk to Queen Isabella of Spain, just because I enjoy her theme, which is based on the Flamenco tune Malagueña. The opening music appears to be from a South African choir, something like what was heard in Disney's abhorrent The Lion King. Espionage: The espionage in Civ III really stunk. Unless you had zillions of dollars in your treasury, it was a complete waste of time. I tended never to use it, except for a rare Examine City order, because I always spent most of my money on research, and couldn't afford thousands of gold to execute a mission. The espionage model in Civ IV, though, is similar to SMAC, although a bit improved. Spies are invisible units that can destroy production queues, reveal other spies, or get information on a city. Surprisingly, I didn't see options for Steal Tech or Use Propaganda. Diplomacy: I spent my last Civ III game wondering just why every Civ in the world hated me, other than the fact that I had declared war, once I was strong enough, on one Civ that had repeatedly broken treaties and invaded me. In Civ IV, hovering over each leader's image in the diplomacy screen will show what pluses and minuses apply to the leader's diplomatic stance. This is very helpful, especially as I felt my diplomatic game was pathetic in Civ III, and I hadn't a clue about how to improve it. There are also many more options for diplomacy, and the displays have been reworked to show what deals are possible but not going to happen, which is a time-saver when haggling for technology or other deals. The diplomacy also seems more reasonable. The other Civs seemed to be more likely to offer fair resource trades instead of imbalanced ones: I wasn't being asked to trade Fission and Space Flight technologies for Pottery! Information: The mouseover information is perhaps the biggest improvement to the game. I'm sure there were Civ players who memorized every combat or defense bonus that every unit got, but actually having them show up on the display or easily accessed is awesome. On the flip side, there are some obvious Civpedia links in some screens that ought to exist but don't, and the icon-only Civpedia screens can be tricky to navigate at first. I'm still learning where some of the on-screen information is located, especially in the very-different city view. Religion: Those who are familiar with human history might have noticed that religion plays a rather important role in it. For the first time, religion (other than as a technology) is modeled into Civilization. There are seven religions, and none of them has an advantage over another one, but they affect how foreign Civs feel about you, how easily cities might be turned in cultural conversion, how quickly resistance to occupation subsides, and they also provide commerce and happiness. Missionaries can be created to spread religion to other cities. It's about time! (Oddly, I've lost the ability to produce missionaries. There must be something in the tech tree I overlooked.) Combat: The unit promotions and ability-specific upgrades are great. Going to use that unit for city defense? Use a barracks and give him a 20% city defense upgrade at the start. Units gain other promotions via combat experience. Combat animations themselves are automatically zoomed to (although one can turn this off by preference), and are worth viewing. In high detail settings, each unit is represented, when at full strength, by three characters (three tanks, three longbowmen, etc.), and during battles as the whole unit takes damage, the individual characters are killed or destroyed. I found myself holding my breath as my riflemen attack cities defended by longbowman (which have a high city defense bonus, in addition to bonuses from city or cultural defense). Other Miscellaney: Wonder movies were something I looked forward to, but they are a bit underwhelming. The movies are virtually always lovely-but-similar CGI animations of the wonder being rendered and then built. They are interesting, but nothing like the rewarding and sometimes entertaining wonder movies of SMAC. A couple of them come close, though: The Statue of Liberty and Space Elevator are very cool. One of the biggest improvements in streamlining is optional camera following for friends and enemies. It allows one not to require the camera to follow every visible movement of every unit. If I send one of my units to a 14-move destination, as long as I don't run into another unit along the way, I won't have to watch the unit move until it gets to that destination. (In my last Civ III game, about 60% of my late-game turn time was spent watching my workers move around the map while they automatically cleared pollution.) The one necessary change from the default settings is to Show Enemy Movement, otherwise fighting a war becomes needlessly treacherous. Roads are another improvement. They took away the commerce bonus for roads, so they work the way one would expect: Use them to connect cities, transport resources, and facilitate movement, but it isn't necessary to build them on every tile. Railroads greatly facilitate movement, but they no longer consume the unrealistic zero movement points. The high number of "should-have-been-fixed-in-beta" bugs and the worthless technical support are my only reservations about the game. Thankfully, my own installation works almost flawlessly. It takes some getting used to due to reorganization of information, but Civ IV is truly a masterpiece.]]> 1 0 2 1096 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.158.53 2005-11-02 13:17:28 2005-11-02 18:17:28 1 0 0 1099 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-02 14:15:47 2005-11-02 19:15:47 Empire Earth II, which got very high ratings in PC Gamer, to consider. I have a demo of that one that I haven't tried yet, but we consider Empire Earth to be one of the best RTS (real time stragegy) games ever written. Another good RTS game is Rise of Nations. It's similar to Empire Earth in many respects, but has some nice twists, including a Risk-style campaign mode, where each battle is resolved on small map with special objectives. And we're still playing StarCraft, even though it came out in 1998. The best Myst-type game I ever played was Rama, based on the novel by Arthur C. Clark. It included puzzles for smart people that fit the game world. One of them was doing arithmetic in base-8 and base-3, if I remember correctly. It's still available used, although it won't run on Windows XP.]]> 1 0 2 1112 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-03 15:54:21 2005-11-03 20:54:21 1 0 2 1121 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-11-06 22:56:02 2005-11-07 03:56:02 1 0 2 1123 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-08 09:40:18 2005-11-08 14:40:18 Problems I've Experienced with Civ IV: Thankfully, for the most part, my Civ IV has run pretty well. Here are the issues I've had:
    1. Graphics settings getting lost. I had to see this several times before I became convinced I was not hallucinating. The graphics settings often don't seem to stick. Last night I fired up the game and everything was really, choppy. I looked at the graphics settings, and discovered instead of being set to High (detail), Medium (effects), and Low (globe detail), I was at High, High, and Medium. I switched to High, Medium, and Low, applied the settings, and went back into the Graphics menu, only to discover the settings had changed to High, High, Low. The second time things "stuck."

    2. Options menus do not have rollovers. There is no rollover text for many of the menu options. This is especially difficult for things like the graphics menus, where the selections are not self-explanatory. (For example, dumbing down the first graphics menu removes the 2- or 3-component units from displays, so battles and visible units do not get the multiple units to indicate strength feature.)

    3. Choppy video playback. My video and sound drivers are up-to-the-minute, and my system meets or exceeds the recommended requirements. Still, most of the wonder movies and all of the full-screen video sound stutters.

    4. Instability/Crashes. I haven't had too many crashes to the desktop, but they have occurred, usually after Civ IV shows an abnormally large amount of disk access/virtual memory swapping. I've even had Windows adjust my virtual memory allocation due to Civ IV's erroneous consumption. When crashes do occur, the Windows Event Log shows several errors, but the human translations of the error codes have not been provided by the application (Civ IV).

    5. Unpreserved settings. Previous editions of Civ and SMAC have remembered settings chosen from the last setup of a game of a similar type. In other words, if I start another hot seat game, I wouldn't have to check over every one of the game parameters to see if it was like the last game I played. Another solution to this would be the ability to save options sets (something Halo 2 should also allow).

    None of these problems has prevented me from enjoying the game---it's still everything I hoped it would be---but the lack of polish is a bit disappointing.]]>
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    1367 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-21 10:43:28 2005-11-21 15:43:28 http://www.2kgames.com/civ4/firaxis_note_01.htm
    To those of you having problems, thanks for your patience. Our guys were working around the clock with your detailed feedback to produce this patch. For those of you having no problems, it's only going to get better. =)
    At least they're trying. However, the prevalence of these issues is still, in my opinion, evidence that more should have been done before the release date. Civ IV would be great on XBox 360 ...]]>
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    1392 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-28 14:37:35 2005-11-28 19:37:35 Far Cry runs so well on my system, Civ IV ought to! Once again there's missing tooltips about what game options actually do. The needed links to CivPedia entries when a building or project is complete are still not there. And, I still haven't received my English tech tree poster. And the CivIV Web site and the 2k Games Web site do not have the latest information about the patch. Overall, though, the game experience is improving. (Then again, Westwood would still be in business if they had stolen a few Blizzard developers to get their load times, pathing, networking, and AI under control. Firaxis/2K Games might take a lesson from the demise of Westwood---their games were amazingly fun to play, but they still ran like crap, even on hardware that would run a Corel application quickly.)]]> 1 0 2 1397 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-29 11:42:38 2005-11-29 16:42:38 2K Games Civ IV Patch 1.0.9]]> 1 0 2 1407 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-02 11:33:58 2005-12-02 16:33:58 1 0 2 1452 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-12 17:51:52 2005-12-12 22:51:52 1 0 2 1779 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-02-09 17:28:29 2006-02-09 22:28:29 1 0 2 1780 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.149.66 2006-02-09 18:12:40 2006-02-09 23:12:40 1 0 0 1785 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-02-10 16:46:10 2006-02-10 21:46:10 PC Gamer. Firaxis' earlier releases have been reasonably unbuggy, though, so it was a brand I trusted. As for preordering the game because I just couldn't wait ... well, that's something every Civ fan understands. "Just ... one ... more ... turn ..."]]> 1 0 2
    One Word Descriptions: A Conversation with My Wife http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=362 Tue, 25 Oct 2005 14:31:08 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=362 Doug: So, how would you describe me in one word? Doug: After elminating the sarcastic response, that is. Nichelle: Hmm Nichelle: Several come to mind, but I would have to say, "determined." Doug: That's just stubborn with a polite twist. Nichelle: Wow, you caught that really fast! Doug: Weaselette. Proverbs 21:9: "It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house."]]> 362 2005-10-25 09:31:08 2005-10-25 14:31:08 open open one-word-descriptions-a-conversation-with-my-wife publish 0 0 post 0 866 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-10-25 09:39:11 2005-10-25 14:39:11 already been established]]> 1 0 4 867 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-25 10:06:41 2005-10-25 15:06:41 beautiful. There is a vast depth to the word.]]> 1 0 2 875 mike_matheson@juno.com 69.132.109.152 2005-10-25 19:15:56 2005-10-26 00:15:56 1 0 0 879 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-26 08:00:51 2005-10-26 13:00:51 Lovely---that's good, too.]]> 1 0 2 893 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-26 14:39:39 2005-10-26 19:39:39 1 0 3 894 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-10-26 14:43:51 2005-10-26 19:43:51 1 0 2 1028 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-10-31 08:03:37 2005-10-31 13:03:37 1 0 3 1065 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-01 10:00:47 2005-11-01 15:00:47 the look, and it struck me that she was trying to direct me to put the cereal box back in the pantry. Women's speech can be so enigmatic at times!]]> 1 0 2 1068 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-11-01 11:33:36 2005-11-01 16:33:36 the look does work wonders. LOL]]> 1 0 3 1097 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.158.53 2005-11-02 13:22:39 2005-11-02 18:22:39 1 0 0 1098 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-02 13:56:56 2005-11-02 18:56:56 classy last week. When my dentist first met Nichelle (I worked in the office across from his), he stopped by and asked, "Where did you meet her?" "Church," was my answer. "She's too classy for you!" he observed. One of the external things that attracted me to Nichelle is that she could wear denim and make it look fancy.]]> 1 0 2 1113 xine@limey.net 66.92.76.84 2005-11-03 20:16:53 2005-11-04 01:16:53 1 0 0 Another Visit from Tish Hinojosa http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=364 Sun, 06 Nov 2005 05:11:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=364 Friday night we headed down to the University of Hartford's Wilde Auditorium to hear Tish Hinojosa---a Mexican-American folk singer whose voice I can only describe as hauntingly beautiful. (This description got me in trouble a few years ago when Nichelle failed to notice the word voice in what I had written.) Tish was accompanied, as previously, by the extremely talented guitarist/mandolin player Marvin Dykhuis. This is the fourth time Nichelle, NaNi, and I have had the pleasure of hearing Tish's gorgeous music live, and the third for the rest of the kids. (Naomi's first experience was several months before she was born.) We were a little concerned about taking Naomi. Last year she spent part of the concert in the lobby screaming. To our delight, NaNi was immediately enchanted by the singing and the guitars, and remained enthralled for the entire program. The auditorium was over half full, but it's a venue that feels delightfully cozy. The audience clearly adored Tish, several times breaking into applause at the beginning of a song. My favorite occurrence was the applause and cheers that broke out Tish sang the line "Our forefathers crossed the muddy line," in "By the Rio Grande." Tish interacted often with the audience, taking requests, and (as is typical of her) paying extra attention to the children she noticed. After croaking on a line at the end of La Llorona (due to having a cold), she joked that the weeping woman had died, but the cold did not seem to affect her singing after that. Last year David got special attention because he was wearing my sombrero vaquero---Tish has a thing for cowboys. This year David (age 6---the old smoothie) asked if he could wear my hat again. I found him one that was his size, but he got embarrassed and wouldn't wear it after we got in. The concert was lovely, and the time flew by. While purchasing Tish's latest CD, "A Heart Wide Open," I mentioned that "Frontejas" was probably my favorite, and that we were hoping for another all- or mostly-Spanish CD. She mentioned that she's been talking about doing another one for five years now. I keep hoping. For other fans who may be interested, here's a rundown of what Tish performed: First set:
    • Tu Que Puedes, Vuelvete (You Who Can, Return)
    • La Llorona (Weeping Woman)/Riendo El Rio Corre (Laughing River Running) medley
    • By the Rio Grande
    • Siempre Abuelita (Always Grandma)
    • Sign of Truth
    • Shotgun Ridin'**
    • The Kitchen Table**
    • Finding Paris**
    • Magnolia
    • Roses Around My Feet
    • West Side of Town
    Second set:
    • Las Golondrinas (The Sparrows---Tish was kind enough to dedicate this to Nichelle*)
    • Something in the Rain
    • Never Say Never Love Again**
    • Derechos del Corazón**
    • Something More than This**
    • Con Su Pluma en Su Mano (With His Pen in His Hand---A corrido about the life of Amerigo Paredes)
    • Donde Voy (Where I Go---This was a big hit in Korea)
    • Taos to Tennessee
    • Closer Still
    • In the Real West
    • San Antonio Romeo
    • Reloj (The Clock)
    • God's Own Open Road
    Encore:
    • Song for the Journey

    *I had written out this dedication as, "The most beautiful song I have ever heard, dedicated to the most beautiful woman I have ever known, my wife of 14 years, Nichelle"; Tish presented an introduction about the history and style of the song, and a little bit about its meaning in English, but remembered only to dedicate the song to Nichelle, rather than my longer, sentimental dedication. (This was just as well: My sappiness would not have paired well with her introduction.") **From Tish's newest album, "A Heart Wide Open."]]>
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    A Collection of Coolness http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=365 Tue, 08 Nov 2005 21:48:23 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=365 Star Wars: Weather Control: Natural Disasters: Tall Buildings: Robotics (especially for Neal Stephenson fans): Space Slide Shows: ]]> 365 2005-11-08 16:48:23 2005-11-08 21:48:23 open open a-collection-of-coolness publish 0 0 post 0 What Constitutes Accidental? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=366 Tue, 08 Nov 2005 21:57:50 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=366 nightly riots all over France, with millions of dollars of property being destroyed, many injured, and even some innocent people killed. What I can't believe is that every single news report I have heard or read refers to the deaths as accidental. Come on now! They were running from the police (and the French police, at that!), and chose to hide in an electrical substation. Get real. Meanwhile, the death of three people in Bosnia playing catch with a hand grenade is not described as accidental. ]]> 366 2005-11-08 16:57:50 2005-11-08 21:57:50 open open what-constitutes-accidental publish 0 0 post 0 The Twins Are Back: What's Wrong with Nichelle, Continued http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=367 Thu, 10 Nov 2005 03:02:25 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=367 What's Wrong with Nichelle for some background on Nichelle with the disease, and Pain for more information and discussion. (Or view all posts categorized as related to fibromyalgia.)]]> 367 2005-11-09 22:02:25 2005-11-10 03:02:25 open open the-twins-are-back publish 0 0 post 0 1132 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-11-10 06:39:57 2005-11-10 11:39:57 1 0 0 1134 MJCase4@aol.com 141.154.231.28 2005-11-10 07:16:14 2005-11-10 12:16:14 1 0 0 1135 fran_matheson@sil.org 24.199.185.242 2005-11-10 07:50:33 2005-11-10 12:50:33 1 0 0 1136 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-11-10 17:46:23 2005-11-10 22:46:23 1 0 3 1137 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-11-10 22:03:44 2005-11-11 03:03:44 Day of Dissapointment Today was an attitude adjustment day. I was working downstairs (I took the day off to do some much needed cleaning and eat up some mandatory vacation time), when I came up to get the broom and dustpan just after lunch, Nichelle had fallen asleep sitting up on the couch. I knew it was a bad sign. The rest of the day brought Nichelle exhaustion and severe fatigue, more of "the twins," dizziness, and significant swelling (enough so that I took a photograph for comparison); at dinner, she couldn't cut through a piece of bread without help. I have to confess, I was really angry for part of the day. Remembering the debilitation of her disease, part of me felt like screaming, "You gave my wife back to me! Why do that if you were only going to take her away again?" Tonight at the missions conference, though, Nichelle and I both had tears in our eyes during the sermon. Missionary Ed Vernoy was talking about how God carries us when we cannot get through things ourselves. It's the kind of saying that I normally would have found trite, but we really needed to be reminded of that. I was thinking about my own thoughts, though, and thought of many cases in the Psalms where the first cry to God is one of anguish. Psalm 22, quoted by Jesus during His crucifixion, is that way: "My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me? why art thou so far from helping me, and from the words of my roaring?" It moves on to what we would think of as a more typical prayer: "My praise shall be of thee in the great congregation." Yet the entire Psalm is a most heartfelt prayer. I'm grateful we have a God who hears not just our praise, but our complaints, and who strengthens those who call upon Him.]]> 1 0 2 1139 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.99.7 2005-11-11 06:35:57 2005-11-11 11:35:57 1 0 0 1161 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.179.142 2005-11-14 11:18:57 2005-11-14 16:18:57 1 0 0 1163 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-14 12:22:27 2005-11-14 17:22:27 me so hard, other than the fact that having Nichelle so healthy for so long was more than I ever dreamed possible, and it contrasts so sharply with what she is going through now. I can't believe the severity and the rapidity of symptom onset. I have rejoiced in the triumphs of the past few months, amazed at all Nichelle has been able to accomplish, but now my heart is heavy. I cannot bear the thought of "losing her"---of her being incapacitated---again. Naomi has been a bright spot. We were trying to find the cordless phone handset (which had been locked into "in use" mode). Naomi said, "Where's phone? All gone. I ate it," and opened her mouth wide to emphasize what she had said. Later she said, "Where's phone? I swallowed it," and we all giggled. Her laughter is contagious, and I gave her a big hug. Her sense of humor is well developed for someone who just turned 2. Nichelle spoke with Dr. Rescigno (her amazing neurologist) this morning, and has an appointment set up for a couple of weeks from now. The return of the symptoms were not a surprise to him, as it is "the nature of the beast" in his words. Medically, there is hope that the gamut of symptoms she now has are caused by migraine pain, which may be treatable, although the medication that appeared to help dramatically in the past so far has had no effect. I need to look into the interaction between climate and fibromyalgia. Also, since hormones produced during pregnancy and lactation eliminate the symptoms of fibromyalgia, it would be very interesting to see if there is any ongoing study or completed research about hormonal treatments. We also have noticed that her symptoms are most severe when the edema is at its worst. She has an appointment with a cardiologist to look at that in December (the appointment has been postponed twice now by the cardiologist's office). Still, discouragement and a great sense of loss have overwhelmed me at times. At fat club Saturday I did not speak except when forced to. I wept silently through the prayer time, and broke down sobbing on the drive home. Sunday afternoon and evening brought more of the same, including a long bit of crying as I sat alone in my pew after our music director Rick Mullett asked the congregation to pray for Nichelle. And then comes self-accusation: What right do I have to complain? Why can I not simply be grateful for the recent, wonderful months? Why am I not quickly leaning upon the comfort of God's strength, and the knowledge that He is Sovereign, and has a purpose even for this? How is my selfish reaction helping Nichelle? (I should add that I am not so badly off today as the past two days.) I know I will find encouragement and strength in the Lord our God, but right now He patiently hears more complaint than praise, and more anguish than glorification.]]> 1 0 2 1164 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-11-14 16:29:25 2005-11-14 21:29:25 1 0 3 1208 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-15 10:08:39 2005-11-15 15:08:39 comments on the "What's Wrong with Nichelle?" post. It's a bit ironic, because I don't consciously remember feeling down, but I seem (based on what I wrote) to have gone through the same stages, just not as intensely. Today Nichelle is worn out. Her speech sounds slurred, the facial swelling is very significant, and she is having severe, sharp pains throughout her body. Our prevailing theory (which covers everything but the edema) is that the intense pains prevent her from sleeping soundly, leading to the exhaustion, dizziness, and other symptoms. Maybe she has a brain cloud. We certainly long for a cure or effective treatment, but feeling like myself again, and being given the strength to be able to comfort and help Nichelle is a big improvement.
    13Now therefore, our God, we thank thee, and praise Thy glorious name. 14But who am I, and what is my people, that we should be able to offer so willingly after this sort? for all things come of Thee, and of Thine own have we given thee. (1 Chronicles 29:13--14)
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    1347 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.173.52 2005-11-17 13:33:50 2005-11-17 18:33:50 1 0 0 1349 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.121 2005-11-18 11:22:48 2005-11-18 16:22:48 1 0 0 1353 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.121 2005-11-18 15:49:07 2005-11-18 20:49:07 1 0 0 1359 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-11-19 22:27:14 2005-11-20 03:27:14 1 0 3 1368 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-21 16:01:04 2005-11-21 21:01:04 1 0 2 1395 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-11-28 22:47:36 2005-11-29 03:47:36 Ups and Downs For the past nearly two weeks, Nichelle has been at the top of her game, or nearly so. Yesterday evening brought significant sharp, stabbing pains and stiffness in her hands. She also experienced something we dubbed an "ice cream scoop headache," because she said it felt exactly like someone scooping out her brain with an ice cream scoop. We believe they balance nicely with icepick headaches on the symptoms list, and everyone knows an ice cream scoop is much more fun than an icepick. This morning was no better. We both awoke tired, like we hadn't slept enough, which means that Nichelle (probably) was very restless. Her edema was extremely pronounced, and the icepick headaches still troubled her. She spent most of the day sleeping, and was a bit worried when she fell into sudden, deep sleeps while tending to Naomi. The past few days have been on and off. Wednesday and Thanksgiving Nichelle was fine. Friday Nichelle got up at 5:30 to go shopping (insane, in my opinion, although she claims the sunrise in the Berkshires was beautiful, I think that anything that happens that early in the morning can't be all that great), but started experiencing headaches by mid-morning and slept much of the day. Saturday she was fine. Sunday she lasted until mid-evening, but then the pains and exhaustion returned. Today we went to see Dr. Rescigno, her neurologist. (He was the one who started cutting back her other meds, after diagnosing the untreated migraines.) He agreed with our observation that treating the icepick headaches relieved most of the symptoms. He also didn't find it unusual that Nichelle was able to go off her medications for several months before symptoms returned, as medications of this type tend to linger in the body. (He had been very pleased, though, that the numerous medications Nichelle had been on mostly appeared to be superfluous.) He suggested that Nichelle continue with the nortriptylene (75 mg/day) until the icepick headaches stay away, but that it would probably be possible to reduce the dosage once that is achieved. She has a small dosage of another med if dizzy spells become a problem, but it's a muscle relaxant and will make her drowsy. (The dizzy spells aren't a severe symptoms right now, but this would reduce them from several minutes in length to several seconds in length.) He did agree that cortisol might be important to the diagnosis (Sorry, Beth, we couldn't stump him with that one), but (as we already have a working model for symptom relief) recommended we continue with the current treatment, and with the plans to see the cardiologist (who he predicted would give her a clean bill of health). He also recommended an endocrinologist in Nashua to look at the water retention/cortisol. Tuesday morning: Back pain and edema that makes yesterday's water retention look trivial. Early Tuesday afternoon: The icepick headaches are almost entirely absent at this point in the day. The swelling is still severe, but Nichelle feels almost perfect. Late Tuesday afternoon: Nausea, fatigue, pain, icepick headaches. "Not doing well," is Nichelle's self-description.]]> 1 0 2 1408 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-02 11:38:58 2005-12-02 16:38:58 1 0 2 1415 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-05 11:36:28 2005-12-05 16:36:28 The Lost Weekend It is Saturday morning. Last night Nichelle was feeling better, and we stayed up late reveling in this unexpected quality time. I am about to leave for Fat Club. As usual, I am leaving at the last minute. Nichelle awakens as I am brushing my teeth, and she is in significant pain. Nichelle had wanted to do some follow-up visits to families we have met who were interested in the church, but it is obvious our plans will change. By the time I return home, it is clear Nichelle will not be doing much today. We all pitch in to clean the house to her satisfaction. Everyone works hard, and the boys don't even fight. I had somehow put these pains out of my mind. It's odd that I have forgotten. I sit on the floor next to Nichelle on the couch, and hear the sharp intake of breath and feel her body convulse as each stabbling pain hits. The pains are so strong that her voice breaks and she is brought to tears. I hold her hand, and wish there were something I could do to help her. Lolita McGrath surprises us with a large dish of spaghetti and meatballs and a caramel-apple pie. I joke that Nichelle needs to find special music to perform that involves an extremely high note every 10 to 15 seconds. Although the pains diminish somewhat for a few hours here and there, they last up until Nichelle goes to sleep. Sunday morning brings renewed hope. AFter a couple of minor pains, Nichelle announces that she feels fine. In Sunday school, I am amazed that there is so little swelling in her face. How thin she looks! After Sunday school, I head down to the junior church class that Nichelle and I teach on alternate weeks. Nichelle goes to sing in the choir. I know she will be later than usual, because she is also singing a duet with Lolita. Nevertheless, I am surprised when Lolita arrives at the classroom, and says she can take over for me, and that Nichelle is in the choir room and needs me. I hurry upstairs, and find Nichelle sitting in a chair, her head leaning on one hand. I run through a bunch of questions to try to figure out the latest combination of symptoms. I check her respiration and heart rate to rule out an anxiety attack (she has been free of those ever since beginning to confront some traumatic issues a year ago). She has numbness in her feet and hands, shakiness in her arms. She explains she has the feeling that something is wrong, but can't define what. Rather than anxiety, this seems to stem from a slightly dizzy or disoriented feeling in her head. The swelling is back; her face is vastly different than how it had been an hour before. Church is almost over. I help her slowly down the stairs, and, when church lets out, we collect the kids and head home. We continue eating Lolita McGrath's spaghetti and other leftovers, and sit/lay down together as a family to watch Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone. Nichelle and I both fall asleep during the part we'd seen the day before, and Nichelle spends most of the afternoon sleeping. Despite this, she is no better off when Sunday night arrives, so I take the kids to our evening service by myself. When we get home, we have two tasks: Help clean up the house to a reasonable standard, and get the grocery shopping taken care of. Nichelle and I work on a shopping list. Some of the "brain cloud" has returned, and she has trouble staying focused on each item as she writes it. We pray with the kids before bed, and I leave Nichelle to supervise the quick cleaning they will do, while I head out to the Super Wal*Mart. By the time I get back, it is nearly midnight. Nichelle and I load the dishwasher, and I help put groceries away and run some laundry. Nichelle thanks me for all I am doing, and we both embrace and cry on each other's shoulders, as I respond, "It isn't enough, though." Today Nichelle is quite a bit better, but is uncharacteristically discouraged. We both acknowledge that this "round" has been harder on us than before. Onward ... ]]> 1 0 2 1416 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.164 2005-12-05 12:41:24 2005-12-05 17:41:24 1 0 0 1417 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.164 2005-12-05 14:44:07 2005-12-05 19:44:07 1 0 0 1419 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-12-05 22:58:06 2005-12-06 03:58:06 1 0 3 1420 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.164 2005-12-06 10:37:30 2005-12-06 15:37:30 1 0 0 1421 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-06 10:54:34 2005-12-06 15:54:34 My Unredeemed Body = The Crapper" very amusing, and, as always, your Biblical perspective was encouraging reading.]]> 1 0 2 1425 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-12-06 22:52:22 2005-12-07 03:52:22 1 0 2 1461 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.164 2005-12-14 17:37:47 2005-12-14 22:37:47 1 0 0 1462 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-14 17:45:42 2005-12-14 22:45:42 1 0 2 1556 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-06 14:35:38 2006-01-06 19:35:38 amazed at the level of pain Nichelle is able to endure without letting it stop her. She rated this evening as a "7" on a zero to 10 scale, 10 being unmedicated labor pain. Women are tougher than men, even if men don't want to admit it.]]> 1 0 2 1550 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-05 13:11:36 2006-01-05 18:11:36 1 0 2 1555 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-06 10:11:51 2006-01-06 15:11:51 1 0 3 1566 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-09 10:38:42 2006-01-09 15:38:42 1 0 2 1578 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-10 14:21:36 2006-01-10 19:21:36 very unlike us), getting angry with the kids for minor things, and really worn out. I was at a point on the weekend where even God's sovereignty didn't comfort me at all. What a roller coaster.]]> 1 0 2 1588 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.221.82 2006-01-11 08:54:11 2006-01-11 13:54:11 1 0 0 1589 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-11 09:46:29 2006-01-11 14:46:29 1 0 3 1590 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-11 09:49:58 2006-01-11 14:49:58 1 0 3 1613 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-14 23:29:29 2006-01-15 04:29:29 1 0 2 1630 khern2006@yahoo.com 71.243.109.13 2006-01-16 16:00:22 2006-01-16 21:00:22 1 0 0 1638 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-16 22:42:02 2006-01-17 03:42:02 1 0 3 1688 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-21 00:26:31 2006-01-21 05:26:31 1 0 2 1689 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-21 00:53:39 2006-01-21 05:53:39 1 0 3 1738 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-24 11:48:35 2006-01-24 16:48:35 Museum of Science in Boston.]]> 1 0 2 1757 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-31 15:37:41 2006-01-31 20:37:41 The person you talked to at the ___________ office is probably some secretary with a high school degree whose medical knowledge consists of watching "ER" and occasionally reading the medical records she is responsible for filing alphabetically.]]> 1 0 2 1758 tatiangelina@msn.com http://idontknow 151.203.45.209 2006-01-31 17:32:31 2006-01-31 22:32:31 1 0 0 1759 tatiangelina@msn.com http://idontknow 151.203.45.209 2006-01-31 17:33:09 2006-01-31 22:33:09 1 0 0 1760 tatiangelina@msn.com http://idontknow 151.203.45.209 2006-01-31 17:34:55 2006-01-31 22:34:55 1 0 0 1761 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-31 17:57:55 2006-01-31 22:57:55 1 0 3 1764 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-02-02 16:19:13 2006-02-02 21:19:13 On the bright side: We did go to the Winter Thaw, and had a wonderful time. The food was good, the venue was fun, although one can't see much of the Museum of Science in just a couple of hours. If I ever get caught up on my BLOG backlog, I'll write more about it. Nichelle made it to Sunday morning, Sunday evening, and Wednesday night church services this week, although Sunday evening and Wednesday night I was tempted to take her home. On the not-so-bright side: It was a painful reminder of just how quickly Nichelle can go from "feelin' fine" to barely able to walk. In three hours, over half of that spent sitting down, Nichelle reported "my body is shutting down." We wrapped up with a viewing of the OmniMax film, Operation Red Flag, and Nichelle could barely walk when we were done. We were hoping to get Nichelle in to see an endocrinologist soon. Unfortunately, the one to whom she was referred refused to see her, because her file didn't show anything in it that was endocrinology-related. I think this might have been because the edema has had only a minor place in relation to the other symptoms, so there isn't much about it in the records. Also, if the swelling is due to excessive cortisol, none of the lab work she's had done is designed to detect it. Lest you think we're drinking Drain-O, here's what our friendly volunteer patient advocate explained:
    If you are swelling and retaining water seriously you should see an Endocrinologist period! I don't care if they think it is fibromyalgia or PMS or Cushings (which is a plausible explanation) or renal failure.
    Nichelle reports a 10-15 pound weight gain due to water retention over the past week or so. It's getting bad enough so that---unobservant as I am---even I can see it's getting worse. Most of Nichelle's "big" clothes won't fit either. The pain is pretty bad, and Nichelle's activity level has usually been 10--15 minutes "up and about" with 2-4 hours to recharge. She's been able to pick the kids up from school most days, though. Today she was able to do a little more than usual in the morning. And there are signs that the "brain cloud" (drop in cognitive ability) is returning. It's definitely present at times, albeit not for long periods.]]>
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    1778 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-02-09 10:33:19 2006-02-09 15:33:19 swell---meaning the swelling is getting much worse. Nichelle has tracked a 5-lb. weight gain over the past 2 days, and 20--25 lbs. over the past 2--3 weeks. This is starting to look more like Cushing's Syndrome, right down to the stretch marks, which is one of the possibilities our friend Beth has suggested. (I've told Beth I'd buy her a Moxie if she's right either about Cushing's or hypercortisolism.) I was hoping for the buffalo hump (to aid in diagnosis), but Nichelle doesn't find that very appealing. Sunday night I went forward in church to recommit myself to God's sovereignty, and beg Him for a supernatural end to the discouragement I was constantly being buried in. (We had a guest speaker, Norman Frink, who gave a needful message on suffering.) I've been much better the past few days, and can't explain it other than God's grace, especially as there's been little to hope for in Nichelle's worsening condition.]]> 1 0 2 1806 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-02-14 16:46:39 2006-02-14 21:46:39 tightens---but doesn't kill.) This is roughly equivalent to our "That which doesn't kill us makes us stronger." One Spanish idiom I've always loved is, "Se le pegaron las sabanas," which means, "The sheets stick to him," used to describe someone who has trouble getting up in the morning. (Thanks to Ricardo Castillo and his mamá for verifying the precise phrasing on this.) Follow this link for some more Spanish proverbs.]]> 1 0 2 1809 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-02-15 17:47:42 2006-02-15 22:47:42 1 0 2 1810 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-02-15 23:36:54 2006-02-16 04:36:54 Pain Beyond the significant swelling, Nichelle's life seems to be defined ever more by pain. On Valentine's Day she had a "good day"---the pain was only mild for much of the daylight hours, and she enjoyed being able to do some work around the house. By suppertime, though, her pain had started to return. Walking became markedly difficult. By 9:00 or 10:00 the pain was steady and even more severe. Tonight was particularly troubling. Nichelle was feeling pretty good until late afternoon, and was looking forward to attending the midweek Bible study. At 5:30, she announced that she needed to get dinner on and then take a nap. By the time I left work, she determined that she wasn't going anywhere. By the time I got home to pick up the kids for church, she was having severe pain in her left leg, and remained virtually immobile during the two hours we were out at church. About the time the kids were being put to bed, the pain became extreme. She took two of the pain medications she has been prescribed, but normally does not use. They didn't do much. The pain in one leg spread to the other. Then the head pains started. These were awful. For ten minutes at a time, over the space of more than half an hour, Nichelle is racked with sharp head pains that almost defy description. Every few seconds she convulses, stiffly curling up, and manages somehow to stifle her cries of agony. Tears well up in her eyes. Her breathing becomes rapid. For a few minutes these pains subside, and then they return. I kneel beside her, gently clutching her hand, my own body heaving with sobs I cannot control. "I love you," she whispers quietly when the pains relent for a few moments. I weep even more. After what the clock says is only an hour, the stabbing pains have passed. Nichelle sits up for the first time all evening. Perhaps the rest of the night will bring some degree of comfort.
    Editor's note: Thankfully, attacks this severe don't happen every day, but they do seem to come a couple of times a week, and similar attacks of lesser severity do come every day. The tiring, debilitating pain is there almost always, though. Nichelle took the kids to Wal*Mart on Monday night, for a very quick trip. When she got back she said, "You know, there's no way I could make it through the [grocery] shopping." (I knew that---it's why I've been doing the shopping.) I've also turned this particular comment into a main post category, as I don't want it to get buried in the 50-some comments.
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    He's 6 yrs. old.... (David and Evangelism) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=368 Sun, 20 Nov 2005 03:44:08 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=368 368 2005-11-19 22:44:08 2005-11-20 03:44:08 open open hes-6-yrs-old publish 0 0 post 0 1360 mark@sohmer.net http://www.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-11-20 06:44:11 2005-11-20 11:44:11 1 0 0 I Ate It http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=369 Tue, 22 Nov 2005 14:50:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=369 swallowed it!" The real kicker came yeterday. Our friend Mary Jo stopped by briefly, and I asked NaNi, "Where's my cell phone?" She responded, as I expected, with, "I know ... I ate it!" Then MJ asked her, "Where's my cell phone?" Naomi replied, "I know ... pocket!" and pointed to Mary Jo's jacket pocket, where she keeps her phone.]]> 369 2005-11-22 09:50:16 2005-11-22 14:50:16 open open i-ate-it publish 0 0 post 0 1370 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2005-11-22 10:00:51 2005-11-22 15:00:51 1 0 4 1371 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-11-22 10:34:49 2005-11-22 15:34:49 1 0 2 1377 mike_matheson@juno.com 69.132.109.152 2005-11-23 23:20:59 2005-11-24 04:20:59 1 0 0 1390 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.179.221 2005-11-26 11:26:01 2005-11-26 16:26:01 1 0 0 1451 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-12 15:51:10 2005-12-12 20:51:10 1 0 2 Thanksgiving, 2005: For What Am I Most Thankful? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=370 Tue, 29 Nov 2005 23:42:39 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=370 "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the LORD." (Proverbs 18:22) My wife, Nichelle, is the most important human in my life. (I described her as the most important person in my life, but David corrected me with, "Dad, Jesus is supposed to be the most important person in your life.") She is, as one might guess, the one for whom I thank God more often than anything else.
    11"The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life." (Proverbs 31:11--12)
    How much she means to me was made even clearer about three weeks ago. Since last spring, Nichelle had been steadily improving after a long period of being nearly incapacitated by symptoms relating to fibromyalgia. See the posts entitled "What's Wrong with Nichelle?" and "The Twins are Back," for a more complete history. But three weeks ago, over the course of a couple of days, Nichelle went from virtually symptom-free to nearly completely debilitated. First, I was angry; then for days I was heartbroken at all that seemed about to be lost. As Nichelle had regained her strength since last spring, she put into action the things she'd hoped to do. She learned to paint. She learned to sew. She prototyped an absolutely stunning tabletop fountain, hoping to market them and other crafts via ebay. She tackled computer projects for me (a field that had always scared her), rejoined the choir at church, and got back onto the special music schedule. Not bad for a single summer! When her symptoms had become so severe last winter, I had to start planning and operating my life without her at my side. I never liked it. We might spend weeks looking forward to an activity, and do everything possible to rest up and prepare for it, only to determine on the day of the activity that Nichelle would not be physically able to attend. There were times when the exaustion hit that she would fall asleep in mid-sentence, even when she was doing the talking. A "brain fog" would reduce her normally sharp mind to one that couldn't record a doctor's appointment correctly.
    17"She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 25Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come." (Proverbs 31:17, 25)
    My wife has incredible strength. Few people know the challenges she has overcome in her life (and, unfortunately, I cannot disclose the most significant ones here; even I was not aware of the extent of a few of them until relatively recently---suffice it to say my wife has had significant trauma inflicted by a number of people in her life). Reading our posts on fibromyalgia will give you some clue to the challenges of everyday life, especially in the past year. Even when every day is a battle, she is almost never discouraged. Other people use negative things that have happened to them or harm that has come to them as an excuse for failure or their own evil. Nichelle, without a trace of anger, uses them as an example on how not to live, and confidently pursues whatever God has planned for her. Someone asked me recently what there was about Nichelle that attracted me to her. I distinctly remember the first time I saw her. She walked by in church, and I thought, "Wow!" She was beatiful, but there was much more. Even then her strength of character, devotion to the Lord, and compassion for others were evident. We spent a couple of years working in church ministries together, and the more I got to know her, the more I wished she would go out with me. (I tried for about a year and a half, but couldn't get her to even notice me.) There were other things, too. She laughed at my jokes! She made every experience we shared more enjoyable. She made denim look classy. When she moved out of her parents' house to live with our close friends the Flints, they told her, "I hope you like Doug Wilcox, because he's over here all the time." Then I finally got her to notice me. Not many months later we were engaged, and married a [very long] year after that.
    "Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land." (Proverbs 31:23)
    She holds our lives together and held me together ten years ago, during the six month period my as-yet-untreated anxiety disorder probably crossed the border to nervous breakdown. I cannot imagine how I might have fared without her undying support. Whatever good I may accomplish in my own life, she will share equally in the credit.
    "She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy." (Proverbs 31:20)
    Compassion has driven her life. She is a perfect counterpoint to my empathetically-challenged soul, knowing the grace that God has bestowed upon our lives, the glorious change of His second birth, and always wanting to share that with others.
    13"She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 14She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 16She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 27She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness." (Proverbs 31:13--16, 27)
    Nichelle is an excellent parent, and manages a complex, frenetic household with surprising aplomb. (My experiences in just doing the grocery shopping for her convince me that I am best left in the world of computers.) She can tolerate playing "Candyland" or "Chutes and Ladders" with the kids without rolling her eyes, while devastating me when it comes to Scrabble. She teaches the children in dozens of ways throughout the day, and looks after their welfare using her super Mom powers and 360-degree vision.
    "Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates." (Proverbs 31:31)
    There are so many other things to list! I see the evidence of her help every day. She picks out my clothes, cuts my hair, provides my meals, manages my appointments, and sees to it that I don't stay up all night playing Civ IV. She is a constant encouragment to me spiritually and emotionally. She continually demonstrates to me the power of prayer, and is a model of unwavering faith.
    "She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness." (Proverbs 31:26)
    Few would believe this, but we almost never argue. I'd like to claim that this is due to my own nurturing spirit, but it is more due to her spirit of cooperation. (Also, I have learned over the years, that if we do disagree about something, I am almost never the one who is correct.) I love the shared jokes and common exchanges we have. Some are just so memorable. Years ago, I commented, "You know, I'm not saying you are, but if you wanted to be a nag, you'd be a good one." She responded, "Well, I wouldn't have to nag you if you'd do something the first ten times I ask you to." We still laugh about that exchange. Others are just plain sappy, like how we often IM: LYMZ, our abbreviation for I love you moresey. (Hey, I warned you it was sappy.) She's made me a better, more complete, and well-rounded person. With her, I get to be the super hero little boys dream of becoming. Always, I bask in her love and affection. Our children are gorgeous, too, thanks to her genetic input.
    25"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 28So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies." (Ephesians 5:25, 28a)
    If only all God's commands were this easy to follow!
    28"Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. 29Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. 30Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised." (Proverbs 31:28--30)
    "How beautiful and how delightful you are, My love, with all your charms!" (Song of Solomon 7:6, NASB)
    (Mmmmmmmmmmm. I could go on about those charms, but I'll keep this post appropriate for children.) Nichelle, I love you.]]>
    370 2005-11-29 18:42:39 2005-11-29 23:42:39 open open thanksgiving-2005-for-what-am-i-most-thankful publish 0 0 post 0 1398 mark@sohmer.net http://www.sohmer.net 24.128.118.185 2005-11-30 06:38:57 2005-11-30 11:38:57 Civ IV, and more time helping your beloved out! ;)]]> 1 0 0 1403 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.179.50 2005-12-01 17:28:58 2005-12-01 22:28:58 1 0 0 1404 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-01 17:52:18 2005-12-01 22:52:18 enough. When there's something I need to do that I will tend to put off or forget, I ask Nichelle to add it to her "Nag List." And we are definitely coming to understand the "in sickness and in health" part. During our wedding ceremony rehearsal, Nichelle goofed and said, "for better or for worst"; dealing with my anxiety disorder and her fibromyalgia has made that an interesting slip of the tongue. Honestly though, as you can probably tell from my posts about home life, being married is a blessing to both of us. We certainly could not predict all of the things God has sent our way, but I have found my life's purpose in growing with Nichelle, and helping her overcome life's obstacles and traumas. Our relationship has grown much more significant in those years since we exchanged our vows. I was 10 years old when I started planning for marriage---listening to marriage-related advice in church, watching my own parents, etc. (One would think with such a head start I would have done better than I have as a husband, and I still have much to learn, but at least I am still capable of learning.) One of the lessons I inadvertently learned from my parents is, "Couples never argue." By the time I realized that my parents were just particularly discreet, it was too late---the original lesson was already ingrained.]]> 1 0 2 1409 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.99.7 2005-12-02 18:12:31 2005-12-02 23:12:31 1 0 0 1422 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.173.6 2005-12-06 13:43:35 2005-12-06 18:43:35 1 0 0 1424 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2005-12-06 22:32:56 2005-12-07 03:32:56 The Problem of Pain at Amazon gave it one star, and said (I paraphrase): "Warning! Lewis is an Armenian!" I'm certainly not going to take Lewis' doctrine as authoritative, but he was an amazing apologeticist, and he came up with some fascinating ideas. If I haven't turned into a Mormon from reading Orson Scott Card's fiction, I think I'll be safe from Lewis.]]> 1 0 2 1430 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.179 2005-12-07 12:14:22 2005-12-07 17:14:22 1 0 0 1434 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2005-12-08 13:13:29 2005-12-08 18:13:29 The way to make a million dollars is to start a religion," and then does exactly that, you might want to question the validity of said religion.]]> 1 0 2 1460 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.164 2005-12-14 17:34:01 2005-12-14 22:34:01 1 0 0
    Christmas Glimpses http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=371 Mon, 26 Dec 2005 04:59:07 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=371 to our area as well, but generally not as many.)

    Above left: The portion of the Wilcox family spending Christmas in Nashua with us. Back row: My sister Joyce Thorne, my daughter Naomi, my niece Jennifer, my wife Nichelle, my nephew Andrew. Front row: My son David, my son Isaac, me, my sister Cindy (Jenn and Andrew's mother), and my son John. Above right: David, Isaac (mostly obscured), Andrew, Naomi, and Jenn opening Christmas stockings. Naomi is eating a chocolate chip muffin.
    When I was growing up, I never slept past 6:00 on Christmas morning, even though I never could fall asleep before midnight. Thankfully, my own children are a bit more reasonable, although they have resorted to sending notes in attached to Isaac (2 years old at the time), and playing the trumpet outside our door. (Actually, that was my nephew Andrew.)

    Did you know the cardboard box has been inducted into the National Toy Hall of Fame?
    Naomi singing, dancing and spinning around to Tish Hinojosa's Spanish Christmas song, "Milagro":
    Milagro, milagro, es la Esperanza Milagro nuestro es la Navidad (A miracle, a miracle is the hope ... The Nativity is a miracle meant for us)

    Above left: A new sombrero ranchero and the Lego AT-AT. Nichelle is good to me! Above right: Naomi with her new Navajo Barbie. (Yes, I let her take it out of the box. Calm, calm. Deep breaths. Slowly now. That's better.)

    Above: Naomi "helps" construct my new Lego AT-AT.
    My niece Jennifer driving the Xbox controller like a steering wheel (and moving her whole body as if driving) while playing Burnout 3: Takedown with David and Isaac. David wearing the mask from his Darth Vader Voice Changer helmet, singing, "If you're happy and you know it, clap your hands ..." while NaNi wore the cowl backwards, dancing to some inner music of her own. Isaac's shocked expression and dramatic dropping of the box when he opened his Carnivorous Creations terrarium.

    Above left: Aren't you a little short for a Sith lord? Above center: Isaac dramatically reacts to opening a Carnivorous plants terrarium. (You should have seen his expression when he opened the RoboRaptor.) Above right: NaNi models my new sombrero

    Around Christmas, I always think about my favorite Christmas hymn: "God is Born" ("Bóg się rodzi"). I've only got one recording of it, on an old cassette entitled "An English Christmas." It is the National Christmas Hymn in Poland, where it originated. Here's what I've been able to transcribe from the English version I have:
    "God is Born" God is born and night is shaken He the Heaven's King lies naked. The living Word knows brightness darkened, He the Limitless takes limit. Born disdained yet worship given, Mortal, yet the Lord eternal. Now indeed the Word made flesh Has come on earth to dwell among us. What hast thou, O Heaven better, God abandoned thy perfection? Here to share the trial and sorrow Of His poor, beloved people. Suffered much and suffered dearly, For we all were guilty sinners, Now indeed the Word made flesh Has come on earth to dwell among us. Born into a common stable, He is cradled in a manager. How then tell me what surrounds you Hay and peace and simple shepherds. You were ones who had the honor Him to greet, and kings came bowing. Now indeed the Word made flesh Has come on earth to dwell among us.
    I love the old hymns that are filled with such great doctrine. (So much of our modern popular and sacred music is vacuous---or at best superficial---by comparison.) Here the subject is the Incarnation: God the Son lowering Himself to become one of us. Wow!]]>
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    Domestic Security Consultant Visits Wilcox Home http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=372 Mon, 02 Jan 2006 04:20:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=372 Clover, a border collie who is employed as a domestic security consultant north of here.

    After an intimidating first meeting, Naomi and Clover became fast friends. NaNi adopted the same pose as Clover for all their photos together. (Note that Naomi is wearing some of her new Geekwear: a "Version 2.0" t-shirt.) Clover presented on such important topics as stick-fetching, ball-fetching, stick destroying, Nerf-ball chewing, human herding, neighborhood patrols, criminal background checks, and indicating when one needs to use the little dog's room. (I am told by Matt Camillieri that other canines, such as Winnie Sohmer, are not so good at communicating such a vital topic.) Clover is a good dog.]]>
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    Geek-Boy Isaac Makes Science Mistake http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=373 Fri, 06 Jan 2006 02:57:52 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=373

    Ten-year-old Isaac Douglas Wilcox jeopardized his entire future career in science today, when he described the maximum size of an Australian salt water crocodile as "seven to eight feet." Fortunately, his vastly more knowledgeable father was there to correct this serious breech of cognition, and he quickly righted the error, pointing out that "Salties" grow to twenty to twenty-five feet in length. (The largest ever found was 29 feet in length.) (This post has nothing to do with the fact that Isaac loves pointing out those extremely rare occasions when I am wrong in a scientific area. It's all about the newsworthiness, folks.) ]]>
    373 2006-01-05 21:57:52 2006-01-06 02:57:52 open open weasel-boy-isaac-makes-science-mistake publish 0 0 post 0 1552 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-05 22:09:39 2006-01-06 03:09:39 Gastropods is the answer.) When I was seven years old, I beat my 34-year-old Dad 30-to-10 in basketball. And, a couple of months ago, I beat him 12-to-zero in Halo 2.]]> 1 0 0 1587 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.221.82 2006-01-11 08:50:39 2006-01-11 13:50:39 1 0 0 1591 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-11 10:53:54 2006-01-11 15:53:54 think we're going to get Isaac started on "beer bets" just yet (especially as we don't drink), although he has tried to get extra cash in a similar manner. It seems from his comments, that the satisfaction of being right at my expense is a great motivator.]]> 1 0 2 1595 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.158.179 2006-01-11 19:28:22 2006-01-12 00:28:22 1 0 0
    Sledding (2005--2006) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=375 Mon, 09 Jan 2006 17:47:59 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=375

    Above: NaNi, at the bottom of the hill after one of her first-ever sledding runs. "Again!"
    Sledding was great last night at Roby Park, in Nashua, which is not far from our house! The snow was perfect for speed; we were getting within about 20 feet of the fence at the bottom of the hill. Conditions should be same for the next few nights; I can't go tonight. I might go on Tuesday, but will probably have too much work. Isaac was practicing on a $1, small, narrow snowboard we got at a yard sale---it's amazing how quickly he learns. He had several runs where he made it almost completely down the hill. I wonder how he'd do on a larger board with boot clamps. David tried it sitting and laying down. Isaac also challenged us to race him, sleds versus feet. He's fast.

    Above left: Isaac's Calvin & Hobbes snowman (2 heads, 4 arms, etc.). Above right: Our three-toboggan sled train. NaNi is in the front, Doug is in the middle (and providing the steering), David is in the back.
    Naomi was completely thrilled. She always wants to go from the very top of the hill. I hold her sled in front of mine, which provides excellent steering control. The second day we went sledding, someone bumped her, and she was noticably timid for the rest of that day; last night she was fine. She seems nervous still while we are getting in position. I reassure her by explaining what I'm doing. "I'm just getting onto my sled. Don't worry, I won't let go of you. Remember, we won't move until you say, 'Go.'" And then she counts down (or up), and calls out, "Go!" and we're off! Her first word upon reaching the bottom is, "Again!" She burst into tears when I said it was time to go home.

    Above left: In the Wilcox backyard, the natives are restless. Isaac uses his bow and arrow to enhance his Mutant Snow Goon. Above right: Even though our sledding was done, and we were all a little wet and cold, NaNi insisted on continuing to play outside.
    Earlier this year, I took some pictures, and even have a short video clip of one of Naomi's first sledding runs (if for nothing more than freaking out Nichelle). I'll have to see what's worth posting. (Editor's note: I looked; the video isn't that great, and the photos are mostly dark or blurry. It was cold when I took them! I've added the one that was decent.) (New photos above added January 25, 2006.)]]>
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    A Conversation with My Geek Girl http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=376 Fri, 13 Jan 2006 20:19:21 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=376 a Version 2.0 T-shirt and a new Geek in Training T-shirt to replace the one she'd outgrown. She loves the shirts! She calls the "Geek in Training" one her "Mouse Shirt," and asked for it every day several times a day when it was in the laundry. While that was being washed, she tried the "Version 2.0" shirt. (I suppose it really should be a Version 2.4 shirt, or maybe 2.3, depending on whether John gets---as the software equivalent of a buy-out---his own version number.) She went around showing people at church, pointing at the logo, and saying, "Version two oh." Nichelle observed:
    At Christmas, Doug bought Naomi two new geek shirts. She loves them. Yesterday, I was putting her laundry away and she spotted her V2.0 shirt and picked it up and hugged it. She was already dressed so I told her she could wear it to bed. She quickly took it and put it under her pillow and remembered to get it when it was bedtime.
    At any rate, Naomi's speech is becoming much more complex (even beyond calling me a weasel or a slacker). I called home one day, and she wanted to talk to me.
    NaNi: Version 2.0 Dad: Your Version 2.0 shirt? I'm very glad you like it. NaNi: Thank you, Daddy! Dad: You're welcome. NaNi: Love you, Daddy. Bye!
    She melts my heart! ]]>
    376 2006-01-13 15:19:21 2006-01-13 20:19:21 open open a-conversation-with-my-geek-girl publish 0 0 post 0 1602 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2006-01-13 15:24:09 2006-01-13 20:24:09 Wilcox thing going on here. :)]]> 1 0 4 1636 john@Wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-01-16 21:25:26 2006-01-17 02:25:26 1 0 0 1645 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.161.38 2006-01-17 13:26:59 2006-01-17 18:26:59 (Editor's note: As this is a continuation of a post that was originally on Beth's BLOG, I've moved the relevant discussion points here. See comments 2, 3, and 4, above.) Rather than posting on Beth's site, I thought I'd continue our conversation by posting on yours about kids being "fresh" mouthed. I know you guys just do it in fun, but apparently you've already seen the types of problems that can arise with age and cleverness. (Good rules, btw.) Personally, I never had to encourage my kids in name-calling.;) Instead, I remember spending a lot of time teaching them verses like "Be ye kind to one another, tenderhearted...", "Edify (build up) one another..." and "Let your speech be always with grace...". I only point this out because control of my tongue and my wit have been lifelong trials!]]> 1 0 0 1648 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-16 11:00:58 2006-01-17 19:54:58 That little weasel!]]> 1 0 2 1649 158.228.108.38 2006-01-16 11:17:32 2006-01-17 19:55:32 1 0 2 1650 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-16 12:01:48 2006-01-17 19:55:48 1 0 2 1676 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-19 15:40:56 2006-01-19 20:40:56 The Incredibles (one of the few films I consider a "must have" for young and old alike---even my sister Cindy liked it): Kari exclaims: "The baby was exploding! Have you ever sat an exploding baby, Mr. Dicker?" NaNi's condensed version is: "Baby exploding! Dicker!" Yesterday she watched The Emperor's New Groove (Disney's surprisingly moral---compare my review of Mulan II---and extremely funny animated film), and was going around the house yelling, "Demon llama!"]]> 1 0 2 1727 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-01-23 10:29:49 2006-01-23 15:29:49 Geek Parents Using Cooling Technology Instead of Medicine to Lower Fevers.]]> 1 0 2
    Isaac, the Biographer http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=377 Sat, 04 Feb 2006 19:10:07 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=377

    My Sister, Naomi

    My little sister, Naomi, a cheerful little girl. Being two years old, she has different rules of posession: "If I saw it, it's mine," "If I didn't want it, and saw you playing with it, it's mine." And Naomi's special, "Every loli-pop I see is mine." Naomi likes to sing along with many songs: "Jesus Loves Me," is one of them and all the songs of "Charlie and the Chocolate Factory." She is very bouncy, loud, cheerful, and her vocabulary is very good. The day after her [second] birthday she greeted my dad with a "Hi, Slacker!" She constantly stands on objects and says "Look, I'm taller!" I'm glad to have a sister as Naomi is.
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    377 2006-02-04 14:10:07 2006-02-04 19:10:07 open open isaac-the-biographer publish 0 0 post 0 1766 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.167.225 2006-02-04 16:25:25 2006-02-04 21:25:25 1 0 0 1769 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2006-02-05 08:07:57 2006-02-05 13:07:57 Uncle Mark is one of the unique individuals who was born cool. He rocks... I'm sure Isaac can build on that. H's sure to get an A+++++++!]]> 1 0 0 1770 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-02-05 18:05:54 2006-02-05 23:05:54 1 0 2 1790 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2006-02-11 08:06:59 2006-02-11 13:06:59 1 0 0
    Caption this Photo (of Naomi)! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=378 Sat, 04 Feb 2006 19:20:25 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=378

    "What do you mean I've had too much sugar?"

    Now, let me go reserve a therapist for NaNi.]]>
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    Naomi's Stories http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=380 Sat, 11 Feb 2006 05:44:49 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=380

    NaNi is indeed a delight. She's started to put together stories. Last night she said, "See Uncle Phil. Rocket ship. Knock, knock, knock." (You want to visit Uncle Phil, and you'll take a rocket ship to get to his house, and knock on the door?) "Yes!" She's always been fascinated with her clothes that have pockets. Just before bed she had her hands in her pockets, and sighed, "No money." I laughed. "Two pockets," she announced. She's learning how to identify quantities. Earlier tonight the little weasel was trying to get into my pocket. Are you trying to get my wallet? "Yes, Daddy." "Why?" She jumped up and down with glee: "Credit cards!" Sometimes she's too smart. ]]>
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    Witness the Evidence, Ye Doubters http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=382 Sun, 12 Feb 2006 17:02:51 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=382 earlier post:
    We have been leaving our sleds out most of the winter as offerings to the snow gods. So far it has been working, although I had to correct the kids on making the proper offering. Scattering the toboggans about the yard is not the way to get the snow gods’ attention: One must place the sleds vertically, up against the deck or porch railing, as if ready for instant use. You don’t want to get rain all winter, do you?
    I offer hear clear photographic evidence that such beliefs are indeed rational:

    Above left: Our offering to the snow gods, carefully placed yesterday morning. Above right: The same scene less than 24 hours later.
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    Editor's note: Yes, it does; just as adding this note to your comment counts as a comment.
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    Waste! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=383 Wed, 15 Feb 2006 15:17:10 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=383 Happy Birthday Dear Fido, Fluffy and Polly
    Tue Feb 14, 2006 08:23 AM ET LOS ANGELES (Reuters) - They already have their own designer clothes, health insurance and therapists. Now more and more American pets are enjoying their own birthday parties. A surprising number of pet owners host birthday parties---complete with party hats, cake and guests--for their dogs, cats and birds, according to a survey released Monday by California-based Veterinary Pet Insurance. The firm reported that 58 percent of its policyholders who responded said they had hosted birthday bashes for their pets. Veterinary Pet Insurance, which marks the occasion by sending each insured pet a birthday card every year and a coupon for free food, said other surveys have calculated that about six million American dog and cat households celebrate birthdays. Three Dog Bakery, a specialty store in upscale Newport Beach, California, gets about 20 requests a week for pet birthday cakes, said owner Sandy Deem. © Reuters 2006. All Rights Reserved. I have nothing against pet ownership, but it seems to me that when one is at the point of having birthday parties for pets, it's time to evaluate spending habits. Imagine how many orphans the costs of six million birthday parties for pets would feed, clothe, and house annually, or how many missionaries the money could support. Don't even get me started on pet psychotherapy ... ]]>
    383 2006-02-15 10:17:10 2006-02-15 15:17:10 open open waste publish 0 0 post 0 1826 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.179.105 2006-02-17 21:45:08 2006-02-18 02:45:08 1 0 0 1827 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-02-21 12:21:11 2006-02-21 17:21:11 1 0 0 1831 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.149.148 2006-02-22 18:10:06 2006-02-22 23:10:06 1 0 0
    Pain http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=384 Thu, 16 Feb 2006 04:41:56 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=384 (See related posts: What's Wrong with Nichelle?, The Twins Are Back: What’s Wrong with Nichelle, Continued, and Life Is Swell; or view all posts categorized as related to fibromyalgia.) Beyond the significant swelling, Nichelle's life seems to be defined ever more by pain. On Valentine's Day she had a "good day"---the pain was only mild for much of the daylight hours, and she enjoyed being able to do some work around the house. By suppertime, though, her pain had started to return. Walking became markedly difficult. By 9:00 or 10:00 the pain was steady and even more severe. Tonight was particularly troubling. Nichelle was feeling pretty good until late afternoon, and was looking forward to attending the midweek Bible study. At 5:30, she announced that she needed to get dinner on and then take a nap. By the time I left work, she determined that she wasn't going anywhere. By the time I got home to pick up the kids for church, she was having severe pain in her left leg, and remained virtually immobile during the two hours we were out at church, because she (and Nichelle is not one to exaggerate) was afraid if she got off the couch, she'd fall down and not be able to get up. About the time the kids were being put to bed, the pain became extreme. She took two of the pain medications she has been prescribed, but normally does not use. They didn't do much. The pain in one leg spread to the other. Then the head pains started. These were awful. For ten minutes at a time, over the space of more than half an hour, Nichelle is racked with sharp head pains that almost defy description. Every few seconds she convulses, stiffly curling up, and manages somehow to stifle her cries of agony. Tears well up in her eyes. Her breathing becomes rapid. For a few minutes these pains subside, and then they return. I kneel beside her, gently clutching her hand, my own body heaving with sobs I cannot control. "I love you," she whispers quietly when the pains relent for a few moments. I weep even more. After what the clock says is only an hour, the stabbing pains have passed. Nichelle sits up for the first time all evening. Perhaps the rest of the night will bring some degree of comfort.
    Editor's note: Thankfully, attacks this severe don't happen every day, but they do seem to come a couple of times a week, and similar attacks of lesser severity do come every day. The tiring, debilitating pain is there almost always, though. Nichelle took the kids to Wal*Mart on Monday night, for a very quick trip. When she got back she said, "You know, there's no way I could make it through the [grocery] shopping." (I knew that---it's why I've been doing the grocery shopping for the past few months.)
    Keywords: Fibromyalgia, swelling, severe pain]]>
    384 2006-02-15 23:41:56 2006-02-16 04:41:56 open open pain publish 0 0 post 0 1811 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2006-02-16 05:23:39 2006-02-16 10:23:39 1 0 0 1812 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-02-16 08:42:06 2006-02-16 13:42:06 1 0 3 1813 wilcoxusa@andersonrepublic.com http://www.johnandleah.com 207.203.131.5 2006-02-16 10:26:42 2006-02-16 15:26:42 1 0 0 1816 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2006-02-16 16:19:27 2006-02-16 21:19:27 clicking here. Here are some excerpts:
    This news has, of course, been good for me. The most dangerous thing in the world is the sin of self-reliance and the stupor of worldliness. The news of cancer has a wonderfully blasting effect on both. I thank God for that. The times with Christ in these days have been unusually sweet. For example, is there anything greater to hear and believe in the bottom of your heart than this: “God has not destined us for wrath, but to obtain salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ, who died for us so that whether we are awake or asleep we might live with him” (1 Thessalonians 5:9-10)? God has designed this trial for my good and for your good. You can see this in 2 Corinthians 1:9, “Indeed, we felt that we had received the sentence of death. But that was to make us rely not on ourselves but on God who raises the dead.” And in 2 Corinthians 1:4-6, “He comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God . . . If we are afflicted, it is for your comfort and salvation.” So I am praying: “Lord, for your great glory, 1) don’t let me miss any of the sanctifying blessings that you have for me in this experience...
    What a great attitude! I pray that I'd have this attitude, and you as well, Nichelle. God bless you! We all love you.]]>
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    1818 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-02-17 09:03:23 2006-02-17 14:03:23 1 0 3 1820 abmcacmom@aol.com 205.188.117.6 2006-02-17 09:45:15 2006-02-17 14:45:15 1 0 0 1822 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-02-17 10:09:56 2006-02-17 15:09:56 1 0 3 1823 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-02-17 11:46:51 2006-02-17 16:46:51 8Trust in Him at all times; ye people, pour out your heart before Him: God is a refuge for us. Selah. Psalm 62:8 (KJV) Dealing with this pain can be profoundly difficult. I have had to rely on God and His supernatural grace to keep me out of despair. Not despairing doesn't mean I am not hurt, troubled, or saddened by Nichelle's pain, but that I can rest in His greater knowledge and the assurance that this is all part of His redemptive plan.
    1God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. 2Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; 10Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth. Psalm 46:1--2, 10 (KJV)
    At times I have failed in this, even when not meaning to. Not more than a week or so ago, I end a period of at least two weeks where I became increasingly discouraged. I saw nothing but frustration, and continually felt sorry for myself. I needed to go to God for His strength, recommit my life and will to His sovereignty, and ask for continued grace to get through these difficult times.
    71It is good for me that I have been afflicted; that I might learn Thy statutes. Psalm 119:71 (KJV)
    Currently things are different. I still feel---and feel intensely---the pain and sorrow associated with Nichelle's suffering, but I am no longer in despair. I still cry out in anguish to the Lord Who hears my prayers, but find that He gives peace. I find my heart less filled with rage, and more overflowing with love for my beloved.
    23Ye that fear the LORD, praise Him; all ye the seed of Jacob, glorify Him; and fear Him, all ye the seed of Israel. 24For He hath not despised nor abhorred the affliction of the afflicted; neither hath He hid his face from him; but when he cried unto him, He heard. 25My praise shall be of Thee in the great congregation: I will pay my vows before them that fear Him. Psalm 22:23--25 (KJV)
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    1824 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-02-17 13:27:26 2006-02-17 18:27:26 Editor's note: The past few days have brough better-than-average mornings, followed by worse-than-average evenings. Still, Nichelle seems to be better off with a few hours of productivity earlier in the day.
    Editor's note (later that day): I was right.
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    1828 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-02-22 15:26:57 2006-02-22 20:26:57 walking around the kitchen instead of hobbling, and her movement did not seem hampered at all. (This also gives you some idea of how bad "the norm" has become.) I am grateful for this improvement, although I discovered Sunday that I was out of sorts---I do not know how to react anymore when Nichelle is feeling well. It has happened so rarely, and for so short a period, that I spend my time breath-holding for the rapid deterioration that has always followed a few hours' respite. I wonder if I'm like the early believers, who, while praying for Peter, refused to believe Rhoda that it was he---miraculously released from prison---knocking at the door. (See Acts 12:1-17.)]]> 1 0 2 1829 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-02-22 17:19:53 2006-02-22 22:19:53 1 0 3 1833 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-02-23 11:57:51 2006-02-23 16:57:51 Is it the Sleep? Today Nichelle is in pain again ("back hurting, hips burning"), and made an interesting observation. For the past two days, my sister Cindy had been staying with us, and she had been sleeping on an air matress in NaNi's room. This left her in an ideal position to intercept NaNi when she woke up at night, and tuck her back in, before Naomi could make her way to our room and wake us up, even before (typically) we even heard NaNi awake. Our bed is small, and, in addition to having a third person there, having NaNi present activates Nichelle's "Mom RADAR," which leaves her in a more alert state, barely conscious but still wary of such things as, "Doug moved! Is he going to crush Naomi in her sleep?"
    Sleep that knits up the ravell’d sleave of care, The death of each day’s life, sore labour’s bath, Balm of hurt minds, great nature’s second course, Chief nourisher in life’s feast. Shakespeare, "Macbeth" (2.2.48--51)
    So, tonight I'm going to try intereceptor mode, to see if it helps with Nichelle's pain. If so, we need to figure out a solution for NaNi; Nichelle and I do not ever sleep apart (unless separated by geography), although I have sometimes slept on the floor next to our bed.
    8I will both lay me down in peace, and sleep: for Thou, LORD, only makest me dwell in safety. Psalm 4:8 (KJV)
    Of course, there is one problem with this: I'm a very sound sleeper. It may be that Naomi will wake up and just walk around me. I did find her about to leave her room one night, just as I was going to bed. She had gathered her water cup, pacifier (which she only uses when sleeping), blanket, and stuffed chipmunk. If only we were so lucid when waking up in the early morning hours.]]>
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    1834 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-02-23 12:40:49 2006-02-23 17:40:49 1 0 3 1835 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.179.175 2006-02-23 18:00:09 2006-02-23 23:00:09 1 0 0 1836 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-02-24 10:28:11 2006-02-24 15:28:11 That week was an interesting experiment. I spent the first night being pushed out of bed onto the floor, so the second night I said I'd take the side next to the wall. In the middle of the night, I found Nichelle sleeping soundly, taking up the whole bed, while I was pushed up against the wall so forcefully that I could barely breathe. The next night I decided to sleep on the floor next to the bed. As for our more current experiment, having me intercept NaNi did not seem to help Nichelle at all. She remembers waking up at least once in the night, possibly twice, as the bedroom light was on this morning and she couldn't remember turning it on. So much for hopes of an uninterrupted night's sleep! This morning the swelling was shocking (I will probably put up "before" and "after" pictures this evening), and Nichelle's weight was up 2.5 pounds from yesterday. She was also stiff and in pain, although after an hour she said that most of the pain had gone away, leaving her feeling some slight pain and sleepiness. NaNi woke up crying three times that I remember, apparently searching for her pacifier, although she'd kicked off her blankets once and may have been cold. Each time, I was able to find the binky and get her back to sleep before she made much noise. I also learned that Naomi's floor, despite having a soft carpet, wasn't quite as comfortable as I thought it would be, but that it's definitely softer than the carpet in our room.]]> 1 0 2
    John: No Longer a Slacker? Eldest Wilcox Child Misses Honor Roll by One Point http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=381 Fri, 10 Mar 2006 19:29:53 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=381 381 2006-03-10 14:29:53 2006-03-10 19:29:53 open open john-no-longer-a-slacker-eldest-wilcox-child-misses-honor-roll-by-one-point publish 0 0 post 0 1870 fpandele@aol.com 24.218.244.141 2006-03-16 23:57:25 2006-03-17 04:57:25 1 0 0 1864 John@Wilcoxfamily.net http://JohnWilcoxfamily.net 68.237.140.127 2006-03-15 15:17:52 2006-03-15 20:17:52 1 0 0 1859 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.198 2006-03-13 14:30:44 2006-03-13 19:30:44 1 0 0 1850 lizmom@comcast.net 24.34.203.249 2006-03-10 18:05:23 2006-03-10 23:05:23 1 0 0 1852 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2006-03-11 07:17:22 2006-03-11 12:17:22 1 0 0 Geek Humor @ H0/\/\3 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=385 Wed, 22 Feb 2006 01:05:28 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=385 Q: What's the densest element? A: Osmium (actually, it's a tie between Osmium and Iridium) My answer: Fifth graderum. I also dug up Tom Leher's famous "The Elements Song." You can hear it attached to a clever Flash animation here, or download the MP3 yourself. And we had some fun because Isaac couldn't remember: Q: What is the most commonly occurring transuranium element? A: Plutonium. ... which led to me mimicking bits of Doc Brown (Christopher Lloyd) from Back to the Future.
    Doc Brown: "I'm sure that in 1985 plutonium is available in every corner drugstore, but in 1955, it's a little hard to come by."
    Then Isaac confounded me with this one: Q: What kind of tree did the mad scientist plant? A: Chemis-try! So I added: Q: And what kind of tree did his mathemetician wife plant next to it? A: Geome-try!]]>
    385 2006-02-21 20:05:28 2006-02-22 01:05:28 open open geek-humor publish 0 0 post 0 4560 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2006-12-12 11:06:24 2006-12-12 16:06:24 1 0 2 1830 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.149.148 2006-02-22 17:57:47 2006-02-22 22:57:47 1 0 0 1832 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-02-22 18:24:44 2006-02-22 23:24:44 is brilliant! That's why I'm having trouble commenting on it. But I will ... Mark already has his own secret BLOG. Let's just keep this in our little circle.]]> 1 0 2
    Life Is Swell http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=386 Sun, 26 Feb 2006 00:10:17 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=386

    Note the dramatic difference in the leftmost photo with the middle photo. These were taken only two days apart, on December 25 and 27, 2005, respectively. These primarily show the face, but the swelling involves the whole body. On most days, the swelling is very significant, somewhere between the rightmost photo and the middle photo. We are awaiting an endocrinology appointment in about a week. The previous endocrinologist to whom Nichelle was referred refused to see her because there wasn't anything in her records to indicate an endocrinological problem (for the most part, until recently, the swelling hasn't been our biggest focus). A cardiologist she visited told her, "Sometimes my patients have swelling in their legs and ankles when they return from cruises because of all the high-sodium food." Our excellent neurologist was more perceptive. Nichelle had brought these photos in to show him---he was stunned. He also pointed out that the swelling alone can cause a great deal of pain. Our voluntary medical advisor/patient advocate Beth suspects Cushing's Syndrome or some form of hypercortisolism. So far, Nichelle's symptoms are consistent with that, including stretch marks on the skin in many places, and swelling varying in degree at different times of the day.
    Nichelle spent a couple of hours last night going through photos from the past three years. There are obvious periods lasting several months when the swelling was very bad, and times when it was mostly gone. In general, the very bad swelling lasted much longer than the times without. There's also a clear increase, over time, in what we might call "base level" swelling, but even within that ever-raising baseline, there are days when it is worse than others, as the photos above show. I had actually forgotten how much smaller she was even within the past year. No amount of exercise or dieting seemed to help, either. She lost 30 pounds (after Naomi was born) doing the South Beach Diet, and was intensely exercising for an hour every day. Neither one of these things prevented the swelling or the fibromyalgia symptoms from returning, and exercise is supposed to be a very effective long-term treatment for fibromyalgia. I've created a new category on the BLOG for posts related to fibromyalgia. It's available on the categories list at the right, or from the bottom of any post classified as such. (See related posts: What's Wrong with Nichelle?, The Twins Are Back: What’s Wrong with Nichelle, Continued, and Pain; or view all posts categorized as related to fibromyalgia.)]]>
    386 2006-02-25 19:10:17 2006-02-26 00:10:17 open open life-is-swell publish 0 0 post 0 1842 Chrissyinco@juno.com 72.174.96.132 2006-03-03 18:19:11 2006-03-03 23:19:11 1 0 0 1843 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-03-06 13:53:29 2006-03-06 18:53:29 1 0 0 1840 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-03-01 22:31:40 2006-03-02 03:31:40 1 0 2 1837 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2006-02-28 08:27:32 2006-02-28 13:27:32 1 0 4
    Mostly Mummies: Our MFA Trip http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=387 Wed, 12 Apr 2006 03:18:02 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=387 Never visit the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston without being accompanied by Debi Costine. Back on February 27, we got to do just that. Nichelle spent the three days before the trip in "intense rest," hoping to be well enough to go with us. (I hadn't seen her so determined to do anything major since singing in the Christmas program in mid-December.) Thankfully, she was able to go, although by the end I wished I insisted she use a wheelchair for at least part of it. (In the weeks since, her condition has gotten worse, and I don't think we'd even try such a trip now.) We also weren't sure we could convince David to come. He seemed fascinated, several years earlier, by the mummy at the Museum of Science in Boston, but in the interim years, that fascinating had turned to fear. I spent three weeks trying to psych him up, but it was Debi who spoke to David the night before and convinced him that he would be fine. By the end of her call he was eagerly anticipating the trip.

    Above: Debi Costine provides an introduction to ancient Egypt.
    What a wonderful trip! The kids loved it, John especially favored this museum over the science-centered ones that I typically drag him to. Outside the Egyptian wing, Debi sat us down, gave us handouts, and introduced us to things to look for in the Egyptian artifacts. Among them was a cartouche---generally an ellipse with a line on one side, that would be marked with one or two sets of hieroglyphs. This would indicate the name of a god or a king. We also learned about the burial and afterlife beliefs of the ancient Egyptians, including the false door that the spirits would use to retrieve food offered to them. One of the things Debi stressed was the grain of truth that many cultures preserved after the Flood in their understanding of spiritual things. It was very interesting to see how a proper understanding of death and eternity became corrupted over the years.

    Above: Pointing out the hieroglyphs adjacent to a cartouche, indicating the name of a god. (Note Debi's red hair.)
    One of the ideas I found fascinating was that the existence of one's name carved in stone allowed the existence in the afterlife to be perpetuated. In some cases, pharaohs or other leaders who fell out of favor were "eliminated" after death by having the names chiseled out of their places, as well as statues destroyed. One pharaoh ordered his name hieroglyphs to be carved especially deep. I wonder if it occurred to them to carve it someplace and then hide it.

    Above: Barley (along with a crude mortar and pestal) dating from up to 6,000 years ago.
    When Nichelle and I attended the MFA last year, we were awestruck by the Egyptian artifacts. They project such a feeling of age. It is truly amazing to walk among them. The barley shown above is a small thing, but it's astounding to find it preserved for five or six millenia.

    Above: King Menkaure (Mycerinus) and queen (possibly Khamerernebty II).
    I absolutely love this statue of King Menkaure and his queen. This couple is elegantly and lovingly rendered, and it impresses me that the artists were able to perfectly recreate the effects of sheer cloth in a stone statue. Note that they are actually clothed, at least in the custom of the time. The statue is unfinished. (There is no name on it; the king's kilt pleats are not carved, and the base is unfinished.) There are more photos, a write-up, and an audio piece here at the MFA site. Note the folded napkins in Menkaure's hands. These were authority symbols. Some later statues had rectangular napkins that look more like blocks of wood.

    Above: The Egyptian kings would place these stories about their conquests on the borders of their lands. Debi was able to explain the story carved here in much more detail than the museum plaque next to it.

    Above: Check out the cartouches on the base of this statue. These have the hieroglyph pairs we were hunting: a sun with a bird, and a bee with a sedge plant. David just told me, "I was the first one who found that one!"

    Above: All the geeks in ancient Egypt used these these snazzy pocket protectors. Seriously, it's a scribal palette, belonging to "The royal draftsmen of the Lord of the Two Lands, Amenemwia."

    Above: The center of the Egyptian funerary room. That's a bolt of linen in the left foreground that is over 4,000 years old. Amazing!
    The funerary room was astounding. It offered much more than the few things we think of as stereotypical Egyptian art surrounding the funeral rituals. Interestingly, the Egyptians were quite reluctant to change the formulae of their rituals, even over the centurals. So, even when the custom of removing the organs and storing them in jars had changed, faux jars were still placed in the burial chamber.

    Above: These ceremonial eyes were painted on the sides of coffins to allow the body entombed within to see out.

    Above: Debi noticed something about this mummy mask that she had never seen before: It has a beard. This mask (dating from the time around Joseph's life) may show the result of a Hebrew influence, as the Egyptians didn't wear real beards, perhaps as a result of Joseph's revelation of his origin and rise to power.

    Above: You've read the Old Testament many times, but always wondered what Baal looked like. Now you know! (This one is missing his weapon or thunderbolt. Maybe it was a child's action figure. It's about the same size. "Hey, kids! Collect all the Canaanite deities!")

    Above: This Hittite stamp-cylinder seal was impressive, as were the other seals and commercial artifacts, including a set of balance weights and numerous cuneform tablets.
    Outside of the Egyptian area, was one of the things we were all really looking forward to seeing: A fragment of a plate (probably smashed by the forces of Alexander the Great) from one of Xerxes four palaces. Debi likes to encourage her students to imagine that Queen Esther herself may have touched it.

    Above: Fragment of a Royal Plate Southwest Iran (probably from Perseopolis, Palace of Xerxes), 485--464 B.C. Diorite. Queen Esther just might have used it. (My photo is blurry, so I've linked the image to a better one at the MFA.)
    By the time we got to the few more modern things we looked at (much of the 1st century A.D. art, especially from Corinth, is, shall we say, inappropriate for children), they just couldn't compare to the marvel of the ancient Eyptyian work. They all seemed so ... recent.

    Above: This painting contains owls hidden within it. I was terrible at finding them, but the kids did well, and really enjoyed the task. This photo isn't perfect, but I couldn't find the painting this evening when I searched the online MFA database---even though I found it a few weeks ago.
    I'll also include what is one of my absolute favorite paintings in the MFA. When I first saw it, during my company's "Winter Thaw" event, I was struck by how beautiful it was. The color is amazing, and it seems photographic in its realism. It really stands out.

    Above: Portrait of a Young Woman, possibly Countess Worontzoff, by Marie Louise Elisabeth Vigée-Le Brun, French, 1755–-1842.
    And David, the little weasel, announced that his favorite part had been the mummies.]]>
    387 2006-04-11 22:18:02 2006-04-12 03:18:02 open open mfa-and-mummies publish 0 0 post 0 1947 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-04-18 08:23:32 2006-04-18 13:23:32 1 0 0 1948 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-18 11:47:40 2006-04-18 16:47:40 Fourth Dynasty lasted from 2613 BC to 2494 BC. Menkaura (Mycerinus) probably reigned from 2532 BC to c. 2503 BC. Some sources indicate a shorter reign of only 18 years, which may be more reliable, considering the unfinished statue, hinting at an earlier-than-expected death. That puts the statue at around 4,500 years old. Wow! David and Isaac both remembered the paint colors (red for men; yellow for women). (They were very eager to answer when Nichelle asked them!) She'll quiz John later. I think BMT might be right about my camera---I've noticed it has the same effect on photos of me---but I don't buy the "red sweater = red hair" bit. Perhaps an anlysis of the Canon PowerShot G2's particular CCD array is in order?]]> 1 0 2 1951 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.61 2006-04-20 11:25:29 2006-04-20 16:25:29 1 0 0 1943 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.198 2006-04-14 15:09:59 2006-04-14 20:09:59 1 0 0 1935 mark@sohmer.net http://www.sohmer.net/mark.php 71.192.251.191 2006-04-12 05:49:27 2006-04-12 10:49:27 1 0 0 1936 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-04-12 06:19:54 2006-04-12 11:19:54 Nefertiti, which means, "The beautiful (or perfect) woman has come," but Nichelle wouldn't buy it.]]> 1 0 2
    Hope Deferred (for a Day) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=389 Tue, 07 Mar 2006 03:35:04 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=389 12Hope deferred maketh the heart sick: but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life.

    Proverbs 13:12 (KJV) Despite our best planning, we spent from 1:30 to 6:00 today not being seen by the endocrinologist. (But it's not really his fault.)
    13Now listen, you who say, "Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money." 14Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. 15Instead, you ought to say, "If it is the Lord's will, we will live and do this or that."

    James 4:13-15 (NIV)
    What happened was this: Nichelle and I arrived at the Dartmouth-Hitchcock Medical Center in Manchester about 9 minutes behind schedule. We'd made one wrong turn, which cost us about four minutes. We tried calling, but no one answered before we were actually headed up the driveway. For the record, until we actually arrived there, we didn't know we were going to a medical center. We thought our destination was a doctor's office of some kind. That was our undoing. We rushed inside (guessing on an entrance) and started waiting in line. In less than a minute, Nichelle asked a staff member for where we should go. She directed us to another counter down the hall. When we got there, the counter was unstaffed. We decided to follow the signs to the main lobby, and met another staff member on the way who said we needed to register. We were served fairly quickly at the registration desk. They only had to correct Nichelle's first name and her last name (yes, Michelle Wilcott :: sigh ::), and look up the insurance three times, ask for her birthdate twice and mine once, then run the co-pay. Then they sent us upstairs, where we checked in again and sat down. After a few minutes, Nichelle was called, and the nurse explained that we checked in too late for the appointment. I was struck instantly by an unusually strong mixture of extreme disappointment and rage. I actually turned and walked away for about 10 seconds. They did say that if the next patient did not show up, they would let us in, so we waited. Nichelle spent the next 15 minutes with her head down and eyes closed. I spent that 15 minutes reading, rubbing Nichelle's back, wishing there were something I could do to help, and mentally reviewing verses about God's sovereignty. The nurse came out, and told us the next patient had arrived. She listened to our story, and noted that similar problems had occurred recently, and went back in to find us the number for the medical center person who handles such problems. During the ride home they phoned us to make another appointment; we were grateful able to get one tomorrow---at the same time of day, but in Concord, rather than Manchester. I'll have to take another afternoon off from work, but can make up the time later in the week, or take it as sick time (our company policy allows this; I'm not being a weasel). God knows what He is doing. It is comforting to know Nichelle will be seen by someone who doesn't squeeze patients in, but rather insists on giving them proper attention and time.
    Nichelle has a new symptom. We're not sure what they are caused by---they might be tiny hemmorages under the skin---but in several places she's had tiny, dark brown, circular freckle-like spots appear. She noticed a few yesterday. This morning there were more, and this evening still more. They are definitely increasing in number. One that seems to be just forming (based on location and size) is a reddish color, which leads me to think that they are indeed tiny spots of subcutaneous bleeding. There's also no external irritation or rash present near them. The other symptoms, pain, dizziness, fatigue, difficulty walking, burning sensations, severe edema, stabbing pains, painful pressure in the head, etc., all continue for much of every day.]]>
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    The Quintessential NaNi http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=390 Wed, 08 Mar 2006 04:37:19 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=390

    Here she is, as usual, bright and cheerful, loaded with energy, and has a fire in her eyes. I took this photo (once I could get her to stop jumping and spinning around shouting "Yippee!") just after I told her we would be going sledding that evening. Although now that I look at this carefully, I'm not sure her hair is quite right ... (I added the one on the right in April, 2006.)]]>
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    Endocrinologist Visit: Cushing's "Not Striking" http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=391 Wed, 08 Mar 2006 17:44:13 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=391 this entry on Cushing's Syndome from the Massachusetts General Hospital and Harvard Medical School, and this one, by Gail Adler, MD, PhD, of Brigham and Women's Hospital and Harvard Medical School. Still another site lists slightly different symptoms, but points out:
    Symptoms of Cushing’s syndrome are extensive and can vary from patient to patient.
    He ordered a number of blood tests, including rerunning thyroid function tests. The most important, however, will probably be two 24-hour urine collections to test for hypercortisolism. He explained that (as we knew from our own research) the single-point-in-time cortisol test Nichelle had last week was of no value. We also learned that there are cortisol levels below which one is considered normal, and above which clearly show hypercortisolism, but there is a significant "gray area" where a diagnosis may be unclear. He also said that he didn't see any symptoms of any other renal or adrenal disfunction. Nichelle observed that he seemed a bit annoyed (or at least perplexed) that the rheumatologist had told Nichelle she "definitely had a serious endocrine problem." This may merely have been professional area-of-expertise jealousy, or due to the fact that the rheumatologist did not provide any thoughts on the issue. (I didn't even notice any discomfort, but Nichelle is much more perceptive than I about such things.) The samples need to be delivered to Concord, N.H., on Thursday and Friday morning, with blood work being done at those times. We asked if the labs could be done by one of the Dartmouth-Hitchcock labs nearby, but it would have meant waiting another full week after getting a new lab schedule to be approved by Dr. Golding (who is away for a few days)---our fault; we didn't think of asking until we were partway home. Nichelle is going to try to make the trips herself, if she feels better than today; I'll act as a backup. So, with the cortisol tests outstanding, Beth's Moxie is in a quantum state. Call it Schrödinger's Soda! (A little non-bio-science Geek humor, there.)
    Today Nichelle awoke with another 5.5 pounds of weight increase from yesterday, bringing her current weight to a new record (which I doubt she would want me to publish). We laughed the other day about how I had to keep forcing myself to eat and eat to maintain the sympathetic weight gain.
    Other exciting symptoms as of this evening (6:00 p.m.) include, according to Nichelle: "feeling really bad: loads of pain, weak feeling, and the head pain---has been hitting in different sections of my head."]]>
    391 2006-03-08 12:44:13 2006-03-08 17:44:13 open open endocrinologist-visit-cushings-not-striking publish 0 0 post 0 1854 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-03-13 11:07:03 2006-03-13 16:07:03 1 0 0 1868 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-16 17:01:15 2006-03-16 22:01:15 1 0 2 1871 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-03-17 15:11:33 2006-03-17 20:11:33 1 0 0 1866 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.86 2006-03-16 16:06:43 2006-03-16 21:06:43 1 0 0 1858 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-03-13 12:30:13 2006-03-13 17:30:13 1 0 0 1862 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-03-14 18:48:43 2006-03-14 23:48:43 doesn't have, although symptoms vary much from person to person. (This is why our endocrinologist was able to say the Cushing's wasn't striking.) As far as we can see, she doesn't have any striae, although they wouldn't show up easily on her dark skin. She also doesn't have high blood pressure or easy bruising. Yesterday she made some careful observations, and discovered that virtually all her hair on her arms, legs, and hands has disappeared. She found it quite disturbing. She also noticed Cushing's-like symptoms in me: Relatively easy bruising, weight gain (despite a careful, lowfat, low-calorie diet for the past six months), striae (on my stomach and arms), hair loss in a few areas, and skin tags.]]> 1 0 2 1856 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-13 11:22:22 2006-03-13 16:22:22 did think the edema was Cushing's related, just that rapid "fluid shifting" wasn't typical of Cushing's, as were some of the other symptoms. This was related to our discussion of the December 25/December 27 photos, which show a rapid change in the edema. I pointed out that the December 27 photo is far more typical than the December 25 one. Examination of the purpura do not clearly reveal a cause; we found one or two that seem to be caused by subcutenaous bleeding---because there were one or two blood-red spots of the same size---but it's very difficult to determine that by examination. He wasn't obviously annoyed, either. It was just something under the surface Nichelle picked up on. It may not have been that he doubted the conclusion of the rheumatologist, but was frustrated by having such a statement made without providing any of the reasoning used to reach it.]]> 1 0 2 1857 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-13 11:25:49 2006-03-13 16:25:49 1 0 2 1855 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-03-13 11:14:52 2006-03-13 16:14:52 1 0 0 1853 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-13 10:02:00 2006-03-13 15:02:00 1 0 2 1847 MJCase4@aol.com 141.154.59.220 2006-03-08 14:41:45 2006-03-08 19:41:45 1 0 0 1848 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-09 11:57:34 2006-03-09 16:57:34 The Waiting Game Day 1 of the free urine cortisol test is done. One more day to go. Then it will be 10 to 14 days for the tests to be run and results processed.]]> 1 0 2 1849 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-10 10:31:26 2006-03-10 15:31:26 1 0 2
    Naomi: Infantile Perspectives on Divinity http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=393 Tue, 14 Mar 2006 15:07:25 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=393 Oh, That Lord!) Last night at dinner, we were beaming with pride when, after Nichelle mentioned we might get snow this weekend, Naomi looked up to Heaven, and said, "Thank you, God!" for the snow she hopes will come. What spontaneous and wonderful praise, especially for someone not even 2.5 years old! How exciting to see her concept of God already forming. Then she closed her prayer with up-pointed finger, and the demand, "Okay, Slacker-Weasel!?"]]> 393 2006-03-14 10:07:25 2006-03-14 15:07:25 open open naomi-infantile-perspectives-on-divinity publish 0 0 post 0 1867 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.86 2006-03-16 16:15:50 2006-03-16 21:15:50 1 0 0 1861 mike_matheson@juno.com 71.71.160.53 2006-03-14 11:06:02 2006-03-14 16:06:02 1 0 0 Cushing's? Inconclusive. What's Next? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=394 Sat, 18 Mar 2006 02:19:32 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=394 hyperparathyroidism, but that's just a guess on my part.) We're both very, very disappointed. Cushing's certainly wouldn't have been a good thing, but it would have offered something we don't have at present: treatment possibilities. This leaves us without much of a clue as to where to proceed. Nichelle is determined to find a clinic in Boston (or anywhere, really) that will make every effort to get to the bottom of this. Her symptoms continue to be severe, and worsening. (Although they have become slightly more predictable---many mornings are often somewhat tolerable for up to a couple of hours, but the swelling continues to worsen steadily, and pain episodes occur repeatedly throughout the day.)
    I was encouraged by the memory of this Scripture-inspired song I learned in Ejido Constitución, México. (Unfortunately, I couldn't remember one line and a couple of words, and, although I have the lyrics written down somewhere, I couldn't find them. ... After almost giving up, it seems this is two choruses combined into one song. The latter part I found here.)
    Jehová es mi Pastor, nada me faltará; Jehová es mi Pastor, nada me faltará; El cuide de las aves, la Biblia dicé asi, Jehová es mi pastor, nada me faltará. Nunca, nunca, nunca me ha dejado, Nunca, nunca, me ha desamparado, Ni en la noche oscura, ni en el día de prueba Jesucristo nunca me desamparará. (Jehovah is my Shepherd, I shall lack nothing; Jehovah is my Shepherd, I shall lack nothing; He cares for the birds, the Bible says, Jehovah is my Shepherd, I shall lack nothing. Never, never, never has He left me, Never, never, never has He abandoned me; Not in the dark night, nor in the day of testing, Jesus Christ will never abandon me.)
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    394 2006-03-17 21:19:32 2006-03-18 02:19:32 open open cushings-not-whats-next publish 0 0 post 0 1875 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-03-20 13:10:57 2006-03-20 18:10:57 1 0 0 1874 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-20 10:55:35 2006-03-20 15:55:35 1761 Old Mill Restaurant in Westminster, Massachusetts. Nichelle was "fine" for a couple of hours, but by the time we were on our way back (picking up a few things from Wal*Mart), she experienced a rapid onset of debilitating symptoms. Saturday night she alternated (along with the other usual symptoms) between feeling like her arms were too heavy to move, and being intensely irritated by having anything touching the skin on her arms. Sunday morning she wasn't in very good condition, and missed church because NaNi had a cold and couldn't go in the nursery. Normally we alternate babysitting in that case, but Nichelle was in even poorer condition Sunday evening, and had to stay home again.]]> 1 0 2 1872 mark@sohmer.net http://www.sohmer.net/mark.php 71.192.251.191 2006-03-18 07:05:18 2006-03-18 12:05:18 1 0 0
    Another Dead End http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=395 Tue, 21 Mar 2006 17:49:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=395
  • Severe edema (fluid shift) with weight fluctuations of 5 lbs. in the course of a day.
  • Significant weight gain (over 65 pounds) in the past year, despite healthy diet and a significant daily exercise regimen (until last fall, when exercising became impossible).
  • Constant burning sensations, especially in the hips.
  • Pain. Moderate pain nearly always. Episodes of severe, stabbing pain on a daily basis. More than one episode per month of pain as severe or more severe than unmedicated childbirth. Stabbing, burning pains in collar bone and ribs.
  • Difficulty walking or standing.
  • Rapid deterioration of "normal" health over the space of 1/2-hour (normal as defined by the current baseline: still not very good, but able to function with only minor or moderate difficulty).
  • Extreme discomfort in having anything touching the skin on her arms.
  • Pins-and-needles sensations all over, especially the head.
  • Periodic cognitive difficulties. (This is the only symptom that has been less severe than a year ago, we believe because of partly successful treatment of sleep-disturbing migraine pain.)
  • Sudden or prolonged exaustion.
  • Severe sensitivity to having anything cold come in contact with her.
  • Feeling very hot or very cold not in conjunction with actual temperature. (Feeling extremely cold often immediately precedes episodes of severe pain.)
  • Occasional inability to grip small items, such as table utensils.
  • Inability to raise arms or hold an item such as a cell phone against her ear or face.
  • Difficulty putting weight on wrists to support.
  • Hair loss on the head, arms, legs, and hands.
  • Purpura---small spots that look like dark freckles that are appearing all over the skin and slowly multiplying. The ones that are a couple of weeks old are now increasing in size.
  • Severe pain in the bones of her wrists and feet, and in her collarbone.
  • Stretch marks and skin discoloration over an ever-increasing number of areas.
  • Dizziness
  • Nausea
  • Low body temperature (1 degree or more below normal) most of the time.
  • At this point, I can only thank the many of you who are following this for your continued prayer, encouragement, and support. The Lord provides strength beyond our human means. This doesn't mean we (and especially me) are not profoundly affected by Nichelle's illness. I've noticed my "highs" have gotten a bit lower, and I do spend a short time each week---usually on the weekend---crying from "significant sorrow/frustration," (probably because I am at home more and less busy while at home) but I am not in despair, nor am I depressed, and this doesn't affect my ability to enjoy life or enjoy God and His many blessings. Most of the time I feel what I can only describe as a "dull ache." But, God gives Nichelle and I patience and hope when there is no human hope.]]>
    395 2006-03-21 12:49:14 2006-03-21 17:49:14 open open another-dead-end publish 0 0 post 0 3087 ddondino@cox.net 68.228.245.140 2006-06-30 17:48:03 2006-06-30 22:48:03 1 0 0 1887 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.158.91 2006-03-23 17:04:23 2006-03-23 22:04:23 1 0 0 1888 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-23 17:28:05 2006-03-23 22:28:05 wanting to write! Can you imagine him treating Joni Eareckson Tada: "Well, the problem, Ms. Tada, is that you don't want to be able to move your limbs.]]> 1 0 2 1892 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-24 10:11:53 2006-03-24 15:11:53 1 0 2 1886 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-23 15:37:10 2006-03-23 20:37:10 1 0 2 1884 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-03-22 10:32:18 2006-03-22 15:32:18 1 0 0 1883 mark@sohmer.net http://www.sohmer.net/mark.php 71.192.251.191 2006-03-22 07:20:26 2006-03-22 12:20:26 The Maker's Diet and I'd be happy to send it to you. Just let me know! :)]]> 1 0 0 1880 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-03-21 16:07:29 2006-03-21 21:07:29 1 0 3 1879 sharizmail@yahoo.com 24.62.204.101 2006-03-21 14:32:08 2006-03-21 19:32:08 1 0 0
    A Friday Night Date with My Wife: E.R. Live! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=397 Sat, 25 Mar 2006 17:06:00 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=397 popular---so we settled down to wait a bit in the lounge. We were impressed by the obvious expense that had gone into the venue. Millions of dollars had been spent on making this place stand out from its competition, and everything looked beautiful, even though some parts were still being renovated. We were at the renovated (but still expanding) Southern New Hampshire Medical Center's emergency department. Nichelle had been in severe pain from Thursday afternoon on, and by Friday evening it had gotten unmanageable. After a brief wait (only about 4 hours)---next time Nichelle will need to be either bleeding profusely or pregnant to ensure rapid attention---they got Nichelle checked in, and administered a couple of different drugs by IV, the second of which actually helped. She was still having severe, stabbing pain in her ribs every 5 to 10 minutes, but most of the other pain was significantly reduced. At 5:00 a.m., she'd been released, and we took a trip through our favorite drive-through: Brook's Pharmacy, and watched the sky brighten with dawn. How romantic!
    This morning Nichelle is feeling much better. The grip of the pain seems to have lessened, and she's able to move around again without difficulty. She even made me a breakfast sandwich (when I finally got out of bed around 11:30), and played a few rounds of Burnout 3: Takedown with Isaac, David, and I, which she hasn't done in months! This brings me to an interesting, if merely anecdotal, observation about the pain she constantly suffers, which varies in severity. It would seem, based on how much better she was this morning, that the medication delivered by IV interfered with a feedback loop that was keeping the pain severe and inceasing it in severity. In short, stopping the pain temporarily led to stopping the pain for a much longer period. Fascinating.]]>
    397 2006-03-25 12:06:00 2006-03-25 17:06:00 open open friday-night-date-activity-trip-to-the-emergency-room publish 0 0 post 0 1897 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-28 12:10:25 2006-03-28 17:10:25 1 0 2 1898 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-29 09:15:38 2006-03-29 14:15:38 1 0 2 1894 mark@sohmer.net http://www.sohmer.net/mark.php 71.192.251.191 2006-03-27 06:39:51 2006-03-27 11:39:51 1 0 0 1895 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-27 13:13:32 2006-03-27 18:13:32 that was funny, you should have heard the sponteanous jokes I worked up with Nichelle while in the emergency department. Humor is one tool in my "arsenal of coping." Besides, you claimed my BLOG was too depressing. The biggest things that make life endurable is studying the sovereignty of God and relying on Him for the strength I need. Still, it's a very difficult situation.]]> 1 0 2 1896 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-03-28 09:11:23 2006-03-28 14:11:23 1 0 0
    Remote Debugging Attachment to a WebLogic Server http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=398 Fri, 21 Apr 2006 21:16:17 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=398 Ray Milland, if you follow this advice: If you Google "Remote debugging WebLogic" you'll find a host of discussions about modifying the startWebLogic.cmd or startWLS.cmd files. Ignore them all (assuming you're using WebLogic 8.1 or later)! (Also remember, never verb a noun.) Let me review the scenario that I am actually addressing here:
    • You will be remote-attaching to a running WebLogic instance, rather than launching the instance from within your IDE. (I use Eclipse, because I'm cheap---and because version 3.1.1 really works great, unlike its predecessors---but these instructions apply to just about anything.)
    • You run your WebLogic application as an instance under a WebLogic managed server, and start/stop it using the Remote Start options in the WebLogic console.
    • You've tried desperately to get your debugger to attach, or your breakpoints to be hit, to no avail.
    • You have deadlines looming, and if you don't get this one problem solved, you can never see your family again.
    Okay, perhaps I went a bit overboard on the scenario, but if you're reading this, I expect, like me, BEA's WebLogic isn't a platform you use every day, but one that you need to work on occasionally. The key is that most of the documentation presumes you won't be running your application from the WebLogic Server Console, and gives no indication that the JVM arguments, in such a case, go in a completely different place. Here's how to prove to the world that you weren't going insane:
    1. Log on to the WebLogic console, via http://{servername}:9999/console. YMMV as far as the port number (after {servername}) is concerned.
    2. Using the navigation tree, click on the domain on which your application resides, open the Servers branch beneath it, and click on your application's name.
    3. With the Configuration tab in the top row selected, click on the Remote Start tab in the second row. (Be sure you don't have Control selected in the top row, otherwise you'll think I am just as batty as the authors of the previous 743 help documents you've read.)
    4. Scroll down to the Arguments: field, and add your debug settings to the JVM arguments in that field. In my case, I added -Xdebug -Xrunjdwp:transport=dt_socket,address=8787,server=y,suspend=n, which (among other things that are too cool for me to share) allows the debugger to attach to port 8787 (address=8787), and the server to start without waiting for a debugger to attach (suspend=n).
    5. Click on Apply.
    6. Then click on Control in the first row of tabs, and be sure Start/Stop is selected in the second row of tabs.
    7. Finally, you'll need to either gracefully or forcefully shut down the server by using the links provided, and then restart the server. (You're actually only restarting your application; the ambiguous language surrounding server is another problem.)
    8. Attach Eclipse to the server by Configuring a new Remote Java Application under Debug ... Feed it parameters of the server name and 8787 (or whatever port you provided in the JVM arguments).
    9. Debug your problem.
    10. For goodness' sake, go home and see your family!
    Drop me an e-mail using the link in the sidebar, or leave a comment, if I've goofed anywhere. I never claimed to be perfect. Sheesh.]]>
    this advice ...]]> 398 2006-04-21 16:16:17 2006-04-21 21:16:17 open open remote-debugging-of-weblogic-with-eclipse publish 0 0 post 0 2052 wilcoxusa@andersonrepublic.com http://www.johnandleah.com 67.141.233.2 2006-04-27 16:13:08 2006-04-27 21:13:08 1 0 0 1952 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.134 2006-04-22 13:52:48 2006-04-22 18:52:48 1 0 0
    Paging Dr. House ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=399 Wed, 29 Mar 2006 20:14:22 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=399

    This is the kind of doctor we need.

    Nichelle asked me to post some notes from today's somewhat discouraging doctor's visit. This was an apointment with a new doctor, who, we hoped, based on recommendations and screening, would listen carefully to the symptoms and be determined to find a solution. Instead, we are being asked to visit specialists in fields we have already visited, and have little to be encouraged about. Here's what was observed at the appointment:
    • Nichelle is now 5' 6" tall---two inches taller than the last time she was measured (some years ago; one doesn't expect to get taller after the age of 25 or so). (Note: We don't have a good benchmark for when this growth occurred; we're trying to find out.)
    • Today she had a 101.2° fever, and was unaware of it. (When's the last time you ran a slight fever and felt no different than any other time?)
    • Her blood pressure was slightly elevated.
    • Her weight has reached a new high.
    Her new doctor wants her to see another rheumatologist, and another endocrinologist, and work with a pain management center (Southern New Hampshire Medical Center has one). He believes the hair loss is an endocrinological problem. (Our endocrinologist who is treating Nichelle for vitamin D deficiency had no explanation for this particular symptom.) The new doctor concluded that successful pain management would allow exercise, and that would lead to weight loss, despite the fact that the onset of these latest, ever-worsening symptoms that struck last fall occurred---contrary to typical fibromyalgia---during a long period of significant daily exercise combined with careful diet, which, incidentally, did not produce any weight loss. Nichelle really feels like yet another doctor is not truly listening to her. I'm not completely convinced that's the case, because he did immediately recommend two specialists and the pain clinic, so it's not like he's saying nothing's wrong---it's just that we can already discount one of his conclusions and he's not really willing to listen to that (yet). The biggest problem is we have a neurologist who has a marvelous doctor-patient manner, and just projects a vast amount of caring, even when he is hearing about symptoms he can't correct in his speciality. Nichelle called him yesterday, because he wanted to be kept informed of her overall medical issues---that's not very common in a specialist. So, just about every doctor we've ever had seems inadequate in comparison. I wanted to quote Job 10:2--3, 8 for this post, but Nichelle wouldn't let me, so I'll go with some verses from Psalm 30 instead, although when I heard these this morning (especially verse 2) they made me cry:
    1I will extol Thee, O LORD; for Thou hast lifted me up, and hast not made my foes to rejoice over me. 2O LORD my God, I cried unto Thee, and Thou hast healed me. 10Hear, O LORD, and have mercy upon me: LORD, be Thou my helper. 11Thou hast turned for me my mourning into dancing: Thou hast put off my sackcloth, and girded me with gladness; 12To the end that my glory may sing praise to Thee, and not be silent. O LORD my God, I will give thanks unto Thee for ever. Psalm 30:1--2, 10--12
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    399 2006-03-29 15:14:22 2006-03-29 20:14:22 open open paging-dr-house publish 0 0 post 0 2185 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-05-03 13:49:41 2006-05-03 18:49:41 Dr. Foreman have contracted. Here are the symptoms (ruling out 1 or 2, such as carbon monoxide poisoning, that the police officer had alone), if I'm remembering correctly. The symptoms progressed quite rapidly (over 1--2 days):
    • Giddiness
    • Fever
    • Clotting in the brain
    • Involuntary movement/contractions of the hands and arms
    • Blindness (of which the patient was unaware at first)---the brain was receiving visual signals, but not able to process them
    • Severe pain
    • Multiple organ failure
    (There a good discussion on this episode here, with excellent medical analysis: http://politedissent.com/archives/1220.) This appears to be a disease that can be communicated relatively easily from person to person. For those who have wondered, Wikipedia suggests this site (one post of which is already mentioned above) for an analysis of the medical accuracy of "House" episodes.]]>
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    • fatigue
    • depression (not a current symptom)
    • sensitivity to cold
    • weight gain
    • muscle weakness
    • coarsening of the skin
    • dry or brittle hair
    • constipation
    • muscle cramps
    • increased menstrual flow
    • increased risk of miscarriage (unknown)
    The few published symptoms that don't match include: "No symptoms," goiter, lump at front of neck, protruding eyes, and slow pulse; on the other hand, additional matches include: mental slowness, forgetfulness, and physical slowness, among others. Symptoms we don't know either way about are low thyroid hormone level and definite hypothyroidism. It's also interesting that some patients with this condition can sometimes test normal or close-to-normal for thyroid function, making diagnosis difficult. The general symptom list for hypothyroidism is similar, and equally well-matched. Nichelle has been tested more than once for thyroid function, but we need to check into what specifically was tested. We shall see ...]]>
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    1901 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-29 16:14:02 2006-03-29 21:14:02 1 0 2 1902 fran_matheson@sil.org 71.71.175.242 2006-03-29 16:57:52 2006-03-29 21:57:52 1 0 0 1899 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-29 16:00:27 2006-03-29 21:00:27 There are still possibilities to examine: HUGE DISCLAIMER: The following is from Beth, our volunteer patient advocate and medical theorist who claims to be merely "a physiologist who doesn't know medicine" and contains her opinions and those of "an MD who hasn't seen the patient and is hearing everying second hand."
    I just had another talk with the other postdoc (the one who actually has an MD). He is really keen on the idea of an endocrine/bone disorder. He hasn't been keen on anything up until now. If you grew two inches---have developed scoliosis---that is indicative of major bone remodeling (the scoliosis could also be due to the stress of putting on weight so quickly). This could have originated from the bone---a problem with the actually living portion of the bone---it is highly innervated, and may be why you had pain and fatigue as your first symptoms. The bone disorder could also be due to renal problems or at the level of a gland---say the pituitary. He doubts the vitamin D deficiency is the primary issue here---but instead is probably a symptom of things that have been developing for years. It is good that we have ruled out cortisol as a reason for swelling---now they can focus on renal! Have they collected any urine to check for renal indicators? Things can spill into the urine long before they shows up in blood work. You are clearly having problems with calcium metabolism and apparently calcium can majorly impact your metabolism. We both stand by our vote of "endocrinology." I will be reading more into these things.
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    Big News: Doug Bakes ... from Scratch http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=400 Fri, 31 Mar 2006 15:28:07 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=400 Star Wars influence here. She had a lot of fun, and Doug commented that it was fun working with her, too. Naomi also likes to help me cook, so she now gets the teaching from both of us. Which is of course helpful for her to be well rounded. ]]> 400 2006-03-31 10:28:07 2006-03-31 15:28:07 open open big-news-doug-bakesfrom-scratch publish 0 0 post 0 3302 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-08-16 13:38:00 2006-08-16 18:38:00 1 0 2 1921 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-04-04 08:18:15 2006-04-04 13:18:15 1 0 0 1922 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-04 09:53:25 2006-04-04 14:53:25 1 0 2 1927 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.168 2006-04-09 14:11:35 2006-04-09 19:11:35 1 0 0 1914 fran_matheson@sil.org 71.71.175.242 2006-04-01 13:58:04 2006-04-01 18:58:04 1 0 0 1916 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.179.111 2006-04-02 14:22:44 2006-04-02 19:22:44 1 0 0 1910 fran_matheson@sil.org 71.71.175.242 2006-03-31 13:51:17 2006-03-31 18:51:17 1 0 0 1911 fran_matheson@sil.org 71.71.175.242 2006-03-31 13:52:37 2006-03-31 18:52:37 1 0 0 1912 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-31 14:39:43 2006-03-31 19:39:43 1 0 2 1908 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-03-31 10:50:09 2006-03-31 15:50:09 have to get out the ingredients; I only wanted her to point out what cabinets they were in. It's usually painful for her to move around, especially in the evenings, so I didn't want her to exert herself unnecessarily---naturally, there was no stopping her. Isaac and John's reactions were the most doubtful. "You're going to bake something?" they snickered. They have heard hand-me-down tales of the "bricklike" brownies I made when I was in high school. Weasels! I was tempted to forbid them from having any. The whole thing was inspired by my consumption of bananas, and purchase of prodigious quantities thereof, now that I'm doing the grocery shopping. I noticed the ones I've been eating all week were very ripe, and remembered that those are good for banana bread. (Although I will eat bananas in virtually any condition, the rest of the family is too spoiled.) Nichelle also informed me that she's been freezing the ones that were past the state of normal consumption, so I know I can make more banana bread this weekend. I spent this morning trying to figure the most optimized way to make a number of batches of banana bread. If I serialize the preparation of everything, I'd have to repeatedly measure things, and that would be inefficient. (Although it would work well if we had multiple people helping and could set up an assembly-line process.) I think if I just multiply the recipe quantities for the ingredients (mostly bananas) at hand, I'll be okay. The KitchenAid can handle a lot bigger batch than we ran last night. One puzzlement: No one wanted to lick the mixing attachment. That was one of the treats of having Mom bake at home when I was a kid.]]> 1 0 2 1909 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2006-03-31 10:55:28 2006-03-31 15:55:28 1 0 4 Millions and Millions? (Answers in Genesis - MVBC Conference) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=401 Mon, 03 Apr 2006 18:23:35 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=401 Answers in Genesis conference hosted by Merrimack Valley Baptist Church, featuring Dr. Ken Ham. (See event details, including driving directions here.) There are two more sessions this evening. I highly recommend attending. Dr. Ham is an excellent presenter, and teaches in ways that are both fascinating and amusing. I've now attended three different Creation Science conferences: Dr. Ham's presentations are on par with the excellent work of the Institue for Creation Research. (There is a third, very well-known Creation Science presenter I've seen whose seemed to go off-topic at times, and who left me feeling he was a bit loopy when he did so.) There were a few things which were of particular interest to me, although everything was interesting:
    • Not a single point mutation ever studied has resulted in an increase of genetic information: They have all (all that we have studied so far, at least) removed information. It turns out that the things we dread, like bacterial resistance to antibiotics, are due to genetic information being lost from the strains. (In one specific example, mutation removed the ability to produce an enzyme that converted the antibiotic to poison within the bacterium, making a particular antibiotic ineffective.)
    • The explanations of how specific breeds of dogs show subsamples of a more genetically diverse gene pool were excellent. He referred to his wife's expensive-to-care-for hypoallergenic poodle-type dog as, "my wife's degenerate, mutant dog." I have always been fascinated by genetics, and enjoyed this part of the presentations immensely.
    • During an explanation of 14C (Carbon 14) dating versus K-AR (Potassium-Argon) dating, Dr. Ham presented a find from a mine in Australia, where samples of fossil trees (not petrified) were found embedded in the bottom of a basalt layer. The layer was K-AR dated at 36 to 45 million years old, while the wood was radiocarbon dated to about 45,000 years old. They can't both be correct, especially as 14C isn't supposed to persist in measurable quantities for more then 100,000 years.
    Dr. Ham has blogged about this conference himself here. Enjoy.]]>
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    Endocrinologist II: Not Much to Tell (Yet) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=402 Mon, 03 Apr 2006 20:13:24 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=402 symptom list, and commented that Nichelle had "a lot of things going on." He wanted to know if Nichelle had a family history of thyroid problems. (Getting a family medical history for either one of us is a rather amusing undertaking.) Nichelle did ask him to confirm any connection between the vitamin D deficiency and the serious symptoms she is now experiencing. As we expected, he said they were "totally separate," but Nichelle wanted a second opinion. Unfortunately, some critical records were not sent over, despite the fact that Nichelle checked on them this morning. His concern is that (just as Beth has suggested), critical endocrinology tests were missed, and only the cursory levels were measured, especially for thyroid function. He's going to examine the records, after Nichelle kicks some butt to get them sent over, and call Nichelle back. (This appears to be a failure in the medical records department, rather than the doctor's office, for a change.)]]> 402 2006-04-03 15:13:24 2006-04-03 20:13:24 open open endocrinologist-not-much-to-tell-yet publish 0 0 post 0 1920 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-04-04 08:15:58 2006-04-04 13:15:58 1 0 0 1923 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-04 10:04:36 2006-04-04 15:04:36 14O satisfy us early with Thy mercy; that we may rejoice and be glad all our days. 15Make us glad according to the days wherein Thou hast afflicted us, and the years wherein we have seen evil. 16Let Thy work appear unto Thy servants, and Thy glory unto their children. Psalm 90:14--16]]> 1 0 2 Another Appointment ... Rheumatologist II http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=404 Thu, 06 Apr 2006 15:45:36 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=404 http://www.fibromyalgia-symptoms.org. The doctor today, too, agrees that the other problems that I'm having are endocrine. I am also waiting to hear back from the new endocrinologist. He wanted to go over my tests results from the first endocrinologist, who claimed that I didn't have an endocrine problem! I have been checking my temperature for several days now and the highest it's been is 98.0 and the lowest was 96.3. The typical range in 97.2 to 97.7. Next week I have an appointment at the pain management clinic. Waiting, praying, hurting, and crying, but through it all we know God is ultimately in control and already knows the outcome. Thank you for your continued encouragement and prayers. ]]> 404 2006-04-06 10:45:36 2006-04-06 15:45:36 open open another-appointment publish 0 0 post 0 1924 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-06 11:40:58 2006-04-06 16:40:58 1 0 2 Another Dead End: Endocrinologist II http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=405 Fri, 07 Apr 2006 14:08:52 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=405
  • No further assessment
  • Fasting plasma glucose at some point in the future, not running any more tests.
  • Maybe another fasting glucose---talk to the PCP about that
  • Can find nothing from an endocrine standpoint
  • However, the office is checking on a referral to an endocrinologist in Boston. This is really, really frustrating. Hypothyroidism on top of fibromyalgia explains nearly all of Nichelle's symptoms. Every doctor except the endocrinologists Nichelle has seen seems to think this exhibits as a clearly endocrinological problem. I'm going for a walk.
    Later news: Nichelle has been referred to a specialist in Boston. The endocrinologist did agree to the referral, and will be following up on the results. This is some progress. ]]>
    405 2006-04-07 09:08:52 2006-04-07 14:08:52 open open another-dead-end-ii publish 0 0 post 0 1937 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-04-12 09:43:32 2006-04-12 14:43:32 1 0 0 1938 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-12 11:55:01 2006-04-12 16:55:01 1 0 2 1929 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-10 09:15:22 2006-04-10 14:15:22 reproductive endocrinologist. However, if Nichelle's endocrinologist II will fax over the records, endocrinologist III will take a look, and either take the case or refer to [an as yet unknown] endocrinologist IV.]]> 1 0 2 1930 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-11 08:56:52 2006-04-11 13:56:52 1 0 2 1931 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-04-11 09:23:22 2006-04-11 14:23:22 1 0 0 1932 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-11 09:56:48 2006-04-11 14:56:48 1 0 2 1925 mark@sohmer.net http://www.sohmer.net/mark.php 71.192.251.191 2006-04-07 09:42:03 2006-04-07 14:42:03 no further assessment What does that mean? They don't want to see Nichelle anymore? But then they talk about other possible tests. So do they want to see her or not?
    Maybe another fasting glucose—talk to the PCP about that
    How does this fit in with "no further assessment?" Does this mean they think she should do this test, but they don't want to be the office to do it for her? I know you're frustrated, and UNDERSTANDABLY SO, but when you get a minute, could you please ellaborate? Thanks! I love you guys so much! I'm sorry you're going through this.]]>
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    The Best Job in America: Mine http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=406 Wed, 12 Apr 2006 21:53:06 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=406 best job in America.

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    406 2006-04-12 16:53:06 2006-04-12 21:53:06 open open i-have-the-best-job-in-america publish 0 0 post 0 2126 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-04-29 11:19:45 2006-04-29 16:19:45 1 0 3 2125 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.73.54.193 2006-04-29 07:13:51 2006-04-29 12:13:51 1 0 0 1944 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.167.234 2006-04-15 10:06:32 2006-04-15 15:06:32 1 0 0 1946 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-04-15 19:09:18 2006-04-16 00:09:18 here is double---at least housing seems to be. Social convention forbids me from publishing my salary. Y'all will have to guess.]]> 1 0 2 1949 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-04-18 14:16:22 2006-04-18 19:16:22 1 0 0 1950 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.58.24 2006-04-19 11:00:05 2006-04-19 16:00:05 1 0 0 1939 mark@sohmer.net http://www.sohmer.net/mark.php 71.192.251.191 2006-04-12 17:06:14 2006-04-12 22:06:14 1 0 0 1940 lizmom@comcast.net 24.34.203.249 2006-04-12 18:59:46 2006-04-12 23:59:46 1 0 0 1942 wilcoxusa@andersonrepublic.com http://www.johnandleah.com 71.71.174.246 2006-04-14 09:14:39 2006-04-14 14:14:39 1 0 0
    Analyzing the Symptoms http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=407 Sat, 22 Apr 2006 00:27:59 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=407 A Brief Update There are no more good days. Occasionally, Nichelle will have a few hours when she is able to be somewhat active, but it appears that even days like our 1/2-day MFA trip are now impossible. The pain is more severe, and Nichelle's general debilitation is both more severe and the episodes last longer. Walking any real distance is nearly impossible, although she did complete a less-than-30-minute trip to Wal*Mart last week, this is exceptional. There are unexplained symptoms, like the tiny purpura spreading through her skin, as well as inexplicably normal test results, such as for free T4 (one of the thyroid hormones) and cortisol. It's very frustrating. Our most dedicated doctor admits that this is outside his specialty (neurology), and other doctors seem unwilling to exert the effort to find the cause of these problems. If we were to diagnose based merely upon symptoms, my conclusion would be hypothyroidism on top of fibromyalgia. However, the hormone tests run so far for hypothyroidism have been negative. (But hormone problems are often difficult to diagnose, and may defy test-based diagnosis for years.) Symptoms such as she is now suffering go back all the way to 1992, although they have been increasing in severity enough to be very troublesome for about the last 7 years, the last two years have been much worse. More detail and history are available by clicking on the fibromyalgia category for our BLOG. Nichelle has copies now of most of her medical records. We are leaving no stone unturned. The common theme expressed by doctors is, "I dunno." On the bright side, the illness did make shopping for Nichelle's birthday presents easy: DVDs from Amazon. By the way, if you haven't read this post about Nichelle, you should!
    Symptom Frequency Possible Diagnoses
    Severe edema (fluid shift) with weight fluctuations of 5 lbs. in the course of a day. The swelling varies in intensity, especially around the face, but is always bad. Continuing. Cushing's Syndrome, Hypothyroidism.
    Significant weight gain (over 65 pounds) in the past year, despite healthy diet and a significant daily exercise regimen (until last fall, when exercising became impossible). Constant. Weight tends to suddenly shoot up every few weeks. Cushing's Syndrome, Hypothyroidism, medication interactions (from the tricyclics used to prevent migraines and sleep problems).
    Burning sensations, primarily in the hips and back. Many hours each day. Fibromyalgia, hypocalcemia, secondary hyperparathyroidism.
    Pain. Moderate to severe pain nearly always. Episodes of severe, stabbing pain on a daily basis. More than one episode per month of pain as severe or more severe than unmedicated childbirth. Daily. Fibromyalgia, migraines, hypocalcemia, myofascial pain syndrome.
    Difficulty walking or standing. Constant. Currently able to maintain only a decreasingly short amount of activity at a time. Unknown.
    Rapid deterioration of “normal” health over the space of 1/2-hour (normal as defined by the current baseline: still not very good, but able to function with only minor or moderate difficulty). Daily, when basal health is temporarily good enough to demonstrate a decline. Hypothyroidism, fibromyalgia.
    Extreme discomfort in having anything touching the skin on her arms. (Skin sensitivity.). Weekly. Unknown.
    Pins-and-needles sensations all over, especially the head. Daily. Fibromyalgia, secondary hyperparathyroidism.
    Periodic cognitive difficulties. (This is the only symptom that has been less severe than a year ago, we believe because of partly successful treatment of sleep-disturbing migraines.). Several times a week. Hypothyroidism, fibromyalgia, hypocalcemia.
    Sudden or prolonged exhaustion. Nearly daily. Hypothyroidism, fibromyalgia.
    Painful, unusually strong sensitivity to having anything cold come in contact with skin. Constant. Fibromyalgia.
    Feeling very hot or very cold not in conjunction with actual temperature. (Feeling extremely cold often immediately precedes episodes of severe pain.) Night sweats. Daily. Hypothyroidism.
    Occasional inability to grip small items, such as table utensils. A few times per month. Unknown.
    Inability to raise arms or hold an item such as a cell phone against her ear or face. Constant. Cushing's syndrome.
    Difficulty putting weight on wrists to support. Constant. Possible bone problems, hypocalcemia, secondary hyperparathyroidism.
    Hair breakage/brittle hair. Hair loss on arms, legs, and hands. Continuing. Hypothyroidism.
    Small spots that look like dark freckles that are appearing all over the skin and slowly multiplying. The ones that are a couple of weeks old are now increasing in size. (I had previously labeled these as purpura, but Dr. Hall told us that purpura describes such spots only when they are caused by platelet problems.) Continuing to increase in number. Unknown.
    Severe pain in the bones of her wrists, feet, collarbone, and ribs. Constant. Secondary hyperparathyroidism, possible bone problems, hypocalcemia.
    Stretch marks and skin discoloration over an ever-increasing number of areas. Continuing to worsen. Cushing's Syndrome, may be secondary to the significant edema and weight gain.
    Dizziness. Several times a day. Fibromyalgia.
    Nausea. Several hours each day. Hypothyroidism, fibromyalgia.
    Low body temperature (1 degree or more below normal) most of the time. Constant. One or twice a week temperature approaches (but does not reach) normal. Hypothyroidism.
    Low calcium level (hypocalcemia). Current. Vitamin D deficiency, parathyroid problems.
    High PTH (Human parathyroid hormone) level. Current. Parathyroid problems, could be secondary to vitamin D deficiency.
    The official diagnoses, which have not helped with a treatment or identified the causes (most are merely descriptions of symptoms), for the most part, the following:
    • Fibromyalgia
    • Myofascial pain syndrome
    • Secondary hyperparathyroidism
    • Vitamin D deficiency
    • Hypocalcemia (probably caused by vitamin D deficiency or parathyroid problems)
    • Neurosomatic syndrome
    • Periodic limb movement disorder (believed being successfully prevented with medication)
    What We've [Mostly] Ruled Out: Fibromyalgia is, itself, generally diagnosed by ruling out everything for which a definitive clinical test exists. Here are the few other things that have been ruled out:
    • Lupus (this has been repeatedly tested for about the past 10 years; it has always been negative)
    • Heart problems/heart disease
    • Diabetes
    • Sickle cell anemia
    • West Nile virus
    • Lyme disease
    In addition, Cushing's Syndrome seems less likely than hypothyroidism, due to the fact that some classic symptoms of Cushing's are absent.
    This analysis is hardly complete; there are certainly other possible explanations of these symptoms. If you have other suggestions, please let us know. Personally, I think it's just Munchausen Syndrome. (Or maybe it's Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy, just like in The Sixth Sense.) At any rate, keep praying.]]>
    407 2006-04-21 19:27:59 2006-04-22 00:27:59 open closed analyzing-the-symptoms publish 0 0 post 0 2001 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-26 14:15:45 2006-04-26 19:15:45 1 0 2 2043 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-27 12:33:47 2006-04-27 17:33:47 1 0 2 1975 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-24 12:04:37 2006-04-24 17:04:37 that's not a problem in this case. But specialization and a few insurance restrictions can be limiting. Nichelle goes to have an MRI tomorrow, but it is only for the pituitary. It would be really smart to scan the pituitary and adrenals at the same time, but Endocrinologist I won't buy it (he's only treating the Vitamin D deficiency), Endocrinologist II is out of town, and we're still waiting for an appointment with Endocrinologist III (in Boston). This is where a team of doctors for consultation would be vital, just like they do on "House." In the past two years we've seen two GPs, one OB/GYN (they're familiar with hormone processes), one neurologist (our favorite: this guy is wonderful, but he's at his limits for what he can explore), two rheumatologists, and two endocrinologists (and are waiting to see a third endocrinologist). The two rheumatologists were unanimous in declaring this to be clearly a hormonal problem. Unfortunately, Endocrinologists I and II don't seem to want to get to the bottom of things themselves, after running a few tests (but not all the tests they could). At least Endo II was willing to refer Nichelle to a Mass General doctor ... Naomi, at 2.5 years, has a clear expectation of what doctors can do. She'll ask Nichelle after each visit (even after just having blood drawn), "Mommy, you all better now?" I pray for the day we'll be able to answer, "Yes."]]> 1 0 2 1976 xine@limey.net 66.92.76.84 2006-04-24 14:39:38 2006-04-24 19:39:38 1 0 0 1981 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-25 08:37:43 2006-04-25 13:37:43 MRIs and Cleaning Fiesta Nichelle is having an MRI this morning to check her brain (I said they wouldn't find anything) and pituitary. Our neurologist decided on this scan. Nichelle has just heard back from Endocrinologist II, who we hoped would agree to MRI the adrenals and parathyroid (since she's going to be "in the tube" anyway), but he claims he can't find sufficient cause to run them. Maybe the symptoms are sufficient cause? Nichelle's day began unusually:
    ... [A]woke this morning without pain and with energy. Got the kids up, made lunches, etc.; it was wonderful going up and downstairs without pain and with speed. Unfortunately, it only lasted for 30 minutes, and all other symptoms are back, but it was so wonderful to have had a pain-free start.
    Last night a bunch of ladies from the church came over to clean for a couple of hours. I was amazed at the results, although I commented that it made all the cleaning the boys and I have been doing seem incompetent. Nichelle answered that men and women have very different ideas about what "clean" means. She's so diplomatic. I hadn't realized just how much dust and clutter had accumulated since Christmas. Normally Nichelle will use her infrequent good hours to keep things in shape, but it looks like the good hours are getting too far apart. We're very grateful for the help.]]>
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    1978 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-24 15:43:00 2006-04-24 20:43:00 1 0 2 1979 salter840@aol.com http://Lifeinthestraightjacketblogger 195.93.21.37 2006-04-24 16:52:12 2006-04-24 21:52:12 1 0 0 1980 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-04-24 18:30:47 2006-04-24 23:30:47 1 0 2 1973 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-04-24 10:10:11 2006-04-24 15:10:11 really worth declaring unfair. We have medical records showing these same complaints, albeit in much less severity, going back over 13 years. Nichelle and I have become obsessed with the medical drama "House." (I bought the first season on DVD for her this weekend.) It's perplexing and frustrating that an illness that is life-threatening gets immediate attention in our health system, but one that is life-ruining requires massive effort on the part of the patient to receive treatment or diagnosis, especially if a diagnosis isn't easily obtained.]]> 1 0 2 1974 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.66 2006-04-24 11:47:50 2006-04-24 16:47:50 1 0 0
    36 Hours / 12 Days and Counting http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=408 Mon, 01 May 2006 16:35:55 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=408 12 Days and Counting Endocrinologist 3, with Mass General, has given Nichelle an appointment for May 12 at 1:00 p.m. Nichelle is thrilled. Please pray that this doctor will be determined to find out precisely what is wrong with Nichelle and treat her, or immediately send her to someone who will. 36 Hours Nichelle experienced about 36 hours of "normal" life this weekend. She was without pain, and had no trouble walking or doing regular activities from Friday afternoon through late Saturday evening. We even got to go to our church visitation program Saturday morning. She went to church on Sunday morning, but experienced a rapid degradation again. By the end of the service, she needed help getting down the stairs, and needed someone else to drive her home. (I was at home with David, who was sick.) Nichelle wrote in an e-mail earlier today,
    Of course, I was grateful for feeling "normal," and for being pain-free for the first time in a very long time. I give Praise to God, my Lord and Savior, for His great love and care, and for each of you for your continued love and support and many prayers.
    I find Nichelle's worsening illness is wearing me down (after 13 years with these symptoms appearing periodically, the last 7 of which have been difficult, and the last 2 of which have been extremely disruptive both in symptom severity and percentage of time per year they have been present). I noticed this weekend while she was well that I was dampening out any feeling that might be described as "experiencing hopefulness," as such feelings have been rewarded repeatedly with crushing disappointment. I still have hope that God will lead us to a treatment eventually, but it seems to have become my own quest to destroy the One Ring---even as we may be getting closer to Mordor.
    Addendum: May 2, 2006 My goodness, I was in a funk yesterday! My reading in Spiritual Depression: Its Causes and Its Cure (D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones) coincided perfectly with my mood, and was exactly of what I needed to be reminded. Now I know why it's taken me so long to get to that particular chapter: God was orchestrating the timing.
    All things may seem to be against me 'to drive me to despair,' I do not understand what is happening; but I know this, I know that God has so loved me that He sent His only begotten Son into this world for me, I know that while I was an enemy, God sent His only Son to die on the Cross on Calvary's Hill for me. he has done that for me while I was an enemy, a rebellious alien. I know that the Son of God 'loved me and gave Himself for me.' I know that at the cost of His life's blood I have salvation and that I am a child of God and an heir to everlasting bliss. ... Faith reminds itself of what the Scripture calls 'the exceeding great and precious promises.' ... I do not suggest that you will be able to understand everything that is happening. You may not have a full explanation of it; but you will know for certain that God is not unconcerned. That is impossible. The One who has done the greatest thing of all for you, must be concerned about you in everything, and though the clouds are thick and you cannot see His face, you know He is there. ... Now hold on to that. ... Nothing can happen to you but what He allows, I do not care what it may be, some great disappointment, perhaps, or it may be an illness, it may be a tragedy of some sort, I do not know what it is, but you can be certain of this, that God permits that thing to happen to you because it is ultimately for your good.
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    408 2006-05-01 11:35:55 2006-05-01 16:35:55 open open 36-hours-12-days-and-counting publish 0 0 post 0 2357 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-05-12 08:53:32 2006-05-12 13:53:32 Today's the Day We're off in a few minutes to see Dr. Hall at Mass General. Our prayer is that she will be committed to finding out what's wrong with Nichelle and coming up with a treatment. Last night Nichelle felt good for a few hours, and we had a great time at home: Wrestling with the kids (you should have seen her beating on John), everyone running around in chaos, the kids working out their own choreography to "Me Old Bamboo" from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang. It's been a long time since our lives have been normal. Pray.]]> 1 0 2 2133 MJCase4@aol.com 151.203.222.234 2006-05-01 14:37:30 2006-05-01 19:37:30 1 0 0 2134 lizmom@comcast.net 24.34.203.249 2006-05-01 19:20:45 2006-05-02 00:20:45 1 0 0 2252 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.158.48 2006-05-06 16:50:26 2006-05-06 21:50:26 1 0 0
    With a thankful heart... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=412 Tue, 09 May 2006 14:12:53 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=412 Rose from Brier; what I've read and re-read has been a blessing and a huge encouragement. A portion of a song that came to Amy C. while amidst great pain and a desire to be with her Fellowship, "Thou hast not that, My child, but Thou has Me, And am not I alone enough for thee? I know it all, know how thy heart was set Upon this joy which is not give yet. And well I know how through the wistful days Thou walkest all the dear familiar ways, As unregarded as a breath of air, But there in love and longing, always there. I know it all; but from thy brier shall blow a rose for others. If it were not so I would have told thee. Come, then, say to Me: My Lord, my Love, I am content with Thee." Thank you to Eric and Juana Quinlan for giving me a CD by Twila Paris, entitled, "He is Exalted." My favorite song---although I love listening to them all---but the one that has stood out the most is, "God is in Control": This is no time for fear This is a time for faith and determination Don't lose the vision here Carried away by motion Hold on to all that you hide in your heart There is one thing that has always been true It holds the world together God is in control We believe that His children will not be forsaken God is in control We will choose to remember and never be shaken There is no power above or beside Him, we know God is in control History marches on There is a bottom line drawn across the ages Culture can make its plan Oh, but the line never changes No matter how the deception may fly There is one thing that has always been true It will be true forever He has never let yo down Why start to worry now? He is still the Lord of all we see And He is still the loving Father Watching over you and me Another thank you to Beth C. for sending us the sermon by John MacArthur, entitled, "The Role of Suffering" from II Corinthians chapter 12. It was such a powerful message. One of the points he made was that trials serve many purposes, such as the following: To test our faith, to wean us off of worldly things, help us focus on eternal hope, to reveal what we really love, to teach us to value God's blessing, to enable us to help others who suffer, to produce endurance, to humble us, or to break our confidence. They produce the broken and contrite heart God wants us to have. Another point is that God uses suffering to draw us to Himself. Suffering has a way of increasing and intensifying our prayer life. In II Co. 12:9, "... My grace is sufficient for you ..." God doesn't remove the issue of pain or trouble, but increases the grace He gives. He gives comforting grace in the midst of a trial. Encouraging grace in the midst of pain. A confident grace. In Deut. 33:26 it says He "rides through the heavens to your help." There will always be sufficient grace to every issue. God doesn't promise to remove your trouble, pain, etc., but promises to overwhelm it with grace. How wonderful is that? How wonderful, awesome, and powerful our God and Saviour is!!!!! My God has given me a wonderful husband, who is stronger than he realizes. I thank Him for such a man that is faithful through it all. My kids are indeed a joy and a blessing, most of the time. From the silly things they say to the serious questions they ask. One of my favorite times with them is just sitting and listening to them sing along with the music that plays. What a joy to hear them sing praises to our God. He's so very good. His provision for us, His loving care, His guidance and His continued mercy. One of my favorite verses is: Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father. But the very hairs of your head are numbered. Fear ye not therefore, ye are more valuable than many sparrows. ---Matthew 10:29-31 I praise God for His love that is shown through family and friends, with their continued prayers and words of encouragement and the many helpful things they do. Thank you to each of you. Thank you for showing me God's love and your love, too. ]]> 412 2006-05-09 09:12:53 2006-05-09 14:12:53 open open with-a-thankful-heart-2 publish 0 0 post 0 2358 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.173.24 2006-05-12 10:31:15 2006-05-12 15:31:15 1 0 0 2333 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-05-09 21:01:17 2006-05-10 02:01:17 I have a most amazing wife. My posts are all, "Aaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrgggghhhhhh!" while this post she wrote is clearly, "Praise God for His grace." I am humbled. Weasel.]]> 1 0 2 2334 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.87 2006-05-10 10:55:33 2006-05-10 15:55:33 1 0 0 2310 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-05-09 09:37:57 2006-05-09 14:37:57 1 0 3 2309 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2006-05-09 09:19:40 2006-05-09 14:19:40 those in a while!). Anyhow, the song is "This Thorn" and it's on the Cry for the Desert CD if you're inclined to look into it. The lyrics are:
    Thank you for this torn embedded in my flesh I can feel the mystery my spirit is made fresh You are sovereign still and forever wise I can see the miracle opening my eyes To a proud heart so quick to judge Laying down crosses and carrying grudges The veil has been torn And I thank you for this thorn Thank you for this thorn fellowship of pain Teaching me to know you more never to complain Thank You for this love planted in my side Faithful patient miracle opening my eyes I never thought I'd say it without reservation But I am truly grateful for this piercing revelation Of a proud heart so quick to judge Laying down crosses and carrying grudges The veil has been torn And I thank you for this thorn And if You chose to take it, I will praise You And thank You for the healing in your name But if it must remain, I thank You for Your rod Evidence of Father-love for a child of God I join you in sorrow So much less than You have borne And I thank you Really I thank You Lord I thank You I thank You for this thorn
    You are continually in my prayers.]]>
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    How God answered prayer... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=413 Sat, 13 May 2006 00:04:17 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=413 Doug's Impressions: I actually had a little speech planned for Dr. Hall, but didn't get to use it. Essentially, I intended to ask that she leave no stone unturned to find out what was wrong with Nichelle, and if she believed things were out of her field or specific area of expertise, refer Nichelle to a doctor she knew would do the same. To my delight, Dr. Hall declared almost exactly that, right at the beginning. We spent a long time in the preliminary interview. We covered a lot of ground. I felt at times like, given the immense amount of information we were trying to convey, that we weren't communicating perfectly (there are a couple of corrections/clarifications we need to make), but Dr. Hall took all the relevant records from us, and intends to read them. Dr. Hall said Nichelle was, "very observant": Possible translation---In our increasing desperation to find answers, we're becoming hypervigilant, and noticing unrelated symptoms which might be meaningless in a larger context. I've noticed a little bit of that in Nichelle's online research. She'll locate and pass on to me documentation on illnesses that match on one or two symptoms, even though the overall pattern does not match at all. One of the hardest questions to answer was what the most pressing problem is. Do we go back to the odd and persistent fibromyalgia-type problems? How do we divide the fibromyalgia pain from the odd and debilitating symptoms (many of which are pain-related) that occur now? We still don't have any real answers. Dr. Hall is not convinced that the problems are endocrinological in nature. (We all believe that they are not all caused by endocrine problems.) It is clear to her that there is not one single diagnosis that would cover everyting. She is also considering some things that have not been looked at, such as an autoimmune disorder, or a hemoglobin problem such as spherocytosis. She also asked quite a few questions about what cortisol tests had been done. I was particularly impressed with her willingness to look at some of the items that we tend to now take for granted, such as Nichelle's anemia. I can't remember a test that Nichelle has had that didn't show anemia, but I don't think anyone has ever looked for the cause, just as I don't think anyone has ever followed up on why the anemia hasn't responded well to iron supplements. The tests Dr. Hall ordered required drawing six tubes of blood. We wait for the results, and for a follow-up with Dr. Hall some weeks hence. Nichelle is in very poor health today (Saturday). ]]> 413 2006-05-12 19:04:17 2006-05-13 00:04:17 open open how-god-answered-prayer publish 0 0 post 0 2693 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-05-22 10:36:14 2006-05-22 15:36:14 1 0 2 2446 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-05-18 12:28:46 2006-05-18 17:28:46 1 0 2 2398 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.235 2006-05-17 13:45:30 2006-05-17 18:45:30 1 0 0 2399 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.235 2006-05-17 13:56:50 2006-05-17 18:56:50 1 0 0 2386 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.173.75 2006-05-16 13:53:20 2006-05-16 18:53:20 1 0 0 2387 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-05-16 15:20:55 2006-05-16 20:20:55 Wikipedia, and my spelling of felafel was correct. Tabouli (or tabbouleh) seem to be the preferred spellings, for that dish which makes us both wrong. I have a great photo of an English sign from the immigration checkpoint in Cd. Juarez, Mexico. It's completely incomprehensible! I'll try to find it. Our greca (espresso urn from the Dominican Republic) had some great instructions on it (probably from China). I have kept that somewhere ... Both these references were pre-computer, unfortunately.]]> 1 0 2 2382 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-05-15 11:38:13 2006-05-15 16:38:13 felafel, tabooly, and shish kebab were taken directly from the menu. Don't blame me. ;) But recipes would be most welcome, although they will have to wait until Nichelle feels well. I can make banana bread (the whole wheat version was excellent, by the way) and heat pasta, but should not be trusted in the kitchen with anything more complicated than that. If L. is in town, she can always come cook for us. Thank you for the encouragement regarding David. It had occurred to me that it was a good thing he was talking about it. Every now and then we try to sit down with all the kids together and make sure their concerns are addressed. John and Isaac tend to be the quietest. NaNi continues to make plans for when Mommy is "all better." David seems to suffer from infirmidatus sympatheticus---lots of complaints of leg and stomach pain---which has been better since we talked to him about that specifically a few weeks ago.]]> 1 0 2 2359 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 72.43.160.138 2006-05-12 20:35:25 2006-05-13 01:35:25 1 0 0 2360 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-05-13 18:08:02 2006-05-13 23:08:02 1 0 2 2361 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-05-15 00:24:44 2006-05-15 05:24:44 1 0 2 2362 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.161 2006-05-15 08:12:52 2006-05-15 13:12:52 1 0 0 NaNi Empowered http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=414 Thu, 18 May 2006 17:25:37 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=414 I'm Naomi Wilcox!"]]> 414 2006-05-18 12:25:37 2006-05-18 17:25:37 open open empowerment publish 0 0 post 0 2474 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2006-05-18 13:59:23 2006-05-18 18:59:23 1 0 4 2475 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-05-18 14:02:26 2006-05-18 19:02:26 1 0 2 Moving, walking, running ... little things for some, but not to me ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=415 Thu, 25 May 2006 14:12:26 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=415

    This week in school for the elementary grades is "spirit week." Each day the kids get to dress up according to the predetermined selection of ideas. "Hats, glasses and slipper day" was yesterday, and today was mixed-match day. Yesterday, I was able to run downstairs and lie on the floor looking for stuff under their beds, helping the kids locate items that were deep underneath. That, of course, is a big deal. And I was able to get back up without help. On Sunday night, although in some pain, I was able to help Isaac make a meat eating plant (pitcher plant) for costume day. You'll see the outcome [Doug: Pictures coming tonight.] and he won second place, too. I was thankful that I was able to do that with him, too. David was a fireman, and he had the costume for that, easy work there. Today being mixed-match day, the kids needed assistance buttoning up their clothes backwards, wearing weird ties, suspenders and a bow tie, I believe from the 70's. Ah, the ties may have been from that era as well. [Doug: I've kept a couple of boxes of "costume stuff" for the past nearly two decades. Weird ties are easy to find at any thrift store.] It was great fun. Doug did take pictures of their final results, and I'm sure will get the pictures posted soon. [Doug: Nag, nag, nag ...] I'm still feeling well, too.

    On one of the days that I was unable to get the kids from school, Isaac and David were eager to watch a new movie that Doug had bought for Isaac the night before, and Naomi joined them. John hung out with me, and we talked for---what I was amazed at---the entire length of the movie. We were just talking about a lot of things/issues. It was great to spend that length of time with him and hearing what God is showing him. What a blessing. After Naomi got up this morning, I went and sat down with her in her room and just had a praise and worship time in song. I sing along with CDs that we have, but I haven't just belted out song after song by memory in such a long time. How I long to be back in choir again and singing specials, but for now, I pray the songs continue to come back to memory again, so such a time or praise can be had again. Something else I was able to do was play with Naomi yesterday in the backyard with her on the swingset/gym set with the monkeybars and "clubhouse." She is now able to climb completely up to the clubhouse and get down without help. That part is at least 7 feet high. That's pretty impressive climbing skill for a 2 1/2 yr. old. [Doug: You should see her climb down the center of the ladder assembly; she hoists herself on both arms, legs flailing, and pretends-screaming.] Naomi also for the first time yesterday used the monkeybars. I was under her, of course, for assistance if necessary. She was able to do three rungs by herself. Oh, she also scales the poles on the indoor gym equipement we have. Her upper body strength is amazing, too. I think Doug took pictures of those. [Doug: I have video of the clubhouse climb, but no pictures.] Doug again, has been amazingly helpful and quite busy. Doing all he can for us. He joked with me that God has blessed me with all the grace. He's given it to each of us in different ways and I can see that in the kids and in Doug. They have each had to go through a lot, and with more to come, a couple of good days so far, but.... Many people will say, "I don't know how you can do it," and that can be said to each person in my family---but the answer is the same, in my eyes anyway. It's by God's grace and that alone. For the kids to go about and do things, at times for themselves or just with little help, not having a Mom to do the typical Mom things I once did, can be hard, and the same goes for Doug. The things he's taken on and does great with are excellent. This past Saturday, Phil was up visiting and he and Doug went out in search of a new TV. [Doug: We weren't really searching; I'd already done the research via Consumer Reports and a number of other online product reviews. Conclusion: The 34" Sony WEGA HDTV is amazing, and, although smaller, exceeds plasma TVs by a huge amount in quality, at a much, much cheaper price.] They found one and it's awesome. I got to operate it yesterday for the first time. Hadn't been out of my room since Sunday, except to get a couple of things and then return. It's also been great seeing Steve Deyesso again, too. He was around one day early enough to pick up the kids for me. David remembered his face, but couldn't come up with the name. Naomi played the shy girl for a while, but finally came around. Now when he visits, she's her typical sweet self and goes right to him. I thank God and praise Him for the grace and strength He has given through this illness and again thank the many of you who have helped for your care, many prayers, and for the assistance you given. ]]>
    415 2006-05-25 09:12:26 2006-05-25 14:12:26 open open moving-walking-runninglittle-things-for-some-but-not-to-me publish 0 0 post 0 2834 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-05-29 11:01:34 2006-05-29 16:01:34 picante, but this one was delicious even though it was sweet.) Unfortunately, that one good day has been surrounded by much-worse-than-usual days. Nichelle has spent most of the past two weeks in bed, not even making it out to the couch. Overall pain and swelling are up signficantly. I've got a bunch of extra projects to do, including catching up on balancing the checkbook, some major cleaning at home, opening the swimming pool, and an outside computer project. I'm feeling very swamped. On the bright side, I've had fun with the kids this weekend. NaNi amazed me by riding her bike 1.11 miles to the park, we've been to the Outback Steakhouse (ending months of nagging). Today I'm taking Isaac to see X-Men III and taking NaNi on a hike/picnic.]]> 1 0 2 2829 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.167.179 2006-05-27 15:38:23 2006-05-27 20:38:23 1 0 0 2803 schipton@comcast.net http://www.familyfrisch.com 24.218.195.14 2006-05-25 15:27:08 2006-05-25 20:27:08 1 0 0 2805 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-05-25 17:15:17 2006-05-25 22:15:17 1 0 3 2801 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-05-25 14:39:20 2006-05-25 19:39:20 1 0 3 2807 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-05-26 09:33:37 2006-05-26 14:33:37 1 0 2 2797 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-05-25 10:26:20 2006-05-25 15:26:20 1 0 3 2796 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.252.73 2006-05-25 10:12:19 2006-05-25 15:12:19 happen? As for Nani's climbing antics... typical Wilcox child! I love you guys very much!]]> 1 0 0 2799 MJCase4@aol.com 141.154.53.104 2006-05-25 13:08:21 2006-05-25 18:08:21 1 0 0 2798 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-05-25 10:34:34 2006-05-25 15:34:34 From Nichelle, The Sarcastic One (via IM): Doug: Take it easy. Nichelle: I will, the only thing I want to do today is mow the backyard and paint Isaac and David's room, that should be a piece of cake and then top it off by cleaning out the pool.]]> 1 0 2
    NaNi: Increasing in Wisdom (and Humor) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=416 Tue, 30 May 2006 13:29:17 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=416

    Among the many things that amaze me is Naomi's ability to completely ignore the commands we give her. She does so without giving the slightest inidication that she actually heard us say anything. She does this without regard to the urgency or volume of the command given. It's amazing. I remember the other kids having "selective hearing," but had forgotten how extreme it can be. Not long after age two, NaNi announced when I got home, "My spankings all done, Daddy." I was amazed. "You're all done getting spankings?" "Yes." "You mean, you've decided to choose to be obedient?" She replied in her sweetest, most singsong voice, as if to tell me how silly I was, "Oh, noooo." Another time, David was being verbally corrected for something he'd been told to do but neglected. NaNi grabbed a wooden spoon out of the drawer, held it in one hand while tapping her other hand with it, and announced with glee, "Spankin' time!" "By myself" and "I did it myself" have become her new mantras. She wants to do everything she can herself. She can crack and cook eggs (with supervision), helps out with the laundry, and pushes to do everything from pour a full container of juice (not a good idea) to dress herself (which she does very well, with about the same propensity of getting things inside-out as David exhibits).

    She also likes to quote movies and other things we watch. Before her second birthday, she'd run around saying, "Demon llama! Aaaaaaaaaaah!" from The Emperor's New Groove. Now she will come up with, "I'm a dirty skunk?!" (from Buggs Bunny), or "You little rascal!" and she can even do the entire "Niagara Falls" dialog from The Three Stooges. (Of course, she won't do this on command, so I haven't gotten it on tape yet. :: sigh ::) She loves to sing. I am always moved when she sings, "I Stand in Awe of You," a worship song. She'll often be heard singing Sunday school songs or the songs in Chitty-Chitty Bang-Bang, which seems to be a particular favorite of late. NaNi dances, too. She loves to mimic the dances in Charlie and the Chocolate Factory or the "Me Old Bamboo" song from Chitty-Chitty Bang-Bang. She also makes up her own dances, including a beautiful one she does to the credit music of Finding Nemo. Her favorite thing to do is pirouette, and we have to keep a dress or two on hand that she can put on because she loves the way the skirt flares out when she does that. One time when NaNi was preventing me from working at the computer, I asked her to go bother Isaac instead. She was very, very skilled at this. She started with sticking out her tongue at him a few times, with appropriate sound effects. When that didn't produce the desired result, she walked over to him and started slapping him all over. Then she tried to push him out of his chair. This skill must be instinctive in little sisters.

    Whenever we're in the car, NaNi urges me to, "Do Burnout, Dad. Crash the cars!" (Referring to the style of driving in one of our favorite games for the Xbox.) Then she'll add, "Pleeeeeeeease. Pretty pleeeeeeeeeeeease." I can imagine the result, "But, officer, she asked so nicely ..." Before Isaac's birthday, I was asking Isaac about who he was going to invite. I teased him about Amy, a girl who follows him around constantly. I asked Isaac if he was going to invite her, and NaNi interjected, "Amy not come, Amy's a slacker!" Naomi has also learned to use the computer mouse effectively, at exactly the same age Isaac and David did. She nearly completely potty-trained herself mostly before her second birthday. (she still wets a bit, so she gets Pull-Ups; we're not pushing the issue, especially as she can change her own Pull-Up.) And for some reason, she prefers to flush the toilet with her foot. Someone taught her to ask, "Are we there yet?" That person will be found and punished appropriately. (For the record, NaNi claims to have taught herself that particular clause.) Generally, though, she merely asks, "Where are we going?" repeatedly while we are out.

    She's been riding a bike with training wheels for many months now, and has taken it on short trips (about a block). Saturday she wanted to ride it to the park, so I accompanied her. She actually rode the entire 1.11 miles all by herself, only stopping to throw some rocks in a puddle. Then she spent the next hour and a half playing in the park, and climbing like a monkey on a spider-web-resembling 7-foot-high climbing thing. Her upper body and arm strength has improved rapidly in the past few months, and it really shows in the things she is able to do while climbing. She can also now climb into the treehouse on our swingset, and is trying very hard to master the monkey bars. I love all her jokes. Tonight she had a blue tongue (from drinking a blue-colored soft drink), and Nichelle commented, "You have a blue tongue, what have you been drinking?" NaNi's laughing response: "Bath water." One of the things that most impressed and intrigued me of late was when she and Nichelle were talking about her third birthday (not until October). Naomi said that she wanted to invite Cody. Cody is Isaac's friend, but NaNi is in love with him. Nichelle said that Cody was a little too old to invite to her birthday party, so NaNi suggested, "I'll take off my head, and put Isaac's head on. Then Cody can come." She also tried to pull off her head, and later that night asked Nichelle, "Mommy, [will] you cut my head off?" What simple brilliance! I shouldn't be surprised at all this, though; after all, she is Naomi Wilcox.
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    Fluctuations and Patterns http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=417 Fri, 02 Jun 2006 15:10:53 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=417 Great days:
    • Saturday, April 29
    • Wednesday, May 31
    Partially good days (there may be a few others of these, but not many):
    • Friday, April 28
    • Thursday, May 11
    • Friday, May 12
    • Wednesday, May 24
    Bad-to-really-bad days:
    • All the others, especially from May 13 until the present.
    On the "great days," Nichelle can walk, run, drive, cook, and live pain free. Such days tend to appear suddenly, and the good period lasts for no more than 36 hours, and generally just 8 to 12 hours. I think people get the impression (especially because they don't see her except when she's in this better state) that Nichelle's overall health is improving. Sadly, the opposite is clearly the case. Of late, Nichelle is spending most of her time in bed. (Previously, the couch was her base of operations.) She's extremely uncomfortable and in significant pain just about all the time, with bouts of severe pain several times a day. The fluid shifts (swelling) in her face and elsewhere can be very pronounced. The Vicodin (just like what Dr. House takes) prescribed by the emergency department doctor---the only pain medication that has actually helped relieve the pain---is gone. Nichelle made 10 pills last 6 weeks, but doctors don't like to prescribe Vicodin because it is highly addictive. Generally, Nichelle doesn't like to take strong painkillers like that because they guarantee inactivity, whereas living through the pain offers a slight hope that it will diminish enough at some point for her to perform small tasks. For the past 24 hours, Nichelle has been in and out of deep and sudden sleep periods. We see this pattern quite regularly. Also, for the past few weeks, she's been getting a sudden and urgent feeling that she needs to get something to eat. If she doesn't, she becomes suddenly "drained," and experiences what she describes as being "beyond weak feeling." Although there have been a few more "great" days than we typically saw in the past few months, the overall picture is of slowly worsening symptoms.
    So far we have no word on the test results from our Mass. General visit on May 12, which means they were either all normal or are being carefully evaluated. Our next appointment with Dr. Hall at Mass. General is on June 16.
    Our church family has been helpful, and they are shifting into a higher gear this week, coordinating more cleaning help and more meal preparation. The biggest task-related problem I'm having is keeping the house clean. I have a big work-from-home typesetting project I'm working on evenings/weekends, and that's leaving even less time for mopping and decluttering. (Plus, Nichelle's worse-than-previously health has given her fewer opportunities for short cleaning spells, or even supervising the kids in the same.)]]>
    417 2006-06-02 10:10:53 2006-06-02 15:10:53 open open fluctuations-and-patterns publish 0 0 post 0 2981 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.134 2006-06-16 09:24:41 2006-06-16 14:24:41 1 0 0 2921 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-07 09:09:30 2006-06-07 14:09:30 1 0 2 2924 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-08 13:57:54 2006-06-08 18:57:54 that's how!'"]]> 1 0 2 2917 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-05 10:59:00 2006-06-05 15:59:00 feel and what I think or believe. For example, I believe that God is sovereign, and that He has a purpose for all that is happening to us. But occasionally I get into "down" periods where I feel just the opposite---where extrapolating the past into the future leads to only despair, and when I wonder, just as David did in the Psalms, why God allows evildoers to prosper while the innocent (especially their victims) are tormented. Nichelle spent pretty much the entire weekend in bed, in severe pain. The swelling was worse than I've ever seen. We have not a word of new information on the medical front, except that we've eliminated yet another painkiller as completely ineffective. (Leaving Vicodin as the only pain management drug that has helped, but we've no prescription for it.) June 16 is our next appointment with Dr. Hall, and, as we've heard nothing back about the test results, I am beginning to fear they were all normal. Onward ...]]> 1 0 2
    Running Multiple Versions of Firefox Simultaneously http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=418 Wed, 07 Jun 2006 14:38:51 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=418 this entry at the Dojo Foundation BLOG. This information is for Windows machines, specifically for concurrently running Firefox 1.0.7 and 1.5.0.x, but the same information applies to other versions of Ff as well. David Schontzler's aforementioned post covers 'Nix machines.)

    As a Web developer on some fairly complex projects, it's important to be able to run the current Firefox browser, as well as the previous release. These instructions are based on having first installed Firefox 1.0.7. Locate your current Firefox profile. Normally it will be in a folder under your Application Data folder, typically such as the following: C:\Documents and Settings\{user_id}\Application Data\Mozilla\Firefox Copy the entire Firefox directory someplace convenient, so you have a backup, for when you miss a step and something goes horribly wrong. (I know---this would never happen to me, either, but I was grateful I had a backup the two times I munged this setup and had to fix my initial Ff 1.0.7 installation.) You want to be able to fix your Firefox extensions in the event your running of Firefox 1.5 tries to upgrade them, which is a one-way process. Then download and install Firefox 1.5.0.x, to a location other than the default location. (I recommend using a directory named C:\Program Files\Mozilla Firefox 1.5, as C:\Program Files\Mozilla Firefox is the default.) Do not launch Firefox 1.5 yet. (Be sure not to tell the install wizard to launch Firefox at the end.) If you do, you'll need to quit the browser, and replace the now-upgraded profile folder with the one you backed up. To allow you to clearly identify separate processes in the Task Manager process list, and to avoid accidentally running the Firefox 1.5 installation without the batch file that will preserve the Firefox 1.0.7 profile information, I recommend renaming the C:\Program Files\Mozilla Firefox 1.5\firefox.exe to firefox15.exe. However, if you choose to perform this step, you'll need to rename firefox.exe to firefox15.exe each time you perform an upgrade (such as from 1.5.0.3 to 1.5.0.4) of Firefox 1.5. (See "Future Upgrades," below.) Next, you'll need to create a batch file to launch Firefox 1.5 and load a Firefox 1.5-specific profile: set MOZ_NO_REMOTE=1 start "Firefox" "C:\Program Files\Mozilla Firefox 1.5\firefox15.exe" -P "Firefox 1.5" set MOZ_NO_REMOTE=0 The above batch file presumes that Firefox 1.5 is installed in the directory specified, that the executable is named firefox15.exe, and that a user profile named Firefox 1.5 will normally be used. If you've used values for any of these items that are different than the recommendations above, alter the portions marked in red accordingly. The first time you launch Firefox 1.5, the Profile Manager will appear. Create a profile that matches the name used in your batch file. If you want to change the icon shown (on the taskbar and the Firefox title bar), create a new icon and place it in C:\Program Files\Mozilla Firefox 1.5\chrome\icons\default with the name main-window.ico. You can find one that has a "1.5" overlaid atop the regular Firefox icon here. You can also find utilities to change the text in the title bar itself, such as the Titlebar Tweaks Firefox extension---which, ironically, has not yet been officially updated for Ff 1.5.0.x (as of June 7, 2006). You can install an updated, but unofficial, version from here. I have also found that using significantly different themes (skins) for my different Firefox versions helps keep them straight at a glance. And, of course, if you prefer to make Firefox 1.5 your default Ff version, do so, and modify the batch file to point to 1.0.7 instead. Future Upgrades The best thing to do when one is about to upgrade Firefox 1.5.x, is rename the firefox15.exe back to firefox.exe, run the ugprade, and then rename it back. If you don't, you'll find that your firefox15.exe is still around, but that the upgrader has added its own firefox.exe, requiring a delete-and-rename, as well as producing some interesting quirks, like Firefox not realizing it's been upgraded because the .exe you're running is the old one, while everything else is new. ]]>
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    Dr. Hall / MGH Visit 2 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=420 Fri, 16 Jun 2006 18:56:48 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=420 420 2006-06-16 13:56:48 2006-06-16 18:56:48 open open dr-hall-mgh-visit-2 publish 0 0 post 0 3025 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-20 09:49:26 2006-06-20 14:49:26 1 0 2 Mind-Body Connection: Rheumatologist at Brigham ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=422 Tue, 20 Jun 2006 14:47:19 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=422 Or, how much pain can you work through on a daily basis? How much would your body allow you to do with pain on the scale that's typically 7 to 10? I'm frustrated, because I'd prefer to be active, being able to minister and do for my family like I once did.... and no one seems to "get" that. —Nichelle Yesterday we pulled off the usual logistics nightmare that involved a trip into Boston. Trish Dunn took the kids, except for John, who after a very disheartening and inexplicable episode, is spending a week in Brockton with his biological sister and her husband. Dr. Anderson, a highly-recommended rheumatologist based at Brigham and Women's Hospital in Boston (where Isaac was born), seemed to be highly skilled, and asked excellent interview questions. He is, unless we've missed some, the tenth doctor Nichelle has seen in the past two years. Primarily, we forcused on the constant, very severe pain she is experiencing. He was able to rule out bone disease, tumors, diseases involving musculare weakness, nervous system disorders, and joint diseases such as osteoarthritis and synovitis. This left him with our old enemy diagnosis: Fibromyalgia. He explained that Nichelle had already tried most of the medications (and all of the types of medications) that normally help alleviate Fibromyalgia symptoms. He suggested and later reiterated that he believed exercise would provide the most benefit. We twice explained very clearly that the recurrence of the debilitating symptoms occurred during a period of consistent and signficant daily exercise, and that the inability to do things like walk more than a few steps without intense pain makes exercise very difficult. He spoke of the "mind-body connection," and how things like Yoga (although he does not "believe" in it per se) or meditation and other things that have to do with the mind-body connection can, in conjunction with exercise, be of benefit, indicating that one can change "how your body talks to you." He asked if she'd tried any of the various restrictive or eliminating diets, but we don't know if he was thinking about the consideration of food allergies or sensitivities, or just throwing out possibilities. We discussed other alternative therapies: chiropracty (provided only very temporary relief), therapeutic massage (provided only very temporary relief), and accupuncture, which we are willing to try (there's an opiate receptor model for how accupuncture actually works, which may make it ideal for treating pain), but we haven't been able to find a practitioner covered by our insurance. One of the more interesting things he asked Nichelle was, "If you were on the Western frontier 150 or more years ago, how would you handle this?" Later I thought of a really good answer: "She'd become a judge, and hang a whole lot of doctors." Overall, it was a long, discouraging day, especially due to the added concern about John. This morning Nichelle seemed determined to fight through and determine just how much she could accomplish before completely succumbing to the pain. She even drove herself to the lab (5 minutes away) to get the latest bit of blood work done. Nichelle made appointments today with the Pain Management Clinic at Southern New Hampshire Medical Center, and with who we hope will be a good primary care physician. Both are not until the end of July or first week of August. Dr. Hall (who ties with Dr. Rescigno for "Best Doctors We've Ever Had") called back with her latest test results: Nichelle's vitamin D level was good, and her PTH (parathyroid hormone) level was good, which means that the hyperparathyroidism was indeed caused by the vitamin D deficiency. The importance of vitamin D was largely overlooked until fairly recently, we learned from Dr. Hall, and vitamin D deficiency has turned out to be very common, especially in the Northeast. We'll have some other test results, such as for hemoglobin disorders and blood cortisol levels, next week. Later today Nichelle goes in to Mass. General for two bone density tests. The illustrious Debi Costine is providing transportation (we're bribing her with Middle Eastern food), and Cindy Lavoix and company are coming over to our house to watch the kids (or play with our game systems; I'm not sure which), which means I get to go to work.]]> 422 2006-06-20 09:47:19 2006-06-20 14:47:19 open open mind-over-body-rheumatologist-at-brigham publish 0 0 post 0 3080 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-27 13:19:23 2006-06-27 18:19:23 very clear, twice, that an excellent exercise regimen did nothing to prevent or improve the symptoms---although many fibromyalgia patients find this to be the case---it just had no positive effect on Nichelle. Very quickly the pain became so significant (and the exhaustion for a while) that exercise was just out of the question.]]> 1 0 2 3077 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.134 2006-06-27 07:21:25 2006-06-27 12:21:25 1 0 0 3037 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-06-22 13:52:31 2006-06-22 18:52:31 too far away!]]> 1 0 0 3026 judgment_pi@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-06-20 10:11:45 2006-06-20 15:11:45 1 0 0 3027 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-20 10:58:53 2006-06-20 15:58:53 1 0 2 3028 MJCases4@aol.com 141.154.53.104 2006-06-20 13:00:29 2006-06-20 18:00:29 1 0 0 3030 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-06-20 15:02:29 2006-06-20 20:02:29 1 0 0 3031 lizmom@comcast.net 24.34.203.249 2006-06-20 19:33:28 2006-06-21 00:33:28 1 0 0 3032 lakellp@comcast.net 24.128.90.151 2006-06-21 09:47:56 2006-06-21 14:47:56 1 0 0 3033 jimzmail@adelphia.net 155.212.64.202 2006-06-21 12:56:42 2006-06-21 17:56:42 1 0 0 3034 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-21 16:27:45 2006-06-21 21:27:45 1 0 2 John Is Leaving http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=423 Fri, 23 Jun 2006 12:32:28 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=423 423 2006-06-23 07:32:28 2006-06-23 12:32:28 open open john-is-leaving publish 0 0 post 0 3884 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2006-10-30 16:29:15 2006-10-30 21:29:15 1 0 2 3303 oxangelxkisssxo@yahoo.com 71.124.154.142 2006-08-17 00:40:34 2006-08-17 05:40:34 1 0 0 3081 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-28 09:59:42 2006-06-28 14:59:42 1 0 2 3078 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-27 09:18:03 2006-06-27 14:18:03 1 0 2 3058 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 24.34.6.162 2006-06-25 23:04:34 2006-06-26 04:04:34 1 0 0 3040 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-06-23 10:11:01 2006-06-23 15:11:01 1 0 0 3041 MJCases4@aol.com 141.154.53.104 2006-06-23 10:58:44 2006-06-23 15:58:44 1 0 0 3042 jimzmail@adelphia.net 155.212.64.202 2006-06-23 14:35:20 2006-06-23 19:35:20 1 0 0 3043 lizmom@comcast.net 24.34.203.249 2006-06-23 15:57:51 2006-06-23 20:57:51 1 0 0 3044 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-06-24 13:32:09 2006-06-24 18:32:09 1 0 2 3045 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-06-24 21:12:54 2006-06-25 02:12:54 1 0 3 3047 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 59.37.1.10 2006-06-24 21:55:04 2006-06-25 02:55:04 1 0 0 So he reached for the wrong can ... he'll be fine! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=424 Sun, 25 Jun 2006 01:55:22 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=424 424 2006-06-24 20:55:22 2006-06-25 01:55:22 open open so-he-reached-for-the-wrong-canhe-felt-fine publish 0 0 post 0 3060 jimzmail@adelphia.net 155.212.64.202 2006-06-26 13:45:05 2006-06-26 18:45:05 1 0 0 3063 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-06-26 15:27:01 2006-06-26 20:27:01 1 0 3 3046 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 59.37.1.10 2006-06-24 21:50:32 2006-06-25 02:50:32 1 0 0 I got to go out on a Saturday and shop ... amazing!! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=425 Sun, 25 Jun 2006 02:06:21 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=425 425 2006-06-24 21:06:21 2006-06-25 02:06:21 open open i-got-to-go-out-on-a-saturday-and-shopamazing publish 0 0 post 0 3121 jenguin73@hotmail.com 24.61.8.21 2006-07-05 21:10:25 2006-07-06 02:10:25 1 0 0 3134 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-07-08 21:39:35 2006-07-09 02:39:35 1 0 0 3079 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-27 10:47:09 2006-06-27 15:47:09 1 0 2 3059 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-26 09:21:16 2006-06-26 14:21:16 1 0 2 3048 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 59.37.1.10 2006-06-24 21:57:57 2006-06-25 02:57:57 1 0 0 Books vs. The Book http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=426 Tue, 27 Jun 2006 21:09:09 +0000 BethsMomToo http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=426 Editor's introduction: Beth'sMomToo is one of the most energetic "amateur" students of the Bible we've ever met (including knowing enough Greek to shame most pastors). She is also supremely knowledgeable about ancient Egypt, so much so that I would now refuse to attend the MFA without her. The Wilcox Family is honored to have her as a guest author on our BLOG. I recently read a book sent to me concerning "Women's Ministries." Now ... I find myself appalled by most books written on this subject. They are usually saturated with the world's ideas and have very little to say about God's ideas. But this one caught my attention in the first line, "The subject of this book is not women; it is the Church of the Lord Jesus." Good start! While the book was heavily steeped in the particular denominational beliefs of the authors, overall I found it to be quite encouraging. But when I leafed through the Appendix, what did I find, but the same old, same old. Buy our material, read our book list. An article entitled, "How to Evaluate Bible Study Materials." How about studying the Bible instead of "materials" about the Bible? And this line killed me, "You are not to teach a lesson. You are to facilitate a discussion based on an assigned chapter of the book" (i.e., the material you buy from them). We just finished our Ladies' Study on Philippians. We didn't skip ahead and spend all of our time on the application. We didn't read a verse here and there out of context. We didn't read what other people thought the book said. We read the Bible, in context, the book as a whole, repetitively. We did analytical charts; we did word studies; we found the themes in the book; we divided up each chapter into subject groups and titled them; we outlined the entire epistle and paid attention to how Paul developed his ideas. We looked up cultural practices, enlightening a few areas for us. We read companion passages in Acts concerning Paul's establishment of the church at Philippi and his subsequent relationship with them. We studied the history of the city of Philippi and the Roman Empire as it applied to what we were studying. We found out more about the people and places mentioned within the Epistle. We looked at the ruins of the city as they appear today, learning a little archaeology on the side. (You know I had to fit that in somehow!) ;) We studied the Word! Why are Christians so eager to "study" the Bible any possible way, except ... to study ...the ... Bible?! And what was the result of all this effort? Amazing! Week after week I saw "light bulbs" pop on as they really began to understand what the text was saying and what the implications were! I saw women convicted by God's Word. I saw women who were excited about studying God's Word. (One of my favorite moments was when one of the ladies ran up to me one week after the Sunday morning sermon, her Bible open, and asked, "Is this a Granville-Sharp construction?" and wanted to discuss the implications!) She was getting more understanding out of what was being preached because of her own practice studying God's Word … from God's Word! That is exciting stuff, people! I tell you ... there's just no other way to go! Why are so many Bible teachers so intent on keeping people away from their Bibles? Why do we want to focus so exclusively on the "doing" that we completely miss the power behind the "doing"? The Word changes your heart and mind as you immerse yourself in it, and then ... the "doing" becomes the fruit that emerges! ]]> 426 2006-06-27 16:09:09 2006-06-27 21:09:09 open open books-vs-the-book publish 0 0 post 0 3084 summitsp@hotmail.com http:// 4.233.173.74 2006-06-28 15:22:24 2006-06-28 20:22:24 1 0 9 3083 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-06-28 12:04:59 2006-06-28 17:04:59 1 0 2 3082 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 129.170.59.134 2006-06-28 10:45:02 2006-06-28 15:45:02 1 0 0 When You Sing, I See Monsters http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=428 Sat, 01 Jul 2006 15:34:58 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=428 does seem to have a good ear for music. It may be a little too good. The other night I was tucking her into bed, after our quick bedtime prayer time together, and asked her if she wanted me to sing with her. She responded, "No, Daddy, when you sing, I see monsters." A week or so ago after church on the church playground, Naomi and Isaac were on the swings, Isaac on one set and Naomi on another. They were both singing a beautiful praise song, and my heart was full of joy. Then, after a few minutes, Naomi decided she wanted to sing all by herself: "Isaac!" she screamed, "Let me sing by myself!" It wasn't quite as praiseworthy. ]]> 428 2006-07-01 10:34:58 2006-07-01 15:34:58 open open singing publish 0 0 post 0 3246 kmiller@kronos.com 158.228.56.230 2006-08-01 09:21:17 2006-08-01 14:21:17 1 0 0 3114 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 24.34.6.162 2006-07-04 01:37:10 2006-07-04 06:37:10 1 0 0 3109 summitsp@hotmail.com http:// 4.233.164.214 2006-07-03 12:42:57 2006-07-03 17:42:57 1 0 9 Adventures in Movement http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=429 Tue, 11 Jul 2006 12:16:15 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=429 Charmingfare Farm. We had been there in the past for their hay rides and bonfires on a couple of church activities. This time we were able to explore the whole farm. That's right, I said, "we"! I made it through, and saw all the animals, too, I walked the whole way. Of course I was a bit sluggish by the end, but it was worth it. We had a great time. We were also able to get tickets for a pony ride for each of the kids. They loved that. We have loads of pictures and video on all that took place. Watching the kids feed the animals was great as well, especially the goats. On the way home, I suggested to Doug that we call the Sohmer family and see if we can visit. It's so rare that we make it up to their area. So very glad we were able to drop in and say hello. I was thinking it was going to be a short visit, but we ended up hanging out until 9:30. How impressive is that! We got to meet their newest family member, Gabriella Danielle Li Ying Sohmer. What a sweetie. Doug took lots of pictures of her, too. She's newly adopted, just two weeks or less now, from China. What a wonderful story they have to share. It was indeed a great blessing to be with the Sohmers again. Thank you guys for your hospitality, too. Love you. Not so bad for me, it's nearly 11 p.m. and I'm doing quite well, and for all of that the praise goes to God. What a blessing to be able to do more than just the "little things" again. For all that have been praying for us, thank you. :) Sunday morning came and I was able to join the family and go to church even after a busy day on Saturday. Last week and also today, I decided to go to junior church with Doug and help teach. What a blessing! I haven't been in class with the kids in many, many months. Hearing their sweet voices singing praises ... how I've missed being with them, too. I had hoped to go on another shopping trip this afternoon, but the pain was back and said to me, "Yeah, right." To be with my church family, to hear preaching (in person), to give prayer requests and to take those that are shared, to give praise and to hear how God is working in the lives of other members, to be able to give and receive a hug and words of encouragement, to be a blessing and to receive one. To all of those things, I give thanks and praise to God for each opportunity that I am able to partake in a service. [Note from Doug: While Nichelle was feeling better, I was worse than I'd been in years. More on that later ... We'll try to get pictures up tomorrow night.] Another great day on Monday. Last night at about 10:30 I finally layed down to rest a bit and realized that I had gone the entire day, even with a much earlier start to my day and worked and cleaned without the need to nap. I'm of course thrilled. Keep the prayers coming. :)]]> 429 2006-07-11 07:16:15 2006-07-11 12:16:15 open open adventures-in-movement publish 0 0 post 0 3215 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-07-19 14:41:33 2006-07-19 19:41:33 1 0 3 3217 summitsp@hotmail.com http:// 4.233.173.249 2006-07-20 18:48:45 2006-07-20 23:48:45 1 0 9 3218 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-07-20 19:26:18 2006-07-21 00:26:18 1 0 3 3160 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.38 2006-07-14 09:18:32 2006-07-14 14:18:32 cooking again. I can't begin to describe how wonderful that is.]]> 1 0 2 3144 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2006-07-11 09:59:52 2006-07-11 14:59:52 1 0 0 3145 MJCases4@aol.com 141.154.53.104 2006-07-11 10:03:16 2006-07-11 15:03:16 1 0 0 Moultonborough, 2006 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=430 Fri, 11 Aug 2006 05:22:47 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=430

    We saw two different foxes, a huge heron, and a loon, all at or near the cabin. (My sister saw a bear last year, although we missed it, but we keep hoping and watching.)

    (Above) This is the cabin we stay in. It's not very large, but has running water (from the pond) and a bathroom with a shower and commode, which to me makes the difference between roughing it and really living. I used to vacation here when I was young, and loved it. (The same family still owns the property.) It brings back powerful memories of my childhood, especially time with my parents. So much of the property remains preserved just as I remember it, from the beautiful interior woodwork on the doors and door frames, to the electrical wiring my father did, right down to the way things smell. When we got there this year, I noticed that the water pump was running nearly constantly. The pump draws water from the pond and pressurizes it in a small tank to provide running water for washing dishes, showers, etc. I checked it out, and you could hear the water rushing back down the pipe after the pump would reach proper pressure, and in a few seconds it would start up again. Thinking the check valve at the bottom of the water line was stuck open, I went out in the Berri Belle 2 (a rowboat), and followed the water line back into the pond, discovering that it had a 3- or 4-inch split in it, though which the water was pouring out. I tried to remove the split section that night, but couldn't get the coupling apart. The next morning I got a new coupling at the local hardware store, and was able to cut out the damaged section and reattach everything---and I didn't even need to re-prime the pump. Everything was working perfectly. I was so proud, and kept thinking of all the things my Dad used to fix. (He used to barter projects at the cabin for the price of renting it. In fact, he and my Mom installed the original water system many, many years ago.) But, I should have kept Proverbs in mind. About 24 hours later, I checked the pump itself, and noticed it was dripping, something it definitely had not been doing the day before. I couldn't find the source of the leak, so I kept it under observation. By that evening, the leak had become a small spray, and we called the Tingleys. We agreed I could try to patch it, but if it failed, we would have to use buckets for the water. I bought some epoxy-like substance that was used for waterproof applications, and was thrilled that the patch held. It dripped a bit, but that seemed acceptable. Unfortunately, the split in the pump casing was getting bigger, and my first patch blew off the next day. I patched it again, and we ran the pump only when we were actively using it, although I had to prime it several times. The second patch lasted until the day before we were going to leave, at which point I gave up and started carrying buckets. The cowling over the impeller had split at the point it was seamed in manufacture, and would have to be replaced. (I think due to the age of the pump, 25-35 years, they ended up replacing it.) After spending so much time listening for the pump's operation, I kept "hearing" it running in my imagination for a week after we returned home!

    (Above) This is the primary beaver dam that made Berry Pond. There are at least two beaver dams that created Berry Pond. When I explained to NaNi after one of our canoe trips that beavers made the pond, she replied, "Actually, God did." Never argue theology with a 2-year-old.

    One day we drove up to the Kangamangus (or Kancamagus---I've seen both spellings) Highway, which runs through the White Mountain National Forest, mostly parallel to the Swift River. To our delight and surprise, Eric and Kate Neville's path happened to run across ours while we stopped to play in the river and have a picnic. Eric and I worked at MediVation over five years ago, and we've stayed in contact, but not seen each other since. What an amazing coincidence, especially considering how little time each of us spent in that particular location! Eric took this picture for us.

    Nichelle did almost all the driving all week, including the trip there and back, even at night. She loves driving, and hadn't been able to do it in a long time, so she was eager to see how much she could do. When I got home, it actually took me a while to get accustomed to driving my car again.

    We love Clark's Trading Post. (Above) Here Naomi and I attack Nichelle, who was standing on the side, from our bumper boat. Naomi hated having other people squirt her, although she very much enjoyed attacking them! Clark's even has stand-alone motorized squirt guns set up along the sides of the bumper boat pool, so those not in the water can join in the fun.

    I can't quite believe Clark's charges only $12 for admission. (Above) Isaac tried their climbing wall well over 15 times, something that most places would charge $5 a pop for. He didn't make it to the top, but really loved it. I tried it too, but couldn't steel myself to go any higher than Isaac. Next year ...

    Of course, one of the best things about the whole week was that Nichelle was feeling good for the first time since November, and was able to be active and participate in everything we did all week. What a thrill. It was not many weeks ago that Isaac broke down crying, when he realized (based on her condition for months) that Mom wouldn't be able to do anything with us on our vacation. We praise God He has allowed Nichelle's recent good health. It possible that the vitamin D deficiency causes her problems, but we won't know until many months from now.

    (Above) Clark's has a costume photo studio, and Nichelle and NaNi love it. (The boys weren't interested, as usual.) This was the first picture of Naomi that Nichelle picked out. Later on, she had me come back to the photo studio because she couldn't decide if she should have gotten the more serious picture of Naomi. After some haggling, we bought that other one as well, and it has become our favorite.

    The boys and NaNi love the paddleboat. (I thought it was great the years we used it as well.) We did almost flip it over once when David, Isaac, and I were all switching places and standing on the back.

    (Above) This seaplane landed on the pond while we were there, which surprised me, because it was my understanding that the town prohibited that, which was why motorized craft aren't allowed on the pond. It took off again as we were packing up to head back home. We don't watch television while we're there, although I was tempted to turn on the TV and demonstrate to the kids what television in a mountainous area without cable is like. When we're not outside, we read or play board games. Scrabble was very popular this year. Nichelle taught Isaac and David to play. One big difference, though, was that Nichelle, who normally destroys her opponents in Scrabble, lost five games in a row (four of them to me). After years of getting demolished by her, I finally seem to have "caught on" to the game, and was able to score some major victories by strategic word placement.

    Inspired by the Seyranyan Family Circus, the kids did some acrobatics of their own in the days following our trip to Clark's Trading Post. The Seyranyan family, from Moscow, is a must-see performance (they don't perform on Fridays, so plan your trip accordingly). (Above) The kids invented this four-person pile-up one morning.

    NaNi learned to row---sort of. I have a picture like this of me and my Dad, somewhere in a photo album my sister Joyce gave us.

    We all spent a lot of time swimming, especially off of the raft that's placed out in the deeper (about 12 feet) water. Naomi was no exception, swimming for hours at a time with her training ring, and occasionally using just a noodle (with very close supervision) or her lifejacket. She even jumped off the raft a few times.

    (Above) David caught his first fish in three years. We discovered that live bait (worms) just can't be beat for catching sunfish. (I don't know much about fishing, and the kids have enjoyed learning as we go.) He caught this fish just after introducing himself to one of the families who lives on the pond. They were pulling fish out right and left, and invited him to have a try. I am always impressed with his social skills.

    (Above) Naomi caught her first fish this year. She was absolutely thrilled. She caught 17 sunfish in about an hour and a half, all by herself. Isaac and I baited her hook and helped remove the fish. At one point, she turned to me and said, "I couldn't have done this without you. Thank you, Daddy," and gave me a big hug. She can be so sweet it melts my heart.

    (Above) Isaac insisted this was a pike, but it appears to be a pickerel. (He's not often wrong about biology or zooology---or in this case ichthyology.) It was Isaac's big catch of the week. Right now it's at home in our freezer, waiting for Nichelle to prepare it. We let the kids keep one fish each year to eat, although David's sunfish were not eating-worthy, so he has accepted a single bite of Isaac's fish when it is ready instead. I am also glad Nichelle is willing and able to gut, clean, and cook the fish, because I'm not sure I have the stomach for it. (If I ever travel in time, I will be sure to go forward, instead of into the past, because I have zero nontechnological skills.)

    (Above) This part of the pond, opposite the beaver dam, we hadn't explored before, although we'd been through many of the channels the beavers keep open to the east of there. The morning I found the dam I went out in the kayak, and got really close to the heron several times. (I wasn't trying to bother him---he kept flying ahead of me and perching along the route I was taking. Sadly, I hadn't brought my camera. Herons are huge, and surprisingly graceful in what appears to be a flight in slow-motion.

    Berry Pond is absolutely lovely, especially on a clear day or at sunset. We also enjoy going out on the water at night, especially when the bats are out hunting. When it's clear and one can normally see our own spiral arm of the "Milky Way." (Personally, I think that's a stupid name for our galaxy; if I ever travel to another galaxy, I'm going to tell them I'm from Andromeda.) Several times a week NaNi announces, "I want to go back to the cabin!" as do Isaac and David. It's a sentiment we all share.]]>
    430 2006-08-11 00:22:47 2006-08-11 05:22:47 open open moultonborough-2006 publish 0 0 post 0 3545 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-09-17 20:52:10 2006-09-18 01:52:10 that bad. Regarding Nichelle's health: It's been absolutely amazing. She's operating at 100% capacity now, and doing things that were unimaginable two months ago. Our sincere hope is that keeping vitamin D levels where they should be will keep whatever these problems are at bay, but we won't know until late November at the earliest, and not really "for sure" until January.]]> 1 0 2 3543 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 68.169.193.246 2006-09-17 17:24:56 2006-09-17 22:24:56 1 0 0 3458 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-09-08 17:57:57 2006-09-08 22:57:57 1 0 2 3292 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.74.145 2006-08-11 07:31:13 2006-08-11 12:31:13 1 0 3 3297 schipton@comcast.net http://blog.familyfrisch.com 24.63.249.88 2006-08-14 19:06:14 2006-08-15 00:06:14 1 0 0 3295 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.139 2006-08-12 17:52:16 2006-08-12 22:52:16 1 0 0 3278 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2006-08-11 03:08:25 2006-08-11 08:08:25 1 0 0 3293 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-08-11 10:23:19 2006-08-11 15:23:19 1 0 0
    Hauntingly Beautiful http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=431 Tue, 01 Aug 2006 04:54:13 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=431

    Hauntingly beautiful is a phrase that has gotten me into trouble before, but I can't think of a better description for this photo of NaNi, taken at Clark's Trading Post during our vacation last week. (Click on the photo to enlarge it.)]]>
    431 2006-07-31 23:54:13 2006-08-01 04:54:13 open open hauntingly-beautiful publish 0 0 post 0 3272 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 24.34.6.162 2006-08-08 02:55:36 2006-08-08 07:55:36 1 0 0 3248 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.179.32 2006-08-01 15:06:22 2006-08-01 20:06:22 1 0 0 3242 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2006-08-01 04:09:09 2006-08-01 09:09:09 1 0 0
    Vacation's Over: Back to School http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=433 Sat, 09 Sep 2006 00:02:05 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=433

    :: sigh :: No more carefree days filled with playing Halo 2 for Dash ...

    Well, summer's over, and we're all back to school, except for Nichelle. All? That's right. While Isaac and David are in school, Nichelle is taking time each day to work on letter recognition, shapes, and other skills with NaNi. And, I've enrolled in a graduate certificate program in Software Engineering, offered by Boston University's Metropolitan College, which should keep me busy enough to stay out of trouble. I'll be taking two courses simultaneously for the next 14 weeks: Software Engineering, and Object-Oriented Object-Oriented Analysis and Design. In the spring I'll grab another two. Best of all, the classes are taught on-site at Kronos, and the whole program falls under Kronos' tuition reimbursement program. In Software Engineering, I'm working on our class project with three co-workers I've worked closely with before: Stephan Arsenault, RaviShekar Gopalan, and Doug "JavaDoug" Ross. We've decided to build an online shared calendar program, tailored to families, and we're building it in Ruby on Rails, probably with a MySQL backend. (I should get a BLOG up this weekend to chronicle that effort.) It's going to be fun! So far, Isaac and David are doing great at Tabernacle Christian School. Isaac's attitude toward school and homework is much improved, and David is as eager and happy to be in school as ever.]]>
    433 2006-09-08 19:02:05 2006-09-09 00:02:05 open open vacations-over-back-to-school publish 0 0 post 0 3463 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2006-09-09 07:40:09 2006-09-09 12:40:09 1 0 0 3590 wilcoxusa@andersonrepublic.com http://www.johnandleah.com 71.75.138.188 2006-09-21 17:17:15 2006-09-21 22:17:15 1 0 0 3493 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.106.69 2006-09-11 09:13:20 2006-09-11 14:13:20 1 0 2
    The Wilcox Family's New Look http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=434 Sat, 09 Sep 2006 02:41:59 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=434

    Above (click to enlarge): The Wilcox Family has a new look.

    • Isaac is Hordhunter, a Night Elf druid. (He can polymorph into a bear at present.)
    • David is Stridar, a Dwarf paladin.
    • Nichelle plays sometimes. (She is actually afraid of becoming too addicted to the game.) She is Jassariss, a Night Elf warrior.
    • I chose to be a Gnome rogue, skilled at stealth and assassination (with trade specialties of mining and---of course---engineering. I can make bombs and dynamite now, and will progress to a host of interesting gadgets.)
    • Even Naomi has a character, Chritine, a Human rogue. (I'll have to talk to her about that outfit, or buy her a nice dress the next time I'm in Stormwind or another big city.)
    Our friend Phil Luchon convinced us to get a trial subscription to Blizzard's World of WarCraft fantasy-based MMORPG (Massively Multiplayer Online Role-Playing Game). The kids had begged for months, having used his account to play when he visited and brought his computer, but it wasn't until trying it for myself that I realized WoW (World of WarCraft) goes way beyond wandering the game world killing monsters. Approximately 7 million other subscribers (as of this September) worldwide seem to agree. The game world itself is huge. There are two main continents at present, and an expansion is promised later this fall that I expect will make the game world even bigger, and introduce new races to play. There are eight races, each with six different class types, such as hunters, rogues, or priests. You can pick different occupational skills---I chose engineering (of course), and can now build things like dynamite and bombs. David in particular loves to design characters; I still have the first one I created, but will definitely add more later. WoW has an excellent social aspect as well. Quite often I team up with my friend Phil, or other people who regularly game on the server I use at the time I use it, and go out adventuring. Besides teaming up for quests, there are ways to set up official guilds of similar-minded gamers within the game, including creating one's own guild insignia. I love exploring. The terrain is vast and wonderous, and varies as much as the terrain on Earth. There's an underground tram that runs between two large cities, and you can rent a griffin to fly on to get between most other major locations. The game has e-mail, banking (including safety deposit boxes), an auction system much like eBay, and quite a bit of humor. Last night I set up NaNi's in-game button bar to include some of the commands we normally type, like "whistle," "train," "silly," and "dance." ("Silly" makes the avatar tell a joke. "Train" is one of our favorites, as it makes any of the characters pretend to be a locomotive, including appropriate gestures and whistles.) Anyway, when NaNi was away from the keyboard, David walked up and started clicking the icons I set up for NaNi. She noticed, and yelled, "Hey! That's my character!" I'd write more, but I've been itching to play, and the kids are finally in bed ...

    Update

    After nearly a month playing World of WarCraft, our appearances have changed somewhat. On the left is Nichelle's Night Elf character, with much improved clothing/armor, as she nears level 14. Nichelle is funny, she hates the idea of leaving Teldrassil, the island plateau on which the Night Elves live, because it's so beautiful. In the middle I'm wearing the goggles I made for my Gnome rogue character. (Engineering rules!) I have discovered that I really enjoy the real roll-playing aspect of the game, having been awed by a character named Sinisterlady's excellent roll playing skills and imagination. My regret is that more players don't stay in character or treat the game world as "real" and behave accordingly, even though the server we use is designated a roll-playing one. Our friend Phil Luchon and I often quest together, and we're both developing consistent personalities for our characters. We do quite a bit of dialogue where we trade humorous insults---many involving size---back and forth, and that has been great fun. On the right Naomi's character is wearing a new dress that Nichelle purchased for her and mailed using WoW's in-game e-mail system. I have sent her another one, but she has to get to level 13 before she can use it. The boys and I have helped level her character up to level 5, because NaNi loves to walk around the game world, and she kept getting killed nearly immediately once she stepped outside of her starting location.]]>
    434 2006-09-08 21:41:59 2006-09-09 02:41:59 open open the-wilcox-familys-new-look publish 0 0 post 0 3848 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-10-22 19:38:33 2006-10-23 00:38:33 You were so lovely standing there, that this humble dwarf decided to send you a bit of thanks. I wish you well in your adventures, and hope we may meet along the way. ---Breyon Attached to the letter was 1 gold in in-game currency, which is a lot of money for a low-level character. The in-game currency comes in three denominations: 100 copper = 1 silver; 100 silver = 1 gold. (For perspective, I'm level 27, and have managed to amass---through careful auctioning and spending---only about 9 gold.) This is a fascinating aspect of online role playing and human nature. The female characters (with the obvious exception of the Undead race) are "fair to look upon," and are generally proportioned like Barbie dolls. Nichelle's Night Elf character, in particular, has a beautiful pair of large ... ears. Because of this, the female avatars are often given gifts by male players, despite the fact that many of the female avatars are played by males, anyway.]]> 1 0 2 3795 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-10-18 23:48:30 2006-10-19 04:48:30 Read this post for what WoW addiction does to many. (Also see this follow-up.)]]> 1 0 2 3669 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-10-03 10:39:14 2006-10-03 15:39:14 1 0 0 3651 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.106.69 2006-10-02 19:22:36 2006-10-03 00:22:36 picture this ... (to use Nichelle's opening phrase), I finish my homework at about 12:25 a.m. on Monday morning, and go to bed. Nichelle is still playing World of WarCraft. The next thing I remember is trying to look at my watch (and seeing 01:43) while hearing Nichelle telling me, "Don't look at your watch!" Ha!]]> 1 0 2 3585 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.106.69 2006-09-21 08:10:52 2006-09-21 13:10:52 1 0 2 3584 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-09-21 08:08:39 2006-09-21 13:08:39 would be cool. ::evil laughter::]]> 1 0 3 3583 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-09-21 07:54:10 2006-09-21 12:54:10 1 0 3 3565 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.210 2006-09-19 15:12:29 2006-09-19 20:12:29 1 0 0 3503 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.106.69 2006-09-12 13:57:22 2006-09-12 18:57:22
  • David and Isaac are contributing $1/week from their allowances to help cover the cost of the subscription.
  • During our vacation, Nichelle and I realized that we now have the ultimate punishment for the kids---"No World of WarCraft for you!" :: evil laughter ::
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    3494 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.106.69 2006-09-11 09:27:54 2006-09-11 14:27:54 Newsweek: Living a Virtual Life: Is World of Warcraft a game, or is it a harbinger of virtual realities that we all might inhabit? Only a Night Elf knows for sure. (Grabbed from a reference on Slashdot.)]]> 1 0 2
    Ahoy, Me Hearties! It Be International Talk Like a Pirate Day http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=435 Tue, 19 Sep 2006 05:00:57 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=435 (David be most excited about this one.) From "How to Be Speakin' Pirate-Like" (You'll want to view the full page at their site; it includes vocabulary): Startin' Rules:
    1. Double up on all your adjectives and you'll be bountifully bombastic with your phrasing. Pirates never speak of "a big ship", they call it a "great, grand ship!" They never say never, they say "No nay ne'er!"
    2. Drop all your "g"'s when you speak and you'll get words like "rowin'", "sailin'" and "fightin'". Dropping all of your "v"'s will get you words like "ne'er", "e'er" and "o'er".
    3. Instead of saying "I am", sailors say, "I be". Instead of saying "You are", sailors say, "You be". Instead of saying, "They are", sailors say, "They be". Ne'er speak in anythin' but the present tense!
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    435 2006-09-19 00:00:57 2006-09-19 05:00:57 open open ahoy-me-hearties-it-be-international-talk-like-a-pirate-day publish 0 0 post 0 3629 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 24.61.230.158 2006-09-28 02:01:08 2006-09-28 07:01:08 1 0 0 3632 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-09-28 20:40:22 2006-09-29 01:40:22 1 0 2 3586 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.106.69 2006-09-21 08:21:14 2006-09-21 13:21:14 goodbye was punctuated by a pause while she widened her already wicked grin even further. She also called Nichelle "Captain Slacker." Har! Har! David had trouble talking like a pirate, so he decided to talk like a parrot. I told him, in my best pirate-speak: "Aaaaaaaaaaar! It be International Talk Like a Pirate Day, not International Talk Like a Parrot Day!" which in a pirate accent sounds really funny, because parrot and pirate are virtually indistinguishable. Thanks to co-worker Stephan Arsenault for bringing ITLAPD to my attention last year. It was great fun.]]> 1 0 2 3568 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-09-19 18:26:43 2006-09-19 23:26:43 1 0 0 3569 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.106.69 2006-09-19 18:42:26 2006-09-19 23:42:26 We were on the way to school today, what that slacker Isaac was insisting my morning brew was nothing more than coffee, as if a Pirate like myself would be caught dead drinking something that mild! So, the weasel was sneaking a drink from my favorite mug, when I said something that made him laugh, and he sprayed my drink all over himself and the front of the car. I nearly crashed while laughing at the buffoon.]]> 1 0 2 3567 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.106.69 2006-09-19 17:54:03 2006-09-19 22:54:03 1 0 2 3566 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-09-19 15:21:45 2006-09-19 20:21:45 1 0 0 3562 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.106.69 2006-09-19 09:16:28 2006-09-19 14:16:28 1 0 2 3560 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2006-09-19 05:26:15 2006-09-19 10:26:15 1 0 0
    Doug said it was time for me to update everyone, so here it goes.... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=436 Wed, 27 Sep 2006 03:50:05 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=436 436 2006-09-26 22:50:05 2006-09-27 03:50:05 open open doug-said-it-was-time-for-me-to-update-everyone-so-here-it-goes publish 0 0 post 0 3640 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-09-30 13:22:33 2006-09-30 18:22:33 1 0 2 3637 pablo_willie@hotmail.com http://Gimpyarm.com 24.164.0.96 2006-09-30 05:12:57 2006-09-30 10:12:57 1 0 0 3636 foolishwench@hotmail.com 24.164.0.96 2006-09-29 22:34:03 2006-09-30 03:34:03 1 0 0 3620 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.97.73 2006-09-27 18:57:57 2006-09-27 23:57:57 1 0 0 3615 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2006-09-27 05:28:20 2006-09-27 10:28:20 1 0 0 Mommy's Feeling Better! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=437 Sat, 30 Sep 2006 18:26:41 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=437

    This shows what it is like for us to have Nichelle feeling better.

    For the record, this photo is what I said Nichelle should post to accompany her description of her health. I think the only reason she didn't actually post the photo is that she wanted to play World of WarCraft.]]>
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    Congressman Mark Foley: Pedophile http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=438 Wed, 04 Oct 2006 20:31:49 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=438 transcript of one of Mark Foley's instant messenger conversation with a former Congressional page. (There are a few more excerpts from a different conversation here on CNN.) While such communication has been repeatedly labeled "inappropriate," in the media, reading the transcript makes it clear that it was way beyond inappropriate, and clearly typical of a predatory pedophile. What hasn't happened yet (as far as we know) is Foley being caught having an active sexual relationship with a minor, but that doesn't change the definition of pedophile. He is guilty (assuming these transcripts are genuine) of using his instant message communications to sexually exploit/sexually harass teens for his own sexual gratification. As detailed in the transcript linked above, Foley discusses with a minor various sexual acts, including masturbation and manual penile stimulation by another individual, talks about wanting to slip the minor's shorts off him and "gram the one-eyed snake," [sic; grab was mistyped as gram] then goes on to request that the minor remind him of the length the boy's erect penis, which had been communicated to Foley before. We should not tolerate this evil, nor be afraid to name it for what it is.]]> 438 2006-10-04 15:31:49 2006-10-04 20:31:49 open open congressman-foley-pedophile publish 0 0 post 0 3693 bethcostine@hotmail.com http://www.bethalyson.blogspot.com 68.169.193.246 2006-10-09 07:05:12 2006-10-09 12:05:12 1 0 0 Sancocho, Canis Lupus, and More http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=440 Mon, 09 Oct 2006 14:11:09 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=440 Sancocho We have been awaiting a truly delicious traditional Dominican meal---sancocho---for several months now. (Doug: One of us had resorted to pleading and begging.) On Friday we were invited over to the DaLaCruz's home for such a rich and delicious meal and also a great time with Mahli and Miguel and their family and friends. The aroma from this meal really brought us back to our visits of the Dominican Republic. How we long to be back there! (Perhaps next year.)

    Canis Lupus

    Friday night we got the kids excited about a surprise trip we were going to take on Saturday morning. All they knew was that they were going to woken up early and then we'd be off. We managed to get out the door before 8:30 a.m. (and for us on a Saturday was extremely impressive). I made breakfast sandwiches and got other snacks and we were out the door. The trip was wonderful. The scenery was spectacular. During the trip, we had the occasional inturrption of "noise" such as: "Are we there yet?" and "How much longer?" but, besides that, it was peaceful. We were headed for the Wolf and Wild Canine Sanctuary in White River Junction, Vermont. We really picked an ideal weekend to go. Such breathtaking views.


    Mica is the most handsome wolf I've ever met.

    Some of you may be wondering, "A wolf sanctuary? Why?" We had purchased a six-month wolf adoption, after learning about it from Beth Costine's BLOG, for Isaac's 11th birthday, and the adoption includes visitation privileges. This was our first trip up there. Isaac's wolf is named Magic, but my favorite was Mara and then Mica. All of the wolves are beautiful. (Doug: They are all beautiful, but I think Mica was by far the best looking.) When we arrived at our destination, Isaac recognized the name and beamed. David and Naomi were thrilled, too. I couldn't wait to see them and the same with Doug. We were greeted by the owner, Peter Porter, and he gave us the tour.


    Pete Porter certainly loves his wolves, and vice-versa.


    David was the only one of us Magic would approach closely. That weasel!

    The first wolf we met was Mica. He was simply lovely. We could, through the fence, pet them and have them give "wolf kisses." We all had that opportunity to do that with each of the wolves. Although, Magic wouldn't come very close to us, except for David. That lucky weasel! The last wolf we met was Mara. She's not 100% wolf, and appears to be part Siberian husky and part collie. She was very gentle, considering her size, but very playful.


    This plywood, guaranteed for 50 years, lasted only about 3 weeks in the kennel with Magic.

    To top off the entire trip, Peter had asked Isaac if he would like to go in the kennel along with him. Isaac turned him down. (Yeah, right!) Isaac headed in, and Mara was right there to great him. Doug had the camcorder running and took many pictures. We were told that Mara loves children and she really does. She was all over Isaac and he loved every minute of it. David got a turn in there, too.


    Isaac gets "wolf kisses" from Mara.

    Peter also gave us a tour of his "man room" I believe that's the name his wife gave it. It holds his hunting trophies of many kinds (perhaps most impressive was a huge boar skull) along with other "toys."


    Looking down on the wolf pens and exercise area from the entrance to the "man room" above the garage.

    What an experience we had! It was a treat for all of us and I/we do hope to return before the adoption expires, but I am certain we will renew it. David has also mentioned wanting one for his birthday.


    Isaac with Pete Porter in the background. Naomi actually took this photo.

    ... and More!

    After we left the Sanctuary, we headed to Queechee Gorge and had a great hike and some time to climb on the rocks.


    Looking down into the Quechee Gorge.

    Before we got to the base of the gorge, we stopped along the way so the kids to catch the falling leaves. Simple things, but very sweet and many great memories.


    Naomi, Nichelle, and Isaac during our hike at the Quechee Gorge.

    I also had the opportunity to watch my husband walk up a tree (30 footer) that had fallen down over the riverbed. I was, of course, concerned for him, but one of the things that went through my mind was what would happen to the camcorder and digital camera if he had fallen. Twisted, I know. (Doug: I thought about the cameras, too, but once I started, there was no way I was going back down; it took a lot of nerve for me to walk along the tree, and I'm actually surprised---although glad---that I did it.)
    There I stood, on what had once been nearly the top of a large tree, now fallen, facing the deadly 30 or 40 feet upward slope of the fallen trunk. Gripping the dead branches tightly, I forced myself to breathe more slowly. After standing there several minutes, I took a baby step. Then I let go of the branches, and tried not to look down onto the jagged rocks below. After a few more minutes, I was able to take another baby step or two, and soon passed beyond the reach of supporting branches. Slowly, I took a couple of regular steps. Then I discovered if I crouched down very slightly, and stared at the tree trunk, I could actually move fairly rapidly without succumbing to rising panic. Moving increasingly rapidly, without daring to look back, I reached the roots at the base of the overturned tree. I was elated! I jumped down about 6 feet from the trunk, with a grin of accomplishment on my face ... then grin turned to an expression of panic when I discovered that the brush underneath the tree had hidden a very steep slope, down which I was starting to tumble.
    Ah, yes, the memory of seeing my husband jump down off the tree which was on an incline, which he hadn't noticed. He jumped and then slid. He was fine, but I was glad he was finished with his "climbing" that day. All in all, it was a great weekend. I should also add that today, Sunday, was my second time back in choir since December, 2005. This coming Sunday I actually get to sing in service. I have longed to be back in that portion of ministry for such a long time and the time has finally arrived. Special music, here I come. I've been healthy, nearly perfectly healthy since July. I'm thankful and grateful for all that I'm able to do. So, to all that have been in prayer for me and my family, many, many thanks to you, and please do continue to pray. ]]>
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    Naomi's First Piercings: Preparing for and Celebrating Her 3rd birthday ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=442 Wed, 18 Oct 2006 13:21:24 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=442
    Naomi poses with some of her favorite pictures as a backdrop.

    This past Friday was Naomi's birthday. She has known for a while, and been talking about, two other things that would happen when she turned three:
    • One, she would get her ears pierced,
    • and second, her pacifers would go in the trash before she got her presents.
    The big day came, and we headed to Wal-mart to get her ears pierced. A couple of days before I was having second thoughts about doing it, and then on Friday while I was filling out the form I was really having second thoughts; I nearly walked out. NaNi had to use the potty and that gave me an opportunity to settle down. She, of course, was fine. We got back and I selected the earrings. I got to leave Naomi in the carriage for better positioning and also to keep her better constrained. They do both ears at the same time. Both ladies approached her from the side and I stood in front of her. They did it. Naomi didn't make a sound until they stepped away, and then she cried, but a muffled cry and held me close and kept saying, "it hurt." She cried for a few minutes and was done. The reason I was concerned was because I didn't want any mistakes on putting the earrings too low, and also the pain factor. They did a great job, and her earrings look beautiful.


    A rather "toothy" photo, but here's our princess!

    As for the pacifers, I recall before she got her presents that she had them in her hand. She actually gave one to her Dad, but what happened to the others we didn't know. At bedtime, she was fussy after having a jammed-packed day---during which she was totally sweet and adorable---but by bedtime she was beyond tired, and desperately wanted the pacifer, which we found. She did throw one away, but kept claiming, "I only have one." Basically, Doug and I caved and let her have the one that night; on Sunday I took the pacifer and tossed it. She did so much better the second night, and has been fine without it.


    Naomi with MacKenzie Miller: These princesses aren't afraid to get dirty.

    Isaac and David were only two when I took theirs away, and it wasn't an issue with either of them. But I couldn't do it that early with Naomi. The other difference was when the boys were three months old, I said, they would then sleep in their own bedrooms. Naomi was five months old. Guess with her being my last baby, I needed to hold on a little longer. Going along with the theme of her party, which started at "princess" and was expanded to a more general fantasy theme to accommodate the boys who would be attending, I made her a princess and castle cake, complete with a Barbie doll with a dress made of fondant. That was a lot of fun! (Doug said he liked an earlier version of the doll better.) I made the cakes on Friday night and decorated them early Saturday morning. Naomi got out her rolling pin and I gave her some fondant and powdered sugar to play with. She had a ball. (She had sugar up to her shoulders and through her hair.) I haven't put that much detail into a cake in years, although I did cheat and used a mix.


    All the time Nichelle spends watching cooking shows is paying off ...

    I was also able to make her a bed-in-a-bag to match her newly painted bedroom, deep pink and purple w/ the princess decor. Naomi helped me paint, too. She did a very neat job, I was surprised. I gave her my small roller, she wore her smock and had a ball. It's been a busy month and a half working on the kids bedrooms (David's is next to be done) and preparing for her birthday party, but what a blessing to be able to do it all! I do praise and thank God for all that has taken place. It does seem that I've been well for ages, but it's only been since July. It's been wonderful!!


    Naomi with one of the many dress-up items she received as a gift. She loves playing dress-up.

    Thank you to all who helped with various tasks. Couldn't have pulled it off without your help. Hey, Phil and Cindy, I found my balloon pump while I was searching for my crafting supplies. :-) We had many friends and family join us to celebrate NaNi's third year and what a blast it was. Everything went so well and the weather was beautiful. The kids got to "slay the dragon" and that was hilarious. The dragon (Doug) stole the loot for the piñata, and the kids needed to slay the dragon in order to capture the loot. What fun they had, and the dragon, too.


    Some of the many warriors who attended Naomi's party pose before venturing off to slay the dragon.


    This dragon has been slain!

    It was present time and Naomi's expression upon opening each of her presents was lovely. She beamed with each one. She was a completely gracious hostess.


    NaNi opening a CD gift---the soundtrack from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, one of her absolute favorite movies. She was so thrilled with every gift, and always remembered to say, "Thank you."

    Thank you to everyone for making her day so wonderful. We have loads of pictures, ones that we've taken and from others, too. Those should be up in a couple of days. So please check back. You'll love them. More pictures as promised. ]]>
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    Main Entry: fon·dant Pronunciation: 'fän-d&nt Function: noun Etymology: French, from present participle of fondre to melt -- more at FOUND 1 : a soft creamy preparation of sugar, water, and flavorings that is used as a basis for candies or icings 2 : a candy consisting chiefly of fondant
    Doesn't definition #2 break the rule of not using a word to define itself? Anyhow, great post! I do want to see photos though.]]>
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    IE7 Doesn't Like gzip Compression http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=443 Thu, 26 Oct 2006 01:54:23 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=443 Geek Version: (See the Non-Geek Version below, as well as the Blonde Version.) It seems that Internet Explorer 7 doesn't like gzip compression being served up from at least some Web servers. For a week or more, I've been aware that getting to our BLOG using IE7 was impossible. (Bob Richardson first pointed it out to me.) More specifically, one could get to the BLOG, but it would nearly immediately disappear with the "Internet Explorer could not display the webpage" being displayed instead.


    The Wilcox Family BLOG, before today, as viewed by Internet Explorer 7.

    I hunted off and on for the past week, using a computer at work we have at the office running the prerelease version of Windows Vista (which is amazing, for the record). I removed pieces of the BLOG, checked for logs that would tell me the problem, but was completely unsuccessful. I could take off every piece of the BLOG, and just display some text via PHP, and the problem would still occur; but, if I saved the HTML to a plain file and served that from my Web server, everything would work fine, which seemed ridiculous, as the HTML delivered was exactly the same. While we were waiting for a server restart, I explained all this to my co-worker RaviShekhar, and he said, "Have you looked at the headers?" So I took a peek. The header from the BLOG that failed in IE 7 looked (retrieved via Firefox) like this:
    Response Headers - http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/
    
    Cache-Control: no-store, no-cache, must-revalidate, 
       post-check=0, pre-check=0
    Connection: close
    Date: Wed, 25 Oct 2006 20:22:53 GMT
    Pragma: no-cache
    Content-Type: text/html; charset=UTF-8
    Content-Encoding: gzip
    Expires: Thu, 19 Nov 1981 08:52:00 GMT
    Vary: Accept-Encoding
    Server: Microsoft-IIS/6.0
    X-Powered-By: PHP/4.3.11-dev, ASP.NET
    X-Pingback: http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/xmlrpc.php
    
    200 OK
    And the one from a nearly identical BLOG that worked fine looked like this:
    Response Headers - http://robots.wilcoxusa.net/
    
    Connection: close
    Date: Wed, 25 Oct 2006 20:23:27 GMTm 
    Content-Type: text/html; charset=UTF-8
    Server: Microsoft-IIS/6.0
    X-Powered-By: ASP.NET, PHP/4.3.11-dev
    X-Pingback: http://robots.wilcoxusa.net/xmlrpc.php
    
    200 OK
    One obvious difference is the gzip compression. What happens is this: Certain Web servers, to save bandwidth and improve speed, will compress the data that is sent out to the browser. The browser uncompresses the data when it receives it. This allows more information, especially blocks of text, to be sent more quickly. But what if a browser can't support the compression? Well, the browser is supposed to communicate with the Web server, and say what it will actually accept, and this is communicated in the request header. So, a browser should only be sent gzip-compressed information if it sends a code to the server that says it accepts gzip. I don't yet have the header information that IE7 is sending to the server, but I think it's sending an "accepts gzip" when either it doesn't accept it, or there's something wrong with the uncompression algorithm. At any rate, turning off the gzip compression on the BLOG lets me visit it using glorious IE 7 (which isn't bad at all). To be continued (when I have time to investigate the request headers) ...

    Non-Geek Version:

    The latest version of Internet Explorer, just released by Microsoft, would not display the Wilcox Family BLOG for more than a fraction of a second. After much investigation, and some helpful suggestions, I found the cause of the problem, and changed the BLOG settings to work around it.

    Blonde Version:

    It took our blonde site visitors a week to realize that "Internet Explorer could not display the webpage" wasn't a new BLOG entry; so, no harm done.]]>
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    Geekier than Thou---Stardate 2006.1028 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=444 Sun, 29 Oct 2006 21:40:38 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=444
    And you thought your family was geeky? Left to right are Isaac, as Lieutenant Commander Data; Doug as Chief Engineer Wilcox, stationed on the USS Reliant; Naomi as her favorite Star Trek character, Princess Leia (yes, we know); Nichelle as Chief Medical Officer also aboard the Reliant, and David as Ensign Monroe, leader of the Elite Force on board the USS Voyager.

    All photography © Copyright 2006, Charles B. Dunn Photography. Used by permission. Charlie's photography
    Yesterday we attended Phoebe Dunn's thirteenth birthday party. Now, the Dunn family is slightly fond of Star Trek, and the only serious contenders in our immediate circle for being Geekier than the Wilcoxes. Phoebe wanted a Star Trek themed party, and her mom put it together wonderfully.


    I look great in this uniform. Chief Engineer Wilcox, reporting.

    Over half of the attendees were in costume. Nichelle whipped up great stuff for Naomi, who insisted on being her favorite Trek character, Princess Leia Organa. Phoebe and her brother Chas were Klingons ("old school" without the forehead ridges). Their mom Trish was an Andorian female. Their father Charlie, who took these wonderful photos, was the classic redshirt who dies on an away mission. Nichelle looked fabulous in a Starfleet medical uniform, complete with medical tricorder, that arrived literally an hour before we needed it, courtesy (like our uniforms) of eBay. (Charlie's photography was awesome. We're going to do our next family portraits with him.)


    Trish Dunn as an Andorian female.

    Trish Dunn made great Trek-themed snacks, or relabeled existing ones. We drank roctagina, and Klingon blood wine, and snacked on candied tribbles and targ-on-a-stick. Delicious!


    David as Ensign Monroe, leader of the Elite Force serving on the USS Voyager. He appears to be eating some of that wonderful targ-on-a-stick.

    Nichelle made David's costume, based on the character Ensign Monroe in the Star Trek Voyager Elite Force video game. It came out great. David provided expert design advice, and was wearing the costume again this afternoon.


    Isaac as Lieutenant Commander Data.

    Isaac wore a uniform I used to be able to fit into in my academy days (we presume Data is now in a command position, as he's wearing a burgundy uniform).


    NaNi smiles as she hold up a tribble she "caught."

    One of the games for the younger kids was a tribble hunt. They had a ball finding these creatures.


    NaNi hugs the birthday girl, Phoebe.

    We also played a homemade Trek-ized version of Win, Lose, or Draw. Phoebe had made the topics, and they came in two flavors: "painfully easy" and "so-hard-a-Vulcan-would-be-stumped." I tried to stay in character and told stories from engineering, like about the time we convinced a cadet that we really did cook "hot dogs" in the dilithium matrix as a rite of passage on the Reliant, and got him to try it just as the Captain showed up for a "suprise" inspection. Then there was the transferee from the Enterprise we sealed in the Jeffries tube, and tweaked the environmental controls so they matched the conditions of a Borg cube. That was a bit ruthless, but he got though counseling just fine.


    Doug and Nichelle as Lieutenants serving on the USS Reliant.

    It was a great day. The Dunns hope to repeat this at least once a year.]]>
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    Adrenaline http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=447 Sun, 29 Oct 2006 22:05:18 +0000 David http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=447 [Editor's note: This is David's first-ever BLOG post. Yes, I will get even. For the record, David is 7 years old, just started second grade, and it was a wiffle-ball bat.] A few weeks ago I beet up my dad with a basballbat and then I threw the basballbat at the flor and my dad started to run away then he went into the bathroom. then he started to run away from me agen ]]> 447 2006-10-29 17:05:18 2006-10-29 22:05:18 open open adrenalyn-2 publish 0 0 post 0 3977 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-11-04 14:19:37 2006-11-07 05:19:37 1 0 2 3937 paraguay4christ@yahoo.com http://www.jackie-happywife.blogspot.com 200.61.231.254 2006-11-04 12:57:25 2006-11-04 17:57:25 1 0 0 3940 paraguay4christ@yahoo.com http://www.paraguay4christ.com/ 200.61.231.254 2006-11-04 16:47:21 2006-11-04 21:47:21 1 0 0 3918 scrbkmaniac@aol.com http://www.anitalottahelp.blogspot.com 72.77.164.233 2006-11-02 16:48:34 2006-11-02 21:48:34 1 0 0 3909 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-10-31 20:39:42 2006-11-01 01:39:42 1 0 0 3878 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-10-29 17:09:54 2006-10-29 22:09:54 Laurie Berkner Band DVD, and started singing and dancing around the family room. One thing led to another. Soon there were noodle sabers, zany chases, wiffle ball bats, and sneak attacks added to the mix. The kids didn't get to bed on time, but we had an absolute blast. Nichelle was as involved as anyone else---it's so good to have her at full capacity again. I love these spontaneous family fun moments. And I can back up my statements with video.]]> 1 0 2 Naomi-isms http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=448 Tue, 07 Nov 2006 15:37:36 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=448 Laurie Berkner Band DVD for her birthday, and one of the songs on it is, "Moon, moon, moon." Part of the song says that the moon takes care of her. So I asked her, "Who takes care of you?" her response: "God does; I only said the moon does because it's in the song." Last week Doug brought home from work gummy eyeballs, and the kids were playing with them. Isaac was playing with his eye and Naomi's, and placed them on the back of his head, and talked about having Mom-vision. She placed the eyes at the back of her head, and then said, "Look, I'm Isaac. I know everything. Blah, blah, blah, blah." It was hysterical. This morning, Naomi was sitting on the floor looking at an e-Toys catalog, and was pointing out things and saying what she wants to have. She then sighed and said, "Humph, that's $40."
    Added November 11, 2006 This morning, while Nichelle was at the Ladies' Tea (part of our annual missions conference at church), I was trying to get Naomi to drink milk instead of water or juice. She didn't want it, and I explained to her that milk contained calcium and other vitamins and minerals that were important for building strong bones, like in her arms. A while later she came up to me with a sippy cup filled with water, and said, "Dad, watch this." She drank from the cup, and said, "See? This doesn't go into my arms, it goes into my chest."
    Added November 21, 2006 Well, this morning as I was leaving for work, Naomi said to me, "Goodbye, Dad, don't be a slacker ... or a weasel ... or a goober ... like Uncle Phil!]]>
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    Meal Dumpling: An Old New England Thanksgiving Treat http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=449 Fri, 24 Nov 2006 15:15:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=449 Meal Dumpling
    • white corn meal (you can use white grits if you can't get white corn meal); amount varies slightly---see the cooking instructions
    • 3 cups water
    • 1 cup milk
    • 1 teaspoon salt
    Bring the water, milk, and salt almost to a boil in the top of a double-boiler. (Did you know that the Spanish word for a double-boiler is a baña Maria. What a fascinating glimpse into the culture!) Under very low heat, pour in the corn meal until it thickens. Don't get it too thick. My sister claims it should be "slightly thicker than Cream of Wheat." Leave the mixture steaming for 3 hours. Let set out to dry for 1/2 hour. Amaze your family or become the most popular guest at your next Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner!]]>
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    With a Thankful Heart .... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=450 Mon, 27 Nov 2006 20:58:11 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=450 Around the table we took turns telling what we were thankful for. It came to David's turn and he had a long list, starting with his salvation---what a blessing that was. (Doug prompted him by announcing, "Our kids are all ingrates; they have nothing for which they are thankful.") Then, to top it all off, he broke into songs of praise and worship, and got us all singing. ...being thankful for what we have. Can we list all the blessings God gives to us, really? What a loving, gracious, forgiving, and merciful Lord we serve. One of my major praises is for the return of excellent health! It's been since July, and so far there is no sign of the symptoms returning. Will they symptoms return? Not sure, but typically by this time of year, I'd be having many symptoms, and so far only a couple of minor ones had happened and then they were gone, and that was at least two months ago. A trip to Cindy's for Thanksgiving is always wonderful! Our plan was to head to Cindy's house after church Wednesday night. It's a two and a half hour trip, and after service we had hoped to arrive by 11 p.m. I got the suitcases packed, and Doug loaded up the van all before church. (Victory! We've never actually accomplished this.) Service typically lets out at 8:15, and we wanted to head back to the house for one final sweep of things and also pick up dinner on the way. Service let out at 9:05 due to the fact that each person has the opportunity to share something that they have been thankful for throughout the past year. I was downstairs working with our King's Kids program and Doug was in the service. Things took a little longer, giving hugs and quick praises of thanks for how God has been working once service was over. I believe we all made it in the car at about 9:20. So, you see what happened. So we got in the van, headed home, had the kids do potty runs, etc., and were back in about 5 minutes. (Another victory!) The plan was to go to the McDonald's just over the highway. So we took off, and the time was now 9:45. Unfortunately, the McDonald's was closed! Grrrrrr... We headed back to the BK on Main Street, and ordered meals. We went through drive-thru and pull over once we get our food to pray and dish out the meal so we can get on our way. As the kids were handed their food, Isaac proclaimed in disgust that they got his order wrong---again. They also messed up David's order. Back through the line we went. I should add, because our order was so long we had to pull to the side and wait for them to finish making it which took several minutes. Anyway, we got the order together and were on our way, finally. Quite a way to start off our mini-vacation! Our drive was uneventful, except for the 18 wheeler that was having a bit of a problem staying in his lane. He nearly pushed a car off the road, thankfully we got past him (two lanes over), and it was smooth sailing from there. We arrived at Cindy's just after midnight. The kids slept just about the whole way there and Doug did, too off and on. Cindy did an awesome job with the meal and the many pies once again. My contribution was a side dish, assistance in the kitchen, and a couple of Hershey Pies. Around the table we took turns telling what we were thankful for. It came to David's turn and he had a long list, starting with his salvation---what a blessing that was. (Doug prompted him by announcing, "Our kids are all ingrates; they have nothing for which they are thankful.") Then, to top it all off, he broke into songs of praise and worship, and got us all singing. Naomi was thankful for her friend Mikayla and her house. We were all thankful for the mutual support we have in the family, especially given the very difficult issues various of us have been through. We talked about why we love to get together, and concluded that our relationships with Christ made a big difference in our family dynamics---you won't find us saying, "Ugh, holiday time again, we have to put up with the relatives!" Such a sweet time. Typically after the meal, Cindy and I go for a nice and sometimes long walk, but due to the rain we didn't go. We all did the next day and it was awesome! We went up to the Littleville Dam and hiked around that a ways about four miles. We also stopped at a large rock bluff to do some climbing. Naomi walked some, but was pretty much carried by Doug, Jenn and myself. Jenn, on our way back was still holding Naomi, who decided her being carried was too much and decided to take a nap. We all had such a great time together and look forward to our next gathering at Christmas. ]]> 450 2006-11-27 15:58:11 2006-11-27 20:58:11 open open with-a-thankful-heart publish 0 0 post 0 4344 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-11-29 13:17:41 2006-11-29 18:17:41 1 0 0 4228 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-11-27 16:22:20 2006-11-27 21:22:20 1 0 3 4227 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2006-11-27 16:03:43 2006-11-27 21:03:43 1 0 0 Educational Update http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=451 Thu, 30 Nov 2006 17:44:09 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=451 both earned highest honors for their first quarter. That means they get a $1/week raise in their allowances, which will now compensate for the $1/week they contribute toward our World of WarCraft subscription. David has become very proficient in handwriting, which is always difficult for a lefty; there's a huge improvement over last year. Congratulations to them both, the weasels! Last night I took the second of two "midterms"---our single major exams---for my Boston University graduate courses. I got a stinking "B" on my first exam, in "Object-Oriented Analysis and Design." I think I did better on the Software Engineering exam yesterday. Both classes have projects due within a couple of weeks. The Software Engineering course is a group project with three of my co-workers, and we're building, using Ruby on Rails, a Web-based calendar that is idea for families and small organizations. This is a program I've always wanted to put together, and it will be fun finishing it up. So far we've learned that Rails is amazing in putting together the data connectivity and display pieces virtually automatically. In OOAD, I am having a blast designing a simulator of a Star Trek transporter, including replicating the Enterpise D transporter control panel. For this I'm uisng Adobe's Flex Builder 2, at the suggestion of co-worker RaviShekhar Gopalan, to create my application programmatically for Flash. Although far from finished (I should be "mostly done" by Monday), I've published my incomplete-but-working project to http://transporter.wilcoxfamily.net/ . There are some fun hidden features (and I'll be adding several more), although the simulation/demonstration code isn't in there yet. I fell victim a bit to a common programmer's overconfidence: "If I know one object-oriented language, then I can learn another one in minutes!" I've figured out just about everything I need to do in Flex (I have one more technical problem to solve, and it's a small one), but I'm my no means a master yet. You can also take a peek at the PowerPoint presentation I gave to the class for that project. (Can you spot the big omission from my Domain Diagram? It's a real forehead-slapper!) (It's been determined that I will get real credit for the courses I am taking, but that I cannot get my Certificate in Software Engineering, because I don't have a baccalaureate. I will investigate, after the next two courses are done in the spring, what it would take to convert these credits into undergraduate credits and fill in the missing pieces to get a B.S. in computer science.) John (we still hear from him occasionally) has been telling people for a while that he is enrolled in a GED review course at Massasoit, but if he is, he's taking on days it isn't offered, at times of the day it isn't offered, with an instructor who isn't teaching it, using a textbook that isn't part of the course, and getting a ride from people who claim they aren't giving him a ride to the class. And NaNi continues to learn letter recognition and writing from Nichelle, although the impending holidays have cut down on the teaching schedule a bit. Naomi can spot capital As anywhere, and writes them perfectly, except for tending to draw them upside-down.]]> 451 2006-11-30 12:44:09 2006-11-30 17:44:09 open closed educational-update publish 0 0 post 0 4635 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-12-18 01:31:49 2006-12-18 06:31:49 http://transporter.wilcoxfamily.net. If you're curious, click on the word LCARS to view the source code for the project, nicely organized by the "Publish Source Code" feature of Flex.]]> 1 0 2 4515 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-12-08 17:22:17 2006-12-08 22:22:17 1 0 3 4514 phil.luchon@gmail.com http://www.gamecampusa.com 216.41.8.250 2006-12-08 16:51:33 2006-12-08 21:51:33 1 0 0 4505 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 24.61.230.158 2006-12-08 02:55:31 2006-12-08 07:55:31 1 0 0 4462 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-12-06 12:45:54 2006-12-06 17:45:54 1 0 0 4438 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2006-12-05 12:10:28 2006-12-05 17:10:28 http://transporter.wilcoxfamily.net. Poke about: You shouldn't be able to break anything. And do let me know if you find anything wrong, or have suggestions for "cool" features, although I have several on the way.]]> 1 0 2 4446 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 24.61.230.158 2006-12-05 18:48:27 2006-12-05 23:48:27 Editor's Note: John and I did, indeed, have an IMed conversation regarding his attendance of the GED Review course at Massasoit. It became clear nearly immediately that, other than the cost, John had absolutely no correct information about the course he was allegedly attending, as I discussed in the post above. One may also note that John believes that knowing if or where he is or is not attempting to finish high school or its equivalent is somehow exercising control over him. I shall leave our readers to ponder that line of reasoning themselves.]]> 1 0 0 4376 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.164.0.96 2006-12-01 05:22:30 2006-12-01 10:22:30 1 0 0 4371 mark@sohmer.net http://blog.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2006-11-30 12:55:49 2006-11-30 17:55:49 flux capacitor.]]> 1 0 0 4378 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2006-12-01 17:42:32 2006-12-01 22:42:32 1 0 2 My Insane Wife http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=452 Wed, 20 Dec 2006 17:46:54 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=452 452 2006-12-20 12:46:54 2006-12-20 17:46:54 open open my-insane-wife publish 0 0 post 0 4740 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-12-21 09:09:25 2006-12-21 14:09:25 1 0 3 4733 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.164.0.96 2006-12-21 04:52:12 2006-12-21 09:52:12 1 0 0 4735 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-12-21 07:22:59 2006-12-21 12:22:59 last night until at least 1:30 a.m. ...]]> 1 0 2 4721 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.97.73 2006-12-20 20:14:20 2006-12-21 01:14:20 1 0 0 4709 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2006-12-20 14:56:07 2006-12-20 19:56:07 1 0 0 4705 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-12-20 12:54:48 2006-12-20 17:54:48 1 0 0 Merry Christmas! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=453 Mon, 25 Dec 2006 13:31:46 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=453 Lots of Christmas news today, but I'll save it for later. Here are a couple of photos, one an outtake from our family photo shoot, another showing how Geek boy Isaac dresses for school this season.

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    453 2006-12-25 08:31:46 2006-12-25 13:31:46 open open merry-christmas publish 0 0 post 0 4906 scrbkmaniac@aol.com http://www.anitalottahelp.blogspot.com 64.12.117.9 2006-12-27 20:43:25 2006-12-28 01:43:25 1 0 0 4909 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 72.70.250.86 2006-12-27 22:23:49 2006-12-28 03:23:49 1 0 2 4835 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2006-12-25 09:58:35 2006-12-25 14:58:35 normal one! ;) God bless you on Christmas and always! The Sohmer Family]]> 1 0 0 4904 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.128.150 2006-12-27 20:10:30 2006-12-28 01:10:30 1 0 0 4848 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.97.73 2006-12-25 18:58:20 2006-12-25 23:58:20 1 0 0 4883 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-12-27 12:00:59 2006-12-27 17:00:59 1 0 0 4870 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-12-26 14:20:16 2006-12-26 19:20:16 1 0 2 4869 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.149.56 2006-12-26 12:12:23 2006-12-26 17:12:23 1 0 0 4933 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-12-28 15:03:46 2006-12-28 20:03:46 your newsletter to light the pellet stove. Isaac uses it when cleaning Dash's cage. (Dash is Isaac's male bearded dragon.) Cindy: Click the "L/I" link at the top, and look for the Logout button. Sorry! Nichelle is recommending a different "official" photo. Maybe we'll do a bunch of both.]]> 1 0 2
    So what do you get when you mix chicken with a lot of great ingredients?... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=454 Thu, 28 Dec 2006 02:33:54 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=454 http://www.chickencookingcontest.com/contest_history.cfm. I saw the contest from 2005 and boy was I impressed. Did some searching for it and got the information and started creating recipes. I created seven in all and submitted two. Doug will be sure to mention that he had to beg and plead to get me to submit the recipe that won. The first recipe is called, "Tropically Kissed Chicken" and the one that I submitted about a week or two later is a burger recipe. Not disclosing the information on that one. :). You'll have to wait. This morning at around 9:30, I got a phone call and was told that the recipe I created was selected for New Hampshire. Can you imagine how thrilled I am!!! I'm still in a bit of shock over it. I will receive more information in February about this and will keep you updated. The contest will take place in May 2007 and I will be flown to Birmingham, AL (all expenses paid) for a few days. Just the excitement alone to be chosen and now to go and actually make the dish live...it's exhilarating. So pray for me and all that will have to sample this dish repeatedly between now and the competition to get the cooking time down and so forth. Many thanks, too to all who have continued to pray for my health. I've been doing awesome since July and that in itself is beyond worthy of Praise to God!! Ah, for those of you who already know the recipe that was selected, please no mentioning things here in the blog about it. If you have any questions, please send me an email. Many thanks. :) And to read more about what takes place in judging, etc read here.]]> 454 2006-12-27 21:33:54 2006-12-28 02:33:54 open open so-what-do-you-get-when-you-mix-chicken-with-a-lot-of-great-ingredients publish 0 0 post 0 4925 mjlm19@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2006-12-28 11:32:43 2006-12-28 16:32:43 1 0 0 4910 Mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.128.150 2006-12-27 22:35:48 2006-12-28 03:35:48 1 0 0 4948 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.97.73 2006-12-28 20:28:23 2006-12-29 01:28:23 1 0 0 4974 crvernoy@cantv.net http://www.jungle-hut.blogspot.com 200.82.226.210 2006-12-29 16:46:51 2006-12-29 21:46:51 1 0 0 4970 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2006-12-29 11:22:42 2006-12-29 16:22:42 1 0 0 5021 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2006-12-31 21:10:37 2007-01-01 02:10:37 after it's available on the contest Web site. I think she's being a weasel ...]]> 1 0 2 5555 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.42 2007-01-12 15:59:12 2007-01-12 20:59:12 1 0 0 5586 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2007-01-13 09:57:00 2007-01-13 14:57:00 1 0 3 5720 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-01-17 16:34:16 2007-01-17 21:34:16 Check it out!]]> 1 0 2 An Engaging Christmas http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=455 Tue, 02 Jan 2007 15:46:59 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=455 two engagements in the family announced at Christmastime. My brother Paul John surprised his now-fiancée Crystal Hughes, who expected a digital camera, with an engagement ring. When they phoned us on Christmas day, I explained that a digital camera would at least have been useful, but Crystal seems very happy with the deal, and we all share in her excitement, although it would seem to be one of the signs of the Apocalypse.


    A rare photo of Hell on the day my brother became engaged.

    When my sister Joyce arrived to visit us this Christmas, we learned that my Mom had become engaged to long-time neighbor and friend George Fortini. Mom turned 80 in September. Let me explain a bit. First of all, we called Mom and chided her: "What?! You didn't tell the whole family yet? The next time you get engaged you'd better call all of us!" Mom explained that she was working on it, but she didn't want to eclipse Paul and Crystal's news. (Mom was one of the few people who knew about that before Christmas.) Dad went home to be with the Lord at Christmastime three years ago, after almost 60 years of marriage to my Mom. The same week, Ellen, the wife of their close friend and next-door-neighbor, George passed away. (Oft have we teased Mom about that "coincidence" in timing.) George and Mom started hanging out together more and more. Mom was very concerned about what the rest of us thought about that, despite our constant assurances that we were very happy for them both. I did tease her, "You know, Mom, you can't marry him because he's not a believer." I also gave Mom a lecture on the dangers of dating in a Postmodernist society. Behavioral standards have changed a bit since 1945, the last time Mom was "on the market." She assured me I had nothing to worry about. Not long after that, George trusted Christ as Savior. Mom, perhaps underestimating the power of the saving grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, declared, "George is saved, but he will never abandon his Catholicism." A few weeks later George was regularly attending services at Heritage Baptist Church with my Mom. On the Thursday before Christmas, George proposed marriage to my Mom, and she accepted. She was so giddy (I wish you could have heard the excitement in her voice), that she forgot about a weekly appointment for one of the "old ladies" for whom Mom drives.


    Yes, my Mom is indeed of sound mind.

    Mom and George have not yet set a wedding date, as they are working out legal and "estate" details. Maybe they'll do a double wedding, although Paul John has been talking about a Hillbilly wedding ceremony ...]]>
    455 2007-01-02 10:46:59 2007-01-02 15:46:59 open open an-engaging-christmas publish 0 0 post 0 5114 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-01-02 10:55:18 2007-01-02 15:55:18 1 0 0 5127 crvernoy@cantv.net http://www.jungle-hut.blogspot.com 200.82.226.210 2007-01-02 20:18:11 2007-01-03 01:18:11 1 0 0 5264 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-01-05 14:17:04 2007-01-05 19:17:04 1 0 0 5153 bethcostine@hotmail.com 129.170.59.24 2007-01-03 10:27:38 2007-01-03 15:27:38 1 0 0 5154 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-01-03 10:54:38 2007-01-03 15:54:38 "Merry Christmas" post. I promise, you'll get photos soon, but you'll need your cute-sensitive glasses, because the Wilcox kids so completely eclipse those pale Sohmer children (although the newest one isn't too bad, as she's not burdened by the unfortunate paternal DNA the others share). And, Mark didn't send Nehemiah any Geekwear, did he? By the way, Naomi, who turned 3 in October, also often talks about her wedding. On Sunday she said, "Dad, when I'm all grown up, will you buy me a shotgun like David's, and my marriage dress?"]]> 1 0 2 5173 Mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.128.150 2007-01-03 19:22:11 2007-01-04 00:22:11 1 0 0 5179 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.97.73 2007-01-03 20:38:40 2007-01-04 01:38:40 1 0 0 5200 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.164.0.96 2007-01-04 05:10:52 2007-01-04 10:10:52 1 0 0
    Message from John http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=457 Fri, 05 Jan 2007 16:47:13 +0000 John http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=457 457 2007-01-05 11:47:13 2007-01-05 16:47:13 open open message-from-john publish 0 0 post 0 5265 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-01-05 14:19:01 2007-01-05 19:19:01 1 0 0 5262 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 24.61.230.158 2007-01-05 13:51:06 2007-01-05 18:51:06 1 0 0 5254 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-01-05 12:28:47 2007-01-05 17:28:47 He was surly all the time, but fighting was extremely rare, much more rare than our friends tell us is typical.) After he left, he would elaborate on class, or on holding two jobs at a time, or even where he was living, and none of it would be true. He was going to the Eastern Regional Vocational Technical school, then Brockton high, then enrolled in a GED program: None of it ever happened. We twice gave him instructions on getting his high school transcripts, but weeks later he insisted that it was our fault he did not have them, and that this had cost him educational opportunity (clearly incorrect in a number of ways). In November he called us, voice clearly in a panic, for directions on how to get to Nashua by train. Apparently he was in fear for his physical safety due to some sort of gang activity---this has never been explained at all, although it has been referenced by him numerous times. Our ultimate conclusion was that, until there was some foundational honesty to his communication, there wasn't much we could do, although we have never denied him a chance to IM or talk with us. John, we love you. Now, we shall wait, watch, and see. ]]> 1 0 2 5376 wilcoxusa@andersonrepublic.com http://www.johnandleah.com 67.141.233.2 2007-01-08 08:41:31 2007-01-08 13:41:31 1 0 0 5391 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 24.61.230.158 2007-01-08 16:48:34 2007-01-08 21:48:34 1 0 0 5397 MJLM19@YAHOO.COM http://MJSCONTAGIOUSJOYBLOGSPOT.COM 24.147.40.239 2007-01-08 19:33:00 2007-01-09 00:33:00 1 0 0 5658 clr257@juno.com http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 72.79.204.54 2007-01-15 20:31:41 2007-01-16 01:31:41 1 0 0 5737 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 24.61.230.158 2007-01-18 02:17:05 2007-01-18 07:17:05 1 0 0 My Fortress http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=458 Sun, 07 Jan 2007 21:37:54 +0000 David http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=458 458 2007-01-07 16:37:54 2007-01-07 21:37:54 open open popcorn-dropper publish 0 0 post 0 5556 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.170.42 2007-01-12 16:04:28 2007-01-12 21:04:28 1 0 0 5378 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-01-08 09:24:38 2007-01-08 14:24:38 1 0 0 5514 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-01-11 10:51:42 2007-01-11 15:51:42 1 0 2 Elementary School Children and Civil Liberty http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=462 Sun, 14 Jan 2007 19:18:11 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=462 462 2007-01-14 14:18:11 2007-01-14 19:18:11 open open elementary-school-children-and-civil-liberties publish 0 0 post 0 5628 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2007-01-14 16:55:18 2007-01-14 21:55:18 1 0 0 6201 koniev@juno.com 68.160.168.177 2007-01-31 19:02:09 2007-02-01 00:02:09 1 0 0 Geek Man Attends Professional Sports Event http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=379 Mon, 05 Feb 2007 14:40:01 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=379 really old, dating back to January 20, 2006. So, call me a slacker---as you will, anyway, although this time you'll be justified in the attribution!]

    Often referred to as "übergeek," "LegoDoug," or, "that dweeb," I've actually attended a professional sports event only one other time in my life. In fact, I can be considered so Geeky that Weird Al actually did a music video about me. Don't believe me? Look for yourself:

    I spent about $30/ticket for John, John's friend AJ, my friend Phil Luchon, and myself to attend this game of the Celtics (which is universally pronounced wrong---it should have a hard C sound). I should have just gone for the $10 seats, which ended up being two rows behind us. Next time I'll just cheap out. It was advantageous to have Phil along to answer technical questions. ("What's that shorter timer that keeps counting down while the ball is in play?") There's a whole lot of stuff that goes on at a basketball game. First were a number of "pre-shows," some good and entertaining, some otherwise. One that interested me were two choriography teams from one of the local public school systems. First out was a group of 20 or so elementary-school-age girls; their choreography was well-coordinated and quite good, reflecting a high degree of skill and practice, with well-coordinated movements. Then out came junior-high or high school girls: They were terrible. Their movements were uncoordinated, and it was almost painful to watch. I later concluded that the vastly better quality in the performance of the younger students was because they had not yet discovered boys.


    John clearly enjoyed the game.

    The Celtics "mascot"---a person dressed as a leprechaun---and his team did some amazing gymnastic/acrobatic moves, kind of like Peter Pan meets the Harlem Globe Trotters. They set up big mats and springboards, and would do things like a reverse backflip culminating in a slam dunk. That was an amazing display, and fascinating to watch. (In fact, they displayed more skill than the Celtics, and appeared to have a higher percentage of successful shots.) There was also a "ball handler" demonstration, which was interesting, but not nearly as impressive as the mascot's work. Then came the game! The players came out and warmed up. There was tension and excitement building in the air. At last, I would experience the action and excitement of a live, professional basketball game! Except that every single player on both teams stank beyond belief, and they were all the laziest slackers on the face of the earth.


    Q: What's the difference between this warmup and the first 70% or more of the game? A: Only the warm-up suits.

    Does that sound harsh? I disagree. Your average athlete ought to be able to maintain a good level of physical activity for twelve minutes---that's how long a quarter is in professional basketball. In fact, an overpaid, professional athlete ought to be able to "push it" for the 48 minutes that would cover an entire pro game. Now, 48 minutes is generous---the "real" games are broken up by between-quarter breaks, and time outs within each quarter, so 48 minutes would be extreme, but if a zilllion-dollar player can't hustle for 48, he ought to be thrown off the team so someone deserving can take his place. Instead of intense action, we were treated to a performance, up until no more than the last quarter-and-a-half, that could best be described as pitifully lethargic. The players were nearly walking around the court, rather than running. Then, as the game approached the 75% mark, the players actually began to hustle in a way that might have been worthy the exorbitant salaries they were earning.


    Play Intensity Plotted Over Time

    But hustle wasn't enough. The Celtics (pronounced "kell-ticks," remember?) missed enough free throws to change the balance of the game from the close match it was to a slaughter that would have sent the Nets home crying. If I had been the coach, they all would have been doing laps every day until several of them collapsed in exhaustion, then suicides until the rest did, and anyone who missed a free throw I'd make walk from city-to-city between games. Inexcusable! In the end, the Celtics won, albeit just barely. I was disgusted at their pitiful performance. Where has the professionalism of Larry Bird gone? He used to walk every inch of the court before a game to find out where there might be an irregularity in the flooring, and he would endlessly practice free throws. Other distractions abounded. The guys behind us were constantly yelling profanity. In contrast to our economic stereotypes, they were well-dressed "Yuppies" who must have come to the game from white-collar jobs in Boston. Also, apparently, all it takes to operate the "interactive" things on the big scoreboard is the ability the launch the "DE-FENSE, DE-FENSE" animation whenever the Celtics didn't have the ball. Duh! Salter once wrote that you never see basketball coaches explain their victory strategy as, "Well, what we really need to do to win is get more baskets than the other team." There were, of course, other highlights to the game, especially from an engineering perspective. One of the things I found fascinating was the superbright LED displays that ringed the entire balcony. It was only relatively recently that the semiconductor doping of blue LEDs became commercially practical, which is what enabled these RGB displays to be used for such applications.


    A close-up of the LED arrays that create the wraparound displays.

    The final score was Boston 99, New Jersey 96. There's a recap available here on Yahoo Sports, but to be honest, reading it is more boring than watching American football.]]>
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    Local Software Developer Achieves World Fame http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=463 Mon, 15 Jan 2007 19:26:48 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=463 Over the past year [message redacted] has placed great effort in building a strong and expansive strategic relationship with Microsoft. We have continued to leverage and expand our use of Microsoft technologies as our two organizations come closer together to deliver greater value and powerful solutions to our mutual customers. Here is a three-minute video ... for you to share with your customers/prospects. This video features executives from Microsoft, [message redacted], and a mutual customer and discusses the business value of this partnership and the powerful benefits it offers to [message redacted] and our customers.
    One of my co-workers just stopped by and noted that our tarantula, Susan, is visible in the video. She's in the blue-lidded, plastic box on the table that's behind Bernard Farrell and me. Cool!]]>
    463 2007-01-15 14:26:48 2007-01-15 19:26:48 open open local-software-developer-achieves-world-fame publish 0 0 post 0 5677 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.128.150 2007-01-16 12:13:41 2007-01-16 17:13:41 1 0 0 5675 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-01-16 10:51:04 2007-01-16 15:51:04 redacted this year, having encountered it in Jonathan Coulton's song, "[Merry Christmas From] Chiron Beta Prime," which has become one of our kids favorite Christmas songs. You should hear NaNi sing it! Jonathan Coulton does Geek music. Not all his work is family-friendly, but I highly recommend "Chiron Beta Prime," "The Future Soon," and our family's favorite: "Skullcrusher Mountain." (Isaac gets a disturbing gleam in his eye when singing that one.) (Thanks to former coworker Josh Ain for introducing me---figuratively---to Jonathan Coulton.)]]> 1 0 2 5654 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.128.150 2007-01-15 17:58:50 2007-01-15 22:58:50 1 0 0 5653 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2007-01-15 15:59:13 2007-01-15 20:59:13 1 0 0
    The Future of Computer Interfaces http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=465 Fri, 19 Jan 2007 23:12:03 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=465

    This is absolutely amazing. With a few simple gestures, this is way beyond the "ancient" computer interfaces we use today, and is nearly exactly like what was seen in Minority Report, which is an excellent film despite Tom Cruz's presence. I was thinking about this recently. We complain about the mouse, but the mouse is incredibly intutive to use. All our children were computer-mouse-capable by age 2.5. Watching Naomi is interesting, though. She can use the computer mouse without difficulty. She's learned to do pretty well with the keyboard, also, good enough to play World of WarCraft. The Xbox controller, however, still befuddles her. She'll try to play Halo 2, but end up with her character stuck up against a wall. We discovered yesterday, however, that she did much better with the "Superman: Returns" game, which offers more freedom of movement, and didn't require her to stay alive by fighting. Back to computer interfaces. One of the things that hasn't "arrived" yet, despite the fact that our current computers are more-than-capable, is voice activated software. It just hasn't caught on, which surprises me. Is is simply too complicated for most users? Is it merely too annoying for most offices? Thoughts?]]>
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    The Big Dream http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=466 Sat, 20 Jan 2007 13:34:39 +0000 David http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=466 466 2007-01-20 08:34:39 2007-01-20 13:34:39 open open the-big-dream publish 0 0 post 0 5858 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.164.0.96 2007-01-20 18:14:21 2007-01-20 23:14:21 1 0 0 5843 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.192.251.191 2007-01-20 10:03:22 2007-01-20 15:03:22 what is it you're putting in your award-winning chicken dishes???]]> 1 0 0 5905 foolishwench@hotmail.com 24.164.0.96 2007-01-21 19:08:55 2007-01-22 00:08:55 1 0 0 5936 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-01-22 16:48:02 2007-01-22 21:48:02 1 0 2 5935 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.164.0.96 2007-01-22 16:36:37 2007-01-22 21:36:37 1 0 0 5996 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.173.121 2007-01-24 20:59:57 2007-01-25 01:59:57 1 0 0 6032 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-01-25 13:31:45 2007-01-25 18:31:45 1 0 2 And the Queen of Sarcasm Is ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=467 Mon, 22 Jan 2007 15:24:46 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=467 my pimped pic!


    And, for those of you who are tempted to point out that I could demonstrate my love for Nichelle by getting up early enough to make her an omelette, I wish to point out that serving Nichelle any omelette prepared by me would not be considered an act of love.]]>
    467 2007-01-22 10:24:46 2007-01-22 15:24:46 open open and-the-queen-of-sarcasm-is publish 0 0 post 0 5930 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-01-22 10:29:56 2007-01-22 15:29:56 1 0 0 5995 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.173.121 2007-01-24 20:57:11 2007-01-25 01:57:11 1 0 0 6051 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.164.0.96 2007-01-25 18:53:14 2007-01-25 23:53:14 1 0 0
    3-Year-Old Geek Goddess Sees Future in Competitive Halo http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=468 Thu, 25 Jan 2007 17:31:02 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=468 first video game name NaNi ever learned, she normally will ask to play, then get frustrated and leave after a minute or two, because she'll have her character looking at the sky or the ground, and not be able to get oriented correctly. Well, that all changed officially as of yesterday. She'd been playing David's birthday gift, "Superman Returns," on the Xbox. Being able to fly around Metropolis gave her the space and freedom of movement to really figure out how to work the thumbsticks. I also discovered she knows the four "lettered" buttons by name, and is learning what each does in the games she plays. So, last night we were armed with rocket launchers, and I was tracking Isaac, when NaNi blew me away! A moment later she took out Isaac. The icing on the cake was her "vengeful" exclamation to Isaac afterward: "Isaac, don't say my Barbie toothpaste is stupid! That's not nice!" Then she did her victory dance (her own adaptation of the "gnome" dance from Blizzard's World of WarCraft). It was sweet!]]> 468 2007-01-25 12:31:02 2007-01-25 17:31:02 open open 3-year-old-geek-goddess-sees-future-in-competitive-halo publish 0 0 post 0 6052 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.164.0.96 2007-01-25 18:55:37 2007-01-25 23:55:37 1 0 0 Another Novel Nightmare Treatment http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=469 Tue, 30 Jan 2007 16:56:39 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=469 this post, which describes how letting David watch Jurassic Park at age 3 cured his dinosaur-laden nightmares.) NaNi had bad dreams or night terrors of some sort last night. She started crying around 1:00, and wouldn't wake up enough to stop, in addition to putting a stranglehold on Nichelle. We've been through this before. It never ends well, because Naomi ends up restless or crying in our bed for a number of hours, and none of us gets the sleep we need. Remarkably, probably because I'd left work a little earlier and taken a long nap before dinner last night, I was more clearheaded than usual, and came up with a plan that would give us all enough sleep, if a bit strangely distributed. I said to NaNi, "Want to play some World of WarCraft?" She agreed, so we marched off to the family room, and within a few minutes of her sitting on my lap while I played, she had woken up enough to shake off the fear, and demand that she play using her character, so I ran the mouse while she ran the keyboard, which worked very well. I'm not used to playing a lower-level character (my Gnome is now at level 38), so at first I kept getting us into situations that led to a rapid death. At one point we were outnumbered, and nearly dead, so we ran from the bandits we were fighting---not something that always works. When the last one stopped following us, I had her turn around and I ran the "/taunt" emote, which does a chicken imitation with arms flapping and clucking sounds. Nichelle, rather than having to try to tend to NaNi, got her own much-needed sleep. After about 40 minutes, I let NaNi continue playing---she definitely wasn't ready to go back to bed---and I retired on the couch. I woke up at 4:45 a.m., to find she'd stopped playing, apparently also after spending some time coloring, and crawled onto the couch with me to go to sleep. So I got up and went back to bed, leaving NaNi sleeping peacefully. Nichelle got enough sleep to pull off our morning preparations on time; she let me sleep a little bit extra to catch up enough for me to take the kids to school and drive to work, and rather than listen to NaNi cry while trying to comfort her, we had some great father-daughter time killing Defias bandits around Goldshire. I suppose one would have to describe that as a win-win-win.]]> 469 2007-01-30 11:56:39 2007-01-30 16:56:39 open closed another-novel-nightmare-treatment publish 0 0 post 0 6165 mjlm19@yahoo.com 64.222.186.237 2007-01-30 13:40:29 2007-01-30 18:40:29 1 0 0 6164 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-01-30 12:15:52 2007-01-30 17:15:52 SUPER idea! Looks like everybody won indeed. :)]]> 1 0 0 6224 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.164.0.96 2007-02-01 05:27:34 2007-02-01 10:27:34 1 0 0 6286 scrbkmaniac@aol.com http://www.anitalottahelp.blogspot.com 205.188.117.6 2007-02-03 19:53:16 2007-02-04 00:53:16 1 0 0 6325 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-02-05 09:54:57 2007-02-05 14:54:57 1 0 2 How to Ruin Your Life by Misunderstanding the Will of God / Anatomy of a Train Wreck http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=470 Tue, 27 Feb 2007 19:51:41 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=470 How to Ruin Your Life by Misunderstanding the Will of God: The Danger of Christian Mysticism
    (This is an intentionally ironic title. You'll see.)

    "The Bible never tells us to seek the will of God. It tells us to do it." (Dr. John Hannah)
    Modern Christians, especially in conservative churches, tend to be obsessed with finding "the will of God" for their lives. We will examine what the Scripture actually teaches about the will of God, as well as refuting a number of very prevalent misconceptions about God's will. Lord willing, I'll be presenting this topic at the adult Bible study at our church on Wednesday, February 7. I will post a PowerPoint presentation, and other resources when they are complete. (PowerPoint has been posted here. Note the PowerPoint contains far more information than I actually covered. I used only about 40% of it.)

     


     

    Anatomy of a Train Wreck


    Photo of a train wreck in LaGrange, Illinois, from The Monkey Is Always Watching photoblog by Daniel Heath.

    In some ways, the lesson was a disaster. I wanted to get people thinking about dangerous, unbiblical rhetoric we use, and instead wound up inflaming the congregation. At least 8 people walked out. I touched on a number of foundational topics, including the KJV, with a slide entitled, "Why the KJV is Not the Word of God." However, my first two points on that subject were these:
    Don’t excommunicate me: Almost everything I have studied leads me to believe the KJV is a highly accurate, trustworthy translation from excellent manuscripts. But it isn’t perfect.
    And, we have a serious problem with the rhetoric we use.
    But no one heard them. I had to discontinue that topic after two slides, although people kept bringing the discussion back to them. But completely unheard were my points about translation errors, the danger of sounding like Ruckmanites, or even how the Jewish religious leaders Jesus debated with in the temple would not conduct theological discussions in any language other than Hebrew. Also prohibited was something that is very important to me:
    Significant changes in the English language over the last 400 years are rendering the KJV less and less relevant to our spoken language.
    Although most people can understand it, the meaning of many words and verses is completely unclear without a historical understanding of the English language.
    This is a serious problem. We are in danger of insulating the common people from the Word of God, just as the Catholic Church did (most famously before the Reformation, but through the 1960s).
    So, to reiterate:
    • I do believe the KJV is the Word of God (although I did state otherwise in attention-getting slide title---the text of my slides makes my ultimate meaning very clear)---although I do not believe it is the only English version of the Bible that can be called the Word of God. (However, I made no attempt, and, indeed, specifically avoided, recommending a different version to our congregation.)
    • We are making a big mistake when we don't acknowledge that, like any translation, the KJV has errors and ambiguities.
    • The KJV is very difficult for modern English speakers to read; a number of word meanings have changed significantly in the past 400 years, some enough to cause erroneous interpretation.
    • The KJV absolutely should not be elevated (in rhetoric or otherwise) to the level of the original languages in which Scripture was written. There is a reason God chose Hebrew, Chaldee, Aramaic, and Greek, over another language like English. (This is especially clear when comparing the compexity and nuance of the Greek to English.)
    What I wish I had done differently:
    • Not used hyperbole (or perhaps even irony, as defined literarily) with an Independent Baptist Church audience. Despite the fact that this is an oft-used literary device (ask my Sunday school students), even by our own pastor, the people were not familiar enough with my teaching style to stop to listen beyond the radical statement.
    • Asked questions instead of making statements about semantics---I still have no idea (for several reasons) what specifically those most offended disagreed with. Had I introduced the topics with questions about specifically what people meant by certain phrases, they probably would have been lest hostile. (Several people disagree with me on this, believing I was doomed no matter how gentle my presentation.)
    • Not tried to put quite so much material into the presentation.
    • Spent more time on the conclusion, which was a little weak. (I also goofed on illustrating one point, but in retrospect that seems less significant.)
    You'll want to read all the comments on this one. (Edited significantly on Tuesday, February 27, 2007.) Onward ...]]>
    470 2007-02-27 14:51:41 2007-02-27 19:51:41 open open how-to-ruin-your-life-by-misunderstanding-the-will-of-god publish 0 0 post 0 6357 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-02-07 10:42:26 2007-02-07 15:42:26 The Master's Seminary on January 8--13, 2007. Dr. John D. Hannah is Distinguished Professor of Historical Theology, and Research Professor of Theological Studies at Dallas Theological Seminary.]]> 1 0 2 6356 wilcoxusa@andersonrepublic.com http://www.johnandleah.com 67.141.233.2 2007-02-07 08:52:10 2007-02-07 13:52:10 1 0 0 6340 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-02-06 12:29:21 2007-02-06 17:29:21 1 0 0 6382 paul_g_anderson@hotmail.com 24.62.57.230 2007-02-09 16:22:22 2007-02-09 21:22:22 1 0 0 6367 wilcoxusa@andersonrepublic.com http://www.johnandleah.com 67.141.233.2 2007-02-08 09:19:27 2007-02-08 14:19:27 1 0 0 6368 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-02-08 12:06:45 2007-02-08 17:06:45 many Biblical topics---hurt my presentation. I tried to put way too much in. (I've posted the slides; see the main post body for a link.) I was also criticized by a couple of people for being too intellectual, "over the heads," of the audience, which completely puzzles me. If I had it to do over again, I'd have removed the inflammatory language (a literary device which clearly backfired), and just done one or two slides on the importance of understanding what a translation means, point out a couple of errors in the KJV translation to prove I'm not insane, and make my pitch for recognition that we're getting too far away from 1765 English. (We don't actually use the 1611 KJV, a point many preachers seem to miss.) The KJV-only rhetoric, which includes, "The KJV is the perfect Word of God," also tends to include, "I have never had trouble understanding it," which simply alienates those who do actually find it difficult by causing them to feel inferior or unintelligent. And, for the record, I primarily use the KJV. I constanlty refer to the Greek and Hebrew in e-Sword, a wonderful free Bible package. I like the ESV as well, because it seems to be very accurate, the language is beautiful while being modern, and it uses a word-for-word translation style (as opposed to the "dynamic equivalency" or thought-by-thought translation the NIV uses; this alone is enough to counterrecommend the NIV). The ESV is not perfect, either, of course, but when I'm blogging to a wider audience and don't want to spend three paragraphs defining archaic words, it can be quite suitable. Despite the fact that I'm feeling really rotten about my mistakes in presentation, I am comforted somewhat by understanding that this was part of God's sovereign will for my life, and will try to pay close attention to what He wants me to learn. I do hope I get a chance to talk with those who disagreed with me.]]> 1 0 2 6372 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.58 2007-02-08 17:02:01 2007-02-08 22:02:01 http://www.e-sword.net. Download the basic program first, then go back to "Downloads" at the top of the page, and the drop-down menu will show all the other great stuff you can download into it. Even the components you have to pay for aren't too expensive. I downloaded Vine's Expository Dictionary for $14.95, and the NKJV and NASB Bible versions for $19.99 each, I think.]]> 1 0 0 6373 bethcostine@hotmail.com 75.69.98.187 2007-02-08 18:44:08 2007-02-08 23:44:08 1 0 0 6384 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2007-02-10 10:49:18 2007-02-10 15:49:18 translation of the Word of God, but he insisted today that he would not have used such language.) Based on the reaction of the congregation on Wednesday, it appears that, whether intentional or not, they have come to believe that the KJV is inerrant, which can be disproved using nothing more than the KJV itself (simply compare Acts 9:7 and Acts 22:9), although a Strong's Concordance certainly makes such a task easier.]]> 1 0 2 6389 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2007-02-10 17:47:18 2007-02-10 22:47:18 1 0 2 6419 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-02-12 10:07:01 2007-02-12 15:07:01 written in explanation was being misquoted while the reader had a copy of my letter in front of him. Others believe I intentionally sought to harm our church, and that I was supremely arrogant. The first accusation is completely untrue; but I cannot deny an element of pride blinded me to the foolishness of my approach. I am very discouraged. I do not believe I will write more today.]]> 1 0 2 6427 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-02-12 16:53:46 2007-02-12 21:53:46 Textus Receptus site that points out some of the translation errors in the KJV: http://www.biblestudy.org/basicart/kjverror.html Again, I would claim these primarily are no big deal, and the KJV can certainly be described as accurate, but it isn't perfect. (Also, studying these sheds quite a bit of light on certain passages.) And, if you're interested in Textual Criticism---which does not mean what you think it means---this summary is excellent: http://www.americanthinker.com/2007/02/new_testament_manuscripts_the.html ]]> 1 0 2 6715 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2007-02-20 22:40:55 2007-02-21 03:40:55 Must you be so contentious?!!!]]> 1 0 2 6710 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.128.150 2007-02-20 21:49:48 2007-02-21 02:49:48 1 0 0 6618 edivietro@comcast.net 24.62.202.2 2007-02-18 21:01:39 2007-02-19 02:01:39 1 0 0 6764 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-02-21 11:40:42 2007-02-21 16:40:42 nothing I said contradicted them in any way (as I expected, although I was working from memory). I was also give a "Fundamental Baptist Statement" (which is ironic, because it ignores the history of the Fundamental movement, which actually started with the Presbyterian church in America). However, that statement includes "We believe in the King James version of the scripture for all public services and are not in sympathy with the latter versions of the scriptures." Again, I said nothing to contradict this, either, merely to point out that the KJV was not inerrant, as a translation. I made no recommendation of another version, as that would have been overstepping my bounds. And, if you're interested in history, these are the five fundamentals of the faith, as defined by the Fundamental movement of the early 1900s:
    • The inspiration of the Bible by the Holy Spirit and the inerrancy of Scripture (in its original languages) as a result of this.
    • The virgin birth of Christ.
    • The belief that Christ's death was an atonement for sin.
    • The bodily resurrection of Christ.
    • The historical reality of Christ's miracles.
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    6838 caceto9182@aol.com 24.128.160.103 2007-02-22 08:17:51 2007-02-22 13:17:51 I just want you and Nichelle to know that I don't believe that your intentions were anything but good. I don't find you arrogant in any way shape or form, intelligent, yes; arrogant no. I'm also very hurt that you had to step down as deacon, I personally feel that you should have been given a chance to explain yourself. I'm so sorry that things turned out the way they did. Hope to talk to you soon...Cheryl A ]]> 1 0 0 7223 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.164.7 2007-02-27 17:08:09 2007-02-27 22:08:09 1 0 0 7404 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.128.150 2007-02-28 10:32:26 2007-02-28 15:32:26 1 0 0
    The "Which Bible?" Tract---Facets of "KJV-Onlyism" Examined http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=472 Wed, 23 May 2007 21:23:27 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=472

    A number of churches embrace a King-James-Version-only approach to the English Bible, many espousing a large number of associated doctrines that are unsupportable, irrational, and extrabiblical (maybe even crossing the border into heresy). I do much of my Bible study and reading using the King James Bible. I have really only one major problem with the King James Bible itself: Its language has become so archaic that it is increasingly impossible for modern American English speakers to understand it. Reading the Bible should not require an 1865 dictionary, a Strong's Exhaustive Concordance, and a Hebrew-Greek Interlinear. But I do have big problems with any doctrine that teaches the inerrancy of the KJV. I have big problems with those who would actually deny any honestly-translated English versions of the Bible are the Word of God---or worse, claim such translations are the work of Satan. I have big problems with those pastors and church leaders who would make a congregant feel guilty if he or she merely reads a different version of the Bible. I have big problems with people who claim that those who have trouble understanding the KJV are "just lazy." (Of course, some would go even beyond this, claiming that the translation into the KJV was separately inspired by God, or that other language translations of the Bible should be translated from the KJV. These are far less supportable.) Translations are always imperfect. Learn a second language, and you'll understand this intuitively. Knowing Spanish, I love to find the differences and changes in meaning or nuance by comparing the recorded dialog to the subtitles in movies, or the original speaker to the voiceover in a newscast. (For instance, there's a debatable translation of a curseword in one subtitled scene from The Mask of Zorro.) To quote the famous Fundamentalist evangelist John R. Rice:
    "A perfect translation of the Bible is humanly impossible. The words in one language do not have exactly the same color and meaning as opposite words in another language, and human frailty and imperfection enter in. So, let us say, there are no perfect translations." (John R. Rice, Our God-Breathed Book---The Bible, p. 376)
    One of the tracts I've seen is entitled, "Which Bible?" written by David Hoffman, pastor of Bible Baptist Church in Rensselaer, Indiana. It is one of the most flagrant examples of ignorance of history, poor research, and flawed conclusions that I've ever seen. And make no mistake, one can argue successfully for the acceptance of the KJV---albeit absolutely not for its exclusivity nor inerrancy. This particular pamphlet, however, makes no attempt to embrace scholarship nor rationality, a flaw which seems to typify the KJV-only movement. (Hereafter, quotations from "Which Bible?" will be marked with WB? in parentheses, and have a light blue background color.) I chose to analyze this particular tract because it is readily available, free from US copyright restrictions, and because it includes many of the most often produced arguments against versions of the English Bible other than the KJV. The following analysis, however, will not cover every possible argument for unibiblism. (Readers may wish to suggest further specific subtopics or arguments for later discussion.)


    The "Which Bible?" tract uses logic just as flawless as this "scientific" explanation of Superman's strength. (From http://superman.ws/tales2/action1/?page=1)

    It should also be noted that the purpose of this analysis is not to defame the King James Bible. The KJV does have its flaws, some of which will be pointed out, but so do other translations of the Bible. The discussion about which Bible translation is best is akin to discussing what kind of computer is best: The first question to be answered is for what the computer is going to be used. A Bible translation for public reading may, indeed, be chosen with different criteria than a Bible for personal devotions or one for deeper doctrinal study. Global Themes The tract exposes its ignorance in one way (although this is a slightly superficial observation) by constantly referring to the 1611 Authorized Version, while not once using it. The author is apparently blind to the fact that revisions involving spelling, word number, and even rewording phrases were made to the KJV in 1613, 1629, 1638, 1644, 1664, 1701, 1744, 1762, 1769, and 1850. (And does the author refer to the Cambridge text or the Oxford text?---They are not identical.) One of the two major themes throughout the tract is to associate all "modern" versions of the Bible with the New International Version (NIV), making them all bad by comparison. Now, there are similarities between the NIV and other modern versions of the Word of God, but they are hardly all equivalent. One of the biggest complaints many have about the NIV surrounds its translation philosophy: The translators used a process called "dynamic equivalency," which translates passages using a thought-by-thought methodology. This is, of course, going to be less literal than a word-for-word translation (and has the potential to be less accurate), just as I my recounting a conversation in ideas presented would be less accurate than repeating one nearly word-for-word, as many people can. (Some knowledge of translation processes is required here: No translation is literally "word for word.") However, the dynamic equivalency used in the NIV is hardly at the extreme of paraphrase (and paraphrases have their place). There are other criticisms of the NIV, such as the changing of gender-based nouns and pronouns, but it's hardly a terrible translation. Ultimately, the major fallacy throughout the tract follows this logic:
    • The NIV is a modern translation.
    • The NIV is flawed.
    • Therefore, all modern translations are flawed.
    One might conclude just as readily:
    • Neil Armstrong is a person.
    • Neil Armstrong landed on the moon.
    • Therefore, all persons have landed on the moon.
    Even then, most of the flaws therein attributed to the NIV translation of the Word of God do not hold up well under real investigation, and it would be wrong to discredit the NIV, although personally I would recommend the ESV. Different Bible translations are useful for different situations. The other major theme is that all variance from the King James Version is evil (even, as the author repeatedly argues, Satanic in origin). This is evidenced by the constant comparison of all other versions to the KJV, rather than to any accepted extant manuscripts. (This view might also be interpreted as viewing the KJV as inerrant. Although such a view is not explicitly stated in the tract, it does seem to be implied.) One should always compare the accuracy of a translation to its source documents. One must wonder why the author does not cite a single Greek, Hebrew, or Aramaic manuscript in attacking virtually all English versions of the Bible. The "Which Bible?" Tract in Detail (Quotations from the tract itself appear with a blue background in this post.) The tract's cover shows a cartoon of a man scratching his head, a look of puzzlement on his face. It then reads:

    1611 Authorized King James Version
     
    versus
     
    The Revised Version
    New King James Version
    New International Version
    The Living Bible
    The Book
    American Standard Version
    New Revised Standard Version
    New World Translation
    Moffatt Translation
    New English Version
    Goodspeed Version
    Amplified Version
    Phillips Version
    Good News Bible
    Berkeley Version
    Basic English Bible
    New Jerusalem Bible
    New Century Version
    Douay-Rheims Version
    Contemporary English Version
    New Revised International Version (WB?)

    One would get the idea that all the versions of God's Word listed are similar. They are not. Some of the versions listed, such as the Living Bible or the Phillips Version, are complete paraphrases---designed to be easy to read, but not even true translations. (And, in fact, they do not claim to be translations.) Some versions are similar to one another, such as the American Standard and Revised Version, but lumping all of these disparate versions together is painfully prejudicial---much like criticizing an army tank for not having the gas mileage of a Honda Accord, because both are gasoline-powered vehicles. (A little history: My first Bible was a Living Bible; each child at The Evangelical Congregational Church of Easton was given one when entering second grade. I read through it many times, before switching primarily to the KJV when I got older. Although I am now leaning more toward the ESV, I do not accept the use of a single Bible version at the exclusion of all others.) The tract continues:
    The Bible is the world's best seller, but it is also the world's least read. The Bible is the most loved Book known to man, but it is also the most hated. Men have died in its defense; men have died as its enemy. If the Bible is just a book like any other book, why such a fuss about its words? (WB?)
    The Bible is the world's least read book? I rather doubt that. Still, perhaps we can allow a little hyperbole to make a point.
    The Bible is the most quoted Book in the world, but it is also the most abused and misquoted. How can so many denominations or beliefs supposedly come from one Book? Easy! Men use the Bible to teach man-made beliefs by the following methods:

    Subtract a word or words
    Change a word or words
    Add a word or words
    Remove words from the context (WB?)
    I love the bit about, "Men use the Bible to teach man-made beliefs." Indeed they do---such as the KJV-only advocates who claim to have Biblical support for such a position. Furthermore, this tract itself quotes nearly nothing within context, and seriously removes from context several of its key verses. All these issues will be examined in detail below. We might also address adding, subtracting, and changing words. As mentioned earlier, the author claims the 1611 KJV to be God's Word, taking a clear stance that not a single word may be changed, yet he quotes from the 1769 edition of the King James Bible, which differs from the 1611 in over 75,000 places. These changes are mostly grammar and spelling, but there are wording and phrasing changes (see http://www.bible-researcher.com/canon10.html for a list), and there are introduced errors, such as the use of "strain at a gnat" rather than "strain out a gnat" in Matthew 23:24, which occurs nearly universally in King James Bibles printed after 1611.
    Any one of these methods will S-C-A-R and/or ruin your life. There is one more ultimate method that is able to completely destroy your spiritual life. The fifth method is to rewrite the Bible; write a counterfeit bible to replace God's Word. This tract will show the difference between the true and the false. "And they shall teach my people the difference between the holy and profane, and cause them to discern between the unclean and the clean." (Ezek. 44:23) (WB?)
    Here is a typical example of verses being used out of context. One should note the reference to Ezekiel 44:23 is to the priests of Israel who were the sons of Zadok, who had remained faithful to the Lord when the rest of the people of Israel forsook Him. It is those faithful priests who would teach the nation of Israel, restoring to them the ceremonial and moral law of which the people had grown ignorant. One should be very hesitant about applying this specific prophecy in such a general sense; although it might work as a literary allusion, that does not seem to be the author's intent.
    "Discretion shall preserve thee, understanding shall keep thee:" says Proverbs 2:11. If you are saved, discretion will preserve your life's work and ministry (1 Tim. 4:15--16). If you are not saved, learning the difference between truth and error could save your soul. (WB?)
    It is difficult to take a quotation from Proverbs out of context---most verses stand alone---so I won't quibble the application of Proverbs 2:11 here. However, the author's use of 1 Tim. 4:15--16 is worthy of note, as he clearly chooses to ignore Paul's instruction to Timothy:
    15Practice these things, devote yourself to them, so that all may see your progress. 16Keep a close watch on yourself and on the teaching. Persist in this, for by so doing you will save both yourself and your hearers. (1 Tim. 4:15--16, ESV)
    In these verses from the Apostle Paul's letter to Timothy, Paul is writing concerning the doctrines he taught, primarily concerning salvation; he makes no reference (indeed, he could make no reference) to KJV-onlyism, which is interesting opinion, but absolutely not authoritative doctrine. The author is hardly keeping a close watch on his own doctrine; if he were, he would realize the foolishness of a KJV-only position, which cannot claim a single verse of Scripture to support it. He would also realize, given a historical study of doctrine, that it has no support from the King James translators themselves, and no support historically before 1930, when Seventh-Day Adventist Benjamin G. Wilkinson published his book Our Authorized Bible Vindicated. (Wilkinson also appears to be the first person to misapply Psalm 12:6--7 as though it were a promise of the preservation of the Word of God.) He would further realize that the great preachers and teachers of the Fundamentalist movement used multiple versions of the Bible, and that none of them were KJV-only advocates. The ability to completely ignore history, however, seems to be a hallmark of the KJV-only position.
    You can't judge a book by its cover, right? Right! Just because "HOLY BIBLE" is placed on the cover of a book, that doesn't make it a Bible. If a Ford emblem is placed on a Chevrolet, does that make the Chevy a Ford? If "dog" is written on a pig, will the pig begin to bark? (WB?)
    One could, if particularly picky, note that the metaphors here are hardly parallel.
    There is one absolute standard by which all bibles are compared. The fact is that all bibles are compared to the 1611 Authorized King James Version. So, it is ONE against the rest. Which one is right? (WB?)
    The standard against which Bibles should be compared is the original texts which were written. Unfortunately, we do not actually possess these autographs. We do, however, have reasonably reliable copies of those autographs which have been preserved---albeit not perfectly---throughout history. One should note, for example, that, of the over 5,600 manuscripts or manuscript portions that have been preserved, no two have been found to be identical. Typical samples differ 6 to 10 times per chapter. Does this mean God has not preserved His Word? No. It does mean that we must apply careful analysis and study to determine which manuscripts have the best readings of God's Word. This practice, known as textual criticism, is hardly new. Textual criticism was used by the translators and compilers of the various versions of the Masoretic Hebrew text and the Textus Receptus---and even by the King James translators themselves. Further, comparing one version of the Bible with another translation is useful from a comprehension standpoint (and was recommended by the King James translators), but is not the way to determine the accuracy of a particular translation, as every translation will be erroneous in places.
    The two main defenses FOR the new translations (NKJV, NASV, NIV) are:
    • Changes are minor
    • Updated for easier reading


    The differences are only minor; these bibles are still 95--99% pure". Yes, but rat poison is 99.99% nutritious. Rat poison kills rats; fake bibles kill Christians. Would you eat bread that is 98% pure and 2% moldy? Would you drink a pure glass of water with one drop of arsenic? "A little leaven leaventh [sic] the whole lump." (Gal. 5:9) (WB?)
    Perhaps the author does not realize that the 1611 KJV differs from the version he has quoted (apparently the 1769 Oxford revision) in 75,000 places. Since these changes were made in part to correct printing and other errors, what might we conclude about the purity of the 1611 KJV. Some errors still persist. Should the 1769 KJV be abandoned as well, because it is impure? Perhaps it would be better to comprehend the true nature of translations. I am fascinated by the quotation of Galatians 5:9 here. The context of that particular verse is the false doctrine prevalent in the church at Galatia, which Paul was correcting. The irony is, of course, that the author is propagating his own false doctrine while quoting a verse which is meant to illustrate the danger of such false doctrine. Regarding the defenses for the new translations, the author is missing two vital points:
    • Correction of translation errors
    • Updating of archaic language
    I'm going to quote the King James translators again. The self-described purpose of the King James Bible was to provide an accurate translation in the language of the common people (of course, there were political motivations for the translation as well, but we will take the translators' own words as factual, even if we know them to be incomplete):
    "But we desire that the Scripture may speak like itself, as in the language of Canaan, that it may be understood even of the very vulgar." ("Translators to the Reader")
    I will argue, and it should be self-evident, that the language of 1769 (much less of 1611) can no longer be considered the language of the modern English speaker. This troubles me, especially because throughout history so many people have devoted or given their very lives to the translation of the Scriptures into the language of the common man. A modern reader might be puzzled about the use of such words as trow (meaning think), conversation (meaning lifestyle), firmament (meaning sky), several (meaning individual or single), betimes (meaning early), mean (meaning poor), fetched a compass (meaning circled around), quick (meaning alive), chasten (meaning discipline), or lively oracles (meaning living messages). As early as 1758, Bible scholars such as Lowth, Pilkington, Purver, Durrell, and Symonds called for a new Bible translation due to the dramatic changes that had taken place in the English language (Thomas Armitage, 1850). But the most egregious error by far in this section is the implication that variance from the KJV should be regarded as impurity. This may be based on the author's premise that the KJV, rather than the extant ancient manuscripts, should be the source by which all Bibles are evaluated. (If the former were the case, the Textus Receptus, all Hebrew Scripture ever written, and the Septuagint (LXX) would all fail, as they differ from the KJV, and that would mean that neither Moses, nor Jesus, nor the apostles---indeed no human before the year 1611---actually possessed the Word of God in written form, at least as defined by Mr. Hoffman.) I have met KJV-only adherents who believe that other English Bibles, such as the Geneva, are indeed the Word of God. They seem to be unable to realize that the same argument against "purity" which defames "modern Bibles" can be used to deny the veracity of every other English Bible (or, indeed, any Bible in any language). In the same manner, if one accepts the Geneva Bible as pure, the KJV would fail this "purity" test, and would need to be discarded. Another libelous implication is that all the non-KJV Bibles listed are "fake." Although there are seriously misleading translations available---most notably the New World Translation, which was specifically distorted by the Watchtower Society (Jehovah's Witnesses) to remove evidence of the deity of Christ and to support other official Watchtower doctrine---no such intentional mistranslation can be attributed to any of the other Bibles the author attacks. We might digress for a moment to note examples of the KJV's own impurity. Words which absolutely should not be in the King James Bible include Easter, Lucifer, unicorn, and bishop---they are not reflective of a single Hebrew or Greek manuscript. Another theory (there is some room for debate on this depending on how one views ancient languages) says that the word baptism was transliterated, rather than being translated to its real meaning of immersion. Essentially, it is argued, in order to avoid offending a non-immersive baptism, the King James translators (like the translators of most other English versions before them), transliterated the Greek to coin a new ecclesiastical term. (Other possibilities for this word include the idea that the Greek word was never properly understood, and so was left alone, or that, given Latin and French influences, the transliteration was reasonable. However, these do not alter the contextual meaning of the word in Scripture: immerse.)
    Are Gen. 6:4 and Num. 13:33 in the NIV easier to understand than the 100% pure AV 1611? What is a Nephilim? Try Gen 12:9. Which direction is Negev? Is "dung" updated in Malachi 2:3 or Phil. 3:8? I trow not! (WB?)
    This gets a bit complicated, because the author is attacking some relatively obscure translations from Hebrew:
    Gen 6:4, KJV: There were giants in the earth in those days; and also after that, when the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.

    Gen. 6:4, NIV: The Nephilim were on the earth in those days---and also afterward---when the sons of God went to the daughters of men and had children by them. They were the heroes of old, men of renown.
    Num 13:33, KJV: And there we saw the giants, the sons of Anak, which come of the giants: and we were in our own sight as grasshoppers, and so we were in their sight.

    Num. 13:33, NIV: We saw the Nephilim there (the descendants of Anak come from the Nephilim). We seemed like grasshoppers in our own eyes, and we looked the same to them."
    I would suggest reading the following Wikipedia article: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nephilim. The fact is, we don't really know who the Nephilim were. Translating the word as giants as the KJV does seems to be a bit skewed toward inserting the favored interpretation of the translators into the translation. I will not pin myself down to one interpretation, as there are a number of very reasonable possibilities. However, transliterating the Hebrew word Nephilim is a completely appropriate translation possibility in this case, as it definitely seems to name some sort of people group. The author here is criticizing the use of Nephilim in the NIV, without considering that giants seems to be an even poorer choice for translating the word from Hebrew.
    Gen 12:9, KJV: And Abram journeyed, going on still toward the south.

    Gen. 12:9, NIV: Then Abram set out and continued toward the Negev.
    Here the author again criticizes what is a valid translation: using Negev as a place name, rather than a direction. Strong's Hebrew dictionary defines the Hebrew word used in the following manner:
    נגב

    negeb

    neh'-gheb

    From an unused root meaning to be parched; the south (from its drought); specifically the negeb or southern district of Judah, occasionally, Egypt (as south to Palestine): - south (country, side, -ward).
    The premise in both these cases, as well as the reference to dung, is that if a few verses are not "easier to understand" in a particular translation, that translation has completely failed to be easier to understand. The fact is, no single accurate translation is "easiest to understand." Some translations do a better job of translating a particular verse or passage than others. The King James translators themselves clearly indicated that using multiple translations, and even multiple readings on particular passages, of the Bible was profitable:
    Therefore as S. Augustine saith, that variety of translations is profitable for the finding out of the sense of the Scriptures: So diversity of signification and sense in the margin, where the text is not so clear, must needs do good; yea, is necessary, as we are persuaded." ("The Translator to the Reader: Preface to the King James Version," by the translators of the King James Bible)
    Convincing ... at First Glance The tract then goes into what appears initially to be a valid argument against modern versions of the Bible. However, when examined properly, few if any of these arguments stand up, and many could be used against the King James Bible itself when being compared to the Textus Receptus (Beza's version), from which the KJV New Testament differs in 233 separate places (Beacham & Bauder).
    The following seven categories could be a checklist for the serious Bible student. Compare any new bible ("... there is no new thing under the sun", Ecc. 1:9) with the King of books, the Authorized King James Bible. "Where the word of a king is, there is power." (Ecc. 8:4) (WB?)
    Notice the deification of the King James Bible here. (I won't bother to go into the noncontextual uses of the above verses; that should be obvious to all but the most casual observer, as should the declaration of the KJV as "the King of books" followed by supporting it with Ecclesiastes 8:4. One should always derive doctrine from what the Bible actually teaches, not first develop the doctrine and then attempt to find Scripture which appears to support it.) The next section is truly the most effective, though---these were the kind of arguments that, at first glance, would appear to clearly demonstrate the superiority of the King James Bible. These were the arguments that, while knowing absolutely no history of it, allowed me to think the KJV was superior to all other versions. (The author of "Which Bible?" takes this even further---insisting that only the KJV is actually a Bible.) After all, he questions, it would be wrong to remove or add things to the Word of God, wouldn't it? This is essentially what Revelation 22:18--19 teaches (although the verses clearly refer only to the book of Revelation, it is not unreasonable to apply them in principle to the rest of the Bible).
    18I warn everyone who hears the words of the prophecy of this book: if anyone adds to them, God will add to him the plagues described in this book, 19and if anyone takes away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God will take away his share in the tree of life and in the holy city, which are described in this book. (Rev. 22:18--19, ESV)
    Let's look at the list itself:
    CONTRADICTIONS
    • Who killed Goliath---David, Elhanan, or both??? (1 Sam. 17:51 vs. 2 Sam. 21:19)
    ERRORS
    • Is Mark 1:2 found in Isaiah?---Oops, it's in Malachi.
    CASTS DOUBT---Genesis 3:1
    • Mark 16:9--20
    • John 7:53--8:11
    MAJOR DOCTRINAL CHANGES
    • Psalm 12:6--7
    • Matthew 5:22
    • Luke 23:42
    • Acts 1:3
    • Acts 4:27, 30
    • Romans 1:18, 25
    • 2 Corinthians 2:17
    • Ephesians 5:1
    • Colossians 1:14
    • 1 Timothy 3:16
    • 1 Timothy 6:5, 10, 20
    • 2 Timothy 2:15
    • 2 Timothy 3:16
    • Revelation 22:14
    PROMOTES HERESY
    • Matthew 1:25 removed "firstborn" (perpetual virginity of Mary)
    • John 1:18 changed "Son" to "God" (NASV---created god)
    • James 5:16 changed "faults" to "sins"---(confessional)
    PARTIAL OMISSIONS
    • Matthew 6:13
    • Luke 4:4, 8
    • Romans 8:1
    • 1 John 5:7
    COMPLETE OMISSIONS
    • The NIV removed . . Matthew 17:21; 18:11; 23:14; Mark 7:16; 9:44, 46; 11:26; 15:28; Luke 17:36; 23:17; John 5:4; Acts 8:37; 15:34; 24:7; 28:29; & Romans 16:24 ... Just like the New World Translation!
    (WB?)
    Now we'll examine each of these objections in detail:
    CONTRADICTIONS
    • Who killed Goliath---David, Elhanan, or both??? (1 Sam. 17:51 vs. 2 Sam. 21:19) (WB?)
    We don't even need to refer anywhere other than the KJV to refute this contradiction:
    Therefore David ran, and stood upon the Philistine, and took his sword, and drew it out of the sheath thereof, and slew him, and cut off his head therewith. And when the Philistines saw their champion was dead, they fled. (1 Sam. 17:51, KJV)
    And there was again a battle in Gob with the Philistines, where Elhanan the son of Jaareoregim, a Bethlehemite, slew the brother of Goliath the Gittite, the staff of whose spear was like a weaver's beam. (2 Sam. 21:19, KJV)
    Notice the words the brother of are italicized in 2 Samuel 21:19. That means that they were not found in the original manuscripts, but that the translators added them to provide clarity. In other words, that phrase was only added at the whim of the translators, and is an interpretation rather than a translation. It is completely acceptable to remove the words, as they do not appear in the manuscripts we have that contain the book of 2 Samuel. Examining these two verses in context makes the meaning clear: These are two giants with the same name, not the same person. It is clear from the context of the surrounding verses that the Goliath mentioned in 2 Samuel 21:19 is an entirely different person, as it is an entirely different narrative taking place at an entirely different time in an entirely different location. However, the books of Samuel have parallel accounts in the books of Chronicles, and making those accounts agree seems to be the reason the phrase the brother of was inserted into 1 Samuel:
    And there was war again with the Philistines; and Elhanan the son of Jair slew Lahmi the brother of Goliath the Gittite, whose spear staff was like a weaver's beam. (1 Chron. 20:5, KJV)
    So, if 1 Samuel and 2 Samuel are contradictory, it is because they are contradictory in the Hebrew manuscripts, and a strict translation of those manuscripts should, indeed, omit the brother of from 2 Samuel 21:19. The KJV translators added the phrase to 2 Samuel 21:19; it was not part of the Bible. This does not trouble those who understand the process of Biblical translation and the history of the manuscripts, but it must be very troubling to those KJV-only advocates who rely on an elevation of the KJV which intentionally ignores thousands of years of history.
    ERRORS
    • Is Mark 1:2 found in Isaiah?---Oops, it's in Malachi. (WB?)
    Jesus combines two Old Testament references here, as would be clear from studying the verses in context:
    2As it is written in the prophets, Behold, I send my messenger before thy face, which shall prepare thy way before thee. 3 The voice of one crying in the wilderness, Prepare ye the way of the Lord, make his paths straight. (Mark 1:2--3, KJV)
    Verse 3 is, indeed, a quotation from Isaiah 40:3, but verse 2 is a quotation from Malachi 3:1. I would agree that prophets is a better word to use, but Isaiah is not beyond acceptance, and a number of translations use the word Isaiah, depending on the Greek source texts that were used. Perhaps Isaiah and the prophets would be even more correct, and would fit with historical idiom regarding how the Jews referred to the Old Testament canon. Such cases are valid alternate readings. The King James translators included hundreds of footnotes in their Bible, indicating where there was a difference of opinion about the best source to use or ultimate translation (although they were forbidden to include notes on particular doctrine or significantly controversial subjects, as the Geneva and other English Bibles had). It is a pity that we do not still typically see their notes in KJV Bibles.
    Count them!!! The NIV removed 16 entire verses! In this category the NIV matches the translation of the "Jehovah's" Witnesses.

    Would you be upset if you bought a road map that removed a few roads or cities from the map? Would you be upset if a few roads were slightly changed or altered? "Man shall not live by bread alone, but by EVERY WORD that proceedeth out of the mouth of God. heaven and earth shall pass away, but my WORDS shall not pass away." (Matthew 4:4; 24:35) (WB?)
    Again we encounter the fallacy that all change is somehow misguided or evil. A better parallel rhetorical question to ask would be, "Would you be upset if a map maker revised a map to more accurately reflect the streets in your town, changed the street names for those streets that had been renamed since the first map, or made the lines on the map more legible?" Before condemning differences in Bible translations, one ought to have a basic understanding of their origins. For example, no two New Testament manuscripts, of the approximately 5,650 we have in existence (5,200 of which have been carefully analyzed), are identical. Some of these differences are minor, such as spelling, but many differ in words used or even in phrases or passages inserted or removed. (Later in this discussion we will examine in more detail a significant controversy over one phrase in 1 John 5, to better understand how textual differences and opinions thereof can influence English Bible versions.) There are, indeed, valid reasons to include or exclude particular phrases and verses. This is the very necessary practice of textual criticism, and was a very real part of how the King James Bible was created.
    MAJOR DOCTRINAL CHANGES
    • Psalm 12:6--7
    This is a case of a clear error in the KJV becoming the source of false doctrine. The interpretation of Psalm 12:6--7 to mean that God would (supernaturally) preserve His Word "to all generations" was, as mentioned earlier, apparently first propagated by Seventh-Day Adventist Benjamin G. Wilkinson around 1930. We're actually going to need the view the entire Psalm to illustrate the problem:
    1[To the chief Musician upon Sheminith, A Psalm of David.] Help, LORD; for the godly man ceaseth; for the faithful fail from among the children of men. 2They speak vanity every one with his neighbour: with flattering lips and with a double heart do they speak. 3The LORD shall cut off all flattering lips, and the tongue that speaketh proud things: 4Who have said, With our tongue will we prevail; our lips are our own: who is lord over us? 5For the oppression of the poor, for the sighing of the needy, now will I arise, saith the LORD; I will set him in safety from him that puffeth at him. 6The words of the LORD are pure words: as silver tried in a furnace of earth, purified seven times. 7Thou shalt keep them, O LORD, thou shalt preserve them from this generation for ever. 8The wicked walk on every side, when the vilest men are exalted.
    The key problem occurs in verse 7, where the pronoun them is used twice. The Hebrew pronouns do not agree in number or in gender with the Hebrew describing the "words of the LORD" in verse 6. The pronouns have to point back to earlier verses, either the "godly man" described in verse 1, or the "poor" and "needy" described in verse 5. The Psalm obviously jumps around in subject: Note that "They speak vanity ... with flattering lips and with a double heart" in verse 2 can hardly be describing the "godly man" in verse 1, as we might expect in English. (Ah, poetry!) The ESV and other versions more accurately translate them as us, although true accuracy in English in this case can only be achieved via a footnote:
    6The words of the LORD are pure words, like silver refined in a furnace on the ground, purified seven times. 7You, O LORD, will keep them; you will guard us from this generation forever. (Psalm 12:6--7, ESV)
    • Matthew 5:22
    22But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire. (Matthew 5:22, KJV)
    22But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother[a] will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to his brother, 'Raca,[b]' is answerable to the Sanhedrin. But anyone who says, 'You fool!' will be in danger of the fire of hell. ([a] Some manuscripts brother without cause [b] An Aramaic term of contempt) (Matthew 5:22, NIV)
    To be honest, I cannot see a "major doctrinal change" here. There are only two differences, and neither is particularly worthy of note. The first is the elimination of the phrase "without a cause," although the NIV includes that alternate reading as a footnote. The second difference is changing the phrase "hell fire" to "hell of fire." As it turns out, "hell of fire" is a much more literal translation of the Greek; the Analytical-Literal Translation elaborates this clause as: "will be in danger of the hell [Gr., gehenna] of the fire [or, the fiery hell]." The notes provided by the NIV editors are most welcome, especially regarding the meaning of raca.
    • Luke 23:42
    42And he said unto Jesus, Lord, remember me when thou comest into thy kingdom. (Luke 23:42, KJV)
    42Then he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom."[a] ([a] Some manuscripts come with your kingly power) (Luke 23:42, NIV)
    Note the lack of the word Lord in the NIV. I believe the author is trying to imply that this rendering of Luke 23:42 specifically denies the Lordship of Christ. This accusation would be valid, if, and only if, the doctrine of the Lordship of Christ were not made abundantly clear throughout the NIV in general. Based on a complete look in English, this difference may have arisen merely due to the differences in translation style, although further study shows its origin to be in the Greek manuscripts and variants used in the translation of the NIV versus the KJV. The Textus Receptus, an edited collection of Greek manuscripts (various versions of which were used to produce the KJV), used very late manuscripts (nothing before the 10th century A.D.) from what is known as the Byzantine text type, which, over time and generations of transcribing, tended to become lengthened with additional words to make reading easier or to refine particular doctrine. (This will be more thoroughly illustrated when we examine 1 John 5:7.) Selecting certain manuscripts over others produces such differences. Claiming that the failure to include this one word results in a major doctrinal change overlooks the full context of a complete Bible translation, and overlooks the historical process which actually gave us our English Bibles.
    • Acts 1:3
    3To whom also he shewed himself alive after his passion by many infallible proofs, being seen of them forty days, and speaking of the things pertaining to the kingdom of God: (Acts 1:3, KJV)
    3After his suffering, he showed himself to these men and gave many convincing proofs that he was alive. He appeared to them over a period of forty days and spoke about the kingdom of God. (Acts 1:3, NIV)
    The only difference I can find here is the use of convincing instead of infallible. In the Greek, the two words translated as infallible proofs or convincing proofs are one word. Both versions here are valid translations, with perhaps the best translation being one that neither the KJV nor the NIV uses: proofs. The word proofs does not require an adjective modifier---a proof is a proof---if it is not valid, it is not a proof.
    • Acts 4:27, 30
    27For truly in this city there were gathered together against your holy servant Jesus, whom you anointed, both Herod and Pontius Pilate, along with the Gentiles and the peoples of Israel, ... 30while you stretch out your hand to heal, and signs and wonders are performed through the name of your holy servant Jesus." (Acts 4:27, 30, KJV)
    27Indeed Herod and Pontius Pilate met together with the Gentiles and the people[a] of Israel in this city to conspire against your holy servant Jesus, whom you anointed. ([a] The Greek is plural.) ... 30Stretch out your hand to heal and perform miraculous signs and wonders through the name of your holy servant Jesus." (Acts 4:27, 30, NIV)
    There is not a single real difference in these renderings, other than the word order in the NIV being much easier to understand.
    • Romans 1:18, 25
    18For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men, who by their unrighteousness suppress the truth. ... 25Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. (Romans 1:18, 25, KJV)
    18The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness, ... 25They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator---who is forever praised. Amen. (Romans 1:18, 25, NIV)
    Again, there is no real difference in meaning here.
    • 2 Corinthians 2:17
    17For we are not as many, which corrupt the word of God: but as of sincerity, but as of God, in the sight of God speak we in Christ. (2 Cor. 2:17, KJV)
    17Unlike so many, we do not peddle the word of God for profit. On the contrary, in Christ we speak before God with sincerity, like men sent from God. (2 Cor. 2:17, NIV)
    Ironically, the NIV here is both clearer and closer to the Greek context, especially the use of peddle the Word of God for profit, rather than corrupt. I'll cite Thayer's Greek Definitions here, which provides a little more detail than Strong's:
    G2585 καπηλεύω kapeleuo Thayer Definition: 1) to be a retailer, to peddle 2) to make money by selling anything 2a) to get sordid gain by dealing in anything, to do a thing for base gain 2b) to trade in the word of God 2b1) to try to get base gain by teaching divine truth 2c) to corrupt, to adulterate 2c1) peddlers were in the habit of adulterating their commodities for the sake of gain Part of Speech: verb A Related Word by Thayer’s/Strong’s Number: from kapelos (a huckster) (Thayer's Greek Definitions)
    • Ephesians 5:1
    1Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children. (Eph. 5:1, KJV)
    1Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children (Eph. 5:1, NIV)
    Most readers will now see a pattern emerging in the classification of "major doctrinal changes."
    • Colossians 1:14
    14in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. (Col. 1:14, KJV)
    14in whom we have redemption,[a] the forgiveness of sins. ([a] A few late manuscripts redemption through his blood) (Col. 1:14, NIV)
    Here at last there is a real difference in the rendering, although the footnote in the NIV indicates an arguably valid alternate reading. Remember that the Textus Receptus, as used by the KJV translators, was not prepared from any manuscripts earlier than the 10th Century. Archaeology has given us far more manuscripts (on the order of 750 to 1,000 times more), many far older (although age is not the only criterion to be considered in textual analysis), that allow us to observe and infer the changes that have occurred in the manuscript copies over the centuries. This is is one such case.
    • 1 Timothy 3:16
    16And without controversy great is the mystery of godliness: God was manifest in the flesh, justified in the Spirit, seen of angels, preached unto the Gentiles, believed on in the world, received up into glory. (1 Tim. 3:16, KJV)
    16Beyond all question, the mystery of godliness is great: He[a] appeared in a body,[b] was vindicated by the Spirit, was seen by angels, was preached among the nations, was believed on in the world, was taken up in glory. ([a] 1 Timothy 3:16 Some manuscripts God; [b] 1 Timothy 3:16 Or in the flesh) (1 Tim. 3:16, NIV)
    The key difference here is the use of the pronoun He, rather than the word God. The oldest Greek New Testament manuscripts were written in all capital letters (they are referred to as the Uncials for this reason), without accents or spaces between words. The words themselves were often abbreviated. According to Barnes in Albert Barnes' Notes on the Bible:
    The small, cursive Greek letters which are now used, were not commonly employed in transcribing the New Testament, if at all, until the ninth or tenth centuries. It was a common thing to abridge or contract words in the manuscript. Thus, πρ would be used for πατερ pater, “father;” κς for κυριος kurios, "Lord;" Θς for Θεος Theos, "God," etc. The words thus contracted were designated by a faint line or dash over them. In this place, therefore, if the original uncials (capitals) were Θ¯C¯, standing for Θεὸς Theos, “God,” and the line in the Θ, and the faint line over it, were obliterated from any cause, it would easily be mistaken for OC - ός hos - "who."
    This particular passage in the Alexandrian manuscripts (which I realize some Textus Receptus advocates reject), has been of such interest, that the extant manuscripts have been examined with microscopes. Barnes further states:
    The "probability" in regard to the correct reading here, as it seems to me, is, that the word, as originally written, was Θεός Theos - "God." At the same time, however, the evidence is not so clear that it can be properly used in an argument. But the passage is not “necessary” to prove the doctrine which is affirmed, on the supposition that that is the correct reading. The same truth is abundantly taught elsewhere; compare Matt. 1:23; John 1:14.
    So, this may indeed be a mistake in the NIV, but it does not represent a major doctrinal change, as the deity of Christ is quite clear throughout Scripture. Furthermore, the pronoun He used is quite clearly linked to the "mystery of godliness," with an implied antecedent of God.
    • 1 Timothy 6:5, 10, 20
    5Perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw thyself. ... 10For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. ... 20O Timothy, keep that which is committed to thy trust, avoiding profane and vain babblings, and oppositions of science falsely so called: (1 Timothy 6:5, 10, 20, KJV)
    5and constant friction between men of corrupt mind, who have been robbed of the truth and who think that godliness is a means to financial gain. ... 10For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. ... 20Timothy, guard what has been entrusted to your care. Turn away from godless chatter and the opposing ideas of what is falsely called knowledge, (1 Timothy 6:5, 10, 20, NIV)
    Here the only difference is the clause, "from such withdraw thyself." Adam Clarke's commentary on the Bible notes how few manuscripts actually support this rendering: "this clause is wanting in AD*FG, some others, the Coptic, Sahidic, Ethiopic, Vulgate, and Itala, one copy excepted. It is probably spurious." Is this a "major doctrinal change"? No, especially interpreted in light of the whole Bible.
    • 2 Timothy 2:15
    15Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. (2 Tim. 2:15, KJV)
    15Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. (2 Tim. 2:15, NIV)
    Thayer's Greek Definitions backs up the validity of correctly handles. Both expressions are metaphors which mean to do something correctly or rightly.
    • 2 Timothy 3:16
    16All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: (2 Tim. 3:16, KJV)
    16All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, (2 Tim. 3:16, NIV)
    In yet another case of irony, the NIV is much clearer and more literal rendering, than the KJV on the meaning of given by inspiration.
    • Revelation 22:14 (WB?)
    14Blessed are they that do his commandments, that they may have right to the tree of life, and may enter in through the gates into the city. (Rev. 22:14, KJV)
    14"Blessed are those who wash their robes, that they may have the right to the tree of life and may go through the gates into the city. (Rev. 22:14, NIV)
    This one is quite interesting. Depending on which Greek manuscripts one selects, the changes in the phrase here are both valid. However, one should note that the manuscripts many would prefer, although not the later Byzantine manuscripts, contain the wash their robes phrasing. In addition, within the context of the book of Revelation, wash their robes seems to be a better fit. In Greek, the two phrases are nearly identical in spelling, so it is very plausible that the later rendering "do his commandments" is the ultimate result of scribal error. The bottom line is that we have reliable Greek manuscripts with both readings.
    PROMOTES HERESY
    • Matthew 1:25 removed "firstborn" (perpetual virginity of Mary)
    • John 1:18 changed "Son" to "God" (NASV---created god)
    • James 5:16 changed "faults" to "sins"---(confessional) (WB?)
    Condemnation without investigation seems to be the hallmark of this tract.
    25And knew her not till she had brought forth her firstborn son: and he called his name JESUS. (Mat. 1:25, KJV)
    25But he had no union with her until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus. (Mat. 1:25, NIV)
    If the NIV were truly attempting to remove the adjective firstborn describing Jesus (and thus support the clearly nonscriptural belief in the perpetual virginity of Mary), why would it include the term in Luke 2:7 and 2:23? Furthermore, why would it include Matthew 12:47, Mark 3:32, and Luke 8:20, which all talk about Jesus' mother and brothers?
    18No man hath seen God at any time; the only begotten Son, which is in the bosom of the Father, he hath declared him. (John 1:18, KJV)
    18No one has ever seen God, but God the One and Only,[a][b]who is at the Father's side, has made him known. ([a] Or the Only Begotten; [b] John 1:18 Some manuscripts but the only (or only begotten) Son) (John 1:18, NIV)
    18No one has seen God at any time; the only begotten God who is in the bosom of the Father, He has explained Him. (John 1:18, NASB)
    This variant is caused by differences in the Greek manuscripts selected, but is hardly erroneous, unless one does not believe in the deity of Christ.
    16Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. (James 5:16, KJV)
    16Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective. (James 5:16, NIV)
    Claiming that this verse (or the NIV) supports the practice of a priestly confessional is completely unsupportable. There is nothing in the verse or its surrounding context which indicates this refers to confession to a priest or other clergyman. Just the opposite---the verse clearly speaks of confessing "to each other." Furthermore, the NIV and other versions are clear in 1 Tim. 2:5 that "there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," a perfect refutation of the practice of confession or other mediatory prayer. According to both Thayer and Strong, either sin or fault could be used here. However, by using the context of James as a whole, and examining the rest of the New Testament, we can determine which selection is actually best. It is clear from the context that there is some benefit to the confession described herein. Confessing faults or mistakes may be beneficial, in promoting self-awareness, but honesty about sin is arguably significantly more beneficial, as it shows such honesty in the worst situations as well as adding accountability between the Christian and his brethren. Confession and accountability that keep believers from sin could also be seen in the light of 1 Cor. 11:29--30, where illness (as a divine punishment) is linked to sin and hypocrisy in abuse of the Lord's Supper, which would seem to tie in well with the message of James. (Note: Scripture does not teach that sickness is necessarily a specific divine punishment.) Of the three examples of the promotion of heresy, not one of them stands up to even minor scrutiny.
    PARTIAL OMISSIONS
    • Matthew 6:13
    • Luke 4:4, 8
    • Romans 8:1
    • 1 John 5:7 (WB?)
    These partial omissions are the result of different Greek manuscripts or different readings being used. Remember, that of the over 5,600 Greek manuscripts we have (not to mention translations in other languages and other writings which quote these verses), no two of them have been found to agree perfectly. Although most KJV-only advocates would insist that the Textus Receptus is the epitome of perfection, most are blissfully ignorant that the Textus Receptus itself exists in several different versions, that it is (just like the Old Testament Masoretic text) the result of the application of textual criticism, that none of the manuscripts used to create it are older than the 10th century A.D., or that it contains a number of readings that are not found in a single extant Greek manuscript. See the For Further Reading section for a number of books which present the history of the English Bible. Below I have provided the verses for comparison, and will discuss in greater detail the phrase in 1 John 5:7, which is known as the Comma Johanneum,.
    13And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen. (Matt. 6:13, KJV)
    13And lead us not into temptation, / but deliver us from the evil one.[a]' ([a] Or from evil; some late manuscripts one, / for yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.) (Matt. 6:13, NIV)
    4And Jesus answered him, saying, It is written, That man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word of God. (Luke 4:4, KJV)
    4Jesus answered, "It is written: 'Man does not live on bread alone.'" (Luke 4:4, NIV)
    1There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. (Rom. 8:1, KJV)
    1Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,[a] ([a] Some later manuscripts Jesus, who do not live according to the sinful nature but according to the Spirit,) (Rom. 8:1, NIV)
    1 John 5:7--8 is one of my favorite textual debates. The KJV reads:
    7For there are three that bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Ghost: and these three are one. 8And there are three that bear witness in earth, the Spirit, and the water, and the blood: and these three agree in one. (1 John 5:7--8, KJV)
    The NIV includes this translation, with excellent notes:
    7For there are three that testify: 8the[a] Spirit, the water and the blood; and the three are in agreement. ([a] Late manuscripts of the Vulgate testify in heaven: the Father, the Word and the Holy Spirit, and these three are one. 8And there are three that testify on earth: the (not found in any Greek manuscript before the sixteenth century)) (1 John 5:7--8, NIV)
    This omitted clause, called the Comma Johanneum, can best be summed up by this quotation from the Wikipedia entry on the Comma Johanneum.
    The Comma Johanneum is a comma, or short clause, present in most translations of the First Epistle of John published from 1522 until the latter part of the nineteenth century, owing to the widespread use of the third edition of the Textus Receptus (TR) as the sole source for translation.
    The basic story goes like this: Erasmus, who was editing a complete Greek manuscript collection of the New Testament (which became known as the Textus Receptus, did not find any evidence that the Comma Johanneum existed in the Greek manuscripts he had, even though it was in the Latin Vulgate. So, he left it out in his first edition. He also left it out of his second edition. By his third edition, he had been repeatedly pressured by the powers that were in the Roman Catholic Church to include the Comma Johanneum. He gave an ultimatum that stated, "If I can find one manuscript that supports it, I'll put it in for the next revision." Voila! Off in Italy, a manuscript was discovered, apparently with the ink barely dry, that included the Comma Johanneum. Erasmus was forced to keep his word and include the clause. Adam Clarke's Commentary on the Bible has this excellent summary of this passage:
    There are three that bear record - The Father, who bears testimony to his Son; the Word or Λογος, Logos, who bears testimony to the Father; and the Holy Ghost, which bears testimony to the Father and the Son. And these three are one in essence, and agree in the one testimony, that Jesus came to die for, and give life to, the world.
    But it is likely this verse is not genuine. It is wanting in every manuscript of this epistle written before the invention of printing, one excepted, the Codex Montfortii, in Trinity College, Dublin: the others which omit this verse amount to one hundred and twelve. It is wanting in both the Syriac, all the Arabic, Ethiopic, the Coptic, Sahidic, Armenian, Slavonian, etc., in a word, in all the ancient versions but the Vulgate; and even of this version many of the most ancient and correct manuscripts have it not. It is wanting also in all the ancient Greek fathers; and in most even of the Latin. The words, as they exist in all the Greek MSS. with the exception of the Codex Montfortii, are the following:
    "6This is he that came by water and blood, Jesus Christ; not by water only, but by water and blood. And it is the Spirit that beareth witness because the Spirit is truth. 7For there are three that bear witness, the Spirit, the water, and the blood; and these three agree in one. 9If we receive the witness of man, the witness of God is greater, etc." (1 John 5:6--9)
    The words that are omitted by all the MSS., the above excepted, and all the versions, the Vulgate excepted, are these:
    [In heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Spirit, and these three are one, and there are three which bear witness in earth].
    To make the whole more clear, that every reader may see what has been added, I shall set down these verses, with the inserted words in brackets.
    "6And it is the Spirit that beareth witness, because the Spirit is truth. 7For there are three that bear record [in heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Ghost, and these three are one. 8And there are three that bear witness in earth],the Spirit, and the water, and the blood, and these three agree in one. 9If we receive the witness of men, the witness of God is greater, etc."
    Any man may see, on examining the words, that if those included in brackets, which are wanting in the manuscripts and versions, be omitted, there is no want of connection; and as to the sense, it is complete and perfect without them; and, indeed much more so than with them. I shall conclude this part of the note by observing, with Dr. Dodd, "that there are some internal and accidental marks which may render the passage suspected; for the sense is complete, and indeed more clear and better preserved, without it. Besides, the Spirit is mentioned, both as a witness in heaven and on earth; so that the six witnesses are thereby reduced to five, and the equality of number, or antithesis between the witnesses in heaven and on earth, is quite taken away. Besides, what need of witnesses in heaven? No one there doubts that Jesus is the Messiah; and if it be said that Father, Son, and Spirit are witnesses on earth, then there are five witnesses on earth, and none in heaven; not to say that there is a little difficulty in interpreting how the Word or the Son can be a witness to himself." It may be necessary to inquire how this verse stood in our earliest English Bibles. In Coverdale’s Bible, printed about 1535, for it bears no date, the seventh verse is put in brackets thus:
    And it is the Sprete that beareth wytnes; for the Sprete is the truth. (For there are thre which beare recorde in heaven: the Father, the Woorde, and the Holy Ghost, and these thre are one.) And there are thre which beare record in earth: the Sprete, water, and bloude and these thre are one. If we receyve, etc.
    Tindal [Tyndale] was as critical as he was conscientious; and though he admitted the words into the text of the first edition of his New Testament printed in 1526, yet he distinguished them by a different letter, and put them in brackets, as Coverdale has done; and also the words in earth, which stand in 1 John 5:8, without proper authority, and which being excluded make the text the same as in the manuscripts, etc. Two editions of this version are now before me; one printed in English and Latin, quarto, with the following title:
    The New Testament, both in Englyshe and Laten, of Master Erasmus translation - and imprinted by William Powell - the yere of out Lorde M.CCCCC.XLVII. And the fyrste yere of the kynges (Edw. VI.) moste gratious reygne.
    In this edition the text stands thus:
    And it is the Spirite that beareth wytnes, because the Spirite is truth (for there are thre whiche beare recorde in heaven, the Father, the Worde, and the Holy Ghost, and these thre are one.) For there are thre which beare recorde, (in earth), the Spirite, water, and blode, and these thre are one. If we receyve, etc.
    The other printed in London "by William Tylle, 4to; without the Latin of Erasmus in M.CCCCC.XLIX. the thyrde yere of the reigne of our moost dreade Soverayne Lorde Kynge Edwarde the Syxte," has, with a small variety of spelling, the text in the same order, and the same words included in brackets as above. The English Bible, with the book of Common Prayer, printed by Richard Cardmarden, at Rouen in Normandy, fol. 1566, exhibits the text faithfully, but in the following singular manner:
    And it is the Spyryte that beareth witnesse, because the Spyryte is truthe. (for there are three which beare recorde in heaven, the Father, the Woorde, and the Holy Ghost; and these Three are One) And three which beare recorde* (in earth) the Spirite, and water, and bloode; and these three are one.
    The first English Bible which I have seen, where these distinctions were omitted, is that called The Bishops’ Bible, printed by Jugge, fol. 1568. Since that time, all such distinctions have been generally disregarded. Though a conscientious believer in the doctrine of the ever blessed, holy, and undivided Trinity, and in the proper and essential Divinity of our Lord Jesus Christ, which doctrines I have defended by many, and even new, arguments in the course of this work, I cannot help doubting the authenticity of the text in question; and, for farther particulars, refer to the observations at the end of this chapter.
    If we look at just the Greek Byzantine manuscripts, all dating after AD 1000, there are approximately 17 which contain the book of 1 John in whole or in part. Of those, only 4 manuscripts include the Comma Johanneum in the text, and 4 include it in notes. An analysis of all the manuscripts available to us, including other ancient writings such as letters, clearly shows that the Comma Johanneum is a very recent addition to Bible manuscripts, and, one must conclude, should not be included in our English Bible translations.
    COMPLETE OMISSIONS
    • The NIV removed . . Matthew 17:21; 18:11; 23:14; Mark 7:16; 9:44, 46; 11:26; 15:28; Luke 17:36; 23:17; John 5:4; Acts 8:37; 15:34; 24:7; 28:29; & Romans 16:24 ... Just like the New World Translation! (WB?)
    Matthew 17:21 is included as a footnote in the NIV, as are Matthew 18:11, 23:14; Mark 7:16, 9:44, 9:46, 11:26, and 15:28; Luke 17:36, and 23:17; John 5:4; Acts 8:37, 15:34, 24:7, and 28:29; and Romans 16:24. The reason those verses are removed from the main text (in the case of the NIV---many other modern versions actually include them) is that the manuscripts selected for the basis of those versions do not contain those verses. This will shock some who are not familiar with the history of the Bible or the manuscripts archaeology has recovered for us, but people have, indeed added to the Bible over the years. Sometimes this occurred due to a desire to clarify; sometimes it happened accidentally via a spelling change or duplicated word; sometimes a particular doctrine was emphasized via some intentional rewording (as with the Comma Johanneum described above). We have manuscripts which clearly illustrate this; further, we have quotations of Scripture from other surviving ancient documents which clearly illustrate this.
    Who changed Scripture? Who is responsible for this confusion? Satan is the author of confusion. Proof? Compare Isaiah 14:12 in the NIV with the truth. "O Lucifer" is removed; "O morning star" is added. Who is the morning star? "I Jesus ... am the root and the offspring of David, and the bright and MORNING STAR." (Rev. 22:16) Satan is getting worship by writing a book with "HOLY BIBLE" on its cover that calls him "Jesus." "Get thee behind me, Satan!" (WB?)
    12How art thou fallen from heaven, O Lucifer, son of the morning! how art thou cut down to the ground, which didst weaken the nations! (Isa. 14:12, KJV)
    12How you have fallen from heaven,
    O morning star, son of the dawn!
    You have been cast down to the earth,
    you who once laid low the nations! (Isa. 14:12, NIV)
    This can be answered by going no further than a Hebrew dictionary, such as the one found in Strong's Exhaustive Concordance. The Hebrew word used here is הילל, or hay-lale', which means "the morning star." To apply the meaning of Lucifer to the word is a case of interpretive translation. There are those who believe that this passage speaks metaphorically of Satan, but to insert the word Lucifer (which clearly does not come from the Hebrew) is not at all called for, and may lead the reader astray when interpreting the passage. In fact, the origin of Lucifer in this passage appears to be from the Latin Vulgate:
    12quomodo cecidisti de caelo lucifer qui mane oriebaris corruisti in terram qui vulnerabas gentes (Isa. 14:12, Vulgate)
    The author is using a mistake (or at least extreme liberty in translation) in the KJV to argue against the NIV. Let's go further and look at the accusation the author is making: All versions of the Bible other than the KJV are forms of worshiping Satan. Perhaps the martyrs (such as Tyndale) who died for the crime of attempting to provide the Bible in the language of the people, would disagree. This is a grossly inaccurate, clearly bigoted statement to make.
    Don't Fall into the Devil's Trap!

    "For among my people are found wicked men: they lay wait, as he that setteth snares: they set a trap, they catch men. As a cage is full of birds, so are their houses full of deceit ..." Jeremiah 5:26--27

    "Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences [sic, 1611 spelling] contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and AVOID THEM." Romans 16:17
    Context! Context! The Apostle Paul refers to those who were teaching heresy (that's the word used for "divisions" in Rom. 16:17), things which were against the doctrine (especially the gospel) which he had taught. One might point out Jesus' quotation of a common saying: "Physician, heal thyself." The teaching in this tract is clearly divisive, heretical, and offensive.
    What should you do ?

    • Believe and receive the King of Kings, the Lord Jesus Christ, as your Saviour. (John 1:12--13; 3:1--8; Romans 10:9--13; Ephesians 2:8--13; 1 Peter 1:23--25)
    • Believe and receive the King of books, the King James Bible, as your Scripture. (Psalm 138:2; Acts 17:11; Romans 10:17; 2 Timothy 2:15)
    (WB?)
    2I will worship toward thy holy temple, and praise thy name for thy lovingkindness and for thy truth: for thou hast magnified thy word above all thy name. (Psalm 138:2, KJV)
    11These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so. (Acts 17:11, KJV)
    17So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. (Rom. 10:17, KJV)
    15Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. (2 Tim. 2:15, KJV)

    David Hoffman, Pastor, Bible Baptist Church
    722 N. Summer Street, 30th Judicial District
    Rensselaer, Indiana 47978 (WB?)

    Conclusions Few, if any, of the statements made by this tract bear up under even the tiniest degree of scrutiny. In a few cases, errors within the KJV are used to attempt to illustrate errors within other versions. Although this tract is not a complete summary of the teachings of the KJV-only movement, is it a fair representative of what many neofundamentalists proclaim: Only the King James Bible is the Word of God. This is simply not true. The KJV is an important work, written in beautiful language, and represents one of the ways God used to deliver His Word to the English-speaking world. It is, however, an increasingly outdated English version, and no less error-prone than the many other English versions that exist. Sadly, all too many Christians will readily adhere to extrabiblical doctrines such as unibiblism. When examining this tract, they will look at the verse list, conclude, "See, look at all the areas the NIV is wrong," and consider the matter no further. They will completely ignore the example of the Berean believers, who were praised for not merely listening to the Apostle Paul's preaching, but doing their own further study to see if he was correct. Neofundamentalists need to do the same. For Further Reading End Notes The following did not quite fit into the analysis above, but are perhaps worthy of examination:
    "From Tyndale to Geneva to King James there was a definite movement toward greater precision. This served at least three purposes. First, it sharpened the sword, as it were, of Protestant advocates. Secondly, it served the cause of theological refinement, a kind of dogmatic housekeeping. Third, it promoted wide acceptance of the versions, by allowing different interpretations. Tyndale and the Geneva translators were conscious also of their obligations as teachers, and so provided many helps for interpretation, which were in fact made more needful by the literalness of their versions. But when King James sought to avoid controversial interpretations, these helps were taken away. This was acceptable to most, because it was assumed that a competent pulpit ministry would supply whatever interpretation was needed." (Michael D. Marlowe, in http://www.bible-researcher.com/canon9.html, in which he noted, "I wish to acknowledge my debt to F.F. Bruce's book, The English Bible: A History of Translations [Oxford, 1961].")
    I was unaware until relatively recently that the KJV is actually not a new translation, but the fifth revision of the work of William Tyndale:
    • Foundation - Tyndale (incomplete; he was martyred in 1536). Published with minor revisions by Coverdale, 1535
    • 1st rev. [Thomas] Matthew's (John Rogers') Bible - 1537 - combined O.T. texts of Tyndale and coverdale with 1535 revision of Tyndale N.T.
    • 2nd rev. Great Bible - 1539 - Another revision of Matthew's Bible (removed most notes and prologues)
    • 3rd rev. Cranmer's Bible - 1540 (plus 5 later revisions) - revision of the Great Bible (5 editions, total) - actually Authorized (by Thomas Cranmer, Archbishop of Canterbury), which the AV (KJV) was not.
    • 4th rev. Bishop's Bible - 1568 - Basis for the KJV, better Greek than Hebrew work
    • 5th rev. KJV - 1611 - "Follow[ed] the text of the Bishop's Bible, unless Tyndale, Matthew, Coverdale, Whitchurche, and Geneva more closely agreed with the original text." 1516 and 1522 eidtions of Erasmus' Greek, including the infamous 1 John 5:7 interpolation. Many ecclesiastical words retained.
    Significant Corrections and Edits in this Post (05/25/2007) Fixed quotation and explanation of 1 Timothy 3:16. I had originally quoted the wrong version and documented it as the KJV, leading to an incorrect conclusion on the similarity between the KJV and NIV. (Amusingly, this is also serves as an example of scribal error.) (05/29/2007) Edited the paragraph on the transliteration of baptism to include alternate theories. Essentially, there are several possibilities for why the word was transliterated, as well as different conclusions on the appropriateness of doing so; the motivation may not have been merely political, although many writers draw that conclusion. ]]>
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    Christian Idiocy http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=473 Tue, 06 Mar 2007 19:34:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=473 I speak as to sensible people; judge for yourselves what I say. (1 Co 10:15) I am oppressed by what I like to think of as Christian idiocy. Why is it that Christians are not allowed to think? Christ said the world would think poorly of us, but must we invite the world's wrath for all the wrong reasons? As I explain to my children, "It's laudable if your classmates don't like you because you're Geekier than they are, not interested in social conformity, or not willing to do what's wrong to fit in; it is not acceptable if they don't like you because you smell bad." I grew up a Christian idiot. I attended churches which taught things like women should not wear pants (because pants are men's clothing---clearly they were unfamiliar with Mary Tyler Moore in "The Dick van Dyke Show"). They taught that no one in the Bible drank wine containing alcohol. I believed it was wrong to attend movies (but not wrong to attend live theater). I wouldn't eat in a restaurant that served alcohol. I found fault with Big Band music. (I once refused to let a schoolmate borrow Allan Sherman's "You Went the Wrong Way Old King Louis," to play for his history class; Paul Pendagrace, I apologize.) I attended a large Bible college/church where the pastor's argument (to loud praise) for why the Bible was the Word of God was, "Because I'm afraid of Momma," where the students were not allowed to take notes on the sermons, and where every college-owned board game had its dice replaced by spinners. Another very large Christian college prohibits students from reading the Bible in a large common area. Another infamous Christian university has only recently reversed its racist policies, which for decades it claimed were Scripturally supported. I've heard everything from tattoos to beards (anyone remember that Jesus guy?) presented as unchristian. I spent decades thinking that I might somehow ruin God's perfect will for my life, and be stuck with His second-best "acceptable will." I hated sermons on Hebrews 12, because I had been taught chastisement referred only to punishment (it means discipline), and wondered how I could be saved without seeing evidence of God constantly punishing me. I laugh now, but the wonderful dancing my 3-year-old daughter does, or the way she insists on clinking glasses together and exclaiming "Cheers!" at dinner, would have been offensive to me a decade ago. Meanwhile, the wondrous, complex depth of themes and doctrines contained in the Word of God and the rich historical background of the cultures therein described were glossed over much of the time. As one of my coworkers likes to exclaim, "Non-sense!" Why don't we compare what we believe to the Word of God? Why don't we actually study the Word of God enough to know what it really teaches? Why can't we learn from the Berean example in Acts 17:11--12? Our churches---and thus, our Christian culture---are rife with extrabiblical teaching. The ancient rabbis declared, "God has spoken, and everything else is commentary." History and Scripture would indicate that it is indeed human nature to expand God's doctrine. Indeed, a study of the book of Acts or of Paul's Epistles will make it clear that debates about such human-driven doctrine were with Christianity virtually from the beginning. Granted, the Word of God was not yet complete, which no doubt added to the debate---but things haven't really changed. We would be wiser to heed the words of Christ:
    7You hypocrites! Well did Isaiah prophesy of you, when he said: 8"'This people honors me with their lips, but their heart is far from me; 9in vain do they worship me, teaching as doctrines the commandments of men.'" (Mat. 15:7--9, ESV).
    The Separatist Pilgrims had the right idea: One of their constant questions, which ultimately led to their departure from the Church of England, was, "Does the Bible really teach that?" Our American tradition of marriage being a civil, rather than strictly religious, ceremony, comes partly from their understanding that nowhere in the Bible was a pastor shown to officiate in a marriage ceremony. They disavowed many ceremonial creations, such as crossing oneself when uttering Christ's name, merely because such creations could not be supported by Scripture. A friend who is a skilled student of Greek tells me she often encounters what she calls "Christianisms"---teachings or traditions that have become a common part of Christianity that have no real basis in the New Testament Scriptures. We sound like idiots because we espouse idiocy. We've stopped thinking, because, while we criticize the sound bytes used in the media, our churches are preaching nothing more than sound bytes with a Christian flavor. We're afraid of starting a discussion of doctrine, either because we are afraid might be wrong or because we lack a comprehensive knowledge of God's Word. We study our Bibles using "What does this passage mean to me?" rather than starting with a grammatical-historical hermeneutics methodology. We rant about "Biblical standards," when expecting outward conformity to rules of behavior that have absolutely no Biblical basis, and then we use these extrabiblical issues to divide believers from each other.
    "I do not believe that the same God who has endowed us with sense, reason, and intellect has intended us to forgo their use." ---Galileo Galilei
    It's worth exploring one of the big debates of the New Testament believers: Should a believer eat meat that had been offered to idols? The first time this is encountered is in Acts 15:24--31.
    24Since we have heard that some persons have gone out from us and troubled you with words, unsettling your minds, although we gave them no instructions, 25it has seemed good to us, having come to one accord, to choose men and send them to you with our beloved Barnabas and Paul, 26men who have risked their lives for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ. 27We have therefore sent Judas and Silas, who themselves will tell you the same things by word of mouth. 28For it has seemed good to the Holy Spirit and to us to lay on you no greater burden than these requirements: 29that you abstain from what has been sacrificed to idols, and from blood, and from what has been strangled, and from sexual immorality. If you keep yourselves from these, you will do well. Farewell."
    30So when they were sent off, they went down to Antioch, and having gathered the congregation together, they delivered the letter. 31And when they had read it, they rejoiced because of its encouragement. (Acts 15:24--31, ESV)
    The scenario was that the early Christians were being pulled in a number of directions. Some people told them they had to obey all or part of the Old Testament Law to be saved. This is understandable, considering the number of Jews who became followers of Christ, who had believed all their lives that following the Law was a vital part of pleasing God. These believers were, understandably, confused. So they wrote to the Apostles and said, "Hey, can you clarify this, please?" Acts 21:25 summarizes the conclusions of Acts 15:24--31 quite beautifully:
    But as for the Gentiles who have believed, we have sent a letter with our judgment that they should abstain from what has been sacrificed to idols, and from blood, and from what has been strangled, and from sexual immorality." (Acts 21:25, ESV)
    The prohibitions against eating things strangled or animals that had not had the blood drained seems to have not caused much controversy. The command to avoid sexual immorality would be repeated throughout the epistles, though there was no danger of that being misunderstood (although the believers at Corinth seem to have been very skilled at disregarding it). But eating meat that had been offered to idols (which was, as I understand it, available inexpensively in the marketplaces---essentially idolatry-subsidized food) seems to have continued to be a large controversy. Paul would devote two more passages related to that topic in his epistles (one dealing with specific food taboos in general, and another dealing directly with food offered to idols), providing clear instruction of how such derived prohibitions are to be handled. It is also interesting to note that Paul did not consider the recommendation the Apostles made to be binding; it clearly was meant to address the concerns of a particular group of new believers, an idea backed up in the context of what Paul wrote.
    1As for the one who is weak in faith, welcome him, but not to quarrel over opinions. 2One person believes he may eat anything, while the weak person eats only vegetables. 3Let not the one who eats despise the one who abstains, and let not the one who abstains pass judgment on the one who eats, for God has welcomed him.
    4Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand. 5One person esteems one day as better than another, while another esteems all days alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. 6The one who observes the day, observes it in honor of the Lord. The one who eats, eats in honor of the Lord, since he gives thanks to God, while the one who abstains, abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God. 7For none of us lives to himself, and none of us dies to himself.
    8If we live, we live to the Lord, and if we die, we die to the Lord. So then, whether we live or whether we die, we are the Lord's. 9For to this end Christ died and lived again, that he might be Lord both of the dead and of the living.
    10Why do you pass judgment on your brother? Or you, why do you despise your brother? For we will all stand before the judgment seat of God; 11for it is written, "As I live, says the Lord, every knee shall bow to me, and every tongue shall confess to God." 12So then each of us will give an account of himself to God. 13Therefore let us not pass judgment on one another any longer, but rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother.
    14I know and am persuaded in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself, but it is unclean for anyone who thinks it unclean. 15For if your brother is grieved by what you eat, you are no longer walking in love. By what you eat, do not destroy the one for whom Christ died. 16So do not let what you regard as good be spoken of as evil. 17For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit.
    18Whoever thus serves Christ is acceptable to God and approved by men. 19So then let us pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding. 20Do not, for the sake of food, destroy the work of God. Everything is indeed clean, but it is wrong for anyone to make another stumble by what he eats. 21It is good not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything that causes your brother to stumble.
    22The faith that you have, keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the one who has no reason to pass judgment on himself for what he approves. 23But whoever has doubts is condemned if he eats, because the eating is not from faith. For whatever does not proceed from faith is sin. (Rom. 14:1--23)
    Romans 8 gives us several important principles for dealing with differences of opinion about what is right and wrong. Key among these is the idea that it's wrong to flaunt liberty among those who are weaker or less knowledgeable to the point where it causes them to be troubled, or worse, causes them to sin by giving in to peer pressure to do something they don't believe is right. But notice also that Paul says judging another in either direction is wrong. Those who have stronger convictions about foods were not to criticize those who understood that it didn't matter. Ultimately, Paul agrees that there's nothing wrong with eating specific foods, even though some found them offensive, but warns, "Stop tearing down the work of God for the sake of food." (Rom 14:20, ALT) Ah, balance! In his first letter to the believers at Corinth, Paul deals specifically with the topic of food that was offered to idols:
    1Now concerning food offered to idols: we know that "all of us possess knowledge." This "knowledge" puffs up, but love builds up. 2If anyone imagines that he knows something, he does not yet know as he ought to know. 3But if anyone loves God, he is known by God.
    4Therefore, as to the eating of food offered to idols, we know that "an idol has no real existence," and that "there is no God but one." 5For although there may be so-called gods in heaven or on earth--as indeed there are many "gods" and many "lords"---6yet for us there is one God, the Father, from whom are all things and for whom we exist, and one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom are all things and through whom we exist.
    7However, not all possess this knowledge. But some, through former association with idols, eat food as really offered to an idol, and their conscience, being weak, is defiled. 8Food will not commend us to God. We are no worse off if we do not eat, and no better off if we do. 9But take care that this right of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak. 10For if anyone sees you who have knowledge eating in an idol's temple, will he not be encouraged, if his conscience is weak, to eat food offered to idols? 11And so by your knowledge this weak person is destroyed, the brother for whom Christ died. 12Thus, sinning against your brothers and wounding their conscience when it is weak, you sin against Christ. 13Therefore, if food makes my brother stumble, I will never eat meat, lest I make my brother stumble. (1 Cor. 8:1--13, ESV)
    My sister grew up loathing the common ignorance about this passage. We tend to use it metaphorically, failing to see the obvious fact that the Apostles were describing a real, practical, everyday situation.
    The night was hot and still, a power outage meant that the ceiling fans weren't moving and the hiss of the gas lanterns made the small brick church in central western Brazil seem even hotter than usual. The pastor was away, so one of the deacons was leading the Wednesday night Bible study. He read the passage [1 Cor. 8], halting a bit here and there, for he was more accustomed to farming and outdoor work than to reading. I wondered what he could possibly find to say about this rather obscure passage. To my surprise, he looked up from his Bible, his sun wrinkled face beaming and said, "Oh my brothers and sisters, how kind the Lord is to give us a passage like this that tells us just what we need to know! You know that the owner of the big ranch that is close to our property is having a party and has invited us all. But he has told us that he is going to sacrifice the bull to the voodoo gods before he barbecues it. Here we have the answer to whether or not we can eat the meat at the party!" (Frances Wilcox Matheson, unpublished study of 1 Cor. 8 )
    Verse two is very much in need of being noted: "If you think you know everything, you're wrong." We often disregard further education in a matter. (Paul's further instruction regarding meat should cast illumination on the fallacy of this idea.) I've heard people tell me when discussing doctrine, "I studied this x years ago ..." with no interest in even consideration of further study. I try to always be aware that some of the things I believe so deeply now may change in the next decade or even less; one cannot grow in knowledge without having to revise some opinions. Paul clarifies who is likely have trouble eating meat offered to idols (v. 7)---those who formerly worshiped them. I have often seen that a person who has newly been brought to grace will be very sensitive about certain areas in which sin dominated in their particular lives. Over time, this tends to change, as the believer's knowledge increases and faith becomes stronger. But is all this loving? Why even bring to the table such a discussion? Because this Christian idiocy does nothing to help the cause of Christ; just the opposite. We impose our own nonbiblical standards on other believers, completely contrary to the Scripture. We make them guilty---causing them to sin. Or, we are proud of how righteous or spiritually sound we are, either from the approach of liberty or the approach of restrictions. This stubborn insistence on self-righteousness ignores the love we are commanded to show to our brothers. Does it mean that there aren't things which are obviously wrong for a believer? Of course not. God's Word is full of commandments about how a believer should live his life. Drunkenness (but not drinking) is prohibited. Dishonesty is prohibited. Sexual immorality (a much more expansive word in the Greek than the KJV's fornication would imply) is prohibited. Gossip and backbiting are prohibited. Revenge is prohibited. Hatred is prohibited---and its presence is used to disprove faith in Christ. But so much is also prescribed. Adhering to sound doctrine is prescribed. Edifying other believers is prescribed. Giving is prescribed. Propagating the gospel is prescribed. Studying the Bible is prescribed. Earnest prayer is prescribed. Loving our brothers and sisters in Christ is prescribed. Why do our children think practicing Christianity is merely composed of avoiding a long list of behaviors defined as unrighteous? Pastor Erik DiVietro put it this way:
    I am a Christian, but I'm often ashamed of it. Don't get me wrong! I am not ashamed of the name of Jesus Christ---it is the hope of salvation for the world. I am not ashamed of HIM; I am ashamed of the people who take his name and then use him as an excuse to be arrogant, self-righteous snobs.
    The church is the hope of the world, but we pretend like we're the center of the world instead. Everyone should look like us, sound like us. We never consider anything outside ourselves. Forming a Christian opinion often goes like this: (a) This is what I like to do. (b) This is a verse I can use to say that it is good to do what I like to do. (c) I will try to coerce everyone else to do what I like to do. (d) I am spiritual doing what I like to do even if no one else agrees with me. (e) I can look down on those carnal people who don't do things like I do. (Erik DiVietro, "Fear of Becoming an Activist")
    I am not saying that personal holiness is wrong, nor am I flaunting my liberty in Christ, saying, "Ha! Look what I can do!" Scripture---the revealed will of God---needs to be our first directive for behavior. I will strive to be loving toward those who are weaker or less knowledgeable Christians, which means I won't try to coerce them into behavior they might find sinful, nor try to mash my own derived applications of Scripture into their heads. I am angered at the disregard for the deep and the elevation of the shallow in modern Christianity. I'm mortified by the lack of Bible knowledge that is actively persisted in our churches, while the same tired "Christianisms" and misapplied, historical taboos are given serious weight. I'm saddened by the labeling that allows us to exclude any believer who falls even slightly outside our cliquish assemblies' definitions of likemindedness. We should be ashamed.]]>
    473 2007-03-06 14:34:44 2007-03-06 19:34:44 open closed christian-idiocy publish 0 0 post 0 8098 bethcostine@hotmail.com 75.69.98.187 2007-03-07 18:50:22 2007-03-07 23:50:22 Pursuit of Godliness by Jerry Bridges is a great book about sanctification and accurately presenting the balance that is present in the Bible---we strive towards godliness, God enables holiness.]]> 1 0 0 8083 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-03-07 12:22:51 2007-03-07 17:22:51 Desiring God in 2005. I have planned to re-read it, and may do so this year. Piper is wonderful, although not an easy read, and I expect to add more of his work to my library. All: Yes, I realize I've used yet another inflammatory topic title. Deal with it.]]> 1 0 2 8066 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.161.188 2007-03-06 18:39:07 2007-03-06 23:39:07 1 0 0 8061 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-03-06 15:15:15 2007-03-06 20:15:15 1 0 0 8071 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.128.150 2007-03-06 22:45:25 2007-03-07 03:45:25 Desiring God, by John Piper.]]> 1 0 0 9342 tifosibella@gmail.com 64.193.209.17 2007-03-25 18:31:19 2007-03-25 23:31:19 1 0 0
    Nichelle: 36 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=474 Wed, 07 Mar 2007 18:35:56 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=474

    I've included a photo, for those of you who haven't seen her in a while.]]>
    474 2007-03-07 13:35:56 2007-03-07 18:35:56 open closed nichelle-36 publish 0 0 post 0 8097 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.128.150 2007-03-07 17:58:24 2007-03-07 22:58:24 1 0 0 8096 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.164.1.40 2007-03-07 17:44:58 2007-03-07 22:44:58 1 0 0 8095 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-03-07 16:47:44 2007-03-07 21:47:44 1 0 2 8094 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2007-03-07 16:06:21 2007-03-07 21:06:21 1 0 3 8186 caceto9182@aol.com 24.128.160.103 2007-03-09 19:30:26 2007-03-10 00:30:26 1 0 0 8086 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-03-07 14:02:41 2007-03-07 19:02:41 publish it on a blog!!! I fear for you, my friend. Nichelle, please go easy on him. I know it's hard to keep yourself composed when you get older, but please do try. ;)]]> 1 0 0 8184 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.97.73 2007-03-09 18:59:56 2007-03-09 23:59:56 1 0 0 8181 choleyd@comcast.net 71.232.231.109 2007-03-09 16:59:38 2007-03-09 21:59:38 1 0 0 17872 summitsp@hotmail.com 4.233.167.18 2007-04-09 11:39:58 2007-04-09 16:39:58 1 0 0
    Earthquake! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=476 Thu, 22 Mar 2007 15:07:51 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=476 from the US Geological Survey. There's a map here. The earthquake was centered just to the west of and midway between Laconia and Wolfboro, New Hampshire, and 5 km deep.]]> 476 2007-03-22 10:07:51 2007-03-22 15:07:51 open closed earthquake publish 0 0 post 0 8963 mjlm19@yahoo.com 64.222.186.237 2007-03-22 13:20:41 2007-03-22 18:20:41 1 0 0 8978 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 24.164.1.40 2007-03-22 15:18:00 2007-03-22 20:18:00 1 0 0 Resigned http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=477 Wed, 04 Apr 2007 21:33:33 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=477

    Submitted today:
    To the members and administrators of [church name]: At this time, we feel that if we remained at [church name], our perceived doctrinal differences would adversely affect the membership. Although we will always treasure the relationships we have with our brothers and sisters here, we feel that we must seek out a congregation where we can continue to flourish as followers of Christ. We respectfully request that our membership at [church name] be withdrawn. Sincerely, Doug and Nichelle Wilcox, and Family
    And so, one chapter of our lives closes, and a new begins ... ]]>
    477 2007-04-04 16:33:33 2007-04-04 21:33:33 open closed resigned publish 0 0 post 0 15635 wilcoxusa@andersonrepublic.com http://www.johnandleah.com 71.75.133.167 2007-04-05 14:55:18 2007-04-05 19:55:18 1 0 0 16140 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-04-06 10:40:39 2007-04-06 15:40:39 si Dios quiere. I have never seen a church which is so intent on really studying the Word of God (in context). The bottom line is, even though the past few weeks have been rocky, we see everywhere the blessings and work of God's sovereignty.]]> 1 0 2
    Life: A Quick Update http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=478 Wed, 11 Apr 2007 16:01:23 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=478
  • Nichelle's health has been amazing. Actually, Nichelle looks amazing. She is doing Tae-Bo and weight training almost every day. She is absolutely transformed, to the point where that picture of Storm I posted for her birthday is truly not very different than reality. This is a far cry from the woman who two years ago sometimes had trouble holding a fork and knife at dinner. This is by far our biggest blessing.
  • Since Nichelle can now kill me with her pinkie, I started on the weights with her and our friend Phil about a month ago, and get in several days a week of Tae-Bo or cardio stuff as well. It's already made a big difference, although Nichelle puts me to shame. Phil is cracking the whip on the weights and controlling our diet as well. Last night we got to eat a single piece of cheese for the first time in about 3 weeks. My doctor should be very pleased with these lifestyle changes. I will say having Nichelle working on the same things has made it immensely easier. What would I do without her?
  • As far as we can tell, David made highest honors again. Although Isaac needs to apply a slight amount of effort in math and history for the first time in his life, he did very well also. I love Isaac's wit, and David amazes me with his insight, especially because he's only 8.
  • Isaac bought a ball python about two months ago, which he named Knotty. Ball pythons are really cool, although we've learned that they really do have poor eyesight, and have become familiar with their striking distance ...
  • Command and Conquer 3 and Jaws Unleashed have overtaken us for gaming, even to the point of neglecting World of WarCraft and our beloved Wii. C&C 3 is every bit the game C&C/Red Alert lovers have longed for, providing that magical balance of interesting units and fast-paced strategy for which Westwoood Studios was famous. In Jaws Unleashed, one controls Jaws himself, attacking swimmers, dolphins, boats, and other sharks and sea life. Isaac and David love it to the point of addiction, although it hasn't received very good ratings from adult gamers.
  • We officially resigned from our old church a week ago---a decision which was clearly God-directed---although we have not yet joined a new one. We believe we will end up at Heritage Baptist in Hooksett, which we attend most, although we are checking out the Wednesday night program tonight at MVBC---Heritage doesn't have anything yet for the kids on Wednesdays.
  • Nichelle will compete in the National Chicken Cook Off on May 3--4, in Birmingham, Alabana. I get to go with her. She is up against some tough competition, but the first prize is $100,000. That wouldn't be too shabby.
  • John seems to be doing well for the first time since he left last June. We'll see how things work out---he hasn't had a very good track record---but he's working again for the first time in months, and seems to be much more rational than previously.
  • We're also planning a trip to Florida to attend my Mom's wedding in June. Did I mention my Mom is 80 years old? I have a great picture with her and her fiancé George, which I'll post shortly. The whole family is very excited.
  • NaNi is still the world's cutest and smartest three-year-old. I had always wanted to have a daughter, but she is more awesome than I would have imagined. She has a delightful sense of humor, too. Last Saturday she woke me up by hitting me repeatedly with a chain saw, chanting, "Dad! Banana bread!" She's also informed me, "You don't get any hugs: Hugs are for Mommy. You get knuckle sandwiches," and I assure you she means it. She can also locate Alabama on a map. Every time she says grace, she includes, "Thank you that Mommy is feeling better."
  • Work has been excellent. We are winding down, mostly fixing small bugs, in preparation for the release of version 6.0 of our product. I've been working on the user interface revamp, which has been a year in the making, and is absolutely amazing. For the first time in years, our software will look as good as it runs. Navigation and other user operations have been dramatically improved, and everything is consistent end-to-end.
  • We finally got caught up with "Lost." Now it's agony to wait a week between episodes! We also are backwatching "Gray's Anatomy" and "Smallville."
  • Last Friday, NaNi, Isaac, David, and the Dunn children were sitting in the bleachers at a basketball game, and were all singing "Chiron Beta Prime." I was so proud of those little geeklings.
  • Keith Lancaster's acapella CD "Glorious God" is amazing. Thanks to Bernard Farrell for recommending this CD, as well as its predecessor, "Awesome God: An a Cappella Worship Series." Nothing warms my heart like hearing NaNi and the boys singing "Our God is an Awesome God" around the house, and we love to listen to these while traveling.
  • After reading Michael Crichton's Next, I've added about 9 books on genetics to my list of books to read near immediately. (I may never finish Mao's China and After or The 9/11 Commission Report, but I'll keep plugging at them.) My goal is to be able to talk the language of genetics fluently with a PhD friend of ours. I've already got my DNA screen saver!
  • We're getting new carpet in the basement, courtesy of a water heater failure about two months ago. ServiceMaster came out at the request of the insurance company, and saved us from serious long-term problems from water damage. Too bad our insurance doesn't cover the water heater itself (due to its age), but as disasters go, this one wasn't too bad.
  • Sorry for not posting more of late. I was very busy getting my accounting caught up so we could file our taxes, and I'm working on a very long post that analyzes (refutes) a popular KJV-only tract.
  • ]]>
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    Photos via Picasa Web Albums http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=479 Thu, 12 Apr 2007 18:07:38 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=479 Picasa's (Google's) free Web Albums last night. One gigabyte of storage, seamlessly integrated with Picasa, which is the free photo management software God would use if He didn't run Linux. Check out our new Picasa Web Albums, which I'll be updating over the next week, and which are also linked to our sidebar. You can even subscribe to them via RSS! And, here's the photo I promised of my Mom and her fiancé, George Fortini:

    And here's another image of NaNi, the world's cutest 3-year-old. She's got the Wii controller in her hand, and is beating nearly everyone at bowling. This was taken at Nichelle's birthday party in March:

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    479 2007-04-12 13:07:38 2007-04-12 18:07:38 open closed photos publish 0 0 post 0 19016 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-04-12 13:20:32 2007-04-12 18:20:32 1 0 0 19017 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-04-12 13:20:58 2007-04-12 18:20:58 1 0 0 19020 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-04-12 13:26:14 2007-04-12 18:26:14 x, although the photo uploader is yukky as well. No, I haven't integrated Picasa with WordPress, although I could, especially given the RSS feed and other public APIs to Picasa Web Albums. There is a really quick link-generator from PWA, though; the following image is from our Web Albums using the Picasa Web-generated code: Pretty darn sweet, neh?]]> 1 0 2 19101 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 75.67.97.215 2007-04-12 20:18:44 2007-04-13 01:18:44 1 0 0 19328 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-04-13 15:19:51 2007-04-13 20:19:51 1 0 2 20257 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-04-16 14:16:07 2007-04-16 19:16:07 1 0 2
    Race a Duck, Improve Some Lives ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=480 Mon, 16 Apr 2007 15:20:09 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=480 Racing rubber duckies on a subterranean river, repleat with sewage, industrial waste, and waterfalls; what more could you ask for?
    Visit http://www.highestducky.org for more information or to make a donation. You can sponsor a duck for only $5.
    Welcome to the World's Highest Rubber Ducky Race. The race will be held Sunday, April 22nd, in La Paz, Bolivia at a starting altitude of approximately 12,800 feet above sea level. Proceeds will fund the construction of a protective fence at the Kallutaca home for mentally and physically disabled adults in the countryside outside of La Paz. Life at the Kallutaca facility is hard. All of these residents have been abandoned by their families. In turn, the goverment of Bolivia provides very basic housing, food, and clothing until they die. As there is very minimal staffing at this rural home, it is not uncommon for residents to take long, unsupervised walks. In recent years, two deaths have resulted from this problem. One person fell into an offsite well and drowned and the other apparently got lost a night and then died of exposure. ]]>
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    Nichelle Then and Now: Unbelievable! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=482 Wed, 25 Apr 2007 17:14:50 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=482 National Chicken Cook-Off (which will happen in only 1.5 weeks!), and being a constant testimony to the grace of God in her life, Nichelle has been eating healthily, doing Tae-Bo (nearly every day), and weight training (4 days/week). Take a look at the results:

    For more images of this amazing transformation, check out this Picasa Web Album!]]>
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    Next Stop: National Chicken Cook-Off http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=483 Thu, 03 May 2007 10:43:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=483 National Chicken Cook-Off. We've experienced the mixture of pre-trip and -contest stress, but Nichelle is doing well. Pray for continued serenity. (Speaking of Serenity, can anyone help but lament the only 14 episodes of Firefly?) And we have 100,000 reasons to hope she wins the grand prize. Onward ... ]]> 483 2007-05-03 05:43:44 2007-05-03 10:43:44 open closed next-stop-national-chicken-cook-off publish 0 0 post 0 29044 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-05-07 11:52:51 2007-05-07 16:52:51 Serenity and "Firefly": Nichelle and I love both. The movie provided Joss Whedon with a wonderful opportunity---to complete the stories (for the most part) that were left hanging when the series ended. The film still handles Firefly's trademark witty dialog, wonderful characters, and credible action sequences with its usual dignity and grace, while providing one of the best villians in all of science fiction, even if some of the show's history had to be repeated for those who were not familiar with it. The two scenes of River kicking butt are worth the cost of the DVD all by themselves.
    Capt. Malcolm Reynolds (into the PA system): This is your Captain speaking ... we may encounter some turbulence and then ... explode. Jayne Cobb: We're gonna explode? I don't wanna explode! Capt. Malcolm Reynolds: Jayne, how many weapons you plan on bringing? You only got the two arms. Jayne Cobb: I just get excitable as to choice- like to have my options open. Capt. Malcolm Reynolds: I don't plan on any shooting taking place during this job. Jayne Cobb: Well, what you plan and what takes place ain't ever exactly been similar. Capt. Malcolm Reynolds: No grenades. [Jayne groans] Capt. Malcolm Reynolds: No grenades! Zoë: We gonna crash again? Capt. Malcolm Reynolds: Go talk to your husband. Is the mule prepped? Zoë: Good to go sir. Just loading her up. Are those grenades?
    All in all, I give both film and series a very high rating. It's a shame the series ran only 14 episodes (only 12 televised), given (with the exception of "Lost" what drivel typically survives TV ratings).]]>
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    27926 judgment_pi@yahoo.com 155.212.64.202 2007-05-03 09:43:17 2007-05-03 14:43:17 1 0 0 28445 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.142.124 2007-05-04 22:51:26 2007-05-05 03:51:26 1 0 0 29774 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-05-10 10:38:14 2007-05-10 15:38:14 Hoban 'Wash' Washburn: This landing is gonna get pretty interesting. Capt. Malcolm Reynolds: Define "interesting." Hoban 'Wash' Washburn: [deadpan] Oh God, oh God, we're all going to die?]]> 1 0 2
    National Chicken Cooking Consolation http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=485 Tue, 08 May 2007 14:16:02 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=485 not overrated). The best thing was, for the duration of the trip, my gorgeous wife, Nichelle, was treated by everyone exactly the way I have always seen her---as a star. Nichelle and I are working on a post about the trip, and we have numerous pictures to upload. Y'all will just need to be patient.


    Although Nichelle didn't win at the 47th National Chicken Cooking Contest, all the contestants were rewarded with many gifts.

    Here's what we took home:
    • 47th NCCC apron
    • 47th NCCC large collapsible cooler (which doubled as luggage for our trip back)
    • 47th NCCC silver bowl, engraved with Nichelle's name and state
    • Four 47th NCCC cookbooks (we ordered more)
    • Cutco cutting board
    • Cutco Kitchen Classics knife set
    • Cutco Super Shears
    • Tables of Content, a beautiful cookbook produced by the Birmingham Junior League
    • Red Diamond tea bags
    • Red Diamond coffee
    • $50 check for spending money
    • Several coffee mugs (Hey, kids, look what we brought you!---NaNi can't wait to bring hers to my office for coffee.)
    • Numerous packages of flavored pecans (those didn't last very long)
    • Moore's Marinade sauces---original and buffalo wing
    • Canned pear halves, from the Pacific Northwest
    • 47th NCCC recipe poster
    • Red sash with our lovely state's name (Come on, you know this is cool.)
    I just noticed that Nichelle's recipe has been published at the Chicken Cooking Contest site.]]>
    485 2007-05-08 09:16:02 2007-05-08 14:16:02 open closed national-chicken-cooking-consolation publish 0 0 post 0 29325 mjlm19@yahoo.com 64.222.186.237 2007-05-08 11:05:25 2007-05-08 16:05:25 1 0 0 29316 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-05-08 09:21:11 2007-05-08 14:21:11 1 0 0 29338 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-05-08 12:13:53 2007-05-08 17:13:53 Heritage Baptist on May 20. (You can contact the church if you want to sign up.) She is already entering these and other recipes in upcoming contests, and we're really hoping to get into the next National Chicken Cooking Contest in two years. Fun!]]> 1 0 2 29571 lizmom@comcast.net 76.24.103.143 2007-05-09 17:34:49 2007-05-09 22:34:49 1 0 0 29893 clr257@juno.com http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 72.79.202.33 2007-05-10 15:47:54 2007-05-10 20:47:54 1 0 0 31318 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.10 2007-05-15 03:52:44 2007-05-15 08:52:44 1 0 0 31393 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.91.146.71 2007-05-15 08:34:00 2007-05-15 13:34:00 1 0 3 31492 summitsp@hotmail.com 75.69.186.134 2007-05-15 15:39:57 2007-05-15 20:39:57 1 0 0 38549 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-05-31 13:43:22 2007-05-31 18:43:22 article about her experience at the NCCC for the Washington Post.]]> 1 0 2 120464 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-07-09 14:48:08 2008-07-09 19:48:08 Taste of Home message boards. It has also been republished, with appropriate credit, on the Pilgrim's Pride Web site. By the way, Nichelle is currently working on recipes to enter in this year's contest ... we tried an amazingly succulent one last night.]]> 1 0 2 120465 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-07-15 03:33:10 2008-07-15 08:33:10 1 0 0
    Miscellany from Diane Sawyer http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=486 Mon, 21 May 2007 19:19:30 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=486 Reader's Digest included an excellent interview with Diane Sawyer. Other than knowing she had something to do with television news, I wasn't very familiar with her, but found a few of her comments quite noteworthy. Quotations are from "News Flash: In the sound bite world of TV news, Diane Sawyer brings substance to the story," by Sara Davidson, in Reader's Digest, May 2007. Regarding her marriage at age 42 (they have been married about 20 years now) to director Mike Nichols:
    The first year, I thought surely we would fight. I would take a stand, and he'd say, Well, you're always fair, and I know you love me, so I have to consider the possibility that you're right.
    That was actually my favorite quotation. Isn't it wonderful?
    Q: Are you concerned about the direction that broadcast news is going?
    A: I think we all are. But I don't feel that we have a responsibility to scold everybody for what they watch. We want to pretend we only watch the grass growing on the global warming channel, but a car chase comes up and I'm right there with the next person."
    ...
    Q: Do you ever feel guilty that you can fly in an out of bad situations, leaving behind people stuck struggling with so little?
    A: Of course. Every single time. When you get on a plane and have clean water, it's already a privilege, considering what a lot of the rest of the world is dealing with.
    ...
    Q: Did North Korea feel like the nightmare that George Orwell wrote about in 1984, with Big Brother controlling everything?
    A: It's hard to believe that in this day of Internet access, there is a country in which kids studying to be scientists have no idea what Google is. You have passionate students of culture and politics who have no prospect of leaving the country.
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    Superman Trumps God: The NaNi Report and Other News http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=488 Thu, 31 May 2007 17:24:58 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=488 NaNi: Here are some more anecdotes from the world's cutest and oldest three-year-old:
    • We were "in the running" for a very nice outdoor grill that was being given away. When our friend Phil reported that it had gone to someone else, NaNi instructed, "You should have called 'NaNi dibs'!" Quite a few people have commented on how good she is at conversing. This is something we've observed in her from very early on, but it does seem odd sometimes to have a three-year-old who thinks she's on equal terms with everyone in the entire world, and can generally talk that way.
    • As parents, we all love it when our children begin to learn about God and develop a theological understanding of their own. Quite often, we forget that their grasp of things can be very different than we expect, at least underneath the common terms we hear from them. For example, Naomi and I have talked several times about "God v. Superman," after a conversation that she had with David one morning. NaNi insists that Superman is better than God, despite her acknowledgement that God not only created everything, but saves people forever. Maybe she just thinks that Tom Welling is cuter than God.

    • To NaNi, there's just no contest.

    • NaNi continues to learn cool things. She's learned to stand on her head, and was really impressing us with her Spider-Man moves done while climbing on our exercycle. She can also type her name accurately and quickly, since I gave her a guest account and assigned her name as the password. (The user name is nonobvious for security purposes.) She can also run a Web browser and navigate all her favorite educational sites without difficulty.
    • The other day NaNi gave me a dollar from her purse. As I didn't want to take her dollar, I sneaked it back in later. Last night on the way home from church, NaNi exclaimed, "Dad! You cheated. You gave me back the dollar I gave you." Not only had the little weasel counted the bills she had, but she correctly inferred how the extra one had gotten there.
    D'oh!
    • A few days ago, I left a pen in my pocket, getting spots on a whole load of laundry, not to mention marking the inside of the dryer. I was very disappointed to have made such a mistake. Nichelle got the dryer cleaned out after a few days, but I don't know how many clothing articles were irreparably marred.
    David:
    • Phil called David a slacker the other day, and he responded, "Uncle Phil, you know that everyone in my family is a slacker."
    Fighting (not Really):
    • I am attempting to do what few husbands would dare or desire. I am teaching Nichelle to argue. It seems odd to do so at this point of her life, and sometimes I wonder if this is what I really want, but her lifelong coping strategy had been to simply give in to the opinions of those around her, and she viewed all contradiction of her ideas as "being shot down." Since I spend my days "in heated discussions" with my co-workers (it's how software is developed, folks), she'd always believed I was shooting her ideas down---even though our discussions were virtually never heated---and even though I thought I was simply expressing a differing opinion and challenging her to defend her position, she viewed a single contradiction as "case closed." It's been fun, and a bit scary, requiring some adjustment from both of us, but she's catching on quickly. (Ironically, if I had been asked to look back on the times we've disagreed in opinion, I would answer honestly that most of the time I see things her way in the end. However, my perspective did not and could not include the times she caved without discussion. Facinating.)
    Swimming:
    • When I removed the cover (our first year with a mesh cover) from our pool this year, I made an interesting discovery: The pool was completely empty, save for a few puddles of nearly black water. NaNi, David, and Phil, and I spent much of Saturday sweeping and vacuuming out the bottom of the pool with the wet/dry vac. (There's something really manly about operating a shopvac.) Then we scrubbed and rinsed every inch of it, repeatedly shop-vacuuming the dirt that had accumulated for the past several years. We patched the holes in the liner we found, and refilled the pool. Although the water is freezing, the results are astounding. The water is crystal-clear, and maintaining the chlorine level (so far) has been a breeze. If we ever move into a house with a swimming pool again, I'll know to "kill and refill" it. (I should send pictures to my Mom and sister, who have always criticized my pool maintenance skills, just to prove the preexisting conditions weren't my fault.)
    Geekdom:
    • I've submitted several (well, three) articles to Slashdot recently, but have yet to have any of them go beyond "pending." Apparently the world of Geekdom is not ready for my paltry contributions.
    • I've finally started a Lego MindStorms group at work. You can read about our exploits on our MindStorms@Work BLOG. We have about 8 people participating, and it's been great fun so far. Our first project is a robotic candy sorter, which has turned out to be surprisingly challenging, at least based on our initial research.
    • The kids are crazy about various "geek songs" that we can play on our MP3 or CD players in the car. Thanks to iTunes and such services, we've been able to download a very unusual mix: "The Fuhrer's Face" (Spike Jones) is NaNi's most requested item. (NaNi has referred to it as, "Green, green, green," after the sound the horns make at the beginning, "The Space Song," and "The Future of Space,"---it took me a while to figure out which one she meant. "White and Nerdy" by Weird Al is nearly always asked for, as is his "The Saga Begins." (We have those in video as well from iTunes for the home computer.) Tom Lehrer's "The Elements" we are all working on, and we have been listening to "Skullcrusher Mountain," "Chiron Beta Prime," and "The Future Soon" by Jonathan Coulton for quite a while. Also in the mix under the nongeeky category are "Sway" by the Pussycat Dolls (the only song I've really liked by them), several LotR tracks, some Big Band, and my two indulgences of "You Can't Hurry Love" (the Supremes), and "The Power of Love" (Huey Lewis and the News). Nichelle has several new acapella gospel CDs which we often listen to, but I can't get them out of her hands long enough to rip them to MP3.
    Movies and Television:
    • I think my favorite movie of the summer is going to be Ratatouille, which opens at the end of June. Why? Two words: Brad Bird. So far Spiderman 3 was excellent, with beautiful moral lessons, and Pirates III was a huge disappointment, even though we got to see it in digital video at Lowell Showcase. (Very little humor and character development.) Shrek the Third wasn't too bad, although Shrek was very un-ogre-like in parts, and TMNT was reasonable (better than I expected), especially for the kids, although a big part of the dramatic/emotional plot seemed like a rehash of the first TMNT movie. And, would anyone go see Fantastic Four II if Jessica Alba were not in it? I think not. (Okay, maybe people will go see it with the desperate hope that two FF movies in a row can't be awful.)
    • We've just finished up watching the second season of "Grey's Anatomy." Although we love the medical drama so much that we can barely stay awake watching "House" anymore, our concern is that it's developing too much into a "soap opera" formula. We shall have to see what season 3 has delivered when it hits DVD. I will say this much, if the writers are medically knowledegable, it's very evident that Grey exhibits the behaviors of one who has been physically or sexually abused as a child, although it hasn't been hinted at in the first two seasons of the show.
    • We also just finished "24." Frankly, I'm tired of it. I don't think this season, by the end, was anywhere near gripping, and I honestly miss the filming style and direction from the first season, including Jack Bauer's voiceovers to introduce each hour and the constant use of split-screen. I was actually disappointed when they flashed the return of the show next January. I simply do not care any more.
    • The one unquestionably, gloriously bright spot on television has been "Lost." Wow. If you haven't been watching, you have all summer and fall to catch up on the first three seasons via DVD. Do it.
    Humor:
    • Tom in the Box News Service has a delightful, tongue-in-cheek (but never meanspirited) perspective on neofundamentalism, among other things. (The scary thing is how credible some of these stories are.)
    Church:
    • Heritage Baptist has been wonderful for us. I've described is as "a whole congregation full of Debi Costines," which is clearly an exaggeration, but there is a desire to know, study, and live God's Word in its intended context that we have found only rarely. Travel on over to their Web site and have a listen to some of the messages.
    Other stuff:
    • Nichelle's health is better-than-perfect. She still outlifts me in all but a couple of weight-training exercises.
    • My Mom is getting married June 16, at age 80. We're very excited about that.
    • I'm not sure why, but I really don't like Jessica Alba with light hair.
    John Hannah:
    • And, although it has nothing to do with this post, here's a wonderful quotation from Dr. John Hannah:
      "Being biblical is not having a verse for what you believe; it's having the weight of Scripture undergirding what you believe." Dr. John Hannah
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    Resolved: Things about Which I Will Never Complain http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=489 Fri, 01 Jun 2007 19:15:32 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=489
  • The price of gasoline. (Go check the consumer prices worldwide for those countries not swimming in petroleum.)
  • Government corruption. (When's the last time you had to bribe someone to get a spot you deserve in university, or paid your traffic "ticket" directly to the police officer?)
  • The food I am served, as long as it's not spoiled. (Complaining about the food or refusing food offered is a huge insult in countries where people are not certain they will get enough food every day.)
  • The quality of television and movies. (Watch less. Be more selective. Television and movies have always had both great programming and nearly worthless programming. The great programming and films survive and are remembered, which is why we think that all the "old shows" were like "The Twilight Zone," when most of them were more like "F Troop.")
  • Being bored. (I honestly can't remember the last time I was bored. Usually, I have so many things that I want to do, I can't choose between them.)
  • The American justice system. (I know it's not perfect, but for the most part, our criminal justice system is very fair, and we're even finally learning about victim rights, too.)
  • The amount of money I have. (Do you have any idea how absolutely rich we Americans are?)
  • My job. (The US is still, unquestionably, the Land of Opportunity.)
  • The weather.
  • My wife. (Nichelle is awesome, in far more ways than I can count---although I did try once.)
  • I'm sure I'll think of a few others.]]>
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    Whose Sin? (John 9:1--7) The Necessity of Historical Context http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=490 Mon, 04 Jun 2007 17:54:05 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=490 Sketches of Jewish Social Life to give away to interested fellow believers---and to kill mice.) A few days ago, I was listening to a passage I've read scores of times in my lifetime, but this time I noticed something that I had completely overlooked:
    1As he passed by, he saw a man blind from birth. 2And his disciples asked him, "Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?" 3Jesus answered, "It was not that this man sinned, or his parents, but that the works of God might be displayed in him. 4We must work the works of him who sent me while it is day; night is coming, when no one can work. 5As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world." 6Having said these things, he spat on the ground and made mud with the saliva. Then he anointed the man's eyes with the mud 7and said to him, "Go, wash in the pool of Siloam" (which means Sent). So he went and washed and came back seeing. (John 9:1--7, ESV)
    Notice the disciples' question: "Whose sin was it that this caused this man to be born blind? Was it his or his parents'?" The part that made me do a double-take was the question about whether it was the man's own sin for which he was being punished. How can anyone sin before he or she is born? Now, this gets fascinating. Just from the context of the passage, one can infer that some people (the disciples among them) believed God would punish the sins of parents by causing problems with the children. We can also infer that people believed God would punish a person's sins directly. In both cases, such punishment could extend to causing physical disability. Another inference---perhaps the most unusual one to us---is that one could be born into a condition of punishment for his own sins. The text also refutes an idea or two. One false idea, sadly believed by many who claim to follow the Bible today, was that all illness or disability is caused by God as punishment for sin, or, alternatively, by the oppression of Satan. Jesus clearly refutes the former case in his answer to the disciples. What else can we directly infer from this passage alone? Not much. How could someone who is not yet born sin? Did he commit some sin in utero? What light does Scripture shed on these beliefs? The Old Testament talks about divine retribution, even such being passed on to the children of those God is punishing. So, we can see in Scripture the concept of the man being punished for his parents' sins. (I merely mention the existence of this topic; much further elaboration would be required to address its applicability to a case such as this.) However, nowhere in Scripture do we see the idea of someone being punished for personal sins committed before birth. Was God being preemptive, punishing the man with blindness for something the man would later do? Ultimately, Scripture does not answer the question about how someone could be born into a condition of punishment for his own wrongdoings. Here we must look to the historical context of the passage. Albert Barnes' Notes on the Bible, in this case apparently referencing the work of J.B. Lightfoot, summarizes the historical context of the disciples' questions quite nicely:
    It was a universal opinion among the Jews that calamities of all kinds were the effects of sin. See the notes at Luke 13:1-4. The case, however, of this man was that of one that was blind from his birth, and it was a question which the disciples could not determine whether it was his fault or that of his parents. Many of the Jews, as it appears from their writings (see Lightfoot), believed in the doctrine of the transmigration of souls; or that the soul of a man, in consequence of sin, might be compelled to pass into other bodies, and be punished there. They also believed that an infant might sin before it was born (see Lightfoot), and that consequently this blindness might have come upon the child as a consequence of that. It was also a doctrine with many that the crime of the parent might be the cause of deformity in the child, particularly the violation of the command in Leviticus 20:18.
    So, from the larger body of Scripture, the local context of this passage, and some educated guesses, one might derive a number of correct conclusions about what relatively common beliefs were for the subject at hand; but, without examining other historical writings, one could never derive all the possibilities of what was believed---especially the possibility of the transmigration of souls, which is not at all referenced in Scripture. Despite the fact that our churches extol the study of Scripture in its literal, historical, grammatical context, few believers are taught how to do such historical research, or even have the basic resources to know where to begin. This is compounded by the pseudoscholarly works that abound, produced by both modern skeptics who are willing to ignore history and unscholarly believers who equally ignorant of history---archeology seems to be especially problematic. (One of my favorites is the conclusion that pi is exactly three because it is rounded to that in 1 Kings 7:23.) Sadder still are the many pastors and teachers who believe that no cultural illumination is needed for events that occurred two to six thousand years ago. Although we certainly might be able to derive most of our doctrine sola scriptura, historical, cultural, and even archaeological study sheds light on so much that makes the Bible real. I'll conclude with one thought from Pastor Erik DiVietro, from his post about the contextual meaning of "the gates of hell":
    If anything, I think pastors should study history instead of theology. They should be immersed in the worlds (notice the plural) of the Bible and not in the systematic teachings of theologians who probably never cracked a history book except to get a random source for something they already believed. Knowing the languages and cultures in which the Scriptures emerged isn't just a nice thing---it is a necessary thing. Otherwise, we are no better than the Medieval church that twisted the Biblical narratives to their own schemes.
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    Eventually I learned that many scholars engaged in the study of the historical Jesus have studied Bible and theology, but not history. These Jesus scholars are not historians at all. This lack of training is apparent in the odd presuppositions, methods, and conclusions that are reached. I dare say that if all New Testament scholars exercised proper historical methods, there would have been no need to write this book.
    For the record, I highly recommend this book. It's in a similar direction of, but quite different from, Lee Strobel's, The Case for Christ; Evans' book is at a much more scholarly level, and well worth reading; it also contains some great, detailed examples of how textual criticism should be applied.]]>
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    Week of a Million Smiles http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=491 Wed, 27 Jun 2007 04:05:10 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=491 Well, we're back from vacation and what an amazing and wonderful time we all had. To start off the vacation was Mom's wedding. What a lovely couple Mom and Dad make! They are truly in love and so very sweet together. (Pictures taken by our "official" Wedding photographer Mike Matheson are available here.) We spent a few days with Mom, Dad and family before heading to Orlando, where the Hinxmans arranged for us to stay at a borrowed apartment. They also are tireless park-attenders, and took us around Disney World and Sea World on a six-day sprint.


    NaNi tells Cinderella a story about a ball she plans to attend.

    What an amazing time, jammed packed and loads of fun. So much to share, too late now to do it, but you can check out the pics in the Picasa album. We have loads to share so check back in a day or two.
    Picasa Web Album
    Disney PhotoPass Album


    Isaac and David pose with Stormtroopers at the last of MGM's "Star Wars Weekends."

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  • Friday, June 15 - travel to Beverly Hills, Florida
  • Saturday, June 16 - Mom's wedding, swimming, dinner out with family
  • Sunday, June 17 - Church (Nichelle sang), beach
  • Monday, June 18 - Travel to Orlando, Magic Kingdom
  • Tuesday, June 19 - Animal Kingdom
  • Wednesday, June 20 - Morning at the pool; EPCOT
  • Thursday, June 21 - SeaWorld - 7 hour behind-the-scenes tour
  • Friday, June 22 - Disney MGM Studios "Star Wars Weekend"
  • Saturday, June 23 - Magic Kingdom (princesses), EPCOT, Magic Kingdom, Downtown Disney
  • Sunday, June 24 - Church (Nichelle sang), motorcyle riding (Nichelle), napping
  • Monday, June 24 - Homosassa Springs Wildlife State Park
  • Tuesday, June 25 - Travel back to New Hampshire
  • Note that we took almost 1,000 pictures; I'll put the Lego pictures from Downtown Disney in a separate Picasa album, I think. I have quite a few more that aren't in the picasa album yet. And, for the record, I have a few shots that rival the professionals. Animal Kingdom was wonderful, although we skipped the entire continent of Asia due to time. If you go on the Safari (highly, highly recommended), you want to go first thing in the morning. The animals sleep later in the day. We were particularly blessed, seeing animals that are often not out, such as the warthogs and the big gorilla. The most interesting one was perhaps the okapi, a relative of the giraffe. I loved the artificial termite mounds! At SeaWorld we splurged on the big tour (an extra $95 per ticket for adults, $85 for children), and fed and petted dolphins and sting rays, fed the sea lions, and petted a Magellan penguin. That also gave us preferred reserved seating for the shows, lunch next to one of the whale pools, a view of the filtration plant, and an educator tour guide all day. The kids fell asleep in seconds each day (for that matter, so did I); by the end of the week, it was hard for all of us to get up, but we "sucked the marrow out of life" to the best of our abilities. This is the trip that Nichelle had longed for while she was so ill; it was a blessing beyond what we imagined, especially receiving a borrowed apartment and expert park-visiting advice from our constant companions and tour guides, the Hinxmans. By the way, everyone who goes there tells me about the Lego stuff at Downtown Disney, but you're the only one who's actually given me pictures from it. Thanks!]]>
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    The Qur'an and Recruitment of Radicals http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=492 Fri, 06 Jul 2007 15:45:15 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=492 NPR interview with former Al-Qaeda recruiter and jihadist Hassan Butt; it is extremely insightful. In the case of Muslims, this means selecting verses which support terrorism and destruction of all infidels. By basing the arguments upon the Islamic scripture of the Qur'an, rather than merely intellectual or emotional basis, Hassan Butt was able to convert those who were Muslim political activists to a more violent agenda. I've transcribed portions of his interview below. (Please pardon my uneducated transcription of the Arabic words used.)
    [Renee Montagne (Interviewer )] You recruited others. What did you tell those that you were talking to that they found the most compelling?
    [Hassan Butt] Obviously we would talk about the atrocities that were taking place in Palestine, in Iraq; the atrocities that were being comitted by Muslim governments with the support or with the silence i guess of the Western regimes. And these would be inspiring factors, but this wouldn't be the thing that would turn someone from a normal political activist to someone who would turn to militant radical Islam. It became us teaching these people that the only solution Islamically that we have is to fight these people and to kill these people. We would use islamic theology, and we would show them that the work we were engaging in was an obligation upon Muslims, using various interpretations of the Qur'an and various interpretations of the saying of the prophet Mohammed.

    There's a verse in the Qur'an which means "strike fear in the hearts of the unbelievers." We would actually say terrorism is part of Islam. It's not something against Islam. This word is actually used in the Qur'an. It comes from the word il-hab.
    Eventually, Mr. Butt left radical Islam, and currently works to combat it. His impetus for leaving seems to have been the same kind of unanswered questions which often interest young Muslims in radicalism:
    I really began to think, "Is this really being done in the name of Islam or is this being done in the name of some political agenda?" For me these people became murderers who just enjoyed killing and causing havoc, rather than trying to achieve any type of stability as a result of it.
    He goes on to discuss how the intentional disregard of certain portions of the Qur'an, on both sides of Islam, allows Islamic terrorism to prosper:
    For a long time, a lot of people, especially the moderate Muslims have been talking about how peaceful Islam is and how loving Islam is, and what they've tended to do is ignore the verses and chapters in the Qu'ran that talk about violence, that talk about killing, and they've hoped by ignoring it, or being in denial about it, that this problem would disappear, and this hasn't been the actual case. If I'm a young Muslim who's picked up the Qur'an and come across certain chapters and in there it says, "Kill the unbelievers until they become Muslim; fight them until they say, 'lahi lahi l'allah.'" [I believe this is, "There is no God but Allah."] You know, if a young Muslim reads that, and he goes to the mosque and the mosque says, "Oh, don't ask questions like this," or the moderate Muslim says, "Oh, don't discuss things like this," if they then go to the radical Muslim who is willing to discuss this Qur'anic chapter, then naturally he's going to become inclined towards him, because this person is giving him answers to questions that his mind has. And so hence what I'm calling for is there to be an open debate, firstly. We need to be able to go back to the books of Islam and to be able to a new what we call itchthihad, or like create a new reality and explain, "Hang on a second, you know, everything that was written in the Medieval times is not applicable today," and then that new reality needs to be addressed to young Muslims.
    One of the things that's fascinating about this interview is the idea presented that both the extremists and the moderates have the same flaw in ignoring part of the Qur'an, which ultimately serves the radicals.
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    Commentators erudite in Arabic explained the allusions, and perhaps most importantly, explained which Qur'anic verses had been revealed early in Muhammad's prophetic career, as being appropriate to the very earliest Muslim community, and which had been revealed later, canceling out or "abrogating" (nāsikh) the earlier text.
    And, also, the earlier writings can be superseded by the latter ones, which leads to some interesting ideas about the invalidity of contradiction, although the Qur'an was written (probably dictated) over a period of only about 25 years. The interviewee here was indeed very bold.]]>
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    NaNi Writes Her Name http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=493 Wed, 18 Jul 2007 04:59:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=493
    Naomi shows off her writing.

    What's even more interesting, after months of her writing upside down capital As, is that she still hasn't learned all her letters---she can't even correctly name all of the ones in her name yet. She's been able to type her name for a couple of months, and she can recognize a few letters, but we haven't been doing anything to actively show her how to write her name.


    A closer shot of NaNi's first attempt at writing her name.


    NaNi wrote these on Sunday. When she has lines, she writes her name quite neatly.

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    493 2007-07-17 23:59:14 2007-07-18 04:59:14 open closed nani-writes-her-name publish 0 0 post 0 51792 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2007-07-18 04:04:19 2007-07-18 09:04:19 please get her to smile??? (sarcasm) Congrats Naomi - you'll be writing sentences, and then java code, in no time! I'm very proud of you!!! :)]]> 1 0 0 51848 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.108.177 2007-07-18 15:37:23 2007-07-18 20:37:23 Nichelle watching Back to the Future ... Thankfully she has quickly learned the lesson of what not to say, and her grammar was good. :: sigh :: A little bump in raising media-wise children.]]> 1 0 2 56191 summitsp@hotmail.com 75.69.186.134 2007-08-04 10:49:58 2007-08-04 15:49:58 1 0 0 56502 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-08-06 10:16:34 2007-08-06 15:16:34 1 0 2
    Dual-Core Processors and Video Performance http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=494 Thu, 19 Jul 2007 15:51:55 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=494

    I'd installed Rainbow Six 3: Raven Shield, a game which is a couple of years old, on my relatively new dual-core AMD Athlon machine at home. (It should run fine on both machines, and I own two copies, making it ideal for gaming multiplayer with the kids.) To my surprise, the game ran absolutely horribly---a first for this box---in fact, it was completely unplayable. The video, even in the opening movie, stuttered whenever it was trying to do a fade affect. In the mission I tried, the characters wouldn't move, although I could pan the camera, almost like the game was trying to poll the keyboard wrongly. The video seemed far jerkier than it should have been, also. So, I did the usual bit of updating the video driver and DirectX drivers, but that didn't help. After a little research, and a couple of forum posts that didn't have the right answer, but did point to a related Microsoft Knowledge Base article, I learned the cause of the problem. With visions of having to patch my BIOS (a slightly risky operation), I wen to the AMD Web site as Microsoft recommended, and discovered a surprisingly straightforward solution:
    AMD Dual-Core Optimizer - The AMD Dual-Core Optimizer can help improve some PC gaming video performance by compensating for those applications that bypass the Windows API for timing by directly using the RDTSC (Read Time Stamp Counter) instruction. Applications that rely on RDTSC do not benefit from the logic in the operating system to properly account for the affect of power management mechanisms on the rate at which a processor core's Time Stamp Counter (TSC) is incremented. The AMD Dual-Core Optimizer helps to correct the resulting video performance effects or other incorrect timing effects that these applications may experience on dual-core processor systems, by periodically adjusting the core time-stamp-counters, so that they are synchronized.
    A quick Windows install and reboot, and the game ran flawlessly---at 1280 x 1024 with all the video and sound options maxed out. Sweet! I believe there is a similar utility available for Intel multicore processors. For the benefit of others: ]]>
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    Bizarre Family Re-Invades Moultonborough http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=495 Tue, 31 Jul 2007 19:29:31 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=495
    Our boring, personality-less family.

    Well, we're back (again) from our now-annual trip to Moultonborough, New Hampshire. Highlights:
    • NaNi woke me up every morning by knocking on my head as one would a door, and announcing, "Dad, look out the window." Thankfully, it was never very early, but to her, daylight meant it was time to do things.
    • Isaac and I climbed Mt. Percival, elevation 2,212 feet, near Squam Lake. (A full 1,000-feet higher than our usual hike across the street.) Nichelle, NaNi, David, my niece Jenn, and my sister Cindy made it much of the way, but didn't get to the summit. (They were scared off by a report more seasoned hikers.) This is the first "moderate"-rated trail from our new AMC White Mountain Guide, 28th: Hiking trails in the White Mountain National Forest (Appalachian Mountain Club White Mountain Guide), and it was wonderful. While the others went slowly down the first part of the hike, Isaac and I really pushed it to get to the summit, but the view was worth it. The trail back, only 1.9 miles, seemed much longer. I couldn't have done any of this without the 6-day-a-week weight training program my beautiful Nichelle has me on. (The hike was a great leg and cardio workout; the next two days I could feel muscles I didn't knew I had.)
    • Neither Isaac nor David caught any pickerel this year. They didn't spend as much time fishing, but more time swimming. We had bait left at the end of the week, even.
    • NaNi caught the biggest sunfish we have seen to date. It was actually too big for her to hold up the pole as Nichelle took a picture.
    • In an incident involving a fishing reel NaNi managed to disassemble, recovering the same reel from the bottom, getting the line tangled up in the paddleboat pedals, losing the reel permanently in the pond, getting stuck, and prayer ... NaNi and David had quite an adventure. NaNi was very impressed that David "prayed to God twice," and "knew the right thing to do."
    • One of the few down sides to this trip was that Naomi has developed an unprecedented degree of fear of bugs and spiders, especially considering in whose family she is. She spent an hour or two one night, quite literally screaming, apparently from some nightmare about spiders which persisted into her mostly-woken state. (She was afraid of a lot of things, compared to earlier in her life, and was highly suggestible, but I expect she'll have outgrown those issues by next year.)
    • We did our first all-family picture at Clark's Trading Post, and Nichelle and NaNi did their traditional "Southern Belle" photos. I'll try to get pictures up tonight.

    We'll post a Picasa Web Albums slide show after we go through the pictures.

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    Why Can't Things Like This Happen to Me? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=496 Thu, 09 Aug 2007 14:40:58 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=496

    A giant, smiling Lego man was fished out of the sea in the Dutch resort of Zandvoort on Tuesday. Workers at a drinks stall rescued the 2.5-meter (8-foot) tall model with a yellow head and blue torso.
    :: sigh :: That would have looked sooooooooo cool in my cube at work.]]>
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    I Am Now as Old as Jack Benny http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=497 Sat, 11 Aug 2007 05:00:24 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=497 Jack Benny.

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    Lana Lang Succumbs to Repeated Physical and Psychological Trauma http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=498 Thu, 23 Aug 2007 18:18:36 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=498 The Daily Planet, Metropolis, August 23, 2007
    Lois Lane

    Lana Lang (below) was admitted to the Metropolis Psychiatric Hospital (above) earlier today for an indefinite period of intense psychiatric care, after what has been described as an "intense, psychotic break." Lana is known for having a number of strange, apparently psychiatric episodes. One associate we interviewed believed she had merely "gone Lana" again, citing events such as Lana's brutally attacking and nearly killing confidante Chloe Sullivan, editor of The Torch, Smallville High School's often tabloid-like student newspaper, or another period lasting several days when she believed herself to be the incarnation of a 17th-century French witch.


    Lana Lang, an exceptionally traumatized young lady.

    A medical professional within the psychiatric hospital provided details under the condition of absolute anonymity:
    Miss Lang is the most severely traumatized case I have seen in my career, far worse than we see even from lengthy, close-quarters combat. Lana seems to have an intense fear of nearly everything, including hospitals.

    She is recounting stories of being attacked repeatedly at the Talon coffee shop, her parents' grave site, the Kent farm, Smallville Medical Center, her own residences, Smallville High School, several horse stables, and virtually every outdoor location she has traveled to.

    She screams or sobs constantly about being hunted, attacked, and buried alive. There is little wonder her sleep is disrupted by incessant nightmares. Her medical records, among her numerous admissions for injury or unexplained illness, indicate she even barely survived being caught in a tornado several years ago. She often rocks back and forth in a corner, incessantly mumbling that her friends are keeping secrets from her, and she appears convinced that at any moment anyone around her might suddenly turn on her.

    If even half the things she describes have actually occurred, it will be a miracle if Miss Lang will ever be able to leave this facility. But we will do our best to help her.
    Clark Kent, who has been Lana's friend from early childhood, appeared nervous, and refused to comment on her condition.
    Here's an interesting bit on what Lana Lang was like in the comic books.]]>
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    Game Camp USA - "Isaacing" http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=499 Sun, 02 Sep 2007 00:29:04 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=499 Game Camp USA, which has been operated for a number of years by our friends Phil Luchon and Steve Deyesso and their staff, originally under the name of "Camp Turing."

    David and Isaac were among the first students to test a new curriculum designed for younger students. They developed games using the GameMaker software, which allows sprite-based games to be created using a relatively simple properties-panel-driven model. (Game Maker also features its own scripting language, and the ability to do more advanced things, even as much as a 3D FPS game.) Game Camp also offers courses in game programming using C++ (which will probably be switched to Java next year), and 3D modeling and animation using AutoDesk's Maya. Each student gets his own computer to work and play on all day. Attendees also have some non-computer time to play board games and enjoy meals. Still, this was more of a "Geek Heaven" kind of place than one might be expecting in a summer camp. (I wonder if any of the children noticed that the conference room the hotel gave them didn't have any windows.)


    Isaac and David Outside the Conference Center used by Game Camp USA for their Waltham, Ma., sessions.

    Both weasels enjoyed camp immensely, and readily learned to create and debug games. They were up before I was every morning, and I let them stay late almost every night to participate in the network gaming tournaments that the camp runs at the end of the day. David got so tired one day that he fell asleep in the car in the morning, and then on the couch in seconds when we got home, sleeping there nearly 12 hours through the night.


    Isaac and David with Game Camp USA staff members Chris, Steve, and Joy.

    We Have a Weiner Winner! The game tournament is open to all camp attendees, whether they stay overnight or not. To keep things balanced among different types of games, they played FPS games (Halo and Call of Duty), RTS games (StarCraft and Command & Conquer 3), and Motocross Madness 2. Scores were kept all week, and the winner each week got a $50 gift certificate to Best Buy. Of course that meant that Isaac and David were staying until 8:30 every night, but I figured it was worth the effort for two weeks. Isaac came in first the first week, despite my dragging him out early one night. During the second week, he was leading by 100% of the second-place person's score. Steve decided that dominating by that much for two weeks in a row would be called "Isaacing."


    Isaac with the huge Lego set he purchased, #7662 Trade Federation MTT

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    Shiver Me Timbers! Talk Like a Pirate Day Is Here Again! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=500 Wed, 19 Sep 2007 14:59:04 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=500 'Twas A grand, glorious day when I awoke. “Wench!” demanded I, “Where be me mornin’ grog?” But then I learned a right powerful lesson: Be not calling a fair lass a “wench,” if’n she be stronger than thee. Painfully quick the lesson was, and quickly painful. I woke me offspring up this mornin' by yellin', "Avast, ye good for nothing lazy swabs! Get out of those bunks 'fore I have ye keelhauled!" Arrrrrrr! We had a great time talking like pirates on the way to school, and David tried to convince me that, as it was a holiday, he had the day off. I changed the words to our usual Geek song fare, "Can't you see I'm white and piratey?" and "That Be the Power of Love." See last year's post here. Reuters covered it with this article.]]> 500 2007-09-19 09:59:04 2007-09-19 14:59:04 open closed shiver-me-timbers-talk-like-a-pirate-day-is-here-again publish 0 0 post 0 67739 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-09-20 10:55:38 2007-09-20 15:55:38 1 0 2 67497 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-09-19 10:15:04 2007-09-19 15:15:04 1 0 2 67495 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.163.5 2007-09-19 10:09:13 2007-09-19 15:09:13 1 0 0 Amazing Dental Technology http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=501 Thu, 20 Sep 2007 21:36:27 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=501 my dentist at 8:00 a.m. to have a crown done. They use a CEREC system, and I was amazed by the technology. They shot me up with Novocaine, got rid of the old filling and ground down the disintegrating part of the molar. Then they use an IR imager to get a 3D image of the tooth that remains, and match---in beautifully animated 3D---the crown that will be milled to the base that remains, using the tooth outline against a database of about 500 3D teeth to get one that looks natural. (See the video above. It's jaw-dropping.) The dentist then can adjust this using a mouse and 3D view. They pick a tint that matches the rest of your teeth, throw a block of dental material in a tiny, computerized milling machine, and in 11 to 22 minutes, the crown is done. This gets molecularly bonded (rather than just cemented) to the original tooth surface, and voila---essentially a new tooth, in less time than it takes the Novocaine to wear off. I was out and on my way again at 9:20. ]]> 501 2007-09-20 16:36:27 2007-09-20 21:36:27 open closed amazing-dental-technology publish 0 0 post 0 67968 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-09-21 08:28:53 2007-09-21 13:28:53 almost want to need this done. Almost!]]> 1 0 0 67825 lizmom@comcast.net 76.24.103.143 2007-09-20 19:13:44 2007-09-21 00:13:44 1 0 0 74960 clr257@juno.com 70.89.73.189 2007-10-26 13:41:33 2007-10-26 18:41:33 1 0 0 NaNi the Brain Surgeon http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=502 Thu, 20 Sep 2007 22:03:37 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=502

    Last week we were visiting the McGrath family, and they (as usual) offered the kids some food. NaNi was eating a bread roll, and said, "Dad, we can cut open your head, and put this inside, and glue it back together, and you'll act all crazy. Then when you're done acting crazy, we can cut your head open again, and put your regular brain back in, and glue it back together again." A week before that, she said, "Dad, I can't take my head off, because my blood is sticky---just like glue---and it holds it on." What a kid. Oh, she also is crazy about dresses. Two weeks ago she slyly pronounced, "Dad, if you buy me a twirley Cinderella dress, I am soooo letting you take me to the ball."]]>
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    This Probably Comes as a Suprise to None of You http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=503 Fri, 21 Sep 2007 17:18:22 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=503
    From http://www.myspace.com/LegoDoug---my MySpace page.

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    John Piper on the "Prosperity Gospel" http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=504 Tue, 25 Sep 2007 13:56:23 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=504

    I was directed to this item over on Rick Harrington's BLOG by Erik DiVietro. The "health and wealth" movement is an affront to Christianity, but one that (in various degrees) has pervaded our Christian culture. We all tend to assume, unless we actively fight it, that the wealthy (especially wealthy believers) have some special blessing from God. But televangelists and false preachers have spread the message of "God wants everyone rich," around the world, to the detriment of Christ's cause. Piper really nails my opinion of this false gospel.]]>
    504 2007-09-25 08:56:23 2007-09-25 13:56:23 open closed john-piper-on-the-prosperity-gospel publish 0 0 post 0 69246 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-09-28 08:35:03 2007-09-28 13:35:03 Tom in the Box is, "Sickness, Poverty and Hardship Gospel Not Catching On."]]> 1 0 2 68829 edivietro@comcast.net 76.118.17.1 2007-09-25 22:00:14 2007-09-26 03:00:14 1 0 0 69100 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-09-27 12:55:12 2007-09-27 17:55:12 Way of the Master Radio a few times. Very powerful stuff! Piper is spot on! Todd Friel has said that if a "gospel" doesn't work on death row, then it's not the true biblical gospel. Does "God wants you to be healthy and wealthy" work with a man heading to the electric chair? Of course not! But you know what does... we are sinners deserving of damnation. We have broken God's laws. He is just to send us to Hell and He has appointed a day when He will judge the world in righteousness. Repent and put your faith in Christ, and He will forgive you of your sins and reconcile you to Himself. That works in Africa, on death row, with the downtrodden, and with those who already are healthy and wealthy. I thank God for people like John Piper who tell it like it is,and I thank God for you, Doug, for posting this!]]> 1 0 0 68953 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-09-26 16:26:28 2007-09-26 21:26:28 was good---although it was painful to learn to believe it---when Nichelle, love of my life, was in constant agony and life was unbearably difficult in virtually every way. He is still good when our worst problem is finding enough time in the day to accomplish all that is on our list.
    When "... you say, through the deepest possible pain, God is good. He is good; He will take care of us; He will get us through; He is our treasure ... that makes God look glorious."
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    Random Webness http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=505 Thu, 27 Sep 2007 17:21:23 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=505
  • From Wired online, take a look at "Soldier of the Future Gets His Gear On," about the Army's Land Warrior program, bringing networked technology to the level of the individual soldier.
  • Surprisingly, the evil Venezuelan dictator Hugo Chavez and I now have something on which we agree.
  • Here's one reason polygamy may not be such a good idea (rated PG).
  • Excel 2007 has a little problem with multiplication accuracy. Can you believe it? "In exactly 12 instances out of the nine quintillion possibilities it goes completely bonkers." MSDN has some more details here.
  • Might we actually get to Mars in a week? All we need to do is place "the laser medium within a resonant optical cavity between two platforms to produce a very stable and reliable thrust." Duh!
  • Google's Blogger Play is addicting.
  • Dang, this giant flying X-Wing model is amazing.
  • And, the video below was uploaded at relatively poor video quality, but it's a great piece of Lego animation.
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    Dreams of Death---Nichelle Style http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=506 Wed, 03 Oct 2007 02:03:05 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=506

    A couple of weeks ago, Nichelle had a dream about weight lifting. In the dream, she was doing bench presses, and having a great time. A friend came up to her with a concerned look, and said, "Uh, Nichelle, you're ... dead." Nichelle responded, "You mean, I'm dead, and I can still do this? That's awesome!"]]>
    506 2007-10-02 21:03:05 2007-10-03 02:03:05 open closed dreams-of-death-nichelle-style publish 0 0 post 0 70278 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2007-10-03 05:27:11 2007-10-03 10:27:11 The Muppet Movie:
    Gonzo: "Well, I wanna go to Bombay, India and become a movie star." Fozzie: "You don't go to Bombay to become a movie star. You go where we're going--Hollywood!" Gonzo: "Sure, if you wanna do it the easy way." Fozzie: "We picked up a weirdo."
    Nichelle, you're a weirdo! But in a nice, Gonzo the Muppet kind of way. :)]]>
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    Shootin' with the Brethren http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=507 Wed, 03 Oct 2007 13:38:52 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=507 our church's extremely informal, annual skeet shoot. (I know not all churches go shooting together, and one certainly won't find the Apostle Paul writing about it, but we do, after all, live in New Hampshire.)

    Neither Nichelle nor I hit any of the clay pigeons with our 12-gauges. Phil nicked one or two, but didn't really fare much better than we. Isaac, however, managed to nail three of them (putting him in 5th place for the day), with a more-his-size 410. We also did some handgun shooting. I found that to be highly invigorating. (Translation: "Quite the rush!") Target shooting is also a little easier than skeet shooting, so doing that last helped rebuild my shattered ego after being trounced by Isaac.]]>
    507 2007-10-03 08:38:52 2007-10-03 13:38:52 open closed shootin-with-the-brethren publish 0 0 post 0 70390 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.10 2007-10-04 04:23:34 2007-10-04 09:23:34 1 0 0 70423 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-10-04 10:41:28 2007-10-04 15:41:28 1 0 0 70288 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.163.5 2007-10-03 09:42:09 2007-10-03 14:42:09 Star Wars Episode IV: A New Hope).]]> 1 0 0 70289 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-10-03 09:48:34 2007-10-03 14:48:34 1 0 2 70290 edivietro@comcast.net 76.118.17.1 2007-10-03 09:58:06 2007-10-03 14:58:06 From Follow Jesus!]]> 1 0 0 70713 mike_matheson@juno.com 71.75.138.54 2007-10-05 22:17:49 2007-10-06 03:17:49 1 0 0 76742 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-11-09 09:29:13 2007-11-09 14:29:13 atop the stump; those I hit.]]> 1 0 2
    Skvid Number One http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=509 Tue, 06 Nov 2007 18:59:52 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=509 Skvid = SKit on VIDeo Last week our pastor asked me to put together a video skit to help illustrate a sermon in a series of lessons on stewardship: What happens when we overwhelm ourselves with choices and activities? Of course, it also illustrates beautifully the quirkiness of the Wilcox family. I did the video in Windows Movie Maker, a free download for Windows XP. I had to overcome a quirk that kept locking the software up, discovering that previewing clips in the preview window wouldn't work correctly, unless I dragged the clips to the timeline first. I can't explain that, but wish I'd found the answer hours earlier. Movie Maker isn't bad, but I need something that will let me treat the audio track from the video separately, as well as add more audio layers. The film was shot entirely out of sequence, in order to meet the availability schedule of the actors (my kids), over the course of a very busy Saturday. The Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back clip was created by shooting our own HDTV, the quickest way I could think of to get the piece I needed. Background music includes Ella Fitzgerald's, "I'm Beginning to See the Light," and the title theme from Back to the Future. Overall, it's a tad too long at just over 6 minutes (the goal was 5 minutes), and I never got around to including any video transitions. I may tweak it a bit in the next few days, especially if I try out a more advanced software package, and hope to get it down to 4 to 4.5 minutes. I recall seeing George Lucas talking about an old filmmaker adage, "Films are never finished, just abandoned," and how he had the technology (and money) to keep going back to his films to finish them the way he wanted.]]> 509 2007-11-06 13:59:52 2007-11-06 18:59:52 open closed skvid-number-one publish 0 0 post 0 77203 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2007-11-16 06:21:49 2007-11-16 11:21:49 actually meant was "I was laughing so hard that water spouted out of my nose."]]> 1 0 0 77202 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2007-11-16 06:20:23 2007-11-16 11:20:23 1 0 0 76755 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-11-09 15:17:09 2007-11-09 20:17:09 Wow! I am overwhelmed by the quality of this video, especially considering it's your first production. Not only that, I was laughing so hard that coffee spouted out of my nose, and the lesson illustrated in the video is unforgettable. Truly, you are a master of all things video, and I am burning my own video equipment out of sheer envy.]]> 1 0 2 76751 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2007-11-09 13:26:05 2007-11-09 18:26:05 1 0 0 A Wedding Like No Other http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=510 Wed, 07 Nov 2007 02:40:01 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=510 Or, "A Match Made Where?" Way back in October, Nichelle and I traveled to Florida for my brother Paul's wedding. There's much I could say here, like how Paul had to wear makeup after opening the truck door into his forehead, or how they "accidentally" played the Imperial March as they walked down the aisle together at the end of the ceremony.

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    510 2007-11-06 21:40:01 2007-11-07 02:40:01 open closed a-wedding-like-no-other-a-match-made-where publish 0 0 post 0 76704 lizmom@comcast.net 76.24.84.45 2007-11-08 19:50:01 2007-11-09 00:50:01 1 0 0 76534 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.10 2007-11-07 10:46:08 2007-11-07 15:46:08 1 0 0 76525 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2007-11-07 09:49:56 2007-11-07 14:49:56 Firefly nor Serenity.]]> 1 0 0 76514 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.77.44 2007-11-07 07:30:24 2007-11-07 12:30:24 Serenity, the starship featured in the Firefly television program and the later film, Serentiy. See Wash and Zoe entries on the Firefly Wiki.]]> 1 0 2 76463 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2007-11-06 22:33:00 2007-11-07 03:33:00 1 0 0 76584 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.10 2007-11-07 20:26:21 2007-11-08 01:26:21 1 0 0 76650 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-11-08 11:43:30 2007-11-08 16:43:30 Serenity, which sometimes involves just sitting at the console waiting for things to happen. If Zoe isn't around, he often plays with dinosaurs. You can watch Wash's dinosaur dialog from the "Firefly" pilot epsisode here on YouTube, or just read it here:
    [Wash, playing with plastic dinosaurs.] Wash's Stegosaurus: Yes. Yes, this is a fertile land, and we will thrive. We will rule over all this land, and we will call it... "This Land." Wash's Allosaurus: I think we should call it "your grave!" Stegosaurus: Ah, curse your sudden but inevitable betrayal! Allosaurus: Har har har! Mine is an evil laugh! Now die! Stegosaurus: Oh, no, God! Oh, dear God in heaven!
    The fascinating characters and amazing dialog are what make the show special. This is why many proclaim (in tribute to its creator), "Joss Whedon is My Master Now."]]>
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    76549 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-11-07 14:17:23 2007-11-07 19:17:23 Serenity:

    And another of Wash and Zoe on the planet Persephone:

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    One Mile, Baby! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=511 Fri, 16 Nov 2007 03:39:52 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=511
    This is pretty much how I felt after finally completing a mile without stopping.

    Previously my best distance before walking (and then resuming the run after I caught my breath) was only about seven tenths of a mile. Whew! Hope I can make it again tomorrow. ]]>
    511 2007-11-15 22:39:52 2007-11-16 03:39:52 open closed one-mile-baby publish 0 0 post 0 77201 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2007-11-16 06:18:42 2007-11-16 11:18:42 Calvin and Hobbes cartoon! :)]]> 1 0 0 78975 sharizmail@yahoo.com 76.118.18.240 2007-12-03 15:52:22 2007-12-03 20:52:22 1 0 0 79517 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-12-05 15:29:04 2007-12-05 20:29:04 hadn't run for two days! I don't ever expect to be wild about running long distances, but continue to improve my time. Maybe in the spring I'll enter a 5K or something. As to those out of shape like me: Don't give up. I had not run more than 0.4 miles since high school, and when I started I could only do about 0.1 miles without being ready to die. (This is after much Tae-Bo and weight training.) Start off slow. Do weight training and other cardio as many days as you can, but realize that it will take about two months before it seems like anything is improving.]]> 1 0 2 80820 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-12-10 18:22:54 2007-12-10 23:22:54 Two Miles, Baby! I made two miles on Saturday! And again today! Now I have to work on getting up early enough to complete two miles. Ugh. I don't intend to push myself further than two miles, except maybe once a week.]]> 1 0 2 81124 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.77.44 2007-12-11 12:03:22 2007-12-11 17:03:22 1 0 3 81157 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-12-11 14:42:27 2007-12-11 19:42:27 And the Numbers Are In (and Not Bad) Today marked my first doctor's appointment after starting a real fitness training program, with the help of Nichelle (encouragement) and Phil (harassment). My blood sugar numbers, which have always been terrible (as in prediabetic) were perfect! Lipids were better, too: Good cholesterol was up significantly. I have never had good blood sugar numbers, so this is wonderful news. Bad cholesterol, however, remains a problem. This may be hereditary, but the jury is still out. My current task is to drop to an 1,800-calorie diet, and lose 10 pounds in the next 3 months. (Followed by another 10 by my next appointment.) If that doesn't improve the cholesterol levels, then I get to absolutely claim bad heredity, and will probably need to take cholesterol medication. The doctor (nurse practitioner, really)---our much-liked Celine Fortin---was very pleased with the progress. And so am I!]]> 1 0 2 86535 celinem410@gmail.com 66.31.70.173 2008-01-05 19:41:19 2008-01-06 00:41:19 1 0 0 91021 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-01-21 10:56:04 2008-01-21 15:56:04 1 0 2
    The Jerks Always Win http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=512 Mon, 26 Nov 2007 22:23:34 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=512 effects of sexual abuse. I have read over a dozen books on the topic, attended trials and hearings, evaluated cases in the media, communicated with subject matter experts, and supported and interviewed survivors. The bottom line is, as Anna Salter wrote, "Child sexual abuse was like getting bitten by a rattlesnake: Some kids recovered completely, and some didn't, but it wasn't good for anybody." On the whole---unlike 20 years ago---our society is beginning to "get it" in regard to sexual abuse. Popular knowledge is now cognizant of the need to expose its occurrences, protect its survivors, and punish and forever monitor the offenders. Sadly, the balance still favors the offender. Most are never caught; even those who are prosecuted often reach that stage only after permanently damaging numerous innocents. The jerks always win. But there is another type of abuse, typically (but not exclusively) perpetrated by males against females, that we often gloss over: Verbal and emotional abuse. There was a lot I did not understand about sexual abuse, due to my own ignorance---I could not fathom, for example, why Celie did not simply run away to escape her abusive husband when I read The Color Purple ages ago. Of course, now I know that her sexual abuse as a child played a large part in this, and that certain types of abusive behavior will nearly always produce certain types of behavioral results, such as remaining with or returning to the abuser. Whether this can be explained rationally is irrelevant; the causative facts remain both evident and consistent. There is a lot I do not understand about verbal or emotional abuse. Why would one continually mistreat a woman with whom he shares a social or even romantic connection? Why would anyone continually belittle her accomplishments, describe her as worthless or stupid, scream profanities at her, become angry at her without provocation, or limit her financial and personal freedom? Why take something beautiful and damage it, making it less valuable? Why tarnish God's most beautiful and intricate creation, rather than polishing it for all the world to see? We'd like to think this happens only in our underclasses, but that is hardly the case. One account conveyed to me by a friend was of a woman who was a published biological research scientist, with a doctorate. This didn't protect her from her boyfriend whose constant belittlement convinced her that she was of no value. This happens far more than we realize. I confess, I simply do not understand verbal or emotional abuse. I absolutely cannot understand why someone would mistreat any woman, especially one entrusted into one's care. I know what the advice is to those in an abusive situation: "Get out immediately"; but few will be able to heed that. I often wonder why women seem to be so predictably malleable under such abuse, but perhaps this is why the Apostle Peter referred to wives as "the weaker vessel," and commanded husbands to honor them and be understanding. I see that I need to improve my knowledge deficit, just as I studied sexual abuse. In the mean time, I'm going to keep polishing.]]> 512 2007-11-26 17:23:34 2007-11-26 22:23:34 open open the-jerks-always-win publish 0 0 post 0 78060 foolishwench@hotmail.com 70.127.125.10 2007-11-28 06:38:59 2007-11-28 11:38:59 1 0 0 80349 edivietro@comcast.net http://pastorerik.wordpress.com 155.212.165.139 2007-12-07 13:17:05 2007-12-07 18:17:05 1 0 0 79521 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2007-12-05 15:42:27 2007-12-05 20:42:27 Every type of abuse really ticks me off. I mean, really, really ticks me off. I hate the injustice of the damage done to the survivors and the lack of empathy the abusers have. Grrrrrrr. I need to go code something. My first book came in: The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond, by Patricia Evans. From the back cover:
    • Does your partner seem irritated or angry at you several times a week?
    • Does he deny being angry when he clearly is?
    • Do your attempts to discuss feelings of pain or emotional distress leave you with the feeling tha tthe issues has not been resolved?
    • Do you frequently feel perplexed and frustrated by his responses, as though you were each speaking a different language?
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    Erik DiVietro IS Jack Ryan http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=513 Wed, 05 Dec 2007 20:34:00 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=513 Erik DiVietro posted this via his MySpace page. As I hate MySpace, and loved this, he gave me permission to cross-post it here. Erik treated one of those inane e-mail surveys as if he were Jack Ryan, the protagonist in most of Tom Clancy's novels. (Also, I should note that, just like Erik, I've read all of Clancy's novels. Clancy peaked with The Sum of All Fears---avoid the movie, though---and really hasn't done remotely as well since.)
    I completed this entire survey as Jack Ryan, of the Tom Clancy novels. It is disturbing that I retain this much information about a fictional character, and more so that I do it about MANY fictional characters. 1. If you were to kill a man, horror movie style, which kitchen utensil would you use?
    Horror movie style, eh? That's a tough one. I had an Ayatollah killed by sending in the B-2 bomber with a bunker buster. 2. Did you ever swallow a coin?
    No, but I did buy a helicopter once. 3. What was the worst gift you've ever received?
    That moron Tom Clancy ruined my legacy by writing Teeth of the Tiger 4. What is your most embarrassing childhood memory?
    That my father almost arrested John Clark 5. How many kids do you want?
    I have four. For some reason, every time my wife and I slept together in another country or in a time of international crisis, she got pregnant again. 6. What's your moms middle name?
    She didn't have one, but her maiden name was Burke 7. Have you ever operated a fire extinguisher?
    In ways the manufacturer never contemplated. 8. What did you eat for breakfast?
    I skip breakfast a lot, and Kathy is always getting on my case about it. 9. who do you hate?
    Used to communists, then the Japanese and then the Asian-financed terrorists. Oh, and bureaucrats. MAN do I hate them! 10. what do you hope to have accomplished by the end of this year?
    When you're Jack Ryan - there is nothing left to do. I made millions on the stock market; I wrote books; I was a Marine; I've been head of the CIA, Vice-President and President. SHOOT...I single-handedly brought peace to Jerusalem. I stole an entire ballistic missile submarine from the Russians AND forced the head of the GRU to defect! There's nothing I haven't done. 11. do you have any reallllly crazy relatives?
    Apparently, I have two twin psychotic nephews. My daughter is a little strange as well. 12. Did you ever wake up under the influence of NyQuil, completely unable to move?
    I was addicted to painkillers after I almost broke my back, and had a drinking problem that forced me out of government service for awhile. 13. Are you feeling nostalgic right now?
    I'm a former president of the USA, of course. 14. Did you own a Lite-Brite?
    My grandkids do; but it is nothing compared to the NSA command center. 15. Can you dive?
    In a wetsuit? No. I'm a terrible swimmer; but I did operate the dive planes of the Red October under Captain Marco Ramius 16. Do you own a mouthpiece for anything?
    Not really. 18. Have you ever used a pogo stick?
    Is that anything like a 9MM handgun? Or explosives? 19. Who was the most creative bum you've ever met, trying to get some money from you?
    Probably Ed Kealty. 20. What's your favorite Jelly Belly jelly bean flavor?
    Can of INTERNATIONAL WHOOPIN'. That's a flavor, right? 21. favorite food you CRAVE?
    I love my wife's cooking. Of course, every time she makes a special meal, people seem to try to kill us. 22. When was the last time you pulled lint out of your bellybutton?
    What do I look like? A democrat? 23. Did you ever use someone else's toothbrush?
    There was this crisis where the president thought the Russians were launching nukes at us, but it turned out to be a BIG misunderstanding. But I stayed up for like 3 weeks without sleeping, so I probably did. 24. Do you REALLY floss everyday?
    Of course. I'm a Georgetown alumnus. 25. what is your favorite cologne/perfume you always wear?
    Cologne is for men who haven't killed Irish terrorists with their own hands. 26. If you were on Double Dare, would you take the physical challenge?
    Look. I've been dropped from helicopters onto submarines in storms; I've been shot at by drug czars; and I was there when a crazy Japanese pilot flew a 747 into the Capitol building. My wife and I survived nuclear blasts AND two different version of the Ebola virus. You got nothing on me. 27. What's the largest living organism that you killed?
    Shoot. I've killed so many things. Probably my father-in-law's ego. 28. Did you ever take a lighting bug and smear its guts on your arm so you get a cool glowing effect like war paint?
    Who writes these stupid questions? 29. What's the best toy you've ever gotten in a McDonalds happy meal?
    an armored limousine Hot Wheel 30. if you could be anywhere in the world doing anything right now what would it be?
    Back in the Oval Office, ordering Clark and Ding to take care of people. 31. Can you juggle?
    HELLO! Fearless leader of the free world here! 32. how do you feel right now?
    nostalgic, see 13 above. 33. Do you remember that square candy bar called "Chunky"?
    I do. Ate many a Chunky bar out of the CIA vending machines. 34. Predict the length of the next Peter Jackson movie.
    Longer than Bear and the Dragon felt but somewhat shorter than Executive Orders actually was. 35. What was your favorite toy as a kid?
    G.I. Joes. 36. Are you willing to go the distance?
    That's one heck of a question to ask me. How many of you have even TRIED to read all my books? 37. Did you answer question 17?
    How could I? It was stolen by Arab terrorists bent on bringing down the free world through Internet hacking.
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    Gospel http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=514 Mon, 17 Dec 2007 15:22:46 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=514 "We acted badly, badly, until they brought us God's carvings. Then, seeing His carvings and following His good trail, now we live happily and in peace."

    ---Mincaye

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    $40 for an Interactive Touchsuface? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=515 Wed, 19 Dec 2007 15:49:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=515 Slashdot today. Johnny Lee has developed a system to turn virtually any surface or display into a pen-interactive "touch" surface. The video below shows how cool this is. Take a look at Johhny Lee's other Wii Remote projects! While I'm on the subject of hardware, I wouldn't normally be remotely tempted to pay $800 or more for a computer keyboard, but these steampunk keyboards are masterpieces. And wait 'till you see the laptop.]]> 515 2007-12-19 10:49:16 2007-12-19 15:49:16 open closed 40-for-an-interactive-touchsuface publish 0 0 post 0 82287 phil.luchon@gmail.com 24.147.77.44 2007-12-19 15:46:58 2007-12-19 20:46:58 1 0 0 82295 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.77.44 2007-12-19 16:51:35 2007-12-19 21:51:35 1 0 2 82658 pablo_willie@hotmail.com http://www.myspace.com/scoutpack370 70.127.122.4 2007-12-21 16:45:31 2007-12-21 21:45:31 1 0 0 85925 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-01-02 11:16:56 2008-01-02 16:16:56 1 0 2 2008: Year of the Nerd http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=517 Wed, 02 Jan 2008 15:52:20 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=517 Heritage Baptist Church. In addition to "praying in" the new year, we also spent several hours playing board games and doing improv skits. Lynn B., our great game organizer, ran a Family Feud session, which was quite fun, although at first we demonstrated our vast lack of knowledge in how this particular game show operated. Once it got going, the competition was fierce. I loved the fact that all the kids were involved as well. David was interviewed by me in one of the skits as an eyewitness to the events of "The Ugly Duckling"; in his version he ran over the Ugly Duckling with his car! Tom H. brought a snowball inside, which ended up recycled a number of times by being thrown or dropped down the back of people's shirts. Pastor Erik told people (not necessarily children) not to run about 4,328 times. Phil L. and David E. carried Isaac outside a couple of times and threw him in a snowbank. Afterward we went home and let the kids stay up as long as they wanted, as is our tradition on New Year's. NaNi didn't make it much after 1:00. David was up until about 4:30. Isaac stayed awake until 6:40 p.m. on the first. We woke him up for dinner, and trounced him at Halo 3, which is extremely unusual, but shows how drastically sleep deprivation can affect performance and critical skills. Late afternoon on the first, we were in the process of getting ready to go see Enchanted, when David came in calling, "It stings! It stings!" I thought he'd hurt or frozen his hands, until he pointed to his head. Isaac had accidentally hit him across the eyebrow with a snow shovel, splitting the skin open quite deeply, so we went to the emergency department at SNHMC instead of to the movies. (The physician's office had just closed.) David was very worried about stitches, but got to have his skin superglued together instead. While David and I waited, and waited, and waited in the waiting room, Nichelle was at home making beef enchiladas, our last bit of holiday eating-too-much-for-our-own-good. Welcome, 2008!]]> 517 2008-01-02 10:52:20 2008-01-02 15:52:20 open closed 2008-year-of-the-nerd publish 0 0 post 0 86207 phil.luchon@gmail.com 24.147.77.44 2008-01-03 19:30:16 2008-01-04 00:30:16 1 0 0 95876 trish@inr.net 75.68.88.184 2008-02-12 16:19:51 2008-02-12 21:19:51 1 0 0 95878 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-02-12 16:29:44 2008-02-12 21:29:44 could not watch it. I had to put my hands over my eyes like this," as she covered her face.]]> 1 0 2 Hacking (Literally) the Xbox 360 for HDMI with Optical Digital Audio http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=518 Thu, 14 Feb 2008 13:58:27 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=518 like Microsoft. Microsoft, for example, brought affordable computer networks to the masses, dramatically improving productivity (and gaming). Vista, like Windows ME before it, is a complete pile of very unpleasant substances, but in the meantime we have Windows XP, the best Windows-based operating system to ever grace the planet. (Now, don't get all tech-bashy on me; I like the look of OS X as well, use Linux systems on occasion, and program in Java.) However, in a capitalist society, caveat emptor is still worthy of being heeded. Such is the case with the newer Xbox 360s and HDMI output that uses digital optical for audio. In a perfect world, one wouldn't need to output both digital audio and HDMI. HDMI includes digital audio output. One would just plug the HDMI cable into a receiver, run the receiver HDMI output to the television, and the receiver would take care of everything, including the video switching. Sadly, such a perfect world requires far more pictures of dead Presidents than I am willing to part with, especially since it would involve replacing a receiver that I am very happy with.


    Xbox 360 back panel, showing the A/V port and HDMI port.

    The standard Microsoft Xbox 360 currently ships with a component video cable for HDTV or standard TV that also outputs surround-separated stereo. That cable also has a plug for digital optical audio output, which is ideal. Unfortunately, if one plugs in the supplied cable, due to its size and shape it completely covers the HDMI port on the 360, which precludes using HDMI for video at the same time as optical 5.1 Dolby Digital. (Note that some older 360s do not have an on-board HDMI port, but that any recently purchased one should.)

    Enter the product pictured above. This $45 item is designed to provide the ability to output both HDMI and digital optical out simultaneously. Problem solved! Beautiful, isn't it? It would be, if it weren't a case of manipulative engineering. (I am reminded of an old "Monkees" episode, in which a computer designs toys to break almost immediately, so parents will enrich the toy company by continually buying replacements.) If both an HDMI and the A/V cable could be plugged in simultaneously, there would be no need for this extra cable.


    A little work with a hack saw, and a consumer can easily save $45 or more.

    Enter the hack saw, and a pair of needle-nosed pliers. (A better way to do this would be to use a Dremel tool, but I do not happen to own one.) By carefully cutting into and removing the plastic on the Xbox 360's included adapter, one can easily make enough room to plug in an HDMI cable. It will be a snug fit, but it should work without any difficulty. Embedded in the A/V cable's plastic body is a metal shield that protects the connector and helps eliminate electromagnetic interference. Although it is acceptable to scratch it, be careful not to cut through it. Also watch out for the cord itself. The picture above should provide all the guidance you need. As one might expect, there's always the slight risk that you'll damage the A/V cable while cutting it, in which case, you're going to be spending that $45 anyway. Hey, I told you to be careful. Enjoy.]]>
    518 2008-02-14 08:58:27 2008-02-14 13:58:27 open closed hacking-literally-the-xbox-360-for-hdmi-with-optical-digital-audio publish 0 0 post 0 96342 jackiesblog@yahoo.com http://www.jackie-happywife.blogspot.com 200.61.226.190 2008-02-16 07:05:31 2008-02-16 12:05:31 1 0 0 97688 summitsp@hotmail.com 12.16.102.175 2008-02-26 17:22:04 2008-02-26 22:22:04 1 0 0 98463 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-02-29 08:07:32 2008-02-29 13:07:32 1 0 0 120500 w30@kitsunegari.net 80.57.97.194 2008-11-14 08:47:36 2008-11-14 13:47:36 1 0 0 120503 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2008-11-18 17:53:24 2008-11-18 22:53:24 1 0 2 123357 hockey_player19@hotmail.com 134.129.12.126 2010-09-08 09:43:17 2010-09-08 14:43:17 1 0 0
    Censoring Crysis - Defeating the Potty Mouth http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=519 Sun, 06 Jan 2008 21:17:29 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=519 I promised you all I'd keep you updated on my clean-up progress. While I was procrastinating, another group of guys got together and blasted through the work in a manner to which only teens fueled by pizza and soda can accomplish. I've actually tried their patches, and they seem to work well, making playing Crysis with the volume it deserves a much less cringy experience. I'd recommend heading over to http://www.gamesoap.net. If their files give you any problems, just send me (or them) an e-mail. (Mine is {myfirstname}@wilcoxfamily.net.) Thanks, guys from GameSoap. (And I'd add Company of Heroes to my wishlist for cleaned up games. I've looked into it, and even know how to edit the files; putting them back into the game is what I never finished.) Blessings to you all. Crysis rules!


    This in-game screen shot shows some of the visuals that make Crysis so amazing.

    Crysis is, without a doubt, completely deserving of the 98% score awarded to it by PC Gamer. Crytek built so well upon the immersive environment and storytelling that they had nearly perfected in Far Cry, that my kids and I have spent hours playing it, wearing out the demo mission, and then losing our lives for several weeks when the full version arrived.

    Unfortunately, it has one small problem beyond the currently high hardware requirements. True to its military nature, the characters suffer from a severe case of potty-mouth. This really wasn't acceptable to me, and Crytek didn't provide a language filter or switch, so I decided to do something about it. And now you can, too! Are you as smart as my kids? There are a few assumptions here. I assume that you are reasonably proficient in a windows file system, and can do basic things like rename files, work with compressed folders (Zip archives), and know the difference between a file and folder. Finding your starting point First, find your Crysis folder. It's probably c:\Program Files\Electronic Arts\Crytek\Crysis. Then drop down to Game\Localized. Showing file extensions ... step one toward becoming a power-user For the folders in which we will be working, you will want to show file extensions for known file types via the Folder ... Options dialog (see image below), unchecking the box marked "Hide file extensions for known file types."


    This is how to show those oh-so-useful file extensions.

    Begin by making a backup The english.pak file is the one you're going to extract and modify, so we'll make a backup of it first. Copy the english.pak file, and name the copy english.pak.original. You should end up with something like this:

    The key here is, that the english.pak file is really just a pkZip-compatible archive with a different name. We can, using the wonders of Windows XP, extract it, modify its contents, and repackage it. (We could directly modify its contents just like any other folder, but there would be delays while the operating system uncompresses files that would soon become frustrating.) Rename your english.pak file to english.pak.censored.zip. Extraction Right-click on english.pak.censored.zip, and choose Extract All ... from the context menu, which will open the Extraction Wizard. Click Next several times, watch the Extracting ... meter for a bit, and you'll be ready for the next step. Clearing the read-only attributes To avoid possible repeated annoyances, you need to clear any read-only attributes on the exacted files. Right click on the newly-created extracted folder (which should be named english.pak.censored), and choose Properties. Click on the box marked Read-only until it is empty, and click OK. At the prompt that appears, choose Apply changes to this folder, subfolders and files. This will allow you to do the renaming or editing you need, without having to answer 7,439 prompts.


    Clearing the read-only attribute for a bunch of files.

    In the newly-created extracted folder (which should be named english.pak.censored), open up the Languages folder, then the dialog folder. From here you are going to have to search for text within files. Ah, but wait! Windows XP, by default, won't find text within files that don't have file types it knows about. So, you're going to have to tweak your system in one more way to find what we need within the .fsq files (to be explained momentarily) that Crysis uses. Fixing the darned Find Text within Files feature in Windows XP Find your My Computer icon, right-click on it, and choose Manage. In the Computer Management console, click the plus sign next to Services and Applications, and then right-click on Indexing Service and choose Properties. (We won't actually be activating the CPU-wasting Indexing Service, but the setting to fix the Find Text within Files feature is part of that service.) Be sure the box marked Index files with unknown extensions has a check mark in it, click OK, and then close the Computer Management console. (See the image below.)


    Fixing the Find Text within Files feature in Windows XP.

    Search and destroy the #!%#!$#!@$ bad language Now we can find and eliminate any language you might find offensive. You should have a folder open to something like english.pak\Languages\dialog. Press F3 or click the Search button at the top of the window to open the Search Companion. Click All Files or Folders, and enter *.fsq in the All or part of the file name: box, and the word you want to eliminate from the dialog in the A word or phrase in the file: box. In the example pictured below, I've entered nomad, which can hardly be considered profane, but you get the idea.


    Personally, I hate the silly dog, and have hacked my account with TweakUI so it doesn't show up. This screen shot is from my youngest son's account.

    Click Search Now to start the search. It will take a few moments to find the files for which you are looking, but you can start with the first one it finds. You will know the search is complete when the Search Now button becomes active again. Right-click on the first file in the list, and choose Open Containing Folder. That will open the folder containing that file, and highlight the file, as shown below.

    In my example, greets_02.fsq is highlighted. It isn't necessary to do so, but you can open the file and view it if you like. (Windows will ask you how you want to open it. Tell it to Select the program from a list, and have it opened in Notepad or WordPad.) The .fsq files actually contain the XML that drives the facial animation when the in-game characters are speaking, and I found it fascinating. The files also contain the "real" text for the spoken dialog, which is why we can use them to find offensive language. As I said, it isn't necessary to examine the .fsq files, unless you want to verify exactly what the dialog is that they describe. Notice that the folder you've opened contains two files with the same file name, but different suffixes. The one that ends in .mp2 is an MPEG layer 2 audio file that contains the actual dialog audio. To eliminate it from being spoken in the game, just rename it .mp2_ (or anything else you like; putting underscores in file names is kind of a Geeky programming thing to do). I do recommend keeping the name the same and modifying the 3-letter extension, though, because you may wish to get at these files again later.


    Renaming a file.

    Once you've done that, close the folder that contains these files (the one that opened when you chose Open Containing Folder). Then go to the next file the search found, right-click on it, and choose Open Containing Folder again. Repeat as necessary, and run new searches as necessary, until the game reaches the language level you're comfortable with. (My target was somewhere between rated G and rated PG.) (Rather than just rename the files, one could use an audio editor like Audacity to remove the offensive words. It is my intention to do this with some of the longer dialog clips, but I have not taken the time to do so yet.) Packing it all back up Once you are done running all your searches and renaming all the files you wish to change (and this may take a while), as there are quite a few, the last step is to recompress all the files into a new compressed folder named english.pak, and be sure that file is in the correct location. Go back to your C:\Program Files\EA Games\Crytek\Crysis\Game\Localized folder, right-click on the english.pak.censored folder, and choose Send To then Compressed (zipped) folder. This will create a new file called english.pak.zip, and will probably take a couple of minutes.


    Recompressing the modified folder into a .zip file.

    Lastly, delete english.pak (you should have it backed up as a file named english.pak.original), and rename english.pak.zip to english.pak. You should then be ready to play Crysis and not feel the need to wash out the character's mouths (especially Psycho's) with virtual soap. Other possibilities Now, if you don't want to go to all this trouble, if you send me a really nice e-mail (or a 512 MB NVIDIA 8800 GT), I just might point you to a place you can download my modified .pak file. (Mine is {myfirstname}@wilcoxfamily.net.) Next on my list of games to fix: Company of Heroes.]]>
    519 2008-01-06 16:17:29 2008-01-06 21:17:29 open closed censoring-crysis publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 87146 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-01-08 13:18:22 2008-01-08 18:18:22 watching our perversions, you're probably watching the wrong movies. Based on what I've read, the primary argument about third-party editing is that there are issues around having someone other than those who own it change the actual presentation of an entire film. What would be interesting is a dual-version release system, using Wal-Mart or online stores that would offer edited, family-friendly versions of films like the movie studios do for airlines. This way the studios would retain control, while offering a way to view some of the more borderline films. Thinking about TVGuardian got me thinking about games. As all the dialog in modern games is subtitled, a very easy way to filter dialog would be the same way TVGuardian works.]]> 1 0 2 87136 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2008-01-08 11:29:12 2008-01-08 16:29:12 you will hear our vulgarities and watch our perversions and if you try to filter them out we'll sue you!]]> 1 0 0 87141 marc_v4@yahoo.com 71.224.15.82 2008-01-08 12:14:11 2008-01-08 17:14:11 1 0 0 86885 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2008-01-07 06:21:06 2008-01-07 11:21:06 1 0 0 86905 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-01-07 08:29:59 2008-01-07 13:29:59 modding, which is generally encouraged by game companies, as it tends to increase sales and dramatically extend the lifespan of a particular game. Most games (Crysis included) now come with world editors to make some such tasks even easier. Ironically, I hadn't even considering using Sandbox (the Crysis world editor) to accomplish my censoring goals. I'll have to see if it would have been easier!]]> 1 0 2 87225 sgergets@gmail.com 67.173.138.235 2008-01-08 20:07:01 2008-01-09 01:07:01 1 0 0 87392 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-01-09 12:15:17 2008-01-09 17:15:17 1 0 2 87581 rsjrev@yahoo.com 190.11.71.13 2008-01-10 09:00:12 2008-01-10 14:00:12 1 0 0 87723 TK_4207@hotmail.com 64.33.199.165 2008-01-11 00:56:13 2008-01-11 05:56:13 1 0 0 90597 dazang@yahoo.com http://none 68.185.42.117 2008-01-20 01:50:42 2008-01-20 06:50:42 1 0 0 90566 Elfear73@gmail.com 72.16.61.132 2008-01-19 23:57:09 2008-01-20 04:57:09 1 0 0 90985 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-01-21 09:02:24 2008-01-21 14:02:24 1 0 2 93502 jcooley@austin.rr.com 24.174.8.221 2008-01-27 02:09:30 2008-01-27 07:09:30 1 0 0 93917 jaguarfiend@hotmail.com 72.240.105.40 2008-01-29 23:31:23 2008-01-30 04:31:23 1 0 0 95865 bgjenkins@gmail.com 68.243.248.193 2008-02-12 14:47:14 2008-02-12 19:47:14 1 0 0 98091 chrisk27@cox.net 68.225.232.21 2008-02-28 03:53:40 2008-02-28 08:53:40 1 0 0 120498 Baronobeefdip@yahoo.com 72.209.156.254 2008-10-27 21:18:45 2008-10-28 02:18:45 1 0 0 120525 sgeast2000@yahoo.com 96.234.170.159 2009-01-24 12:56:19 2009-01-24 17:56:19 1 0 0 120509 elitzur874@yahoo.com 70.176.155.19 2008-12-30 19:36:23 2008-12-31 00:36:23 1 0 0 118516 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 155.212.165.139 2008-05-25 09:17:24 2008-05-25 14:17:24 possible to hack the games on Xbox and other console systems, but it's usually harder, and it's not a technical area I've ever explored.]]> 1 0 2 117121 tuckerscreator@yahoo.com 69.111.15.12 2008-05-20 14:52:53 2008-05-20 19:52:53 1 0 0 120655 gamesoap@gmail.com http://gamesoap.net/ 72.202.143.183 2009-05-01 23:38:58 2009-05-02 04:38:58 1 0 0 120656 clint_drz110@yahoo.com 24.151.204.109 2009-05-03 17:43:16 2009-05-03 22:43:16 1 0 0 120640 jhotrains@cfl.rr.com 67.8.95.18 2009-03-26 23:53:05 2009-03-27 04:53:05 1 0 0 120633 animus.squared@gmail.com 76.205.203.200 2009-03-22 16:29:59 2009-03-22 21:29:59 1 0 0 120693 erikthephysicsguy@gmail.com 71.32.224.170 2009-08-10 19:15:04 2009-08-11 00:15:04 1 0 0 120699 AL3XL1@hotmail.com 115.64.31.23 2009-09-09 01:23:50 2009-09-09 06:23:50 1 0 0 120718 beansandchili@att.net 99.16.78.106 2009-12-20 08:38:09 2009-12-20 13:38:09 1 0 0 120720 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.72.1 2010-01-04 11:00:08 2010-01-04 16:00:08 1 0 2 125984 soccersherrod86@yahoo.com 75.60.224.146 2011-01-26 14:28:47 2011-01-26 19:28:47 1 0 0
    The Right Political Party http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=520 Tue, 08 Jan 2008 15:48:06 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=520 to do what is right. To do what is morally right. To do what is right for our country. To do what is right for its citizens. To do what is right for our world. To do what is right for our future. Some things are obvious: It isn't right, for example, to embezzle funds, deny habeas corpus to US citizens, or accept bribes. It isn't right to choose political expediency and present half-truths to forward a particular agenda. Many decisions would be easier to make. It would not be right, for example, to ignore the genocide in Darfur if there was any possible way we could work to end it or aid its victims. It wouldn't be right to offer another amnesty to illegal immigrants. (It would also not be right to ignore finding a way to replace 8 to 12 million illegal workers on which our industries depend.) It wouldn't be right to appoint Supreme Court justices who believe it is their job to twist the Constitution outside its historical context. (We have a prescribed amendment process for updating the Constitution when necessary.) It would not be right for our future to pretend global climate change isn't happening, or ignore the gathering momentum to eliminate pollution and dependency on nonrenewable fuels. Some positions would be harder to determine. Finding the answers to such quandaries as funding human cloning research using processes where viable embryos are not destroyed would require something not valued in Washington or perhaps in our nation at large: thinking. We would have to abandon the name-calling, generalizing, and labeling and get back to a discussion of the issues that matter. The Right Party: Making the right decisions ... doing what's right. ]]> 520 2008-01-08 10:48:06 2008-01-08 15:48:06 open closed the-right-political-party publish 0 0 post 0 The Übergeek Bible Translation http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=521 Mon, 28 Jan 2008 14:02:41 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=521

    Thanks to my nephew Mike Matheson for this contribution.]]>
    521 2008-01-28 09:02:41 2008-01-28 14:02:41 open closed the-ubergeek-bible-translation publish 0 0 post 0 93883 clr257@juno.com 72.70.240.85 2008-01-29 19:16:44 2008-01-30 00:16:44 1 0 0 93644 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-01-28 10:39:16 2008-01-28 15:39:16 get me started.]]> 1 0 2 93639 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2008-01-28 09:58:18 2008-01-28 14:58:18 1 0 0
    Lego Turns 50 Today http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=522 Mon, 28 Jan 2008 16:09:26 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=522
    The Google logo received a Lego treatment today.

    I received my first Lego set 34 years ago---number 480, the Rescue Helicopter---at age 5, as a Christmas gift from friend-and-neighbor Chuck Altwein. I quickly learned to completely assemble and disassemble the model without the directions. This was followed by set number 135 that year from my parents (too small a set, but I do not blame them), and many, many others, including some of my favorites, 190, 404 (which still gets my vote for best classic building set), and the 487 Space Cruiser, which was one of a trilogy of sets that opened Lego's hugely popular (and still running) space line. (This line also introduced the modern Lego minifigure, or minifig.)

    Lego forever changed my childhood, as I spent nearly every Saturday morning surrounded by Lego. One of the worst punishments I ever received was when I got frustrated trying to build a truck, and threw the partially completed assembly across the room. My Mom put my Lego in the attic for a week, and I learned to control my temper better. (I recall an incident with Isaac, at around age 4 or 5, where he had his Lego taken away for something similar, and he cried for 3 1/2 hours straight.) I continue to build with Lego with my kids on rainy days at home, and lead a Lego robotics group that meets once a week at work (where I am known by the nickname LegoDoug). We have completed one project using the original RIS/RCX, and are switching to the NXT this week, thanks to Nichelle's wonderful anniversary gift. My boys are crazy about Lego Bionicle and the Lego Star Wars lines, and even NaNi loves to build, and I can't think of any toy that has provided so much innovative playtime. Check out some coverage on Gizmodo, Slashdot, Time, and this Lego timeline on Wikipedia. Following are images of some of my favorite bits of my own Lego history.


    I lobbied shamelessly and amorally for this one Christmas. It was Lego's largest set to date.


    One of Lego's best sets ever, which included a Lego motor.


    The Lego Space Cruiser, an unquestionable classic.


    Lego's first castle set.


    The first Lego robotics kit, and a little piece of history.


    An iconic robot constructed from the new Lego NXT robotics kit.

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    522 2008-01-28 11:09:26 2008-01-28 16:09:26 open closed lego-turns-50-today publish 0 0 post 0 93706 summitsp@hotmail.com 75.69.187.58 2008-01-28 21:31:09 2008-01-29 02:31:09 1 0 0
    Doug's New Dress http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=523 Sat, 09 Feb 2008 05:39:47 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=523 hard. This is true even with the wonder of the Internet, although the Internet certainly changes it from being nearly impossible to mostly possible, it is still decidedly difficult. Background: Every January or February, Kronos, the company for which I work, holds its annual Winter Thaw event for the employees and their dates, in lieu of a Christmas party. Starting with an event scheduled at the MFA several years ago, the events have been hosted at various museums or similar venues. This year's event, which took place last Saturday, was held at the Peabody Essex Museum in Salem, Massachusetts. With Nichelle's incredible weight loss and constant fitness training, I wanted her to have something for her to wear to the Thaw that would accentuate how much more stunning she has become in the past year or two. Or, in other words, I wanted her clothing to be as beautiful as she---which is, of course, impossible.


    The absolutely stunning Nichelle wearing the gown I purchased for her.

    I did some searching online, and quickly determined that J.C. Penny appeared to have gowns like I wanted in a price that was affordable. Macy's had gowns, too, but was quickly excluded due to their prices. Also useful was J.C. Penny's different views of each item, normally with at least one photograph in each of the available colors. With that, I also able to figure out what style and color were most likely to be pleasing. One interesting factor is that clothing available online tended to be available exclusively online, and there was no indication of what the local store branches would actually contain. (Men would never settle for this when it comes to electronics items. One would think women would be equally demanding. Perhaps years of nonstandard sizes in everything from blouses to shoes have simply worn them down.) So, with Nichelle's size stealthily extracted during a conversation about weight loss, NaNi and I went off to the mall one Monday after Nichelle had gone to work, to see what our local Penny's had in stock. The Internet browsing allowed me to essentially go "buying"---I had no interest in "shopping"; this is another difference between men's and women's desired commerce experiences. They had quite a few choices, but that was narrowed down by the available sizes. NaNi still preferred the more "princessy" outfits, which were more suited for a prom than the Thaw, although there was one slightly showy dress that might have been "mature" enough to fit, that I considered. That being said, I picked out a red strapless gown that was classy without being overly fancy, and was delighted to find one left in the right size, and it was even on sale. NaNi talked me into checking the Disney Store for the "Mermaid Swimsuit" she insists they have, and used her extra-cute-face to manipulate me into buying her a Tinkerbell dress, which was half-off. I figured it was fair enough, as I'd saved money with Nichelle's dress on sale.) I brought the dress home, eager for Nichelle to see it. She loved it! But, when she tried it on, we discovered one of the hazards of all the weight training she's done. Although it fit perfectly nearly everywhere, her back is so muscular that she couldn't zip it up. So, back to J.C. Penny I went, hoping it to exchange it for one size up before they closed... Unfortunately, there wasn't a single dress in the size we needed. They were helpful, calling other area stores, and checking the inventory system; but not one of the gowns I wanted in the size needed was available within 50 miles. I checked Sears. Nothing but prom dresses in juniors. I went home, and back to the Internet. A nearly identical dress was available as a catalog order, but in the size we needed, it wasn't available in a color I knew Nichelle would want. Grrrrr!


    "Classy Nun" or "Bride of the Penguin"? Poor color choices. (The woman is a bit pale, too.)

    Then, I noticed something I'd overlooked at least 15 times in two days. The dress, pictured above, was also available in cranberry! It would be perfect, if it were in a solid color. The silly white-on-black cuff (Classy nun or Bride of the Penguin?) had turned me off, even thought I liked the overall style. But I had to be sure. So I found and phoned J.C. Penny's customer service department, and the lady there confirmed that the cranberry dress was indeed a solid color. Even better, I could have the dress shipped to the catalog pickup at Penny's in Nashua, and it would arrive by Saturday at noon, about six hours before we needed it. The dress actually arrived on Friday afternoon, so I picked it up on my way home from work. It fit perfectly, with the results are shown at the top of this post.


    To modify a line from Always: Nichelle is all twisted steel and sex appeal. I can't be with a woman who looks like I won her in a lottery.

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    523 2008-02-09 00:39:47 2008-02-09 05:39:47 open closed dougs-new-dress publish 0 0 post 0 95407 mjlm19@yahoo.com 24.147.41.131 2008-02-09 09:37:39 2008-02-09 14:37:39 1 0 0 95414 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2008-02-09 11:09:27 2008-02-09 16:09:27 Doug's New Dress." So what am I to think about this? The only thing that went through my head was... well... something awfully disturbing. Something a lot like this... (warning, not for the faint of heart!) AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! By the way, Nichelle, you look beautiful. (In the original photo, not my version.)]]> 1 0 0 95420 clr257@juno.com 71.127.4.81 2008-02-09 15:05:52 2008-02-09 20:05:52 1 0 0 95421 edivietro@comcast.net 76.118.17.1 2008-02-09 15:59:15 2008-02-09 20:59:15 1 0 0 95453 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.77.44 2008-02-09 19:42:37 2008-02-10 00:42:37 1 0 2 95699 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.163.5 2008-02-11 10:02:21 2008-02-11 15:02:21 1 0 0 96091 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.77.44 2008-02-14 09:05:43 2008-02-14 14:05:43 1 0 3 96263 mike_matheson@juno.com 71.75.138.119 2008-02-15 18:04:58 2008-02-15 23:04:58 1 0 0 96344 jackiesblog@yahoo.com http://www.jackie-happywife.blogspot.com 200.61.226.190 2008-02-16 07:08:22 2008-02-16 12:08:22 1 0 0
    Belittled by PETCO: A Bad Customer Experience http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=524 Sat, 29 Mar 2008 15:19:04 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=524 Two weeks ago, Isaac spent some of his savings on purchasing a new tarantula, to replace Chandan, one that had died after about 3.5 years in our care. (The tarantula was fully grown when we purchased it, so we expect the death was due to old age, as these Chilean spiders, typically sold in pet shops, live only to 5-8 moltings, and she had molted thrice, about once a year, while we had her.)

    However, the new tarantula did not fare so well. After a week, Isaac noted that she had some trouble climbing, within another week she was dead.

    PETCO issues a 15-day guarantee on "companion animals" they sell, so we headed back to PETCO to see if we could get an exchange. To prove to them that we had adequate and appropriate housing, we brought the large plastic shoebox type storage container (about 2.5 gallons in volume) containing the spider.

    That is where the trouble started.

    The attendant examined the box, and said, "You've used fertilized potting soil; it looks like you killed it."

    (For the record, we did use potting soil. Potting soil often contains Styrofoam, perlite, or vermiculite to improve aeration and water retention. In this case, our soil contained perlite, which is completely harmless. Of course, some potting soils, even organic ones, contain fertilizers and insecticides, but I was very careful to avoid selecting one of those.)

    "No, I replied carefully, "we used sterilized potting soil with no chemical additives. You must understand we had a tarantula living for nearly four years in exactly these conditions, and it was an adult when we bought it."

    Then he seemed to express concern over the container. I quickly pointed out, "The container is not airtight," which, after some seemed to satisfy him.

    By this time I was seething, although outwardly completely controlling my anger. We are not idiots. We have been keeping tarantulas for four years now. Chandan, the one who died several months ago, exhibited no problems of any kind during her life. I even keep a tarantula (named after one of our VPs) at my office. I strongly resented the immediate and obvious blaming, and felt even worse because essentially everything I said was ignored, even when I was correct.

    Reluctantly, the clerk issued me a refund, and we headed off to the reptile and fish department, which houses tarantulas and such. The fish display featured a wall of Betas, all in tiny, nonaerated plastic containers. Great way to take care of those fish! And there we waited. And waited. And waited. Isaac repeatedly spoke to the staff, who assured us they would be "right with us." This went on for about 30 minutes. (Thankfully I'd brought a book to read.) Finally, the "spider guy" came out. He claimed the soil contained "chemical crystals" that kill insects. I explained the reality to him, which he clearly didn't accept, and recommended peat instead. He also claimed we had told him we would be keeping the tarantula in a 10-gallon aquarium, which, we, of course had not, and he wondered, "How do you expect to regulate the temperature in a plastic container?" (I did not want to go into physics with him.) Initially and over the years, we've done most of our research on tarantula care via the Internet, from a variety of sources. If we go the experts, the American Tarantula Society, we can see what their articles and care guides say:
    Pet Pals sold in pet shops, work well for many species. Many plastic and glass containers can be adapted for tarantula homes.
    They also recommend topsoil or potting soil as the ideal substrate for tarantulas. Peat was only second-best.
    Good air circulation in a container has been thought by some in the past to be a requirement, however, serious doubt has been cast on this idea in the last few years. The up side is good air circulation may prevent stagnant conditions with very high humidity that can easily breed mold, fungi, bacteria, nematodes and mites.
    The clerk said he might not sell us another tarantula, and that he would have to talk to the other clerk and check. After a few minutes, he returned, and informed us that we could buy a replacement tarantula, but they would not provide a guarantee this time. We paid for the new tarantula with our refund money, and left. Over the week I triple-checked our information. The ATS agreed with our care policies completely, contrary to the details the PETCO personnel provided. So, the next weekend, I went back to the store and spoke with the manager. I told him that I understood people do not typically do the research into caring for exotics, but that we were experienced tarantula owners who were thorough about what we were doing. I explained that we were very dissatisfied with our treatment, and pointed out where the ATS recommendations were contrary to the store's advice. He apologized for how we were treated, and said he had all our information, and that he would have the regional controller call us. We're still waiting for the call ... But at least the new tarantula is doing well.]]>
    524 2008-03-29 10:19:04 2008-03-29 15:19:04 open closed belittled-by-petco-a-bad-customer-experience publish 0 0 post 0 104657 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2008-03-29 21:40:24 2008-03-30 02:40:24 1 0 0 113015 thathcoat@hbc-nh.org 24.34.85.204 2008-04-30 18:09:34 2008-04-30 23:09:34 1 0 0
    I Told You I Was 1337! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=525 Fri, 14 Mar 2008 20:29:09 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=525
    I told you I was 1337, as this compilation screen shot shows.

    I grabbed this screen shot at work today. Every developer wants to write 1337 code, but I think this proves that I'm doing it.

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    525 2008-03-14 15:29:09 2008-03-14 20:29:09 open closed i-told-you-i-was-1337 publish 0 0 post 0 102074 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 71.75.138.119 2008-03-16 18:09:04 2008-03-16 23:09:04 1 0 0 101789 fran_matheson@sil.org 71.75.138.214 2008-03-15 08:10:33 2008-03-15 13:10:33 1 0 0
    Nine 11 Boxes Later: Comcast TiVo Service http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=526 Thu, 27 Mar 2008 18:37:48 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=526

    We counted down the days until the Comcast installer would arrive to upgrade our two cable boxes. To our surprise, rather than merely a firmware update, the installer provided two brand new Motorola DCH3416 boxes, complete with 160 GB of storage and a wonderfully designed TiVo remote. The cable guy came out mid-day on a Friday, and claims he tested everything before he left, but by the time I got home a few hours later, neither TiVo box was working correctly. The downstairs box had staccato sound, the upstairs box simply displayed the loading screen and never got beyond it. Tech support had the cable guy call us back, and he was actually willing to drop his kids off and come back out to try to fix the boxes. Unfortunately, what we needed were replacement boxes, and he didn't have two more of the DCH3416s, so we had to wait until Monday and another technician visit. (The technician was supposed to arrange for his boss to handle things on Saturday, but this never happened; on Monday Comcast had no record of anything like that being set up.) In talking to customer support and in subsequent visits from the on-site troubleshooters/installers, it became clear that not much information had been propagated to the installers about how to set up these boxes or keep them working. One installer explained that in his training for the new cable box, the cable box was broken, so they had to learn from a PowerPoint presentation on the setup instead. The downstairs new box worked for a few days, and then quit, going into an infinite booting cycle which Comcast guys call the "Crazy Eights," because for part of the boot-up, the entire display shows all the segments, like in the photo above. Comcast replaced it the box. We learned that updates to the program guide or updates to the firmware can cause this problem, meaning the software hadn't been quite ready to roll out, from a QA perspective. So far, we are on our ninth cable box. Other than the sound problem exhibited, most of the time the issue was the "Crazy Eights," although once the downstairs box simply decided it wasn't going to record anything. Twice the boxes of have recoverable, but at the cost of reinstalling the firmware, which has to be initiated by an on-site tech. (This is apparently an evidence of improvement---until a week ago, such a feat was apparently impossible.) Of course, once you have to exchange the box, all one's saved programming goes away as well. Likewise, firmware reinstalls seem to wipe out all previously recorded video and settings. The boxes have dual tuners, but the software doesn't take advantage of them correctly. If one is watching one program, a confirmation dialog requests switching channels to record a scheduled or suggested recording. Hey, it has two tuners. Perhaps the one not in use could be used for the recording? I had a similar problem with two recordings that started an hour apart which I had set to run one minute over; the second recording never happened. There's no 5.1 digital surround output. We get 48 MHz PCM output that's in Dolby Surround (stereo) only. This is expected to be fixed in a future software update, but far more critical fixes need to go in first. TiVo users will be wondering about TiVo Desktop, the software that lets one use a computer on the network to transfer shows, program the TiVo, and even move recorded programs from TiVo to TiVo or burn them onto DVDs ... although it is not currently possible to use it, the powers that be at Comcast are actually considering enabling it, because so many customers have requested it. (Like the regular Comcast DVR box, the DCH3416 sports FireWire, eSATA, USB, and network ports. Like the regular Comcast DVR, they are all currently disabled, except maybe the FireWire port which will only output what is currently playing---and we only get that because the FCC mandates it.) Other than the problems with the boxes self-destructing at irregular but rapid intervals, I couldn't be happier with the service, especially at only an extra $3 a month. The 160GB hard drive give us enough storage space. The TiVo user experience is much better than the Comcast DVR software, akin to the difference between the Hotmail and GMail. Programming is rapid and easy, and navigation is a dream. In fact, the overall user experience is good enough that I've kept having Comcast replace the boxes rather than go back to the old Comcast DVR. Even the HD image quality seems to have improved. (I do wish the menu response were a little faster, but I believe this is normal for such devices.) A software update is due out on April 1, that should correct the "Crazy Eights" and approximately 40 other bugs, but will not yet provide 5.1 digital sound. I hope our current box lasts until then! Addendum: The downstairs box went into "Crazy Eight" mode on Friday. So now we are up to 10 boxes.
    Updates at last! April 1 came, and of course required a visit from yet another Cable installer. With the update, our box went into a mode where the TiVo software itself wouldn't work, although we could at least change channels. The technician was actually upset, because he believed he could reset our box with a little bit of help from ATS, but they wouldn't work with him, so he had to swap it out. He swapped the box, and the downstairs one, and updated them both with the new code. The improvements are significant: The menus respond about twice as fast. The record light illuminates on the box when something is recording. Dolby 5.1 is back (which we did not expect yet). I even think both tuners actually record (we have not tested that yet). So far both boxes are working fine. The technician said that an update planned in about a month will further improve the menu response time, which is now reasonable, but was painfully slow before. That's the beauty of Java: "Write once; run really slowly everywhere."]]>
    526 2008-03-27 13:37:48 2008-03-27 18:37:48 open closed 9-boxes-later-comcast-tivo-service publish 0 0 post 0 104490 wilblog@nhconsultant.com http://www.CharlesDunnPhoto.com 75.68.88.184 2008-03-27 18:50:38 2008-03-27 23:50:38 1 0 0 105302 clr257@juno.com 72.70.249.104 2008-04-02 17:08:47 2008-04-02 22:08:47 1 0 0 105444 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-04-03 13:41:21 2008-04-03 18:41:21 1 0 2 120501 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-11-16 19:35:44 2008-11-17 00:35:44 1 0 2 120474 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2008-07-28 09:56:49 2008-07-28 14:56:49 Six Sigma quality program. Some of these failures have been hardware related, and some software related, so it may not all be Motorola's fault. The current box had to be hard-reset a couple of times before the data for searches and categories would download. I think the installer had missed a software update.]]> 1 0 2
    2008 as Seen from 1968 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=527 Wed, 26 Mar 2008 16:58:29 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=527 "The single most important item in 2008 households is the computer." In 2008, Mechanix Illustrated prognosticated on what life would be like 40 years later. Some of the predications are eerily accurate, some may be seen in another 40 years, and as for others, we can only hope. Take a look! (While I'm working on 3 other relatively detailed posts, I figured I'd provide something to chew on to prove I'm still alive. For the record, I was born in 1968.) ]]> 527 2008-03-26 11:58:29 2008-03-26 16:58:29 open closed 2008-as-seen-in-1968 publish 0 0 post 0 104231 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2008-03-26 12:15:41 2008-03-26 17:15:41 1 0 0 Total Cuteness http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=528 Mon, 31 Mar 2008 02:37:56 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=528
    NaNi readies herself for a Christmas ambush with David's new AirZooka.


    NaNi enjoys the Manchester Regional FIRST Robotics competition.


    NaNi demonstrates her combat stance.


    Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.


    NaNi during a weight training session.


    NaNi demonstrates her Xbox 360 Halo 3 'Tude.


    Oh, here's NaNi with our other kids. Meh.

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    528 2008-03-30 21:37:56 2008-03-31 02:37:56 open closed total-cuteness publish 0 0 post 0 104832 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.147.77.44 2008-03-31 07:13:28 2008-03-31 12:13:28 AirZooka. It shoots a vortex of air up to 20 feet or so, enough to disturb someone's hair, blow out a candle, and generally freak people out.]]> 1 0 2 104818 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2008-03-31 05:34:23 2008-03-31 10:34:23 1 0 0
    Powered Suits, Now Even Closer http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=529 Fri, 18 Apr 2008 16:20:00 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=529 US army develops robotic suits" a news report guaranteed to make all Heinlein fans and Wilcox children drool.

    And if you never have, you should go read Starship Troopers (but skip the movie).]]>
    529 2008-04-18 11:20:00 2008-04-18 16:20:00 open closed powered-suits-now-even-closer publish 0 0 post 0 109875 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-04-18 11:44:19 2008-04-18 16:44:19 Target.]]> 1 0 2 109873 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.6 2008-04-18 11:39:32 2008-04-18 16:39:32 1 0 0 110909 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-04-22 09:34:08 2008-04-22 14:34:08 http://www.pcmag.com/slideshow_viewer/0,1205,l=226395&s=25301&a=226388&po=20,00.asp This HAL-5 suit garnered media attention in 2006 when it helped a paralyzed man get within 500 yards of the summit of Breithorn Mountain in Switzerland.]]> 1 0 2 114078 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-05-05 10:04:35 2008-05-05 15:04:35 http://www.raytheon.com/newsroom/technology/rtn08_exoskeleton/.]]> 1 0 2 120650 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-04-10 08:35:53 2009-04-10 13:35:53 The HAL (Hybrid Assistive Limb) Cybernetic Suit, Cyberdyne Corporation, Japan
    The HAL (Hybrid Assistive Limb) Cybernetic Suit, Cyberdyne Corporation, Japan

    The HAL suit is ready to be mass-produced in Japan. The cost: A mere $4,200 US---less than a Segway. http://www.hplusmagazine.com/articles/robotics/i-am-ironman. ]]>
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    120652 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-04-16 10:40:03 2009-04-16 15:40:03 Honda Unveils Two Robotic Walking Assistant Prototypes.]]> 1 0 2
    Moondust and Duct Tape http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=530 Wed, 23 Apr 2008 15:19:30 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=530 This story about duct tape use on the moon was simply too good to pass up on cross-posting.
    [I]n [the] Taurus-Littrow [valley, in the Sea of Serenity, on the moon] a missing fender was a potential disaster. The reason is moondust. When a rover rolls across the lunar surface, it kicks up a plume of moondust in its wake. (Astronauts called them "rooster tails.") Without a fender, the rover would be showered by a spray of dark, abrasive grit. White spacesuits blackened by dust could turn into dangerous absorbers of the fierce lunar sun with astronauts overheating inside. Sharp-edged dust wiped off visors would scratch the glass, making helmets difficult to see out of. Moondust also had an uncanny way of working itself into hinges, latches and joints, rendering them useless.

    Cernan: "And I hate to say it, but I'm going to have to take some time to try … to get that fender back on. Jack, is the tape under my seat, do you remember?" (He's referring to a roll of ordinary, gray duct tape.)
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    530 2008-04-23 10:19:30 2008-04-23 15:19:30 open closed moondust-and-duct-tape publish 0 0 post 0 111407 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 208.145.81.2 2008-04-24 19:20:42 2008-04-25 00:20:42 1 0 0 111066 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2008-04-23 10:34:03 2008-04-23 15:34:03 always pack Duct tape when I engage in interstellar travel!]]> 1 0 0
    Gin, Television, and Social Surplus http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=532 Sun, 04 May 2008 15:17:00 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=532 Gin, Television, and Social Surplus." You will definitely want to read the whole post, but here are a few noteworthy excerpts:
    Starting with the Second World War a whole series of things happened--rising GDP per capita, rising educational attainment, rising life expectancy and, critically, a rising number of people who were working five-day work weeks. For the first time, society forced onto an enormous number of its citizens the requirement to manage something they had never had to manage before--free time. And what did we do with that free time? Well, mostly we spent it watching TV.
    How much television do we watch?
    [H]ow big is that surplus? So if you take Wikipedia as a kind of unit, all of Wikipedia, the whole project--every page, every edit, every talk page, every line of code, in every language that Wikipedia exists in--that represents something like the cumulation of 100 million hours of human thought. I worked this out with Martin Wattenberg at IBM; it's a back-of-the-envelope calculation, but it's the right order of magnitude, about 100 million hours of thought. And television watching? Two hundred billion hours, in the U.S. alone, every year. Put another way, now that we have a unit, that's 2,000 Wikipedia projects a year spent watching television. Or put still another way, in the U.S., we spend 100 million hours every weekend, just watching the ads. This is a pretty big surplus. People asking, "Where do they find the time?" when they're looking at things like Wikipedia don't understand how tiny that entire project is, as a carve-out of this asset that's finally being dragged into what Tim calls an architecture of participation.
    This reminds me, I was listening to "This American Life," episode 328, "What I Learned from Television." In a live broadcast, Ira Glass announces to the audience that average Americans watch 29 hours of television a week. There is a loud, collective gasp from the audience, which is composed of course, of not merely NPR listeners, but NPR listeners who paid to go out and see a live presentation of the radio program. Twenty-nine hours is the average? Suddenly I don't feel so bad about playing World of WarCraft. As Shirky writes,
    In this same conversation with the TV producer I was talking about World of WarCraft guilds, and as I was talking, I could sort of see what she was thinking: "Losers. Grown men sitting in their basement pretending to be elves." At least they're doing something.
    But I digress. As I write this, our pastor is speaking on "Reflections from the Back of a Bike," noting how we prefer to ride in a car metaphorically driven by the pastor, instead of providing our own power on a bicycle, comparing the early church's prayer to "speak the Word of God with boldness" as recorded in Acts 4:29 to our typical prayers of, well, whatever; of how we fail to really act on our belief in an Almighty God and actually serve Him with actions, every hour of our lives. How we need to embrace the mission of Christ and actually do something to reflect what we say we believe. To be honest, I have heard many such sermons over the years, but this one is different. It's Scriptural. It isn't designed to evoke an emotional response. Its success won't be measured by the number of people who raise their hands or "go forward" to the altar. Its success will, rather, be measured by how we let Christ give us boldness to use our associations and talents and burdens to change others' lives. It's real. It's a reflection of how he actually lives in following Christ. And the Word of God convicts me, that I ought to be so focused.
    P.S.: Shirky makes some fascinating conclusions based on analyses of both current society and the Industrial Revolution, getting into such subjects as cognitive surplus, shared information projects, and participatory media. It's one of the few must-read pieces I've encountered in the past year. He wraps up with a look into this gem (which in this context of excerpts seems disconnected, but in reality is not):
    I was having dinner with a group of friends about a month ago, and one of them was talking about sitting with his four-year-old daughter watching a DVD. And in the middle of the movie, apropos nothing, she jumps up off the couch and runs around behind the screen. That seems like a cute moment. Maybe she's going back there to see if Dora is really back there or whatever. But that wasn't what she was doing. She started rooting around in the cables. And her dad said, "What you doing?" And she stuck her head out from behind the screen and said, "Looking for the mouse."
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    The Wii Fit / Whee Fit http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=533 Fri, 16 May 2008 14:01:06 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=533

    Again attacking the stereotype that video games are for people who only wish to exercise their fingers, Pretendo® began preorders for its Whee™ Fit home exercise product, just in time for Mother's Day. Get Fit and have Fun with this latest home fitness device for the Pretendo® Whee™!


    Nichelle Wilcox, a personal fitness trainer and Mom in Nashua, N.H., loves her Whee™ Fit!

    Enjoy these thrilling exercises:

    Thank you for choosing the Whee™ Fit exercise peripheral from Pretendo®, for use with your Pretendo® game system.

    Enjoy the following exciting exercises (we recommend starting with Dialing Panic, shown on page 2):

    Snowboarding (core muscles, legs)
    Play your favorite snowboarding game while standing on your Whee™ Fit. Imagine the thrill of controlling the onscreen movements via your Whee™ Fit device.

    Basic Balance (core muscles)
    Close your eyes and try to balance on the Whee™ Fit.

    Advanced Balance (core muscles, cardio)
    Close your eyes and try to balance on the Whee™ Fit while in the middle of a busy freeway.

    Shower Power (core muscles)
    Close your eyes and try to balance on the Whee™ Fit while taking a shower.

    Advanced Shower Power (core muscles, cardio)
    Close your eyes and try to balance on the Whee™ Fit while atop a tall hill during a thunderstorm.

    Bumper Jumper (hands and fingers)
    While standing on your Whee™ Fit, grasp the rear bumper or side mirror of a vehicle stopped at an intersection. The Whee™ Fit will score points for each second you remain gripping the vehicle. If you hear the sound of approaching sirens, discontinue use.

    Advanced Bumper Jumper (hands and fingers)
    While standing on your Whee™ Fit, grasp the rear bumper or side mirror of a vehicle as it enters the freeway onramp. The Whee™ Fit will score points for each second you remain gripping the vehicle. If you hear the sound of approaching sirens, discontinue use. Game ends if an arrest is made.

    Push ’em Up (arms, chest, and shoulders)
    Place the Whee™ Fit in front of you on the floor, and use it as a platform for performing push ups.

    Advanced Push ’em Up (arms, chest, and shoulders)
    Place the Whee™ Fit in front of you on the floor, and use it as a platform for performing one-handed push ups.

    Super Advanced Push ’em Up (neck and tongue)
    Place the Whee™ Fit in front of you on the floor, and use it as a platform for performing push ups with your tongue.

    Press Stress (arms, chest, and shoulders)
    While lying face up on the floor, grip the Whee™ Fit in both hands, and press it up toward the ceiling.

    Advanced Press Stress (arms, chest, and shoulders)
    While lying face up on the floor, place a small child on the Whee™ Fit device. While gripping the Whee™ Fit in both hands, press it up toward the ceiling.

    Super Advanced Press Stress (arms, chest, and shoulders)
    While lying face up on the floor, place a small automobile on the Whee™ Fit device. While gripping the Whee™ Fit in both hands, press it up toward the ceiling.

    Mallet Fun (arms and shoulders)
    Using a 3-pound sledgehammer, strike the Whee™ Fit directly in the middle. Try for 100 reps!

    Luge Run (arms and shoulders)
    Lay down on the Whee™ Fit, and use your arms to propel yourself across the floor.

    Advanced Luge Run (arms and shoulders)
    Lay down on the Whee™ Fit, and use your arms to propel yourself down a steep hill.

    Super Advanced Luge Run (arms and shoulders, cardio)
    Lay down on the Whee™ Fit, and use your arms to propel yourself down a steep hill that bottoms out onto a freeway.

    Luge Flight (arms and shoulders, cardio)
    Lay down on the Whee™ Fit, and use your arms to propel yourself down a steep hill that terminates in a ski jump.

    Dialing Panic (fingers, cardio)
    Using an ordinary telephone, practice dialing 9-1-1 and describing the current situation to the friendly emergency operator.


    Yes, folks, this is what we gave Nichelle for Mother's Day, along with a promise to buy her a real Wii Fit when they were available.

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    533 2008-05-16 09:01:06 2008-05-16 14:01:06 open closed the-wii-fit publish 0 0 post 0 119410 bernard.farrell@gmail.com http://blog.bernardfarrell.com/ 158.228.108.125 2008-05-28 14:20:10 2008-05-28 19:20:10 1 0 0 116209 wilblog@nhconsultant.com http://www.CharlesDunnPhoto.com 75.68.88.184 2008-05-16 15:15:16 2008-05-16 20:15:16 1 0 0 116102 judgment_pi@yahoo.com 69.95.48.122 2008-05-16 09:56:24 2008-05-16 14:56:24 1 0 0 118497 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 155.212.165.139 2008-05-25 08:17:31 2008-05-25 13:17:31 did go out before midnight to the Wal-Mart SuperCenter on the Wii Fit release date to stand in line for a Wii Fit, and Nichelle now has her "real" Mother's Day gift. And, yes, we love it. It's even better than we imagined.]]> 1 0 2
    A quick family update.... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=534 Fri, 16 May 2008 17:39:43 +0000 Nichelle http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=534 [Doug's note: He's had the attitude of a teen for at least five years now, it certainly doesn't surprise me.] At the end of April, Naomi and I spent 4 days in DisneyWorld. Yup, just us girls, with two of Phil's sisters and niece. We had a great time. Loads of fun watching Naomi's expressions on the rides and just the fun she had with MacKenzie. Doug and the boys had a great time, too, as expected by me anyways. He took the boys indoor skydiving, which I'll be doing sometime soon. We have a video of that along with pictures that David took. Those should be posted soon, too. More from Doug. Nichelle is the biggest weasel in the world for going to DisneyWorld without us. I would certainly never go on such a trip without my wife. In addition to indoor skydiving, David, Isaac, nephew Andrew Roberts, and I visited the U.S. Navy Submarine Force Museum, which is home to the USS Nautilus, the world's very first nuclear-powered submarine. For technophiles like us, this was a perfect trip. In fact, we were late picking Nichelle and NaNi up at the airport because we got to talking to a submariner who was stationed on the USS Henry Clay (a "boomer"---a ballistic missile submarine) in the 1960s. In addition to touring the Nautilus, we got to play with various submarine control stations, see a lot of weapons, including a disassembled Polaris 3 MIRV, use working periscopes, and learn a lot about the history of the US submarine force. Jim, the sailor from the Henry Clay, also answered a question that was very important to me: Which movies about submarines are actually accurate. He said the Widowmaker was highly accurate, but admitted that others could still be entertaining. I'll post pictures from this trip soon.]]> 534 2008-05-16 12:39:43 2008-05-16 17:39:43 open closed a-quick-family-update publish 0 0 post 0 116200 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2008-05-16 14:18:10 2008-05-16 19:18:10 1 0 0 NaNi Reviews Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=535 Tue, 27 May 2008 15:48:56 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=535

    We all trekked off to see Indiana Jones and the Kingdom of the Crystal Skull on Saturday, including Naomi.* Here's her review:
    Indiana Jones was amazing. Sam [Shia LeBeouf, playing Mutt Williams, whom she recognizes as Sam Witwicky from Transformers] was old! He had a mustache and beard, and I was, like, "What the heck?"
    We asked NaNi if she had a favorite part, and she explained, "No; I loved all of it."


    Naomi can't wait to review this upcoming release from Disney-Pixar.


    (*Yes, I know you wouldn't take your 4-year-old to see a possibly frightening movie, but she really wanted to go, even after knowing it might be scary. So we did take her, after instructing her on how to close her eyes and snuggle up with Mom if there was anything she found scary on screen, and that we would not be taking her out to the lobby. She did need to close her eyes once or twice, but it was David---age 9---who was the most frightened, but only in one part, and he used the same technique to deal with it. Hey, she's our kid, and has been raised on a steady diet of appropriate action-adventure, fantasy, and sci-fi films, such as Star Wars, Superman, The Lord of the Rings, and Barbie Swan Lake. Get over it.)]]>
    535 2008-05-27 10:48:56 2008-05-27 15:48:56 open closed nani-reviews-indiana-jones-and-the-kingdom-of-the-crystal-skull publish 0 0 post 0 120412 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2008-06-02 08:47:16 2008-06-02 13:47:16 Toy Story 2, so I got a devilish idea. I said to Shelby, my beloved wife, "hey, let's go too and sit behind them and be obnoxious!" So we showed up at the Theatre, and looked around for you guys, and didn't see you! So we were like, "This is a bummer. Oh well, at least we'll enjoy the movie." So we started watching the movie and out of the corner of my eye I saw you guys come into the room. And out of the WHOLE room, you came and sat in the row RIGHT IN FRONT OF US, and so Shelby and I were sliding down so you wouldn't see us, and you sat RIGHT IN FRONT OF US! It was perfect! We couldn't have planned it that well! So as the movie progressed, I started doing obnoxious things (a stretch for me, I know), like pushing your seat with my feet, and stuff like that. I noticed you repositioning yourself, and being a bit uncomfortable. Shelby and I could hardly contqain all our giggling! So I decided to up the ante a bit and push harder and more often. And coughing. And stuff like that. I was about to reach over and take some of your popcorn when you finally looked back to see who it was who was pestering you! Ticket price: $8.00 Gas to the theatre: $2.36 Seeing the look on Doug's face when he realized it was ME doing all that to him: PRICELESS!]]> 1 0 0 120426 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-06-10 09:54:13 2008-06-10 14:54:13 The Matrix, but not more than that. I might take her to see The Hulk, but David has been lobbying for Kung Fu Panda.]]> 1 0 2 120425 lyljones1@gmail.com 69.131.80.102 2008-06-10 09:06:13 2008-06-10 14:06:13 1 0 0 120417 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-06-03 10:01:54 2008-06-03 15:01:54 1 0 3 119232 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-05-27 19:30:26 2008-05-28 00:30:26 Toy Story 2?]]> 1 0 2 119076 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2008-05-27 11:13:17 2008-05-27 16:13:17 Barbie: Swan Lake. And don't even get me started on when Duchess Rowena shows up in Barbie in the 12 Dancing Princesses! ;)]]> 1 0 0
    The Photos I Promised http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=536 Mon, 02 Jun 2008 12:22:07 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=536
    NaNi, on her second day riding.


    This is the scene that made Nichelle all teary-eyed, NaNi taking off up the street with Isaac. (We threatened to send her off with a Brides magazine in one hand and a college application in the other.)


    Cuteness, as usual.

    The two weasels (Nichelle and NaNi) went to DisneyWorld without us.


    Phil taught Naomi to blow bubbles. I couldn't even chew gum without swallowing it until I was 6.

    Sky Venture, Indoor Sky Diving, Nashua, New Hampshire.


    Isaac at Sky Venture, Nashua.


    Indoor skydiving: This flight suit makes me look fat.


    There's a really amusing story that goes with this picture, but I need to wait a few years for Nichelle's anger to calm down before I can tell it.


    Isaac and David with Jim, a former sailor who served on the boomer USS Henry Clay. This was taken at the Submarine Force Museum in Groton, Connecticut, home of the world's first nuclear submarine, the USS Nautilus.


    Isaac and David at the helm stations of a nuclear submarine.

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    536 2008-06-02 07:22:07 2008-06-02 12:22:07 open closed the-photos-i-promised publish 0 0 post 0 120411 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2008-06-02 08:40:01 2008-06-02 13:40:01 1 0 0 120418 nichelle@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-06-03 10:05:58 2008-06-03 15:05:58 1 0 3 120416 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-06-03 07:04:56 2008-06-03 12:04:56 Billfish. Behind Jim and the boys you can see a Mk113 Fire Control System from the USS Lafayette (SSBN 616). To the side of the SCP is the ballast control panel (BCP) from the USS Pogy (SSN 647). At the end of our trip to the Submarine Force Museum, we were supposed to pick Nichelle and NaNi up at the airport. Guess who got talking with Jim (submarines have always been fascinating to me) and was, shall we say, not exactly waiting for Nichelle and NaNi when they got off the plane? (One interesting tidbit. I asked Jim about which submarine movies were accurate, and we talked about the dialog revision in The Abyss which avoids a glaring error about boomer operation. He said that K-19: The Widowmaker was spot-on, but that most films are not even close, although he still finds them entertaining, unlike me, who finds some of them unwatchably inaccurate.)]]> 1 0 2 120414 wilblog@nhconsultant.com http://www.CharlesDunnPhoto.com 75.68.88.184 2008-06-02 23:20:21 2008-06-03 04:20:21 1 0 0 120413 foolishwench@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-02 15:15:27 2008-06-02 20:15:27 1 0 0 120415 foolishwench@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-03 04:14:03 2008-06-03 09:14:03 1 0 0
    Luke ... I am Your Arm http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=537 Mon, 02 Jun 2008 18:36:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=537 ]]> 537 2008-06-02 13:36:44 2008-06-02 18:36:44 open closed luke-i-am-your-arm publish 0 0 post 0 120461 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-07-08 14:09:07 2008-07-08 19:09:07 article from Popular Mechanics on brain-machine and brain-machine-brain interfaces.]]> 1 0 2 120448 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-06-26 13:41:47 2008-06-26 18:41:47 More detail on this DARPA project---check it out.]]> 1 0 2 What's Wrong with ... Doug? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=538 Thu, 05 Jun 2008 03:53:53 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=538 often fall asleep in meetings, but not usually in meetings of only a few people and where I am one of the key participants. I excused myself and went home sick. (As I think about it, a week earlier I had been complaining that muscle pain all across my upper back---I thought from weight lifting---had lasted more than a week, and when I sat down to do chest flies, I discovered I couldn't put much pressure on my left arm in the direction required.) The next few days I took half days off, plus one full day, fighting a low fever (1 to 1.5 degrees above normal), working when I didn't feel in that brain-dead state that fever brings on. Meanwhile, I started having more and more stiffness in my legs, especially after sitting down for a while, and developed a pain in my fingers, particularly around the proximal phalanges. Thursday I got in to see one of my two N.P.'s at Nashua Primary Care, and she explained that it was probably viral, and ordered a slew of blood tests, including a Lyme disease titer, because a number of the symptoms matched Lyme, even though we had not observed a tick bite or the infamous bull's-eye rash from one. The only abnormal result was a slightly elevated sed rate, which indicates inflammation of some kind. However, Lyme disease antibody tests can be negative for several weeks even when symptoms have begun to present, so I have a retest in three weeks. Monday had me phoning the doctor's office again, explaining that the difficulty walking had gotten much worse beginning on Sunday. Questions and answers went back and forth throughout the day and the next morning, but around noon Tuesday (day 8 of fighting the fever), after confirming some swelling in my left leg (which I was completely oblivious of, but which Nichelle spotted right away), they referred me to the emergency department at Southern New Hampshire Medical Center. (I wasn't even up to playing World of WarCraft on Tuesday morning. Tragic.)


    (Enterprise E sick bay drawing courtesy of www.ex-astris-scientia.org.)

    The primary reason for going to the E/R was because such swelling can be caused by a DVT (I would explain, but that would save you the fun of some Wikipedia research) or a blood clot in the lungs. More blood was drawn. Twice, actually, the first batch turned out to be unusable. (I warned them not to expose it to sunlight or tachyon radiation ...) Nichelle dropped me off, and brought everyone by when she picked up Isaac and David from school. Shortly thereafter, as I was being wheeled to the Radiology department (my first trip on a gurney since infancy), both Isaac and David asked, "If you die, can we have your World of WarCraft gold?" Weasels. The ultrasound and X-ray didn't turn up any clots; however, the chest X-ray showed an enlarged heart (and you all thought my heart was two sizes too small), so in addition to still having a problem with whatever is causing me to be unable to walk, I'll be visiting a cardiologist soon.


    Admit it, this is more like what you expected.

    The hospital gave me a tapered dose of prednisone, which, for 23 hours, allowed me to hobble a lot faster. It was a delight to wake up this morning and be able to move my legs with almost no difficulty, especially as on Tuesday I was nearly completely crippled, and the pain in my hands was so bad I couldn't even open a soda bottle. But around 5:00 p.m. today the leg pain when moving set in again, and I was back to smaller steps (although not nearly as bad as Tuesday). I have an appointment to see my own N.P. tomorrow night. I'll have a cardiology appointment as soon as my doctor's office can arrange one. (They are remarkably adept at getting a squeeze-in consultation; I've seen them turn an 8-week wait "even if your doctor refers you" into a three day one.) Possible causes for the enlarged heart are an infection in the past that caused tissue damage, or---as I learned about through my own research today---a completely benign condition called Athlete's Heart Syndrome (see also this article) which sometimes develops in people who do a lot of cardiovascular types of exercise. Ignoring the enlarged heart and going back to the original symptoms, I called my sister Cindy last night and learned that my niece Jenn had exactly the same symptoms, and is currently recovering finally after a round of antibiotics. The only test that she had come back positive was one that indicated an exposure to strep at some point. This matches a bacteriological diagnosis, rather than a viral one, but her case baffled her doctors for a while, and, they too suspected Lyme disease.


    The weasels just want my gnome engineer Mortalan character's gold if I kick.

    Being sick like this has made me appreciate much more how difficult it is for those with movement-related disorders or painful problems like arthritis. I also have a much better understanding of just how difficult it was for Nichelle all those years when her vitamin D deficiency left her debilitated. Still, I find many blessings. Kronos' sick time policies are excellent, and the superb insurance for which they are paying means I do not have to worry about the medical bills. I can work from home to coordinate with going to appointments or on those mornings when I'm not sure how well I'll feel, and keep up with work e-mail, etc., even when too sick to go in. I get to experience my children's delightfully twisted senses of humor in a time that might have been stressful to them. Nichelle is a constant help to me as well. I continue to benefit from (and am particularly grateful for) the large amount of time coordinating my case that my N.P.'s Celine Fortin and Rebecca Cooper-Piela and my "nurse-on-the-phone" Fran have put in. I am glad God doesn't want my life to get too boring. (The saga continues on the post entitled Day 13.)]]>
    538 2008-06-04 22:53:53 2008-06-05 03:53:53 open closed whats-wrong-with-doug publish 0 0 post 0 120429 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-06-12 16:24:59 2008-06-12 21:24:59 1 0 2 120428 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-12 08:44:44 2008-06-12 13:44:44 1 0 0 120422 mjlm19@yahoo.com 71.161.83.154 2008-06-05 10:48:22 2008-06-05 15:48:22 1 0 0 120420 foolishwench@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-05 01:07:13 2008-06-05 06:07:13 1 0 0 120421 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.6 2008-06-05 08:59:21 2008-06-05 13:59:21 1 0 0
    This Is Why I Have to Practice Saying No Every Day http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=540 Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:35:25 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=540

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    540 2008-06-09 15:35:25 2008-06-09 20:35:25 open closed this-is-why-i-practice-saying-no-every-day publish 0 0 post 0 120450 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-06-26 13:55:11 2008-06-26 18:55:11 Gizmodo Does Lego!".]]> 1 0 2 120432 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-06-16 14:31:36 2008-06-16 19:31:36 which John I am communicating. There's the John of obviously-false-observations-and-equally-false-magnanimity (shown by the above comment), the John of everything-in-the- world-is-someone-else's-fault, or the [preferred] John of I-royally- screwed-up-my-life-but-am-finally-behaving-responsibly. I really like the last John; for the most part he is the one who has shown himself most readily of late, which gives us great hope.]]> 1 0 2 120431 puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 72.74.197.91 2008-06-15 03:34:44 2008-06-15 08:34:44 1 0 0 120427 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-12 08:41:57 2008-06-12 13:41:57 1 0 0 120424 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-06-10 08:43:09 2008-06-10 13:43:09 no has been effective, although sometimes it is really difficult. (the castle is also Duplo, which she's outgrown.) We did get her (as we'd planned some smallish Lego purchases for the kids) a "girly-Lego" general construction set. Nichelle and NaNi have spent quite a bit of time building things, which is just adorable.]]> 1 0 2 120423 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2008-06-10 05:25:40 2008-06-10 10:25:40 1 0 0
    Day 13 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=541 Tue, 10 Jun 2008 00:38:42 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=541
    The Civil Family and the Wilcox Family. Debbie is the second person to the right of Nichelle. (At this point I could even squat down for the photo, albeit stiffly.)

    I hobbed about, but felt pretty good, and was able to walk almost normally for a couple of hours in the afternoon. On the way to the party I slept; on the way back we stopped at the Natick Mall to see the completion of a 7-foot-tall R2-D2 (which we contributed to on Saturday). In the very short walk through the mall, my leg got worse. By the time I went to bed, the pain and swelling was worse.


    I offed to take this home for them, but they didn't think it would fit in our van. (See the swelling in the leg?)

    I awoke at 5:30 a.m. with my leg in considerable pain, my temperature up to 100.9 (at 101.5 my doctor's office wants to know about it), and that awful everywhere-hurts-because-I-have-a-fever feeling. I was also really hungry. I gobbled acetaminophen and ibuprofen (and cereal), and then slept virtually constantly until noon. Today I've managed a little bit of work, but the fever and finger pain is still there, so I haven't accomplished very much. I am trying to let my body get the rest it needs, it just doesn't seem to be helping much. In addition to work, I've just got to get better for our church trip to Strategy Zone on Saturday.]]>
    541 2008-06-09 19:38:42 2008-06-10 00:38:42 open closed day-13 publish 0 0 post 0 120430 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-06-12 16:34:27 2008-06-12 21:34:27 probably have an infection secondary to strep. There are lots of other possibilities, too, which continue to be ruled out bit by bit. I would really like to be feeling better, but the pain and fever continue. I should start to see some results from the antibiotics soon.]]> 1 0 2
    Walking? Nyet. http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=542 Tue, 17 Jun 2008 02:22:34 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=542 This comic from Bloom County keeps coming to mind. (Copyright 1983, the Washington Post Company. Used under the "Get with It, This Is the 21st Century" interpretation of the Fair Use clause.) See http://www.berkeleybreathed.com/.

    Today I received numerous answers from my doctor; unfortunately, they were all along the lines of "Those results were negative," or "I don't know." I do know that I'm still running a fever (even after 5 days of antibiotics), but it seems to be slightly more controllable with medication, and it is nearly impossible for me to walk, even with Vicodin helping to manage the pain. On the bright side, my echocardiogram concluded that the enlarged heart shown on my chest x-ray was simply a test anomaly. This also concluded that, if I do have rheumatic fever, it hasn't done any damage to my heart. Still out there is the possibility of Lyme disease. One ironic thing is that I have a severe vitamin D deficiency---just like what incapacitated Nichelle for many years. (See, there would have been ROI on that cube with a window view I recently requested at work.) However, the vitamin D deficiency isn't likely to be the cause of my symptoms, as it wouldn't cause the localized swelling, nor fever, and wouldn't have set in so suddenly. (It's also easily treated.) I see an infectious disease specialist tomorrow, and I see my rheumatologist again on Thursday; we hope for more definitive answers. So far a large number of things have been ruled out. I've had so much blood and fluids drawn in the past week, that my weight has dropped 3 pounds. I am grateful for the dedication my ever-growing medical team has shown. My fellow church members and family members are praying for my recovery. My wife and children are incredibly helpful. Nichelle keeps life manageable, and the kids typically function as my extended arms and legs, without complaint. I have gotten much support as well from my co-workers. Many have called or e-mailed to see how I am doing. "Tovarich" Gary Dlugy is going to feed my tarantula, Susan (named after one of our VPs at Kronos). Sarcasm master Joe Royal sent these words of encouragement, which would have left me rolling on the floor if I'd been able to do such a thing:
    Things are a little dull without you. Meetings start on time and stick to the agenda. Management is starting to be worshiped. It's becoming a very unproductive work environment.
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    542 2008-06-16 21:22:34 2008-06-17 02:22:34 open closed walking-nyet publish 0 0 post 0 120443 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-21 05:28:36 2008-06-21 10:28:36 1 0 0 120440 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-06-18 21:30:52 2008-06-19 02:30:52 meteorology!!! That's so cool. I love meteorology, especially severe weather. For the first time, our conversations can get beyond, "So, you still building boats ... ?" "Yeah." Sweet.]]> 1 0 2 120434 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.6 2008-06-17 08:54:08 2008-06-17 13:54:08 Calvin and Hobbes is ALWAYS appropriate! Mark (and family)]]> 1 0 0 120433 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-17 03:53:01 2008-06-17 08:53:01 1 0 0
    Poststreptococcal Reactive Arthritis (Probably) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=543 Wed, 18 Jun 2008 02:29:54 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=543
    BLOG readers begged for Calvin and Hobbes ...

    At the moment I feel sleepy but almost good, after a feeling very miserable all morning, and sleeping most of the rest of the day. My rheumatologist, Dr. Eranki referred me to an infectious disease specialist, Dr. Strampfer. We discussed all sort of symptoms and possibilities. He fell for our typical joke of, "I've had this pain in my neck for 16 1/2 years," almost recording that as a symptom. The two front-runners are Poststreptococcal Reactive Arthritis (PSRA) and Rheumatic Fever. Although the diseases present slightly differently, there is still debate among some doctors as to whether they are indeed separate diseases, and not merely different manifestations of the same thing. Rheumatic Fever can lead to heart damage, which I don't have, although I may get long-term antibiotic treatment if Rheumatic Fever is considered a probable diagnosis. Poststreptococcal Reactive Arthritis, however, is fascinating, and perhaps a better match. I had one blood test in which my ASO was elevated, showing a past Group A beta-hemolytic streptococcal infection. One of the ways in which PSRA differentiates from Rheumatic Fever is that the joint pain in PSRA responds very poorly to normal anti-inflammatory drugs, like ibuprofen, which has, indeed, provided me nearly no relief. Another strike against Rheumatic Fever is the lack of Sydenham's chorea symptoms---"rapid, uncoordinated jerking movements affecting primarily the face, feet and hands." (Although I have been described as an uncoordinated jerk, that isn't quite the same.) Other possibilities include Human Parvovirus B19, but it seems not quite as likely. Likewise, my retest in a few more weeks for Lyme disease will be carried out, although we don't find that as likely, either, it's very important to diagnose as early as possible, as it can cause very serious long-term damage if untreated. Today I am back on prednisone (a corticosteroid), for a longer-term treatment. It's offered the first significant relief in about two weeks. I cannot express how wonderful it is to be able to stand and sit without being in serious pain while moving, nor just to be able to sit or lay down for a while without being able to get comfortable. I still limp quite a bit, but my stride has gotten longer than 6 inches, and each step isn't accompanied by pain. The fever continues, albeit more intermittently, making this day 21 with a fever, blowing away whatever my childhood chicken pox fever record was. I have been very sleepy today, but I think it's just my body catching up on rest after being in constant pain for nearly three weeks.
    But ... by the next morning (18 hours later), the prednisone has mostly worn off. The fingers in my left hand are almost impossible to move, and my stride is much shorter again. :: sigh :]]>
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    Gas at $23 a Gallon (No, Not Here) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=544 Wed, 18 Jun 2008 13:48:10 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=544
    Missonary Kid/MK Minister/My nephew Mike Matheson. (I warned Mike I'd get even someday for the time he swiped my camera at my Mom's wedding and put all sort of shots like this one on it.)

    Mike Matheson is a missionary kid (MK) who married another MK and now works as a minister to MKs and their families with Wycliffe Bible Translators, at and around the JAARS (Jungle Aviation and Radio Services) center in Waxhaw, North Carolina. Currently he's co-leading a group to Guinea-Bissau, which is on the western coast of Africa. Gasoline there was averaging $23 per gallon ... until supply ran out completely. (Yes, the whole country seems to be without gasoline at the moment.) Thankfully, the driver they needed for part of their trip managed to save up enough gas ahead of time to get them where they needed. I highly recommend reading up on Mike's trip, which has been updated whenever e-mail access allows, at the Guinea-Bissau Team BLOG and the GB Team Notes Page. You can follow the exploits of Mike and Beth and Leigh at their main ministry page. Mike grew up in Brazil, and Beth in the Philippines. They are among the most caring people we've ever met, and have a real heart for working with the unique needs of MKs and their families---which they are singularly qualified to understand. (Nichelle and I think so highly of them that they are our designated choices to inherit our brood if we both kick.)

    You can read more about the Republic of Guinea-Bissau via Wikipedia or the CIA World Factbook.

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    544 2008-06-18 08:48:10 2008-06-18 13:48:10 open closed gas-at-23-a-gallon-no-not-here publish 0 0 post 0 120462 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-07-08 14:15:22 2008-07-08 19:15:22 1 0 2 120457 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 208.145.81.2 2008-07-07 09:53:20 2008-07-07 14:53:20 1 0 0 120458 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-07-08 04:37:28 2008-07-08 09:37:28 1 0 0 120456 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 208.145.81.2 2008-07-07 09:51:31 2008-07-07 14:51:31 1 0 0 120442 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-21 05:25:10 2008-06-21 10:25:10 1 0 0 120441 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-20 05:08:06 2008-06-20 10:08:06 1 0 0
    Today, I Could Put on My Shoes! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=545 Mon, 23 Jun 2008 15:31:31 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=545
    No, these aren't my shoes, but ... dang ... [Enunciate the last bit the way Will Smith recommends Beatrice (Edgar's wife) hire an internal decorator in Men in Black.]

    For example, here's how the past few days have gone: Thursday: Ibuprofen taken at night allowed me to move fairly well in the morning. As soon as I woke up, I took my prednisone, and within a couple of hours, was able to hobble about without much pain. I had a doctor's appointment mid-day, but worked at the office and from home around the appointment, and felt very good. By late afternoon, I had a fever, and needed to take a short nap. Still, I managed to get to and lead our small group Bible study, with Nichelle driving. I felt good, and didn't take any extra medication at bedtime, when the prednisone was definitely beginning to wear off. Friday: Not taking the ibuprofen seems to have been a big mistake. I awoke at about 5:00 a.m. with serious pain and movement issues. I could barely move my legs, and couldn't use either hand. I waited until 6:00 to take the increased dose of prednisone Dr. Eranki prescribed, but it took hours to have a noticeable effect. I did go to work, but didn't make it into the office until 11:30 a.m. Due to the pain and swelling in my left middle finger, typing on my left hand was reduced to 1-finger. Still, in the evening I felt very good. Nichelle and I were able to attend "Run for Your Wife," a TCAN Players [hilarious] comedy play featuring co-worker Laura Crook. Saturday: I felt good for a few hours in the morning, but spent most of the day fighting the low fever, playing some games with the kids and hanging out in Azeroth, spending an inordinate amount of time trying to beat a seasonal instance. Sunday: Good in the morning. I was able to drive to church early for my Geek work (A/V), and even ran a couple of quick errands in Nashua after the service (pharmacy; gas for the mower). By mid afternoon, the fever was back, and I spent a couple of hours starting at supper time just sleeping. Afterward, I felt pretty good. Today: Today I was able to move my legs well enough to put on shoes and socks for the first time in several weeks! (After taking prednisone a few hours earlier.) The biggest problem today is my left hand. I do have a low fever, but it's only about 1/2 a degree above normal, which to me is starting to feel normal. By this evening, my movement ability had dropped a bit, but not much, but I became febrile again enough to notice. Oh, well, today was better than usual. PSRA Details / Symptoms / Concepts Tomorrow will mark my fourth week since the onset of obvious symptoms, and I had noticed some minor symptoms before that. Wow! Poststreptococcal Reactive Arthritis is only a probable diagnosis. I will have an echocardiogram in a few weeks, as well as another Lyme disease titer, to rule out Rheumatic Fever and Lyme disease, respectively. However, PSRA does seem to fit the symptoms. Neither PSRA nor rheumatic fever are testable conditions; they are syndromes---collections of symptoms---and the symptoms must be weighed carefully to figure out what the overall diagnosis should be. The biggest meaningful symptoms or test results have been a positive blood test for a recent strep infection, the swelling and joint pain in my legs, hands, and shoulders, the fever, and vast number of negative tests for heart problems, liver function problems, active infections, etc. Note that arthritis essentially means joint pain, so the reactive arthritis (assuming that it what I have), is not the type of arthritis that we all tend to develop as we age. (There is some x-ray evidence of that happening in my back, which is completely normal for this point in my life, and has not affected me in any way.) I have a few days to go on my antibiotic treatment, and have already started tapering down the prednisone. Today has been my best freedom-of-movement day so far, and I hope that trend will continue. The guys in my at-work Bible study laid hands on me and prayed for my recovery today, which was very moving. ]]>
    545 2008-06-23 10:31:31 2008-06-23 15:31:31 open closed today-i-could-put-on-my-shoes publish 0 0 post 0 120463 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-07-09 14:22:53 2008-07-09 19:22:53 Status Report Well, I'm improving, albeit very slowly. The favored diagnosis is still Poststreptococcyl Reactive Arthritis, although Rheumatic Fever is not completely ruled out of the differential. I still have pain, swelling, occasional fever, and movement difficulties. However, they are not bad enough to keep me from working full-time or participating in much of life. (I am, however, disappointed that I can't get in my exercise. Going from running 1-2 miles a day to walking with a limp at best is quite a change. So, I've been playing more World of WarCraft with the kids, and not hitting the weights, road, or elliptical.) There are still days when I'm feverish and worn out, but they seem to be relatively rare. Last Saturday was one, and I spent most of the day either sleeping or in a slightly-fevered fog. Sunday, on the other hand (there may be a weather related connection), was an absolutely wonderful day, and Nichelle and I (the boys were at the Dunn's house) took NaNi to Canobie Lake Park after church. That insane 4-year-old child was very disappointed at some of the height restrictions, but did go on and love at least one "black diamond" rated ride which I chickened out of. All in all, I managed 4-5 hours of near-constant walking or being on my feet, which may have contributed to Monday being a relatively bad day for movement. My treatment regimen at this point includes a dose of prednisone in the morning, which will slowly taper down over the next four weeks, acetaminophen if the fever goes up, and an 800 mg dose of ibuprofen at night. Now that the swelling isn't as severe, the ibuprofen seems to be better up to the task of making it easier to move in the morning. PSRA Mechanics I also have an explanation of how this thing works. Essentially, it's a case of immune system confusion. The streptococcal bacteria are antigens that the immune system identifies. The immune system responds with fighting the bacteria by producing antibodies that bind with the antigens to eliminate the bacteria, and increasing the production of white blood cells. This sometimes causing fluid to build up in affected areas. In the case of PSRA, however, the immune system's own antigens resemble the streptococcal antigens closely enough that the immune system continues to fight the infection even after it's gone. The prednisone acts on this by mitigating the immune response, reducing the inflammation.]]> 1 0 2 120455 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-07-01 11:09:55 2008-07-01 16:09:55 Ghostbusters II?
    Dr. Peter Venkman (Bill Murray): Hi, Egon. How's school? I bet those science chicks really dig that large cranium of yours, huh? Dr. Egon Spengler (Harold Ramis): I think they're more interested in my epididymis.
    So, Paul is defective, eh? I didn't realize Mom and Dad had gotten defective merchandise. Maybe there's an extended warranty available. Of course, I have brain damage (really---it's why I have no peripheral vision on the left side), so who am I to talk? We could discuss Aaron, too, but I don't think my BLOG's database is large enough. Next time Richard is in for a replacement, just have them tack on a personality replacement as well ...]]>
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    120453 lizmom@comcast.net 76.24.91.25 2008-06-30 07:27:36 2008-06-30 12:27:36 1 0 0 120452 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-29 05:37:14 2008-06-29 10:37:14 1 0 0 120451 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-29 04:21:54 2008-06-29 09:21:54 1 0 0 120449 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.59.209 2008-06-26 13:46:49 2008-06-26 18:46:49 1 0 2 120447 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 76.24.50.236 2008-06-24 07:38:07 2008-06-24 12:38:07 1 0 2 120446 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-24 05:43:33 2008-06-24 10:43:33 1 0 0 120445 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-06-24 04:26:10 2008-06-24 09:26:10 1 0 0 120444 clr257@juno.com 72.70.246.89 2008-06-23 19:23:46 2008-06-24 00:23:46 1 0 0
    Cute Faces ... Dorky Glasses (Why Fashion is Irrational) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=547 Thu, 17 Jul 2008 23:19:52 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=547
    You have a cute (if somewhat pale) face, honey ... great color for the glasses, but ... dang ...


    Jeepers, Uncle Ian, what were you thinking?


    Dorky in 1950 ... dorkier still if you think these are cool.


    Yes, even the uber-cool companies are not exempt from marketing trash for your face. Be smarter!

    Now, I'm going to prove my point by borrowing one of the world's most beautiful faces, normally belonging to Catherine Zeta Jones.


    Let's see how dorky glasses ruin even Catherine Zeta. Here she is before a trip to the local optician nee fashionista.


    And ... here's Catherine with her super-cool fashion-statement spectacles.


    We hope Catherine Zeta Jones has better fashion sense than this, but many people with beautiful faces do not.


    See how bad it can get?


    Do you believe me now?

    So ... don't be tempted to look like a dork just because all the cool people are doing it! Just like wearing your breeches half falling off your butt, tramp stamps, and bell-bottoms (and virtually anything from the 1970s), just because it is or was popular, trendy, faddish, or in some way nifty, doesn't mean it's a good idea. Spend your hard earned dollars on something useful, like foreign missions, books by John Piper, or World of WarCraft.


    And the cooler they pretend to be, the worse it gets.


    Note: Virtual glasses are from a cool-if-slightly-pokey (showing the dangers of not-careful-enough AJAX development) service called FrameFinder, courtesy of FramesDirect.com . ]]>
    547 2008-07-17 18:19:52 2008-07-17 23:19:52 open closed cute-faces-dorky-glasses-why-fashion-is-irrational publish 0 0 post 0 120470 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.63.60.189 2008-07-20 11:18:33 2008-07-20 16:18:33 RANDOM? :: sigh :: I guess not everyone thinks in my direction. This is probably a very good thing. Anyway, here's a NaNi story: Okay, last week I told the kids at dinner that I would get rid of them, and replace them with obedient child robots. NaNi said, "Dad, not even the robots would obey you; I know it." And today NaNi handed me a drawing in church, and said, "Look, it's your Mii character." A while later, she brought me one that had Xs in place of pupils, and said, "Look, Dad, it's you, dead." Enough? I mean, she's cute 24/7.]]> 1 0 2 120469 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-07-19 16:21:01 2008-07-19 21:21:01 1 0 0 120468 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2008-07-18 13:27:06 2008-07-18 18:27:06 something. Actually, this subject has been on my mind for a couple of years. (It didn't take long to throw together, either.)]]> 1 0 2 120467 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-07-18 03:24:42 2008-07-18 08:24:42 1 0 0 120466 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2008-07-17 18:22:30 2008-07-17 23:22:30 1 0 0
    Why Is Programming Fun? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=549 Fri, 25 Jul 2008 19:10:53 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=549 A couple of weeks ago, I finished reading The Mythical Man-Month: Essays on Software Engineering, Anniversary Edition (2nd Edition), after leaving it sitting on my dresser for ages. The book is a collection of essays about software design, the most famous of which became the book's title---expressing the fundamental idea that adding personnel does not necessarily allow a project to be completed faster, just as nine women cannot produce a single baby in one month. That particular essay, and probably several others, is worthy of a separate discussion; but one Frederick Brooks eloquently expresses has been on my mind for several years. To be honest, I love my job. (Now, this isn't to say I wouldn't rather be paid to travel the world, build with Lego, or quest in World of WarCraft.) I can't think of anything I'd rather do as a career than be a programmer, except maybe astronaut or Supreme Dictator of the Western Hemisphere. I had been mulling over exactly why this is for a very long time. Frederick P. Brooks has expressed what I feel far more eloquently than I believe I am able:
    The Joys of the Craft Why is programming fun? What delights may its practitioner expect as his reward? First is the sheer joy of making things. As the child delights in his mud pie, so the adult enjoys building things, especially things of his own design. I think this delight must be an image of God's delight in making things, a delight shown in the distinctness and newness of each leaf and each snowflake. Second is the pleasure of making things that are useful to other people. Deep within, we want others to use our work and to find it helpful. In this respect the programming system is not essentially different from the child's first clay pencil holder "for Daddy's office." Third is the fascination of fashioning complex puzzle-like objects of interlocking moving parts and watching them work in subtle cycles, playing out the consequences of principles built in from the beginning. The programmed computer has all the fascination of the pinball machine or the jukebox mechanism, carried to the ultimate. Fourth is the joy of always learning, which springs from the nonrepearing nature of the task. In one way or another the problem is ever new, and its solver learns something: sometimes practical, sometimes theoretical, and sometimes both. Finally, there is the delight of working in such a tractable medium. The programmer, like the poet, works only slightly removed from pure thought-stuff. He builds his castles in the air, from air, creating by exertion of the imagination. Few media of creation are so flexible, so easy to polish and rework, so readily capable of realizing grand conceptual structures. (As we shall see later, this very tractability has its own problems.) Yet the program construct, unlike the poet's words, is real in the sense that it moves and works, producing visible outputs separate from the construct itself. It prints results, draws pictures, produces sounds, moves arms. The magic of myth and legend has come true in our time. One types the correct incantation on a keyboard, and a display screen comes to life, showing things that never were nor could be. Programming then is fun because it gratifies creative longings built deep within us and delights sensibilities we have in common with all men.
    I also loved the way Brooks closes his preface: "Soli Deo gloria---To God alone be glory." This isn't a perspective one generally finds in books about software. (Excerpt from Frederick P. Brooks, The Mythical Man-Month: Essays on Software Engineering, Anniversary Edition (2nd Edition), © 1995, Addison-Wesley Longman, Inc., p. 7.)]]>
    549 2008-07-25 14:10:53 2008-07-25 19:10:53 open closed why-is-programming-fun publish 0 0 post 0 120473 foolishwench@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-07-25 18:40:59 2008-07-25 23:40:59 1 0 0 120471 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2008-07-25 15:04:23 2008-07-25 20:04:23 Western hemisphere??? Are you losing ambition? ;)]]> 1 0 0
    Chemotherapy (Cancer Optional) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=550 Tue, 29 Jul 2008 13:10:26 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=550 reactive arthritis---if that is what it is (see below)---continues. Some days are better than others, and it's much easier than it was a number of weeks ago, but it really isn't going away. Last night I was able to do some ab[dominal] crunches (something I expect to do daily now), and I also spent a short time on the exercise bike, but couldn't use my left arm or either leg, only my right arm, because of the joint pain in my knees and shoulder. My prayer is that my legs, fingers, and shoulder will improve enough for me to exercise the way Nichelle wants me to the way I want to. (It also means I'm not likely to be doing any real hiking or bicycling during this glorious summer, which is more than a bit disappointing.) Of course, there's a possibility that this isn't poststreptococcal reactive arthritis---it might be psoriatic arthritis. On the other hand, it might have started as one thing, but be developing into any one of another inflammatory arthritic condition. (I do also have what appears to be psoriasis on my scalp---which Nichelle gets credit for noticing and making sure I discussed it with my doctors as possibly related.) Or perhaps I'm just faking this to get out of Nichelle's "new and improved" workouts ... or maybe it's Munchausen syndrome ... or maybe even Nichelle is secretly causing this, making it Munchausen syndrome by proxy. I should add that my follow-up echocardiogram and EKG were both fine, so we have now officially ruled out rheumatic fever. According to Dr. Eranki, I have an atypical presentation, which means that my symptoms don't exactly match one particular flavor of arthritis, making diagnosis even more difficult than usual. In other words, I am just weird. I start on methotrexate today. Methotrexate is officially a chemotherapy drug, but is also used to treat psoriasis and arthritis and other rheumatic conditions. For those of you who want to sound smarter than your peers, you can tell them it's a DMARD (disease-modifying antirheumatic drug), which decreases the pain and swelling of arthritis and reduces both the damage to joints and the risk of long-term disability. Discussion of the drug prompted a surprisingly emotional reaction. Having a new medication introduced as a chemotherapy drug ... knowing the side effects of many chemotherapy drugs, I was leery of trying it. I also realized for the first time that the medication "reduces the risk of long-term disability"---dragging me into the understanding that the near-constant joint pain and swelling isn't merely an inconvenience, it could make the rest of my life more difficult as well. At any rate, I spent the past few days reading up on the medication, carefully observing that the arthritis isn't going away, and a while yesterday peppering the Dr. Eranki with questions, before deciding to go ahead with this phase of treatment. Even with this, it will be at least 6 weeks before the methotrexate has any noticeable positive effect. However, I am grateful that the fevers finally seem to be mostly gone, and that I am able to work and do many other things normally or with minor restrictions. These blessings have not always been available to me throughout this illness, and I thank the Lord daily for them. Onward ...]]> 550 2008-07-29 08:10:26 2008-07-29 13:10:26 open closed chemotherapy-cancer-optional publish 0 0 post 0 120480 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-09-02 04:53:02 2008-09-02 09:53:02 1 0 0 120479 foolishwench@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-08-20 18:46:25 2008-08-20 23:46:25 1 0 0 120478 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2008-08-20 12:04:40 2008-08-20 17:04:40 Mount Major, while on our vacation, without any serious side effects. I am hobbling a little less, but am still far from normal. Running is out of the question, and my shoulder is still giving me enough trouble to eliminate all sorts of exercise. I am starting to compensate with ab work and bicep curls. Sometimes I will run laps in the pool (although it's going to be too cold to do that in a few more weeks here). I'd estimate another several months to recovery, but I'll provide an update when I speak with my doctor on Thursday. That may change as the chemotherapy treatment goes on, as it wasn't expected to have much effect until 5 or 6 weeks in, and I've just taken my third, weekly dose.]]> 1 0 2 120477 foolishwench@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-08-19 19:22:51 2008-08-20 00:22:51 1 0 0 120476 foolishwench@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-08-05 18:49:01 2008-08-05 23:49:01 1 0 0 120475 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 192.223.226.5 2008-07-29 08:45:40 2008-07-29 13:45:40 1 0 0 Amazing Worldwide (Web) Updates http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=552 Tue, 23 Sep 2008 17:51:06 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=552 Cyborgs Are Real Way cool neuroscience. Gizmodo Goes to Lego Far more here than I could summarize, including a video tour of the Lego factory. Star Wars is Nearer than You Think Actually, Star Wars weapons fire charges of ionized Tibanna gas, but you'll get the idea. Microsoft 3D Modeler And you thought everything from Microsoft was evil. The Large Hadron Collider Rap Almost as good as "White and Nerdy." ShapeWays 3D modeling These aren't quite replicators, but affordable 3D "printing" is now at our disposal. Marketing and Stop Signs What happens when the marketing department designs a stop sign? (Software and graphics design often go this way.) The Life of the Chinese Gold Farmer Gamers will understand the reference. Others may learn something. Keeper of the Star Wars Canon Imagine having to hold the continuity of a universe together single-handedly. (Well, it helps to have some database skills.) The Mythbusters Weren't Allowed to Bust This. What "the man" doesn't want you to know about RFID. I have Joined the Dharma Initiative. I Have Decided to Become President
    What do you think of, "Grow up, you babies!" as a campaign slogan?]]>
    552 2008-09-23 12:51:06 2008-09-23 17:51:06 open closed amazing-worldwide-web-updates publish 0 0 post 0 120483 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2008-09-24 08:25:47 2008-09-24 13:25:47 Astrobiology Rap.]]> 1 0 2 120482 mjcase4@comcast.net 134.174.1.26 2008-09-23 13:03:26 2008-09-23 18:03:26 1 0 0
    Shiver Me Timbers! Talk Like a Pirate Day Be on the Morrow! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=570 Thu, 18 Sep 2008 17:37:26 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=570
    'Twas A grand, glorious day when I awoke. “Wench!” demanded I, “Where be me mornin’ grog?” But then I learned a right powerful lesson: Be not calling a fair lass a “wench,” if’n she be stronger than thee. Painfully quick the lesson was, and quickly painful.
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    570 2008-09-18 12:37:26 2008-09-18 17:37:26 open closed shiver-me-timbers-talk-like-a-pirate-day-be-on-the-morrow publish 0 0 post 0 120481 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-09-21 05:34:22 2008-09-21 10:34:22 1 0 0
    The Geek Is Strong in Her http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=575 Wed, 08 Oct 2008 16:27:21 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=575
    Actually, that's my propeller beanie.

    Growing up in our household, it isn't likely that Naomi would be able to escape the culture of Geekdom that pervades it. Still, she has proven herself to be independently minded in a number of ways. For example, she has developed, without our influence, her own belief in Santa Claus, which none of the boys did. (We chose not to foist the Santa myth on the children, but she's picked it up on her own, from television and other media, and adheres stubbornly to his existence.) She is crazy about ballet and girl clothes, and can even dance beautifully while using a hula hoop, both activities being entirely self-taught. Still, she plays World of WarCraft (we joke that she has a level 5 Piercing Shriek) and Halo, loves Star Wars, Lego, and "Dr. Who" (although we had to cut back on the last one, as it was giving her nightmares), and reads MegaTokyo. So, here are a few of the more interesting ways she makes us smile, as we rub our hands together and laugh maniacally: When I saw them go on sale at ThinkGeek, Nichelle insisted that I buy a Flux Capacitor replica. So, one Sunday, when I was bringing the Flux Capacitor to church to show off (we have a Geeky church), Naomi exclaimed, "Dad! We forgot to bring a second lot of plutonium!" Then, she ordered, "Mom! Get it up to 88 miles per hour!" and started chanting, "Do it! Do it! Do it!" (Back to the Future has always one of Naomi's favorite films. It's also where she learned to swear ... and then of course not to swear.) The other day she casually remarked, "The Mach 5 rules; the Mach 6 drools." (Yes, we are Speed Racer fans as well.) A few weeks ago, we went out for go-carts and putt-putt golf, and in the lot was a small, shed-like (TARDIS-like) building with double-doors on the front. NaNi called out, "Look, Dad, a time travel machine!" And she likes science as well, including begging to go places like the Museum of Science. We were talking about the moon, and I asked her, "Where does the moon gets its light?" She responded, "From the sun." I was thrilled, impressed that she understood reflectivity as it applies to moonlight at four years of age. Then she said, "Yeah, the sun turns into the moon at night." We'll keep trying ...


    NaNi mocks Isaac in the time-honored manner: "Look, I'm Isaac ... Duuuuuuh."

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    575 2008-10-08 11:27:21 2008-10-08 16:27:21 open closed the-geek-is-strong-in-her publish 0 0 post 0 120515 ashtonbolser@gmail.com 24.62.171.188 2009-01-06 17:57:14 2009-01-06 22:57:14 1 0 0 120485 pablo_willie@hotmail.com 70.127.125.115 2008-10-09 06:53:15 2008-10-09 11:53:15 1 0 0 120484 lizmom@comcast.net 76.24.91.25 2008-10-08 19:35:40 2008-10-09 00:35:40 1 0 0
    Happy Reformation Day http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=584 Fri, 31 Oct 2008 20:59:51 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=584 Reformation Day.


    Door of the Schlosskirche (castle church) to which Luther is said to have nailed his 95 Theses, sparking the Reformation.

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    584 2008-10-31 15:59:51 2008-10-31 20:59:51 open closed happy-reformation-day publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120499 mark@sohmer.net http://resources.sohmer.net 192.223.226.6 2008-11-03 10:14:38 2008-11-03 15:14:38 spirit of Reformation Day, and spread some knowledge around to my neighbors, I decided on Friday night to dress up as Martin Luther and knock on all my neighbors' doors, hoping that my costume would prompt a good discussion of this influential reformer. But to my great surprise, all my neighbors were completely unphased by my costume, and even gave me candy! Weird!]]> 1 0 0
    FIRST LEGO League: We Won! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=585 Mon, 17 Nov 2008 16:55:32 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=585 Academy for Science and Design Chartered Public School, in Merrimack New Hampshire. Many of you know I've been teaching Lego Robotics twice a week at the Academy for Science and Design, in Merrimack, N.H. As a function of the class, we had two teams competing in the FIRST LEGO League branch of the FIRST Robotics program, founded by Dean Kaman. (See http://www.usfirst.org/community/fll/ .) The ASD is a chartered public school, now in its second year of operation. At the "MindStorms Madness" qualifying tournament in Merrimack, N.H., on Saturday, the two teams from the ASD came away with three trophies: The team I officially coach, Robotic Revolution, won first place in the Technical category (Robot design and programming), and will go on to compete at the state competition on December 6 at Nashua South High School.

    The other team I taught (but did not officially coach) won 2nd place in Technical, and got the top score during the seeding matches. (Sadly, they were eliminated in the finals.) The photos from the slide show above are available here on PicasaWeb. I'll update this post with more details about the team and the event sometime in the next day or two.]]>
    585 2008-11-17 11:55:32 2008-11-17 16:55:32 open closed first-lego-league-we-won publish 0 0 post 0 120510 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.104 2009-01-04 07:10:25 2009-01-04 12:10:25 1 0 0 120502 clr257@juno.com 72.79.205.87 2008-11-17 18:43:24 2008-11-17 23:43:24 1 0 0 120511 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.63.123.134 2009-01-04 11:41:55 2009-01-04 16:41:55 the "Battle of the Planets") construction block set (not to be confused with Lego) made by "Best-Lock," which sells very discounted nonLego bricks, and has produced the absolutely worst commercial Web site I've seen in years. So, the reality is, the official rules state clearly that that nonLego parts are not allowed in the FIRST LEGO League competitions. But, even if they were allowed by the competition, I definitely wouldn't use them. (In fact, I found 4 or 5 Mega Blok pieces in the school's collection, which I allowed Isaac to set fire to.) We also use Mega Blok as an insult in our groups, which is far more severe than calling someone a Duplo. I think, though, I'm going to have to add Best Lock to our list.]]> 1 0 2
    g-speak Spacial Operating System http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=586 Fri, 21 Nov 2008 17:32:04 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=586 written about developments in this area before, but you'll want to see the video below to find out what Oblong Industries is up to.
    g-speak overview 1828121108 from john underkoffler on Vimeo.
    Some of the SOE's core ideas are already familiar from the film Minority Report, whose characters performed forensic analysis using massive, gesturally driven displays. The similarity is no coincidence: one of Oblong's founders served as science advisor to Minority Report and based the design of those scenes directly on his earlier work at MIT.
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    586 2008-11-21 12:32:04 2008-11-21 17:32:04 open closed g-speak-spacial-operating-system publish 0 0 post 0 120504 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.52.78 2008-11-21 18:17:44 2008-11-21 23:17:44 Leapster device. So there!]]> 1 0 0 120505 mike_matheson@juno.com 71.75.139.58 2008-12-13 17:03:45 2008-12-13 22:03:45 1 0 0 120506 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.63.123.134 2008-12-14 10:31:20 2008-12-14 15:31:20 1 0 2 120574 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-11 15:11:19 2009-03-11 20:11:19 1 0 2
    NaNi and Nichelle in The Nutcracker http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=587 Sun, 21 Dec 2008 14:07:01 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=587
    Naomi in her angel costume and makeup from Gate City Ballet\'s Nutcracker.

    Both NaNi and Nichelle were in a production of "The Nutcracker," put on yesterday by Gate City Ballet. NaNi got the part of an angel, and Nichelle was one of the dancers at the party in the beginning.

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    The performance was originally scheduled for last Friday and Saturday, but had to be postponed because of the ice storm. Another snowstorm arrived on Friday, so two performances were set up on Saturday.


    Nichelle, onstage, during the party scene.

    I'd actually never seen "The Nutcracker," although, like most, I was familiar with the music. I was very impressed with both the overall quality of the production for a relatively small ballet company, and the skills of the dancers, especially the children. Later I learned that GCB is quite well known in this area for doing such excellent productions.


    Nichelle at the end of her scene.

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    587 2008-12-21 09:07:01 2008-12-21 14:07:01 open closed nani-and-nichelle-in-the-nutcracker publish 0 0 post 0 120508 ali.christine@gmail.com 192.251.125.85 2008-12-28 20:15:42 2008-12-29 01:15:42 1 0 0 120507 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 24.61.130.117 2008-12-21 16:23:18 2008-12-21 21:23:18 your Nutcracker photos before I had a chance to post mine! ;P Hey, Happy Chanukah!]]> 1 0 0
    Glory http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=588 Wed, 24 Dec 2008 16:14:48 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=588 "The heavens declare the glory of God, and the sky above proclaims His handiwork." (Psalm 19:1, ESV)


    A sample: colliding Antennae Galaxies (NGC 4038/NGC 4039)

    Check out the 2008 Hubble Space Telescope Advent Calendar; a new HST image will be posted each day through tomorrow. ]]>
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    Doug's Health: Hoping Humira Works http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=591 Wed, 14 Jan 2009 19:35:01 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=591 symmetric psoriatic arthritis, finally answering the question of psoriatic versus poststreptococcal reactive arthritis, although it must be pointed out that this is not a definitive diagnosis, but rather a differential one based on the presence of psoriatic skin lesions and the lack of reactivity to methotrexate alone. I haven't written much because, frankly, there hasn't been much to say. While continuing treatment with methotrexate, the inflammation which has made it painful to move in certain ways (and at time nearly impossible) has stayed almost the same for months; the psoriasis---apparently the start of the whole mess---has actually gotten worse. After several months when the arthritis symptoms were quite severe, most of the duration of this has been more mildly debilitating. I'm now able to move well enough to use our elliptical machine at home nearly every day. I was only really "down" about this illness once, when I realized there was no way I could participate in a planned outing to The Strategy Zone that I'd been anticipating for nearly a year. (I actually cried about that one.) It is very hard to lose weight (although I've taken off 4 pounds since Thanksgiving), even with Nichelle monitoring and prescribing my diet. It hurts to do things like put on and take off shoes, and exercises like Tao-Bo and running are out of the question. Until this became bad in early June, I was running about two miles every day---something I had worked since the previous November to be able to do. I've been able to help compensate for the psoriasis by spending the drive to work and back brushing my hair, which helps keep me---mostly---from looking like a Head and Shoulders commercial. (Finding a brush that was stiff enough was amusingly difficult.) To be honest, it was much harder to see Nichelle suffering all that time under her vitamin D deficiency and being unable to do anything to truly help her. Being the "sick one" is sometimes very mildly discouraging, and somewhat painful, but it hasn't been that bad. I also have much more sympathy to those with movement disabilities or rheumatoid arthritis. Yesterday I took my first dose of Humira, a band name form of adalimumab, which is a tumor necrosis factor-alpha inhibitor. TNF is part of the inflammatory process, and inhibiting it reduces inflammation. However, in addition to some other potential side effects, Humira is an immunosupressant, and can leave one open to infections and other illnesses. (For this reason I had to be very carefully screened for tuberculosis.) It also has to be injected, although only twice a month, and it's only subcutaneous, and nearly painless. (I've had blood draws that hurt more.) It's also very expensive---I believe about $20,000 per year---but insurance covers that, and the manufacturer even pays my co-payments. On the bright side, in 4--8 weeks, I might start to see some reduction of symptoms, although the full treatment often lasts a year. Thanks to all of you who are praying, and for all your kindnesses along the way.]]> 591 2009-01-14 14:35:01 2009-01-14 19:35:01 open closed dougs-health-hoping-humira-works publish 0 0 post 0 120522 a.kingston.roberts@gmail.com 76.118.170.30 2009-01-21 16:54:13 2009-01-21 21:54:13 1 0 0 120518 summitsp@hotmail.com 75.67.222.130 2009-01-14 20:24:13 2009-01-15 01:24:13 1 0 0 120516 breajm@gmail.com 200.42.222.221 2009-01-14 16:17:51 2009-01-14 21:17:51 1 0 0 120517 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.104 2009-01-14 18:32:59 2009-01-14 23:32:59 1 0 0 120626 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-20 10:42:16 2009-03-20 15:42:16 1 0 2 Fun with Atheism http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=592 Mon, 19 Jan 2009 22:50:20 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=592 Academy for Science and Design chartered public school, in Merrimack, New Hampshire. I volunteer two mornings a week, and teach two different student groups, numbering about 10 each. Until December, the program focused on FIRST LEGO League, in which we were competing. Since then we have taken up building robots for an intramural robot Sumo competition. A few weeks ago, we mentioned a requirement of ethical behavior in class. One of the kids pondered, "Why should I care about ethics?" "Because God requires it," I replied. (Just because I'm working in a public school, there is no reason to pretend I'm not a Christ-follower. I don't beat them over the head with it---indeed, it hardly ever comes up---but it is the foundation for my moral beliefs, including why we need to behave in an ethical manner.) "But I'm an atheist," claimed the student, "so that doesn't apply to me." "Well, then," I suggested, "The FLL program requires it; your school requires it; and this class requires it. Will that suffice?" A few moments later I asked the student, "So, you're an atheist? Really?" "Yes." "Honest to God?" "Ye---waaaaaaaaiiiiiiiit a minute." We're still laughing about it. ]]> 592 2009-01-19 17:50:20 2009-01-19 22:50:20 open closed fun-with-atheism publish 0 0 post 0 120519 puneet@inventica.com http://sikhtimes.com 71.232.145.24 2009-01-19 20:26:46 2009-01-20 01:26:46 1 0 0 120520 phil.luchon@gmail.com 66.31.67.98 2009-01-20 14:00:46 2009-01-20 19:00:46 1 0 0 120521 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.104 2009-01-21 07:38:24 2009-01-21 12:38:24 1 0 0 President Obama's Big Day: Off to a Good Start http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=593 Wed, 21 Jan 2009 23:45:27 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=593
  • A freeze on salaries for White House staff earning $100,000 or more.
  • New Freedom of Information Act rules, making it harder to keep the workings of government secret. (And requiring a third-party ruling before declaring communication or meetings secret.)
  • Saying, "The way to make government responsible is to hold it accountable," he ordered new ethics rules for "a clean break from business as usual"---tighter ethics rules governing when administration officials can work on issues on which they previously lobbied governmental agencies, and banning them from lobbying his administration after leaving government service.
  • He also drafted an executive order calling for closing the Guantanamo Bay prison facility within a year, got things rolling on the economic stimulus package, and spoke with a number of Middle East leaders. Despite what I would have predicted, I think I am going to like this guy. (See http://www.cfrb.com/news/56/861993 and http://marketplace.publicradio.org/display/web/2009/01/21/pm_first_day_q/ .)]]>
    593 2009-01-21 18:45:27 2009-01-21 23:45:27 open closed president-obamas-big-day-off-to-a-good-start publish 0 0 post 0 120555 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 66.31.67.98 2009-02-21 18:04:13 2009-02-21 23:04:13 1 0 2 120554 akr23@juno.com 76.118.170.30 2009-02-20 18:05:31 2009-02-20 23:05:31 1 0 0 120526 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-01-26 14:22:24 2009-01-26 19:22:24 http://recovery.gov/. (See some background at Slashdot.)]]> 1 0 2 120523 miket26@mail.com http://myspace.com/elextacymike 66.30.83.252 2009-01-22 11:16:23 2009-01-22 16:16:23 1 0 0 120647 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-04-03 11:22:47 2009-04-03 16:22:47 The Economist: "The American Presidency: Learning the Hard Way."
    Put bluntly, the Democrats are messing him around. They are pushing pro-trade-union legislation (notably a measure to get rid of secret ballots) even though he doesn’t want them to do so; they have been roughing up the bankers even though it makes his task of fixing the economy much harder; they have stuffed his stimulus package and his appropriations bill with pork, even though this damages him and his party in the eyes of the electorate. Worst of all, he is letting them get away with it.
    Very much worth a read. (Thanks much to Puneet Lambda for pointing out the article.)]]>
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    120627 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-20 10:54:50 2009-03-20 15:54:50 CNN has reported on how well recovery.gov is doing so far.]]> 1 0 2 120635 wilblog@nhconsultant.com http://www.CharlesDunnPhoto.com 75.67.243.203 2009-03-25 08:56:02 2009-03-25 13:56:02 1 0 0 120636 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-25 09:29:11 2009-03-25 14:29:11 Snopes.com, and don't find Mr. Keyes' alarmist hyperbole at all reassuring. The unread stimulus bill is a far more interesting point, although it illustrates what has become typical modus operandi for our legislators ... pander, pander, raise money, waste money, waste money, waste money, waste money, waste money, and ignore our country's highest good. Nearly all of our legislation passed goes unread. Indeed, it is not humanly possible to read it all. Was it the final version of the bill that went unread, or all the versions? The House and Senate each debated slightly different versions, so someone must have read something. And, if we look at transparency, Obama has already reversed policy about Freedom of Information Act requests. Under President Bush, a FoIA request was denied in total if they could find "any legal reason," to do so. Currently policy is to grant the request---or even every part of it possible---if there is no definitive, relevant legal reason to deny it. But don't think I agree to all the policies and pork being put forth. I'm particularly disgusted with Obama's pro-abortion position, and I find the Keynesian Economics to be a rather large gamble. (Nevertheless, there is a sort of logic to it. If the economic is shrinking by $x trillion, and we borrow that money to grow the economy again, we might be just fine ... if (and herein is the huge gamble) we can pay it back reasonably. These are all huge issues and worthy of our time and debate. I strongly encourage you and our other readers to become more involved politically, particularly by writing your representatives at the state and federal level about the issues that matter most. The occasional vote does not do enough to garner their attention. Besides, I'm going Noocratic politically. Or maybe Rational Anarchist, after Heinlein. And it could be worse. You could live in Massachusetts.]]> 1 0 2
    Or, Maybe Not So Passionate About Standards http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=594 Mon, 26 Jan 2009 19:17:25 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=594
    http://www.microsoft.com/expression/products/Overview.aspx?key=web

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    594 2009-01-26 14:17:25 2009-01-26 19:17:25 open closed or-maybe-not-so-passionate-about-standards publish 0 0 post 0 120528 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.104 2009-01-27 06:52:10 2009-01-27 11:52:10 1 0 0 120527 mdntridr@gmail.com 192.4.227.200 2009-01-26 14:40:22 2009-01-26 19:40:22 1 0 0
    Just the Facts http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=595 Tue, 17 Mar 2009 14:52:55 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=595 was a coupon program to buy converters at a discount, but the program used up all its money, and had been discontinued. (Recently, it has been given more money by the federal bailout, and is operating again.) However, these coupons are available to anyone who desires them, so it's hardly being targeted to those receiving government assistance. But I wondered what the origin of these stories had been, so I hit the internet. It turned out that millions of households on welfare might be given free digital television converters---in Japan sometime before their digital switchover in 2011. The prison story was a little closer to what's real---the state of Florida's department of corrections is spending $100,000 total, approximately $1 per inmate, out of its $2.3 billion dollar budget to convert existing television to digital. Our opinions are often based on incorrect facts. Part of this is described in basic psychology---it's called confirmation bias---how we filter evidence that strengthens our preconceptions. But also our incorrect knowledge of history, various sciences, and current events allows us to hold on to incorrect opinions. This is especially true in "popular knowledge"---think about all those e-mail forwards you receive that 15 seconds at about.com or Snopes could easily refute. Think about all the people who believe wearing a magnet on their wrist will make them healthy. Or all the "Christians" who espouse the heresy of the Prosperity Gospel and can even quote Scripture out of context to support it. Or that rubber tires protect vehicle occupants from lighting strikes. Or that a metal vehicle acts as a Faraday cage. (It doesn't.) At any rate, I have been thinking much of late that we should all do more analysis before we speak. I wish we could all just be smarter. I wish I could just be smarter. ]]> 595 2009-03-17 09:52:55 2009-03-17 14:52:55 open closed just-the-facts publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last s2mail 120628 mark_vejvoda@hotmail.com http://www.soft-haus.com/blog 142.179.54.165 2009-03-20 18:36:19 2009-03-20 23:36:19 1 0 0 Maybe Just a Little Bit Off http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=597 Sun, 08 Feb 2009 02:31:11 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=597
    Whoops.

    I found this in a commercial/industrial park in Hudson, New Hampshire. (I have learned that this prediction came from The Church of the Livingstone and Mission for the Coming Days. See http://www.watchman.org/cults/endworld.htm .) ]]>
    597 2009-02-07 21:31:11 2009-02-08 02:31:11 open closed maybe-just-a-little-bit-off publish 0 0 post 0 120539 summitsp@hotmail.com 75.67.222.130 2009-02-17 19:06:09 2009-02-18 00:06:09 1 0 0 120536 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 66.31.67.98 2009-02-16 16:01:27 2009-02-16 21:01:27 1 0 2 120535 jsringland@aol.com 173.76.87.121 2009-02-15 22:39:48 2009-02-16 03:39:48 1 0 0 120530 edivietro@comcast.net http://hbc-nh.org/pastorerik 75.69.56.191 2009-02-08 17:40:26 2009-02-08 22:40:26 1 0 0 120529 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.104 2009-02-08 08:09:57 2009-02-08 13:09:57 1 0 0
    Enough, already! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=598 Fri, 13 Feb 2009 18:57:34 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=598

    Could we just stop with the nonsense? Please?

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    598 2009-02-13 13:57:34 2009-02-13 18:57:34 open closed 598 publish 0 0 post 0 120546 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 208.145.81.2 2009-02-19 12:05:48 2009-02-19 17:05:48 1 0 0 120534 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 66.31.67.98 2009-02-14 11:54:33 2009-02-14 16:54:33 1 0 2 120533 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.104 2009-02-13 23:09:55 2009-02-14 04:09:55 Superman Returns and I want to know, did they just erase what happened in Superman III & IV? I'd understand if they did, because those movies were l-a-m-e, but it wasn't very clear. Now what were you saying about ants and grasshoppers?]]> 1 0 0 120532 oliviawhitten12@gmail.com http://www.gmail.com 75.69.158.48 2009-02-13 20:35:11 2009-02-14 01:35:11 1 0 0 120531 edivietro@comcast.net http://hbc-nh.org/pastorerik 75.69.56.191 2009-02-13 19:06:01 2009-02-14 00:06:01 1 0 0
    Nichelle: The Return of the Twins http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=599 Mon, 16 Feb 2009 21:39:26 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=599 599 2009-02-16 16:39:26 2009-02-16 21:39:26 open closed nichelle-the-return-of-the-twins publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120563 clr257@juno.com 71.127.10.87 2009-03-01 14:30:01 2009-03-01 19:30:01 1 0 0 120562 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-02-27 15:08:16 2009-02-27 20:08:16 1 0 2 120561 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-02-27 11:42:15 2009-02-27 16:42:15 1 0 2 120560 gsorbo@gmail.com 151.203.222.206 2009-02-25 20:14:05 2009-02-26 01:14:05 1 0 0 120557 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-02-23 13:26:55 2009-02-23 18:26:55 very unusual. I suspect having Mom sick has affected them in ways that aren't always obvious. Nichelle's iron transport and iron blood level were all fine. More blood tests today. Nichelle was understandably a bit worried because they contain some standard screenings for cancer markers. She also had another vitamin D test run. If that turns out to be low, they will start the high-dosage vitamin D therapy. It would be lovely if that turns out to be the problem. Then we could simply watch the Vitamin D level every couple of months, and when it gets low for her, intervene. So we wait as patiently as possible, and pray.]]> 1 0 2 120558 gsorbo@gmail.com 151.203.213.166 2009-02-23 18:03:22 2009-02-23 23:03:22 1 0 0 120559 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-02-25 15:32:54 2009-02-25 20:32:54 1 0 2 120553 musclemom37@gmail.com 66.31.67.98 2009-02-20 16:35:38 2009-02-20 21:35:38 1 0 0 120551 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-02-20 12:30:53 2009-02-20 17:30:53 1 0 2 120552 musclemom37@gmail.com 66.31.67.98 2009-02-20 14:56:05 2009-02-20 19:56:05 1 0 0 120547 mike_matheson@juno.com http://www.mkyouthpastor.com 208.145.81.2 2009-02-19 12:10:51 2009-02-19 17:10:51 1 0 0 120545 mjcase4@comcast.net 134.174.1.26 2009-02-19 09:40:34 2009-02-19 14:40:34 1 0 0 120544 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 66.31.67.98 2009-02-19 09:18:28 2009-02-19 14:18:28 1 0 2 120543 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-02-18 16:26:26 2009-02-18 21:26:26 1 0 2 120548 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-02-20 10:45:47 2009-02-20 15:45:47 for her. So, we have pitched the idea of a vitamin D intervention to our primary care office, and are waiting to hear back from them. When I left for work this morning, Nichelle was feeling fine, and just starting her morning cardio workout. The extremes of polarization in this are bizarre. I'm very impressed with her determination to get in her workouts whenever she has a few hours of normality. So far she hasn't missed many. What am amazing woman.]]> 1 0 2 120542 trish8of9@nhconsultant.com 75.68.88.184 2009-02-18 08:08:09 2009-02-18 13:08:09 1 0 0 120549 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-02-20 11:16:56 2009-02-20 16:16:56 1 0 2 120550 musclemom37@gmail.com 66.31.67.98 2009-02-20 11:48:33 2009-02-20 16:48:33 1 0 0 120540 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 66.31.67.98 2009-02-17 22:15:33 2009-02-18 03:15:33 1 0 2 120538 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 66.31.67.98 2009-02-17 17:51:47 2009-02-17 22:51:47 1 0 2 120537 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.104 2009-02-17 06:15:48 2009-02-17 11:15:48 1 0 0 120573 musclemom37@gmail.com 66.31.67.98 2009-03-11 13:22:51 2009-03-11 18:22:51 1 0 0 120572 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-11 09:05:32 2009-03-11 14:05:32 1 0 2 120571 jsringland@aol.com 173.76.87.121 2009-03-10 11:46:56 2009-03-10 16:46:56 1 0 0 120570 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 66.31.67.98 2009-03-09 19:04:11 2009-03-10 00:04:11 1 0 2 120569 jsringland@aol.com 173.76.87.121 2009-03-09 17:40:46 2009-03-09 22:40:46 1 0 0 120568 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-09 16:51:39 2009-03-09 21:51:39 1 0 2 120567 jsringland@aol.com 173.76.87.121 2009-03-09 16:41:29 2009-03-09 21:41:29 1 0 0 120566 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-09 16:12:17 2009-03-09 21:12:17 1 0 2 120565 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-09 16:08:49 2009-03-09 21:08:49 1 0 2 120564 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-03 12:07:13 2009-03-03 17:07:13 Slumdog Millionaire (Fabulous!), but every other day has been somewhere between bad and terrible. More doctor's visits later this week. Next up is hematology.]]> 1 0 2 120615 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 66.31.67.98 2009-03-17 00:09:16 2009-03-17 05:09:16 1 0 2 120638 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-26 09:12:36 2009-03-26 14:12:36 causing the migraines to occur. Last night Nichelle felt great for about 6 hours. When she awoke this morning, she was in serious pain just about everywhere. Generally, we get six to eight good hours once or twice a week at present. Our primary care doctor (actually, she's an NP) is very seriously pursuing this, which was a relief after getting a "There may not be a medical answer to this," from the hematologist we consulted at Dana Farber.]]> 1 0 2 120625 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-03-19 15:19:06 2009-03-19 20:19:06 1 0 2 Naomi's Improv Ballet http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=610 Thu, 19 Mar 2009 00:48:48 +0000 Doug http://www.wilcoxusa.net/wfblog/?p=610 NaNi (now age 5), loves to dance. After her ballet class, while another group was rehearsing for "A Midsummer Night's Dream," she improvised this. Toward the end you can see her looking into the studio room to see what the older students are doing in their rehearsal. Naomi studies Ballet at Gate City Ballet, in Nashua, N.H.]]> 610 2009-03-18 19:48:48 2009-03-19 00:48:48 open closed naomis-improv-ballet publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120629 clr257@juno.com 72.79.228.107 2009-03-21 15:07:23 2009-03-21 20:07:23 1 0 0 120623 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.104 2009-03-19 05:22:22 2009-03-19 10:22:22 1 0 0 中文 Homework (Showing Off) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=626 Sun, 22 Mar 2009 02:22:45 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=626 Chelmsford Chinese Language School this week was to write a paragraph about Naomi. Most of this we have covered in class, but I got some help from my friend Shenghan to make sure the grammar was correct, and still managed to make one mistake in with the suì character, which I have since corrected.

    Here is the same text with the pinyin inserted:

    wǒ

    yǒu

    nǚ

    ér

    jiào

    ào

    wǔ

    suì

    le

    zhǎng

    zhe

    hēi

    hēi

    de

    tóu

    huàn

    tiào

    ào

    shì

    liàng 

    shǎn 

    shǎn 

    de

    nǚ

    hái

    Mandarin makes learning Spanish seem very easy by comparison. There are no Chinese-English cognates, and just learning the different tones is daunting. The "pinyin" phonetic aids help, but I still struggle with pronunciation, and, ultimately, need to memorize all the charcters. (Growing up in China, my teacher learned each character by being required to write it 1,000 times.) Of course, I occasionally have my rudimentary Chinese good-naturedly laughed at, such as a few weeks ago when I said, 我的太太不好。 My wife is no good, rather than 我的太太不舒服。My wife is not feeling well! I'll post a translation in the comments in a few days. In the meantime, you might have fun figuring it out. (Hint www.chinese-tools.com offers some excellent tools for working with Chinese, including a dictionary and input method editor.)]]>
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    Outsourcing the Wilcox Family: Next Stop, China http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=645 Thu, 02 Apr 2009 03:42:18 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=645
    View Larger Map I don't have all the details yet, but for the next five years, we will be relocated to Shenyang, the capitol of the Liaoning province, China, where I'll be helping to lead a software development project integrating YUI components into our existing suite. The company will pay for our relocation and intensive language school. Wow! [Editor's Note, April 20, 2009: There is an important follow-up to this post here. Please be sure to read it.] ]]>
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    Why Do You Seek the Living Among the Dead? http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=654 Sun, 12 Apr 2009 18:16:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=654 But on the first day of the week, at early dawn, they went to the tomb, taking the spices they had prepared. And they found the stone rolled away from the tomb, but when they went in they did not find the body of the Lord Jesus.

    The Garden Tomb, now empty.
    The Garden Tomb, now empty.

    While they were perplexed about this, behold, two men stood by them in dazzling apparel. And as they were frightened and bowed their faces to the ground, the men said to them, "Why do you seek the living among the dead? He is not here, but has risen. Remember how he told you, while he was still in Galilee, that the Son of Man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men and be crucified and on the third day rise."
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    School Fashion: Look What Kids Are Wearing These Days http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=670 Wed, 22 Apr 2009 17:58:13 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=670 Academy for Science and Design, where Isaac attends. Today's theme was, "Famous People." He relished the opportunity to develop, with Nichelle's help, this slightly disturbing costume.

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    Can you believe what kids are wearing to school these days?

    A magic trick? Well, let me show you, I’ll make this pencil disappear!

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    Isaac as "The Joker," complete with prosthetic makeup.


    Turns out Isaac's costume was voted best for the day!]]>
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    NaNi the Droll http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=684 Thu, 07 May 2009 00:24:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=684 Naomi's whimsical airplane drawing.
    Naomi's "Whimsical" Drawing---Click to see full detail.

    Inspired by Hook, Naomi drew people parachuting from a burning airplane. Guess who doesn't have a parachute? (I love the little frown face she put on me.) That's one sarcastic kid we're raising.]]>
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    Star Trek XI http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=690 Fri, 08 May 2009 10:59:45 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=690 Star Trek Zero in one word, the same word I uttered repeatedly throughout the film: Wow!

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    Lieutenant Wilcox, USS Reliant, with an unidentified Orion Slave Girl.

    Last night at 9:50 we went to Hooksett Cinemagic to see the film in digital iMax (yes, that's iMax with digital video ... quite an experience, as we'd seen with Monsters vs. Aliens a few weeks ago). A bunch of people from church were also there (including, of course, the Dunn family all in costume). However, the iMax was having projector problems. So, we got to see Trek in digital, and have free passes to return to the iMax whenever we like. Without offering any spoilers, I'll just say that J.J. Abrams lived up to the storytelling and adventure I expected. There are elements of things we've seen before in Star Trek storytelling (indeed, it would be hard to find something that hadn't been tried over the years), but rarely are they executed with such fine attention to drama, detail, and humor.]]>
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    Ouch: New Hampshire Charter School Cap Proposed http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=705 Fri, 29 May 2009 20:44:05 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=705 Academy of Science and Design, where I teach robotics, and where Isaac attends:
    As almost all of you probably know, New Hampshire is facing major budget issues. The New Hampshire State Senate is currently trying to grapple with the deteriorating situation as state incoming revenue declines. This week, an amendment was proposed and approved in the Senate Finance Committee that would cap total charter school enrollment in the state for the coming 2009-2010 year at a level of 850, which is below current enrollment levels. If this limitation stands as the bill moves through a full NH State Senate floor vote (likely this coming Wednesday June 3) and the following conference committee, this would be a MAJOR issue for the school. Depending on the exact level allocated to the school, this could mean ALL accepted incoming students would have to have their acceptance reversed, and it could even mean that there would have to be a "reverse lottery" to eliminate existing ASD students. We strongly encourage you to take action on this issue, as it will affect your child's educational choices and ASD’s quality. One action you can take is to send mail to your elected representatives. The following link can be used to do this: http://tinyurl.com/lmku2l Some parents may also want to call their representatives. While this can potentially be helpful, it is also very important that you express support constructively, perhaps with personal stories, but DO NOT ARGUE with them! Remember that the legislators are dealing with a very major set of issues around funding, and are facing many difficult decisions at this time. Being hostile and/or combative can easily create irate representatives, which would hurt much more than help and can be very hard to reverse. Please only call if you are sure you can keep the conversation positive. The ASD and other charter schools have been through this before, but it has always required work to get the legislature to see our side. Right now, we are all working through the NH Chartered Public School Association at all levels of government to make sure that this amendment does not get passed into law. While we are working hard with all the charter schools, we will not know the final outcome until the end of June. We will do our best to keep you informed as we move forward. Kent Glossop Board Chairman, Academy for Science and Design Chris Franklin Director, Academy for Science and Design
    Here's what I added to the petition I submitted: Please help public education continue to improve in New Hampshire by rejecting the proposed cap on charter school enrollment. Our son is attending the Academy for Science and Design Public Charter School in Merrimack. We have seen firsthand just how much he has learned at such a place, which is far more challenging than the private school he attended previously.]]>
    705 2009-05-29 15:44:05 2009-05-29 20:44:05 open closed ouch-new-hampshire-charter-school-cap-proposed publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last s2mail 120667 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 24.63.123.134 2009-05-31 09:33:06 2009-05-31 14:33:06 New Hampshire Center for Innovative Schools has an important update to this, detailing how passing this bill could cost New Hampshire millions in federal funds.]]> 1 0 2 120668 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 66.31.67.98 2009-06-03 22:06:56 2009-06-04 03:06:56 The vote today to remove the charter school cap from the Senate budget did not pass. This is an excerpt of a message from Eileen Liponis, of the New Hampshire Public Charter School Association: “First thank you all for your participation this morning in Concord. We had a positive visible presence for the House members, Governor’s Council and the Senators.” “Unfortunately, the vote on the amendment introduced by Senator Carson to remove both the cap and the moratorium failed 15-9. There was lively and informative discussion on the floor which is good and both Maggie [Hassan] and Martha [Fuller Clark] spoke as supporters but, said there was more information that was needed and it would be done in the Committees of Conference and if they accepted this amendment it would send a budget to the House with a $5.8 million deficit and they thought that irresponsible given that more information is needed. “ “The [Senate Democratic Leadership] had just made up their minds that they were going to push everything through as is and fix it in Committee with the House. We should continue to make ourselves heard positively by our Senators and now our Reps of our concerns as we work through this to a positive resolution…” “The turnout today was great and the pictures of the students was very effective. Thank you all again…” The ASD Board and Director want you to know that we are committed to doing everything we can so that we can proceed with all returning and accepted students for the coming year. We encourage you to be involved over the next couple of weeks to make sure that the legislators are aware of support for charter schools. We know this is a difficult situation, and if the lower cap comes out of the conference committee, it will be a major disruption for a lot of people. We hope the legislature will at least have the sense to allow accepted students to attend, but obviously there are no guarantees. We also note that ASD has come through a number of very challenging situations. While it may have been preferable to have avoided them, the school has continued to move forward for the benefit of the students, and we hope that the school will be able to come through this as well. ]]> 1 0 2 120675 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-06-24 13:44:30 2009-06-24 18:44:30 The NH Legislature has passed the budget for next year, which does not include enrollment caps for existing charter schools like ASD. Yeah!]]> 1 0 2 120760 facebook@philtopia.com http://www.facebook.com 127.0.0.1 1969-12-31 18:00:00 1969-12-31 18:00:00 1 0 0 120793 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=1373554476 1373554476 2009-05-29 15:33:00 2009-05-29 15:33:00 1 0 0
    ASD Students to Kick ’Bot with Robot Sumo http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=709 Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:17:39 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=709 Academy for Science and Design Public Charter School in Merrimack, New Hampshire, will go head to head against their peers and with engineers from Kronos Incorporated of Chelmsford, Ma., in a Robot Sumo competition. Anyone with an interest is welcome to watch. The students will be using robots they have designed, built, and programmed over the last 6 months using Lego MindStorms kits, having learned mechanical and software engineering along the way, and often discovering their final design differs radically from what they first envisioned. Robot Sumo begins with two autonomous robots in a round douyou ring, a white circular area measuring 36" in diameter. The first robot pushed out of the ring loses. The students have been working in teams of 2 or 3 to create and improve their robot designs. A number of students have also created second robots of their own to compete. Robot Sumo has provided students with a unique design and programming challenge, requiring extensive hands-on work from each student. Few things, however, have given the students more pleasure than seeing their robots beat the one designed and programmed by their instructor, Kronos engineer Doug Wilcox of Nashua. The Academy for Science and Design is a tuition free open enrollment chartered public school for grades 7-12, specializing in science and math with algebra, biology, chemistry, and physics taught beginning in 7th grade. Academy for Science and Design 316 Daniel Webster Highway Merrimack, NH 03054 603 262-9162
    Update: The Robot Sumo event was a huge success, and we even got some great press from it. "Young designers learn it's about more than building best 'bot'," by Mark Oullette, Union Leader. Mr. Oullette prepared a great video, available on YouTube. "Academy of Science and Design class makes machines worthy of battle," by Dana Smith, Merrimack Journal.]]>
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    My Little Personal Trainer http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=712 Thu, 18 Jun 2009 15:44:03 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=712 [caption id="attachment_713" align="aligncenter" width="199" caption="NaNi - My Little Personal Trainer"]NaNi - My Little Personal Trainer[/caption]

    Everyone really enjoyed seeing her out riding, with me running along right behind her. I got comments like, "She'll make sure you keep your speed up," and everyone we passed greeted us with big grins. On the final block of the two miles, I sprinted ahead of her. As I passed her, she called out, "Now, that's what I like to see!" What a kid.]]>
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    Yes, I can really procrastinate ... http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=717 Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:17:25 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=717 135 weeks?! very_late_meetings ]]> 717 2009-06-30 09:17:25 2009-06-30 14:17:25 open closed yes-i-can-really-procrastinate publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120676 musclemom37@gmail.com 66.31.67.98 2009-06-30 09:50:14 2009-06-30 14:50:14 1 0 0 120677 wilcoxBlog@nhconsultant.com 129.83.31.2 2009-06-30 10:39:29 2009-06-30 15:39:29 1 0 0 120678 phil.luchon@gmail.com 12.198.62.3 2009-06-30 13:07:02 2009-06-30 18:07:02 1 0 0 120679 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.24 2009-06-30 16:29:42 2009-06-30 21:29:42 1 0 2 120681 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.104 2009-07-01 06:06:51 2009-07-01 11:06:51 1 0 0 120688 Puertorican4lyfe18@yahoo.com 76.119.84.74 2009-07-18 10:39:53 2009-07-18 15:39:53 1 0 0 A Message to Teenagers http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=722 Tue, 30 Jun 2009 21:28:12 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=722 poster from art.com.

    Teenagers--Tired of Being Harassed By Your Stupid Parents?
    Teenagers--Tired of Being Harassed By Your Stupid Parents?

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    12:34:56 7/8/9 http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=726 Wed, 08 Jul 2009 16:37:47 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=726 123456789
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    You Can't Touch This http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=729 Wed, 22 Jul 2009 01:56:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=729
    This comes from deacon Greg Jones ...
    Darth Vader: World's Greatest Dad
    And ol' Gungan buddy Mark Sohmer let me know about this gem today. Head over to Zazzle.com and pick up one. (Better yet, send one to me.)]]>
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    The Christian and Government: One Biblical Perspective http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=736 Wed, 22 Jul 2009 14:43:05 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=736 Once I spoke in the West and a Christian told me, "I've been praying for years that the Communist government in China will collapse, so Christians can live in freedom." This is not what we pray! We never pray against our government or call down curses on them. Instead, we have learned that God is in control of both our own lives and the government we live under. Isaiah prophesied about Jesus, "The government will be on his shoulders." Isaiah 9:6.

    God has used China's government for his own purposes, moulding and shaping his children as he sees fit. Instead of focusing our prayers against any political system, we pray that regardless of what happens to us, we will be pleasing to God.

    Don't pray for the persecution to stop! We shouldn't pray for a lighter load to carry, but a stronger back to endure! Then the world will see that God is with us, empowering us to live in a way that reflects his love and power.

    This is true freedom! The Heavenly Man
    From The Heavenly Man: The Remarkable True Story of Chinese Christian Brother Yun]]>
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    Thoughts on Leading a Small Group Bible Study http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=747 Wed, 12 Aug 2009 21:51:03 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=747 Heritage Baptist Church) will be starting up again tomorrow, after several weeks in hiatus, and we'll be studying Francis Chan's Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God. Below is a brief YouTube introduction with the author. I suppose if we were to call ourselves anything, it might be "RNA," or, "Recovering Neofundamentalists Anonymous," as we try to get out of the "Christian bubble" that many of us (especially me) have spent decades in, and seek to better follow the Savior. One of our favorite studies in this regard has been Dan Kimball's They Like Jesus but Not the Church: Insights from Emerging Generations, which I highly recommend. We meet at the Gagnon's house, which is actually in the exact geographic center of our congregation, or was the last time Erik DiVietro plotted it out. Running a small group Bible study for the past year has been fascinating. Pastor Erik helped train me in running one, which was a challenge, because (by his own admission), he tends to take over all discussions. Nichelle will tell you I have the same tendency, so for me one of the most challenging things as a leader is to just shut up, and allow silences while people ponder the discussion questions, and give them time to come up with answers or further discussion. Other challenges come up from time to time. One of my more recent decisions was to outlaw political conversation. Not only was this distracting (although we're quite informal), to be honest I ultimately came to the conclusion that I was too often getting ticked off by the ridiculous nonfactual, counterfactual, and noncontextual statements that seem to flood the political arena, regardless of one's political preferences. Let's just say some of our attendees learn far enough right, politically to make me look like a liberal by comparison. (I suppose I should blame all the NPR I listen to.) Always, I am thrilled by the insights and discussions we've had, and find the small group format to be a particularly rewarding way to study the issues and doctrine presented in God's Word.]]> 747 2009-08-12 16:51:03 2009-08-12 21:51:03 open closed small-group-resumes-thoughts-on-leading-one publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120694 judgment_pi@yahoo.com 98.229.235.248 2009-08-12 19:47:07 2009-08-13 00:47:07 1 0 0 120695 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.58.164 2009-08-13 13:40:13 2009-08-13 18:40:13 1 0 2 Wanted: 597 Ghanian Cedis ($409) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=757 Thu, 03 Sep 2009 15:44:20 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=757 Originally Posted on August 31, 2009: Quite some time ago, I started corresponding electronically with a young man in Tamale, Ghana, who wanted to expand his horizons and get to know people from around the world. This was possible via a computer center that the local embassy provides. A high school graduate with decent grades, Amin desperately wanted to attend university. However, financially, this was out of the question for his family. A less attractive but still reasonable option was the Tamale Polytechnic school. Several months after we'd started communicating, he asked if I could help pay the tuition for the polytechnic, which costs about $650 for the three-year program. Tuition has to be paid up front.

    [caption id="attachment_758" align="aligncenter" width="300" caption="Amin Issah, Ghana"]Amin Issah, Ghana[/caption]

    There are a couple of things to bear in mind here: Americans have the reputation for being extremely wealthy the world over. In Mexico, for example, we are often stereotyped as having montañas de oro (mountains of gold). The other thing to remember is that Ghana is well known as one of the centers of internet fraud, especially so called "friendship" scams. I did a lot of investigation to see if everything was on the up-and-up, which is difficult in a developing country. I quickly came to learn how much I depend on the Internet for verifying just about everything, and this was impossible for much of Ghana's infrastructure. I even called to see if I could pay the school directly, and it cannot be done. But, other than due diligence, I had no reason to distrust Amin, and his work for the past six months has completely borne out my trust. I also felt this would be a good way to show the love of Christ in an unexpected and unanticipated way.sowever, I simply couldn't afford to help him out completely. But he did have an uncle who was willing to foot half the bill, and I had some extra cash I could put into the second half. Amin has completed one semester at T'Poly, as it's sometimes called, and managed to get all As and Bs. (I told him I expected As next semester.) Partway through I sent enough cash to cover a bicycle so he could get to the school and back for early classes (hitchhiking was unreliable, and the school is about 20km from his house). However, his grades were good enough for him to get chosen for a short, special field program in Navrongo, about 5 hours away by bus.


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    His work in the field program was evaluated well enough, and he has been offered an entry into the Land Management and Real Estate baccalaureate program at the University for Development Studies in Tamale. To do this, he needs 597 GHC (Ghanian Cedis), about $409 by September 1. This isn't that much money, except when compared to what I actually have at the moment. Until now, I haven't even told people about this unusual missions project, opting to see quietly and unobtrusively how God would work. Now I believe it is time to project this to a larger audience, who also might be able to help. Update (September 3, 2009): I was finally able to get through by phone to the University office in Tamale … and they confirmed that Amin was on the acceptance list as a Freshman student in the program. (I already had scans of his acceptance letter, so this was just a formality.) I’ve received a couple of generous donations from our at-work small group Bible study that helped immensely with the money I sent to Amin mid-day yesterday. Ghana is on GMT, so it was nearly closing time when he got to the bank. There were many students there trying to do the same thing … so he was able to get the Western Union transfer and have the bank keep it to avoid carrying around such a large sum of money, but he wasn't able to pay his tuition until this morning.

    Payment Receipt for Amin's Tuition

    Amin wanted me to pass this along to you all: GOD help them tooo when they in a bondage like how i was and u all came together and resqued me through the powers of GOD. (His spelling is usually excellent; he obviously in a hurry.) Amin leaves on Saturday to take up residence at the university in the city of Wa. He’ll complete the on-site admissions process on Monday. After that, he will need to pay his residence fees and medical fees, about another $175. He is very excited and very grateful for our help. I am grateful as well---the contributions made so far are a big difference for me. (Of course, I’ll be happy to accept further donations.) ]]>
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    Another Cool DateTime http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=780 Wed, 09 Sep 2009 13:13:47 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=780 090909090909 (9:09 am, September 9, 2009) (Thanks to my yaar Aashay for reminding me of this.)]]> 780 2009-09-09 08:13:47 2009-09-09 13:13:47 open closed another-cool-datetime publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120700 judgment_pi@yahoo.com 76.118.175.172 2009-09-09 08:24:19 2009-09-09 13:24:19 1 0 0 120758 facebook@philtopia.com http://www.facebook.com 127.0.0.1 1969-12-31 18:00:00 1969-12-31 18:00:00 1 0 0 120790 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=1056007692 1056007692 2009-09-09 09:17:00 2009-09-09 09:17:00 1 0 0 120791 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=572029141 572029141 2009-09-09 17:05:00 2009-09-09 17:05:00 1 0 0 Science: Why My Wife Thinks I'm an Idiot http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=783 Thu, 10 Sep 2009 18:29:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=783 Telegraph, reported a few days ago on research published in the Journal of Experimental and Social Psychology that proves exactly why my wife thinks I'm an idiot:
    [R]esearch shows men who spend even a few minutes in the company of an attractive woman perform less well in tests designed to measure brain function than those who chat to someone they do not find attractive.
    [caption id="attachment_785" align="aligncenter" width="500" caption="Nichelle (right) and I (left) on a recent date."]Nichelle (right) and I (left) on a recent date.[/caption] We can all picture in our heads the caricature of the stammering young man whose failed attempts at communicating intelligently actively destroy him in the eyes of the beauty he is trying to impress. As it turns out, it actually happens. Researchers at Radboud University in The Netherlands experimentally supported the idea that cognitive function drops in males inversely proportional to how attractive they find the female with which they are interacting. They "carried out the study after one of them was so struck on impressing an attractive woman he had never met before, that he could not remember his address when she asked him where he lived." Clearly, my normally-well-functioning brain is doomed when faced with the overwhelming beauty of my fabulously stunning wife, Nichelle. I don't have a chance of impressing her, and come off looking like a moron! And now the research proves it. (Thanks to Nichole DiVietro for pointing out which "Disney Couple" Nichelle and I most resemble.) ]]>
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    Early Childhood (Pre-Lego) Formative Toys http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=793 Sat, 28 Nov 2009 18:22:35 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=793 The Man Who Changed How Boys and Toys Were Made: The Life and Times of A. C. Gilbert, the Man Who Saved Christmas, the biography of A.C. Gilbert, best known as the inventor of the iconic Erector Set. That got me thinking about the toys of my youth, and it probably comes as no surprise that most of the ones I most treasured involved building in some way or another. Of course, now I do more "building" with software than anything else, as programming applications is in many ways very much like building things out of Lego, but programming hasn't eclipsed my lifelong devotion to Lego.

    toolbox
    The toolbox my dad gave me at age 2.

    One of the first toys I was given wasn't really a toy at all, but rather a toolbox full of real tools (some of which I still have, just as I still have the toolbox). "How it happened was like this ..." When I was born, I was diagnosed as being mentally retarded. My early foster care seemed to confirm this (due to lack of stimulation). My adoptive father declared, "Well, if he's not going to be able to work with his brain, we'll teach him to work with his hands." So, for Christmas, five months after turning two, I was given a set of real tools. Screwdrivers, a folding rule, a hammer (the one thing that wouldn't fit in the toolbox), and a pair of pliers. I have very early memories of getting in trouble for taking the screws out of the bottoms of the kitchen chair cushions and losing them. I was allowed to take the handles off the kitchen cabinets. When I first started, I wasn't strong enough to get the screws tightened well, and the handles would often come off in my mother's hand.

    MATTELhwset
    Good, old fashioned, gravity-fed Hot Wheels® track.

    Hot Wheels® track was another great building toy. Although I often drooled over pictures of the Hot Wheels® super charger, I had untold hours of fun constructing dual gravity-fed tracks and racing my favorite cars, all the while developing a better understanding of rudimentary physics. Even more longed-for than the turbocharger was a loop; I even tried building one myself when I was a little older, but couldn't get it to work right.

    [caption id="attachment_794" align="aligncenter" width="536" caption="The Playskool Take Apart Car"]The Playskool Take-Apart Car[/caption]

    The Playskool Take-Apart Car provided many hours of screwdriver-and-wrench assembly experience. The axles were large screws. The headlights and taillights used smaller screws and nuts, as did the wooden sides of the car. One of the trickier parts was getting the tabs for the hood and trunk in the holes when assembling the sides. The one drawback to this was the lack of interchangeability of the screws, although the headlight, taillight, and side screws were all the same size, and the bolt holding the removable engine block in matched the screws that held the wheels and spare tire on, although the bolt head itself wouldn't fit in the same places. The jack provided (the middle tool visible in the photo) was completely useless. As I was writing this, my wife Nichelle told me that she had one of these, too. These days, I'd recommend Lego Toolo as the nearest equivalent experience.

    blocks
    I had a 100-piece bag of colored wooden blocks.

    Wooden blocks are an essential childhood building toy. Generally, my goal was to build the largest tower I could, often getting it to my own height, or nearly so.

    tinkertoy_smaller
    Tinkertoys have now made a bit of a comeback.

    The only real problem with Tinkertoys was that I didn't have enough of them. The small set I had just wasn't enough to build the dreamworthy models pictured on the can. Part of this was supply. I know it's impossible to believe, but stores in the 1970s were typically horribly supplied. (Computerized supply chains, a need to compete with online retailers, and cheap manufacture and import have radically changed this.) My father and I went out to a number of stores one day to find more Tinkertoys, to no avail. (He bought me a Tonka excavator instead, a conciliatory splurge I'm sure my mother would have never tried.)

    giant_erector
    This isn't quite the same, but is not entirely dissimilar to the giant Erector set I loved.

    One favorite building toy I haven't been able to find a picture of was a giant, plastic Erector set, which came with a large, cloth storage bag. My favorite thing to build was a large robot, using gears as eyes and a short beam for a mouth. The large, red gears supplied also served as hubs for the wheels, and they didn't fit together very well, either seeming hard to fit or too loose. The e-rings provided to put over axles were brittle, and easily broken. To be honest, I was never the best builder with this; I remember working with my dad one some of the pictured models, but really did enjoy it.

    [caption id="attachment_849" align="aligncenter" width="292" caption="The voltmeter my Dad built to test mats for automatic doors."]The voltmeter my Dad built to test mats for automatic doors.[/caption]

    During my childhood, and until his retirement my father worked as a maintenance man (later exclusively in refrigeration) for Fernandez Supermarkets. One of the things he built out of an old cheese box was the voltmeter pictured above, which was used to test the circuits on the mats that used to trigger the automatic doors. Another non-toy, this was essentially "mine," and had an internal 9-volt battery, which allowed me to experiment with simple circuits, conductivity, and voltage. (My kids currently play with this on occasion.) Then, when I was 5, my world changed.

    [caption id="attachment_845" align="aligncenter" width="345" caption="My first Lego set, the #480 rescue helicopter"]My first Lego set, the #480 rescue helicopter[/caption]

    My neighbor-and-friend Chuck Altwein gave me my first Lego set just before Christmas, the #480, Rescue Helicopter pictured above. This was followed by the general building set #125 from my parents. Another Christmas brought #190, the largest Lego set at the time, which I only decades later realized was actually a farm (it was all about parts, really). Another Christmas or two produced some of my other favorites, Universal Building Set #404, the Space Cruiser (my first "classic space" Lego set), the Galaxy Explorer a year later, and later still Lego's first castle. Although I got away from Lego in very late high school and through college, I would jump back into them in 1998. While I was well-and-truly-grown, Lego and MIT developed the most accessible consumer robotics platform made up to that time, the Lego MindStorms Robotic Invention System 1.0. I was blessed to have the now-defunct Construction Site store in Waltham accept a phone order and deliver one of the first 50,000 nearly-impossible-to-get units released in the United States at rollout. Now I've actively continued my Lego collecting for years, and am a proud owner of the MindStorms NXT, and use it in coaching First LEGO League and teaching robotics with other self-created programs (such as Robot Sumo) at the Academy for Science and Design, a public charter school in Merrimack, New Hampshire, where my son Isaac attends. If you'll pardon the indulgence, I'll return to my original questions:
    Which of your early childhood toys had an impact on your adult life? Do you think the toys were wonderful because of your innate personality or skills, or do you think the toys helped get those skills going?
    Comment away! ]]>
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    Not Far Off: Amazing Future Visions http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=799 Wed, 30 Sep 2009 19:31:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=799 Future Vision Montage
    Future Vision Montage

    Health Future Vision
    Health Future Vision

    Productivity Future Vision
    Productivity Future Vision

    See more at Microsoft Office Labs. These remind me of the A&T "You Will" ads from 1993, which have proven to be quite accurate:

    My yaar Aashay Joshi pointed me to the Microsoft videos.]]>
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    My [Computerized] Workspace http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=810 Fri, 09 Oct 2009 15:49:50 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=810 [caption id="attachment_809" align="aligncenter" width="500" caption="For those of you who have wondered what my electronic workspace (and day) look like."]For those of you who have wondered what my electronic workspace (and day) look like.[/caption]

    This is what my workspace typically looks like. It's spread across two monitors, each running at a resolution of 1280 x 1024. (Click through to see it at full resolution.)

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    Everything's Amazing, Nobody's Happy http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=818 Tue, 13 Oct 2009 16:04:00 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=818 We live in an amazing, amazing world, and it's wasted on the crappiest generation of just spoiled idiots. Comedian Louis CK on "Late Night with Conan O'Brien."]]> 818 2009-10-13 11:04:00 2009-10-13 16:04:00 open closed everythings-amazing-nobodys-happy publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120708 phil.luchon@gmail.com http://www.gamecamp.com 66.31.67.98 2009-10-13 11:38:21 2009-10-13 16:38:21 1 0 0 120754 facebook@philtopia.com http://www.facebook.com 127.0.0.1 1969-12-31 18:00:00 1969-12-31 18:00:00 1 0 0 120777 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=572029141 572029141 2009-10-13 16:29:00 2009-10-13 16:29:00 1 0 0 120778 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=1070023966 1070023966 2009-10-14 06:36:00 2009-10-14 06:36:00 1 0 0 120779 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=1373554476 1373554476 2009-10-15 21:58:00 2009-10-15 21:58:00 1 0 0 120825 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=1373554476 1373554476 2009-10-13 15:29:00 2009-10-13 15:29:00 1 0 0 LEGO Pop-up Kinkaku-ji レゴで飛び出る金閣寺(鹿苑寺) http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=821 Tue, 20 Oct 2009 14:44:10 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=821

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    Body ... Built! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=827 Tue, 03 Nov 2009 03:14:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=827 Nichelle with her trophy at the 2009 Granite State Open Bodybuilding Championship[/caption] Amidst a very busy Saturday, Nichelle competed in the 2009 Granite State Bodybuilding Championship in Dover, N.H. We were amazed by how much she's improved since her last competition. I was particularly impressed with her onstage presence ... she didn't appear nervous at all, and performed her solo routine perfectly, despite having her toes cramp up. Nichelle rocks! (And even though she can kill me with her pinkie, I'm saying it because it's true.) Charlie Dunn took far better pictures than I could have. We'll post more when we get those. [caption id="attachment_830" align="aligncenter" width="438" caption="This is why we never argue at home."]PA310999-1[/caption] ]]> 827 2009-11-02 22:14:14 2009-11-03 03:14:14 open closed body-built publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120710 lizmom@comcast.net 24.218.132.11 2009-11-04 20:19:59 2009-11-05 01:19:59 1 0 0 120753 facebook@philtopia.com http://www.facebook.com 127.0.0.1 1969-12-31 18:00:00 1969-12-31 18:00:00 1 0 0 120824 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=1373554476 1373554476 2009-11-04 09:23:00 2009-11-04 09:23:00 1 0 0 Space: Video http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=875 Tue, 05 Jan 2010 21:49:08 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=875 an article on Wired Science.

    Below you'll see some beautiful video compiled from the STS-129 mission launch. (STS stands for space transportation system, and is the designation for NASA's own Space Shuttle.

    STS-129 Ascent Video Highlights from mike interbartolo on Vimeo.

    STS-129 video highlights as compiled by the SE&I imagery team here at JSC from all of the ground, air, ET and SRB assets.

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    Jurassic Park Reality: Extinct Ibex Resurrected by Cloning http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=882 Wed, 06 Jan 2010 16:18:29 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=882 The Daily Telegraph:
    Using DNA taken from ... skin samples [preserved in liquid nitrogen], the scientists were able to replace the genetic material in eggs from domestic goats, to clone a female Pyrenean ibex, or bucardo as they are known. It is the first time an extinct animal has been cloned.
    [caption id="" align="aligncenter" width="460" caption="Young Spanish ibex (Capra pyrenaica), Sierra de Gredos, Spain Photo: Jose Luis GOMEZ de FRANCISCO/naturepl.com "]Young Spanish ibex (Capra pyrenaica), Sierra de Gredos, Spain  Photo: Jose Luis GOMEZ de FRANCISCO/naturepl.com  [/caption]
    Just seven of the embryos resulted in pregnancies and only one of the goats finally gave birth to a female bucardo, which died a seven minutes later due to breathing difficulties, perhaps due to flaws in the DNA used to create the clone.
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    Non-Predictions for 2010: http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=884 Tue, 12 Jan 2010 19:25:12 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=884 not to occur this year): (1) Popular musicians will realize that Auto-Tune is a waste of time, and rather than sounding "cool," they sound depressingly similar to every other Reggae-imitating popular musician on the planet. Complex harmonies and skill will mark a new breed of popular musicians. (2) Political and religious debate, regardless of the slant or extremes of one's viewpoints, will be thoughtfully and factually engaged in. Conspiracy theorists will look at the hard facts and science, and admit that they were completely wrong about everything from Obama's birth location to the moon landings to 100,000-mile motor oil. (3) Everyone filing taxes will check the box on his or her IRS return that reads, "Check here to donate $1 to the Presidential campaign fund." (4) Hillary Clinton will apologize for being unjustifiably rude to the student at whom she lashed out in the Democratic Republic of Congo. Rush Limbaugh will admit he is disgustingly pompous and makes conservatives look terrible. Jessie Jackson will promise he will never run for political office or try to get a peace treaty signed in the Middle East. (5) Congress and the Senate will refuse to allocate pork into any legislation, and will account for every line of every regulation passed, determining to do what is right for the country as a whole. (6) Peter Ruckman will unequivocally recommend the ESV for adults, and the NLT for younger children. (7) Hollywood will create films, rather than remake them. (8) The American legal system will espouse justice; the guilty will be appropriately punished, and the innocent freed. Nuisance and other patently ridiculous lawsuits or compensation claims will be declined by every lawyer who is presented with one, regardless of the fee offered or potential winnings. (9) NASA will be given more money than the combined budgets of the film industry. (10) Palestine will be given an independent state; in return, the Palestinian Authority will effectively police its own charges, and terrorist attacks on Israel will cease. (11) Apple will slash prices on all its products, and open its operating system to run on virtually any computer. Steve Jobs will announce, "Yes, our products are good, but you people are stupid to pay so much for them." (12) Massachusetts drivers will become polite and demure. (13) Soccer will replace American football as the most popular American sport, as millions of American football fans realize that watching an hour of commercials and another hour of people walking around doing nothing is not nearly as exciting as a real game in which the clock never stops. (14) Sports fans will no longer claim participation in, nor credit for, their favorite teams' victories. ("We" will not win or lose.) (15) Americans will stop whining, and realize just how fabulous a country we have. Further, they will universally take an active part in its politics, and realize that political and community participation and individual responsibility should occur far before and in far greater degree than complaining. (16) StarCraft II will be released. (Just kidding ... I think.) ]]> 884 2010-01-12 14:25:12 2010-01-12 19:25:12 open closed non-predictions-for-2010 publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120722 edivietro@comcast.net http://unorthodoxfaith.com 75.69.56.191 2010-01-12 15:48:54 2010-01-12 20:48:54 1 0 0 120723 lizmom@comcast.net 24.128.75.89 2010-01-12 17:36:01 2010-01-12 22:36:01 1 0 0 120750 facebook@philtopia.com http://www.facebook.com 127.0.0.1 1969-12-31 18:00:00 1969-12-31 18:00:00 1 0 0 120774 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=644630441 127.0.0.1 2010-01-12 22:34:00 2010-01-12 22:34:00 1 0 0 122191 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=644630441 644630441 2010-01-12 23:34:00 2010-01-12 23:34:00 1 0 0 Halo Warthog Cake http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=889 Sun, 17 Jan 2010 04:57:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=889 Halo "Warthog" Cake, made by Nichelle
    Halo "Warthog" Cake, made by Nichelle.

    [caption id="attachment_890" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Halo \"Warthog\" Cake, made by Nichelle, with model for comparison."][/caption]
    Halo "Warthog" Cake, made by Nichelle, with model for comparison.

    [caption id="attachment_891" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Here\'s a ballerina cake Nichelle made for Naomi."]Here's a ballerina cake Nichelle made for Naomi.[/caption]

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    Videos of Note: Perspectives http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=897 Thu, 21 Jan 2010 16:20:51 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=897
    Perspective via a sort of palindrome. (Brought to my attention by Paul Weston.)


    Homeschoolers versus the Home-Schooled.


    The Known Universe: In Persepctive.

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    LARP or Party Game: How to Play "Zombies" http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=912 Sun, 25 Apr 2010 17:28:19 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=912 Left 4 Dead, called Left 4 Dead 2, which is a teamwork-based game pitting humans against hordes of "infected.") I'll remind readers that I was a fan before the current massive popularly, generally ever since reading Max Brooks' brilliantly-written survival-guide parody The Zombie Survival Guide: Complete Protection from the Living Dead, and his captivating World War Z: An Oral History of the Zombie War novel. Zombies seem to be everywhere. There's even a Wait Wait Don't Tell Me parody centering on a zombie apocalypse. LARPing—live action role playing—is detailed in Little Brother, which can be downloaded for free at Corey Doctorow's site, or, of course, purchased in hardcover. Somewhere between reading Little Brother and being inundated with zombies, it occurred to me that a zombie hunt LARP would make a great party game for David and his friends on his 11th birthday. Here's what we did:
    • One person is elected to be the starting zombie.
    • The zombie "infects" others by giving them a gentle "Indian sunburn." (I didn't want the kids biting each other.)
    • Once infected, a human has wait 30 seconds and then become an active zombie, hunting any human he can find.
    • The only way to stop a zombie is to shoot the zombie in the head with a Nerf gun. Such a shot removes the zombie from the remainder of the round.
    • Zombies move slowly and relentlessly, generally while moaning loudly.
    • The round ends when all human have been infected, or when all zombies have been killed.
    Overall, this went very well. Next time, I'll include a couple of minor improvements:
    • The kids kept barricading themselves in bathrooms. This sort of interior door will absolutely not stop a zombie, but will slow one down for a moment or two. I think to account for this, I'll have the zombies go back to a central location, and get a paper sign that, when slid under the door, requires those within to open the door.
    • I need to figure out a way to allow for simulation of decapitation by sword. I think a Nerf or toy sword to the neck should work. Water-based magic markers would be fine, too.
    There were a couple of really great moments. One was when my sweet daughter Naomi came up to me and gave me the "Indian sunburn." This was perfectly reflective of the psychological difficulty of fighting zombies who were formerly loved ones. I should have shot her on sight! [caption id="attachment_948" align="aligncenter" width="300" caption="Lego Left 4 Dead: Coming Soon (image thanks to XenoPrime)."]Lego_Left_4_Dead_by_XenoPrime[/caption] (Sadly, you probably won't see this anytime soon, but you never know. I remember when Lego wouldn't manufacture Lego weapons for their minifigs.)]]>
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    Ethnicity Conundrum http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=915 Mon, 01 Feb 2010 19:09:33 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=915 Isaac's school to provide this information as well. According to the school:
    1. The school is no longer allowed to report race as "not reported." This means we are required to report your child's race starting with the 2009-2010 school year.
    2. The US DOE has modified the collection and reporting requirements for racial and ethnic data starting with the 2010-2011 school year. They now use a two-part question.
    Amusingly, the questions the school is required to ask are as follows:

    [caption id="attachment_916" align="aligncenter" width="525" caption="A \"Racial\" Questionnaire required for public schools. How exactly do WE answer \"primary\" race?"]"Racial" Questionnaire[/caption]

    Now, how in the heck are our children going to pick a primary ethnicity?

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  • Hispanic/Latino
  • American Indian/Alaska Native
  • Asian
  • Black
  • White (Non-Hispanic)
  • Native Hawaiian or other Pacific Islander
  • Multiple responses are not allowed (which is my second-biggest gripe, after, of course, gathering such irrelevant data to start with). Schools were previously allowed to submit the ethnicity as "unreported." No more. By the way, I asked Isaac (age 14) what *he* wanted to pick for his "dominant" ethnicity. He immediately responded, "Black: Mom is taller." So that's what we'll submit.]]>
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    Merrimack High School's Award-Winning Star Wars Parody http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=926 Fri, 05 Feb 2010 21:18:10 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=926 Star Wars could be heard coming from every room. I caught enough of the description playing with an apparent news report to later learn that Merrimack High School had worked with New Hampshire-based filmmaker Jeff Capone to produce a Star Wars parody entitled Star Sports, that won for the Best Parody in the Fan Movie Challenge presented by Lucasfilm and Atom at this year’s San Diego Comic-Con International. Star Sports - Theatrical Trailer
    Atom.com: Funny Videos | Spoofs | Star Wars Fan Movie Champions
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    To Boldly Go: Star Trek Online http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=935 Mon, 08 Feb 2010 19:24:16 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=935 MMORPGs: Star Trek Online wrapped up its mostly-open-beta program, and went live with its early-access-for-preorders launch. Delighted with the quality of the game, we sprung for a lifetime membership, which is approximately as costly as paying per-month for a year and a half. (I wish World of WarCraft would offer such a deal.) The boys and I have been hooked. (Isaac, the weasel, has remained several levels ahead of me, and is about to get a promotion that will give him access to even better ships.) The game features space exploration and combat, and ground exploration and combat. The missions are described as "episodes," and, like the plots of a television series, often require following unexpected developments and changing tasks as the plot unfolds across planetary surfaces and space. Each player captains his or her own starship, outfitting it with weapons, equipment that gives bonuses, and senior officers who also provide special abilities. I've attached a couple of screen shots of the gorgeously-rendered space exploration scenes below. The planets are beautiful, often including moving cloud layers that partly cover the ground below, as well as appropriate atmospheric illumination by the planet's star, depending on one's location in orbit.

    [caption id="attachment_938" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="The USS Naomi, approaching a planet within the Delta Volaris sector."]The USS Naomi, approaching a planet within the Delta Volaris sector.[/caption]

    (My first ship is named the USS Nichelle.)

    [caption id="attachment_937" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="The USS Naomi, exploring a system in the Delta Volaris sector."]The USS Naomi, exploring a system in the Delta Volaris sector.[/caption]

    Ground locations are often also highly detailed, with a wide variety of plants and terrain. Some of the outdoor ground locations (there are also caves, and starbase and other complex interiors) sometimes seem very reminiscent of the ToS set locations, although generally with more detail than the show's budget allowed. Combat and exploration are both integral to the game. Combat is far more skill-intensive than most MMORPGs, particularly as one commands an "away team" to whom orders must be given, and as space combat works in three dimensions and often against multiple enemies. Some missions automatically draft the cooperation of other players, and nearly everything can be accomplished by choice as a teamwork exercise. Like the best MMOs available, there are also large PVP combat areas where players can earn even more rewards. The game is still in early release, and is apparently only going to get better, but it still shows some weaknesses of an early release with higher-than-expected levels of demand on its servers, and some frustratingly common bugs, such as the game locking up. Overall, though, our romps through the Star Trek universe have been delightful, with much future enjoyment anticipated. Addendum, Stardate 201002.18: I am fully convinced that this game was worth every penny. Even my beloved World of WarCraft has never captured me with this intensity.

    [caption id="attachment_959" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Beaming out after an away mission."]Beaming out after an away mission.[/caption]

    [caption id="attachment_960" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Rescuing diplomats taken hostage; the end of a truly well-crafted mission series."]Rescuing diplomats taken hostage; the end of a truly well-crafted mission series.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_961" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Beautiful environments abound: This is Regulus."]Beautiful environments abound: This is Regulus.[/caption]

    [caption id="attachment_962" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Scanning with my tricorder. What could be better?"]Scanning with my tricorder. What could be better?[/caption]

    [caption id="attachment_963" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Approaching Starbase 114."]Approaching Starbase 114.[/caption]

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Adam-12 was one of my favorite televisions programs when I was a kid, and I remain impressed by its lasting quality, straightforward, honest characters, and clear moral implications. (Director Jack Webb, of Dragnet fame, was clearly not an "everybody's-doing-it" kind of guy, even in the ’60s.) [caption id="attachment_986" align="aligncenter" width="436" caption="Officers Pete Malloy (Martin Milner) and Jim Reed (Kent McCord) from the Adam-12 television series."]Officers Pete Malloy (Martin Milner) and Jim Reed (Kent McCord) from the Adam-12 television series.[/caption] In 1978, I was in Mrs. Lovell's third grade class at Parkview Elementary School, in Easton, Massachusetts. One day we were reviewing vocabulary with a small reading group after a multiple-choice exercise. The vocabulary word in discussion was heroine, and, among the possible definitions was a medicine. When the correct answer was given by another student, I suggested, a medicine, getting me quite a troubled look from Mrs. Lovell, who then asked, "Do any of you know what he is referring to?" "Drugs," answered Dennis, with an implication of disgust. I'd never heard the female version of hero, but Adam-12 had provided me with an excellent education in the dangers of illegal drug use. In my eight-year-old mind, heroin was a drug, and one obtained medicines at the drugstore, so a drug such as heroin perhaps could be classified as a medicine. I was too embarrassed by the reactions of my teacher and peers to explain this logic, and the incident eventually became eclipsed by even worse incidents of faux pas that we shall consign to the horrible depths of "the junior high years." Adam-12 photograph courtesy of http://www.kentmccord.com.]]> 985 2010-03-09 15:03:44 2010-03-09 20:03:44 open closed how-adam-12-ruined-my-squeaky-clean-reputation publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last Kid Conversations this Morning http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=994 Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:13:53 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=994 NaNi: While I was getting ready to go to work this morning, Naomi stood in front of the refrigerator, and said, "Dad, watch what I have learned." She opened the refrigerator, and demonstrated how she could press the switch in the front to turn the refrigerator light off. She proudly announced, "I figured out how this works. See," she closed the refrigerator door slowly, "when you close the door, it presses this switch, and the light goes off." "Good investigation, Naomi," I praised. "My little engineer." "Just like her daddy," she responded, with her usual smile. David: David was watching an online episode of "Bleach" anime at the computer. "So, watching some Shōjo manga?" I asked, sneakily. Unusually, I fooled him. "Yes," he replied, "Wait! NOOOOOO!" (Laughter)]]> 994 2010-03-12 17:13:53 2010-03-12 22:13:53 open closed kid-conversations-this-morning publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last How Our Government Works http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1001 Wed, 17 Mar 2010 15:26:45 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1001 So they laid off the night watchman.
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    Our Artist, Naomi http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1003 Wed, 24 Mar 2010 20:36:04 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1003 Naomi drew this during our small group Bible study a week or so ago. She copied the illustration from the front of the drawing pad, and embellished it a bit.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_1004" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Our 6-year-old artist at work. Media: Marker on markerboard."]Our 6-year-old artist at work. Media: Marker on markerboard.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_1005" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="A birdhouse NaNi sketched a number of months ago on a visit to Pat Metrano. Note the recreation of perspective."]A birdhouse NaNi sketched a number of months ago on a visit to Pat Metrano. Note the recreation of perspective.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_1006" align="aligncenter" width="543" caption="B Butterfly - a School Art Project"]B Butterfly - a School Art Project[/caption] [caption id="attachment_1007" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Naomi used an illustration in the book to draw Junpei from Megatokyo."]Naomi used an illustration in the book to draw Junpei from Megatokyo.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_1016" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="A better shot of NaNi\'s Junpei drawing, including his weapons."]A better shot of NaNi's Junpei drawing, including his weapons.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_1008" align="aligncenter" width="479" caption="Naomi\'s completed drawing of Junpei from Megatokyo."]Naomi's completed drawing of Junpei from Megatokyo.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_1012" align="aligncenter" width="428" caption="Naomi drew this freehand this week, with only her imagination as her guide."]Naomi drew this freehand this week, with only her imagination as her guide.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_1019" align="aligncenter" width="405" caption="This is a style Naomi learned from Isaac\'s girlfriend, Lucia."]This is a style Naomi learned from Isaac's girlfriend, Lucia.[/caption] [caption id="attachment_1020" align="aligncenter" width="370" caption="This freehand drawing is another during-small-group creation. I love that she always gets the color orders in the rainbow correct."]This freehand drawing is another during-small-group creation. I love that she always gets the color orders in the rainbow correct.[/caption]
    External references: Junpei; Megatokyo.]]>
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    Dharma Inititive Alarm Clock http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1034 Thu, 01 Apr 2010 14:21:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1034 From ThinkGeek.]]> 1034 2010-04-01 09:21:44 2010-04-01 14:21:44 open closed dharma-inititive-alarm-clock publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120813 phil@convergenesis.com 173.9.108.177 2010-04-01 15:43:17 2010-04-01 20:43:17 1 0 0 Christos Anesti! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1036 Sun, 04 Apr 2010 13:23:44 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1036 Alithos Anesti!]]> 1036 2010-04-04 08:23:44 2010-04-04 13:23:44 open closed christos-anesti publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120814 mark@sohmer.net http://resources.sohmer.net 98.229.172.49 2010-04-04 23:11:23 2010-04-05 04:11:23 1 0 0 What to Do When Comcast's Norton Security Suite Breaks Your Shared Resources http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1041 Tue, 20 Apr 2010 14:01:12 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1041 McAfee to Norton Security Suite, from Symantec. The subscriptions to McAfee Security Suite are due to expire in May. (Norton is named after Peter Norton, a true god of early personal computing utilities back when DOS was king and before all the cool things Peter wrote got licensed by Microsoft for use within their operating systems. Overall, this is probably a good move, as Symantec's 2010 offering seems to have recovered its lagging performance, and surged ahead of McAfee in the ratings. A month ago, I installed Norton on our mostly-gaming-and-homework computer to see how it would run. I hadn't had any real problem with Norton, and it does seem to be less intrusive than McAfee was, doing most of its scanning during idle times. I also switched our church's media computer over to use it, and had only one minor problem that a reboot fixed. (I should interject that "the cloud" has allowed me to radically de-task my specific-machine-focused life, so that, for most of the things that were so critical before, it now doesn't matter which computer I use. Our wilcoxfamily.net e-mail and calendar are hooked to Google Apps; my notes are in Evernote, frequently accessed files are in DropBox, and even remote access tasks can be handled through LogMeIn.) Last night I decided to switch from McAfee to Norton on the computer that gets the most use at home. This is the one that hosts our shared printer. I ran the installer from Comcast for Norton, which automatically uninstalls McAfee, lets you reboot, and installs Norton. There didn't appear to be any problems ... until Isaac tried to print from the other machine, and got an error. I checked the cables, successfully printed from the host machine, but nothing I did would fix the printing. I also discovered that trying to get to my host machine's C drive from the network wouldn't work (usually we do \\{machinename}\c$ to open it as a network share), although the D drive would open. I tried disabling the Norton firewall and anitvirus temporarily, but the network resources still wouldn't connect. I fired up a chat session with a Symantec representative named Srini, and he checked my spooler settings. Ultimately Srini wasn't able to help. While this fairly slow support was going on, I hit the Web, searching for one of the error messages I received while trying to open the C drive, "Not enough server storage is available to process this command." Among other results indicating the same problem, I found a KnowledgeBase article at Microsoft that describes the symptoms and a possible fix. I also discovered a number of posts suggesting that this was a relatively common problem with Symantec products, although other products or networking configurations can produce the same symptoms. So, having nothing to lose, I took a stab at fixing the IRPStackSize property in my registry. In my case, the key didn't exist, so I added it by using RegEdit to navigate to the HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\System\CurrentControlSet\Services\LanmanServer\Parameters key, and then added a new DWORD named IRPStackSize (the capitalization is important). I right-clicked on the new key, and edited the decimal value to 18 (hexadecimal 12). Then I restarted the computer, which is necessary for the change to work. [caption id="attachment_1042" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Yep, there\'s your problem right here: Setting the IRPStackSize parameter in the registry editor."]Setting the IRPStackSize parameter in the registry editor.[/caption] Upon restart, my network resources were accessible again, and printing to the shared printer worked perfectly. Tonight I'll try to contact the Symantec representative again and let him know how this was fixed.]]> 1041 2010-04-20 09:01:12 2010-04-20 14:01:12 open closed what-to-do-when-comcasts-norton-security-suite-breaks-your-shared-resources publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 120841 doug@movierazor.com http://movierazor.com 12.11.149.5 2010-04-29 10:37:13 2010-04-29 15:37:13 1 0 0 120987 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.78 2010-05-21 05:21:06 2010-05-21 10:21:06 1 0 0 120989 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.72.1 2010-05-21 08:46:57 2010-05-21 13:46:57 1 0 2 It's Lego! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1050 Fri, 30 Apr 2010 14:31:56 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1050

    Thanks to Bob Richardson.]]>
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    MuscleMom Wins Big at NGA Natural Mass Bodybuilding & Figure Power Fest http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1063 Tue, 25 May 2010 02:05:40 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1063 National Fitness Gym in Oxford, Ma. The event was sanctioned by the National Gym Association, and MC'd by our favorite hostess and natural bodybuilding promoter, Laura "Turtle" Tourtellot. [caption id="attachment_1064" align="aligncenter" width="373" caption="Natural Mass Bodybuilding & Figure Power Fest, May 22, 2010, Maximum Fitness Gym, Oxford, Ma."][/caption] A huge number of people help out Nichelle as she prepares for these events. There's our friend Denise DeFelice, who accompanied Nichelle all day, and handled her makeup. Diet advice comes from a number of bodybuilders and trainers (I need Nichelle to give me all the names). Her old manager from Best Fitness, Tom, double-checked all her poses. Denise Richardson, former Ms. America (not Miss America) winner, offers advice via phone and e-mail. Then of course there are the friends and family who cheer her on while training and at the show. (Thanks, Barbara, Naviana, Toni, and Toussant!) But, in the end, it's Nichelle who's started with some God-given talents and desire and added a superhuman amount of hard work, especially considering only a few years ago she weighed 100 pounds more than she does now. [caption id="attachment_1067" align="aligncenter" width="550" caption="Seriously, this is NOT a women I would argue with."][/caption] Nichelle looked stunning and performed fabulously. The crowd, which wasn't that large, absolutely loved her! After Laura read her biography, someone behind me commented, incredulously, "Mother of four?" I am amazed at how much she improves from competition for competition. She isn't just beautiful and superbly "cut," she's also incredibly graceful and has a phenomenal stage presence. [caption id="attachment_1065" align="aligncenter" width="332" caption="Nichelle Wilcox, 1st Place, Heavyweight AND Women\'s Best Overall Winner"][/caption] Nichelle placed first in her "heavyweight" category (118 pounds or above). We were ecstatic. I believe someone in the crowd was jumping up and down and yelling, but I shan't name names. When we were getting reading to leave, we were presented with a huge surprise. Nichelle had been awarded the "Best Overall" award for the women competitors, but a glitch had left it unpresented during the awards ceremony. At that point we were beyond thrilled! [caption id="attachment_1066" align="aligncenter" width="413" caption="Yes, that\'s our License Plate"][/caption] Nichelle took six entire hours off her strict diet to eat however she wanted. We celebrated at the Jasmine Restaurant, in nearby Auburn—sadly, they do not serve 担担面. (Naomi showed off her Mandarin language skills and delighted the entire staff.) On the way home we stopped at Wal-Mart, because there were still a couple of the six hours left, and Nichelle wanted cheesecake. Nichelle expects to compete next at the 2010 INBF Natural Connecticut Bodybuilding and Figure Championship in New Haven, Ct., on June 19, and again in New York City later in June. Of course, she also plans to be back at Laura Turtle's Granite State Open, in Dover, N.H., in October.
    Nichelle at NGA Natural Mass Bodybuilding & Figure Power Fest—Click to jump to our Picasa Web album for more photos from the event.
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    1063 2010-05-24 21:05:40 2010-05-25 02:05:40 open closed musclemom-wins-big-at-nga-natural-mass-bodybuilding-figure-power-fest publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last 121145 musclemom37@gmail.com 66.31.67.98 2010-06-01 12:47:00 2010-06-01 17:47:00 1 0 0 121047 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 71.232.185.78 2010-05-25 05:32:16 2010-05-25 10:32:16 1 0 0 121055 lizmom@comcast.net 76.24.87.219 2010-05-25 16:48:04 2010-05-25 21:48:04 1 0 0 121064 doug@wilcoxfamily.net http://www.wilcoxfamily.net 158.228.72.1 2010-05-26 08:21:41 2010-05-26 13:21:41 1 0 2
    Rope-Climbing Lego NXT Robot http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1080 Fri, 11 Jun 2010 01:16:14 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1080 This is the rope-climbing robot myself and ASD student Joe Cole worked on, as a competitor in the "Robolympics" program I developed after Robot Sumo was done this year. We were hoping to modify the base to allow it to compete in robot drag racing, but there simply wasn't enough time. Ours was the only team to successfully complete a robot that would climb the rope, although two other teams came close. There's a red Lego Astromech droid on top of a pole that triggers a touch sensor to reverse the robot (usually) when it gets to the top of the rope. If I'd had more time, I'd have replaced that with the ultrasonic distance sensor. Adam White's stripped-down speed demon completely dominated the robot drag racing event. No one stood a chance against him.]]> 1080 2010-06-10 20:16:14 2010-06-11 01:16:14 open closed rope-climbing-lego-nxt-robot publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last Be Inspired: Our Generation Will Go to Space http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1090 Thu, 12 Aug 2010 17:34:04 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1090 ]]> 1090 2010-08-12 12:34:04 2010-08-12 17:34:04 open closed be-inspired-our-generation-will-go-to-space publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last _wp_old_slug Lego 3D Printer: Amazing! http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1096 Tue, 19 Oct 2010 16:46:13 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1096 From MLCAD to Lego Model ... all via some sweet Lego 'bot construction. Awesome.]]> 1096 2010-10-19 11:46:13 2010-10-19 16:46:13 open closed lego-3d-printer-amazing publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last s2mail _wp_old_slug 124085 fran_matheson@jaars.org 71.75.248.205 2010-10-19 14:53:35 2010-10-19 19:53:35 1 0 0 124087 phil@convergenesis.com 99.13.38.198 2010-10-19 15:51:52 2010-10-19 20:51:52 1 0 0 Losing http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1099 Wed, 03 Nov 2010 12:45:05 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1099 If I were to lose you today I would lose ... The one who mothered my children The one who was my only lover The one who laughed at my jokes The one who tolerated my inability to get my socks into the hamper right-side out The one whose smile always brightened my day The one who cut my hair The one who prepared my meals The one who shared my poverty The one who shared my wealth The one whom I have laughed with The one whom I have cried with The one whose illness tested my faith, showing me that it was okay to let God know I was really angry with Him The one who received all my love notes The one whose every success I applauded The one who left clumps of hair everywhere in the house The one safe driver in the family The one who encouraged me when I did crazy things like ride my bike in the snow The one who I could eat ice cream with The one who made a million double standards The one who was my water-fight and snowball target The one who was my Snugglebunny The one with whom I have shared a Caribbean sunset The one who made me change my clothes when they do not match The one woman I have ever kissed The one who kicks my butt as my personal trainer The one with whom I can watch chick-flicks The one who supported me when my brain would not work right and I did not know what to do The one who taught me how to exercise The one who couldn't stay awake for reading Starship Troopers The one for whom I have prayed The one who tolerated and tried to understand my anxieties The one who was my Queen of Sarcasm The one who made me not afraid to walk down dark alleys The one who always froze me with her feet in bed in the winter The one who prayed for me when I most needed it The one who recognized all my Star Wars quotations The one for whom I have bought flowers The one who trusted me with her secrets The one who always beat me to the bathroom The one who my family liked better than they liked me The one for whom I asked God The one who pampered me when I was sick The one whose drinks I could sip and then make "that face" The one for whom I always thanked God The one by whom I defined the word beautiful The one who got me to eat mostly healthily The one whom I did not see Hyannis with on our honeymoon The one whose adventure dreams I always envied The one with whom I could talk through any decision The one who let me decorate with Lego The one who always ignored my advice about computing The one who has made my vacations worth taking The one who realized immediately that we needed to live closer to work The one who kept our children safe when I was not cautious enough to do so The one whose laugh always made me smile The one who made me think "Wow!" the first time I saw her The one who was my friend for years The one whose voice was the most beautiful one in the world to me The one whose body I always longed to touch The one for whom I lived The one whom I love. Nichelle is moving out today, pursuant to her intent to divorce me. I wrote this a couple of months ago, after a conversation we'd had. Nichelle's decision was unilateral, and has been the most heartbreaking thing I have ever experienced, but there's nothing I can do to prevent it. Goodbye, my darling. Know that I love you, unconditionally and unceasingly. ]]> 1099 2010-11-03 07:45:05 2010-11-03 12:45:05 open closed losing publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last s2mail _wp_old_slug 124925 gmartin451@gmail.com 66.30.163.154 2010-11-30 06:28:57 2010-11-30 11:28:57 1 0 0 124330 mjcase4@aol.com 134.174.1.26 2010-11-03 14:12:02 2010-11-03 19:12:02 1 0 0 124335 foolishwench@hotmail.com 65.32.123.4 2010-11-03 17:08:08 2010-11-03 22:08:08 1 0 0 124336 lizmom@comcast.net 76.24.175.32 2010-11-03 19:29:03 2010-11-04 00:29:03 1 0 0 124326 mark@sohmer.net http://mark.sohmer.net 98.217.110.123 2010-11-03 07:48:30 2010-11-03 12:48:30 1 0 0 124337 videograf@verizon.net 71.167.247.231 2010-11-03 20:06:37 2010-11-04 01:06:37 1 0 0 124338 thehickshome@gmail.com 98.216.26.138 2010-11-03 20:32:16 2010-11-04 01:32:16 1 0 0 125577 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=1189261007 1189261007 2010-11-03 18:31:00 2010-11-03 18:31:00 1 0 0 125578 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=1373554476 1373554476 2010-11-03 18:37:00 2010-11-03 18:37:00 1 0 0 125579 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=1394285457 1394285457 2010-11-03 19:19:00 2010-11-03 19:19:00 1 0 0 125580 facebook@wilcoxfamily.net http://facebook.com/profile.php?id=45401081 45401081 2010-11-04 10:27:00 2010-11-04 10:27:00 1 0 0 Santa's Dirty Secret: An Analysis of How Santa Really Supports His Operation http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1110 Sat, 25 Dec 2010 04:30:24 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1110 Theories abound about how he finances and operates his North Pole operation. A number of people believe Santa is a Communist. Others believe that Santa's elves are slave laborers being exploited by the big red taskmaster. Neither of these theories stands up to examination. The suggestion of Communism is just silly. We know from certain documentaries that Santa's operation runs all year; that the elves who manufacture the toys are unionized and follow an apprenticeship-to-mastery program. It seems that the elves are humanoid enough to expect reasonable compensation for their work. Further, even if the elves were enslaved, vast quantities of materials and significant manufacturing infrastructure would need to be paid for. It is estimated that the retail value of Santa's products is over $23 billion in the U.S. alone. So how does Santa finance this massive operation? Let's take a look at two things we know about Santa's abilities: (1) He can travel virtually instantaneously (650 miles per second) anywhere in the world; (2) he can enter any building, no matter how secure, with complete impunity. Given these abilities, isn't it more reasonable to conclude that Santa is, indeed, using them all year? He needs a vast quantity of cash to pay the elves, purchase raw materials, cover utilities, finance his public relations and legal departments, and upgrade manufacturing capabilities each year. Bearer bonds, gold bullion, gems, and good old Greenbacks and Euros are easily gathered by one with his abilities. In a vicious cycle, our dear Santa "Sticky Fingers" Claus spends the year financing his operation via ill-gotten gains. Psychologically, this has to take its toll---Santa is certainly not a psychopathic personality, but he each December 25 he can assuage his guilt by delivering free toys and materialistic joy the world over. Tangential factors further support this theory. We note that these toy deliveries appear to be unequally distributed throughout the planet, with the children of First World countries receiving far more than their fair share. Would it not be reasonable for Santa to compensate the children in wealthier countries more than elsewhere in regard to the unequal drain he would have had on their particular, more wealthy, economies? And think about the infamous "naughty list." Is there any evidence for anyone, no matter how naughty, ever being denied a gift from Santa? Bill Clinton, Martha Stewart, Kenneth Lay, Michael Jackson, Kim Jong Il, or the children for whom the "Parents, there is no candy in this aisle," supermarket program was developed ... Santa never delivers the threatened coal. Like most people given super powers, Santa could not resist the temptation to use them for doing wrong. In time, the need to compensate for that wrongdoing led to the gift distribution system we enjoy today. And, the day after Christmas, the cycle begins again. Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus ... and he's a thief.]]> 1110 2010-12-24 23:30:24 2010-12-25 04:30:24 open closed santas-dirty-secret-an-analysis-of-how-santa-really-supports-his-operation publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last s2mail _wp_old_slug 125812 correnos@gmail.com 76.24.54.145 2010-12-25 21:50:32 2010-12-26 02:50:32 1 0 0 125813 mark@sohmer.net http://Luke-15.org 98.217.110.123 2010-12-25 22:01:43 2010-12-26 03:01:43 1 0 0 On the day in 1958, The World Changed http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1120 Fri, 28 Jan 2011 18:26:39 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1120 [/caption] (Image credit Lee LeFever, Creative Commons License.) Read more at Time.com.]]> 1120 2011-01-28 13:26:39 2011-01-28 18:26:39 open closed on-the-day-in-1958-the-world-changed publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last s2mail _wp_old_slug Dance Macadam http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1124 Tue, 01 Mar 2011 05:52:06 +0000 Doug http://blog.wilcoxusa.net/?p=1124 Transparent Language has such excellent work-from-home infrastructure.) So I went home, got her ready for ballet (tights need help), and off we went. Gate City Ballet is pretty much on the same street as my job, so I normally drop her off, go back to work, and pick her up at the end. Naomi with her artwork. On the way to ballet, we stopped at the school department offices, where one of her pieces of artwork is being displayed. Naomi was thrilled to see it. [caption id="attachment_1129" align="aligncenter" width="412" caption="Naomi\'s Art on Display at the Nashua School System Offices."]Naomi's Art on Display at the Nashua School System Offices.[/caption] We got to ballet (on time, even—everything in Nashua is close and convenient), and she exclaimed, "My ballet bag!" I said, "No problem, you can see if they will let you start in your stockings," and I went home to get the bag. I picked it up, and realized there were no tap shoes in it. So, I hunted around her room to find tap shoes, and put them in the bag, and delivered them to ballet. "Dad, these are my old tap shoes. They hurt my feet if I wear them." I laughed. "Okay, I'll be back in a bit." Back to the house ... play the "find the real tap shoes" game—not as easy as finding the wrong pair. Back to the ballet studio. Along with a sweater she forgot to pack. I hold up the correct shoes and the sweaters. Naomi beams and blows me a kiss. I am in Heaven. [caption id="attachment_1133" align="aligncenter" width="344" caption="It\'s two years old, but this is still one of my favorite ballet photos of NaNi."]It's two years old, but this is still one of my favorite ballet photos of NaNi.[/caption] ]]> 1124 2011-03-01 00:52:06 2011-03-01 05:52:06 open closed dance-macadam publish 0 0 post 0 _edit_last s2mail _wp_old_slug 126078 phil@convergenesis.com 99.13.38.198 2011-03-01 20:58:01 2011-03-02 01:58:01 1 0 0 126077 mark@sohmer.net http://Luke-15.org 174.255.113.16 2011-03-01 13:02:51 2011-03-01 18:02:51 1 0 0