Okay, Nichelle is making me post this, to illustrate just how big a change having a daugher can make. Before Naomi, you wouldnâ€™t catch me near â€œgirl toys,â€ or clothing of any kind. Then, with Naomi on the way, something happened to my mental processes. First was the dress I bought in MÃ©xico. Then came the Barbie. I â€¦ I donâ€™t know what has come over me, although co-worker Judy Hirsch told me this would happen.